October 2, 2025 • 31 mins
In this highly requested dating, love, and relationship advice episode, I will share tips on how to use your feminine charm when dating. Learning to use your feminine charm properly will help you quickly meet the man of your dreams. You can use your feminine charm on first dates, online dating, or elsewhere in the dating process. Embrace this dating advice to learn the power of seduction using your feminine charm. If you are open to improving your dating game, learning to use your feminine charm will be a game changer. I want you to be able to harness the power of seduction using your feminine charm. From body language to communication techniques, I will explain how to exude confidence and grace while using your femininity in any situation. Using your feminine charm can be powerful in both personal and professional situations. When using your feminine charm in a romantic context, it's important to remember that consent and respect are always vital. By understanding how to use your feminine charm in a positive and empowering way, you can become a more effective communicator, leader, and partner. I'm Just a girl who's trying to build a longer table instead of a fence. My goal is to help you transform your life with my combination of personal development, human psychology, sophistication, and inner and outer beauty tips. This video will give you clarity if you are asking the following questions or looking for;
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello, Angel. Wow, it feels really good to be back. Guys.
I feel incredible. And for those of you that don't know,
I was dealing with some you know, stuff with my grandma.
She actually is still in the hospital and we're just
remaining positive. So I really appreciate all of you guys'
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well wishes and your prayers and your encouragement. It means
the world to me. And it has been pretty eventful
these last two months that I've been on YouTube. I mean,
everything has just been happening so fast. But nonetheless, I'm
just so thankful for all of you guys. You guys
are seriously my angels, and I mean that because you
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guys really have saved me, you know, in more ways
than you could ever imagine. And that is also why
my depression story that I actually want to post, I
want to make it more visual for you guys, So
I want to make sure that when I put the
video out that it's very engaging and it's not just
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me doing a sit down talk this specific manner. So
with that being said, I think that it is definitely
time that I do a video on this topic, which is,
as you can see from the title, how to use
your feminine charm aka how to seduce. Now, there's a
million ways to do this, so this is just like
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the tip of the iceberg because there's so many different
factors and there's different circumstances that you would alter whatever
you know and make it suitable for that specific situation.
But you guys already know the drill before we get
into this video. I want you to follow me on Instagram,
which will be right here of course, and also do
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not forget to subscribe to this channel. We are so
close to fifteen k, and I just have to add
that this is really a monumental moment for me, because yes,
you know, all of these milestones are great, but specifically,
on my vision board, I wrote down that I wanted
fifteen k subscribers and the fact that I'm close to
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that and my Instagram and my YouTube channel are literally
neck and neck. So my Instagram is at fourteen point
five and then my channel is basically at fourteen point five.
So I'm just like, oh my gosh, what's gonna go
up first? I don't know, but nonetheless that was my
goal and I see it coming into a reality and
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I just couldn't be more grateful. I don't want to
talk any further. Let's just bring into this video guys
how to use your feminine charm aka how to seduce.
So want to state as a disclaimer, right that men
love to chase. If you don't know, now, you know,
men love to chase. Women are so powerful. We do
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not understand how powerful we are. And that's why we
found ourselves in situations where we're settling, you know, or
entertaining people that are below what we should be with
or entertaining. You understand my point. The key to successfully
utilizing your feminine charm and seducing is to choose the
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right person, or you could say, choosing the right victim
per se. Now, I also just want to stay as
a disclaimer, you're not going to agree with every single
thing that I say in this video, and that's okay.
We live in a big world. This world is very opinionated.
I understand that. I accept that it is what it is.
But before you start typing away angrily at me and
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saying I don't understand why you're making a video about this.
No one wants to play games. I don't know who
would fall for this, YadA, YadA, YadA. Honestly, If you
choose to not take this advice, more power to you.
But this is for people that actually want to play
the game the right way and are open to my suggestions.
Nothing I say is set in stone. I always tell
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you guys that everything is circumstantial. So these are just
some simple tips and tricks and guidelines I wrote down
for tip number one that you need to take care
of yourself. I mean, this is really simple. Men are
very visual, right, so a part of the seduction is,
of course, what you're wearing. The first thing you notice
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when you look at someone are their features, usually their
face you know, maybe you liked, or even their outfit.
What I'm saying is everything is visual, especially for men.
And also when you look good and you know you
look good, you carry yourself with confidence, and that is
an aura within its own and when you exude that
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and it just oozes out of you, that makes you
more attractive as well. And this, I would say is
to get the guy in the beginning. And tip number
two is also a way in getting the guy as well.
Smelling good. I've said this a thousand times over. I
cannot even express how important this is. Smelling good is
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key in your seduction in your feminine, charm, in your femininity.
I like that word. But yeah, when you look good
and you smell good, your sense is literally working its
own magic already. Okay, it makes you memorable, and that
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makes you more appealing. I mean, come on, ladies, you know,
and I've used this example before. When you see a
guy or you smell a guy that walks past you,
even if he's not even necessarily your type, you just
have to turn around and look at that person because
you're just so engulfed in and what was that smell?
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That smelled very good? It's intoxicating. Yeah, So if you
are attractive, you're dressed well, and you smell good, the
floor is being worked. I would say Tip number three
is when you're dating the guy, right, be a flirty mystery.
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If a guy can't really figure you out, he's going
to try. And that's the goal here, because a lot
of the times I get a lot of dms of
ladies telling me, oh my gosh, I was talking to
this guy and I got ghosted and all of these things.
