From Struggle to Strength: Shelly Jean's Explant Journey | Wisdom Wednesday - The Season of Self Love

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Season and Self Love Podcast. I am
your host, Namibank, saying, I am thrilled to have you
joined me on this transformative journey. You see, every day
we dive into a powerful conversation about self discovery, healing,
and empowerment. This podcast is brought to you by ax
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loving yourself is the first step to live in a
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inspiring stories. Plus we're occasionally welcome special guests who will
share their unique perspectives on self love and personal park.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
So get comfy, grab.

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Your favorite beverage, and let's embark on this journey together.
Because it's time to embrace the beautiful person that you are.

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So let's elevate our lives one episode of time. Now,
let's get started. All right, my beautiful people, Welcome back to.

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The Season and Self Love Podcast. I'm your host, Namibanks
and this is Wednesday and Wednesday you know, as we
continue our July series on preparing for Transformation Today, I
am so honored to share this space with someone who
courage and vulnerability will touch your heart, perhaps illuminate your
own path.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Shelley Jean.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
She is a BII survivor who has walked the ex
Black journey with grace, strength, and un wavery commitment to
her own healing. Shelley's story is a testament to the
power of listening to our bodies, trusting our inner knowing,
and just having the courage to choose ourselves even when
that choice feels scary or uncertain. Her journey reminds us

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that true transformation often receives requires us to release what
no longer serves us, even when we once thought.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
It defines us.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
So before we bring Shelley to the stays, let's take
a good break. All right, it's you, Gurtie got his
Namber want this season and simpler podcast, and we'll be
right back.

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Washington wells into two focuses on healing. Always for me,
if I look good, then I feel good. If I
feel good, then I share the good. If I share
the good, then I celebrate the good. If I celebrate
the good, then I live the good. So I can
be paid to be my greatest. But I have to
learn the good to be the good.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
So what does it take to be the greatest.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
It's as simple as a free fifteen minute consultation.

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Be kind to yourself and.

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Speaker 2 (03:07):
All right, beautiful people will welcome back and hey, hey
Shelly Jeanne, are you.

Speaker 5 (03:15):
I'm fabulous and yourself.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
I am good, I am good. I'm excited about this.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
First of all, I want to say thank you, thank
you for being courageous to share your story. I know
you've already been through it your a few years post office,
if I'm if I'm correct, and so you've been through
the journey, You've seen it all, and I just I'm
just glad that you're here to help me to just
bring more awareness to it because you was out there first.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
I'm just following right behad you right now.

Speaker 5 (03:41):
So thank you, and you.

Speaker 6 (03:44):
Know that that's exactly what I want to be doing,
is sharing my story so that others like you that
are going through this journey can feel confident that they
too will be okay. And that's that's the whole goal,
because as we're going through going through it, we're going
through we're already really, really sick. So let's let's get
to the healing side. Let's get to the other side
and feel great about that. So you think you for

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having me to talk about this.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
I love that. I love that.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
All right, So, Shelley Gene, what we usually do before
we get deep into the topic.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
We have a nice little grounding session. We ground ourselves.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Before we get into topic, just to prepare us to
be open and ready to receive whatever topic, whatever mess
it comes from our conversation.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right, All right, listeners, so you already know what
we do.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
We close your eyes and get in a nice little
comfortable position. All right, Take a deep, new machine breath,
then hold it gently. Now excel slowly, allowing your tudy
body to soften and settle. I want you to feel
yourself being held by this moment, supported by the earth

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beneath you, surrounded by the love and acceptance. I want
you to visualize your heart opening like a flower, ready
to receive the wisdom and the courage that comes from
someone who has walked the path of deep healing and transformation.

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And as you breathe, I want you to invite your
own inner knowing to awakening the part of you that
recognizes truth when you hear it that it resonates with
the stories of courage and authentic living. Now, I want
you to breathe in openness, to learn, and breathe out

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any judgment of preconceptions. You are here to witness a
sacred story of healing, and in doing so, you honor
your own journey toward a wholeness. And when you are ready,
gently bring your awareness back to our conversation, carrying this

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sens of openness and reverence with you. All right, my
beautiful people, thank you for just sharing that space with me.
And if you are new here to the Season and
Simpler podcast, it's something we do every day Monday through Friday,
again just to ground us before we get into the
topic in hand, all right, So, as someone who has
I'm just weeks away, weeks away from my own expect journey,

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I am deeply grateful for women like you who are
willing to share their stories openly and honesty. You know,
in these conversations they matter, not just because they provide information, but.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
Because it reminds us.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
It reminds us that we are not alone in the
struggles of our healing. So when we share our stories
of transformation, you know, the messy, the beautiful, the challenging,
the empowering reality we're choosing ourselves, we create the bridge
of understanding hope for others who are walking similar past.
Well Again, shelley journey is particularly powerful because it demonstrates

