June 19, 2025 • 15 mins
***The Asha Christina Tapes***
In this classic episode of dating, love, and relationship advice, I will explore the power of being unbothered in the dating world. I will help you attract the right kind of people into your life and build healthy relationships by harnessing the power of being unbothered. If you want to take control of your love life, embrace these dating tips and watch the full video to learn how to act unbothered. Are you tired of feeling anxious, insecure, or rejected when it comes to dating or relationships? I will help you break free from anxiety and insecurity in your love life and show you how to be unbothered in a relationship. You can easily succeed in your love life if you know how to be an unbothered queen. I want you to know how to act unbothered, and by the end of this video, you will have learnt the art of being unbothered. The dating world can be harsh, and feeling anxious, insecure, or rejected when putting yourself out there is not uncommon. But tapping into the power to be unbothered is vital to stay calm and confident in this fast-paced and often unpredictable world. I'm Just a girl who's trying to build a longer table instead of a fence. My goal is to help you transform your life with my combination of personal development, human psychology, sophistication, and inner and outer beauty tips. This video will give you clarity if you are asking the following questions or looking for;
In this classic episode of dating, love, and relationship advice, I will explore the power of being unbothered in the dating world. I will help you attract the right kind of people into your life and build healthy relationships by harnessing the power of being unbothered. If you want to take control of your love life, embrace these dating tips and watch the full video to learn how to act unbothered. Are you tired of feeling anxious, insecure, or rejected when it comes to dating or relationships? I will help you break free from anxiety and insecurity in your love life and show you how to be unbothered in a relationship. You can easily succeed in your love life if you know how to be an unbothered queen. I want you to know how to act unbothered, and by the end of this video, you will have learnt the art of being unbothered. The dating world can be harsh, and feeling anxious, insecure, or rejected when putting yourself out there is not uncommon. But tapping into the power to be unbothered is vital to stay calm and confident in this fast-paced and often unpredictable world. I'm Just a girl who's trying to build a longer table instead of a fence. My goal is to help you transform your life with my combination of personal development, human psychology, sophistication, and inner and outer beauty tips. This video will give you clarity if you are asking the following questions or looking for;
- The power of being unbothered
- Being unbothered
- Unbothered
- How to be unbothered
- Become unbothered
- Online dating
- How to be unbothered by others
- The art of being unbothered
- How to act unbothered
- How to be unbothered in a relationship
- Relationship tips
- Relationship advice
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, Hello, how are you guys?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Okay, yes, I am recording from the inside of my car.
I can help myself. This weather is so beautiful and honey,
the lighting.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
It's working for us.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Okay, all right, guys, So hello, longtime, no see.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I know, but I did go.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Live on Instagram yesterday, so make sure that you are
following you on Instagram. Oh and with that being said,
my Instagram will be right here of course. And also
thank you to all of my new subscribers. I see
all of you, guys. I do, and I do try
my absolute best to be as responsive as possible because
(00:44):
I love every.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Single one of my angels.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I know I'm gonna get some questions asking me where
I got my hair from. Guys, this is another unit
from my friend Dom's line.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I think it's called Hey Queen Crowns.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Nonetheless, all of the information for this hair will be
in the description box below, So guys, please make sure
to check my description box because I get a lot
of questions asking me about what makeup I'm wearing, and
all of the details of pretty much whatever I'm wearing
in that specific video.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Is always going to be in my description box.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
So without further ado, I want to jump right into
this topic, guys, the power of being unbothered. I'm sure
you guys have heard me say this in different videos. Okay,
this goes without saying that. If there's one thing we
should all know by now, it's that whoever cares the
least wins. So it's easy to ask, how do you
(01:45):
become unbothered?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
While you work on yourself.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You create your own life, your own hobbies, where you
have so much going on for yourself that you eliminate
the time wasters. And yes, there are going to be
people that fall through the crowd, okay, because nobody is invincible.
