In this powerful and eye-opening episode, I sit down with journalist, performer, and intimacy coordinator Laura Desiree to break down misconceptions around sex work, intimacy on stage and screen, and the importance of authentic storytelling. Laura shares her journey from burlesque to content creation, discusses the realities and stigmas sex workers face, and explains how intimacy coordination is reshaping the entertainment industry. From personal safety to sexual healing, this conversation explores the courage, creativity, and empowerment found under the “red umbrella” of sex work—and why listening to sex workers is essential for modern sex education.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to Taboo to Truth: Karen introduces the show and today’s guest, Laura Desiree.
02:30 – Defining Sex Work Today: What sex work means in modern society and the many professions under the “red umbrella.”
06:45 – Laura’s Journey into Sex Work: From burlesque beginnings to content creation and erotic performance.
11:25 – Breaking Misconceptions: Does sex work come from trauma? Debunking stereotypes and addressing stigma.
16:10 – Love, Safety & Relationships: How sex workers navigate intimacy, clients, and personal relationships.
20:40 – Intimacy Coordination Explained: Laura’s work creating safe environments for actors and performers on stage and screen.
26:15 – Eros Unbound: Erotic Storytelling: Laura’s live show blending confession, creativity, and sexual empowerment.
30:00 – Final 3 Questions: Laura shares her definition of sex, her best orgasm story, and her unfulfilled fantasy.
31:30 – Where to Find Laura Desiree: Resources, upcoming shows, and closing thoughts.
Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out!
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
About the Guest:
Laura Desiree is a dominant figure in erotic entertainment, celebrated for her work as a live-sex Intimacy Coordinator, journalist, adult industry consultant, and sought-after podcast commentator. She spent seven years as the host and producer of the groundbreaking web series Naked News, and now helms Eros Unbound, a confessional erotic reading event spotlighting sensual storytelling and creative expression. With over a decade of experience across broadcasting, adult media, and live performance, Laura is a trusted voice shaping the future of sex, art, and culture.
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