March 8, 2025 • 24 mins
This week’s Mental Man Monday might have dropped a day late, but the heat is right on time. Izzy is solo this episode, breaking down some of the most controversial topics in pop culture. From Adam Sandler dressing like he’s hitting a pickup game at the Oscars to Tory Lanez plotting a comeback from jail and Omarion defending non-monogamy, this episode is full of hot takes. 💡 What’s Inside This Episode? 🔹 Would a Black Celebrity Get the Same Love as Adam Sandler?
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- Adam Sandler wore a hoodie & basketball shorts to the Oscars and got praised.
- But would Will Smith, Chris Rock, or Samuel L. Jackson get that same love?
- Is casual confidence celebrated for some, but seen as disrespect for others?
- After his high-profile conviction, Tory announced his 2025 return.
- Does society actually believe in redemption, or is cancel culture forever?
- If you stand 10 toes down on your innocence, does that mean your career is over?
- Omarion says not all men are built for monogamy.
- Is this about honesty in relationships, or just selfish behavior?
- Does avoiding commitment come down to freedom—or lack of discipline?
- Double standards in how we treat celebrities—fact or fiction?
- Does Tory Lanez deserve a second chance, or is his career done for good?
- Is polyamory the new wave, or is it just a lack of accountability?
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
H m hm. What's up y'all? Okay, so I know
(00:35):
what you're thinking. Today is Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
The live stream goes live on Monday, and you were
one hundred percent right. However, yesterday I just couldn't do it.
But I'm here today and I got a lot to say.
So we're gonna cover some things today. It's only me today,
so we gotta keep content going. We just gotta keep
it going. You know, one more, get on stop no show.
(01:01):
I actually saw last night. I think I was laying
down or was it this morning? This morning talks with
two K He was live this morning and I just said,
and I had already kind of entertained the idea. I said,
we're just gonna be We're just gonna do it on Tuesday,
so it's only a one time thing. We back to
Monday next week. I got back in town yesterday and
(01:22):
I just was dragging, still low key, recovering. But we're
gonna cover some things. And as you see in the title,
so we got some things we gotta talk about. So
let's get to the first topic for today.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
All right.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So, now Adam Sandler is going viral for what he
wore to the Oscars. Now you know, the oscars is
when you pts. So Adam Sandler chose to do the opposite.
So let me share my screen so y'all can see
if y'all didn't see, and this is compliments of neighborhood talk.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Not going thing.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, So basically he you see what he got on.
He everybody said he invited to the barbecue. Somebody made
the joke. So he was just passing by. And you know,
I agree he tired of dressing up. And it's just
(02:37):
funny because somebody else he would saying. He said, I
know I would have found it as usual, and it's
just interesting to you know, it's it's interesting seeing that,
and and not in a bad way because one thing,
you know, I'm all for being the anomaly. But let's
just break this down. Like I said tonight, we I
(02:57):
shouldn't be before y'all long today. What does this have
to do with mental health? As we know the study
of how we act, think and feel. Right, we know
that we know this by now. Now in this case,
buddy said he ain't feel like put on no clothes.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Have you had those days where you're.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Supposed to be somewhere and you like, look me, coming
is the blessing, because really I really don't want to come.
Someone come as I am. Has it ever been you?
That's been me for sure?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You know?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And it's just he just say like and he made
a statement by doing that. He didn't cuss nobody out.
He ain't do nothing risky as far as like raunchy.
He didn't say anything racist, he didn't do anything rude,
he didn't call out no conspiracy theories. All he did
was come to the Oscars in a hoodie and some
basketball shorts. And I don't think anybody's ever done that.
(03:56):
And we talk about confidence, we talk about comfort, like,
imagine if you did that, would you do that? I
probably wouldn't. I mean, but he'dn't been to these events
for hundreds of years, and some of us ain't never
even been the one of them, you get what I'm saying.
So it's like it's kind of a little different. Now,
what would I do in this situation, ww Id and
(04:19):
this moment, I wouldn't have went to the Oscars dress
like that. However, if we want to extract what's going on,
what about doing something that's against the grain.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
But that's just my nature. So in that aspect.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I have to respect him because he's doing something that
is against the grain. But that's who he is. This
is not a role he's playing. He's naturally a you know, rebel.
I guess you could say that's the term we want
to use.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
He's natural.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Adam Sandler is naturally a rebel. So this isn't necessarily surprising,
but it's just interesting and I feel like, honestly.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
This is something good to see.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Most of these award shows have become, let's call it
what it is, full of conspiracies, full of satanic performances
and hand gestures, full of.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Just stupidity, full of people looking for a moment.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And one could argue he's looking for a moment, but
I believe he was just being himself. And if you
being yourself brings makes a moment, then that says something
about you, that says more about you than anything else.
