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July 31, 2025 51 mins
Still doubting your reality after they “future-faked” you? 🚩🤯 This episode spills the playbook, so you can finally shut it down. 

Host Lisa Urbanski sits with survivor/author Jodi Pavlock to demystify narcissistic abuse: trauma bonding, cognitive dissonance, gaslighting, hoovering, breadcrumbing, triangulation, “flying monkeys,” and more. 

You’ll learn:
🔁 How intermittent reinforcement forges trauma bonds, and how to break free.
🧠 Cognitive dissonance: the mind-warp that keeps you stuck and self-doubting.
❤️‍🩹 Emotional immaturity vs. narcissism (empathy is the difference-maker).
🔎 Future faking, mirroring, silent treatments; spot covert control tactics fast.
🚧 Why not forgiving can be a healthy boundary (and that’s okay).

Listen Now to reclaim your voice, rebuild self-worth, and protect your peace. 🌟

🔗 Dive deeper into Jodi’s work at JodiLynnPavlock.com, your hub for books, resources, and upcoming events.

📲 Stay inspired: connect with Jodi on her Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok for daily insights and community support.

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