Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy

We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions we get—how do we make an ‘open-ish’ relationship work? For us, the answer is simple: we’re emotionally monogamous but sexually open. We’ve figured out how to maintain deep love and trust while embracing freedom and exploration. Being in the adult industry and managing our relationship means navigating a unique dynamic that works perfectly for us.

We’ve been through the ups and downs of figuring out boundaries, handling jealousy, and prioritizing emotional connection. This episode gives you an honest look at how we balance our sexual openness while keeping our emotional foundation strong. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy or just want to know more about how we live our lives, we’re answering all your burning questions and sharing our biggest tips for anyone considering an open relationship.

Come join us for this raw and real discussion about love, sex, trust, and everything in between.