But at the same time, you want to make sure
that you are so fulfilled in your life that whoever
(02:09):
you decide to date, or whomever decides to date you,
has to fit themselves into your schedule right so that
when you were integrating into a relationship or talking to
someone dating someone, that you're not so consumed or obsessed
with what they aren't or what they want to do,
(02:30):
because you already have your own stuff going on. So naturally,
if you have a lot of things going on in
your life, it's very easy to be unbothered because you
know your schedule. You know that you are a very
busy person. You know that you have a lot going
for yourself. So anyone that fails to meet your standards
or fit themselves into your schedule, you don't have time
(02:53):
for them. You don't have time for anything that is subpar.
And it's just that kind and dry. As women channel
the unbothered energy, it draws so much more attention to us.
It's phenomenal actually, So imagine talking to a guy and
instead of obsessing over him and being easily impressed by
(03:15):
his minuscule efforts and flattery, you are light and fun,
care free and not like typical girls who send a
desperate energy that they really want to be in a relationship.
Because remember what I always tell you ladies, when guys
are first approaching you, it is solely based off of
(03:37):
physical attraction. Naturally, and honestly, that technically kind of goes
for both parties. Guys you know, are not thinking immediately,
oh my god, I gotta be with this girl. They
are attracted to you, They're gonna approach you, and then
the tests begin of if you are worth investing in?
(03:57):
How much do they need to invest to get are
in something from you?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
How long do they have to wait? All of these things.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You need to have charm, sex, appeal, and coolness to
be unbothered. This is going to take knowledge and understanding
of the fact that leading with anything other than an
unbothered energy is going to hurt you.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Why.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Well, because what are guys used to. Guys are always
used to girls wanting to be in a relationship. They
know what it is, that's why they have I mean,
if you think about it, it is so innate to
men that I don't even think that they consciously realize
all the games that they play half the time. That
(04:51):
doesn't put them in the clear, But what I'm saying
is it's so natural to them to understand this fact.
Listen to nothing that a man says. Words are nothing
action action action.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I'm going to put that on a red shirt.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Words are nothing action action action, especially with men. So
if a guy, or typically guys, understand that girls always
usually want a relationship, they're going to naturally take advantage
of that. That's when the excuses start. Oh, I'm not
ready for a girlfriend. Oh and guys hate ultimatums, but
(05:28):
they're the first ones to.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Give you one.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Well, I'm not really ready for a relationship yet, and
you know that I kind of do see other people, so.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I don't know, like what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
It's either you the real only option that they're giving
you is you jump into the rotation and you become mediocre,
decreasing your value, or you walk away with your respect
and dignity. And it's really not easy to walk away
from if you you were already involved with this person
and you realize, hold up, skirt, I want better for myself.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
It is difficult to do, but at the end of
the day, you have to do it because at the
end of the day, guys will go as far as
you let them.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
They actually do, like when you call them out on
their crap, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Because at the end of the day, if you don't
say anything, they'll just keep on going with the narrative.
You cannot play with somebody that doesn't care. You can't
play somebody that doesn't care. So don't obsess over what
a guy isn't doing, because first of all, it's summertime, baby,
(06:46):
and you should be talking to more than one guy anyways.
If you're not committed with one person already, all right,
And when I say commitment, it needs to be mutual,
not just on your end, because we do too much
of that. You know, I know this is so difficult
to do, But the older that I've become, I've learned
(07:08):
that you shouldn't analyze a person's behavior that is doing
the least.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
It just doesn't even make any sense.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
A lot of the times we as women, we step
into relationships not even expecting to like a guy as
much as we did or we do, and next you
know it, we're planning our future with this person and
they're not even thinking about seeing us the next day,
the next week. That needs to end. Act like a lady,
(07:39):
think like a man. Literally, never try to change or
control a man. Never try to change your control anyone
because obsessing over that will just leave you resentful and
that energy will naturally push him away even further. You
(08:00):
understand what I'm saying, because if you really think about it, Ladies,
at the end of the day, I know I get
a lot of questions, how do I make my ex
want me back?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
How do I do this? How do I do that?
