Mental Health Motivation: Creating New Circles (ClubHouse Recap)

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
On all the way up today, Circle of Friends, Circle
of Friends. Ain't no games today, circle of Friends. Yeah,
We're gonna go all the way up today. I'm gonna
have a great conversation today, right, I'm have it with
my friends, I'm have it with my brother Chasing. I'm'a

(00:21):
have it with a lot of different people today, especially
on you know clubhouse. I like to put together conversations.
Y'all know I love conversations.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
I love this.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
So I say, yo, Jason, I need you to come
over here so we can have this great conversation over
here Paris two point zero. You guys can come up
in a few whenever you want. But I'm just you know,
I wanna. I wanna introduce this platform to my brother Chasing.
He's doing some great things over at Circle of Friends
club and he's, you know, me and him has been
collaborating and he has good energy and this is a

(00:53):
good person.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
So I'm gonna bring him in.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
So that way he can see, you know, the business
side of the clubhouse, the audio, right, and just see
what we got going down.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
It's gonna be crazy today.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
I know a few of my friends and you know,
family's gonna come by make sure you guys ping the
room up here the room. I'm gonna be welcome you
guys on the stage shortly, but I just want to,
you know, let you know, Jason, get familiar with this,
familiar with you know, clubhouse, what we're about to do,
and take off because me and him got some big
things rocking in the backgrounds, especially with you know, the big,

(01:28):
big mental health group that we're that we're doing, especially
you know, I do you know the media mentors, we
do the.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Stack pack media right.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
But now I got Jason coming in hot with me,
and we're gonna be doing some great things.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
So this is what I'm gonna do, Jason.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
I'm gonna let you just relax, bro I'm gonna play
some music, man playing some Kanye or something. Let these
people get you know, come on, get up in here.
I'll be waiting for y'all to pull up.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
Jason.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
We're gonna be going in about you know, mental health motivation,
creating new circles.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
We're gonna be right there with y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
Hold on so boss, so hard. Motherfuckers wanna find me
the first niggas gotta find me. What's filly grant to
a motherfucker like me. Can you please remind me as
so harvest ship craze y'all don't know that, don't ship
base and let me go. I'm faty two when I
look at you like this ship gray John so harvest

(02:19):
ship where we ain't even pop be here John so
hard since we have Sony right that we be fed
ight go, I'm like bro to go, Mike, go take
your pick Jackson tight son Charna gang six so so hard,
got a broke clock, bro leaves that don't take the top.
All the monster's do the time putting behind all these
big rocks so hard. I'm shot too. I'm supposed to

(02:41):
be knocked up too. You escape what high scape? You
being Paris getting fucked up to all so hard? Lets
you faded, yad but east for like six days.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
They gonna go up Paris. Let's go. I got.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Just so might let you me gay shot towns t
roades moving the next PK, y'alls, I'm gonna find me.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
That's creat that's your correct, that's you. You know what.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
The energy is always on point when I come by
and I wanted to have this conversation, you know, with
my friends with you guys, that's here right about mental health,
mental health, motivation and creating new circles.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
I like to create new circles.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
I like to get around new individuals, right, Jason, are
you buy your mic right now?

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Man?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
Can you please like introduce yourself and let my friends
know man, who you are, man and what you do.
We're gonna get into it. Me pinging the room up, Man,
let's go.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
I appreciate you stack Man, thank you so much for
starting this room and for inviting me here. Everybody. I'm
Jason Wilson and from Atlanta, Georgia originally, but I left
the country twenty years ago and I've been down here
in South America and Columbia. And since i've been here,
I've been teaching English as a second language to a

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lot of executives down here. I've had a speed dating company.
I did that from ten twenty ten to twenty fifteen,
and during that time we had more than two hundred
couples that got married. So after that, a lot of
my clients told me that they didn't want to necessarily
get married, but have just a circle of friends outside

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of work that they could go bowling with, go to
the movies, and do different activities. So I said, you
know what, that's a great idea. So the Lord gave
me the idea about Circle of Friends and we had
a couple of events and after that I had to
go back to the States for a while, and when
I came back, I picked the idea back up in

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twenty twenty with the pandemic, and during that time, that's
when I knew that mental health had to be basically
the crux of that business. So here we are with Sack.
He's joined me on this idea for mental health. We
want to do events on a monthly basis and every
week here on Clubhouse to give people a safe space

(04:56):
where they can talk about anything that's going on with
them when it comes to depression, PTSD, suicidal ideation or depression.
I think that, you know, there's a lot of power
in sharing this story. So that's why we're here. Ladies
and gentlemen, welcome to the room. You'll have the opportunity
to come up and share anything that you want to

(05:17):
talk about.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Thanks a lot, No, I love that Jason in the platform.
I feel like a lot of people are dealing with
that right now, right you know, PTSD, depression, and they
don't really have an outlet, right And when I seen
Jason and when we connected.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
I say, Yo, this is an outlet. This is an
outlet for a lot of people.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
So I'm glad he's here, guys, and I want to
get right into it creating new circles. What do you
guys think it is to create new circles? I think
like I always say, I want to change my environment.
Welcome to the stage, Lings, Saya, Pirates, Crypto. We talk,
We're gonna have this conversation. But I feel like changing
my environment. If I change my environment, I'm going to
change everything around me. There's nothing that's negative that can

(05:58):
impost me or get inside of my circle. When I'm
positive and I know who I am. That's why I
come in the game so strong.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
I know who I am. I know what the universe
is gonna.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
You know, supply you gotta go after this right and
don't slack, because when I'm creating new circles, I'm not
trying to slack. I'm gonna do what I say I'm
gonna do. And you gotta keep your name, good environment, name, credibility,
who you are speaking with, respect, right, Like, it's all
types of stuff that I want to go through. But

(06:27):
I'm creating new circles today. I'm creating different environments. I
want to go to Paris real quick. I know Paris
came up on the stage, and thank you Paris yesterday
for showing me that love. I know I told you
about you know, the Forbes and how we're doing it
you know over there. But Paris, you got anything to
talk about with, you know, creating new circles or mental
health motivation. Welcome to the stage and I'll check on Linday,
your crypto and Jason.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
We can have this conversation. Shout out to you.

Speaker 5 (06:50):
Yeah, thank you Stack Paris. I'm honored, definitely, congratulations to you. Still,
that's very exciting. As far as creating circles, I think
it's important to always tell your field of friends because
your network correlates with your net worth. And I feel

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like for myself, I have to evaluate, am I just
staying around people that are conveniently in my life or
am I actively networking and not being opportunities but just
finding common energy, common goals. And they're doing it on
a trifecta type level where I got people that I'm

(07:31):
lateral to where we can talk and say, okay, this
is what we've done, this is what we've accomplished. People
that look up to me where I can say I
want to be a motivation to you, but they don't
necessarily get all the details behind the scenes, because there's
some dynamics there that you have to be wise about
as well.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
So that you're and what the dynamics paris. Let's break
it down. We ain't here today, we're gonna talk about it.
Let's break it down.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
Around that stack picked up on the tip toe. But
just to put it blunt, you don't want to make
nobody jealous or put a target on your back because
you so far ahead of them that when you talk
about what you're doing, it sounds like you're bragging. So
you gotta be wise with still being a motivator to
people that steps behind you, and then walk in sync.

(08:15):
Make sure that you're in tune in alignment and agreement
with the people that are walking with you lateral, but
then also make sure that you got people that are
steps ahead of you that you align with as well,
where you might not be able to sit everywhere they sit,
but you can see where they could give you insight
and inspiration and motivation, and I land, I'm like, this

(08:36):
is parents think.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
You inspiration and motivation and that's what a lot of
people on clubhouse give me too, inspiration motivation, right, And
that's and this is why I got Jason in here,
is because we come from a spirit of inspiration and motivation. Jason,
how do you feel about what you heard of from
pirates Man before we continue?

Speaker 2 (08:54):
Because I got some things to talk about.

Speaker 4 (08:56):
Yeah, I think that's really really important, paris having a
a circle that you can go to to depend on,
you know, just to bounce ideas off of, when it
comes to business or if it's a personal matter, having
a circle that you can go to to talk about
your innermost feelings is really really important. If not yeah, depression, anxiety,

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that's something that can have a drastic effect on people
if you're not sharing. And what those those spirits want
to do is to get you to basically shut down,
isolate yourself where you don't have any contact with your family,
your friends, and then that's when the spirit of suicide
comes in. So I'm just so glad to you know,

(09:41):
have this circle here where people can come and share and.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Let's do it.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
That's what it's about. It's about sharing. I feel like
sharing is Karen Paris. If you have information, because if
you if you're a person with information, don't sit on
the inform.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
And not give it to no one.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
How About you give that inform like that knowledge, and
you go ahead and give it back. And that's what
I like, you know, I surround myself with people that
are just like that, Like we get information, but we're
not stingy on giving it back. We'll get a lot
of information, but then we're not stingy on giving the
information back to who needs it. If I listen, if
I know some information or I have a resource on something,

(10:24):
I'm not gonna just sit there and not give it
to you. Or I'm not gonna sit there and not
you know what I'm saying, Oh yeah, this can help
you out, or this can do this for you. I'm
gonna help you out any way I can. If I
can't do it right, don't be a person that has information,
that has knowledge and doesn't want to give it back.
Giving back is key Paris over to you got any
dance to say?

