Confidence Isn’t Cosmetic | The Truth About Redefining Your Life at Any Age

Ever feel like confidence is something other women have—but somehow you missed out? 
This week, Jamie Hadfield joins Tori to explore the truth about what confidence actually is (and what it’s not). Whether you're stuck in comparison or searching for a deeper sense of self, this conversation is for you. 

With experience as a two-time Mrs. Utah, reigning Mrs. Mexico World, and a seasoned confidence coach helping beauty queens and politicians alike, Jamie shares stories, hard-won wisdom, and practical tools that will help you reclaim your self-worth from the inside out. You’ll also hear about how losing 25 pounds, facing injury, and dealing with grief led her to the international pageant stage—and to her purpose. 

This episode is your reminder that “everything you need is inside of you.” 

Chapters 
[00:00] The Inner Spark Behind Outer Beauty
[06:30] Redefining Beauty at 47: Jamie’s Unexpected Reign as Mrs. Mexico World
[11:00] From Setbacks to Stage Lights: How Adversity Fuels Achievement
[13:30] Real Wins: Why Losing Made Jamie a Better Confidence Coach
[16:00] From Contestant to Competitor: The Secret Sauce to Confidence
[20:00] The Tough Chick Analogy: Why Confidence Is Born in Hardship
[22:30] The Biggest Confidence Block for Women Over 35: Fear of Judgment
[26:00] Raising Boys Without Filters: Jamie’s Parenting Philosophy on Social Media
[30:00] Blindfold the Comparison: Social Media Rules for Confidence Competitors
[34:30] Beauty That Heals: When Outer Glam Meets Inner Grace
[36:00] The Oxytocin Advantage: How Realness Wins Hearts—and Pageants
[41:00] Confidence Coaching Beyond Pageants: From Politicians to Parents
[45:00] The Tugboat Story: Owning Your Unlikely Superpower
[47:00] Start With Spirit: The Ultimate Confidence Practice


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