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that healing is not just about removing what's harming us,
but it's about reclaiming our relationship with our bodies without intuition,
our authentic selves. Today, we would explore beginning of her story,
the awakening that led her to question her implutse, the
courage it took to make the decision to have them removed,

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and the profound healing that she's experienced on the other side. Again,
Shelley thank you for being here with me and your
willingness to share your journey with our community. But before
we dive into your story, I want to acknowledge again
the courage that it takes to be vulnerable kid in
that way.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
So I'm gonna do you like right, no, thank.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
You, thank you. I am gratefully receiving.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yes, yes, yes, yes, So I'm gonna share with the
listeners right now.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
So last week, she was actually supposed to came in
last week, I'm putting you on the spir real fast,
and she came in so.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
Nervous and she was like, are we going to record
right now?

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Like oh no no, And I said, well no, I said,
let's take our time because I know how sensitive it
is to open up to someone about your journey, especially
this a choice that you made in your life and
now you're opening up about it.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
And so in that conversation.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
We had so many things with just so mirroring and
echoing to one another, and it was so funny because
she was just saying, you know, and this is my
life and this is that says, and I'm like, good, if.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
You only knew my life.

Speaker 5 (08:22):
I had a Google yeah more, oh my.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Gosh, and it was so funny because we were talking
and everything like that, and you know, we exchange information
that all the all of a sudden, I see on.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
My text, girl, you're a so bostar.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
You just say, that's what And that's what I love.

Speaker 6 (08:46):
That's what I love is that people that when they
get to meet you, they don't know who you are,
they don't know what you're about, they don't know anything.
And a lot of people will come to whatever they
want to come to on their conclusions, their judgments or
whatever that is, and which will lead right into where
we're headed with our whole entire story.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
So at the age of twenty nine, I'm a mom
of three kids.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
I have two boys and a daughter, and I moved
from a little city of Sioux Fall, South Dakota, to
the big city of Minneapolis, Minnesota Wow. And I was
recruited into a club called at that time, Solid Gold,
and it is a very Las Vegas style dance club,
and I decided that I wanted to go there just

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for a year and to take care of my family.
It was fast money, it was good money, and the
club was absolutely gorgeous. The people there were very it
was a very high class.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
It wasn't your typical stripper club, and we were.

Speaker 6 (09:51):
Called entertainers and it was definitely very Las Vegas style.

Speaker 5 (09:56):
We had to dress very very nice at that time.
You I had to dance on pedestals.

Speaker 6 (10:03):
So I was an entertainer and a dancer taking care
of my three kids.

Speaker 5 (10:07):
That's what I was doing.

Speaker 6 (10:08):
And I people would ask me what I did for
a living, and I would just say I was an
entertainer at a nightclub and they never asked.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
It's like the craziest thing.

Speaker 6 (10:17):
I'm like, not any kind of entertainer or anything. I'm like,
you know, so I like, just let that be. But
that's where the lives told us come into because when
people did start finding out, there was this other big judgment.
Then it was you're a prostitute or this or that
and all.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
The other things. And I'm like, you know what, even
if you were, these people are doing what they had
to do to take care of themselves. There's no judgment
for me.

Speaker 6 (10:43):
And so I decided that I wanted to talk to
to this group of women and men that are in
here because for me, I got implants because I wanted
to be my best at my job.

Speaker 5 (10:59):
Yeah, that is how it all started.

Speaker 6 (11:01):
And that was in nineteen ninety one, and at that
time then I'm thirty one years old. I'd get implants
and I fell right into There was a whole big
thing going on with the implants too, that were it
was a national yeah thing that you know, whoever came
into the implants, you were on this list, so if

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anything happened to you, then the implants they had to
take care of things.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
Right.

Speaker 6 (11:29):
Anyway, I fell into that category and nothing happened to
me literally for ten years. And it was shortly after
the ten years is when I finally was like, wait
a minute, I've had all these different kind of symptoms
and things that were happening. One thing I want to
say though, before before any of that, though, is that
when we decided to get implants, or we decided to

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get face injections and botox and all these different things,
I want you to know that these are very very
toxic things that we're doing to ourselves. We aren't even
aware or we're in such denial about it, or it
could never happen to me, or we do it because
of Again, I did it for my profession. My profession,
that was my business, and I did it for that reason,

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and other people do it too because, oh my gosh,
you know, how can take.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
More money, I be more popular, I can build.

Speaker 6 (12:21):
My brand exactly exactly. And even if you're not in
this industry that you know, we have to do these
things because we have to keep up with the next
person or the friends, or what social tells us.