What would Jesus do WWJD. Jesus would be the anomaly.
(05:31):
Jesus would stand out. I don't think he would go
in the mindset of trying to stand out.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
He would just be himself.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Now again, I don't think that Adam Sander did this
with the intention of trying to stand out. He was
just like, I don't he probably literally, I don't feel
like if somebody in the comments we saw was like
he just passing by. Was there a strict dress code,
that's the question we have to ask. I would assume
(05:58):
it is. Again, I've never been to that because I'm
not gonna fake the phone. But is there a specific
dress code or is it just kind of one of
those things where you just know what to do. Because
if it's no dress code, he's not being rebellious. But however,
if it was a dress code and he's being a rebel,
from that angle, it's kind of like, well, you're just
breaking the rules on purpose, which is still a statement.
(06:19):
But Jesus wouldn't break the rules on purpose unless they
went against the laws and rules and regulation of his
of yahweigh the most I got. If it didn't do that,
then he would follow the rules. So yeah, and the
dress code is not going against God. So it's kind
(06:39):
of like if that was the case, he wouldn't have
did if it was just like I want to be
comfortable then you know. But I felt like if Jesus
had went to the oscars, I think he would have
complied with a dress code, I believe. So let me
know what y'all think about that. WSMD. What's your men
do in this situation? Any time it is called for
(07:01):
you to stand out and be the anomaly, I'm all forward,
but there is a time in the place. But in
the same breath also, Adam Sandler's also a legend, so
he kind of can do what he want to do.
But in the same breath, it's like I would just
ask why are you doing that? You are you trying
to make a point? Do you just not feel like
putting on the suit? Because then somebody can say why
(07:22):
are you here? But like I said, he got away
with that because he is a legend. Now I'm gonna
ask this and I'm gonna take it there. What Adam
Sandler wearing that at the OSCAR has been a funny moment.
If he were black, if he was a black man
doing that, maybe this is the wrong person to use.
But if Chris Rock did that, if Will Smith did that,
(07:46):
Sam Yale did that, well people would he cause more
of a ruckus. And I ain't trying to turn this
to a race thing with this.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Someone just want to know. I believe it would be
a different reaction. I do.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
I believe wholeheartedly it would have been a different reaction.
Without a shout over out, it would have been a
different reaction.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
So we end off with that Adam Sandler is the.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Goat and he is the best. All right, let's move
on to the next topic for today. So I saw
a video and that this is complements of the Shade Room,
and it's about somebody who has was causing a ruckus
for some years. Let's let me show the screen so
(08:34):
we can see it, because apparently he has a new album,
All the Way Tory.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Lanes reveals album cover.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
He says to twenty twenty five, the comeback is personal
and he's teasing his comeback. A lot of mixed reviews.
People saying he corny, people saying free toy, people talking
about some he's insecure, he's laying. People still talking about
(09:05):
how he shot Meg. You know, it's still this has
become a man and woman debate with this whole he
shot her, he didn't tupac Lanes. You know, so people
people have a lot to say, People have a lot
to say. What else we want to keep scrolling this
(09:27):
a little bit longer. Free him until it's backwards. Twenty
out of teen is my prediction. Okay, so we can
start with that, because this ain't a video. We just
going through it.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
All right, All right, good stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Let's go into the next part, which is do what
does this have to do with mental health? Well, according
to him, the story with him and Meg didn't happen
the way she said it happened. Now, we're not about
to relive the Meg and Tory drama because this dad
that we'll here all day with that, and I'm really
not trying.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
But what I will say is, look, somebody came and
left after I said that. But what I will say
is him dropping his album, his comeback. I'm gonna say
the next part for the next one. But as far
as him, why did he do this? He's ready to
come back. I mean, of course people this to him,
but he ain't thising nobody right now. Is he gonna
(10:25):
get on his new album? And this made I don't know.
I wasn't in the studio with him, and I'm not
gonna be in the studio with him, But I don't know.
But what I can't say is after you'd have been
beat down verbally attacked, you know, canceled.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Anybody.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
People have to go back to that corner, lick their wounds,
to come back, ready for they comeback. Everybody deserves to
come back. You don't agree, y'all. Don't think Tory Lanez
deserves to come back. You think he should be canceled
and definitely like the rest of his life, something to
think about. Like I said, I ain't got this to
(11:05):
bounce off nobody today, but it's something I want to
ask the people now, WWID what would I do in
this situation if I was tarnished, if I was a
verbally you know, assaulted, if I'm in jail for something
that allegedly I didn't do, I would come back ready,
you know, come back for war two, you know what
I mean. And then when I say come back for what,
(11:27):
I don't mean come back starting mass was trying to attack.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
People or destroy people.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
But you want to come back to like, you know,
finish what you started. You had a good career up
until that point. It's also a proof of once again
being in connection with the wrong people because I said,
for both of them, they both knew each other wasn't
good a good fit. They shouldn't have been around each other.