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I can suggest a whole bunch of things, but the
problem is, aside from everything being circumstantial is that if
somebody simply does not want you or want you in
the way that you want them, then that is it.
The only other choice is to move on, be unbothered,
force yourself to be unbothered. You will inevitably lure a
(08:39):
guy in like this, especially if this is a brand
new guy, because guys are so used to the narrative
of women always proving themselves that they're the good girls
and molding themselves to be whatever the guy of their
interests wants.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Them to be. You don't need to do that.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You need to be your authentics because inevitably, whoever you're
going to be is going to come out regardless. So
don't try to force yourself to like the activities that
he likes and you genuinely don't like that, because once
you do that to get the guy, and then you
got him, and then all of a sudden you're having
issues because you pretended to like golfing, you know, the
(09:20):
entire year that you guys were together, and you hate golfing.
You understand of saying little things like that, right that
would matter to a guy thinking, wow, we have this
huge you know, interest and hobby in common.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
But you really don't.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Now that you've settled with this person, you got the guy,
he's feeling like you've changed. You did you pretended to
like something that you didn't like and this was a
big part of this guy's life. Okay, Then loving yourself
so hard, focusing on you, I promise you will draw
(09:58):
so much more to you.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So I want to end.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
This video saying this, we will be canceling the following.
Ladies caring more than me or cared for not receiving
plans that are set in stone, you know, slash last
minute dates, netflixing, chilling in twenty nineteen, especially if you
were over the age of twenty five, cut it out,
cut it out, all right? Netflix and chill only means
(10:24):
one thing, Okay, and I can go do that with
my girlfriends. I don't need to do that with a man.
Committing to single men. What's happening here?
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Chasing men?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
And lastly, entertaining inconsistent behavior. If a man can go
hours without texting you or returning your text message, or
answering you or calling you, there is no You have
to train yourself, ladies, to be disinterested in inconsistent behavior,
(11:01):
train your mind to be turned off by someone that
could even treat you like that.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
I've trained myself to be like this.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I'm not attracted to people that make me question my value,
people that make me feel like I have to figure
out what they're thinking.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I don't care. I just don't. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I can't care more than I'm cared for. I just
don't operate that way. I'm sorry. Actually, I have another
one that we're canceling. Lowering your standards so that the
guy you desire meets your standards. And you know what,
let's add another one on top of that. Sharing men.
It's over, babe, it's done because I know that you
(11:49):
don't really want to do that. I know that, deep down,
not even really deep down, girl, on the surface, you
don't want to share the person that you actually really
like or that you love.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
You don't want to share them.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And you know what, while you're doing that, he's not
going to be complaining because he's getting it from you
and her and her and her and her, you know
her all the way in the back.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
He doesn't care.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
But in the meantime, you're doing this because you like
this person, you love this person, and he is not
even valuing you. In fact, your value went down. He
doesn't necessarily have to pretend like it did but it did.
He doesn't actually really value you. The only value you
can actually gain is by walking away with your dignity,
(12:35):
not even an explanation, because the older that you become,
you will understand that not everything deserves an explanation.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
It's just you're done and you're out. Simple.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
These things that I talked about are non negotiable.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Period.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
This must be enforced. The game is changing, right few
of us know. Spread this knowledge. Spread this message and
listen and understand. You know, not everyone will be receptive.
It's very hard to face yourself and be self aware. Okay,
(13:19):
it's not an easy process to really look within yourself
and reflect and say, why do I do this? Why
does this bother me? Why do I get upset at this?
