June 20, 2025 • 50 mins
The City Girl, Yung Miami, also known as Diddy’s Girlfriend breaks her Silence on her Talk Show “CARESHA Please”. Therapist Andrea is always assessing behavior and pulling back the layers to find the root cause of dysfunctional behaviors. In this episode, she does it again, but with her Best Friend Celeste.
They react to Young Miami as she answers questions in regard to where she has been since the allegations against Diddy, and the video of him abusing Cassie came out.
Mental Health is a Lifestyle Podcast with Andrea Wise-Brown, is where we discuss practical strategies for managing mental health and wellbeing.
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They react to Young Miami as she answers questions in regard to where she has been since the allegations against Diddy, and the video of him abusing Cassie came out.
Mental Health is a Lifestyle Podcast with Andrea Wise-Brown, is where we discuss practical strategies for managing mental health and wellbeing.
Thank you for listening to this episode of Mental Health is a Lifestyle Podcast. We hope you found these practical tips helpful and encourage you to continue prioritizing your mental health and wellness.
If you have any questions or suggestions for future episodes, please email us at mhialpodcast@gmail.com.
See you next time!
Find Andrea: awisebrown.com
Follow The Podcast At @mentalhealthisalifestylepod Mhialpodcast@gmail.com I want to know your opinions…….
In addition; if you have any questions that you want answered on the podcast send your request to mhialpodcast@gmail.com or inbox me @mentalhealthisalifestylepod
Remember, Mental health is a Lifestyle!®️😘
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Mental Health Is a lifestyle podcast is not a
substitute for your relationship with a mental health professional. Hey, hey, family,
Welcome back to another episode of the Mental Health Is
a Lifestyle Podcast with your girl Andrea wise Brown and
(00:21):
guess who I have with me? I got my bestie
celest Hey.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Celeste, Hello, a, how are you today?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I am doing well today. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I'm doing great, doing great, busy moving but great, no complaints.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Busy moving and great. And you the travelista, Okay, have
you been anywhere recently since we so the last time
you had just come back from Africa, so you probably recuperating.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yes, I am recuperating. But at the same time, you know,
I'm working a lot and I'm getting to go on
my next trip. I leave on Tuesday, So wall where
you going? Going to Anguilla? Your girl needs some beach
time desperately. As much as I loved Africa, nothing wrong
with that, I have not had any beach time this
(01:16):
year and I need it for my soul. I needed
to so I can reconnect. That's how I reconnect, Laying
on the beach all day, in and out of the water,
laying in the sun, having drinks, so that's what I'm
going for a whole week. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Oh that's so good. And so you know, I have
always wanted to go to Anguilla. That's one place that
I haven't gone. And you've been there already and you
said it is beautiful. Now I know you going back now,
but you still you're gonna go with me next year?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Right, You're gonna take that? Yes, I'm taking you next year.
So every year they have a the Anguilla Culinary Experience,
and they do it in May. And what they do
during that time is they bring chefs from all of
the neighboring islands and they bring them in and they
compete and they have food competitions and lots of luxurious
(02:10):
dinners on beaches and the bar is popping and it
looks gorgeous. So I want to take all my friends.
I've been telling everybody I can about it, so we
can all show up. So cause the one thing I
love to do, I forgot to say that earlier. I
need to be on a beach, right, I need to
be in and out of the water. I need to
have drinks and I need to have some really amazing food.
(02:32):
So and Gwilla is that place for me, so at
least right now, until I find another island. Not to
say that island's don't do it for me. I can
name a whole bunch of islands that have great food
and all those things. But I'm just saying right now,
I'm a little obsessed with in Gwilly. So until I
get everybody I know to see it and do it,
then then I'll move on.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
No, I get that, that's so good. So then you
know you're gonna have to take notes because you need
to put out there your blog. You need to blog
about it and put it out there so everybody can
know what to do, where to go, how to do it.
You know that, because I know that's your thing.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
It is my thing, and the blog is coming. But
you just gotta what time am I supposed to get
this blog done. It's a question. As you know, I
work and work for myself and so and I can't multitask.
When I'm at work, I'm concentrating. I'm focused on my
client at the time. So between that and us moving
around and the traveling, and then you know I have
(03:34):
house guests right now and us recording, I just have
to really just sit down and take the time. But
I'm taking my laptop with me to an guillas, so
I'm hoping something great happening. So I'm hoping I have
at least one rainy day that forces me to stay
inside so I can actually get some work done because
I'm easily I can get easily distracted. Okay, y'all, don't
(03:55):
call me fly fly for nothing. Go on with the wind,
Gone with the wind, Yes, yes, gone with the wind.
Exactly as soon as I see some shiny I'm fluttering away.
So hey, what you gonna do? That's me.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You're gonna love you because I love every minute of that.
I love every minute. Ago with the Wind, I love it.
I love it. Okay, So today we are going to
talk about Krisha, Please, We're gonna talk.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
About Young Miami.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So we're gonna talk about Young Miami the City Girl
because it was two city girls.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Correct, Yes, there are two city girls, Young Miami and JT.
And so you know, Kresha started up this podcast, I
want to say two years ago. Man, I don't know
if this is the first or second season. I'm not
really sure, but it's a show that I believe that
Diddy helped her start right and so she has a
(04:58):
lot of hip hopcasts on. She asks them all kinds
of personal questions and it actually is a really good show.
I really do like the fact that she can she's
not afraid to ask questions, and she does ask questions
that people want to know. So she started off this
season because I was wondering, you know, since her and
Diddy are I guess, I don't know if they're together
or not. I don't think they are since all of
(05:20):
his drama, right, so I was curious as to see
if she was going to be picked up again for
another season of Karsha Please And so I guess this
is her first episode coming back, and it has made
a big splash. I think the last time I checked,
she had over two million views on this. So, you know,
because people want to know, like, well, how do you
feel about Diddy? Now? Well, how do you feel about
(05:42):
the situation? What's going on with you and JT? And
so she has her best friend Salcy Santana. He's interviewing
her and it is an interesting watch.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Okay, I agree that it is interesting watch for me.
I think it was an interesting draw. I think that
it was brilliant to start off with you know, this
being the very first episode where she's saying that she's
going to be honest. So I think it was a
very smart, interesting draw, but I don't necessarily know, and
(06:21):
we get ready to talk about it if the interview
was just that interesting, I do want to say, though, Yes,
so I did not watch Krisha Please all the time.
However I would scroll across and then sometimes if she
was interviewing somebody who I was familiar with while I'm
in the gym, I may have watched it and one thing,
like you said, now her verb and now connection may
(06:50):
have been a little off, and her adjectives with you know,
she speaks her own language, right, Okay, so sometimes it's
a little off. Sometimes if you don't really understand her language,
it's maybe difficult to understand what she's saying. But I
guess if you kind of hang in there and listen
(07:10):
and watch her body, then you'll get the context. You
gotta get context clues. Okay, But you know, I always
love a girl going to get her coins. So the
fact that this young girl was going to get her
coins showing up on that couch, although you know, her
nouns and verbs were not agreeing with each other. But
(07:33):
the fact that she was showing up and hustling. I
respect that, and I would say this too, best friend
is I liked too? Like you said, it wasn't that
she was the best interviewer. However, she was not afraid
to ask the questions that for some people would think
was off putting, like the stuff that you think about.
(07:55):
But you'd be like, I can't ask that. She would ask.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Absolutely, I agree. I agree, And I think the best
way to put it in as far as her now and
verb connection is she speaks like she raps, and that's
just that right. So I'm not a I don't listen
to her music consistently so, but that's what I get
(08:23):
from it and in her interviewer in this interview Saucy Santana,
it's just as bad.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You could you understand why they are very good friends. Now,
I don't know much about Saucy Santana, but what I
do know, I don't. I don't know much about them,
but you know what I do watch These are one
of my little guilty pleasures. It's College Hill and on
College Hill this last season. Yes, it's on BT Plus.
(08:58):
So it's when celebrities have kind of felled out of
school or they didn't go to school. They go back
to the HBCUs so they filmed and I think Tracy
Edmonds is the producer. So they go and this highlights
the HBCU. So they take them back to school. They
have this short course and they have them go through
the course. They had to show up the school every
(09:18):
day as if they were in college. And some of
them failed, but some of them passed and so so
this makes them feel like, you know, whether you know,
whether they was you know, smart, and it gives them confidence, right,
you know, another way to to kind of follow through
on getting an education. Last season, Ray j I'm upset,
(09:40):
like I'm obsessed, but he was on the cutting up
he failed UH and so this he failed. And so
this season, Saucy Santana was one of the people along
with Claudia Jordan Black, China, Carlos King. Yeah, not Carlos King.
His name is Carlos He's one of the He's one
(10:01):
of those comedians with UH that used to be on
wildan'n Out. So I don't think his last name is King,
but any whose name is Carlos. But they went to
school and Saucy Santana went to school too, but Saucy
did not go to school. Saucy was going to all
the parties. Saucy was twerking while they was doing homework.
(10:21):
Saucy was eating chicken wings in the bed. Oh yeah,
falling asleep. Saucy was wearing thongs. Yeah, yeah, he'd be
safe to say that Saucy failed as well. Yes, yeah,
and you know, and when Saucy failed, Saucy was mad
(10:45):
that he failed, and so he started to tear the
house up because okay, yeah, So AnyWho, that's an interesting watch.
