August 6, 2025 • 19 mins
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In this season of your life, make sure you win by continuously improving your skills and knowledge and seeking opportunities for growth and development. It is essential to cultivate gratitude and mindfulness to ensure you win in this season. Pay attention to this life advice and learn how to win by embracing the challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. Your journey to winning this season begins with the bonds you create and the courage you muster. You can ensure you win this season by setting clear goals and creating a plan to achieve them. To ensure you win in this season, embrace the transformative power of investing in meaningful relationships and connections. I'm Just a girl who's trying to build a longer table instead of a fence. My goal is to help you transform your life with my combination of personal development, human psychology, sophistication, and inner and outer beauty tips. This video will give you clarity if you are asking the following questions or looking for;
In this season of your life, make sure you win by continuously improving your skills and knowledge and seeking opportunities for growth and development. It is essential to cultivate gratitude and mindfulness to ensure you win in this season. Pay attention to this life advice and learn how to win by embracing the challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. Your journey to winning this season begins with the bonds you create and the courage you muster. You can ensure you win this season by setting clear goals and creating a plan to achieve them. To ensure you win in this season, embrace the transformative power of investing in meaningful relationships and connections. I'm Just a girl who's trying to build a longer table instead of a fence. My goal is to help you transform your life with my combination of personal development, human psychology, sophistication, and inner and outer beauty tips. This video will give you clarity if you are asking the following questions or looking for;
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
These men are turning a lot of us into liars.
And guess who's the clown? You? You You're the clown.
Shoot fits. Please put it on, wear it, join the circus.
You've been hired full time. Hello angels, welcome back to
another YouTube video. I am just in the season of
(00:22):
as you can see, winning season. Of course the title
list video is in the next chapter of your life.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Make sure that you win. So get ready for this,
eh pep talk.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
This is episode number one of what I'm going to
call Rover Rant.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, doing a rant from my literal range Rover.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
As you guys know, that is my literal dream car,
and I figured.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
How how relevant is that Rover rants? I love it.
It's very catchy.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Shout out to my bestie Hail for helping me come
up with that name. She's amazing. I really understand now
what the.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Villain era is of.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I want you guys to understand that your motives are
very important to the plot. This is now the season.
We have what how many months left of the rest
of the year. In this next chapter of your life,
make sure that you win. So what I'm gonna do
is I'm gonna give you guys a couple of pointers
and tips to really help you feel like that girl,
(01:22):
because if you're anything like me, I love words of affirmation,
like I love feeling inspired. Hale and I have been
talking what we talk all the time, but we've just
been like hyping each other up and everything, and I'm like,
you know what I was feeling. If you guys go
to my Instagram, you guys will see my photos in
my cute little outfit. I woke up today feeling very
(01:44):
western and yeah, so I put on a cowgirl hat,
I put on my sparkly cowgirl shoes and wearing pink and.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I just feel so good.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I also went to my mailbox and I saw a subscriber,
So if you're seeing this, Hi, it was very nice
to meet you. And I felt very inspired because I
was walking by this guy and he goes, Hi, Barbi,
and I was like.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Hi, and I was just like, oh.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Feeling myself, especially with the day that I had yesterday.
And that's a separate story time. We're not even going
to get into that. But let's get into the main
point of this video. Point number one. And yes, I'm
in my car with my laptop. Stop people pleasing, don't
feel the need to be everywhere all the time, because
you know what, there is something to be said about people.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
That are very selective. I don't need to be on
the scene.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I don't need to be mixy because right now I'm
working on me for me, I am my only competition.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Know that understand this.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
At the end of the day, all the people that
are great in life are going to be replicated, imitated.
They are intimidating to people. They're viewed as a threat.