Speaker 5 (10:44):
Yeah, I just I love the Jason touched on isolation. Isolation.
I didn't realize it before the quarantine. When I heard
them on the news and check on your friends, my
thought was that they wanted to make sure that you
weren't in I was decaying from the virus. But what
I found out is that isolation is hard on you.

(11:06):
I never knew that before because I had an instant
set of social activity because of my work. But then
working from home changed that dynamic. So I realized the
importance of not being isolated. And then what you just said, Stack,
what was the thought I had? It was something you said,
it'll come back to me. I land my mic.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Alright, cool, somebody make me a moderator. I just swiped
right there so Jason could be first. So somebody make
me a moderator, and then we're gonna go in like
this right now.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
Listen, mental health motivation.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Right when I'm creating new circles and I'm creating, you know,
different environments and different things. I want the best individuals possible.
I don't want to be around I'd rather be around
the most quality than quantity. Right, I'd rather be around
quality versus quantity.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
Right.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
It doesn't matter how big something is, as long as
you believe in it, that's that's where it's at I
want to check on my sister Lindsay too to see
what she's got to say about, you know, just creating
new circles and mental health motivation or any because you know,
in wellness worries, that's what we focus on. We go
in there, we love on ourselves and we also create
circles over there as well.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
Lindsay, are you buy your mic right now? Sister the Chiman,
I am.

Speaker 6 (12:31):
I'm out walking by my.

Speaker 7 (12:32):
Mic, getting them steps, getting them step.

Speaker 8 (12:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:36):
Walking warriors for sure, for sure, you guys and everyone's
I'm invited to join in our initiative, our commitment, our
warrior commitment in September is who you stepping with? So
who are you inviting to step with you? I sent
out an email this morning to invite some people to
come take some steps with me in the month of September,
also the month I'll be forty. Who I've been building

(12:57):
community ooh yeah. Community and being a strong networker has
been part of me. It is a place in which
I have a lot of joy. So I have a
lot of proficiency and I have built many of community
over all different topics and all sorts of things. Engaged community,

(13:20):
live community, all of the ways and spaces, and I
know that that stems from having been an only child
and knowing the importance. One I can do it alone.

Speaker 8 (13:31):
Two I don't have to.

Speaker 6 (13:33):
So yeah, always excited to connect and collaborate, and that's
always meeting new people, expanding my network, seeing who I
can support, who I can connect so that they can
grow to It's, you know, thinking about being a contributor
to the world at a much bigger vision than what's
going to serve only you. So you know, true service.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Is something you got to say.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Please say that again.

Speaker 6 (14:02):
Yeah, I mean the reality is that, you know, when
you're really looking at creating net worth and networking, it's
about thinking beyond the scope of what serves you. You know.
It is walking in a really you know, positive way,
being an honorable person, being one of integrity, and those

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are things that are impossible to fake. They're an energy.
Everyone can feel it and see it and listen. Some
know how to manipulate it too, Like every one serves
a purpose, everyone is worthy. The important thing is you
are the only one whose judgment of you really matters.
And you'll know if you're walking in truth her if
you're walking in falsehood and everyone else will be able

(14:47):
to see you too, So you know, be authentic, be genuine,
serve other humans and do that consistently and that's how
it happens. So anyhow, Yeah, I'm excited about the conversation
that because that's.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Something that you know what I mean, you always did
with Serve and you know, I can't wait till, you know,
we mix the flock up with the Circle and just
just collaborate. Like that's all I want to do is
just collaborate. And that's someone right there, Jason that always
puts together community and then cultivates a safe space where

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they can love on each other every single day. And
that's what we're going to do with after Circle. So Jason,
over to you, brother, if you got anything to say,
and then we can continue this conversation.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
Man, we're having a good one. Let's go.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
Yeah, this is awesome. Lindjay, I love what you said.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, Jason, her name is Lindsay.

Speaker 4 (15:40):
Okay, sorry about that, Lindsay. So yeah, I would love
to get with you and Stack and figure out more
things that we can do to collaborate. That that would
be great. Let's give somebody else a chance.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Crypto Crypto. Are you here, my brother, are you by
your mic? That's my brother Crypto. Hey, what so Crypto.
This is my brother Jason. Remember I told you that
I joined the Circle of Friends Club. I'm the marketing
director over there now Crypto, so I'm working with him.
But I just wanted you to chime in.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Brother.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
He helps me on the crypto currency, Jason behind the
scenes with all the artwork for stack pack Digital stack Pack,
helping me understand the blockchain even more in advance. But Jason,
this is Crypto. Crypto, this is Jason. This we in
the building. But Crypto, I just wanted you to chime in,
brother about you know, creating a new circle, mental health,
motivation and anything that's on your mind today and how

(16:29):
you're feeling.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
Brother. Over to you man, thank you for being here.

Speaker 9 (16:33):
Hey what up?

Speaker 10 (16:34):
Stacked Jays saying everybody else in the building. You know,
hope everybody's having a good day, you know, getting that
energy going. Just wanted to say, you know, hope everybody
is collecting at least, you know, at least five dollars
in bigcoin here in their e theory and you know,
getting a little bit of excerpty for the next you know,

(16:55):
a year two, you know, year two at least, and
unless you're trading it constantly daily, you know, you can
either reach out to Stack or me and we can
help you navigate the blockchain, you know, with the blockchain boys.
And so that just the new technology that we're getting involved,
you know, all the ais, the algorithms, the structure, so

(17:17):
any type of new technology that's coming out, we're trying
to engage with it, right, and I'm creating a new
circle for us, you know, we the main thing, at
least for me, you know, it's just being yourself and
being honest is one of the main things that's gotten
me far always because at the end of the day,
you know, if you're not yourself, then other people won't

(17:39):
have room to be themselves as well. And you're not
gonna get full, full, the full degree of what's going
on in whatever field you're going in, because nobody's gonna
want to be real and honest with you, right. And
another thing, you know, the mind. The mind doesn't know
the difference between reality or if you're imagining something you know,

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and the same with the universe. The universe doesn't know
the difference between the future and the past, So we
get so stuck in the past and in the future
that we're not even present in the present time, right,
And so I just wanted to put it out there
that one of my teachers, he says that the fast,
the faster the frequency, the shorter amount of time, it

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will appear in your life.

Speaker 4 (18:25):
Right.

Speaker 10 (18:26):
So, what happens when you achieve, when you achieve your
goals and when you achieve your dreams or anything that
you want to achieve, right, what happens is the end
product of that experience is going to be a feeling.

Speaker 4 (18:41):
Right.

Speaker 10 (18:41):
Then what happens is that anything that you get done,
you're going to feel accomplished. So what my teacher is
saying here is that when you get into that vibration,
that frequency of being there in that moment of already
being accomplished, the frequency came in so fast, at lightning speed.
That's why you manifest a lightning speed. Because the frequency

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came in so fast, the the amount of time got shorter,
and it appeared in your in your in your life.
So the faster the frequency, the shorter amount of time
will appear in your life. Because you ended up cutting
every everything and you ended up going into a short

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cut and being in that frequency now. So that just
wanted to put that out there, to be in in
that frequency of your of your emotions, of your life
or whatever you want to be in. You want to
be in that in that state of mind now and
that creates a ripple in the quantum field where then
you can start manifesting and it starts materializing in this world.

(19:46):
And so I just wanted to put that out there,
you know, and creating new circles and not creating a
new circle uh in in the in the in the
third dimensional space, but creating a circle around yourself, you know,
and that circle pure energy, pure consciousness, you know, and
then that circle will grow as you grow it in

(20:06):
the field, in the magnetic fields. All right, I'll land
my plane there. Thanks for letting me speak Stacks. Nice
to meet you, Jason, and everybody hopes everybody has a
great day out there.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Appreciate you crypto for real, bro, How you feel about that,
Jason talk to me?

Speaker 4 (20:23):
Yeah, nice to meet your crypto man. That was awesome
as well.

Speaker 11 (20:26):
Man.