And there are multiple factors to why that may have been.
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But we are just way too forthcoming with a lot
of information myself included. I've been guilty of that. You're
just giving up too much. It's kind of like, oh God,
where's the wonder you know? I know everything about you.
It's just instinctual to men. They need to chase, draw
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him in, and then pull away. Uh skirt issha, what
are you talking about? What do you mean that's playing games? Yes,
it's playing games, babe, because it's all about the game.
And if you think about it, we are reversing roles.
That's not to say have masculine energy. This is still
using your feminine energy. So what you're gonna do is
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you act like you really like him, especially in the beginning.
This is exactly what men do, and then pull away.
That's exactly what men do. What it's going to do
is instead of you being the one saying I can't
believe he didn't text me back. I can't believe he
didn't call me. He didn't even ask me when he's
gonna see me the next time, you're the one that's
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doing that, not really answering his text messages, or not
answering his text messages as fast, very delayed responses, busy
if he calls you, oh, only being on the phone
for a very short time. Hey, I'm so sorry, I'm
really busy. Hey, can I call you back at a
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later time. I'll let you know, I'll text you, Okay,
I bye, and the end phone call boom. It's like, wait,
I went on a date with this girl and she
seemed like she was really into me, and now all
of a sudden, she's like not really into me. But
the trick in that is the psychology in that is
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it's mixed messages because what you're doing is you're being
delayed in your responses, but when you respond, you are engaging.
So if he asks you out and says, hey, I
really enjoyed hanging out with you last week. I'd love
to plan something again. When is the next time that
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you're free? Oh yeah, Oh my gosh, I really had
a great time too. I'm not really sure. I'll let
you know. You don't let him know. Two days have
gone by, you haven't said a word. You haven't let
him know. Okay, he texts you again, Hey, are you
free this week? I know you mentioned, you know, last week,
that you were gonna let me know, like if you're
a freezinga. I'm so sorry, I really forgot to let
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you know because my schedule is so hectic, but I
should be free on Friday. Okay. So now you just
rilled him back in because now he's thinking, oho, oh
my gosh, okay, like she does want to see me again.
So this is good, But you didn't say you were
actually gonna show up on Friday. If he listened to
your words, you just said you should be free on Friday, okay.
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So now this is like he's wishing on a hope
here that maybe you are going to go on a
date with him on Friday or not. And whether you
do or not, you know, that's fine. That's not going
to mess anything up whether you decide to go or
if you don't. And honestly, if you don't, I don't
think it's necessarily going to make him lose interest. You
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can easily argue that he might, but again, if he
does lose interest just that fast, he's not in it
for the long haul really anyway, because this is how
you get the guy, Like, if he can't even understand
that you are legitimately busy, then why why should you
give him any more of your time? Because what if
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you actually legitimately did have something planned and he just
stopped talking to you because you couldn't meet him on
Friday when you said you might be able to meet
him on Friday. Yeah. No, you just say what I'm saying.
You have to understand to get the prize, which is you. Okay,
efforts and consistency must be shown these tests and these
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tricks that we are doing men innately do so. Yeah,
it may seem like a little, you know, effort has
to be put on your behalf to kind of maybe
pretend like you're not as interested. But what do I
always preach, angels? What do I always preach? Have a roster?
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Why are you devoting your time to Jason? And Jason
is talking to Christina Whitney, Brittany KEI, key, do you
love me? Are you right? I had to anyway, You
understand my point. He's doing his own thing. You gotta
be doing your own thing. You will be much more
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at ease if you have other options. Do not pour
all of your eggs into one basket. Do not tip
number four create barriers? Okay, Canceling dates? Ooh, yes, I
said it. Canceling dates is a form of creating barriers.
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Why even I said in one of my videos before.
I don't know if it was the last thing that
I that I made. You don't want to always appear
so available. Don't always be so easily accessible. It's not
going to make him lose interest if you're unavailable. It's
going to actually make him want to see you more
because he wanted to see you and he couldn't. And
it's like, dang, I gotta see her again. You understand
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how that works. You know, it really is true. The
absence does make the heart grow fonder, right, especially when
you did tips one and two. You look good, you
smell good. Oh my god, all he's doing is thinking,
oh my gosh, Like she's so beautiful, she's so well dressed,
she's so you know, intelligent, she smells amazing. I have
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to see this woman again. She was such a mystery.
You were so charming, you know. And I believe also
a part of seducing is facial expressions, body language. So
I know, for me when I talk, yes, as you
can see, I talk a lot with my hands. I
talk a lot with my eyes, and this is something
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that is just naturally me. I've always been very expressive
with my hands, my facial expressions, my eyes. It's just
how I am. And I remember one time I was
seeing this guy and I said to him, how would
you describe me? And he said, you were very charming,
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And I couldn't understand when he said that to me,
I was like charming, but I think he was saying
that I am very like seducing and it's charming my
charisma how I am. It just like reels them in.