And that's probably you watching this video, and I get it,
I hear you. But I really think it's so important
that we really learn to master not people pleasing. Let
(03:03):
your noby no, let your yes be yes. Don't have
this like fomo aka fear of missing out where you
feel like, oh my gosh, I need to be here
or I have to be there, or let people guilt
trip you into going certain places. If you don't want
to go, you don't have to go. Yeah, there's going
to be a certain time period in your life where
you're gonna feel like, oh, man, like, am I missing
(03:24):
out on this? So and so is having this get together,
They're having this event. There will always be events. There
will always be somewhere to be. There will always be
something to do. But lock in, lock in all gas,
no breaks, okay, okay, lock in, because you're never going
(03:45):
to get this very moment, right here, right now back.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You're never going to get it back.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
One of the things that I really had to learn
was really mastering the art of genuinely and not even caring.
You know why, because I'm making sure that I win.
So why am I worried about? First of all, what
is not in my best interests in service of the
goals that I want to reach. So that's a question
that you should even ask yourself. Is this activity leading
(04:11):
me to my goal? Or do I want to show
up because I want to say yes, I want to
be like I feel this need to be everywhere all
the time, because that's a thing too where people feel like, man,
I'm everywhere, like I have a lot of friends, like
I need to show up for this.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I need to show up for that solitude.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
When you lock in, you turn around, let your work
speak for itself.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Number two, what I want you guys to know in winning.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Is understanding that at the end of the day, friendships
they evolve, friendships they end. There may be some of
your friends who will choose a man over you at times,
and the older that you become, you realize that big
events show you a lot about people.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Okay, whether that.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Be birthdays, weddings, relationships in general, new jobs, more stability,
more financial stability, these things show you a lot about people.
When people cannot celebrate, you believe them. And I don't
mean like they're offering you an alternative, because there have
been instances where, like I knew that one time there
(05:20):
was a situation with someone that I knew where she
could not afford to go on a certain trip and
she offered an alternative to know the other girl her friend,
and the other girl was upset that her friend couldn't
make it to the trip, And I personally felt like,
what's the big deal If your friend honestly can't go
somewhere and she can't afford to go, why would you
(05:40):
be upset when she's offering an alternative for you. She
wants to spend time with you separately, she just can't
do that one activity. That's not what I'm referencing. What
I'm trying to get at is people that ironically enough,
can never show up in moments where you are meant
to be celebrated. You need to pay attention to things
like that. You need to believe them when people start
to manufacture drama at moments where you're supposed to be celebrated,
(06:04):
and they choose those moments to then bring out and
present the issues to you that they had with you
from god.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Knows how long ago. We don't want to hear it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
And then yes, another thing, friendships evolve, they will also end.
Let them, Let them. And I know it's hard. You're
friends with people. You want to hold on to the
hold on, but just let people and who knows, maybe
there will be a phase where that friends or those friends,
those people may come back into your life. But at
(06:34):
the end of the day, understand that people are going
to do whatever they want to do. Relationships, sometimes, depending
on whether or not it's a toxic type of relationship,
can change your friend dynamic where people are going to
be spending less time with you, what have you. This
is all a part of life and it happens you
(06:55):
winning has nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
To do with that.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Don't be concerned with the business that is not paying you,
that is not concerning you.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
You're not your friend's you know.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Guardians You have to let people do what they need
to do for their life, no matter what that looks
like to you, how you feel about it, let them,
let them. You keep on winning. You focus on you.
Number three, stop letting these men turn you guys into liars.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Okay, what do I mean by this? I mean the
whole No? Stop like.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
What? No, Like, I'm not coming over right now? What
do you mean because it's midnight. I'm not coming over
at midnight like you just want to watch a movie.
I mean I have work in the morning. Okay, yeah,
(07:54):
well you could work. You work from home tomorrow. Okay,
So and all right, I'm coming. And here you go
thinking in your head, all right, like I'm not gonna
shave like I'm just because I'm not doing anything.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Like I'm you know, like you know how we think.
Stop it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Please, there you go, putting your co mat upon and
heading over there at dark thirty, at dark thirty, what's
happening at dark thirty?
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Nothing good? Nothing appropriate?
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Okay, these men are turning a lot of us into liars.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
And guess who's the clown? You? You you're the clown.