Speaker 4 (20:27):
Looking forward to having more conversation with you as well. Brother.
Let's hear from I'm in I'm sorry if I get your.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
Name always letting let me tell you about her. Jason
is my sister. Okay, she's all the way from Cairo, Egypt, Jason,
So she's all the way near the Pyramids. I want
to go up there and climb up there and do
a podcast. Jason, you know what I'm saying. So it's
my sister. She's been supporting on this app for years.

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So I love when she comes in and gives her perspective,
especially coming from all the way over there. You know
what I'm saying, hearing that voice coming from Egypt. So Iman,
we appreciate you for being here. And then we're going
to continue the conversation because I want to chime in
on a few points of the Circle of Friends, and
I want to check on brother Danny, Jose, Makita love hard.
Everybody chime in, and you know, picking the room up
to in Trinity. You can come on the stage as well.

(21:17):
Let's talk about something even what's going on.

Speaker 12 (21:20):
Hey everyone, Hello, Jason, welcome to the stage. Welcome to
this Circle of the Friends club, and I'm so glad
that you're with us today. Mendiah, Miss Jusus Paris ripped
to Jose back then everyone Makida Love. I'm not sure

(21:42):
what's your name? Sorry, and everyone listening. Lass guys, welcome
to this beautiful space because we are here today. I
believe to celebrate something beautiful and amazing and very very

(22:02):
much related to the mental health, which is the people
that you are surrounding yourself with. I mean, choosing this
wisely is very important because at the end of the day,
we are a mental health or a mental willness on

(22:26):
two legs. Nobody, regardless what your position is, what your
profession is, if you are not mentally right, if you're
not taking care of yourself. Wellness and mental health is

(22:47):
two couple that cannot walk unless side by side. Success
comes within those two. But choosing to support the success,
choosing to support the goodness in the world, the kindness,

(23:08):
the everything that is doing something good to this world,
to one person on this earth, I'm fully supporting it.
I myself as a business development and for development consultants
who's I've been working all my life in research in

(23:32):
every single industry out there. But I'm at the end
of the day, human who take care so much for
the people I love and I believe in and as
much as I believe in myself. I believe in goodness

(23:53):
and I believe in in success, and I believe that
in how much we are working process all the time,
we're working on ourselves. If you're not working on yourself,
you're doing a disservice for yourself. And that's this you're

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saying this. If you're not on the menu, you're on
the table. If you're not on the table, you're on
the menu. So if you are not going to create
your self first, then you can create everything else, your success,
your position, your your business, and and you are doing

(24:36):
it for you and for your circle of influence, and
your circle of influence is something worth the investment. And
I believe that it's investment and it takes effort, and
it baths so much love and support. And there's so

(25:01):
much to be said in here, But I don't know a
husband wife more than this. They'm speaking for now, And
I love.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
You a man. Listen.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
I want to I love when Emon comes through, Jason,
because it's all about you know, love when she's been
supporting me for so long, you know, before I made
media mentors for Internet Traffic Agency.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
She's seen that light and she always sends me. You
know when people send you messages Jason, because you you're
just like this too. She always sends me messages on
Instagram like stat keep going, or I'm so proud of you, right,
Like those are the that's what you want to hear
when you're creating the new circles. I'm so proud of you.
This is what I want. You're doing so good. And

(25:43):
she always does that all the time. It doesn't matter
what I do, Jason, can I get some quick words
and I'm gonna do a quick reset so I can
welcome some more friends on the stage so we can
continue the conversation because I want to ping the room
up because there's a ping feature, Jason. You see that
arrow at the bottom. You can ping that and ping
some friends in here. That's on the app. So as
you start to build your profile up, you can ping
other people in here as well. I'm gonna be bringing

(26:05):
Jason over to Chatter and introducing him to that as well.
But first we're gonna start with Clubhouse the old g Way, right,
So Jason, we over here. Let me get some words
from you, brother. Then I'm gonna do a quick research.
Let's go.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
Yeah, Imon, I totally agree with you. I think that
building your circle is one of the most important investments
that you can make in your life. It's absolutely true
that you are the product of the five people that
you're surrounded by. That circle that you're surrounded by on
a daily basis can make or break you. So yes,

(26:40):
I agree with you on that. Can't wait to have
more conversation with you in Stack as well. Bro. I'm
all about going to Egypt and doing the podcast.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
Sounds good? Yeah, yeah, Jason, we go.

Speaker 12 (26:52):
You're welcome. Guys, You're welcome.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
Yes, absolutely, so let's hear from Ja.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
I got you. We're gonna hit go on.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
I want to do a quick reset just so we
can get it going. Okay, ping this room up right,
y'all see the arrow at the bottom. This is the
first time that Circle of Friends club is open on Clubhouse,
so I need y'all to ping more people inside here
so they can get, you know what I'm saying, familiar.
I'm also go check in with my brother Denny too
if he got time. If you gotta go, Denny, it's okay.

(27:22):
But I just want people to ping the room up,
get more familiar to what we were doing in here.
We're talking about mental health, motivation, creating new circles. This
is gonna be a power room, right, ping this room up.
Y'all know I love the music. Anywhere I go, I
bring music. Ping it up, Jason, let's go, then say
it Crypto email, let's go Paris, Let's go.

Speaker 2 (27:43):
I'm no, you don't want me to go down?

Speaker 4 (27:48):
No?

Speaker 13 (27:49):
Miney know that.

Speaker 2 (28:00):
What's up?

Speaker 14 (28:02):
You are?

Speaker 6 (28:05):
Bows?

Speaker 12 (28:10):
What's up?

Speaker 15 (28:12):
You are?

Speaker 11 (28:14):
Bows?

Speaker 2 (28:19):
A million wis?

Speaker 16 (28:21):
I swear apple you you love, You're gonna love you.
No one dies that that's party. If my boss ive
me young li on you mine nobody?

Speaker 4 (28:39):
What's up?

Speaker 7 (28:41):
You are?

Speaker 3 (28:44):
Bulow boughs.

Speaker 4 (28:48):
Lis up?

Speaker 2 (28:51):
You are.

Speaker 4 (28:53):
All right? I I I.

Speaker 2 (28:56):
Listen.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
I want to get back into this conversation with my brother,
the chasing everyone that's here. Let's say emon right, shot
us to everybody. We want to get back into creating
new circles. Early I was talking about, you know, creating
a new environment, right, creating new creating new friendships, creating
new create just creating new things to look forward to.
That's what I like to do every single day, is

(29:18):
create new things to look forward to and shout us
to everyone that's blowing up the Forbes Black Post as well.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
We just made it into that community. So that's just fire.
Go blow it up and.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
Shots to you guys in here. Jason shout to you too.
I want to hear from some more people. I got parents,
I got Danny. Let me get Danny in here before
you go. Danny, are you by your mic right now?

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Brother? Are you here with me?

Speaker 4 (29:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (29:44):
So, Danny, I just I just want to ask you
about mental health, bro, and motivation and creating new circles.
And I know you're getting back into the boxing. I
know you're getting back into the ring. I know you
just left the gym. You're animal, So talk to me
Danny about you know, mental health and do you you
have any motivational tips for us today, bro? Or you
got anything to say about creating new circles because I
know you're going into something new or not even something new,

(30:07):
just something back that you got to You have to
train yourself again.

Speaker 2 (30:11):
It's kind of new, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 9 (30:14):
After six years?

Speaker 12 (30:15):
Ship?

Speaker 2 (30:20):
What what do you want me to do?

Speaker 8 (30:21):
You want?

Speaker 2 (30:21):
I want you to touch on mental health and creating
a new circle for yourself.

Speaker 9 (30:25):
But like what just like, bro, like throw me up
because you know, I got it.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
As soon as I tossed Danny, he gonna keep going,
y'all know he gonna go for five. Gotta get so
Danny mental health, Like I, what's what's motivated you to
keep your mental health on point through the boxing career?

Speaker 2 (30:43):
That's what I want to know, Danny. I know you
got to get an interview style.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
What's motivated you to keep your mental health on point
in the box and talk.

Speaker 9 (30:51):
To me man in general? Okay, I'll tell you this
right I came. I'm I'm coming back because, uh I
just got unfinished stack. You noticed I said this, you know,
I think I said this in.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
This room with you, But uh.

Speaker 9 (31:08):
Yeah, I'm coming back because I got unfinished business. Meaning,
you know, a lot of a lot of my career
was just thrown down the dream because damn it. Sorry,
sorry about that.

Speaker 17 (31:20):
A lot of my career was thrown down the dream because,
uh I had a lot of shit going on personally,
you know, between you know, bad relationships with people.

Speaker 9 (31:30):
Wrong people in my life.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
Women.

Speaker 9 (31:34):
Alcohol was was a big thing since that that stopped
in twenty sixteen. So yeah, I mean.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
My mental health was.