Speaker 5 (12:34):
And back in my day, we didn't have social media.

Speaker 6 (12:37):
We had magazines and we had TV commercials, and we
had all these things that said, hey, you got to
look a certain way to be accepted. And it is
even more so today I see on TikTok all the
things like it just drives me crazy that you get
fed in your get let into these things, and you
know what, just being yourself is the best thing you
can do. And I've learned that from an experience.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
So there's that, Yeah, you know, all of that that
is so relatable. I just even, you know, our conversation
last week, it was amazing just how we just connected,
you know, right then and there. But I think so
many of us that we can understand those feelings and
motivation about wanting to be at our very best, wanting
to get whatever it can to enhance whatever it is

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that we are doing doing ween And looking back now
with all of the wisdom and experience that you gain,
how do you feel about the version of yourself who
made that decision then?

Speaker 5 (13:33):
I didn't.

Speaker 6 (13:33):
I really I was really in denial back then because
I had heard a little bit about it and everything,
and I was like, and I was that person that
said it will never happen to me, and it very
did happen to me. Like I all of a sudden
found myself going to different doctor business for different things, like,
for example, I would have like no libido, you know,

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so there was nothing happening with me and my husban
and I did get married and we were together for
a very long time. Different things just kept coming up.
I'd be real withthargic or all these different things. And
then it was like, well, you must be a perimenopause,
or you must be a menopause or you know.

Speaker 5 (14:14):
I just got all these different things.

Speaker 6 (14:15):
And at one point my doctor put in my chart
I was a hypochondriac, and I was like.

Speaker 5 (14:20):
No, I'm not like these are real.

Speaker 6 (14:23):
But in the regular physician, when you asked for tests
to be taken, it doesn't show what's happening, right, well,
they don't know that it's breast implant illness.

Speaker 5 (14:33):
They don't know any of that. And I didn't know
any of that either.

Speaker 6 (14:38):
It wasn't until I was led into a group of
fifty five thousand women at that time that I started
learning that, you know, there there was this thing called
breast implant illness, and I was like.

Speaker 5 (14:48):
What does that even mean? And then I started doing
my research in this group.

Speaker 6 (14:53):
Started connecting with the ladies in there, and I was like,
oh my gosh, what if it's true?

Speaker 5 (14:58):
What if this is what I have?

Speaker 6 (15:00):
And because it all just made sense, all the dots
were connecting, and I still just didn't want to believe
that though.

Speaker 5 (15:07):
I just really wanted to believe that. No, because I
wanted to keep my mobies. Yeah, like, let's not do that.

Speaker 6 (15:13):
And it wasn't long after that though, that that I
was like, I think I really have to do something different.

Speaker 5 (15:23):
So on top of all of that, my son.

Speaker 6 (15:25):
At this point, I have my oldest son I was
sharing with Naomi. He was on a riff and he
was throwing debris off and he got struck by a
piece of wood had.

Speaker 5 (15:40):
A nail in it.

Speaker 6 (15:40):
Threw him over in a paralyzon from his nipples down.
So I now became his caretaker. So I left my
industry became my son's caretaker, and ultimately he had died,
and he had died the.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
Day before his thirtieth birthday.

Speaker 6 (15:53):
So he had left me money because he wanted to
take care of his mama, which I thought was very me.
He said, Mommy took good care of me and want
to take care of you. And so I decided that
I'm going to change out my implants.

Speaker 4 (16:06):
Now.

Speaker 6 (16:06):
When I first got my implants too, That's another part
of the story, which is a complete lie, is that
my doctor I actually.

Speaker 5 (16:13):
Went to Oklahoma. I had my dealing down in Oklahoma.

Speaker 6 (16:18):
And when he put them in, he said, you can
have these for life. You'll be fine. You don't have
to worry about it, YadA, YadA YadA.

Speaker 5 (16:23):
And I'm like, okay, you know, I trusted it as
my naghtor.

Speaker 6 (16:28):
And so when I decided that, I again when I
was learning things that I'm thinking, Okay, it's my implants.
I got my implants out and had new ones put
in in twenty twelve. And when I tell you, it
made I knew then it was the implants all of
the symptoms that I had had that were keeping me
from losing weight, I was gaining weight, I was I

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was choking, I was having a lot of problems choking
on things, and just all these different things. When I
had my new implants put in, all of that went away.

Speaker 5 (17:02):
M It's really crazy.

Speaker 6 (17:04):
And but what was even crazier though, is that when
so part of the story too, I have to back
up a little, Naomi, I am still nervous.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
Okay, you're good. You're doing amazing. I try not to
do that. You are doing amazing, You really are. You
are doing amazing.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
You Actually I'm scrolling through the questions because you answering
the questions before I even answer.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
You're doing great. I told you was a talker.