Shoot fits.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Please put it on, wear it, join the circus. You've
been hired full time. I think this is so important
because when we really actually think about it, we really
do allow people to erode at our boundaries, a road
at our.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Self esteem and things like that.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You know why it turns into things like that because
you don't realize the connection between not honoring your word
and what it does for you self esteem. That's why
when you turn around and these situations, certain situations are
not working, you then feel like you are so far
from who you.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Used to be.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
You then feel stupid, You feel silly because you're like,
oh my gosh, I should never went.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I made all these sacrifices.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I did things that I said that I wasn't going
to do so many different times. Because you did not
respect your own boundaries, you did not honor your own word,
and you let this man turn you into a liar
to yourself too.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Think about that. Number four. Do not listen to people.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Who tell you to be realistic. Like I said, this
is your winning season in this chapter. We're winning, babes,
we are winning in this chapter. Okay, I cannot stand
these closeted pessimists. Okay that really hide under the guise
of being pragmatic. You're not pragmatic. You were simistic. There
(10:01):
is a difference. And what's realistic for me is my business.
And let me just give you guys this personal story.
Nothing about my life is realistic. There have been people
in my life that have been like, oh, you want
to be a YouTuber? Okay, Like I mean you can,
but I mean, good luck. I really know how that's
gonna work out.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
But it did.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Oh I want to have one hundred thousand subscribers. I
want to be able to get my plaque. I did,
I did it, doubled it, and we're going to triple it.
We are gonna hit three hundred k, and then it's
only gonna get bigger and better from here. I know that,
I know the vision that God has given me. It's
(10:45):
gonna happen. It's already happened. I'm just figuring out how.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I got there.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
So, yeah, what's realistic for me? I can understand why
that may be a little bit overwhelming for you. I
understand that, and that's what you guys need to remember.
Consider the source. Consider the source. I don't want to
trade places with you, So why am I listening to you.
I'm not factoring in your opinion because it's not paying
(11:11):
my bills, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Not doing anything. And that's not to say.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Oh, never listen to anyone because they're not paying your bills.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Enough with the.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Dramatic, like, you know, not really understanding what it is
that people are saying.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Because I always feel like.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Being on like YouTube and everything, that you have to
have this disclaimer because it's like, girls.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Are you saying that you can't get off my channel?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
And get off my channel with that type of behavior,
what does that even mean? Like I said, I don't
listen to people.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Will tell me to be realistic.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Because I don't appreciate that level of negativity. What's realistic
for you is what's realistic for you. If that's the case,
let's never have any goals in life. Let's never shoot
for the moon and the stars. If you don't believe
in yourself, just say that. Just say that because you
don't believe in yourself. I do, don't believe me. Just
watch I do believe in myself, and I want you
(12:07):
guys to believe in yourselves. People that are projecting onto you,
because that's what it is. They're projecting, they're limiting beliefs
onto you. These are the same people that are gonna
come around and they're either going to clap for you
maybe who knows, or they're gonna come back around and
ask you how did.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
You do it? Yup.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I've experienced it in my life where even guys I
don't have them, any guy friends, but like in my
life a couple of guy friends that I've had, they'll
like say things like oh, like yeah, like good luck,
like is that gonna happen for you or whatever, projecting
your limiting beliefs onto mula. And then now they're asking me,
oh like so like like how do you like start
(12:50):
a channel? Like all these different things like YouTube, automation,
whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
I don't even care.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
And I'm like, oh, that's very funny. So now we're
interested in my career all of a sudden, Where was
all that talk that it seemed like so realistic.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Back in the day. That's very interesting.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Like I said, don't believe people that say.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Things like this.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You need to consider the source that leads me to
point number five. You have choice power in your life.
Stop looking to the wrong people for answers. The things
that you guys consume, you have to remember it's all
playing a part in your future the things that you consume.
So if you're listening to jaded type of advice and
(13:35):
negativity on the internet and you're just watching garbage TV.