But of course you can reel them in, but we
got to keep them if that's what you want. Back
to creating barriers, like I said, canceling dates, like I
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mentioned before, is a form of creating a barrier because
you don't want to be easily accessible. Not allowing him
to call you babe, that bass we've been dating for
all of two weeks or a month, the fact that
he feels like he does and have that access to
just call you babe, because I mean, ninety nine percent
of the rest of the world is easily letting the
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you know, people that they're seeing do it. Not even
that it's a really big issue. This is just something
that's circumstantial. If this is something that you choose as
a barrier, then that's fine. If you know it's not
really that big of a deal. If you do let
him call you babe or not, it's really not that
big of a deal. But it's just a form of
a barrier. It's like, uh, another rule that I have
to abide by. This is interesting, I'm not used to this.
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I want to know more. Yeah, when little terms just
like calling you babe happen, it kind of makes a
guy feel like he kind of already has you in
his head. But of course, if you were to push
for that, you know, commitment right away prematurely, it's he
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would of course back away and say, what just because
I call you babe doesn't mean you're my babe. But
in his head it's like a blanket term for check.
Got that. In a way, the key to creating barriers
is to not make him comfortable thinking that he already
has you. No, just when he thinks he discovered you
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or he's getting a grip, oh, he doesn't. And that's
a part of sending those mixing and confusing sort of signals.
You show interest, you pull away when you do this,
when you flip the rolls, because normally it's us on
the other side experiencing this, you reel him in and
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again this is all tests to see if he really
genuinely likes you. And yeah, you can argue, oh, I
don't want to go through all that. Okay, let me
talk to the people that do right. You want to win,
let's win. You have to do some of these things.
You have to do all of these things if anything,
in your own way, tailor it to make it fit you.
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I'm telling you this stuff works because if you think
about it, normally, it is us, like I said, that
is on the other side experiencing these things, inconsistent behavior,
and you're texting him, you're sad because he hasn't called
you back yet. You're wondering when is he going to
see you again? All of these things Guys naturally do
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this one. Like I mentioned before, men, especially in the beginning,
they're not dropping everyone to see just you. They're not
so neither should you. When you play the game of
doing interest and being so engaging and acting like you
like him so much, you know, having the most amazing
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time when you guys are together having an amazing conversation,
and then when he texted you all of a sudden,
you're not really as fast to respond. Things like that,
it makes him feel like oh my gosh, does she
like me or not? When we went out, she kind
of seemed like she liked me, But now she's I
don't really understand what she's doing. Like it's gonna make
them try harder and they're gonna justify their actions in
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their head by thinking, all right, well, I mean I
do like her, I do want to see her again,
so I might as well just like give it another go, right,
And that's how you start to wheel him in. The power, babe,
is in your hands. You have the power. Prime example. Okay,
I was talking to this guy one time and my
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friend called me and she said, hey, come to the
city with me and my friends. I want you to
like meet a couple of my friends. Now, the guy
lived fairly close to me, and I wasn't really sure
if I wanted to go into the city, but it's
my friend, and I am a girl's girl, so I
didn't want to leave my girl hanging. And I was
thinking out loud to the guy, which I shouldn't have
been doing anyway, He's not my girlfriend. He's a guy,
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and I was like, Okay, I just want to think
out loud, and my friend wants me to go meet
with her in the city. I think I was doing
it to seek some sort of validation of I want
to see how bad he really wants to see me.
That's why I did what I did. I was explaining
to him, my friend wants me to go to the city,
but I know that you also do want to see
me too, because he texted me about he texted me,
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but like five minutes before, my friend had messaged me
and said, Hey, i'll be home around this time. Do
you want to order in some food? And when I
texted him, I responded in a weird way, saying yeah,
I'll see or something like that. But in my head
I was saying I'll see what I'll do because I
was debating on whether or not I was going to
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go with my friend in the city or maybe see him.
So when I called him to explain to him the situation,
he goes, oh, yeah, so just let me know what
you're gonna do. And I was thinking what, like I
thought he would say, like, but I want to see
you something more. So that got me upset a little.
So I was like, Wow, he's just gonna give up
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that easily like ill. And that was a teaching moment
for me right there, but you living you learn, Okay.
I texted him and I said, so I'm gonna go
with my friend or something like that. I think that's
what I said, and I was expecting him to respond
at least say okay, like half of then I'll see
you another day in the week. He does not respond
to me at all. I called him on the phone
and I said, hey, did you get my text? And
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he's like, yeah, I did. And I was like, okay,
that required a response, and he goes, well, what do
you want me to say to that, Like, I'm not
second best? So he felt like I was making him
a second option because I was going out with my friend.
And it's just funny because that never even worked anyway
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really with him. But the case in point of that
story is the fact that I was willing to choose
someone else, I guess over him made him feel like
I was really cheating him second best. So in this case,
his reaction was all right, then do whatever you want.
Then what I kind of did was I placed a
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little bug in his head making him think, man, I
must not really be that important. I mean I literally
asked her if she wanted to order in food and
she would rather go hang out with her friends than
spend time with me, And so that's playing on a
little insecurity. He has the fact that he even said
to me, well, I'm not second best, he's he was
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insecure about that, and he felt like, Okay, well, I
mean go if you're gonna choose your friends like over me,
because clearly you don't want to hang out with me anyway.
So yeah, creating space, right, which goes right into giving
and pulling back right. This is when you're dating the guy.