Speaker 5 (17:32):
Let me let's let's just love you ask me the questions.
Let me keep going on. I have to tell people
too that one of the one of the.

Speaker 6 (17:39):
Great things that happened out of this too is like
I'm the kind of person know that it took me
a while, but I do find gratitude and all the
things that happened and during.

Speaker 5 (17:50):
This that happened was my husband.

Speaker 6 (17:52):
Not only did my son die, but my husband had
left me for a friend and our group of friends.
My daughter had had a miscarriage. I had a son
that was in prison and for unintentional murder. And I
found out I had cancer. And the only reason I
found out I had cancer was because of my husband
left me.

Speaker 5 (18:09):
I wanted to go meet a.

Speaker 6 (18:10):
Guy, so I went to the doctor and the doctor
was like, well, let's just let's just you know, do
a pass and let's check. And found out that I
was full of cancer. So my husband not left me.
I would not have went because I wasn't sick.

Speaker 5 (18:22):
I didn't feel anything right.

Speaker 6 (18:24):
But what he said to me though, was interesting that
he couldn't figure out why my cancer cells were on
the outside of my uterus, and he said.

Speaker 5 (18:34):
It was very unusual, and so uh so we went ahead.

Speaker 6 (18:40):
He had to do a radical hysterectomy and an appendec
to me and a limp a limp limp cleaning. And
what he found out was is that people keep or
keep kept telling me that it was the HPV virus
that did it. I had two doctors and said it wasn't.
My doctor was Adam, and he's said that is not
what it is. And I did look that up for you,

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Naomi and what it is, and other people can check
into it too. It was called in a demo carsonova
and then a dema carcinoma in Sieda so which meant that.

Speaker 5 (19:13):
My my.

Speaker 6 (19:15):
Cells run the outside of my uterus and everything. And
it wasn't the typical HPV. I can promise you now that.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
It was caused by my implant.

Speaker 6 (19:25):
But all the research that I've seen, all the research
that I've gotten into, it was definitely a breast implant related.
So anybody that thinks and has symptoms of any kind,
like let's say plus right now too. Again, like you said,
I explained it three years ago, but I'm having symptoms again,
so like I have thing splashes all over, I'm having

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brain fog issues again, I'm having choking issues again.

Speaker 5 (19:53):
So I'm thinking.

Speaker 6 (19:55):
That my first set of implants, when they got switched
or when my doctor X planted three years ago, we
didn't think or and I failed to say anything about
my first implants that were switched out, that I don't think.

Speaker 5 (20:08):
That those were proper properly. So I have remnants from before.

Speaker 6 (20:15):
So the heel is real and it's real. The illnesses
in this are are are real, and so I been
going to the doctors again. I got really really sick
in December and January and I was out, like down,
like I couldn't barely function, and so I started going
back to the doctor again. And what they're trying to
diagnose me with I was rhumatory at arthritis, which is

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another symptom of breast implant illness. So again all the
dots are connecting and I'm like, nope, I'm not doing that.
I'm not taking all these drugs either, for a lot
of different things. Now, Naomi, you were telling me, let's
talk about you.

Speaker 5 (20:51):
You're the only supposed to do the interview. I'm doing
all the talking.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
This is how I was supposed to go, though.

Speaker 6 (20:58):
I have to talk about you because I've what I
love about you, and when we were talking was because
you are coming up on getting your implants out, and
now I want, I would love for you to share
what your symptoms are and everything and what made you
decide that this was something that you needed to do,
because I think it's really important for your people that
know you and your fan base also not only like you,

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you do have somebody that has been there, done that.
And I'm still going through it. But you're you're in
your journey with this, so let's hear about you for
a while.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
All right.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
So I'm gonna say this because because Shelley knew over here, yall,
Shelley don't know, I tell you every day on here.
So so by the time, by the time you and
I have talked, I've already shared all of my symptoms
and everything.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yes I do, but no, no, no, I don't. I don't.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
I make sure that every rock is turned that were
looking up under everything, then every layer is pulled back.
That is how it makes no sense for me to
come and do these interviews or do this podcast and
not share my story. So when we talk about Wednesday
and Wednesday, I give the stage to you, beautiful ladies,

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to share your story because they get my story every day.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
Remember I'm on Monday to Frinday. But they already know
my why and they know about my symptoms.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
But I'm going to share some of the symptoms with
you that I've had brain fog, extreme migraines that they
had me on medical different types of medicalcation, vertical shooting
pains throughout my whole entire body where I'm disable, you know,
have very disabling moments where I'm in a bed for
five to six days at a time, very tired, shorter breath,