We all like a little trash TV here and there,
but like you're consuming it to the point where that's
how you live your life and it's toxic and it's
just ridiculous. You have to realize that you have the
choice to change your habits. You are going to be
your own rescue. I promise you, guys that you have
(13:58):
way more of a clue than you think, because one
thing that I've learned as I've gotten older is no
one truly knows what they're doing every single step along
the way. We all have ideas, but even if we plan,
we don't truly know every single thing that we're doing
all the time. Every step of the way. We can
have and wish for a certain outcome. Desire for a
(14:19):
certain outcome doesn't necessarily mean that it's going to happen
in the exact way that we may want. But you
have choice power that means, as it pertains to winning,
I'm going to make sure that I get up and
I do the things that I say I'm gonna do.
I'm going to make sure that I'm honoring my word.
I'm going to make sure that I'm looking good, that
I'm eating healthy, that I'm treating my body like someone
(14:41):
that I love. Because I'm winning. We are now in
the winning chapter. So I'm going to treat my body
like such. And I love that quote where people say,
treat your body like someone that you love, because if
we look at it from that perspective, I think it'll really,
at least for me, it really does help me because
it's like, Wow, how would I treat someone that I love. Like,
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Let's say I had a child. You want what's best
for your child's right. You want to feed your child's
good food for their body, you want to nurture that child, right.
So make sure that you're considering the source with this too,
looking to people for answers when we really should be
doing more prayer, more anchoring, more being self actualized. Consider
(15:29):
your source. You have choice power in your life. I
don't care. We don't have to wait till January. We
don't have to wait till Mondays.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
We don't have to.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Wait until anything. Make a decision and choose and say
you know what.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
In this chapter I'm gonna make sure that I win win, win, win.
And lastly, in this quick little video, remember that you
can rebrand yourself at any time. I don't know if
you guys have ever heard this, but this is something
that I used to do myself called a WAT analysis.
So it's basically an analysis. People usually use it for
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business plans of your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and your threats.
Google it you can, like probably find it on Pinterest or.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
What have you.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Because, like I always say, when you know you, no
one else can step in and convince you otherwise of
who you are.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
You have to know yourself.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
That's how you win otherwise along the way, and I
have done this myself, where you're going to be so
susceptible to absorbing everyone's projections.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Insecurities, directives. You should be doing this, you should.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Be doing that, and it gets so confusing. Tunnel vision,
tunnel vision. In this season, it is so important to
do things like this because then you won't be this
open field for people to bounce and project negativity onto.
Because a lot of people in life, they do base
things off of their experience. Not everyone is great at
(17:02):
being objective. I'm sorry that's just not usually the human experience.
And so if you are around someone that believes that
anything can happen, the conversation is going to look different.
Right If you believe in someone that maybe their dreams
have failed, life didn't work out for them. They had
to they had to do a plan B, they're going
to look at you and think, yeah, not everything always
(17:22):
works out.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
So things happen.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
I cannot stand people that are like things happen.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Life is life like.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
I cannot stand people that have that type of mentality.
That type of mentality doesn't go well with my spirit.
My outfit, my makeup in and out doesn't go with it.
Think about those things. Remember right now, I can rebrand
myself if I want to.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Because I said so, just like me.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Today, I woke up, I felt girly, princess whatever I realized,
and my day didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Start out fantastic initially.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
But I made a decision and I was like, hmmm, yeah,
today's gonna be a great day because I said so.
I'm gonna look good because I said so. I'm going
to dress like a cowgirl today because I want to.
I made that decision. Now my energy, I'm changing my
energy I'm like, God, I already know today's going to
be a fantastic day. Nothing's going to get in my way.
And I acted on that. I said, you know what,
(18:18):
I'm gonna film a video today. I'm going to film
my first rover rant. That's what I'm going to do
doing it?
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Did it now here? You are watching it? HM.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
So that is the end of this quick little video.
I'm excited to do more rover rants with you guys.