I'm a thousand percent sure Megan A. Stallion and Tory
Lanez both got the red flags and me both of
(11:53):
them was toxic. But you know, like see here fifty cent,
people can't leave each other alone, and people like that
toxic stuff, people of toxicity.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
And now.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
You know they're paying for it in different ways. I
have had to pay for it.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
WJD WWJD. What would Jesus do?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Now, let's get into this part, because this one I
find most interesting. We always preach about redemption. We always
preach about, you know, a person being restored, a person
come and being able to come back. So with him
making a comeback, what if he came back, What if
(12:34):
Tory Lanez came back and made an apology record to Megan?
What if he came back and made an apology record,
what would y'all say?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Then we still be canceled again.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I'm sorry I was not there, and I'm not saying
she didn't get shot. I'm not saying he didn't shoot it.
But I'm just a firm believer that was a hangovernight.
It was some probably some drugs involved. We know it
was a liquor and it just goes to show you
what happens when all these foreign substances around and you're
doing something you ain't supposed to be doing. I said
for the longest he should be held account of go
(13:06):
especially for having that gun, because why was it out.
You know, it's kind of like if they did shoot,
if he did shoot, you know, cool, not cool, not cool.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But what I'm saying is I would have hated to.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I just would have hated to him have done that
for real and then steep saying he innocent. But he's
very adam me and he didn't do it, even with
all the evidence. So it's like, I don't know, I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
It's just a lot.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
I didn't It was a lot, but it was a
lot of people involved that shouldn't have been there. And WSMD,
whats your men do? There's nothing wrong with Poston to
come back after all you did. All I can say
is if he come back, and if he did do it,
I just would like for him to just say he
(14:02):
did it and own up to everything that he did do.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
But in the same breath, and no.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Matter what the evidence looked like, if you didn't do something,
don't fold they say you did it just so people
can leave you alone. I'm a firm believer God is
your vindicator and although you might not see the results
when you want to see him, I'm a firm believer
that if you really just allowed God to move, and
you gonna keep saying I didn't do it, I didn't
do it, you know. So my case, I gotta text
(14:33):
the other day sidebar story kind of lines, and I
got a text basically saying Isaiah J.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Williams has been arrested a charge with criminal mischief. So
I'm like what.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
So I'm looking at my phone. I'm like, maybe this
is scam, a spam, but I said maybe I'm tripping.
Get a phone call maybe a hour later from the
Bell Bonds and they say, can we speak to Isaiah Williams.
I'm like, I'm dancing around the question. Finally our answer
and they said, wait, so this Isaiah william was in jail.
(15:05):
I said no, I'm right here, and they can you
confirm your birthday?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
And I said yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
They said, okay, well they got the wrong one. So
basically it's another Isaiah Jay Williams that live in Houston
with we have different birthdays, both in the same month
and different years, but maybe say so Isaiah J. William
June nineteen ninety, so they probably just like, oh, it's
the same person.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Imagine if I got pulled over.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Imagine if I got pulled over, that wouldn't have been good.
That'd have been terrible. Actually, that would have been horrible.
All right, y'all, let's get into the final question today.
(15:52):
This is actually I feel like a follow up to
last week with Neo, and I have my my theory
as to why I think this is being done. This
is not the second time this conversation has come up,
so I'm going to share my screen. This is on
Maria on the Sherry Shepherd Show, and he's speaking on
non monogamy. So let's let's let's watch this and then
(16:14):
we're gonna give.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Our take.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
In my share for Hot Topics about actor Kofee zero
Bo and he says that he practices.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
Ethical non monogamy. Okay, do you think that's a good idea?
Ethical non monogamy?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Well, I will say I'm in agreeance. You know, I
don't know all of the backstory of those words, but
I would say for me, being open is important. And also,
you know, the women just truly outnumber the men, you
know what I mean? And this is you're supposed to have.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Is this like all you can eat buffet over here?
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I'm not let me just say it's only a few
good men. It's only a few good right, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
And whether or not it's.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
Whether or not it's a physical thing, you know, we
end up fostering the next generation as well. So why
not have our our queens or the women, because because
I was raised by all women, I mean, why not
have our queens aligned with that that it takes a village.