That's a fun watch if you're not really doing anything else.
So that was how I got introduced to Saucy Santana.
So now now for me to see him sitting on
(11:08):
the couch with Krisha asking her the questions. I'm familiar
with his lingo now after I've seen him go to
school not go to school.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Okay, all right, well I'll take your word for it.
So yeah, I'm not familiar with Starc Santana very much
other than that these two hang out together.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
So tell me, friend, what did you think about the interview?
When he asked the questions about her and Diddy. Her responses.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Okay, I believe. Okay. So the first question I remember
him asking her is about how is she doing? How
do you feel like we let's talk about mental health first,
your mental health. How do you feel with all this
going on and people connecting you to him, to Ditty
and you know, always wanting a response from you about what,
(12:09):
wanting you to answer for some of the things that
he's being accused of. That's mine. That's how I reworded it.
That's not how he asked it. But you see what
I'm saying. So, and she said that, you know, some
days she's happy. Some days, she said, sometimes you she's like,
fuck it. You know, she's got a lot going on.
And she was saying that she does have a it's
a lot going on all at once. And I think
(12:30):
she's speaking of the stuff that's going on with Diddy,
her breakup with her partner JT and and all of that,
and so she says sometimes she just wants to give up,
but then she looks at her children and she's like,
I didn't come this far to go backwards, So I'm
gonna keep pushing. So I thought that was I mean,
I think that was a good start to the interview,
(12:52):
and then I think from there, Santana followed up with
another question, and it was regarding the ditty, So did
you hear the part of where she talked about her
mental health and what'd you think?
Speaker 1 (13:03):
You know, you know, I heard that. You know, I
was all over that. I loved every minute of it.
And I thought that was a great opening question because
it wasn't just about, you know, the surface stuff or
the gossip. It was really like, how are you doing mentally?
How is your mental health? And yes, to your point,
I love the way she was honest by saying some
(13:24):
days are good, some days are bad, but I pretty
much just keep on pushing. And you know what. Another
thing that she said which I thought was great and
I could tell that she's speaking to someone else. Now
I don't know. I don't remember if she said she
was going to therapy, No, because I think she called
(13:45):
him her therapist, So yeah, I don't know that she
said that. But one thing that she said, and I
think this is key for anybody out there who's going
through something. She said, everybody goes through something, whether it's
a dead whether it's a divorce, right, you know, no
matter what, and it's hard times, and we all go
(14:07):
through it. She said, that's the thing that keeps her
going because she feels like this is not an anomaly.
This is not just a me thing, right, a Kreesha thing.
This is just a part of life, and I just
have to keep on going. That I think is key
right to get into anything when you realize this is
not just about you, although sometimes it feels like it,
(14:28):
you know, but like no, everybody else is going through
something to if not now, they have been or they
will in the future, and we all got to keep
going because we're gonna get through it.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yes, Yes, that's that's what I took from it, So
I thought it. I agree with you. I think it
got off got off to a really good start. Uh.
Then I think. He asked her about Diddy and how
did she feel about people wanting her to answer for
the accusations against di.
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Speaker 2 (18:06):
Diddy. She said, why do you think that is? Everybody
wants you to come forward and say something, and she said,
I believe it is because they feel like Diddy was
my brand, you know what I mean. Like, but she
said I was popping before that. She said, in fact,
basically what she said was, in fact, I helped him
(18:26):
as much as he helped me. I put him on
daily on alcohol. Wasn't popping until I put it in
a song and things of that nature. So that was
her answer to that, What are your thoughts?
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I'm sorry, what are your thoughts on that?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Though I don't necessarily agree. I believe people were wanting
to know because that's your man, period. That's your man,
and not because you were cheering his biggest cheerleader and everything. No,
you weren't just as big as cheerleader. That was your man.
And these accusations are in regard to him beaten on
(19:02):
women of women. So I thought that was I didn't
think that was a direct answer, and I don't think
it was an accurate answer, And yeah, that's how I feel.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Yeah, I agree, because he did become a part of
her brand. I also agree with you and her when
she said we helped each other. But the reality is is, yeah,
we knew the city girl, but everybody didn't know the
city girl the way we knew the city girl, after
Ditty had his hand on her, after Ditty was showing
(19:37):
up with her, after Ditty was doing this half claim,
and she was doing this whole claim because she was
whole claiming him. He wasn't whole claiming HU. So you know,
I truly believe that. I don't think you know how
you said that was your man. I think she was
saying that was her man, But I really don't think
that was her man. I don't think so I know
you said this. I think that I think she thought
(20:02):
he was her man. But I do not believe that
Diddy told this girl that she was his only woman.
I do not believe that, because even in interviews he
would even he would that'll play it, even when she
interviewed him on.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Christian Please, Yeah, I don't. I don't know. When I
say that, I say that, I mean that's how people
people want her to answer for him, because that's how
they put it out there, that that that's this is
my man, and so whether or not he claimed her
or not, she like you said, she was claiming him,
and this is how they put their relationship out there.
So that's why people are asking you the questions. So
(20:41):
that's that's yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
I totally agree, totally, totally, totally, that's right. You got
poster boards up everywhere you go, and you seeing here
your man, You back and forth, you bumping gums on
Twitter talking about how he your man. So there's no
way in the world when all of these allegations are
coming out about him pill pushing, women dropping pills, you
(21:04):
know what I'm saying, rufie, and women having sex with women,
making women have sex with other women, having sex with men.
When you was the last face that was screaming his name,
How in the world are you thinking that nobody's gonna
come to you to ask you what's up with Diddy?
What's up with you and Diddy? What is your position?
Were you a part of it? Especially when she was
(21:25):
a part of the allegations from Little Rod, the guy
who was the producer in the house. He said, he
stated in his documents something and I'm not a lawyer here,
but something surrounding alleging that she would help and wrangle
the women in for Diddy. And he also said that
she tried to come on to him or not the
(21:48):
cousin to come on to him with her. And yet
so she was included in in court documents. So why
would you think that nobody's gonna ask you.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Anything exactly exactly exactly. So I thought that was an
avoid avoidance on her part, like, yeah, that's her trying
to distance herself. And I also thought it was interesting
when he asked her, you know well, I think he
asked her, how do you feel like with all the
(22:18):
allegations coming out in the video coming out, like what
was your experience with Diddy and whatever? And she gave
a very broad answer as like, you know what, I didn't.
I wasn't I didn't witness that. When I came into
Diddy's life, it was when the world was celebrating him.
He got this ward, that war, and that war. So
I was just there for the celebration. I don't know
(22:41):
this guy. I don't know this guy that they're speaking of,
but at the same time, he did. And I was
a little disappointed in Saucy Santana because he bought up
the video, right, And so it's one thing to stick
by somebody when allegations are made, and you can you
can give that cop out like, well, I didn't see it,
so I can't speak on it, right. But if you
(23:02):
have been as Saucy Sayin's Tanna told said, I know
you have been a victim of domestic violence, not once
but twice, right, so I know that you wouldn't put
up with that. So so that's her moment to speak
and say, well, yes, I saw the video and this
is how I feel about the video. She never said that,
she just said that wasn't my experience. Yeah, it wasn't
(23:23):
a lot of our experience. But what we all saw,
we were people who were reserving judgment against Ditty once
they even the people that were coming out and defending
Diddy when once they saw that video, they had to
address it. And I feel like the same thing should
be said from the woman who was stating him.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
Absolutely, So that was a straight cop out. And to me,
when we catch you in a lie, cause to me,
that's what it felt like, a cop out because you
said that you were gonna come on here, and she
kept saying, I'm gonna be totally honest. I'm you know,
I'm gonna be open. I'm gonna be honest. She lied,
She lied because for her to say that wasn't her,
(24:01):
she skirted right past that even if that was not
your personal experience, because we can't say that it was.
You saw that videotape, and there's noa in the world
that you could tell me that you didn't. Now I
will say allegedly friend, because somebody could say she could
say she was living under rock and we weren't there
(24:21):
with her. But I don't believe in my opinion, and
I'm mistake for you too. In our opinion, we do
not believe that that girl did not see that video
tape with him dragging that girl and beating her down
that hallway, and had you seen that? You still don't
have an opinion. And then she tried to throw in
because look, this is how she doubled back, because she said, well,
(24:43):
you know, at the time, I didn't have children. I
was with him whenever when he was being celebrated or whatever.
And then she said something about her, but now I
have a Now I have a I'm a mother. Then
she had to think, I mean I was a mother. Then, yeah,
you was a mother then yeah, but now the difference
is I got a little girl, so now you know.
(25:04):
And she still didn't answer. She said, I'm just not
you know, I just knew that I wouldn't be a
part of that. So that's why I believe she's still
in contact with him. I think that she separated herself,
as you know, so that we can't see so she
can go on with her career. But I think she's
still riding for Diddy, which for me makes me think
(25:28):
that allegedly that she's she was complacent with some of
the stuff that he was doing.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
I agree, I agree. I don't think that he did
all of this in isolation away from her. I mean,
and I don't think that he stopped being abusive to women.
And the reason I say that is because up until
the video came out, he kept lying I didn't do it.
That's a lot. I'm being attacked, My brand is being attacked,
(25:59):
my family being attacked, but about my legacy and this
is horrendous and all the things that he said, only
you know, to have the video come out proving him
a lie, and he's saying I feel bad about that.