Comment down below what other type of rants you guys
would like to hear my opinion on or would like
me to research, because I really want us to build
the A team because we have goals here and as
I reach my goals, it's going to even be inspiring
(18:50):
for you guys to reach yours. And when you help
others reach you know where they're supposed to go. It
does come back to you. Trust and believe. Don't let
these people or people experiences in.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Life make you think otherwise.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
When you help other people win and you're truly about
women empowerment and you truly are a girl's girl, things
are always going to be working out for you, I promise.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
So that is the end of this video. Angels.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
If you guys haven't already, make sure that you guys
are watching my podcast episodes because I have a studio now.
I'm so happy about it and I want to thank
you guys so much for your support. And with that
being said, do not forget that I love you and
God loves you, and I will speak to beautiful angels
in my next video.
These men are turning a lot of us into liars.
And guess who's the clown? You? You You're the clown.
Shoot fits. Please put it on, wear it, join the circus.
You've been hired full time. Hello angels, welcome back to
another YouTube video. I am just in the season of
(00:22):
as you can see, winning season. Of course the title
list video is in the next chapter of your life.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Make sure that you win. So get ready for this,
eh pep talk.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
This is episode number one of what I'm going to
call Rover Rant.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, doing a rant from my literal range Rover.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
As you guys know, that is my literal dream car,
and I figured.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
How how relevant is that Rover rants? I love it.
It's very catchy.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Shout out to my bestie Hail for helping me come
up with that name. She's amazing. I really understand now
what the.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Villain era is of.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I want you guys to understand that your motives are
very important to the plot. This is now the season.
We have what how many months left of the rest
of the year. In this next chapter of your life,
make sure that you win. So what I'm gonna do
is I'm gonna give you guys a couple of pointers
and tips to really help you feel like that girl,
(01:22):
because if you're anything like me, I love words of affirmation,
like I love feeling inspired. Hale and I have been
talking what we talk all the time, but we've just
been like hyping each other up and everything, and I'm like,
you know what I was feeling. If you guys go
to my Instagram, you guys will see my photos in
my cute little outfit. I woke up today feeling very
(01:44):
western and yeah, so I put on a cowgirl hat,
I put on my sparkly cowgirl shoes and wearing pink and.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I just feel so good.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I also went to my mailbox and I saw a subscriber,
So if you're seeing this, Hi, it was very nice
to meet you. And I felt very inspired because I
was walking by this guy and he goes, Hi, Barbi,
and I was like.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Hi, and I was just like, oh.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Feeling myself, especially with the day that I had yesterday.
And that's a separate story time. We're not even going
to get into that. But let's get into the main
point of this video. Point number one. And yes, I'm
in my car with my laptop. Stop people pleasing, don't
feel the need to be everywhere all the time, because
you know what, there is something to be said about people.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
That are very selective. I don't need to be on
the scene.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I don't need to be mixy because right now I'm
working on me for me, I am my only competition.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Know that understand this.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
At the end of the day, all the people that
are great in life are going to be replicated, imitated.
They are intimidating to people. They're viewed as a threat.
And that's probably you watching this video, and I get it,
I hear you. But I really think it's so important
that we really learn to master not people pleasing. Let
(03:03):
your noby no, let your yes be yes. Don't have
this like fomo aka fear of missing out where you
feel like, oh my gosh, I need to be here
or I have to be there, or let people guilt
trip you into going certain places. If you don't want
to go, you don't have to go. Yeah, there's going
to be a certain time period in your life where
you're gonna feel like, oh, man, like, am I missing
(03:24):
out on this? So and so is having this get together,
They're having this event. There will always be events. There
will always be somewhere to be. There will always be
something to do. But lock in, lock in all gas,
no breaks, okay, okay, lock in, because you're never going
(03:45):
to get this very moment, right here, right now back.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You're never going to get it back.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
One of the things that I really had to learn
was really mastering the art of genuinely and not even caring.
You know why, because I'm making sure that I win.