It's not gonna just be one man, you know. You
you even you could get married, that man still ain't
(17:25):
gonna be just your man. He's gonna be, you know,
there for his daughter. He's gonna be there for his mom,
his grandmother.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
You know.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
So this concept isn't really foreign. It's it's just a
little old you know, and it's it's meant to be upgrading.
And I love this conversation because I think when men
are open and honest that they don't want to have
just this one thing for the rest of their life,
it gives a woman an opportunity to choose.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I was talking about in mind cheer for hot topics
about actor kofee. Okay, let's let's let's let's do it.
Just have to do mental health, so to study of
how we think and feel. You know, there's a new
narrative being pushed and it's not new, but it's being pushed.
I'm gonna call it what it is. I think this
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non monogamy thing is being pushed. I think a lot
of people like discipline, A lot of people don't want
to be committed to one woman because well, men were
technically supposed to be this well, and I get everybody
don't believe in the Bible, and I get it's a
lot of the pastors and thing Christian men who was
(18:30):
out here cheating and having two or three wives and
all that stuff and girlfriends and a wife and all
that and a mischief.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
I get all that. And I'm not gonna try to
hit it with you, which I.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Could with the just what the Bible says about one man,
one woman, right, I could go that route, and like,
I'm not perfect, but at the end of the day,
there's a standard we have to live by, and where
I'm at in my life, I believe that I have
to live by that standard as best that I can
and do obviously with the help of God. And there's
a lot of changes that have been made and gonna
continue to be made.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
But what I will say is.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Even just you, you just lack discipline, just just saying
I ain't got the discipline for one person, and it's
somebody who will accept that.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
I'm sure it is. But you know, I think Omar
is a great artist.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
I think that he, if not a legend, could possibly
be a legend in training if he ain't won. He
definitely has a nice you know record or a nice
you know track record and all that good stuff. But
I just think in that moment that that is just
a message that's being pushed right now now. And this
is the second week in a row we heard something
(19:40):
about this, and that's why I went ahead and went
because the first I was gonna talk about this, but
then I'm like, now, let's talk about it.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Because it's the second week. This is being pushed by
another black man in the in the music industry.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Especially, and I just believe this is they're trying to
really push this. I believe polyamory, polygamy, all this stuff
is being pushed. But I I just wish people will
be honest and just say I don't have a discipline
for it. And I'm sure there's some.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Men that do.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
But wwid, what would I do in this situation? So
I wouldn't be in this situation. I would never do that.
But what I will say is going back to I
guess going against the grain.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Gotta play both sides of the ball here.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
If you're gonna do something that goes against the norm,
be prepared for backlash. We started with Adam Sandler, started
with Tory Lanez, and I was seeing that with a
Mark Go be prepared for a backlash when you're going
against the grain, be prepared for an attack, be prepared
(20:39):
for an opposition, be prepared for the for the ops,
be prepared for people to not like it, to challenge it,
and to criticize you for it.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
So, although I don't agree with.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
What he's doing, and I do believe there's an agenda
behind this, because agendas do exist, I think that he
hate him going again the grain and standing up for
what he believes in. I have to as a man,
I have to respect that. But at the same time,
it's like the year this is just a down a
(21:13):
lonely role and then I have to ask, because men
are doing it too, what does that say about your
self worth? If you're in a relationship and you're okay
with them, be given, not given? They're all to you.
They're giving their all to other people. You know, they're
not giving the all to one person. Wwjg w w
(21:40):
j D. What would Jesus do? What would Jesus do
in this situation? It wouldn't be in It wouldn't be
having multiple wives. And also and also ethically morally correct
thing to do. We can get into the debate about
your moraybody's morals is different, but ethically morally correct. It's polyamory, ethic,
morally correct. Let's let's roll down. There is polyamory, polygamy,
(22:07):
you know, the non monogamy kind of lifestyle. Is that ethical?
Is that morally correct? I'm I'm an I'm gonna post it.
I want you all to tell me. I want people
in the comments to tell me, like you missing it?
It is this, It is that, And don't get into
the what our ancestors. There's a lot of stuff they
did we shouldn't be doing. So let's let's not even
(22:28):
go down that road.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
There's a lot of stuff they did, we shouldn't be doing.
W S M D.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
What's your men do in this situation? Again, I am
not for polyamory. I'm not for none of that, but
I'm all of men being honest. And if that's what
you plan to do, be up one hundred percent honest.