Speaker 9 (31:47):
I mean, if you were even want to call it that.
I just had a lot of a lot of bullshit
from the past, you know, that would that would leak in,
and I let it. I let it affect me in
all in all areas, including my career, and and you know,
when it came fight time and it came time to me, uh,
you know, time to handle business. You know, I was

(32:11):
just I wouldn't look right, and everybody around me, they'd
be like, what the hell's going on? Because you know,
in the gym, and and you know, for those of
you who don't know, like I've been in there with
the best in the world. So like all my friends
with world champions, hall of famers. Right now, I'm working
with John David Jackson. He's a he's a former two

(32:31):
time world champion, He's in a Hall of Fame. He's
worked with fifteen world champions. You know, so uh, you
know when when when you're at the top like that,
you know, it's it's it's a lot of focus. There's
a lot of fighters Like I used to be in
another camp where with Lewis Ortiz, it was me Lewis Ortiz,

(32:52):
clouder morero one colors, piano. Uh, we have ringing the
outcome in a few times, but and that can't particularly
There were dorm rooms set up, so our trainer, Herman,
he used to he used to set the guys that
didn't live here in Miami. He used to set them
up where they were living a gym and then we

(33:14):
had like a little area in the back for you know,
barbecue and stuff like that. Right, It's it's like it was.
It was a very hidden like these gyms are not
public gyms. They're not open to the public. Like the
only time that that we that the doors open up
is when you know, pay per views showtime comes in
and they bring their cameras and stuff like that. But
the rest of the time is a very secluded area.
And he kept it like that so so so the

(33:36):
fighters could be focused because you know, there's a lot
of distractions. So all they did was sleep, eat, train,
that's it. You know, only outside contact would be on
their phone and the time that it was fight time,
and it was just you know, I mean, it was
just it was it was routine. And I'm saying that

(33:58):
to say that has a lot to do with mental
health stack Like you know, the outside world could could
with everything that goes on. Man It messages people up.
You know, it distracts people. You get so focused and
then next minute you're distracted. And then the better the
better you're doing, the more distractions come. So like, you know,

(34:20):
I remember, you know, when I wasn't when I I mean,
I've I've been around superstars since I was like seventeen
years old from you know, I mean my brother missed
the cheeks and the lost boys, you know, you know,
shout out to him. But uh, like I got, you know,
I when I started, when I started doing stuff, that's
when things started. Those those little things started seeping in.

(34:44):
Oh why don't you come hang out? Why don't you
come party? Why don't you come to the club, Why
don't you do this? Why don't you do that? We
got this party going on. It was just like, you know,
there's a lot of.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
So many distraction women. Oh yeah, the women, Danny, you know, it's.

Speaker 9 (34:59):
It's it's it's it's it's not easy. I mean, look,
look I was with ab Adrian Broner, right. Uh he's
a eight division world champion. Guys, this guy's made millions.
You look him up, google him. Okay, this guy was
at one point he was ranked I believe number four
in the top five pound in the in the in
the top five pound per pounalist under Floyd. Floyd I

(35:22):
think was ranked number two, number one at the time,
and Adrian Broner was number four. This guy, he put
it on social media and everything. Good dude, we were
with this team and everything. Ab I'll probably be with
him later on this this month because we got sparring
up up in Jacksonville. But this guy threw his career
away alcohol, gambling and women. Millions gone and and and

(35:52):
lost a lot of opportunities when it came to him,
you know, in the fight game and stuff like that.
Just complete just I mean, you talk about you talk
about talent. This guy eight division means eight different weight classes.
He was a world CHAMPIONI this guy has belts like
you wouldn't believe. And he threw it all away because

(36:13):
he just he wasn't focused and stuff.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
And he could have been.

Speaker 9 (36:15):
He could have been a lot better than what he was.
So what do I got to say about that? Stock distraction?

Speaker 4 (36:21):
Man?

Speaker 9 (36:21):
Like, So how do I handle my shit? I just
stay away from the things that I know that I'm
that are gonna make me fall shorter. Right now, I
ain't got the.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
I don't have to.

Speaker 9 (36:32):
I don't have the luxury anymore. I just turned forty.
This is my last shot. Like we I had to
talk with my team about this, and this is it.
So you know, I'm focused, you know, And that's it, man,
Like it's just for me. It's just it's a very
it's a very boring simple life. Right now. I gotta
go to the gym, I work out. I'm gonna start

(36:53):
turning the heat up soon. We're gonna go to the
gym twice twice a day, put my mouths in, run
at night, and and work.

Speaker 6 (37:01):
And that's it.

Speaker 9 (37:03):
Focus. I'm not you know, And that's that. So did
that answer your question?

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yes, Danny, thank you for chiming and I needed that.

Speaker 4 (37:11):
We like that.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
Raw, Yo, Danny, I can't wait. You already know what
we're doing now. We're gonna do some big collapse, some.

Speaker 9 (37:18):
Big I've been I've been meaning to call you, man,
I've been, like I told you.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
I'm just like, Yo, please call me, Danny.

Speaker 9 (37:26):
I'll call you, man.

Speaker 2 (37:27):
What's all for sure? Appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
My brother Danny always pulling up when he has time,
when he comes through. It's always a good vibe, a
good feel.

Speaker 14 (37:35):
Right.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
If you guys are just now joining, We're talking about
mental health motivation with my brother Jason. This is his
first time on clubhouse, but he's not new to networking, right.
So we in the building and I got my brother Nick, Ki, Mkita, Frank, Tone, Paris,
Steve just got on this stage. I want to hear
from all you guys, right, I'm gonna pass it back
to Jason to see if he has, you know, any

(37:57):
words from you know what Danny just shared, and then
you can continue this conversation.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
Jason, let's go, brother.

Speaker 4 (38:04):
Yeah, Danny, Man, I love what you said.

Speaker 11 (38:06):
Man.

Speaker 4 (38:06):
I had a podcast back in twenty twenty two with
Marvelous Marvin Hagler's son James. I don't know if you're
familiar with Marvelous Marvin Hagler, but.

Speaker 18 (38:17):
All right cool, So yeah, man, I'm good friends with
James and we had like fifty something episodes talking about
mental health with legacy fighters like Roberto Durant's son, Sugar
Shane Moseley's.

Speaker 4 (38:33):
Son, and it was an awesome experience, man. But you know,
every conversation that we.

Speaker 9 (38:37):
Had, we know the my trainer John, he worked with
Team Okay, all right, yeah, asks as Sane Jr. Who
John David Jackson.

Speaker 4 (38:52):
Is all right, So yeah, man. The funny thing is
is that you know, on the basically every episode we
were talking about Marvelous Marble had this mindset and how
important it was for him to have like a a
pre match ritual that he did, and talked about how
hard the training was. But you know, he would make

(39:15):
himself run like twelve miles every single day just for
the simple fact of having an unstoppable mindset. It wasn't
so much that he was running the twelve miles for
his physical fitness or his condition. It was the mindset.
So that's one of the most important things too, when
you when you're looking at building your network and expanding

(39:37):
your circle, is the mindset of the people that you're
surrounded by, because I mean, that's gonna affect your mental
health as well.

Speaker 9 (39:45):
And dude, you're bringing up you're bringing up fighters that like,
people don't understand the fighters nowadays. They ain't got nothing
on the old school I'm I'm I'm borderlining and whacked,
ny yo. These new fighters they got it easy.

Speaker 2 (40:00):
Like they don't.

Speaker 9 (40:00):
They don't they wouldn't last They wouldn't last in there
with the Hagglers, the Hearns. When I was in camp
back back in two thousand, this is when I started
with John two thousand and eight, two thousand and nine.
I mean, this was back with Randall Bailly, Alan Green,
Charles Whittaker. We had Sergey uh He he ended up
a cavalov. He ended up fighting Hopkins. H Hopkins came

(40:23):
in a few times, Moseley Tyson. We had Kimbo in there.
R Peter Kimball, m dude, like we had a hall.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
We we were we were if you guys know.

Speaker 9 (40:35):
Anything about crunk Jim in Detroit, we were the crunk
gym in Miami. Like that was that was the spot.
But nowadays, man, you bring up Marvin Hagler, that's you.
That's a whole different type of training, Danny.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
We appreciate you, bro that that yeah, Jason, Yeah, Marvelous.

Speaker 4 (40:58):
Marvelous was a completely different level.