That's whatever he said. But so there's no way, in
my opinion, that some of these behaviors weren't going on
(26:23):
when she was present. I just don't see it. And too,
you know, since they've been together, it's not like he
hasn't had another child, a whole child, a whole child
on her.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
And then when she would be questioned about it, right,
she'd be questioned in interviews, she was and I think
I want to say that her and I guess, I
don't know if it was the mother somebody they'd be
going back and forth on. I don't even know who
goes back and forth on the internet. But the fact
is that she knew that he had this child, and
supposedly she didn't really like the fact that he had
the child, but yet she was still right back dealing
(26:57):
with him, you know, after he had at this child.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Yeah, so the child is by another woman, and the
girl he was going back and forth with is a
different woman than the baby mother. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I believe the girl she was going back and forth
with was a woman, a chick by the name Gina,
And where's the baby's mother is a different chick altogether.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Okay, So I got to ask a question, what Okay,
So who was okay, fifty cents one of his child
children's mother. Did she have a baby with him too,
or she was just one of his girlfriends, or.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
No, she didn't have a baby with him. She's just
one of his girlfriends.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
Okay, okay, So it's a lot.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
So, but that lays credence to the fact where you
were saying that, you know, you know, you believe that
theirs was more of a business relationship, maybe that they
weren't as you know as tye that is she claimed
or whatever. What it tells me is that she was
just sharing a man. But that's that's and that she
probably is the bottom bitch. I don't know, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
And for me, I don't even think now. So this
is just me and you know from the East Coast,
you know, so have known Diddy from when he not
known him personally, but just known of him parties all
that kind of stuff from when he first started. And
so what I out of several interviews that I've heard
(28:33):
about him, and then for people who I have and
who I know who may know him or whatever, who
have who have said for years that he was dark
and he was the devil That's what I would hear
behind the scenes, allegedly, but that's what I would hear,
not saying that's what he was. I don't know him,
but allegedly what I know, and I would hear and
(28:54):
see him in interviews. The city girl, Karesha, that is
not the type of woman that he dates. He does
not date, is she would call herself a city rat.
That is not the type of girl that Diddy has dated.
That is not one of the girls that he would
call his bottom beat. Not so like Mesa, you know,
(29:16):
his first girlfriend or whatever. Right, I'm one of his kids,
one of his kids mothers and then Ken Porter right,
those girls right, different, different, different. They are not what
she would call a city rat. And I think that
was one thing that she said she alluded to in
(29:37):
the interview. She said that when he would try to
connect with her, she said, what you want, what you
want with a city rat? Like, what you want? Why
are you over here? Why are you trying to check
out a city rat? I don't know she said today,
a city rat. I think she said a city rat
or a city girl. Maybe city girl, city rat? Yeah,
but whatever that was, that is not usually the type
(29:58):
of girl that Puffy would have as his bottom be
like a Cassie, right, Like, it's just totally different. So
that's how for me, just just I'm always assessing things
as a therapist. When I first saw that whole him
with her and her cheering him on, and they in
(30:18):
cars together and act bad, and I mean, I already knew.
I felt that this was just an opportunity for him
to turn up, because that's one thing that he's good at.
And that's what she said in that interview, And I
agree with he is good at finding talent. He's always
been excellent at finding talent. However, talent has said that
(30:38):
he's also good with finding them and pimping them and
taking most of their money, So that's been out there too.
That's been alleged also, So to me, it seems as
if that was their relationship. He saw she was popping,
she was young. You know what I'm saying, She's something
that people kept their eyes on. So he said, you
know what, she can help me because she speaks about
(31:01):
it in all her rats. Right, does she a city
rat that you know you're gonna spend money here? And
she's spoken about even enjoying being urinated on having sex.
Like there's a lot of things that she said and
she said that she would do. I'm just saying for
the men, for certain men in her life. I think
he saw that opportunity, she saw the opportunity, and I
(31:24):
think it was a business relationship. I don't think they
was in love and was together and she was a
bottom bet. She did say that they fell in love, though,
didn't she.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
She did say they fell in love. And he always
says that she's my best friend. Right, he would also
say that in interview, she's my best friend. But I
agree with that. I agree with what you said. I
think it might have been some type of some variation
of both, right, because I could see him, like you said,
(31:56):
taking on the city girl because she's so popular, like
is she is, she was, She's what's happening. At the time,
city girls were a big thing. And so for him
he wanted to I feel like he was ready to
be back on top. He needed somebody to make him
credible again, so he didn't look like the old dude
trying to wrap and stuff. And so she made him.
(32:18):
You know, he started dying his hair and stuff again
and stuff. So she just made him. She made him
more vibrant and more vible to the youth who he
you know, trying to impress or he's just trying to
stay relevant and she might have been the conduit for
that to make that happen for him. I agree. I
don't disagree with that.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I totally agree. I totally agree. Okay, so what about
her relationship and and and as we are talking about it,
we're talking about this interview. But we love women, we
love men, but we want to uplift her, right, I
mean both of us, we talk about that all the time.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Absolutely, So I would say this, like we've said before,
Now you say what you want about Krishia. She's not
a dune young woman, right. So she saw the benefit
of being with him, and she has turned that into
a full long brand. When she was like she said,
she was working on it before, but he helped elevate her.
He gave her this, uh, this helped her with this
(33:15):
podcast and like I said, it's a very popular podcast.
So that that opens up revenue different revenue streams for her.
And she can see that. And she said she liked
being under him because she could learn from him. She
you know, he was a tutor, tutor for her and
she wanted to learn business and how to become a
mobile because she wants she wants to aspire two greater things.
(33:36):
So I'm not mad at her for that take at all.
So I'm not I'm not down to her. She's a
young woman. I don't know. You know, there's nothing wrong
with grinding. And I love the fact that even though
she's gone, it hasn't fallen apart for her. She had
to regroup, but she's coming right back to the table.
Let me go ahead and have this conversation that I
(33:58):
kind of don't want to have, but let me go
ahead and have it. See what my viewership is like.
So now you've drawing us right back in. So who
NIEDMS Diddy? Now she doesn't, And that's a wonderful thing.
And I'm happy for her.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
Yes, I am too, I really I really am to Yeah,
because to your point, she did mention that in the
in the video several times she said I wanted him.
But this was interesting. I've heard her talk about her
family before, and she talked about her her family like
there was a lot of scamming going on in her
family and a lot of people being in and out
(34:30):
of jail, for scamming. You know, when she kind of
described what being a city rat or a city girl
was about is about getting your money. You know, she
always wrapped about getting your bag and exchanging her for
JJ for money or whatever, but or bags. But what
what she kept saying in this interview was when I
(34:50):
connected with him, it wasn't about getting my body done
with him, or was it about getting a bag? She
kept saying it, but she was saying it. She just
kept flicking it off on other people. It would have
been good if she would have said me, you know
what I'm saying, like in the past, this is what
I used to do. But with him, I saw a
different opportunity. But she kept saying, you know when girls
would do this, So girls would do that, But it
(35:13):
was really her I believe she was talking about. But
she said I was using this opportunity to learn how
to be a mogul. And I respect that.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
Yes, all right, let's move on. She also talked about
this breakup with JT. Yeah, I'm saddened by it, but
I mean because I think they were a pretty cute duo. Right,
They both bought something different to the table, two totally
(35:44):
different styles of rap. But they made it work in
the songs and stuff, and they were all popping. I guess,
of course I didn't listen to all of them, but
I'm just saying it made them popular. To whereas when
JT was locked up, she could still Koreisha could still
hold the city girls down and still you know, put
him on keep him on track for when JT got out.
So it's unfortunate that for whatever reason, and I'm not
(36:08):
sure where the beef started between the two when they
started going in they separate directions. I don't know how
I feel about how she addressed the situation with JT.
Speaker 1 (36:21):
Yeah, yeah, I just felt like, but obviously she's hurt.
I believe I believe she's hurt, right, and it's all
mixed in with this whole p Diddy thing. But just
to your point, when JT, because this was their whole
city girl thing, this rap thing was JT's idea. JT
was the rapper. She just sold Karsha on, come on, like,
(36:43):
let's write you something. You know you could rap, just
get up there and say it. We could see that
Karsha is not a rapper, but JT is a rapper,
she really is. But okay, she was also a scammer,
and so that's what she went to jail for. And
while she went to jail, her her friend Krisha, her
family I guess at the time was holding her down still,
(37:05):
like she said, she was even going to shows even
when she got pregnant by herself on stage and still
making sure that JT got money, you know what I'm saying.
Trying to keep the name of the City Girls alive
when it was JT's dream was not Kresha's dream. However,
she did see that she was benefiting from it, so yeah,
I do see that. So that's why to me, Yeah,
(37:26):
I'm saddened that they've broken, but we do know that
people break apart for reasons. And it seems like I
don't know where it was either where they started to separate,
but it seems like it had happened way before Kresha
really realized that it happened. That's what it seemed like,
because she said that JT was already off making her
(37:48):
own album, and when they would show up, they would
be in different dressing rooms, when it seemed to before
that I guess they would be together. So I don't
think Kresha really understood where it also started to split either, right,
But I think just the reality of it was just there.