Don't be sneaking and he can learn and know like, hey,
I ain't gonna be able to just be with just
you because it's somebody that accept that. Somebody most won't,
(22:58):
some won't accept the public. I feel like some people
will accept it, like on the low. But you know
that's just just my opinion, my opinion. All right, y'all,
I told you it was short when it's me be
in and out. So we done for today. I just
had to get the content going. We will be doing
(23:20):
another throwback episode this week, and can't y'all believe it, y'all,
we are. We are a little less than a month away,
a little more than a month away from season nine.
Got the fire coming. I hope y'all ready. I hope
y'all are ready. But until the NPSA signing out, thank
(23:41):
you for tuning in. I remember, keep your head of
lick in that car. Remember who you are making mine up,
don't let it make you. And always and I always remember.
I love us for really active
H m hm. What's up y'all? Okay, so I know
(00:35):
what you're thinking. Today is Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
The live stream goes live on Monday, and you were
one hundred percent right. However, yesterday I just couldn't do it.
But I'm here today and I got a lot to say.
So we're gonna cover some things today. It's only me today,
so we gotta keep content going. We just gotta keep
it going. You know, one more, get on stop no show.
(01:01):
I actually saw last night. I think I was laying
down or was it this morning? This morning talks with
two K He was live this morning and I just said,
and I had already kind of entertained the idea. I said,
we're just gonna be We're just gonna do it on Tuesday,
so it's only a one time thing. We back to
Monday next week. I got back in town yesterday and
(01:22):
I just was dragging, still low key, recovering. But we're
gonna cover some things. And as you see in the title,
so we got some things we gotta talk about. So
let's get to the first topic for today.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
All right.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So, now Adam Sandler is going viral for what he
wore to the Oscars. Now you know, the oscars is
when you pts. So Adam Sandler chose to do the opposite.
So let me share my screen so y'all can see
if y'all didn't see, and this is compliments of neighborhood talk.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Not going thing.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, So basically he you see what he got on.
He everybody said he invited to the barbecue. Somebody made
the joke. So he was just passing by. And you know,
I agree he tired of dressing up. And it's just
(02:37):
funny because somebody else he would saying. He said, I
know I would have found it as usual, and it's
just interesting to you know, it's it's interesting seeing that,
and and not in a bad way because one thing,
you know, I'm all for being the anomaly. But let's
just break this down. Like I said tonight, we I
(02:57):
shouldn't be before y'all long today. What does this have
to do with mental health? As we know the study
of how we act, think and feel. Right, we know
that we know this by now. Now in this case,
buddy said he ain't feel like put on no clothes.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Have you had those days where you're.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Supposed to be somewhere and you like, look me, coming
is the blessing, because really I really don't want to come.
Someone come as I am. Has it ever been you?
That's been me for sure?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You know?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And it's just he just say like and he made
a statement by doing that. He didn't cuss nobody out.
He ain't do nothing risky as far as like raunchy.
He didn't say anything racist, he didn't do anything rude,
he didn't call out no conspiracy theories. All he did
was come to the Oscars in a hoodie and some
basketball shorts. And I don't think anybody's ever done that.
(03:56):
And we talk about confidence, we talk about comfort, like,
imagine if you did that, would you do that? I
probably wouldn't. I mean, but he'dn't been to these events
for hundreds of years, and some of us ain't never
even been the one of them, you get what I'm saying.
So it's like it's kind of a little different. Now,
what would I do in this situation, ww Id and
(04:19):
this moment, I wouldn't have went to the Oscars dress
like that. However, if we want to extract what's going on,
what about doing something that's against the grain.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
But that's just my nature. So in that aspect.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I have to respect him because he's doing something that
is against the grain. But that's who he is. This
is not a role he's playing. He's naturally a you know, rebel.
I guess you could say that's the term we want
to use.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
He's natural.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Adam Sandler is naturally a rebel. So this isn't necessarily surprising,
but it's just interesting and I feel like, honestly.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
This is something good to see.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Most of these award shows have become, let's call it
what it is, full of conspiracies, full of satanic performances
and hand gestures, full of.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Just stupidity, full of people looking for a moment.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And one could argue he's looking for a moment, but
I believe he was just being himself. And if you
being yourself brings makes a moment, then that says something
about you, that says more about you than anything else.
What would Jesus do WWJD. Jesus would be the anomaly.
(05:31):
Jesus would stand out. I don't think he would go
in the mindset of trying to stand out.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
He would just be himself.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Now again, I don't think that Adam Sander did this
with the intention of trying to stand out. He was
just like, I don't he probably literally, I don't feel
like if somebody in the comments we saw was like
he just passing by. Was there a strict dress code,
that's the question we have to ask. I would assume
(05:58):
it is. Again, I've never been to that because I'm
not gonna fake the phone. But is there a specific
dress code or is it just kind of one of
those things where you just know what to do. Because
if it's no dress code, he's not being rebellious. But however,
if it was a dress code and he's being a rebel,
from that angle, it's kind of like, well, you're just
breaking the rules on purpose, which is still a statement.