Speaker 12 (41:00):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
Listen, we're gonna continue this right anybody that's at the bottom,
you guys can come at the top. We're talking about
mental health today, mental health, motivation, and we're creating new circles.
This is Jason's first time on Clubhouse so please follow
my brother also following them on LinkedIn too.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
We're doing some great things.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
We're gonna be creating some new circles and then also
we'll be having a great room inside of media mentors
on Friday talking about the you know, avoiding the dangers
of social media. Remember when somebody was coming in, I
forgot who it was, but she gave me a topic
offhand and I scheduled it out for Friday. So it's
gonna be, you know, avoiding the dangers on social media.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
We're gonna be going in with that one.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
So I'll tag everybody that's on the mod squad so
that way you guys can come through and be.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
A part of that conversation.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
So that way we can go all the way up
have a respectful conversation inside of the Mega Mansion. But
we'll be doing that on Friday because I have meetings
up until then. But if you guys are just joining,
this is we're talking about right now, mental health, motivation,
creating new circles, creating right creating these states. I want
to talk to Makita because she was in here a
long time ago, Jason, and I know, you know, maybe
she wanted to get in there, but Makeita, are you

(42:11):
buy your mic right now before we continue?

Speaker 7 (42:14):
Yes, I'm by my mic.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
How are you?

Speaker 1 (42:15):
How are you doing, Makita? The mic is on you.
How you been liking what you've been hearing so far?
And you don't chime into anything, it's on you.

Speaker 7 (42:23):
Well, First of all, I do really love the conversation.
I think there needs to be a lot of spaces
censored around this topic, and not only should people feel
free to share, but I think it should be where
people can also ask questions, because sometimes the conversation does
spark interesting questions, and not everyone is privy to have

(42:46):
continual spaces like this where they can come in and
ask people who are willing to share. So I love
that you have this space. I did just check out
the club because I was like, Okay, I'm already a member,
but i haven't been over here for a little bit
and I'm just coming back from sabbatical. So what I
wanted to share is in regards to mental health motivation,

(43:10):
is that in regards when it comes to everything, you
have to love yourself right and you're I know, for me,
one of the strongest parts of what I have done
has been loving myself myself and sharing that same amount
of love with other people. And this has caused me
to create certain circles around myself because it's important that

(43:34):
not only am I receiving, but that I'm giving. And
a lot of times I have heard people talk about
the most important it's very important to pay attention to
the five people that you have around you. But I
think that depending on the space you are in will
also determine the various circles that you have. So you

(43:56):
may not just have one circle. You may have multiple circles.
And there are times where you know those circles will connect,
but there are times where those circles will be completely separate,
and there are times where those circles will just be
aligned where perhaps in your personal life you only have
one or two people that you could connect with that

(44:18):
you know, or in your professional space you may only
have three people. But there's also points where you are
traveling by yourself in one area of life and you
have to connect with the various people in different spaces
that you're in to cultivate what you need for life.

(44:41):
I say this because a lot of times we focus
in on maybe only the professional or maybe only you
know the personal, or maybe only the relational, but I
think it's very important that we pay attention to all
aspects of who we are, including the spiritual. Crypto came
in and he started talking about the frequencies, and you know,

(45:03):
we've had people talk about the relational parts, and we've
had people talk about the professional parts. I just think
it's important to remember that we have different circles, and
within those different circles, different people can receive different levels
of access. And it's okay that not everyone receives complete
access to you, because that may not be what you

(45:24):
were in their life for or what they're in your
life for at this particular season, and depending upon where
you all are supposed to be traveling, there may be
certain things that will be distractions to them or to you.
You know, so there's a lot of wisdom that has
to come. But I really believe all of that first
comes out of self love. Of course, we know that

(45:46):
we are loved by God, but also just loving oneself
enough to look within your circle and to say, okay,
I think this person was good for this time period,
but I'm shifting, I'm pivoting, and now as I am
creating a new space. Right, this person may not be
able to come with me in this space, but it

(46:08):
doesn't mean that they can't stay with me somewhere else.
And then the last thing that I just want to
share is sometimes you have to make an investment to
build your circle. A lot of people think that circles
are just built organically out of regular relationships with just
meeting people and greeting and things like that. But sometimes

(46:29):
you actually have to buy into a community that you
want to be in. If you are seeing yourself move
up in occupation or income status, or maybe you are
not surrounded by anyone who like maybe you're the only
person that dreams big in general in your circle and
you can't find a place, you may have to invest

(46:52):
in someone else's community so that you could begin to
be encompassed by people who do see the same way,
dream the same way, think the same way, and empower
others to do the same. That may cost some money,
you guys, And it's not like, oh, I shouldn't have to,
But the truth is, sometimes you do. You get into

(47:13):
someone's coaching program and you're there for the training, right,
maybe you already know what it is that they're teaching,
but the people who are in there. They are in
different spaces that you're in. They cultivate different communities. They're
going to push you and force you to level to
level up. And it may be uncomfortable when you first
get started because you may feel like this is completely new,

(47:37):
completely different, But that's okay. Continue to make that investment
financially so that you can grow, meet the people you
need to make and cultivate that circle that you are
you know in You're in a circle. Now, I said
that was the last thing, but right before I finish,
you may have to leave some circles.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
You may better keep going.

Speaker 12 (48:01):
Up.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
What you mean, last thing? Let me get forty last things?
You better keep going.

Speaker 7 (48:08):
Okay, stack, So you may have to leave some circles
you it. You know, you may really enjoy the people.
There's nothing wrong with with enjoying them, but maybe it's
not good for you anymore. Maybe it's not healthy. Maybe
you you find yourself turning back to old habits when
you're around those people doing things that are pulling you back.

(48:32):
And remember I'm not just talking about im profession. Yes,
in profession, but also in your personal life, you know,
in your mental uh life, in your spiritual life. Sometimes
you can even come into these social media spaces and
think you're gonna be motivated, and all of a sudden

(48:54):
you're not and your energy be drained. Pay attention. That's
why I love when cryptos started talk, and I want
to tell you, Crypto, you need to talk more about
what you know, because you became extremely confident and powerful
when you I'm not saying don't talk about what you
don't know or what you're new at. I'm not saying that,
but I am saying you need to open your mouth

(49:16):
and share what you are learning and what you know
because your level of confidence tenxt when you started talking
about frequencies and the importance of paying attention to this,
and you got my attention, you know. So back to
what I was saying, Sometimes you have to leave a
circle because it's not good for you, and it may

(49:38):
hurt because you really want to be in the know.
You got FOMO. You're afraid of missing out, You're scared
that you may get left behind or whatever. But you
have to know that what is for you, it is
for you, and you can't stay in that space if
you want to go forward or.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
Say that again again, we got it we we need that.

Speaker 4 (49:59):
We right.

Speaker 7 (50:02):
You can't stay in that space because it's going to
drain your energy, because it's going to take you in
the wrong direction because they can't see what you can see,
and they can't even push you to see something else.
You need people around you who dreams so big that

(50:24):
they are willing to dream big for you too. And
if you are in spaces where it's not like that,
where you're I never want to be unless I'm I'm
hosting a room, unless I'm in my coaching program, unless
I'm teaching. And this is intentional, like I'm intentionally being
the leader. I never want to be the person in

(50:46):
the space who knows more than everybody. I don't. It's awkward.
I need people around me who, like Stack just told me,
stop making the last point and make the point. And
that's and to be honest, That's how I know when
I belong in spaces because those people are not afraid
of what I bring to the table. They are encouraged

(51:08):
by what I bring to the table. And I want
you to take that with you. When people are encouraged
by what you bring, that's how you know that that
that you belong there. So I hope that that helps
somebody cultivate multiple circles. You don't have to have fifty
million people around you. Look, I wasn't gonna share this

(51:33):
anywhere because I'm probably gonna be right, let's go, I'm
probably gonna be writing a book about this. Seriously. You
have to choose who you're gonna follow, okay, and when
you follow, you have to be vulnerable because you have
to know, you have to let that person pour in

(51:54):
to you.

Speaker 12 (51:55):
Okay, you have to choose that brand.

Speaker 4 (52:00):
I love it.

Speaker 7 (52:01):
That's vulnerability, right, that's the vulnerability. You gotta choose who
you're going to walk with because you gotta trust them
and they gotta trust you. You gotta choose who you're
going to lead and how you're going to lead because
that requires integrity. There's these three things vulnerability, trust, and integrity,

(52:26):
but they are directly linked to leadership, companionship, and the direction.
Now I'm telling y'all, this is just this is being
formulated in regards to the thought because I know I'm
supposed to bring this to like in a book format,
but I really think somebody needs to understand character. Character

(52:48):
is so important. You could speak the most powerful message,
but you will know the tree by the fruit that
it bears.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
Ooh, I don't want that to go over y'all. Head,
Come on, get deep. She's getting deep on it, right, Jason.
I told you.