And this is just my assumption. She I guess she
just has to go along with it, right.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Right, I agree with that. I agree. And if you
look back at previous interviews that they did together, it
was obvious that the disconnection was happening, right. You could
see it happening. They would make comments during interviews towards
each other, and they wouldn't even be looking at each other.
They never you never see them chuckle together, ha ha,
(38:35):
like they were friends anymore. So I think it was,
like you said, it was coming. I'm curious to find
out what would really not necessarily find out what really happened,
but I wouldn't mind knowing what really went down, what
was the cause? Something had to get in it, whether
it was people around them getting in their ear, because
how do you go from growing up together starting a
(38:56):
group When I'm going to prison? The other would hold
them down, like y'all should be like this, So it's
not a She kept saying, we just wasn't connecting anymore.
We just weren't connected anymore. We just wasn't hitting anymore. No,
y'all stopped talking is what I feel like. You happen,
you stop communicating with one another. Not sure who did
what who stopped communicating first, but clearly that's what it was.
(39:18):
It was a communication breakdown because you know, it was
an issue about a song she didn't know that JT
was doing, and you know JT was doing features she
wasn't aware of, and and maybe she was trying to
include JT in with this thing with Ditty. I have
to go back and watch that Karrisha please with with
with JT, Saucy Santana and Kresha, because they did she
(39:40):
did happen. They did have a conversation on Karisha Please,
and I think JT allude to the fact that she
felt like she was getting left behind or left out,
or that she didn't feel like Karesha, you know, was
being I don't know, like with this inclusion of Diddy,
that she was heading in a different direction than it
didn't necessarily include her, and Karsha was like, no, no,
(40:03):
if I win, you win, we win. Like it was interesting.
So I would have to go back and reference that
because I think that they gave us a lot a
little bit more insight is to the beginning of the
breakdown of the relationship.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Oh, now that makes sense. So it was kind of
like little seeds of jealousy that was planted, which comes
up right when it's like all of a sudden, now
you and him and you and these cars and you
talking all this money, and then I'm on the side.
But it's not like how we used to be. I
could see that, so little seeds of doubt. And then
(40:36):
maybe she started to feel like she needed to go
start taking care of herself and making moves on her own.
And so then she did a song with Cardi B
or something like that. Oh God, talk, Why couldn't they
just have a sit down, like a real conversation off
scream right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
They don't want to. You know, if you're upset because
somebody's not speaking and you say, hey, the communication is
breaking down. You hurt my feelings when you did this,
and I want to reconnect with you, I think it
would have been worth it, of course. I mean, like
I said, they had something very rare. So in hip hop,
you know, it's not a lot of between who was
(41:16):
the last one Salt and Pepper that may be really
successful at, you know, maintaining a duo. So I just
think it's unfortunate, and maybe we can strike up a
little bit to youth and they'll figure it out right
as they go forward, because I'm sure they probably miss
each other. They have to. They were such a big
part of each other's lives. You don't hold somebody down
(41:37):
while they go to prison, and hold down a group
if you don't truly truly love them. Right, she could
have moved on without us. You know, She's like, no,
I'm here, I'm here. JT's my girl. I'm gonna carry
I'm gonna carry this across whatever line we need to
carry it on to get us to the next level.
And then just because I may, I'm just guessing. Just
(41:57):
because I met a man that happens to be a
billionaire and I'm going to these these doors are opening
up for me, doesn't necessarily mean I'm leaving you behind.
You think I'm not gonna reach back and come and
get you. But you got to have that conversation with somebody,
you gotta be you got to reassure them.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Yeah, so, huh, No, I agree.
Speaker 2 (42:16):
It happens with so many groups, right, you know. To me,
I think it's outside influences I think it's people that
get close to you and get in your ear and
start pumping you up, because that's the only thing it
can be. It can't be the money, it can't be
the fame, right, It's the people that you surround yourself
with and you know they'll put plenty. I mean, it's
(42:39):
divide and conquer, it is what it is. So people
get around you or they want to get in your
hair because they want you for themselves. They want to
use you for some purpose of their own. So I
always think that that's the reason when groups break up,
especially if you've known each other since you were kids
and this has always been your dream. Now all of
a sudden, you know, you know, Johnny's going solo. What
like you know who told Johnny to do that? Like
(43:03):
where did Johnny get that? And Johnny don't feel appreciated anymore,
you know, cause he's singing six verses and you know
he's got six lines and I.
Speaker 1 (43:10):
Only have two.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
And you know, everybody thinks they should be going solo
because the people around them telling them, you can go solo,
you can make more money. You don't want to split
this chick.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
Yes, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (43:22):
That's so true.
Speaker 1 (43:23):
The devil. It's the devil.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Anyway back to the interview, so yeah, so yeah, so
j T and her, So I I feel like she
gave more information I guess about She gave more insight
into her and j T than she did about her
and Diddy. So I'll just say that.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
She skipped past that quickly. But maybe it's because she
also thinks she'll be subpoena into court. Maybe right. And
she was trying to, I don't know, speed be smart
with her words, but she didn't. She didn't give no juice.
She didn't give any juice about not one thing. It
was very, very surface.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
She didn't have to give any juice about it. Honestly,
I just I just think she missed the She missed
the opportunity when she said, you know, and as far
as the video goes, I would have liked to have
seen her address the video. You don't, I mean, it
doesn't matter if you're still dating this guy, I don't care.
You can tell him that was disgusting. I I don't
(44:24):
know about who that guy was, but let me tell
you something. This was disgusting and you should say that.
Like I just felt the video was too much for me,
because it said because I think sat in town. I
asked her, what was the breaking point? You know, are
you still seeing him and whatever? And she said, no,
I'm not, and it hurt me to break up with him,
but I just wanted to focus on my family. Oh yeah,
(44:45):
you were fine. You were still dealing with him up
until the point that the video came out, right, So
you were you know, that wasn't your concern. So if
that's the case, you can you can also say I
was still walking with him up until when the video
came out and I realized the alligation with you, and
then I decided I would take a step back and
instead of this relationship while he sourced this through. Because
(45:06):
I do not condone that at all.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
Simple, Well, it sounds like that's what you would say,
but I don't think that's probably how she She should
hire you for her pr because or that whole story
that you just said. I really don't know that that
young girl felt like that, because I think she was
still dealing with him through the whole thing, even after
(45:30):
the video, I really do. I think I think she
just had to separate herself because she's in hot water.
Her her name was in it like all of that.
You see how STEVIEJ was out there talking about something.
I stayed with Diddy and you know, first it was
a couple of people who were standing with him. Then
all of a sudden when they name Sun and swooped
(45:50):
up in the allegations, then it's war war war war who.
So yeah, I don't know that she felt like when
she saw the video, she was appalled and she changed.
You said what I'm saying, I think.
Speaker 2 (46:02):
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter whether she was appalled
by it or not. That's how she actually felt. What
I'm saying is that is what you say, whether you
believe it or not, especially if you have claimed that
you have been into abusive relationships before and you supposedly
because you have this daughter now whatever. So that's that's
(46:25):
the message that you're sending. You can't have it both ways.
Why I can't put up with it because I have
a daughter now. But you gotta also be like I
have to also say that that this is bad, like
this is under like this video is the reason why
I'm leaving, or this video broke broke the camel. You know,
straw that broke the Camel's back. You you have to
connect the two. You can't. You can't separate them. And
(46:46):
people think that you're being a genuine But at the
same time, like you said, this wasn't necessarily about being genuine, now,
was it right? This was just to kick off her
sect her season right, to get her viewership up and whatever.
So that's what it was for and it served its purpose.
And like you said, not knocking the hustle, but you know,
doesn't mean I can't doesn't mean I don't see it,
(47:10):
doesn't mean you don't see it, right, doesn't mean other
people don't see it. And will I watch Caaresia please
in the future. Sure, I didn't see any red I was.
I was glad when I'm happy to know that it's
coming back right.
Speaker 1 (47:20):
So me to me to we are not knocking nobody's hustle,
not knocking that young woman's hustle. Like, yes, I'm happy
that it came back to Even though I said it
wasn't juicy enough to you know, cause I think it
was a surface conversation, it still has us talking. And
I want to add in, you know, just like you said,
(47:41):
instead of you know, her making a statement about because
you know I have a daughter now you know, or
she was in relationship. I want her to care just
like she cares about her daughter, about other women and
even about herself, you know, about stuff. And this would
have been great to even teach her son so that
son wouldn't be doing that repeating no cycles hitting other women.
(48:03):
So Kresha, please take care of yourself. Yeah, because we
we are rooting for you.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Absolutely, we are rooting for you.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
Okay, well, I mean those are our thoughts on uh,
the Kresha Please video, the City Girl video, the Young
Miami video. Uh, that's me a therapist and my bestie Celeste.
Was there anything else that you wanted to say? Did
you want to say something to Saucy?
Speaker 2 (48:38):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:41):
Okay, Okay, Well you gotta check them out on the.
Speaker 2 (48:46):
College here, old college here.
Speaker 1 (48:55):
Okay, family, So, if y'all haven't watched that little video,
I mean it'd be interesting. You were interested in, you know,
puppy situation and what went on with him in the
downfall of him and you know of this music mobile
if you can enough, you know this was one of
his supposedly main girlfriends who finally came out and she
(49:16):
was alleged to be a part of the abuse that
he was putting on other people. Well, this was her
first time speaking out on her show. Kresha, please and
we just broke down our perspective of the interview. Okay,
all right, family and Kresha, come on now, please find
(49:36):
a therapist, keep your mind healthy and strong. Find somebody.