Why am I accepting this? That's a part of the process, honey,
That's a part of healing. That's a part of knowing you,
loving you so hard so that another person, a relationship,
a guy cannot dictate to you who you are, you
(13:41):
know or your value. Someone's lack and incapability of seeing
your value has no effect on your actual value.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Does that make sense.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
So with that being said, I want you, ladies to
remember this. The less I care, the happier I am,
be balanced and understand where to put your energy and focus,
because it's all too easy, all too common, to obsess
over the guy that isn't doing what we want him
(14:13):
to do, and there are way too many people on
this planet, men on this earth, to worry about why one.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Isn't doing what he's supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Rejection is direction, So if you look at it like
that from a positive standpoint, instead of trying to fix
something that's already broken and trying to show this person
that you are worthy of being with, drop them. Okay
you want to leave me, Okay, you don't see my value? Okay,
(14:49):
another person will and believe that, and you will manifest
that exact thing.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
I promise you.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Okay, ladies, thank you guys so much for watching this video.
Do not forget to subscribe to this channel if you
haven't already.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
I think that we can hit one hundred k by.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
August, maybe before August, I don't know, but I genuinely
believe we can do it.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Guys. We have currently over fifty seven thousand angels.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
This is mind boggling. I am so blown away. I'm
so grateful. Every single day I just thank God, like
I cannot believe that this is really happening. All my
dreams are coming true, all because of you guys and
your support and your love. Okay, and also I will
be working on getting my instinct Go set up for
you angels that we can talk one on one.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
That will be up and running this week for sure.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
And with that being said, I love you, and God
loves you, and I'll see you guys in my next
video
Hi, Hello, how are you guys?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Okay, yes, I am recording from the inside of my car.
I can help myself. This weather is so beautiful and honey,
the lighting.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
It's working for us.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Okay, all right, guys, So hello, longtime, no see.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I know, but I did go.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Live on Instagram yesterday, so make sure that you are
following you on Instagram. Oh and with that being said,
my Instagram will be right here of course. And also
thank you to all of my new subscribers. I see
all of you, guys. I do, and I do try
my absolute best to be as responsive as possible because
(00:44):
I love every.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Single one of my angels.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I know I'm gonna get some questions asking me where
I got my hair from. Guys, this is another unit
from my friend Dom's line.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I think it's called Hey Queen Crowns.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Nonetheless, all of the information for this hair will be
in the description box below, So guys, please make sure
to check my description box because I get a lot
of questions asking me about what makeup I'm wearing, and
all of the details of pretty much whatever I'm wearing
in that specific video.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Is always going to be in my description box.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
So without further ado, I want to jump right into
this topic, guys, the power of being unbothered. I'm sure
you guys have heard me say this in different videos. Okay,
this goes without saying that. If there's one thing we
should all know by now, it's that whoever cares the
least wins. So it's easy to ask, how do you
(01:45):
become unbothered?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
While you work on yourself.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You create your own life, your own hobbies, where you
have so much going on for yourself that you eliminate
the time wasters. And yes, there are going to be
people that fall through the crowd, okay, because nobody is invincible.
But at the same time, you want to make sure
that you are so fulfilled in your life that whoever
(02:09):
you decide to date, or whomever decides to date you,
has to fit themselves into your schedule right so that
when you were integrating into a relationship or talking to
someone dating someone, that you're not so consumed or obsessed
with what they aren't or what they want to do,
(02:30):
because you already have your own stuff going on. So naturally,
if you have a lot of things going on in
your life, it's very easy to be unbothered because you
know your schedule. You know that you are a very
busy person. You know that you have a lot going
for yourself. So anyone that fails to meet your standards
or fit themselves into your schedule, you don't have time
(02:53):
for them. You don't have time for anything that is subpar.
And it's just that kind and dry. As women channel
the unbothered energy, it draws so much more attention to us.
It's phenomenal actually, So imagine talking to a guy and
instead of obsessing over him and being easily impressed by
(03:15):
his minuscule efforts and flattery, you are light and fun,
care free and not like typical girls who send a
desperate energy that they really want to be in a relationship.
Because remember what I always tell you ladies, when guys
are first approaching you, it is solely based off of
(03:37):
physical attraction. Naturally, and honestly, that technically kind of goes
for both parties. Guys you know, are not thinking immediately,
oh my god, I gotta be with this girl. They
are attracted to you, They're gonna approach you, and then
the tests begin of if you are worth investing in?