(06:19):
But Jesus wouldn't break the rules on purpose unless they
went against the laws and rules and regulation of his
of yahweigh the most I got. If it didn't do that,
then he would follow the rules. So yeah, and the
dress code is not going against God. So it's kind
(06:39):
of like if that was the case, he wouldn't have
did if it was just like I want to be
comfortable then you know. But I felt like if Jesus
had went to the oscars, I think he would have
complied with a dress code, I believe. So let me
know what y'all think about that. WSMD. What's your men
do in this situation? Any time it is called for
(07:01):
you to stand out and be the anomaly, I'm all forward,
but there is a time in the place. But in
the same breath also, Adam Sandler's also a legend, so
he kind of can do what he want to do.
But in the same breath, it's like I would just
ask why are you doing that? You are you trying
to make a point? Do you just not feel like
putting on the suit? Because then somebody can say why
(07:22):
are you here? But like I said, he got away
with that because he is a legend. Now I'm gonna
ask this and I'm gonna take it there. What Adam
Sandler wearing that at the OSCAR has been a funny moment.
If he were black, if he was a black man
doing that, maybe this is the wrong person to use.
But if Chris Rock did that, if Will Smith did that,
(07:46):
Sam Yale did that, well people would he cause more
of a ruckus. And I ain't trying to turn this
to a race thing with this.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Someone just want to know. I believe it would be
a different reaction. I do.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
I believe wholeheartedly it would have been a different reaction.
Without a shout over out, it would have been a
different reaction.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
So we end off with that Adam Sandler is the.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Goat and he is the best. All right, let's move
on to the next topic for today. So I saw
a video and that this is complements of the Shade Room,
and it's about somebody who has was causing a ruckus
for some years. Let's let me show the screen so
(08:34):
we can see it, because apparently he has a new album,
All the Way Tory.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Lanes reveals album cover.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
He says to twenty twenty five, the comeback is personal
and he's teasing his comeback. A lot of mixed reviews.
People saying he corny, people saying free toy, people talking
about some he's insecure, he's laying. People still talking about
(09:05):
how he shot Meg. You know, it's still this has
become a man and woman debate with this whole he
shot her, he didn't tupac Lanes. You know, so people
people have a lot to say, People have a lot
to say. What else we want to keep scrolling this
(09:27):
a little bit longer. Free him until it's backwards. Twenty
out of teen is my prediction. Okay, so we can
start with that, because this ain't a video. We just
going through it.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
All right, All right, good stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Let's go into the next part, which is do what
does this have to do with mental health? Well, according
to him, the story with him and Meg didn't happen
the way she said it happened. Now, we're not about
to relive the Meg and Tory drama because this dad
that we'll here all day with that, and I'm really
not trying.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
But what I will say is, look, somebody came and
left after I said that. But what I will say
is him dropping his album, his comeback. I'm gonna say
the next part for the next one. But as far
as him, why did he do this? He's ready to
come back. I mean, of course people this to him,
but he ain't thising nobody right now. Is he gonna
(10:25):
get on his new album? And this made I don't know.
I wasn't in the studio with him, and I'm not
gonna be in the studio with him, But I don't know.
But what I can't say is after you'd have been
beat down verbally attacked, you know, canceled.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Anybody.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
People have to go back to that corner, lick their wounds,
to come back, ready for they comeback. Everybody deserves to
come back. You don't agree, y'all. Don't think Tory Lanez
deserves to come back. You think he should be canceled
and definitely like the rest of his life, something to
think about. Like I said, I ain't got this to
(11:05):
bounce off nobody today, but it's something I want to
ask the people now, WWID what would I do in
this situation if I was tarnished, if I was a
verbally you know, assaulted, if I'm in jail for something
that allegedly I didn't do, I would come back ready,
you know, come back for war two, you know what
I mean. And then when I say come back for what,
(11:27):
I don't mean come back starting mass was trying to attack.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
People or destroy people.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
But you want to come back to like, you know,
finish what you started. You had a good career up
until that point. It's also a proof of once again
being in connection with the wrong people because I said,
for both of them, they both knew each other wasn't
good a good fit. They shouldn't have been around each other.