Even though Saucy is good you say he your therapist
and your best friends, but I want you to find
a real therapist in addition to Saucy to talk to.
But in times like these, we do need our friends.
Rien now be needing you. You know that, yes, bess her. Okay,
(49:59):
all right, y'all, So I will see you family on
the next episode of The Mental Health Is a lifestyle
podcast with your girl Andre wise Brown. Y'all, make sure
you check out Love is Blind, UK, Love is blindy
that I say it right, friends, Yes, see y'all next time.
The Mental Health Is a lifestyle podcast is not a
substitute for your relationship with a mental health professional. Hey, hey, family,
Welcome back to another episode of the Mental Health Is
a Lifestyle Podcast with your girl Andrea wise Brown and
(00:21):
guess who I have with me? I got my bestie
celest Hey.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Celeste, Hello, a, how are you today?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I am doing well today. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I'm doing great, doing great, busy moving but great, no complaints.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Busy moving and great. And you the travelista, Okay, have
you been anywhere recently since we so the last time
you had just come back from Africa, so you probably recuperating.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yes, I am recuperating. But at the same time, you know,
I'm working a lot and I'm getting to go on
my next trip. I leave on Tuesday, So wall where
you going? Going to Anguilla? Your girl needs some beach
time desperately. As much as I loved Africa, nothing wrong
with that, I have not had any beach time this
(01:16):
year and I need it for my soul. I needed
to so I can reconnect. That's how I reconnect, Laying
on the beach all day, in and out of the water,
laying in the sun, having drinks, so that's what I'm
going for a whole week. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Oh that's so good. And so you know, I have
always wanted to go to Anguilla. That's one place that
I haven't gone. And you've been there already and you
said it is beautiful. Now I know you going back now,
but you still you're gonna go with me next year?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Right, You're gonna take that? Yes, I'm taking you next year.
So every year they have a the Anguilla Culinary Experience,
and they do it in May. And what they do
during that time is they bring chefs from all of
the neighboring islands and they bring them in and they
compete and they have food competitions and lots of luxurious
(02:10):
dinners on beaches and the bar is popping and it
looks gorgeous. So I want to take all my friends.
I've been telling everybody I can about it, so we
can all show up. So cause the one thing I
love to do, I forgot to say that earlier. I
need to be on a beach, right, I need to
be in and out of the water. I need to
have drinks and I need to have some really amazing food.
(02:32):
So and Gwilla is that place for me, so at
least right now, until I find another island. Not to
say that island's don't do it for me. I can
name a whole bunch of islands that have great food
and all those things. But I'm just saying right now,
I'm a little obsessed with in Gwilly. So until I
get everybody I know to see it and do it,
then then I'll move on.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
No, I get that, that's so good. So then you
know you're gonna have to take notes because you need
to put out there your blog. You need to blog
about it and put it out there so everybody can
know what to do, where to go, how to do it.
You know that, because I know that's your thing.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
It is my thing, and the blog is coming. But
you just gotta what time am I supposed to get
this blog done. It's a question. As you know, I
work and work for myself and so and I can't multitask.
When I'm at work, I'm concentrating. I'm focused on my
client at the time. So between that and us moving
around and the traveling, and then you know I have
(03:34):
house guests right now and us recording, I just have
to really just sit down and take the time. But
I'm taking my laptop with me to an guillas, so
I'm hoping something great happening. So I'm hoping I have
at least one rainy day that forces me to stay
inside so I can actually get some work done because
I'm easily I can get easily distracted. Okay, y'all, don't
(03:55):
call me fly fly for nothing. Go on with the wind,
Gone with the wind, Yes, yes, gone with the wind.
Exactly as soon as I see some shiny I'm fluttering away.
So hey, what you gonna do? That's me.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You're gonna love you because I love every minute of that.
I love every minute. Ago with the Wind, I love it.
I love it. Okay, So today we are going to
talk about Krisha, Please, We're gonna talk.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
About Young Miami.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So we're gonna talk about Young Miami the City Girl
because it was two city girls.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Correct, Yes, there are two city girls, Young Miami and JT.
And so you know, Kresha started up this podcast, I
want to say two years ago. Man, I don't know
if this is the first or second season. I'm not
really sure, but it's a show that I believe that
Diddy helped her start right and so she has a
(04:58):
lot of hip hopcasts on. She asks them all kinds
of personal questions and it actually is a really good show.
I really do like the fact that she can she's
not afraid to ask questions, and she does ask questions
that people want to know. So she started off this
season because I was wondering, you know, since her and
Diddy are I guess, I don't know if they're together
or not. I don't think they are since all of
(05:20):
his drama, right, so I was curious as to see
if she was going to be picked up again for
another season of Karsha Please And so I guess this
is her first episode coming back, and it has made
a big splash. I think the last time I checked,
she had over two million views on this. So, you know,
because people want to know, like, well, how do you
feel about Diddy? Now? Well, how do you feel about
(05:42):
the situation? What's going on with you and JT? And
so she has her best friend Salcy Santana. He's interviewing
her and it is an interesting watch.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Okay, I agree that it is interesting watch for me.
I think it was an interesting draw. I think that
it was brilliant to start off with you know, this
being the very first episode where she's saying that she's
going to be honest. So I think it was a
very smart, interesting draw, but I don't necessarily know, and
(06:21):
we get ready to talk about it if the interview
was just that interesting, I do want to say, though, Yes,
so I did not watch Krisha Please all the time.
However I would scroll across and then sometimes if she
was interviewing somebody who I was familiar with while I'm
in the gym, I may have watched it and one thing,
like you said, now her verb and now connection may
(06:50):
have been a little off, and her adjectives with you know,
she speaks her own language, right, Okay, so sometimes it's
a little off. Sometimes if you don't really understand her language,
it's maybe difficult to understand what she's saying. But I
guess if you kind of hang in there and listen
(07:10):
and watch her body, then you'll get the context. You
gotta get context clues. Okay, But you know, I always
love a girl going to get her coins. So the
fact that this young girl was going to get her
coins showing up on that couch, although you know, her
nouns and verbs were not agreeing with each other. But
(07:33):
the fact that she was showing up and hustling. I
respect that, and I would say this too, best friend
is I liked too? Like you said, it wasn't that
she was the best interviewer. However, she was not afraid
to ask the questions that for some people would think
was off putting, like the stuff that you think about.
(07:55):
But you'd be like, I can't ask that. She would ask.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Absolutely, I agree. I agree, And I think the best
way to put it in as far as her now and
verb connection is she speaks like she raps, and that's
just that right. So I'm not a I don't listen
to her music consistently so, but that's what I get
(08:23):
from it and in her interviewer in this interview Saucy Santana,
it's just as bad.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You could you understand why they are very good friends. Now,
I don't know much about Saucy Santana, but what I
do know, I don't. I don't know much about them,
but you know what I do watch These are one
of my little guilty pleasures. It's College Hill and on
College Hill this last season. Yes, it's on BT Plus.
(08:58):
So it's when celebrities have kind of felled out of
school or they didn't go to school. They go back
to the HBCUs so they filmed and I think Tracy
Edmonds is the producer. So they go and this highlights
the HBCU. So they take them back to school. They
have this short course and they have them go through
the course. They had to show up the school every
(09:18):
day as if they were in college. And some of
them failed, but some of them passed and so so
this makes them feel like, you know, whether you know,
whether they was you know, smart, and it gives them confidence, right,
you know, another way to to kind of follow through
on getting an education. Last season, Ray j I'm upset,
(09:40):
like I'm obsessed, but he was on the cutting up
he failed UH and so this he failed. And so
this season, Saucy Santana was one of the people along
with Claudia Jordan Black, China, Carlos King. Yeah, not Carlos King.
His name is Carlos He's one of the He's one
(10:01):
of those comedians with UH that used to be on
wildan'n Out. So I don't think his last name is King,
but any whose name is Carlos. But they went to
school and Saucy Santana went to school too, but Saucy
did not go to school. Saucy was going to all
the parties. Saucy was twerking while they was doing homework.
(10:21):
Saucy was eating chicken wings in the bed. Oh yeah,
falling asleep. Saucy was wearing thongs. Yeah, yeah, he'd be
safe to say that Saucy failed as well. Yes, yeah,
and you know, and when Saucy failed, Saucy was mad
(10:45):
that he failed, and so he started to tear the
house up because okay, yeah, So AnyWho, that's an interesting watch.
That's a fun watch if you're not really doing anything else.
So that was how I got introduced to Saucy Santana.
So now now for me to see him sitting on
(11:08):
the couch with Krisha asking her the questions. I'm familiar
with his lingo now after I've seen him go to
school not go to school.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Okay, all right, well I'll take your word for it.
So yeah, I'm not familiar with Starc Santana very much
other than that these two hang out together.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
So tell me, friend, what did you think about the interview?
When he asked the questions about her and Diddy. Her responses.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Okay, I believe. Okay. So the first question I remember
him asking her is about how is she doing? How
do you feel like we let's talk about mental health first,
your mental health. How do you feel with all this
going on and people connecting you to him, to Ditty
and you know, always wanting a response from you about what,
(12:09):
wanting you to answer for some of the things that
he's being accused of. That's mine. That's how I reworded it.