(03:57):
How much do they need to invest to get are
in something from you?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
How long do they have to wait? All of these things.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
You need to have charm, sex, appeal, and coolness to
be unbothered. This is going to take knowledge and understanding
of the fact that leading with anything other than an
unbothered energy is going to hurt you.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Why.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Well, because what are guys used to. Guys are always
used to girls wanting to be in a relationship. They
know what it is, that's why they have I mean,
if you think about it, it is so innate to
men that I don't even think that they consciously realize
all the games that they play half the time. That
(04:51):
doesn't put them in the clear, But what I'm saying
is it's so natural to them to understand this fact.
Listen to nothing that a man says. Words are nothing
action action action.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I'm going to put that on a red shirt.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Words are nothing action action action, especially with men. So
if a guy, or typically guys, understand that girls always
usually want a relationship, they're going to naturally take advantage
of that. That's when the excuses start. Oh, I'm not
ready for a girlfriend. Oh and guys hate ultimatums, but
(05:28):
they're the first ones to.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Give you one.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Well, I'm not really ready for a relationship yet, and
you know that I kind of do see other people, so.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I don't know, like what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
It's either you the real only option that they're giving
you is you jump into the rotation and you become mediocre,
decreasing your value, or you walk away with your respect
and dignity. And it's really not easy to walk away
from if you you were already involved with this person
and you realize, hold up, skirt, I want better for myself.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
It is difficult to do, but at the end of
the day, you have to do it because at the
end of the day, guys will go as far as
you let them.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
They actually do, like when you call them out on
their crap, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Because at the end of the day, if you don't
say anything, they'll just keep on going with the narrative.
You cannot play with somebody that doesn't care. You can't
play somebody that doesn't care. So don't obsess over what
a guy isn't doing, because first of all, it's summertime, baby,
(06:46):
and you should be talking to more than one guy anyways.
If you're not committed with one person already, all right,
And when I say commitment, it needs to be mutual,
not just on your end, because we do too much
of that. You know, I know this is so difficult
to do, But the older that I've become, I've learned
(07:08):
that you shouldn't analyze a person's behavior that is doing
the least.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
It just doesn't even make any sense.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
A lot of the times we as women, we step
into relationships not even expecting to like a guy as
much as we did or we do, and next you
know it, we're planning our future with this person and
they're not even thinking about seeing us the next day,
the next week. That needs to end. Act like a lady,
(07:39):
think like a man. Literally, never try to change or
control a man. Never try to change your control anyone
because obsessing over that will just leave you resentful and
that energy will naturally push him away even further. You
(08:00):
understand what I'm saying, because if you really think about it, Ladies,
at the end of the day, I know I get
a lot of questions, how do I make my ex
want me back?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
How do I do this? How do I do that?
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I can suggest a whole bunch of things, but the
problem is, aside from everything being circumstantial is that if
somebody simply does not want you or want you in
the way that you want them, then that is it.
The only other choice is to move on, be unbothered,
force yourself to be unbothered. You will inevitably lure a
(08:39):
guy in like this, especially if this is a brand
new guy, because guys are so used to the narrative
of women always proving themselves that they're the good girls
and molding themselves to be whatever the guy of their
interests wants.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Them to be. You don't need to do that.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You need to be your authentics because inevitably, whoever you're
going to be is going to come out regardless. So
don't try to force yourself to like the activities that
he likes and you genuinely don't like that, because once
you do that to get the guy, and then you
got him, and then all of a sudden you're having
issues because you pretended to like golfing, you know, the
(09:20):
entire year that you guys were together, and you hate golfing.
You understand of saying little things like that, right that
would matter to a guy thinking, wow, we have this
huge you know, interest and hobby in common.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
But you really don't.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Now that you've settled with this person, you got the guy,
he's feeling like you've changed. You did you pretended to
like something that you didn't like and this was a
big part of this guy's life. Okay, Then loving yourself
so hard, focusing on you, I promise you will draw
(09:58):
so much more to you.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So I want to end.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
This video saying this, we will be canceling the following.