Speaker 7 (53:04):
Yeah, Yeah, you could speak a powerful message, but character
is everything. You will know the tree by the fruit
that it bears. When everybody's telling you to go be
great and to do X, Y and Z, but they can't.

Speaker 9 (53:26):
Look.

Speaker 7 (53:27):
I know everybody says, love your brother, but if they
can motivate you in a message, but can't motivate someone
one on one, or can't turn it down for a
minute to check on somebody because they heard somebody come
to the stage that's hurt. This person is hurting, right,
that's the fruit. That's the fruit right there. How are
we motivating people and they are hurting and they're telling

(53:48):
us that they're hurting, but we can't slow down to
get in the vein with them and make that one
on one connection matter. So look, if you're gonna follow somebody,
don't follow them. If you can't be vulnerable with them,
don't follow them. If you can't put your walls down,
don't follow them. If you're not gonna let them speak
into you, yes, chew up the meat and spit out

(54:10):
the bones. But if you're not gonna let them speak
into you, don't follow them.

Speaker 2 (54:14):
Don't hold up. Say that again, Makita. You hitting on them,
You're hitting hard on them. Say that again.

Speaker 7 (54:21):
You gotta chew up the meat and spit out the bones,
but don't follow them, and don't pay them. If you're
not gonna let them speak into you, and if you're
not going to like is it emmen, if you're not
gonna receive it, because there's some things you have to receive.
It may be hard to receive it, but I say,

(54:41):
stick a pin in it and put it in your
back pocket. Go marinate, Let it marinate, let it cook.
You don't have to respond. Just take it and go
sit down and ponder on it. But if you can't
be vulnerable and receive, don't follow. If you can't walk
with someone and trust them, don't walk with them. If
it seem like they can't trust you and you can't

(55:03):
trust them, don't walk with them.

Speaker 1 (55:06):
I need a fire emoji in the chat because Wikita's
going crazy right now. Kita, I need you to take
a water break. You know what I'm saying, you're going crazy, like,
put some fire emojors.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
In the chat. Let's get active real quick though, you
know what I'm saying, Get up in the chat.

Speaker 7 (55:20):
And finally, please, if you want to lead, if you
want to lead, lead with integrity. Stop talking about what
you know nothing about. If you were in it, get
through it, and then talk about it, because there are
people who are listening to you, following you and doing

(55:41):
what you're telling them to do, and they are individual
people on the other side of his phone who are
suffering and are in need of good leadership. So if
you're going to lead, commit to leading with integrity or
don't lead. And I land my plane.

Speaker 2 (55:59):
Thank you, Sam, God, damn Jason, Damn get up listen.
I want to give flowers to my brother Jason. Makita.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Everybody in here, uh you know me and Jason's in
collaboration marketing director over there, a circle of friends clubs,
so we're gonna be going crazy together.

Speaker 2 (56:21):
Makita just burnt the stage up.

Speaker 1 (56:23):
Everybody should be on fire right now, right like really really,
you know what I'm saying, But shot us to Jason
for coming over here taking time out of his busy schedule.
Shot us the Wifey Amanda for pulling up shot us
the tab, Tamara, Tony, Fire, Frank, Steve, my boy Nick
in the building right, yeah, it's it's it's going down.
I just made Forbes Black Community. Dam Yeah, yup, it's

(56:48):
going down. This is this is this is what this
hit right now is creating new circles. Right now, Me
and Jason gonna come in here wrecking the game a
bang bang bang, and we're gonna come in with the
bang bang. Yeah, it's how you do this ship here
and then media mentors. Right, we'll be having a room
on Friday of avoiding social media dangers. Jason, anything you

(57:09):
want to say, brother before I do another music reset,
and I want you guys to pick the room up.
We're gonna have some more people in here, and gonn
check out my brother Nick. I want Steve to get
up in here. I want Frank to get up in there. Tamara, Tony,
Wifey Amanda if she's free at work, I'm not sure.

Speaker 4 (57:22):
But I want to.

Speaker 1 (57:23):
I want to get it in with y'all. Right, I
want to talk about this. This is a good topic.
So Jason, over to you, brother, and then quick reset. Man,
how are you feeling about the energy so far man,
circle of friends.

Speaker 4 (57:34):
Man, this has been an amazing time here today. I'm
looking to afford to more of these every single week.
What day are we gonna do this, bro? Is it
gonna be tuesday?

Speaker 1 (57:45):
Whatever you want to do, you just let me know
your schedule and then we'll put it on the clock.
I'll clear out some stuff and then we'll clear it
out and get it in there.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (57:55):
The reason why I have is that I want Sarah
all right, chief mental health officer, to come in and
share her.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
Your service went out, Jason, would you say say that
one more time? Come back in and and come back
in and say that. Who would you want to come
in again? Your mike went out? Your service.

Speaker 2 (58:21):
Awesome.

Speaker 4 (58:22):
So yes, ladies and gentlemen, this has been an awesome
time here. There's still a few people who we got
to hear from. Let's pass it over to Nick.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
Brother Nick.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
I want my brother Nick to come in, but I
need I need y'all to ping it up. You know,
he gonna come in with that with with that motivation.
I need y'all to ping this up.

Speaker 2 (58:37):
Though. What y'all gonna do? You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (58:40):
What'll we in the we're in the Circle of Friends club, Jason,
were about to leave soon, but I'm coming to my
brother Nick before I get a.

Speaker 2 (58:47):
Body elected time on.

Speaker 13 (59:00):
They see me I'm on other level that No, they
see me I'm on either live that know they see
how sady for who or.

Speaker 12 (59:11):
Who want to be like my Sodi.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
I'm only here my humans a big nobody. I'm saying,
I got you, my my shit on my way. I
forgot you fuck call you.

Speaker 15 (59:23):
I need that.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
But that dog saying I'll be by myself. I got
my brother Nick coming there chasing that otum. It needs not.

Speaker 13 (59:35):
I got start call honey, go God this day, y'all
did I then?

Speaker 2 (59:41):
Only there got I'm on out.

Speaker 11 (59:43):
I'm on other.

Speaker 13 (59:46):
That No, they see I'm on either lift that. No
they see I'm on either level that. No, they see
me I'm on either.

Speaker 14 (59:58):
Then.

Speaker 4 (59:59):
Do you see.

Speaker 2 (01:00:03):
We're in the Circule of Friends.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
Shot us to Jason, shot us to Emon Makita coming
in burning it up. We need you to come back.
Make We're gonna do some topics. I'm thinking about doing
the next topic. I want to do unstoppable mindset some
shit around that, so Jason, I'll team that up.

Speaker 4 (01:00:17):
With you.

Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
I just came up with something. So but let's get
back on track. Mental health motivation. We got a few
you know, we don't stay in here for like ten
minutes or so. Onto the conversation's over. But I want
to go to my brother Nick, because Jason, this is
someone that helped me open up the Media Mentors Club.
He graced it with one of the first rooms, the
actual first room to go inside the Media Mentors and

(01:00:39):
do the motivation topic. So he's been helping me grow
build from the city from the same city. You know
what I'm saying, Jason. So you know when people's from
my city, I always you know, look out, got an
eye on it, right, make sure that they solid make
sure we locked in. So this is my brother Nick
from the same city, and he has a motivational brand

(01:01:00):
well called only to Motivate It in the apps in
the app store right now. So brother Nick, over to you, man,
I want you to come in man with this more
because we always do this, Nick, this ain't nothing new
to us, brother, mental health motivation man creating new circles.
Brother Nick, what's good man?

Speaker 8 (01:01:19):
I had to give a huge round of applause for
the amount of energy that I'm hearing in this space today.
I need y'all to give a quick round of applause
for yourself and all the shares, real quick. Even if
you don't come off you just give yourself a quick
round of applause, give yourself a pat in the back,
because this is exactly why these spaces are up you right,
Nick alutely?

Speaker 4 (01:01:41):
Brother?

Speaker 8 (01:01:41):
Absolutely, Man, you know, I don't even know how I
follow up after mckitha's powerful share says I don't even
think I've ever seen you in the space before, but man,
am I glad that I was able to witness that share.
Shout out to you, sis, keep doing your thing, real
love on that, you know. Brother. I was sitting here
thinking and reflecting on a few different things things as

(01:02:01):
I was listening to this powerful dialogue. One thing that
came to mind for me. I'm gonna leave you guys
with five quick things today. One most importantly, love yourself.
Makida said it beautifully. If you don't love yourself, you
can't expect other people to love on you, to love
on your endeavors, to love on anything you're doing currently
in your journey. It just will not work. Number two,

(01:02:23):
push the limits. What do I mean by push the limits?
Don't just settle for what you think you know, settle
for what you know you have to go after Because
so many times in life, I see so many people
saying I should have done this, I should have done that,
I could have been this, I could have been that.