That's not how he asked it. But you see what
I'm saying. So, and she said that, you know, some
days she's happy. Some days, she said, sometimes you she's like,
fuck it. You know, she's got a lot going on.
And she was saying that she does have a it's
a lot going on all at once. And I think
(12:30):
she's speaking of the stuff that's going on with Diddy,
her breakup with her partner JT and and all of that,
and so she says sometimes she just wants to give up,
but then she looks at her children and she's like,
I didn't come this far to go backwards, So I'm
gonna keep pushing. So I thought that was I mean,
I think that was a good start to the interview,
(12:52):
and then I think from there, Santana followed up with
another question, and it was regarding the ditty, So did
you hear the part of where she talked about her
mental health and what'd you think?
Speaker 1 (13:03):
You know, you know, I heard that. You know, I
was all over that. I loved every minute of it.
And I thought that was a great opening question because
it wasn't just about, you know, the surface stuff or
the gossip. It was really like, how are you doing mentally?
How is your mental health? And yes, to your point,
I love the way she was honest by saying some
(13:24):
days are good, some days are bad, but I pretty
much just keep on pushing. And you know what. Another
thing that she said which I thought was great and
I could tell that she's speaking to someone else. Now
I don't know. I don't remember if she said she
was going to therapy, No, because I think she called
(13:45):
him her therapist, So yeah, I don't know that she
said that. But one thing that she said, and I
think this is key for anybody out there who's going
through something. She said, everybody goes through something, whether it's
a dead whether it's a divorce, right, you know, no
matter what, and it's hard times, and we all go
(14:07):
through it. She said, that's the thing that keeps her
going because she feels like this is not an anomaly.
This is not just a me thing, right, a Kreesha thing.
This is just a part of life, and I just
have to keep on going. That I think is key
right to get into anything when you realize this is
not just about you, although sometimes it feels like it,
(14:28):
you know, but like no, everybody else is going through
something to if not now, they have been or they
will in the future, and we all got to keep
going because we're gonna get through it.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yes, Yes, that's that's what I took from it, So
I thought it. I agree with you. I think it
got off got off to a really good start. Uh.
Then I think. He asked her about Diddy and how
did she feel about people wanting her to answer for
the accusations against di.
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Speaker 2 (18:06):
Diddy. She said, why do you think that is? Everybody
wants you to come forward and say something, and she said,
I believe it is because they feel like Diddy was
my brand, you know what I mean. Like, but she
said I was popping before that. She said, in fact,
basically what she said was, in fact, I helped him
(18:26):
as much as he helped me. I put him on
daily on alcohol. Wasn't popping until I put it in
a song and things of that nature. So that was
her answer to that, What are your thoughts?
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I'm sorry, what are your thoughts on that?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Though I don't necessarily agree. I believe people were wanting
to know because that's your man, period. That's your man,
and not because you were cheering his biggest cheerleader and everything. No,
you weren't just as big as cheerleader. That was your man.
And these accusations are in regard to him beaten on
(19:02):
women of women. So I thought that was I didn't
think that was a direct answer, and I don't think
it was an accurate answer, And yeah, that's how I feel.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Yeah, I agree, because he did become a part of
her brand. I also agree with you and her when
she said we helped each other. But the reality is is, yeah,
we knew the city girl, but everybody didn't know the
city girl the way we knew the city girl, after
Ditty had his hand on her, after Ditty was showing
(19:37):
up with her, after Ditty was doing this half claim,
and she was doing this whole claim because she was
whole claiming him. He wasn't whole claiming HU. So you know,
I truly believe that. I don't think you know how
you said that was your man. I think she was
saying that was her man, But I really don't think
that was her man. I don't think so I know
you said this. I think that I think she thought
(20:02):
he was her man. But I do not believe that
Diddy told this girl that she was his only woman.
I do not believe that, because even in interviews he
would even he would that'll play it, even when she
interviewed him on.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Christian Please, Yeah, I don't. I don't know. When I
say that, I say that, I mean that's how people
people want her to answer for him, because that's how
they put it out there, that that that's this is
my man, and so whether or not he claimed her
or not, she like you said, she was claiming him,
and this is how they put their relationship out there.
So that's why people are asking you the questions. So
(20:41):
that's that's yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
I totally agree, totally, totally, totally, that's right. You got
poster boards up everywhere you go, and you seeing here
your man, You back and forth, you bumping gums on
Twitter talking about how he your man. So there's no
way in the world when all of these allegations are
coming out about him pill pushing, women dropping pills, you
(21:04):
know what I'm saying, rufie, and women having sex with women,
making women have sex with other women, having sex with men.
When you was the last face that was screaming his name,
How in the world are you thinking that nobody's gonna
come to you to ask you what's up with Diddy?
What's up with you and Diddy? What is your position?
Were you a part of it? Especially when she was
(21:25):
a part of the allegations from Little Rod, the guy
who was the producer in the house. He said, he
stated in his documents something and I'm not a lawyer here,
but something surrounding alleging that she would help and wrangle
the women in for Diddy. And he also said that
she tried to come on to him or not the
(21:48):
cousin to come on to him with her. And yet
so she was included in in court documents. So why
would you think that nobody's gonna ask you.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Anything exactly exactly exactly. So I thought that was an
avoid avoidance on her part, like, yeah, that's her trying
to distance herself. And I also thought it was interesting
when he asked her, you know well, I think he
asked her, how do you feel like with all the
(22:18):
allegations coming out in the video coming out, like what
was your experience with Diddy and whatever? And she gave
a very broad answer as like, you know what, I didn't.
I wasn't I didn't witness that. When I came into
Diddy's life, it was when the world was celebrating him.
He got this ward, that war, and that war. So
I was just there for the celebration. I don't know
(22:41):
this guy. I don't know this guy that they're speaking of,
but at the same time, he did. And I was
a little disappointed in Saucy Santana because he bought up
the video, right, And so it's one thing to stick
by somebody when allegations are made, and you can you
can give that cop out like, well, I didn't see it,
so I can't speak on it, right. But if you
(23:02):
have been as Saucy Sayin's Tanna told said, I know
you have been a victim of domestic violence, not once
but twice, right, so I know that you wouldn't put
up with that. So so that's her moment to speak
and say, well, yes, I saw the video and this
is how I feel about the video. She never said that,
she just said that wasn't my experience. Yeah, it wasn't
(23:23):
a lot of our experience. But what we all saw,
we were people who were reserving judgment against Ditty once
they even the people that were coming out and defending
Diddy when once they saw that video, they had to
address it. And I feel like the same thing should
be said from the woman who was stating him.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
Absolutely, So that was a straight cop out. And to me,
when we catch you in a lie, cause to me,
that's what it felt like, a cop out because you
said that you were gonna come on here, and she
kept saying, I'm gonna be totally honest. I'm you know,
I'm gonna be open. I'm gonna be honest. She lied,
She lied because for her to say that wasn't her,
(24:01):
she skirted right past that even if that was not
your personal experience, because we can't say that it was.
You saw that videotape, and there's noa in the world
that you could tell me that you didn't. Now I
will say allegedly friend, because somebody could say she could
say she was living under rock and we weren't there
(24:21):
with her. But I don't believe in my opinion, and
I'm mistake for you too. In our opinion, we do
not believe that that girl did not see that video
tape with him dragging that girl and beating her down
that hallway, and had you seen that? You still don't
have an opinion. And then she tried to throw in
because look, this is how she doubled back, because she said, well,
(24:43):
you know, at the time, I didn't have children. I
was with him whenever when he was being celebrated or whatever.
And then she said something about her, but now I
have a Now I have a I'm a mother. Then
she had to think, I mean I was a mother. Then, yeah,
you was a mother then yeah, but now the difference
is I got a little girl, so now you know.
(25:04):
And she still didn't answer. She said, I'm just not
you know, I just knew that I wouldn't be a
part of that. So that's why I believe she's still
in contact with him. I think that she separated herself,
as you know, so that we can't see so she
can go on with her career. But I think she's
still riding for Diddy, which for me makes me think
(25:28):
that allegedly that she's she was complacent with some of
the stuff that he was doing.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
I agree, I agree. I don't think that he did
all of this in isolation away from her. I mean,
and I don't think that he stopped being abusive to women.
And the reason I say that is because up until
the video came out, he kept lying I didn't do it.
That's a lot. I'm being attacked, My brand is being attacked,
(25:59):
my family being attacked, but about my legacy and this
is horrendous and all the things that he said, only
you know, to have the video come out proving him
a lie, and he's saying I feel bad about that.