So why am I worried about? First of all, what
is not in my best interests in service of the
goals that I want to reach. So that's a question
that you should even ask yourself. Is this activity leading
(04:11):
me to my goal? Or do I want to show
up because I want to say yes, I want to
be like I feel this need to be everywhere all
the time, because that's a thing too where people feel like, man,
I'm everywhere, like I have a lot of friends, like
I need to show up for this.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I need to show up for that solitude.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
When you lock in, you turn around, let your work
speak for itself.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Number two, what I want you guys to know in winning.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Is understanding that at the end of the day, friendships
they evolve, friendships they end. There may be some of
your friends who will choose a man over you at times,
and the older that you become, you realize that big
events show you a lot about people.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Okay, whether that.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Be birthdays, weddings, relationships in general, new jobs, more stability,
more financial stability, these things show you a lot about people.
When people cannot celebrate, you believe them. And I don't
mean like they're offering you an alternative, because there have
been instances where, like I knew that one time there
(05:20):
was a situation with someone that I knew where she
could not afford to go on a certain trip and
she offered an alternative to know the other girl her friend,
and the other girl was upset that her friend couldn't
make it to the trip, And I personally felt like,
what's the big deal If your friend honestly can't go
somewhere and she can't afford to go, why would you
(05:40):
be upset when she's offering an alternative for you. She
wants to spend time with you separately, she just can't
do that one activity. That's not what I'm referencing. What
I'm trying to get at is people that ironically enough,
can never show up in moments where you are meant
to be celebrated. You need to pay attention to things
like that. You need to believe them when people start
to manufacture drama at moments where you're supposed to be celebrated,
(06:04):
and they choose those moments to then bring out and
present the issues to you that they had with you
from god.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Knows how long ago. We don't want to hear it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
And then yes, another thing, friendships evolve, they will also end.
Let them, Let them. And I know it's hard. You're
friends with people. You want to hold on to the
hold on, but just let people and who knows, maybe
there will be a phase where that friends or those friends,
those people may come back into your life. But at
(06:34):
the end of the day, understand that people are going
to do whatever they want to do. Relationships, sometimes, depending
on whether or not it's a toxic type of relationship,
can change your friend dynamic where people are going to
be spending less time with you, what have you. This
is all a part of life and it happens you
(06:55):
winning has nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
To do with that.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Don't be concerned with the business that is not paying you,
that is not concerning you.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
You're not your friend's you know.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Guardians You have to let people do what they need
to do for their life, no matter what that looks
like to you, how you feel about it, let them,
let them. You keep on winning. You focus on you.
Number three, stop letting these men turn you guys into liars.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Okay, what do I mean by this? I mean the
whole No? Stop like.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
What? No, Like, I'm not coming over right now? What
do you mean because it's midnight. I'm not coming over
at midnight like you just want to watch a movie.
I mean I have work in the morning. Okay, yeah,
(07:54):
well you could work. You work from home tomorrow. Okay,
So and all right, I'm coming. And here you go
thinking in your head, all right, like I'm not gonna
shave like I'm just because I'm not doing anything.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Like I'm you know, like you know how we think.
Stop it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Please, there you go, putting your co mat upon and
heading over there at dark thirty, at dark thirty, what's
happening at dark thirty?
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Nothing good? Nothing appropriate?
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Okay, these men are turning a lot of us into liars.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
And guess who's the clown? You? You you're the clown.
Shoot fits.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Please put it on, wear it, join the circus. You've
been hired full time. I think this is so important
because when we really actually think about it, we really
do allow people to erode at our boundaries, a road
at our.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Self esteem and things like that.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You know why it turns into things like that because
you don't realize the connection between not honoring your word
and what it does for you self esteem. That's why
when you turn around and these situations, certain situations are
not working, you then feel like you are so far
from who you.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Used to be.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
You then feel stupid, You feel silly because you're like,
oh my gosh, I should never went.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I made all these sacrifices.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I did things that I said that I wasn't going
to do so many different times. Because you did not
respect your own boundaries, you did not honor your own word,
and you let this man turn you into a liar
to yourself too.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Think about that. Number four. Do not listen to people.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Who tell you to be realistic. Like I said, this
is your winning season in this chapter. We're winning, babes,
we are winning in this chapter. Okay, I cannot stand
these closeted pessimists. Okay that really hide under the guise
of being pragmatic. You're not pragmatic. You were simistic. There
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is a difference. And what's realistic for me is my business.