(01:02:43):
But in reality, speaking comes down to one thing and
one thing only, limiting beliefs. God did not make you
hear and did not create you to be limited. He
made you to be limitless. I'm gonna repeat that again
in case that went over your head. God did not
put you here to be limited. He made you to
be limit lists. And the reason why I make that

(01:03:05):
point is because you have to push the limits. You
have to set the tempo. You have to do something
every day that your future self will continually.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
Thank you for.

Speaker 8 (01:03:16):
And if it does not serve or add to your
lifestyle or your well being to add to the topic
of discussion, it's going to devalue you. If it doesn't
add to your life, it's going to deduct from your life.
That could meaning people, conversations, situations, certain careers, or endeavors.
If certain things do not fit you and what you're

(01:03:38):
currently striving for you need to let it go. And
I know we say it more often than not. We say, oh, well,
just let go and be free. But sometimes it's a
mindset shift. It's not just saying it out loud into
the universe. You have to shift your mind to believe
what you're actually saying, because if you don't actually believe
what you're saying, none of what you think will even

(01:04:00):
make sense to you. I'm gonna say that again. If
you don't believe the words that spring that, if you
don't believe the words that are coming out of your mouth,
none of what you think will actually make sense. Now,
I'm only saying this because I was in that same
predicament for many years, where I always thought about doing
certain things, and I thought about these certain behaviors and habits,

(01:04:23):
but nothing ever got better. Why Because I wasn't fully
believing in it. I wasn't fully confident in it. And
if you're not fully believing in it and or confident
in it, you will always be one step behind. You
will always be one beat behind the tune. And number three,
I'm gonna leave you with this one. I don't know
if anybody's touched on this, but setting boundaries.

Speaker 2 (01:04:45):
This O come on, Nick, expand on that. Let's get it.

Speaker 8 (01:04:49):
This is absolutely crucial for your growth, your development, and
most importantly, your well being. I am a big person.
That is, I have a huge heart, and I say
that very proudly. I will be the first person to
look out for others before myself. I will be the
first one to say I'll give you the last dollar
in my bank account if it means putting a smile

(01:05:10):
on your face. And I did that for many years,
stak that was my biggest detriment. If I wasn't making
sure that I was happy, that I was straight, that
I had things needed for myself, it didn't make sense
for me to give what I didn't have to other people.
Meaning if you're not right and I love them, I
love what Makita was saying about integrity. If your intention

(01:05:34):
is not pure with why you do it and what
you're doing it for, none of it will even make
sense to you at all.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
Whatsoever.

Speaker 8 (01:05:42):
You have to be pure of heart. You have to
know the reasoning as to why you even want to
help other people, because if you're not helping yourself and
allowing people to fall in love with your hand, they
won't ever fall in love with your heart. I say
that again. If you allow people to fall with your
hands so much, you'll never let them fall in love

(01:06:03):
with your hearts. And your hearts, let me make this clear,
is the one component of your well being that is
absolutely crucial and vital to your health, wealth and self love.
Because Stack, I'm kids, You're not man. I used to
always make sure, and I say this very vulnerably and truthfully,

(01:06:23):
because men's mental health is very overlooked in the world today.
I was always making sure other people were smiling when
I myself and my darkest point was dying on the inside.
And Stack, I know you can relate. You want to
help people, It's a calling in your life.

Speaker 4 (01:06:43):
You were born to do this.

Speaker 8 (01:06:44):
You want to help others. You want to see other
people straight. You want to see everybody thriving and doing
well and making the best of their life and their situation.
But if you're not right in your heart and soul,
your intentions will never bleed through your shirt. I'm gonna
say that again, your intention will never bleed through your shirt.
And I mean that in a good way. I'm not
talking about a cut or a scrape. You get from

(01:07:05):
going outside, but your intentions will always be worn on
your sleeve. My number four point take breaks.

Speaker 9 (01:07:14):
Now, this is crucial for.

Speaker 8 (01:07:15):
Me, This is crucial for everybody in the space. Learn
to take a mental health break. I used to always
believe being on social media every five minutes, being on
clubhouse chat or whatever platform every five minutes, meant that
I was doing the right thing. But in reality speaking,
I wasn't charging my personal and social battery. Meaning I

(01:07:36):
don't mean your iPhone battery. I don't mean your android battery.
I mean your personal and well being battery. You can't
continually run on one percent all the time.

Speaker 9 (01:07:47):
Now, I get it.

Speaker 8 (01:07:48):
You want to show up for everybody and everything, But
if you're not good and you are continually dehydrated, exhausted
running on one all the time, you are going to
completely burn yourself out. It is not realistic to be
on social media every five minutes. Stack I kid you not.
The other day yesterday I didn't come on social audio

(01:08:08):
all day, kid you not. And it felt really good
to come back today because now I feel rejuvenated, I
feel re encouraged, I feel revitalized. I feel like myself again.
When you take those breaks, you can better show up
not only for the people that you're serving, but you
can better show up for yourself. My next point, my
final points, My final final point. I hope you'll help

(01:08:30):
you all to take us some mental notes if you're
not physically writing these down. My last and final points
get away from low vibrational beings and people. Now this
is a very loaded one, but make this very quick.
Stay away from low vibrational people and beings that do
not serve you. Meaning, if the conversation is not adding

(01:08:53):
to your life, if the energy is not adding to
your life, if the situation itself is not adding to
your life, what do you think you need to do.
You need to step away from what doesn't fulfill you,
what doesn't call to you, what doesn't help you realize
the importance that you is of yourself. If it doesn't
add to your life, Like I said earlier, it's deducting

(01:09:15):
from your life. I know you want to hold on
to that twenty year friendship that you think, oh, well,
I've known them forever. They would never do me wrong.
You know they always have my best interests wrong. It's
the people that you think will never hurt you and
bring harm to you are the ones that will actually
bring harm to you. Be very mindful, Be very mindful
who and what you give your time and energy to.

(01:09:38):
Your energy is very sacred, and I mean that very truthfully.
Your energy is sacred. If you give it to just
anything and anybody, you allow them the opportunity to walk
all over your doormat, walk in your house with this,
with your shoes on, And to me, that's the ultimate disrespect.
If you're allowing people to disrespect you, that shows you

(01:09:59):
p people who and what you think of yourself, Because
what you think of yourself ultimately matters. So stay away
from low conversations people in situations that don't add to
your quality of living. And I hope those five steps
helped you. If you didn't physically write those down, just
take those quick mental notes. This will help you so

(01:10:20):
much further and you'll realize life can be a lot
more fulfilling when you realize intentions, pureness, and an open
mind can do so much for you and actually take
you a lot further than your talent and giftedself stack.
Great conversation, Jason, Good to meet your brother. Powerful dialogue.

Speaker 4 (01:10:40):
Good to meet your brother.

Speaker 1 (01:10:41):
Damn you understand that's how we're coming in today, right.
We came in hot like everybody like put a one
in the chat if you enjoyed the room today, right,
Shae just pulled up bless fire. I still got Steve
in here. I want to get Steve in there too,
right before we go. But Jason, any words, brother, and
make sure you guys ARESVP for Friday. Let me talking

(01:11:04):
about avoiding the dangers on social media and then how
to stay safe. Right, y'all know, you know there's a
lot of conversation going on, and I want to have
a great conversation in the Mega mansion. So RSVP for
that please and Jason over to you brother, before you know,
anybody else chimes in before we get up out of
here soon.

Speaker 2 (01:11:23):
Jason over to you.

Speaker 4 (01:11:24):
Man, Man Stack, I want to thank you again for
putting this together. Man, this is exactly what people need,
a space where they can, you know, share any kind
of thoughts that they have when it comes to the
mental health or just to give advice to people, lessons
learn along the way that other people can use to

(01:11:45):
overcome their mental health issues and to live a better life.
So man, this has been awesome. Thank you again.

Speaker 1 (01:11:55):
Listen all you guys in here. You guys, we've been
having a fire conversation, right Steve, can you get up
in there?

Speaker 2 (01:12:01):
Brother? Are you buy your micro quest?

Speaker 4 (01:12:03):
Yes? Yes, I am so.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
How you been feeling about this conversation?

Speaker 4 (01:12:06):
Brother?

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
Thank you for coming.

Speaker 14 (01:12:08):
Well, I'm feeling very invigorating. I'm coming from the medical
side of mental health. I'm a psychiatrist.

Speaker 4 (01:12:18):
But I.

Speaker 14 (01:12:20):
What we don't learn in psychiatry is what I hear
here about growing about mental health, about about mindset, about
becoming yourself, and classical psychiatry is something actually maybe something
of the past. If I hear what is being said here,

(01:12:42):
maybe psychiatrist is something that we should get over it
because it reduces people to things and to diagnosis, and
people put themselves down by saying I'm an autist or
I'm a bipolar and I know that truthfully, scientifically, it
doesn't exist. There is no proof of a bibolar disease.