You can't do this if you don't have anyone that
you're even seeing. It creates a sort of illusion of fear,
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especially if this person likes you because you're so engaging
and charming. It's creating a fear of oh my gosh,
I don't want to lose this girl. Why is it
that she's showing interest? But then she's not really that
engaged with me? Does she like me? I have such
a good time when I'm with her though, So I'm
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pretty sure she does like me, because when we hang out,
we do have a good time. But I mean, is
she seeing other people? Like? I don't know, Like, is
she really that busy that she I need to figure
out more, I need to try harder. And when he's
doing this, he starts to reflect on how you make
him feel, you know, when you're with him, by creating
this space and not being so easily accessible, And then
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he's thinking about what he has to do to keep
your attention. We're just ruling them in because during this duration,
let's say the first like two or three months, he's
emotionally and financially investing in you. You guys are going
on dates, he's calling you all of these things, and
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you got your people on the side because you're not
dropping anyone. Has he he really likes you. You have
him wrapped around your finger. And I want to give
a prime example of this. Ladies, we've all experienced guys
that we are not really that into, and they show
us so much attention, but we ignore them. And it's
so easy to ignore them because we don't really have
any feelings for them. But it's harder to do that
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when you know that you actually like someone. Right, But
for men, because they already have options before they step
into a situation, and they don't step into a situation assuming, Okay,
my goal here is this is going to be my
wife you know this is going to be my girlfriend.
They don't step in with that mindset normally. They step in,
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especially the younger they are, they step in with the
mindset of normally i'd like to maybe I don't even
want to talk about it, but let's see where this goes. Right,
You do the same thing until he has proven himself
worthy of your effort, your consistency. Nothing changes, nothing changes.
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And tip number five, this is racy, this is a
real tip. Okay, but if you like them, make them
wait longer. The longer the better, the longer, the more respect.
Half the time, if they're not even really that interested,
they won't even wait that long. They'll be out right.
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If you even dance around the idea. Men are just men.
Love the promise, the thoughts of being with you right intimately,
That alone hooks them in. Here's a prime example. Right,
you guys are hanging out. Let's say you're at his place.
I'm not talking about a week later. You're at his place,
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and no, maybe give it a month, month and a
half before you step foot on his land. You guys
are at his place, you know, just hanging out and
watching some TV in the living room. He starts kids,
things get steamy, a little touchy feely, and you pump
the brakes skirtskirt. Now he's just like enthralled. What's going on?
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I thought this was gonna go to the next level.
You know, let's get food? What I mean I thought
we were I mean, come on, like what about what
we were like, you know, doing? I want to get food? Okay,
So now you just pumped the brakes so hard. He's
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just like trying to process what happened. He's trying to
just calm down, and you're just like, let's get food.
So now the ultimatum, I think in his head translates
as all right, do what she says and then maybe
it'll happen. That's probably it's translating in that moment because
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he's very vulnerable in that moment. So he's gonna do
what you sa say and then in the I mean,
in the end, what does he expect you to just
go get food and then come back. No, it doesn't
work like that. Purpose is he did what you said
and you pumped the brakes. You just created another barrier
just like that, and that is very engaging. That's gonna
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seduce him, will him in because now he's gonna think, Okay,
it got you know, see me, like, what can I
do again to kind of like get it to that level?
I don't know. Wait wait wait, wait, wait, the longer
the better. And I said a month to maybe a
month month and a half to me we visit his house.
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I didn't say a month anything else. I'm just talking
about statistics, guys. I'm just talking about the research that
I've done and then I've read okay, okay. Or you
can simply say, you know, if you don't want to
pull the food the situation, you can simply say, uh sorry,
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like I'm just it's not ready yet, you know, well,
like are you waiting for anything in particular, no matter
what your reason is, whether that be religious or you
simply just wanting to play by the rules and not
just like you know, bussing it open worldwide. He has
to wait. It's really funny how men work, right, They
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want to push, push, push, push, push for that right,
but if you were to, you know, just give it
when they push, they just lose interest, just like that.
It's just innately how they are. They want to push, push,
push for what they want, and then if they get it, prematurely,
it loses its value. People value even in general. This
is a general rule. People value what they invest time, effort, attention,
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money into. People value that, So you have to be
that to get that respect. You can't just hand someone
something like that for free and with no effort being done.
I see some girls commenting on my channel, Oh well,
I mean that's unrealistic. I feel like I have needs too. Okay, well,
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I'm talking to the ladies that want to establish respect
and genuine commitment. This is all part of the game, right.
Some of the people that are married, a lot of
them usually have a similar story of Oh, I was
talking to her, but she didn't really show me interest
at first, and like that kind of like made me
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more interested in her. Even my own parents, guys, my
mom canceled. I guess the first two three dates that
my dad wanted to take my mom on. And my
dad liked my mom so much he was like, Okay,
one more time. I'm gonna try one more time to
see if she's gonna like go out with me, And
she's finally said yes. Hello. Beyonce herself even said is doon.
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As you show interest, guys usually lose interest, So You
always have to keep your power and keep your leverage.
Never allow them to feel comfortable like they got you.
They're gonna get bored. Men like to play games, they hunt,
they That's just how they are. That's just how they are.
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Even if you are married, you gotta keep things new.
That's just how it is. Ultimately, you're doing all of
this to establish commitment if that's what you want. If
you're young and you just want to date and you
just want to have fun, okay, well, then you're just
playing by the rules like you should to avoid unnecessary
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heartbreak and to be ready to settle down by time
you actually feel mature enough and ready to settle. Establishing
respect and value makes you more desirable. How you deliver
them with the accessories of looking good, smelling good, How
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you talk to them, how you touch them, how you
engage with them. Your body language, what is it saying?