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I'm swelling of the leg, swelling of the arms, just
like I one day i might look like a balloon balloop,
you know, and then the next moment then I'm slimmed down.
You know, all of these inconsistencies. I didn't get the
rashs like everybody else have been getting, thank you God.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
But when I say say about the pains that go.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
Through the nerves and hitting here, you know, and you
guys can't see me right now, but I'm talking about
on the side of my head, like coming from my
brain down. And that's why I saw a neurologist to
see what was going on there. And that was all
a fluke there as well. But just even understanding just
going through with the medication, every medication had a side

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effect that was creating something else and putting more pain
on what I've already had. And like you said, going
back and forth with the yo yo dieting. You know,
I have been a certain weight even through my three pregnancies,
and I'm able to drop it like this, but now
it's on After I had a baby at forty years old,
you know. And and honestly that is when after I

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had her, and I was on baar rest that whole
entire time after I had her, probably about a year later.
It's really when a lot of the symptoms started happening.
I couldn't drive the sun.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
My body was very sensitive to sun, like I couldn't
be out in the sun.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
At all, even in the car. And I was like,
what is happening to my body? And I remember going
back and forth to the doctor. They were telling me, you.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Know, it's I don't know, Let's send you go get
some test, Let's give you some medication. You know, maybe
it's pre menopausal, you know, if everything under the sun.
But I'm still getting my minstrel everything is still flowing
the way it is.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
But I was still coming up with those.

Speaker 3 (24:27):
Symptoms where I'm not able to work, I'm not able
to do anything because I'm down. So when I started
going through my spiritual journey, and I want to be
at a hundred because I love what I do, so
I want to be at a hundred sharing everything that
I've been through. And I remembered the last time that
I had went to the neurologists, and he just a fluke.

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I'm gonna say it again, I ain't gonna say his name,
but it was something that God was telling me, like, look,
I need to show you that they can't do nothing
for you, that you have to take responsibility and accountability
because you had put two foreign eyes in your body
that's creating toxicity through you, and until you remove them,
we can't connect the way that you really want us connect.

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You can't be in the whole completion. So for me,
it was physical, but it's also was spiritual. And in
that time when I decided, I didn't even think about
sharing it on the podcast. I didn't think about sharing
it at all until a few weeks ago when my
body totally shut down. After I had a beautiful vacation

(25:31):
come back. I'm thinking, I'm about to do a fashion show.
I'm about to do this with doctor Will, were about
to do a retreat. Everything and my body, my legs
swoll up to where I could not walk. Shelley, I
could not walk, and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
What the hell? Headaches, paying vertigo.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
The room was spinning as I'm laying down, just everything
possible to cap short breath.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
I couldn't even talk. So it made sure that I
was not gonna work.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
The only thing that I was able to do was
on that Monday, I had a client, and so I.

Speaker 2 (26:02):
Had to make sure that I matter. If I had
two clients that day, the second one the internet acted up,
so I couldn't even meet.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
With that client. But at least I met with that
first client went through that I was in pain. He
was like, no, you look you look great, like you're
just a glow about.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
I'm like, like, there's really not you know.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
But as soon as I shut down down and I
sent him over his notes for you know, for things,
my body just was like.

Speaker 1 (26:28):
Whoo, shut me completely down. But then all the things
started coming to me.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
You know.

Speaker 3 (26:34):
I was like, okay, I'm shut down for a reason.
Is it's something that I'm missing? Am I moving too fast?
And I remember sitting.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
At my altar. I remember sitting at my aunt and
I was like, okay, what has happened to me? And
my voice like this what is happening to me?

Speaker 3 (26:50):
And all I heard was that this needs to be
a serious You need to change what you're doing in July,
and this needs.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
To be a whole series and you need to speak
and talk about it.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
And I'm like, okay, now, let's go back a little
bit when I was talking to Lord Lord don Lord Gordon,
when I first you know, had scheduling and stuff like that.
The very first conversation.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
That her and I had, she was crying on the
phone because she was like, you know, because the one
thing that I love about doctor Sude is that he
no longer does implants.

Speaker 2 (27:28):
He will not do it at all. And I love
that about.

Speaker 3 (27:32):
Him because he said, I will no longer harm another woman.

Speaker 2 (27:38):
For profit.

