How to Test If a Guy Really Wants YOU!

Hi my Angels !!!!

Wow, throw back to uploading long episodes! I have not had one of these in a while!

Today we are discussing how to tell wether or not a guy wants us. I discuss in the video, the different ways to identify if its lust or love!

This was inspired by an article I read by GL Lambert, he is one of my my favorite relationship coaches! https://farfrombasyc.com/2020/02/love...

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Episode Transcript

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this video. This is a very very popular subject, I
should say, and I really feel like it's very timely.

(02:09):
How do you know if a guy really wants you?
What is the difference between love and lust? So this
is actually inspired by an article that I read by
one of my favorite people, gl Lambert. I'll actually link
the article in the description box below as well. But

(02:29):
I really want to dive into this topic. So guys
say a lot of things. I mean, people honestly say
a lot of things all the time. Guys will even
go as far as saying the L word love and
not even love you. Now, what's that about. Let's dive
on into it. I completely understand people being skeptical, especially

(02:55):
the dating pool, the dating culture in the world today.
I am outside of my body. It is. It's less instellar,
it's subpar. We don't like it here, it's ghetto. However,
I want to point this out. The purpose of this
channel is not to get you to hate men. This

(03:18):
is not a hate trained sort of thing. My job
is to put you guys on to the dating culture
and hopefully get you guys to better understand how men operate.
To the best of my ability. Obviously, because I still
am a woman, a lot of times our experiences do
shape us. But I don't want that to jade you

(03:39):
in any way or permit you to have a pessimistic
outlook on dating as a whole. So now, because men
are lust driven, they do not trust their feelings, and
that's why a lot of times you'll see guys that
will stay with a girl that they shouldn't be with,
and well conveniently the ones that they should be with

(04:03):
the ones that they would be most compatible with, they
tend to kind of treat like they are disposable. And
because a lot of the times, more times than not,
this happens to guys, they actually do get hurt very
often and early. Because imagine this, Imagine constantly choosing people

(04:26):
solely on their looks all the time. I mean, I
like good looking people, you know, but good looking is arbitrary, right,
So as you evolve as a woman, as a wise person,
you cannot make decisions solely based on how people look

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because once that sort of dies down and you get
used to someone, then you got to deal with their personality.
You got to deal with a multitude of different factors
outside of their appearance, and that's when the real work
actually starts to kick in. But because men do this,
and they oftentimes choose people for the wrong reasons, sometimes

(05:09):
that leads them to start playing games. So let's be
clear on this. If you don't know, now you know,
lust fades why because it's not sustainable. And like gl said,
that's why we find ourselves in situations where there's poor
communication after a while, or we get ghosted. And that's

(05:30):
because well, a lot of the times when they come
in hot and heavy, they leave just like that. How
you get them is always how you lose them, all right,
that same intensity, in that passion that they had in
pursuing you, they do the exact opposite. They leave ghosts,
no trace, nothing, no words, nothing, They just cease all communication,

(05:53):
leaving you confused. And this is what I really like
that he mentions. Gl says in the same art goal
that love is when lust comes floating down, not crashing down.
And I actually agree with this. You know, there was
this lady one time that said to me that the
guy that you're meant to be with is not going

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to make you feel super jittery and anxious all the time.