(01:13:06):
You can make a picture of it. So I'm very
interested in you how this room is going to evolve
and and how I can go away from the classical
psychiatry or medicine and go to a post psychiatry world
where mental health care is something that is where you

(01:13:29):
can be proud of and that makes you a better
person in your community, as a relational person. And that
is something that we don't learn in medical school. In
medical school, we learn that we are atoms, that we
don't definitely, that we are alone, that there is something
wrong with us, but there is nothing wrong with us.
There is something wrong with psychiatry. And that's something that

(01:13:51):
I've been studying and writing about in Dutch now, but
I'm translating it in English about my critique on medicine
and on psychiatry on the way they treat people and
they see people, they see people as things and all
this being, as they see people as beings and all
this being. And that's a very important distinction for me.

(01:14:12):
I think that's my two pence.

Speaker 1 (01:14:15):
I appreciate you, Steve. We're gonna definitely collaborate Jason. Let's
set up something with him too. Man, See how we
can collaborate. I like, you know where he's coming from.
I like where you know what I'm saying. We can
switch it around and do some mental motivation.

Speaker 2 (01:14:27):
How are you feeling about that?

Speaker 4 (01:14:30):
Yeah, that's a great idea, man, Let's do it.

Speaker 1 (01:14:32):
That's a fact listen, we're in the building. I want
to see if anybody else has anything to say. I
want to check on Shay real quick too. Shay, are
you in the building? Are you buy your mic? Are
you in the office? Do you want to chime in?

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
Hey?

Speaker 15 (01:14:45):
Yeah, definitely going to come back for the replace.

Speaker 8 (01:14:48):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:48):
You want me to give you a little catch up,
you want me to give you a little recap.

Speaker 7 (01:14:53):
I'm ready.

Speaker 1 (01:14:53):
If you would know, we were just talking about mental health, motivation,
creating new circles and and good stuff with Jason, and
then just celebrating me becoming the marketing director over there
and helping them just we're just gonna build. We're gonna
build organically. We're gonna come over here, do some rooms
and talk. We've just been having a fire conversation about
you know, creating new things, new circles, and you know

(01:15:15):
we do that over there at the flock in the
morning at seven fifty.

Speaker 2 (01:15:18):
So thank you for pulling up and.

Speaker 15 (01:15:20):
Coming over here too, Yes, for sure, Thank you. Thank
you for bringing the space this am so that I
could jump in and congratulations man, like you're doing some
amazing things. And again, it's always an honor to see
all the things you're doing because it's an inspiration. Like again,
I told you this morning, you don't have to put
yourself in this box. You don't have to be like complacent.

(01:15:43):
You don't have to work that nine to five. You
don't have to just have one job. You don't have
to have one hobby like you get to do all
the all of the things. Right, So I love that
you guys are talking about circles. So when you think
of a circle, right, when I think of a circle,
I think of my surroundings. I think of my supports,

(01:16:04):
I think of my community, which means when I create
new circles, I'm creating additional support. I'm creating multiple communities
and some circles. If you look at your life and
you look at your circle of friends, whether it's family,
look at your circle. Some of those circles have run

(01:16:26):
its course. Some of those circles aren't support. Some of
those circles aren't complete. Find the circle that supports you.
If you think about a circle, there shouldn't be any gaps.
Right when I think of a full circle, when I
think of full support, when I think of full community,
there shouldn't be any gaps within that circle. So when

(01:16:46):
I look at those individuals that are surrounding me and
that say they truly support me, I am looking for
a full and complete circle. Now, if you're looking around
at your circle of support it and there are individuals
that are, I guess, prohibiting you from experiencing life in

(01:17:07):
the in the way that you desire, then it's time
to reassess the circles that you are a part of. Like, oh,
I don't I don't wrong with that circle anymore. Of course,
we we've we've said that before. Right, we get to
choose our support. And I mentioned this on a podcast,
and I said this in a room a couple times,
and I want to say it again, like, look around

(01:17:29):
at your circle. Are you supported or are you suffocated?
Are you supported or are you suffocated?

Speaker 2 (01:17:38):
Like we get to trck hold.

Speaker 15 (01:17:43):
Hold up, I love it. Are you supported or are
you suffocated? I'm want to look at my friends. I'm
gonna look at my circle and feel inspired to do
new things, to create new things, because we get to
here we go, my last my life, last thing. I
want to say, your circle is your choice.

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
That's it.

Speaker 15 (01:18:07):
It's my choice, So choose wisely, my friends, Thank you
for letting me we.

Speaker 2 (01:18:13):
Shay, we love that. Choose your circle wisely. This is
why we.

Speaker 1 (01:18:17):
Opened this up to that show. That's why I said,
Jason is kidding. Yeah right, Jason said, Man, I want
to collab. As soon as I met him, I knew
he was good people. You know, when you just meet
good put a one in the chat. If you've ever
seen that before. Let me show Jason something when you
meet people and you just know the vibration is is
on point. That's how it felt with me and him.

(01:18:38):
Ain't nothing gotta be forced, ain't nothing. And I'm saying
it's just an organic flow.

Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
That's what I like.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
You know what I'm saying, Organic flow, organic circles. Make
sure you guys are creating new circles as well. Thank
you for everybody for coming to this stage like our
brother Lee and Fire and blessed. Like, if you guys
want to chime in, somebody take the mic, like you know,
we about to get a body. I think Jason got
to go soon. So if you guys want to take
the mic, anybody want to chime in? Last words or

(01:19:06):
them out of here in Paris over to you last
share Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:19:09):
This Paris, Thanks Stack, Thanks everybody for this wonderful, lovely,
vivacious energy. That's life, and it's positive and productive life.
I remember what you had said earlier that had My
brain's been in thinking about when you said share freely,
share amongst your circles, the knowledge and the resources that

(01:19:31):
you come across. And I think a lot of times
we see people don't share, it's because they're not moving.
And so if you come across some of you like, oh,
I'm hold it until I do it, and you've been
sitting on it for a year, but however long, then
you need to perhaps share that thing so that you

(01:19:52):
will have a fire under your butt to implement it
as well. And so that makes your friend of supporters
and circles important because if you do share and none
of you do nothing with it, then you need to
expand or switch out or swap out, you know, pick
your team, your teammates, so that when you do share,

(01:20:13):
you see it implemented. Because a lot of times we
don't have faith in the things that we know and
do because we're telling people we are sharing, but the
people we're telling multi million dollar, multi billion dollar ideas
to don't do nothing with them. So it makes you
think less of it. So you really have to be
selective about who you're around so that when you do

(01:20:35):
share is powerful. Or when you do share and you
see them take something that you thought was just an
idea and they take it and run with it, you're like, wait,
I need to honor my own ideas more so, that's
what you had said earlier, Stack that I couldn't think
of it. And thank you all for the space, and
I'm glad I was here.

Speaker 2 (01:20:53):
This is sharing Paris.

Speaker 1 (01:20:54):
We appreciate that. We're going to keep giving out the motivation. Jason,
you any last words, man?

Speaker 2 (01:21:00):
What you got a thing to say?

Speaker 4 (01:21:01):
I know?

Speaker 2 (01:21:01):
Any overall words? Man?

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
Were about to get a body here, but Jason, over
to you before I close the space, brother, and we're
going to bring him over to Chatter too to get
him over there. We'll do the Circle of Friends club
over there as well, so we can, you know, get
get familiar with the visual, the audio podcast feel over
there too.

Speaker 2 (01:21:18):
But Jason, any last words man? You want the mic?

Speaker 4 (01:21:23):
Yeah, this is an awesome topic for today, learning how
to choose your circle and what you should do within
that circle. It's very very important. But from here on
out we're going to be taking on some other deep
topics as well, like trauma, anxiety, narcissism. We're going to

(01:21:43):
be taking all some deep topics in here, so I
look forward to that, and I'm sure that all these
topics are going to be a blessing to everybody here.
So I'm excited.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
Bro, Jason, we appreciate you. I got to roll up
out of here. Make sure you guys ares VP for
the next room will be on Friday. Media Mentors. I'm
pretty sure Jason's gonna come through and uh, you know,
support us and have us in and then we're gonna
do another Circle of Friends room. We'll do something around
the topic that you know he wants to do. I
want to do something around unstoppable mindset. We're gonna do

(01:22:13):
all type of crazy stuff, So make sure you guys
tune in, follow Jason and follow pack Forbes Black Member
Now God damn.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
The top of the food chain. Let's go, Jason.

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