Speaker 3 (27:38):
I would not do it anyway. Now that I know better,
I have to do better. And even in him speaking
with me and talking to me, it's like, you're in
good hands.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
I'm going to make sure that you are.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
Comfortable and you love what you look like when we're done,
because I know why women come to me in the
first place, you know, And that that sat with me,
and it sat in my soul in the way that
it came about. I had two appointments with two other doctors,
you know, that same week, and I went to one

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and he was.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Like, well, you know, he showed me these pictures and
it was just oh my god, it was just so
horrible as looking at them, and like he was like, well,
you know, I had a lady come back. She took
them out, and she came back in two years, and
I just put them back in. When you know what
it does to women, you wouldn't think that you would
do your best to make sure they they look good,

(28:37):
at least to them, because you know what they're going through. No,
and right there that told me, no, doctor sud I
shouldn't even came here.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
I just wasted my time.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
But I know I committed to going to that consultation,
so let me do that. And as soon as matter
of fact, I was in the car and I called LRD,
said okay, book me.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
Me and then that was it.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
And I knew that it was all divine time, and
I knew that was supposed to happen.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
But going back to the altar fast forward.

Speaker 3 (29:09):
That alreadplayed in my hand, and I said, no, this
is where I need to be doing this. And my
prayer was always to be connected to women somehow, How
can I be to a service to women?

Speaker 2 (29:18):
You understand what I'm saying. Most of when women see me.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
A lot of women are intimidating because of what my
past career was you know what I'm saying, sometimes women
can't look past that to even hear the message that
they already siding.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
And I'm not saying all women, but I'm saying some.
And I know that I know God uses me not
just to witness to men, but also witness to women
as well. And I made a choice in my life
and my career coming from insecurity, coming from wanting to.

Speaker 2 (29:50):
Build a career off of beauty. It ain't nothing wrong
with that. Let me say that, it ain't nothing wrong
with that.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
I'm not being trying to shame anybody, but I also
have to take accountability of the choices and the decisions
that I made.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
And in that case, if the.

Speaker 3 (30:05):
Platform that I've grown and that was built on my booze,
I thank them for that, But also I have to
be responsible with my platform too and say, you know what,
they're not good.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
They're not good for me. And I'm like you, I
went quite a few years.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Without having anything going on, anything going on when I
went and got my second set of implants. That is
when I started to see things after I had my baby,
and it could have been something before and I just you.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Know, but now I'm paying attention.

Speaker 3 (30:40):
I'm move aware of what my body is and what
it's not and what's no longer serving me, you know.

Speaker 1 (30:46):
And so when I said, Okay, this is what I'm
gonna do. I'm starting off this.

Speaker 3 (30:50):
You know, this little series, and then it was like, no,
you need to create a whole podcast for it. And
so in January that's what I'm going to do after
I heal.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
After ID heal.

Speaker 3 (31:03):
And you know, I already told you I want you back,
you know, to come on the show then, but that
this is a part of my calling, this is a
part of my purpose. How can I talk about self
love when I have two form objects in my body
that was a part of me so called loving myself?

Speaker 2 (31:21):
Does that makes sense? So it does?

Speaker 5 (31:23):
Yeah, yeah, and absolutely does that.

Speaker 6 (31:27):
That's a problem that I have too, even with with
the with the network marketing industry, when I have these
women who are so stuffed full of botox and all
the things and talk to me about health and I'm like, no,
as I'm sitting over here, my face literally is falling

(31:47):
and I can't get it off. I'm like, because I
had to go into surgical menopause like super quickly, I
didn't even realize that menopause actually is a whole life
time thing. I thought, you know, once you get through
it and you do all the things. No, no, it's
not like that. And what's happened too is since just

(32:07):
like you what you were talking about with brain fog
and everything, I remember standing at the grocery store, I
parked my car in the same spot. I'm a creature
of habit and I could not tell you where I
parked my car, and I was like, Okay, that was
the moment that I knew too, that there's something way
wrong here. And it was with my second set too

(32:30):
that it just got even worse, and it was it
was just crazy. But now I'm sixty five years old,
and thank you. This last year though, especially the last
six months, as I've noticed again with all these other
symptoms like coming back, like I literally like my face
and everything is just like I have aged dramatically, and

(32:52):
that is another part of And yes I'm sixty five,
Yes I'm in metapause all these things, but I've always
been like you said, I have had three kids too,
and like I was actually thinner before I had my
kids or after I have before, So I've.

Speaker 5 (33:10):
Always been able to just come back really quickly from
any any.

Speaker 6 (33:15):
Kind of anything that I've ever endured. And this has
been the biggest challenge of my life.

Speaker 5 (33:19):
And same with you. I've gained so much weight no
matter what I've done.

Speaker 6 (33:23):
I have tried fasting, I've tried different products, I've done this,
I've done that, and it won't budge in my doctor
that I have now, who's a lady doctor and I'm
doing women just like a lot of woman doctor.

Speaker 5 (33:40):
And I've gone through all this explaining everything to her.

Speaker 6 (33:43):
She's actually doing research on learning about breast and planting
illness because she didn't even know.

Speaker 5 (33:48):
I said, as long as you know when you're learning,
and you can do this with me, will be great.