Your voice when you talk? Are youseff spoken? Feel it out?
Start to discern. You have to be an expert at
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yourself and knowing what works. It's easy to say, oh,
this isn't going to work on everyone. Well duh, does
everything work on everyone? No? That's why I said in
the beginning. You have to choose the right person to
do that. You have to know the type of person
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or discern the type of person that you're trying to
do these things with. You have to know your victim.
This is just honest. This is honesty, honesty at its best. Okay.
I also want to add smiling a lot very feminine. Skirts, stresses,
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very feminine. We all know this. I like to wear
stuff that has bows on it. It's very feminine. So, guys,
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Hello, Angel. Wow, it feels really good to be back. Guys.
I feel incredible. And for those of you that don't know,
I was dealing with some you know, stuff with my grandma.
She actually is still in the hospital and we're just
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everything has just been happening so fast. But nonetheless, I'm
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guys really have saved me, you know, in more ways
than you could ever imagine. And that is also why
my depression story that I actually want to post, I
want to make it more visual for you guys, So
I want to make sure that when I put the
video out that it's very engaging and it's not just
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me doing a sit down talk this specific manner. So
with that being said, I think that it is definitely
time that I do a video on this topic, which is,
as you can see from the title, how to use
your feminine charm aka how to seduce. Now, there's a
million ways to do this, so this is just like
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the tip of the iceberg because there's so many different
factors and there's different circumstances that you would alter whatever
you know and make it suitable for that specific situation.
But you guys already know the drill before we get
into this video. I want you to follow me on Instagram,
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that and my Instagram and my YouTube channel are literally
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So I'm just like, oh my gosh, what's gonna go
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goal and I see it coming into a reality and
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I just couldn't be more grateful. I don't want to
talk any further. Let's just bring into this video guys
how to use your feminine charm aka how to seduce.
So want to state as a disclaimer, right that men
love to chase. If you don't know, now, you know,
men love to chase. Women are so powerful. We do
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not understand how powerful we are. And that's why we
found ourselves in situations where we're settling, you know, or
entertaining people that are below what we should be with
or entertaining. You understand my point. The key to successfully
utilizing your feminine charm and seducing is to choose the
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right person, or you could say, choosing the right victim
per se. Now, I also just want to stay as
a disclaimer, you're not going to agree with every single
thing that I say in this video, and that's okay.
We live in a big world. This world is very opinionated.
I understand that. I accept that it is what it is.
But before you start typing away angrily at me and
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saying I don't understand why you're making a video about this.
No one wants to play games. I don't know who
would fall for this, YadA, YadA, YadA. Honestly, If you
choose to not take this advice, more power to you.
But this is for people that actually want to play
the game the right way and are open to my suggestions.
Nothing I say is set in stone. I always tell
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you guys that everything is circumstantial. So these are just
some simple tips and tricks and guidelines I wrote down
for tip number one that you need to take care
of yourself. I mean, this is really simple. Men are
very visual, right, so a part of the seduction is,
of course, what you're wearing. The first thing you notice
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when you look at someone are their features, usually their
face you know, maybe you liked, or even their outfit.
What I'm saying is everything is visual, especially for men.
And also when you look good and you know you
look good, you carry yourself with confidence, and that is
an aura within its own and when you exude that
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and it just oozes out of you, that makes you
more attractive as well. And this, I would say is
to get the guy in the beginning. And tip number
two is also a way in getting the guy as well.
Smelling good. I've said this a thousand times over. I
cannot even express how important this is. Smelling good is
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key in your seduction in your feminine, charm, in your femininity.
I like that word. But yeah, when you look good
and you smell good, your sense is literally working its
own magic already. Okay, it makes you memorable, and that
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makes you more appealing. I mean, come on, ladies, you know,
and I've used this example before. When you see a
guy or you smell a guy that walks past you,
even if he's not even necessarily your type, you just
have to turn around and look at that person because
you're just so engulfed in and what was that smell?
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That smelled very good? It's intoxicating. Yeah, So if you
are attractive, you're dressed well, and you smell good, the
floor is being worked. I would say Tip number three
is when you're dating the guy, right, be a flirty mystery.
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If a guy can't really figure you out, he's going
to try. And that's the goal here, because a lot
of the times I get a lot of dms of
ladies telling me, oh my gosh, I was talking to
this guy and I got ghosted and all of these things.
And there are multiple factors to why that may have been.
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But we are just way too forthcoming with a lot
of information myself included. I've been guilty of that. You're
just giving up too much. It's kind of like, oh God,
where's the wonder you know? I know everything about you.
It's just instinctual to men. They need to chase, draw
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him in, and then pull away. Uh skirt issha, what
are you talking about? What do you mean that's playing games? Yes,
it's playing games, babe, because it's all about the game.
And if you think about it, we are reversing roles.
That's not to say have masculine energy. This is still
using your feminine energy. So what you're gonna do is
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you act like you really like him, especially in the beginning.
This is exactly what men do, and then pull away.