And let me just give you guys this personal story.
Nothing about my life is realistic. There have been people
in my life that have been like, oh, you want
to be a YouTuber? Okay, Like I mean you can,
but I mean, good luck. I really know how that's
gonna work out.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
But it did.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Oh I want to have one hundred thousand subscribers. I
want to be able to get my plaque. I did,
I did it, doubled it, and we're going to triple it.
We are gonna hit three hundred k, and then it's
only gonna get bigger and better from here. I know that,
I know the vision that God has given me. It's
(10:45):
gonna happen. It's already happened. I'm just figuring out how.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I got there.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
So, yeah, what's realistic for me? I can understand why
that may be a little bit overwhelming for you. I
understand that, and that's what you guys need to remember.
Consider the source. Consider the source. I don't want to
trade places with you, So why am I listening to you.
I'm not factoring in your opinion because it's not paying
(11:11):
my bills, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Not doing anything. And that's not to say.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Oh, never listen to anyone because they're not paying your bills.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Enough with the.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Dramatic, like, you know, not really understanding what it is
that people are saying.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Because I always feel like.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Being on like YouTube and everything, that you have to
have this disclaimer because it's like, girls.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Are you saying that you can't get off my channel?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
And get off my channel with that type of behavior,
what does that even mean? Like I said, I don't
listen to people.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Will tell me to be realistic.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Because I don't appreciate that level of negativity. What's realistic
for you is what's realistic for you. If that's the case,
let's never have any goals in life. Let's never shoot
for the moon and the stars. If you don't believe
in yourself, just say that. Just say that because you
don't believe in yourself. I do, don't believe me. Just
watch I do believe in myself, and I want you
(12:07):
guys to believe in yourselves. People that are projecting onto you,
because that's what it is. They're projecting, they're limiting beliefs
onto you. These are the same people that are gonna
come around and they're either going to clap for you
maybe who knows, or they're gonna come back around and
ask you how did.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
You do it? Yup.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I've experienced it in my life where even guys I
don't have them, any guy friends, but like in my
life a couple of guy friends that I've had, they'll
like say things like oh, like yeah, like good luck,
like is that gonna happen for you or whatever, projecting
your limiting beliefs onto mula. And then now they're asking me,
oh like so like like how do you like start
(12:50):
a channel? Like all these different things like YouTube, automation,
whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
I don't even care.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
And I'm like, oh, that's very funny. So now we're
interested in my career all of a sudden, Where was
all that talk that it seemed like so realistic.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Back in the day. That's very interesting.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Like I said, don't believe people that say.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Things like this.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You need to consider the source that leads me to
point number five. You have choice power in your life.
Stop looking to the wrong people for answers. The things
that you guys consume, you have to remember it's all
playing a part in your future the things that you consume.
So if you're listening to jaded type of advice and
(13:35):
negativity on the internet and you're just watching garbage TV.
We all like a little trash TV here and there,
but like you're consuming it to the point where that's
how you live your life and it's toxic and it's
just ridiculous. You have to realize that you have the
choice to change your habits. You are going to be
your own rescue. I promise you, guys that you have
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way more of a clue than you think, because one
thing that I've learned as I've gotten older is no
one truly knows what they're doing every single step along
the way. We all have ideas, but even if we plan,
we don't truly know every single thing that we're doing
all the time. Every step of the way. We can
have and wish for a certain outcome. Desire for a
(14:19):
certain outcome doesn't necessarily mean that it's going to happen
in the exact way that we may want. But you
have choice power that means, as it pertains to winning,
I'm going to make sure that I get up and
I do the things that I say I'm gonna do.