Speaker 6 (33:52):
If you can, I get to go somewhere else because
I need someone that knows that this is actually a
real deal.

Speaker 5 (33:57):
And so she's been really really good about that.

Speaker 6 (34:01):
But I agree, if you don't have some kind of
connection with who you're talking to, you about this and
this is and this.

Speaker 5 (34:08):
Is the problem.

Speaker 6 (34:10):
When I started talking to I've had six girls in
this industry that I've explanted.

Speaker 5 (34:16):
I have another one of my.

Speaker 6 (34:17):
Friends that's explanting who's not in the industry. But she
heard about my story and she's like, oh my gosh, Shelly.
She's like, I like you, Naomi. She's like down, She's like,
I can't function. I got brain fog, I got this,
I got that. And I said, girl, I swear I
think you have breast of my illness.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Now.

Speaker 6 (34:35):
I talked to Naomi about this last week too. Is
the group that I was put in. It was really
good till it wasn't.

Speaker 5 (34:42):
I learned a lot of things about the lady that
has this group, and I had to get I actually
got kicked out, which was a good thing.

Speaker 6 (34:49):
Another good thing, but when I left that group, there
was one hundred and sixty thousand women in that group.

Speaker 2 (34:55):
Oh wow.

Speaker 6 (34:56):
So I have to tell you, ladies that we are
not all wrong. So if you're thinking, oh, that could
happen to me, I'm telling you, yes it can. And
I have a girlfriend too, who she has Graves disease.
I didn't even know she had.

Speaker 5 (35:09):
Implants and I said, I said the same thing to her.
I said, are you sure?

Speaker 6 (35:14):
And I told her a little bit about breast and
mylat illness and she just wasn't open to hearing it.
And but Graves, she got diagnosed with Graves disease, and
Graves disease is an autoimmune deficiency. I think with my illness,
like there's just so much, Like the list is like
profoundly long, and there are so many groups.

Speaker 5 (35:35):
You can go on Facebook and you can just put
in breast. Yeah, it will take you to so many
groups that will blow your mind. Yeah, your mind.

Speaker 2 (35:44):
Yeah, you know. It's so funny.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
When I interviewed Laura last week and we were talking,
she was like, let me tell you something.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
I'm going to be honest. Every group is not for you.
She said, every group.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
You will go into those groups and people will truly scared,
scared a hell you. She didn't stay scared of hell
out of you, but I knew what she meant about
scared the hell out of you, you know, because they will,
you know, a lot of people will come in anonymously
and just you know, throw different things to try to
throw you off.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
And I'm just being honest because.

Speaker 3 (36:15):
When you're going into here, you're looking for you're looking
for an answer to why you're going through what you're
going through. And so when you go into these groups,
you're looking for someone who is familiar to you. Where
you can resonate that look that might not look like you,
but look like you, if that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
Yes, when you start to see all of the symptoms
and you start to see like, wow, wait I go
through ooh that maybe that's it, you know, maybe that
is what's going on with my body.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
Trust and believe it. There is several different beautiful.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
Women that I know that are friends of mine that
have either went through something and did not want to
think that it would be I brest impact illness, and
some that say, if it is, then I don't care
because I don't want to lose these you know. Yeah,
And it's so unfortunate because it's like, and this is
an honest question, it's like, what do we do with them?

Speaker 5 (37:11):
How can we.

Speaker 2 (37:12):
You know, have them remove them? And I know it's
a new technique now I got to do a lot
more research on it.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
But we're the fat transfer, you know, Is that more
healthier than the implants alone?

Speaker 5 (37:23):
You know?

Speaker 2 (37:24):
I don't want to say, because that was my first notion.

Speaker 3 (37:26):
It's like, well, just just do the fat transfer, But
then again, I don't know if that's as safe as
the implants. You know, even though it's your own you know,
your own fat, your own body going into another.

Speaker 2 (37:39):
Part of your body.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
Has that anything that you thought about or even refer
that to anyone that you've spoken with?

Speaker 6 (37:48):
So interestingly enough, I'm the fat transfer to it. You
have to have the right doctor for that too. So
I learned from a doctor I.

Speaker 5 (37:57):
Wish I could remember his name.

Speaker 6 (37:58):
He is from California and he is a very high
profile doctor.

Speaker 5 (38:02):
Same thing.

Speaker 6 (38:03):
He stopped doing implants for the same thing you were
talking about, and I'm wondering if it isn't the same doctor,
I could be wrong, but he stopped doing implants too,
and he does do fat transfer, and he talked about
the technique like unbelievable, and I was like, okay, well
that makes sense. And then you have other doctors though
they're just literally putting your fat transfer cells into your

(38:27):
breast and just basically letting us sit there. That's not
how it works, Like you literally have to put these
cells in or the fat transfer inside your cells. Like
he was very detailed about it, and I was like,
oh my gosh, I would never have never have known that.