That's exactly what men do. What it's going to do
is instead of you being the one saying I can't
believe he didn't text me back. I can't believe he
didn't call me. He didn't even ask me when he's
gonna see me the next time, you're the one that's
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doing that, not really answering his text messages, or not
answering his text messages as fast, very delayed responses, busy
if he calls you, oh, only being on the phone
for a very short time. Hey, I'm so sorry, I'm
really busy. Hey, can I call you back at a
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later time. I'll let you know, I'll text you, Okay,
I bye, and the end phone call boom. It's like, wait,
I went on a date with this girl and she
seemed like she was really into me, and now all
of a sudden, she's like not really into me. But
the trick in that is the psychology in that is
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it's mixed messages because what you're doing is you're being
delayed in your responses, but when you respond, you are engaging.
So if he asks you out and says, hey, I
really enjoyed hanging out with you last week. I'd love
to plan something again. When is the next time that
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you're free? Oh yeah, Oh my gosh, I really had
a great time too. I'm not really sure. I'll let
you know. You don't let him know. Two days have
gone by, you haven't said a word. You haven't let
him know. Okay, he texts you again, Hey, are you
free this week? I know you mentioned, you know, last week,
that you were gonna let me know, like if you're
a freezinga. I'm so sorry, I really forgot to let
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you know because my schedule is so hectic, but I
should be free on Friday. Okay. So now you just
rilled him back in because now he's thinking, oho, oh
my gosh, okay, like she does want to see me again.
So this is good, But you didn't say you were
actually gonna show up on Friday. If he listened to
your words, you just said you should be free on Friday, okay.
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So now this is like he's wishing on a hope
here that maybe you are going to go on a
date with him on Friday or not. And whether you
do or not, you know, that's fine. That's not going
to mess anything up whether you decide to go or
if you don't. And honestly, if you don't, I don't
think it's necessarily going to make him lose interest. You
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can easily argue that he might, but again, if he
does lose interest just that fast, he's not in it
for the long haul really anyway, because this is how
you get the guy, Like, if he can't even understand
that you are legitimately busy, then why why should you
give him any more of your time? Because what if
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you actually legitimately did have something planned and he just
stopped talking to you because you couldn't meet him on
Friday when you said you might be able to meet
him on Friday. Yeah. No, you just say what I'm saying.
You have to understand to get the prize, which is you. Okay,
efforts and consistency must be shown these tests and these
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tricks that we are doing men innately do so. Yeah,
it may seem like a little, you know, effort has
to be put on your behalf to kind of maybe
pretend like you're not as interested. But what do I
always preach, angels? What do I always preach? Have a roster?
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Why are you devoting your time to Jason? And Jason
is talking to Christina Whitney, Brittany KEI, key, do you
love me? Are you right? I had to anyway, You
understand my point. He's doing his own thing. You gotta
be doing your own thing. You will be much more
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at ease if you have other options. Do not pour
all of your eggs into one basket. Do not tip
number four create barriers? Okay, Canceling dates? Ooh, yes, I
said it. Canceling dates is a form of creating barriers.
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Why even I said in one of my videos before.
I don't know if it was the last thing that
I that I made. You don't want to always appear
so available. Don't always be so easily accessible. It's not
going to make him lose interest if you're unavailable. It's
going to actually make him want to see you more
because he wanted to see you and he couldn't. And
it's like, dang, I gotta see her again. You understand
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how that works. You know, it really is true. The
absence does make the heart grow fonder, right, especially when
you did tips one and two. You look good, you
smell good. Oh my god, all he's doing is thinking,
oh my gosh, Like she's so beautiful, she's so well dressed,
she's so you know, intelligent, she smells amazing. I have
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to see this woman again. She was such a mystery.
You were so charming, you know. And I believe also
a part of seducing is facial expressions, body language. So
I know, for me when I talk, yes, as you
can see, I talk a lot with my hands. I
talk a lot with my eyes, and this is something
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that is just naturally me. I've always been very expressive
with my hands, my facial expressions, my eyes. It's just
how I am. And I remember one time I was
seeing this guy and I said to him, how would
you describe me? And he said, you were very charming,
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And I couldn't understand when he said that to me,
I was like charming, but I think he was saying
that I am very like seducing and it's charming my
charisma how I am. It just like reels them in.
But of course you can reel them in, but we
got to keep them if that's what you want. Back
to creating barriers, like I said, canceling dates, like I
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mentioned before, is a form of creating a barrier because
you don't want to be easily accessible. Not allowing him
to call you babe, that bass we've been dating for
all of two weeks or a month, the fact that
he feels like he does and have that access to
just call you babe, because I mean, ninety nine percent
of the rest of the world is easily letting the
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you know, people that they're seeing do it. Not even
that it's a really big issue. This is just something
that's circumstantial. If this is something that you choose as
a barrier, then that's fine. If you know it's not
really that big of a deal. If you do let
him call you babe or not, it's really not that
big of a deal. But it's just a form of
a barrier. It's like, uh, another rule that I have
to abide by. This is interesting, I'm not used to this.
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I want to know more. Yeah, when little terms just
like calling you babe happen, it kind of makes a
guy feel like he kind of already has you in
his head. But of course, if you were to push
for that, you know, commitment right away prematurely, it's he
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would of course back away and say, what just because
I call you babe doesn't mean you're my babe. But
in his head it's like a blanket term for check.
Got that. In a way, the key to creating barriers
is to not make him comfortable thinking that he already
has you. No, just when he thinks he discovered you
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or he's getting a grip, oh, he doesn't. And that's
a part of sending those mixing and confusing sort of signals.