I'm going to make sure that I'm honoring my word.
I'm going to make sure that I'm looking good, that
I'm eating healthy, that I'm treating my body like someone
(14:41):
that I love. Because I'm winning. We are now in
the winning chapter. So I'm going to treat my body
like such. And I love that quote where people say,
treat your body like someone that you love, because if
we look at it from that perspective, I think it'll really,
at least for me, it really does help me because
it's like, Wow, how would I treat someone that I love. Like,
(15:04):
Let's say I had a child. You want what's best
for your child's right. You want to feed your child's
good food for their body, you want to nurture that child, right.
So make sure that you're considering the source with this too,
looking to people for answers when we really should be
doing more prayer, more anchoring, more being self actualized. Consider
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your source. You have choice power in your life. I
don't care. We don't have to wait till January. We
don't have to wait till Mondays.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
We don't have to.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Wait until anything. Make a decision and choose and say
you know what.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
In this chapter I'm gonna make sure that I win win, win, win.
And lastly, in this quick little video, remember that you
can rebrand yourself at any time. I don't know if
you guys have ever heard this, but this is something
that I used to do myself called a WAT analysis.
So it's basically an analysis. People usually use it for
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business plans of your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and your threats.
Google it you can, like probably find it on Pinterest or.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
What have you.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Because, like I always say, when you know you, no
one else can step in and convince you otherwise of
who you are.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
You have to know yourself.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
That's how you win otherwise along the way, and I
have done this myself, where you're going to be so
susceptible to absorbing everyone's projections.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Insecurities, directives. You should be doing this, you should.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Be doing that, and it gets so confusing. Tunnel vision,
tunnel vision. In this season, it is so important to
do things like this because then you won't be this
open field for people to bounce and project negativity onto.
Because a lot of people in life, they do base
things off of their experience. Not everyone is great at
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being objective. I'm sorry that's just not usually the human experience.
And so if you are around someone that believes that
anything can happen, the conversation is going to look different.
Right If you believe in someone that maybe their dreams
have failed, life didn't work out for them. They had
to they had to do a plan B, they're going
to look at you and think, yeah, not everything always
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works out.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
So things happen.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
I cannot stand people that are like things happen.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Life is life like.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
I cannot stand people that have that type of mentality.
That type of mentality doesn't go well with my spirit.
My outfit, my makeup in and out doesn't go with it.
Think about those things. Remember right now, I can rebrand
myself if I want to.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Because I said so, just like me.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Today, I woke up, I felt girly, princess whatever I realized,
and my day didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Start out fantastic initially.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
But I made a decision and I was like, hmmm, yeah,
today's gonna be a great day because I said so.
I'm gonna look good because I said so. I'm going
to dress like a cowgirl today because I want to.
I made that decision. Now my energy, I'm changing my
energy I'm like, God, I already know today's going to
be a fantastic day. Nothing's going to get in my way.
And I acted on that. I said, you know what,
(18:18):
I'm gonna film a video today. I'm going to film
my first rover rant. That's what I'm going to do
doing it?
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Did it now here? You are watching it? HM.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
So that is the end of this quick little video.
I'm excited to do more rover rants with you guys.
Comment down below what other type of rants you guys
would like to hear my opinion on or would like
me to research, because I really want us to build
the A team because we have goals here and as
I reach my goals, it's going to even be inspiring
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for you guys to reach yours. And when you help
others reach you know where they're supposed to go. It
does come back to you. Trust and believe. Don't let
these people or people experiences in.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Life make you think otherwise.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
When you help other people win and you're truly about
women empowerment and you truly are a girl's girl, things
are always going to be working out for you, I promise.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
So that is the end of this video. Angels.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
If you guys haven't already, make sure that you guys
are watching my podcast episodes because I have a studio now.
I'm so happy about it and I want to thank
you guys so much for your support. And with that
being said, do not forget that I love you and
God loves you, and I will speak to beautiful angels
in my next video.
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