I'm a thousand percent sure Megan A. Stallion and Tory
Lanez both got the red flags and me both of
(11:53):
them was toxic. But you know, like see here fifty cent,
people can't leave each other alone, and people like that
toxic stuff, people of toxicity.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
And now.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
You know they're paying for it in different ways. I
have had to pay for it.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
WJD WWJD. What would Jesus do?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Now, let's get into this part, because this one I
find most interesting. We always preach about redemption. We always
preach about, you know, a person being restored, a person
come and being able to come back. So with him
making a comeback, what if he came back, What if
(12:34):
Tory Lanez came back and made an apology record to Megan?
What if he came back and made an apology record,
what would y'all say?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Then we still be canceled again.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I'm sorry I was not there, and I'm not saying
she didn't get shot. I'm not saying he didn't shoot it.
But I'm just a firm believer that was a hangovernight.
It was some probably some drugs involved. We know it
was a liquor and it just goes to show you
what happens when all these foreign substances around and you're
doing something you ain't supposed to be doing. I said
for the longest he should be held account of go
(13:06):
especially for having that gun, because why was it out.
You know, it's kind of like if they did shoot,
if he did shoot, you know, cool, not cool, not cool.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But what I'm saying is I would have hated to.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I just would have hated to him have done that
for real and then steep saying he innocent. But he's
very adam me and he didn't do it, even with
all the evidence. So it's like, I don't know, I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
It's just a lot.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
I didn't It was a lot, but it was a
lot of people involved that shouldn't have been there. And WSMD,
whats your men do? There's nothing wrong with Poston to
come back after all you did. All I can say
is if he come back, and if he did do it,
I just would like for him to just say he
(14:02):
did it and own up to everything that he did do.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
But in the same breath, and no.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Matter what the evidence looked like, if you didn't do something,
don't fold they say you did it just so people
can leave you alone. I'm a firm believer God is
your vindicator and although you might not see the results
when you want to see him, I'm a firm believer
that if you really just allowed God to move, and
you gonna keep saying I didn't do it, I didn't
do it, you know. So my case, I gotta text
(14:33):
the other day sidebar story kind of lines, and I
got a text basically saying Isaiah J.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Williams has been arrested a charge with criminal mischief. So
I'm like what.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
So I'm looking at my phone. I'm like, maybe this
is scam, a spam, but I said maybe I'm tripping.
Get a phone call maybe a hour later from the
Bell Bonds and they say, can we speak to Isaiah Williams.
I'm like, I'm dancing around the question. Finally our answer
and they said, wait, so this Isaiah william was in jail.
(15:05):
I said no, I'm right here, and they can you
confirm your birthday?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
And I said yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
They said, okay, well they got the wrong one. So
basically it's another Isaiah Jay Williams that live in Houston
with we have different birthdays, both in the same month
and different years, but maybe say so Isaiah J. William
June nineteen ninety, so they probably just like, oh, it's
the same person.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Imagine if I got pulled over.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Imagine if I got pulled over, that wouldn't have been good.
That'd have been terrible. Actually, that would have been horrible.
All right, y'all, let's get into the final question today.
(15:52):
This is actually I feel like a follow up to
last week with Neo, and I have my my theory
as to why I think this is being done. This
is not the second time this conversation has come up,
so I'm going to share my screen. This is on
Maria on the Sherry Shepherd Show, and he's speaking on
non monogamy. So let's let's let's watch this and then
(16:14):
we're gonna give.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Our take.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
In my share for Hot Topics about actor Kofee zero
Bo and he says that he practices.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
Ethical non monogamy. Okay, do you think that's a good idea?
Ethical non monogamy?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Well, I will say I'm in agreeance. You know, I
don't know all of the backstory of those words, but
I would say for me, being open is important. And also,
you know, the women just truly outnumber the men, you
know what I mean? And this is you're supposed to have.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Is this like all you can eat buffet over here?
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I'm not let me just say it's only a few
good men. It's only a few good right, you know.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
And whether or not it's.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
Whether or not it's a physical thing, you know, we
end up fostering the next generation as well. So why
not have our our queens or the women, because because
I was raised by all women, I mean, why not
have our queens aligned with that that it takes a village.
It's not gonna just be one man, you know. You
you even you could get married, that man still ain't
(17:25):
gonna be just your man. He's gonna be, you know,
there for his daughter. He's gonna be there for his mom,
his grandmother.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
You know.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
So this concept isn't really foreign. It's it's just a
little old you know, and it's it's meant to be upgrading.
And I love this conversation because I think when men
are open and honest that they don't want to have
just this one thing for the rest of their life,
it gives a woman an opportunity to choose.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I was talking about in mind cheer for hot topics
about actor kofee. Okay, let's let's let's let's do it.