Ladies caring more than me or cared for not receiving
plans that are set in stone, you know, slash last
minute dates, netflixing, chilling in twenty nineteen, especially if you
were over the age of twenty five, cut it out,
cut it out, all right? Netflix and chill only means
(10:24):
one thing, Okay, and I can go do that with
my girlfriends. I don't need to do that with a man.
Committing to single men. What's happening here?
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Chasing men?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
And lastly, entertaining inconsistent behavior. If a man can go
hours without texting you or returning your text message, or
answering you or calling you, there is no You have
to train yourself, ladies, to be disinterested in inconsistent behavior,
(11:01):
train your mind to be turned off by someone that
could even treat you like that.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
I've trained myself to be like this.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I'm not attracted to people that make me question my value,
people that make me feel like I have to figure
out what they're thinking.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I don't care. I just don't. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I can't care more than I'm cared for. I just
don't operate that way. I'm sorry. Actually, I have another
one that we're canceling. Lowering your standards so that the
guy you desire meets your standards. And you know what,
let's add another one on top of that. Sharing men.
It's over, babe, it's done because I know that you
(11:49):
don't really want to do that. I know that, deep down,
not even really deep down, girl, on the surface, you
don't want to share the person that you actually really
like or that you love.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
You don't want to share them.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And you know what, while you're doing that, he's not
going to be complaining because he's getting it from you
and her and her and her and her, you know
her all the way in the back.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
He doesn't care.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
But in the meantime, you're doing this because you like
this person, you love this person, and he is not
even valuing you. In fact, your value went down. He
doesn't necessarily have to pretend like it did but it did.
He doesn't actually really value you. The only value you
can actually gain is by walking away with your dignity,
(12:35):
not even an explanation, because the older that you become,
you will understand that not everything deserves an explanation.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
It's just you're done and you're out. Simple.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
These things that I talked about are non negotiable.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Period.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
This must be enforced. The game is changing, right few
of us know. Spread this knowledge. Spread this message and
listen and understand. You know, not everyone will be receptive.
It's very hard to face yourself and be self aware. Okay,
(13:19):
it's not an easy process to really look within yourself
and reflect and say, why do I do this? Why
does this bother me? Why do I get upset at this?
Why am I accepting this? That's a part of the process, honey,
That's a part of healing. That's a part of knowing you,
loving you so hard so that another person, a relationship,
a guy cannot dictate to you who you are, you
(13:41):
know or your value. Someone's lack and incapability of seeing
your value has no effect on your actual value.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Does that make sense.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
So with that being said, I want you, ladies to
remember this. The less I care, the happier I am,
be balanced and understand where to put your energy and focus,
because it's all too easy, all too common, to obsess
over the guy that isn't doing what we want him
(14:13):
to do, and there are way too many people on
this planet, men on this earth, to worry about why one.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Isn't doing what he's supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Rejection is direction, So if you look at it like
that from a positive standpoint, instead of trying to fix
something that's already broken and trying to show this person
that you are worthy of being with, drop them. Okay
you want to leave me, Okay, you don't see my value? Okay,
(14:49):
another person will and believe that, and you will manifest
that exact thing.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
I promise you.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Okay, ladies, thank you guys so much for watching this video.
Do not forget to subscribe to this channel if you
haven't already.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
I think that we can hit one hundred k by.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
August, maybe before August, I don't know, but I genuinely
believe we can do it.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Guys. We have currently over fifty seven thousand angels.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
This is mind boggling. I am so blown away. I'm
so grateful. Every single day I just thank God, like
I cannot believe that this is really happening. All my
dreams are coming true, all because of you guys and
your support and your love. Okay, and also I will
be working on getting my instinct Go set up for
you angels that we can talk one on one.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
That will be up and running this week for sure.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
And with that being said, I love you, and God
loves you, and I'll see you guys in my next
video
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