You show interest, you pull away when you do this,
when you flip the rolls, because normally it's us on
the other side experiencing this, you reel him in and
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again this is all tests to see if he really
genuinely likes you. And yeah, you can argue, oh, I
don't want to go through all that. Okay, let me
talk to the people that do right. You want to win,
let's win. You have to do some of these things.
You have to do all of these things if anything,
in your own way, tailor it to make it fit you.
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I'm telling you this stuff works because if you think
about it, normally, it is us, like I said, that
is on the other side experiencing these things, inconsistent behavior,
and you're texting him, you're sad because he hasn't called
you back yet. You're wondering when is he going to
see you again? All of these things Guys naturally do
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this one. Like I mentioned before, men, especially in the beginning,
they're not dropping everyone to see just you. They're not
so neither should you. When you play the game of
doing interest and being so engaging and acting like you
like him so much, you know, having the most amazing
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time when you guys are together having an amazing conversation,
and then when he texted you all of a sudden,
you're not really as fast to respond. Things like that,
it makes him feel like oh my gosh, does she
like me or not? When we went out, she kind
of seemed like she liked me, But now she's I
don't really understand what she's doing. Like it's gonna make
them try harder and they're gonna justify their actions in
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their head by thinking, all right, well, I mean I
do like her, I do want to see her again,
so I might as well just like give it another go, right,
And that's how you start to wheel him in. The power, babe,
is in your hands. You have the power. Prime example. Okay,
I was talking to this guy one time and my
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friend called me and she said, hey, come to the
city with me and my friends. I want you to
like meet a couple of my friends. Now, the guy
lived fairly close to me, and I wasn't really sure
if I wanted to go into the city, but it's
my friend, and I am a girl's girl, so I
didn't want to leave my girl hanging. And I was
thinking out loud to the guy, which I shouldn't have
been doing anyway, He's not my girlfriend. He's a guy,
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and I was like, Okay, I just want to think
out loud, and my friend wants me to go meet
with her in the city. I think I was doing
it to seek some sort of validation of I want
to see how bad he really wants to see me.
That's why I did what I did. I was explaining
to him, my friend wants me to go to the city,
but I know that you also do want to see
me too, because he texted me about he texted me,
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but like five minutes before, my friend had messaged me
and said, Hey, i'll be home around this time. Do
you want to order in some food? And when I
texted him, I responded in a weird way, saying yeah,
I'll see or something like that. But in my head
I was saying I'll see what I'll do because I
was debating on whether or not I was going to
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go with my friend in the city or maybe see him.
So when I called him to explain to him the situation,
he goes, oh, yeah, so just let me know what
you're gonna do. And I was thinking what, like I
thought he would say, like, but I want to see
you something more. So that got me upset a little.
So I was like, Wow, he's just gonna give up
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that easily like ill. And that was a teaching moment
for me right there, but you living you learn, Okay.
I texted him and I said, so I'm gonna go
with my friend or something like that. I think that's
what I said, and I was expecting him to respond
at least say okay, like half of then I'll see
you another day in the week. He does not respond
to me at all. I called him on the phone
and I said, hey, did you get my text? And
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he's like, yeah, I did. And I was like, okay,
that required a response, and he goes, well, what do
you want me to say to that, Like, I'm not
second best? So he felt like I was making him
a second option because I was going out with my friend.
And it's just funny because that never even worked anyway
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really with him. But the case in point of that
story is the fact that I was willing to choose
someone else, I guess over him made him feel like
I was really cheating him second best. So in this case,
his reaction was all right, then do whatever you want.
Then what I kind of did was I placed a
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little bug in his head making him think, man, I
must not really be that important. I mean I literally
asked her if she wanted to order in food and
she would rather go hang out with her friends than
spend time with me, And so that's playing on a
little insecurity. He has the fact that he even said
to me, well, I'm not second best, he's he was
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insecure about that, and he felt like, Okay, well, I
mean go if you're gonna choose your friends like over me,
because clearly you don't want to hang out with me anyway.
So yeah, creating space, right, which goes right into giving
and pulling back right. This is when you're dating the guy.
You can't do this if you don't have anyone that
you're even seeing. It creates a sort of illusion of fear,
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especially if this person likes you because you're so engaging
and charming. It's creating a fear of oh my gosh,
I don't want to lose this girl. Why is it
that she's showing interest? But then she's not really that
engaged with me? Does she like me? I have such
a good time when I'm with her though, So I'm
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pretty sure she does like me, because when we hang out,
we do have a good time. But I mean, is
she seeing other people? Like? I don't know, Like, is
she really that busy that she I need to figure
out more, I need to try harder. And when he's
doing this, he starts to reflect on how you make
him feel, you know, when you're with him, by creating
this space and not being so easily accessible, And then
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he's thinking about what he has to do to keep
your attention. We're just ruling them in because during this duration,
let's say the first like two or three months, he's
emotionally and financially investing in you. You guys are going
on dates, he's calling you all of these things, and
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you got your people on the side because you're not
dropping anyone. Has he he really likes you. You have
him wrapped around your finger. And I want to give
a prime example of this. Ladies, we've all experienced guys
that we are not really that into, and they show
us so much attention, but we ignore them. And it's
so easy to ignore them because we don't really have
any feelings for them. But it's harder to do that
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when you know that you actually like someone. Right, But
for men, because they already have options before they step
into a situation, and they don't step into a situation assuming, Okay,
my goal here is this is going to be my
wife you know this is going to be my girlfriend.