Just have to do mental health, so to study of
how we think and feel. You know, there's a new
narrative being pushed and it's not new, but it's being pushed.
I'm gonna call it what it is. I think this
(18:09):
non monogamy thing is being pushed. I think a lot
of people like discipline, A lot of people don't want
to be committed to one woman because well, men were
technically supposed to be this well, and I get everybody
don't believe in the Bible, and I get it's a
lot of the pastors and thing Christian men who was
(18:30):
out here cheating and having two or three wives and
all that stuff and girlfriends and a wife and all
that and a mischief.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
I get all that. And I'm not gonna try to
hit it with you, which I.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Could with the just what the Bible says about one man,
one woman, right, I could go that route, and like,
I'm not perfect, but at the end of the day,
there's a standard we have to live by, and where
I'm at in my life, I believe that I have
to live by that standard as best that I can
and do obviously with the help of God. And there's
a lot of changes that have been made and gonna
continue to be made.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
But what I will say is.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Even just you, you just lack discipline, just just saying
I ain't got the discipline for one person, and it's
somebody who will accept that.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
I'm sure it is. But you know, I think Omar
is a great artist.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
I think that he, if not a legend, could possibly
be a legend in training if he ain't won. He
definitely has a nice you know record or a nice
you know track record and all that good stuff. But
I just think in that moment that that is just
a message that's being pushed right now now. And this
is the second week in a row we heard something
(19:40):
about this, and that's why I went ahead and went
because the first I was gonna talk about this, but
then I'm like, now, let's talk about it.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Because it's the second week. This is being pushed by
another black man in the in the music industry.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Especially, and I just believe this is they're trying to
really push this. I believe polyamory, polygamy, all this stuff
is being pushed. But I I just wish people will
be honest and just say I don't have a discipline
for it. And I'm sure there's some.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Men that do.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
But wwid, what would I do in this situation? So
I wouldn't be in this situation. I would never do that.
But what I will say is going back to I
guess going against the grain.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Gotta play both sides of the ball here.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
If you're gonna do something that goes against the norm,
be prepared for backlash. We started with Adam Sandler, started
with Tory Lanez, and I was seeing that with a
Mark Go be prepared for a backlash when you're going
against the grain, be prepared for an attack, be prepared
(20:39):
for an opposition, be prepared for the for the ops,
be prepared for people to not like it, to challenge it,
and to criticize you for it.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
So, although I don't agree with.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
What he's doing, and I do believe there's an agenda
behind this, because agendas do exist, I think that he
hate him going again the grain and standing up for
what he believes in. I have to as a man,
I have to respect that. But at the same time,
it's like the year this is just a down a
(21:13):
lonely role and then I have to ask, because men
are doing it too, what does that say about your
self worth? If you're in a relationship and you're okay
with them, be given, not given? They're all to you.
They're giving their all to other people. You know, they're
not giving the all to one person. Wwjg w w
(21:40):
j D. What would Jesus do? What would Jesus do
in this situation? It wouldn't be in It wouldn't be
having multiple wives. And also and also ethically morally correct
thing to do. We can get into the debate about
your moraybody's morals is different, but ethically morally correct. It's polyamory, ethic,
morally correct. Let's let's roll down. There is polyamory, polygamy,
(22:07):
you know, the non monogamy kind of lifestyle. Is that ethical?
Is that morally correct? I'm I'm an I'm gonna post it.
I want you all to tell me. I want people
in the comments to tell me, like you missing it?
It is this, It is that, And don't get into
the what our ancestors. There's a lot of stuff they
did we shouldn't be doing. So let's let's not even
(22:28):
go down that road.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
There's a lot of stuff they did, we shouldn't be doing.
W S M D.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
What's your men do in this situation? Again, I am
not for polyamory. I'm not for none of that, but
I'm all of men being honest. And if that's what
you plan to do, be up one hundred percent honest.
Don't be sneaking and he can learn and know like, hey,
I ain't gonna be able to just be with just
you because it's somebody that accept that. Somebody most won't,
(22:58):
some won't accept the public. I feel like some people
will accept it, like on the low. But you know
that's just just my opinion, my opinion. All right, y'all,
I told you it was short when it's me be
in and out. So we done for today. I just
had to get the content going. We will be doing
(23:20):
another throwback episode this week, and can't y'all believe it, y'all,
we are. We are a little less than a month away,
a little more than a month away from season nine.
Got the fire coming. I hope y'all ready. I hope
y'all are ready. But until the NPSA signing out, thank
(23:41):
you for tuning in. I remember, keep your head of
lick in that car. Remember who you are making mine up,
don't let it make you. And always and I always remember.
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