So, You're Not Kinky, Now What-S05E11

Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023

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• - In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky.
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• 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
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• - “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”

• https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/ By Katka Lapelosova April 16, 2023

1. • When it comes to sex, I am always interested in exploring new experiences and pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal. But as someone who has dedicated a majority of my adult life to researching and writing about and sex and relationships, I’m surprisingly not kinky.

I’ve had hundreds of sex partners, yet I’ve always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot of my sexually liberated friends think you’re not really good at sex until you’ve tried everything in the book: sex parties, swinging, furries, pony play, wax play… the list goes on and on.But sometimes I get overwhelmed just visiting a sex shop. Will a latex bodysuit chafe my nipples? How many calories are in edible panties? Does a leather whip really need a bluetooth speaker?And then there’s the question of why even bother with all this off-the-wall stuff when the simple act itself is pretty damn good. My therapist once told me kink is always rooted in something much deeper than the act of sex itself.“It’s why all these CEOs are into dominatrixes and humiliation,” she explained. “They spend their days screaming at lower level employees and manipulating people into doing what they need to build their business. They want to be dommed because they want someone else to make the decisions for once.”I certainly am not looking to sex to alleviate work-related imbalances. But I did wonder, am I really not sexually adventurous if I’m kink-averse? Am I missing out? I decided to explore it more, and this is what I learned.
Apparently, butt stuff isn’t kinky
BDSM is such a head trip
Costumes are expensive
.And then there are some things I just flat out won’t doI
Stop telling me I’ll “find my kink” eventually

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