They don't step in with that mindset normally. They step in,
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especially the younger they are, they step in with the
mindset of normally i'd like to maybe I don't even
want to talk about it, but let's see where this goes. Right,
You do the same thing until he has proven himself
worthy of your effort, your consistency. Nothing changes, nothing changes.
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And tip number five, this is racy, this is a
real tip. Okay, but if you like them, make them
wait longer. The longer the better, the longer, the more respect.
Half the time, if they're not even really that interested,
they won't even wait that long. They'll be out right.
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If you even dance around the idea. Men are just men.
Love the promise, the thoughts of being with you right intimately,
That alone hooks them in. Here's a prime example. Right,
you guys are hanging out. Let's say you're at his place.
I'm not talking about a week later. You're at his place,
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and no, maybe give it a month, month and a
half before you step foot on his land. You guys
are at his place, you know, just hanging out and
watching some TV in the living room. He starts kids,
things get steamy, a little touchy feely, and you pump
the brakes skirtskirt. Now he's just like enthralled. What's going on?
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I thought this was gonna go to the next level.
You know, let's get food? What I mean I thought
we were I mean, come on, like what about what
we were like, you know, doing? I want to get food? Okay,
So now you just pumped the brakes so hard. He's
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just like trying to process what happened. He's trying to
just calm down, and you're just like, let's get food.
So now the ultimatum, I think in his head translates
as all right, do what she says and then maybe
it'll happen. That's probably it's translating in that moment because
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he's very vulnerable in that moment. So he's gonna do
what you sa say and then in the I mean,
in the end, what does he expect you to just
go get food and then come back. No, it doesn't
work like that. Purpose is he did what you said
and you pumped the brakes. You just created another barrier
just like that, and that is very engaging. That's gonna
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seduce him, will him in because now he's gonna think, Okay,
it got you know, see me, like, what can I
do again to kind of like get it to that level?
I don't know. Wait wait wait, wait, wait, the longer
the better. And I said a month to maybe a
month month and a half to me we visit his house.
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I didn't say a month anything else. I'm just talking
about statistics, guys. I'm just talking about the research that
I've done and then I've read okay, okay. Or you
can simply say, you know, if you don't want to
pull the food the situation, you can simply say, uh sorry,
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like I'm just it's not ready yet, you know, well,
like are you waiting for anything in particular, no matter
what your reason is, whether that be religious or you
simply just wanting to play by the rules and not
just like you know, bussing it open worldwide. He has
to wait. It's really funny how men work, right, They
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want to push, push, push, push, push for that right,
but if you were to, you know, just give it
when they push, they just lose interest, just like that.
It's just innately how they are. They want to push, push,
push for what they want, and then if they get it, prematurely,
it loses its value. People value even in general. This
is a general rule. People value what they invest time, effort, attention,
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money into. People value that, So you have to be
that to get that respect. You can't just hand someone
something like that for free and with no effort being done.
I see some girls commenting on my channel, Oh well,
I mean that's unrealistic. I feel like I have needs too. Okay, well,
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I'm talking to the ladies that want to establish respect
and genuine commitment. This is all part of the game, right.
Some of the people that are married, a lot of
them usually have a similar story of Oh, I was
talking to her, but she didn't really show me interest
at first, and like that kind of like made me
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more interested in her. Even my own parents, guys, my
mom canceled. I guess the first two three dates that
my dad wanted to take my mom on. And my
dad liked my mom so much he was like, Okay,
one more time. I'm gonna try one more time to
see if she's gonna like go out with me, And
she's finally said yes. Hello. Beyonce herself even said is doon.
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As you show interest, guys usually lose interest, So You
always have to keep your power and keep your leverage.
Never allow them to feel comfortable like they got you.
They're gonna get bored. Men like to play games, they hunt,
they That's just how they are. That's just how they are.
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Even if you are married, you gotta keep things new.
That's just how it is. Ultimately, you're doing all of
this to establish commitment if that's what you want. If
you're young and you just want to date and you
just want to have fun, okay, well, then you're just
playing by the rules like you should to avoid unnecessary
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heartbreak and to be ready to settle down by time
you actually feel mature enough and ready to settle. Establishing
respect and value makes you more desirable. How you deliver
them with the accessories of looking good, smelling good, How
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you talk to them, how you touch them, how you
engage with them. Your body language, what is it saying?
Your voice when you talk? Are youseff spoken? Feel it out?
Start to discern. You have to be an expert at
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yourself and knowing what works. It's easy to say, oh,
this isn't going to work on everyone. Well duh, does
everything work on everyone? No? That's why I said in
the beginning. You have to choose the right person to
do that. You have to know the type of person
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or discern the type of person that you're trying to
do these things with. You have to know your victim.
This is just honest. This is honesty, honesty at its best. Okay.
I also want to add smiling a lot very feminine. Skirts, stresses,
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very feminine. We all know this. I like to wear
stuff that has bows on it. It's very feminine. So, guys,
that is the end of this video. I hope that
you guys enjoyed it. Do not forget to let me
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(30:58):
Amazon's should be coming by the end of this week
or maybe early next week. I don't know. I'm a
prime member, so hopefully it comes fast. Anyways. With that
being said, I love you and God loves you, and
I'll see you guys in my next video.
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