That's whatever he said. But so there's no way, in
my opinion, that some of these behaviors weren't going on
(26:23):
when she was present. I just don't see it. And too,
you know, since they've been together, it's not like he
hasn't had another child, a whole child, a whole child
on her.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
And then when she would be questioned about it, right,
she'd be questioned in interviews, she was and I think
I want to say that her and I guess, I
don't know if it was the mother somebody they'd be
going back and forth on. I don't even know who
goes back and forth on the internet. But the fact
is that she knew that he had this child, and
supposedly she didn't really like the fact that he had
the child, but yet she was still right back dealing
(26:57):
with him, you know, after he had at this child.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Yeah, so the child is by another woman, and the
girl he was going back and forth with is a
different woman than the baby mother. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I believe the girl she was going back and forth
with was a woman, a chick by the name Gina,
And where's the baby's mother is a different chick altogether.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Okay, So I got to ask a question, what Okay,
So who was okay, fifty cents one of his child
children's mother. Did she have a baby with him too,
or she was just one of his girlfriends, or.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
No, she didn't have a baby with him. She's just
one of his girlfriends.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
Okay, okay, So it's a lot.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
So, but that lays credence to the fact where you
were saying that, you know, you know, you believe that
theirs was more of a business relationship, maybe that they
weren't as you know as tye that is she claimed
or whatever. What it tells me is that she was
just sharing a man. But that's that's and that she
probably is the bottom bitch. I don't know, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
And for me, I don't even think now. So this
is just me and you know from the East Coast,
you know, so have known Diddy from when he not
known him personally, but just known of him parties all
that kind of stuff from when he first started. And
so what I out of several interviews that I've heard
(28:33):
about him, and then for people who I have and
who I know who may know him or whatever, who
have who have said for years that he was dark
and he was the devil That's what I would hear
behind the scenes, allegedly, but that's what I would hear,
not saying that's what he was. I don't know him,
but allegedly what I know, and I would hear and
(28:54):
see him in interviews. The city girl, Karesha, that is
not the type of woman that he dates. He does
not date, is she would call herself a city rat.
That is not the type of girl that Diddy has dated.
That is not one of the girls that he would
call his bottom beat. Not so like Mesa, you know,
(29:16):
his first girlfriend or whatever. Right, I'm one of his kids,
one of his kids mothers and then Ken Porter right,
those girls right, different, different, different. They are not what
she would call a city rat. And I think that
was one thing that she said she alluded to in
(29:37):
the interview. She said that when he would try to
connect with her, she said, what you want, what you
want with a city rat? Like, what you want? Why
are you over here? Why are you trying to check
out a city rat? I don't know she said today,
a city rat. I think she said a city rat
or a city girl. Maybe city girl, city rat? Yeah,
but whatever that was, that is not usually the type
(29:58):
of girl that Puffy would have as his bottom be
like a Cassie, right, Like, it's just totally different. So
that's how for me, just just I'm always assessing things
as a therapist. When I first saw that whole him
with her and her cheering him on, and they in
(30:18):
cars together and act bad, and I mean, I already knew.
I felt that this was just an opportunity for him
to turn up, because that's one thing that he's good at.
And that's what she said in that interview, And I
agree with he is good at finding talent. He's always
been excellent at finding talent. However, talent has said that
(30:38):
he's also good with finding them and pimping them and
taking most of their money, So that's been out there too.
That's been alleged also, So to me, it seems as
if that was their relationship. He saw she was popping,
she was young. You know what I'm saying, She's something
that people kept their eyes on. So he said, you
know what, she can help me because she speaks about
(31:01):
it in all her rats. Right, does she a city
rat that you know you're gonna spend money here? And
she's spoken about even enjoying being urinated on having sex.
Like there's a lot of things that she said and
she said that she would do. I'm just saying for
the men, for certain men in her life. I think
he saw that opportunity, she saw the opportunity, and I
(31:24):
think it was a business relationship. I don't think they
was in love and was together and she was a
bottom bet. She did say that they fell in love, though,
didn't she.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
She did say they fell in love. And he always
says that she's my best friend. Right, he would also
say that in interview, she's my best friend. But I
agree with that. I agree with what you said. I
think it might have been some type of some variation
of both, right, because I could see him, like you said,
(31:56):
taking on the city girl because she's so popular, like
is she is, she was, She's what's happening. At the time,
city girls were a big thing. And so for him
he wanted to I feel like he was ready to
be back on top. He needed somebody to make him
credible again, so he didn't look like the old dude
trying to wrap and stuff. And so she made him.
(32:18):
You know, he started dying his hair and stuff again
and stuff. So she just made him. She made him
more vibrant and more vible to the youth who he
you know, trying to impress or he's just trying to
stay relevant and she might have been the conduit for
that to make that happen for him. I agree. I
don't disagree with that.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
I totally agree. I totally agree. Okay, so what about
her relationship and and and as we are talking about it,
we're talking about this interview. But we love women, we
love men, but we want to uplift her, right, I
mean both of us, we talk about that all the time.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Absolutely, So I would say this, like we've said before,
Now you say what you want about Krishia. She's not
a dune young woman, right. So she saw the benefit
of being with him, and she has turned that into
a full long brand. When she was like she said,
she was working on it before, but he helped elevate her.
He gave her this, uh, this helped her with this
(33:15):
podcast and like I said, it's a very popular podcast.
So that that opens up revenue different revenue streams for her.
And she can see that. And she said she liked
being under him because she could learn from him. She
you know, he was a tutor, tutor for her and
she wanted to learn business and how to become a
mobile because she wants she wants to aspire two greater things.
(33:36):
So I'm not mad at her for that take at all.
So I'm not I'm not down to her. She's a
young woman. I don't know. You know, there's nothing wrong
with grinding. And I love the fact that even though
she's gone, it hasn't fallen apart for her. She had
to regroup, but she's coming right back to the table.
Let me go ahead and have this conversation that I
(33:58):
kind of don't want to have, but let me go
ahead and have it. See what my viewership is like.
So now you've drawing us right back in. So who
NIEDMS Diddy? Now she doesn't, And that's a wonderful thing.
And I'm happy for her.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
Yes, I am too, I really I really am to Yeah,
because to your point, she did mention that in the
in the video several times she said I wanted him.
But this was interesting. I've heard her talk about her
family before, and she talked about her her family like
there was a lot of scamming going on in her
family and a lot of people being in and out
(34:30):
of jail, for scamming. You know, when she kind of
described what being a city rat or a city girl
was about is about getting your money. You know, she
always wrapped about getting your bag and exchanging her for
JJ for money or whatever, but or bags. But what
what she kept saying in this interview was when I
(34:50):
connected with him, it wasn't about getting my body done
with him, or was it about getting a bag? She
kept saying it, but she was saying it. She just
kept flicking it off on other people. It would have
been good if she would have said me, you know
what I'm saying, like in the past, this is what
I used to do. But with him, I saw a
different opportunity. But she kept saying, you know when girls
would do this, So girls would do that, But it
(35:13):
was really her I believe she was talking about. But
she said I was using this opportunity to learn how
to be a mogul. And I respect that.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
Yes, all right, let's move on. She also talked about
this breakup with JT. Yeah, I'm saddened by it, but
I mean because I think they were a pretty cute duo. Right,
They both bought something different to the table, two totally
(35:44):
different styles of rap. But they made it work in
the songs and stuff, and they were all popping. I guess,
of course I didn't listen to all of them, but
I'm just saying it made them popular. To whereas when
JT was locked up, she could still Koreisha could still
hold the city girls down and still you know, put
him on keep him on track for when JT got out.
So it's unfortunate that for whatever reason, and I'm not
(36:08):
sure where the beef started between the two when they
started going in they separate directions. I don't know how
I feel about how she addressed the situation with JT.
Speaker 1 (36:21):
Yeah, yeah, I just felt like, but obviously she's hurt.
I believe I believe she's hurt, right, and it's all
mixed in with this whole p Diddy thing. But just
to your point, when JT, because this was their whole
city girl thing, this rap thing was JT's idea. JT
was the rapper. She just sold Karsha on, come on, like,
(36:43):
let's write you something. You know you could rap, just
get up there and say it. We could see that
Karsha is not a rapper, but JT is a rapper,
she really is. But okay, she was also a scammer,
and so that's what she went to jail for. And
while she went to jail, her her friend Krisha, her
family I guess at the time was holding her down still,
(37:05):
like she said, she was even going to shows even
when she got pregnant by herself on stage and still
making sure that JT got money, you know what I'm saying.
Trying to keep the name of the City Girls alive
when it was JT's dream was not Kresha's dream. However,
she did see that she was benefiting from it, so yeah,
I do see that. So that's why to me, Yeah,
(37:26):
I'm saddened that they've broken, but we do know that
people break apart for reasons. And it seems like I
don't know where it was either where they started to separate,
but it seems like it had happened way before Kresha
really realized that it happened. That's what it seemed like,
because she said that JT was already off making her
(37:48):
own album, and when they would show up, they would
be in different dressing rooms, when it seemed to before
that I guess they would be together. So I don't
think Kresha really understood where it also started to split either, right,
But I think just the reality of it was just there.
And this is just my assumption. She I guess she
just has to go along with it, right.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Right, I agree with that. I agree. And if you
look back at previous interviews that they did together, it
was obvious that the disconnection was happening, right. You could
see it happening. They would make comments during interviews towards
each other, and they wouldn't even be looking at each other.
They never you never see them chuckle together, ha ha,
(38:35):
like they were friends anymore. So I think it was,
like you said, it was coming. I'm curious to find
out what would really not necessarily find out what really happened,
but I wouldn't mind knowing what really went down, what
was the cause? Something had to get in it, whether
it was people around them getting in their ear, because
how do you go from growing up together starting a
(38:56):
group When I'm going to prison? The other would hold
them down, like y'all should be like this, So it's
not a She kept saying, we just wasn't connecting anymore.
We just weren't connected anymore. We just wasn't hitting anymore. No,
y'all stopped talking is what I feel like. You happen,
you stop communicating with one another. Not sure who did
what who stopped communicating first, but clearly that's what it was.
(39:18):
It was a communication breakdown because you know, it was
an issue about a song she didn't know that JT
was doing, and you know JT was doing features she
wasn't aware of, and and maybe she was trying to
include JT in with this thing with Ditty. I have
to go back and watch that Karrisha please with with
with JT, Saucy Santana and Kresha, because they did she
(39:40):
did happen. They did have a conversation on Karisha Please,
and I think JT allude to the fact that she
felt like she was getting left behind or left out,
or that she didn't feel like Karesha, you know, was
being I don't know, like with this inclusion of Diddy,
that she was heading in a different direction than it
didn't necessarily include her, and Karsha was like, no, no,
(40:03):
if I win, you win, we win. Like it was interesting.
So I would have to go back and reference that
because I think that they gave us a lot a
little bit more insight is to the beginning of the
breakdown of the relationship.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Oh, now that makes sense. So it was kind of
like little seeds of jealousy that was planted, which comes
up right when it's like all of a sudden, now
you and him and you and these cars and you
talking all this money, and then I'm on the side.
But it's not like how we used to be. I
could see that, so little seeds of doubt. And then
(40:36):
maybe she started to feel like she needed to go
start taking care of herself and making moves on her own.
And so then she did a song with Cardi B
or something like that. Oh God, talk, Why couldn't they
just have a sit down, like a real conversation off
scream right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
They don't want to. You know, if you're upset because
somebody's not speaking and you say, hey, the communication is
breaking down. You hurt my feelings when you did this,
and I want to reconnect with you, I think it
would have been worth it, of course. I mean, like
I said, they had something very rare. So in hip hop,
you know, it's not a lot of between who was
(41:16):
the last one Salt and Pepper that may be really
successful at, you know, maintaining a duo. So I just
think it's unfortunate, and maybe we can strike up a
little bit to youth and they'll figure it out right
as they go forward, because I'm sure they probably miss
each other. They have to. They were such a big
part of each other's lives. You don't hold somebody down
(41:37):
while they go to prison, and hold down a group
if you don't truly truly love them. Right, she could
have moved on without us. You know, She's like, no,
I'm here, I'm here. JT's my girl. I'm gonna carry
I'm gonna carry this across whatever line we need to
carry it on to get us to the next level.
And then just because I may, I'm just guessing. Just
(41:57):
because I met a man that happens to be a
billionaire and I'm going to these these doors are opening
up for me, doesn't necessarily mean I'm leaving you behind.
You think I'm not gonna reach back and come and
get you. But you got to have that conversation with somebody,
you gotta be you got to reassure them.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Yeah, so, huh, No, I agree.
Speaker 2 (42:16):
It happens with so many groups, right, you know. To me,
I think it's outside influences I think it's people that
get close to you and get in your ear and
start pumping you up, because that's the only thing it
can be. It can't be the money, it can't be
the fame, right, It's the people that you surround yourself
with and you know they'll put plenty. I mean, it's
(42:39):
divide and conquer, it is what it is. So people
get around you or they want to get in your
hair because they want you for themselves. They want to
use you for some purpose of their own. So I
always think that that's the reason when groups break up,
especially if you've known each other since you were kids
and this has always been your dream. Now all of
a sudden, you know, you know, Johnny's going solo. What
like you know who told Johnny to do that? Like
(43:03):
where did Johnny get that? And Johnny don't feel appreciated anymore,
you know, cause he's singing six verses and you know
he's got six lines and I.
Speaker 1 (43:10):
Only have two.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
And you know, everybody thinks they should be going solo
because the people around them telling them, you can go solo,
you can make more money. You don't want to split
this chick.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
Yes, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (43:22):
That's so true.
Speaker 1 (43:23):
The devil. It's the devil.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Anyway back to the interview, so yeah, so yeah, so
j T and her, So I I feel like she
gave more information I guess about She gave more insight
into her and j T than she did about her
and Diddy. So I'll just say that.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
She skipped past that quickly. But maybe it's because she
also thinks she'll be subpoena into court. Maybe right. And
she was trying to, I don't know, speed be smart
with her words, but she didn't. She didn't give no juice.
She didn't give any juice about not one thing. It
was very, very surface.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
She didn't have to give any juice about it. Honestly,
I just I just think she missed the She missed
the opportunity when she said, you know, and as far
as the video goes, I would have liked to have
seen her address the video. You don't, I mean, it
doesn't matter if you're still dating this guy, I don't care.
You can tell him that was disgusting. I I don't
(44:24):
know about who that guy was, but let me tell
you something. This was disgusting and you should say that.
Like I just felt the video was too much for me,
because it said because I think sat in town. I
asked her, what was the breaking point? You know, are
you still seeing him and whatever? And she said, no,
I'm not, and it hurt me to break up with him,
but I just wanted to focus on my family. Oh yeah,
(44:45):
you were fine. You were still dealing with him up
until the point that the video came out, right, So
you were you know, that wasn't your concern. So if
that's the case, you can you can also say I
was still walking with him up until when the video
came out and I realized the alligation with you, and
then I decided I would take a step back and
instead of this relationship while he sourced this through. Because
(45:06):
I do not condone that at all.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
Simple, Well, it sounds like that's what you would say,
but I don't think that's probably how she She should
hire you for her pr because or that whole story
that you just said. I really don't know that that
young girl felt like that, because I think she was
still dealing with him through the whole thing, even after
(45:30):
the video, I really do. I think I think she
just had to separate herself because she's in hot water.
Her her name was in it like all of that.
You see how STEVIEJ was out there talking about something.
I stayed with Diddy and you know, first it was
a couple of people who were standing with him. Then
all of a sudden when they name Sun and swooped
(45:50):
up in the allegations, then it's war war war war who.
So yeah, I don't know that she felt like when
she saw the video, she was appalled and she changed.
You said what I'm saying, I think.
Speaker 2 (46:02):
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter whether she was appalled
by it or not. That's how she actually felt. What
I'm saying is that is what you say, whether you
believe it or not, especially if you have claimed that
you have been into abusive relationships before and you supposedly
because you have this daughter now whatever. So that's that's
(46:25):
the message that you're sending. You can't have it both ways.
Why I can't put up with it because I have
a daughter now. But you gotta also be like I
have to also say that that this is bad, like
this is under like this video is the reason why
I'm leaving, or this video broke broke the camel. You know,
straw that broke the Camel's back. You you have to
connect the two. You can't. You can't separate them. And
(46:46):
people think that you're being a genuine But at the
same time, like you said, this wasn't necessarily about being genuine, now,
was it right? This was just to kick off her
sect her season right, to get her viewership up and whatever.
So that's what it was for and it served its purpose.
And like you said, not knocking the hustle, but you know,
doesn't mean I can't doesn't mean I don't see it,
(47:10):
doesn't mean you don't see it, right, doesn't mean other
people don't see it. And will I watch Caaresia please
in the future. Sure, I didn't see any red I was.
I was glad when I'm happy to know that it's
coming back right.
Speaker 1 (47:20):
So me to me to we are not knocking nobody's hustle,
not knocking that young woman's hustle. Like, yes, I'm happy
that it came back to Even though I said it
wasn't juicy enough to you know, cause I think it
was a surface conversation, it still has us talking. And
I want to add in, you know, just like you said,
(47:41):
instead of you know, her making a statement about because
you know I have a daughter now you know, or
she was in relationship. I want her to care just
like she cares about her daughter, about other women and
even about herself, you know, about stuff. And this would
have been great to even teach her son so that
son wouldn't be doing that repeating no cycles hitting other women.
(48:03):
So Kresha, please take care of yourself. Yeah, because we
we are rooting for you.
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Absolutely, we are rooting for you.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
Okay, well, I mean those are our thoughts on uh,
the Kresha Please video, the City Girl video, the Young
Miami video. Uh, that's me a therapist and my bestie Celeste.
Was there anything else that you wanted to say? Did
you want to say something to Saucy?
Speaker 2 (48:38):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:41):
Okay, Okay, Well you gotta check them out on the.
Speaker 2 (48:46):
College here, old college here.
Speaker 1 (48:55):
Okay, family, So, if y'all haven't watched that little video,
I mean it'd be interesting. You were interested in, you know,
puppy situation and what went on with him in the
downfall of him and you know of this music mobile
if you can enough, you know this was one of
his supposedly main girlfriends who finally came out and she
(49:16):
was alleged to be a part of the abuse that
he was putting on other people. Well, this was her
first time speaking out on her show. Kresha, please and
we just broke down our perspective of the interview. Okay,
all right, family and Kresha, come on now, please find
(49:36):
a therapist, keep your mind healthy and strong. Find somebody.
Even though Saucy is good you say he your therapist
and your best friends, but I want you to find
a real therapist in addition to Saucy to talk to.
But in times like these, we do need our friends.
Rien now be needing you. You know that, yes, bess her. Okay,
(49:59):
all right, y'all, So I will see you family on
the next episode of The Mental Health Is a lifestyle
podcast with your girl Andre wise Brown. Y'all, make sure
you check out Love is Blind, UK, Love is blindy
that I say it right, friends, Yes, see y'all next time.
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