Speaker 5 (38:43):
So there's a process for that too. So every single.

Speaker 6 (38:47):
Thing that we do that we feel is enhancing ourselves
you had better do your clinical research.

Speaker 5 (38:53):
Like And that was the thing too. When I got
my implants, I didn't research it.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
You know.

Speaker 6 (38:57):
What my research was was the girls that I was
surrounded with. Oh, I love your boobs, I love yours,
I love yours, who did yours? Who did yours? And
then my dad, of all people, my dad has his
friend had this doctor down in Oklahoma who that's all
they did for all the women down in.

Speaker 5 (39:15):
The Southern states that were in the industry.

Speaker 6 (39:19):
So my Dad's like, you got to go to him,
and I did, and he did a beautiful job.

Speaker 5 (39:23):
I came back and I was like, oh my gosh, you.

Speaker 6 (39:25):
Know, we can't go to Oklahoma, you know, but I
mean that that was my research. And then just one
thing led to another, and now though I'm like, okay,
so this is this is why we are having this conversation, Naomi,
because this is.

Speaker 2 (39:42):
What we have.

Speaker 5 (39:43):
I really feel too.

Speaker 6 (39:44):
I really wanted to start this two while ago, I
told you the story.

Speaker 5 (39:48):
About my girlfriend Laura going to Laura too.

Speaker 6 (39:50):
So Laura and I were in the industry together to
Laura was super sick, like on her deathbed, Naomi couldn't
get out of bed there's I mean literally couldn't and
every time she eats she'd throw up, like all these things.

Speaker 5 (40:03):
And so Laura and I did the same thing.

Speaker 6 (40:06):
We had a few different doctors that we that we
were talking to, and she found doctor Cayenne for us,
and doctor Cayenne, though does do breast implants. However, she
was in a group, the group that I got kicked
out of, and was learning about breast ex plants breast
and plant illness, and so when we went to her,

(40:27):
she was very empathetic with us, and even though I
knew she still did implants, she was definitely very concerned
for both of us, and we both went so we both.

Speaker 5 (40:38):
Had our surgeries a week apart from each other.

Speaker 6 (40:40):
It was crazy, and they actually called me to see
if they could get Laura in before me, because they
really didn't think Laura.

Speaker 5 (40:46):
Was going to make it.

Speaker 6 (40:49):
So people that underestimate what breast iplant illness can do.
There are stories after stories after stories.

Speaker 5 (40:56):
Naomi is one of them. On just completely.

Speaker 6 (40:59):
Bedridden and it paralyzes you, like its literally paralyzed. Your
body is full of toxins, and where does it go,
Like it just starts attacking you from the inside out basically,
and so we're here.

Speaker 5 (41:11):
That's why we're here having this conversation is to bring.

Speaker 6 (41:14):
Awareness to it, just like with breast cancer, and it
just caused breast cancer too, like I said, it caused
uterine cancer for me.

Speaker 5 (41:21):
You know, there's all these different things.

Speaker 6 (41:23):
If you don't think it can't cause alzheimer and dementia
to it treats those symptoms are treated as if they
were dementia Alzheimer's. That's what my doctor was trying to
tell me too, And I said, no, absolutely, and I'm
I'm not going.

Speaker 5 (41:37):
To go with you on that one.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (41:39):
Then that's when I went and got my implants out
and then everything was great until, like I said, just
this last year and then all of a sudden, things
are happening again. I'm like, oh, come on, you know,
but again, I feel like even going through what I'm
going through right now at sixty five years old, is
to bring awareness to others that it's an only thing

(42:00):
it can be. Laura though she's doing fantastic, she has
no symptoms.

Speaker 5 (42:05):
She's doing wonderfully.

Speaker 6 (42:07):
She's like lost like fifty pounds, like she's she's amazing.
She's a massage therapist and she too grounds herself really
really well. And so this has just been an incredible
journey well really for all of us. And so Naomi,
I seriously am just so looking forward to what's happening
you with you when you get your ex plants and
in your heal healing jery haaling journey and the heal

(42:30):
is real. That's our logo, that's our that's our slogan,
and the heel is real.

Speaker 5 (42:36):
Clear it's not going to be all PGPT. It might be,
but you know, but there but there.

Speaker 6 (42:42):
Are implications for everything, and and that's what I love
about what Naomi is doing too, is to bring awareness
to all sides of it and yes, to get to
you back to your point too.

Speaker 4 (42:51):
On.

Speaker 6 (42:52):
Let me tell you what the biggest thing for me
when I got my implants out was.

Speaker 5 (42:57):
Hugging my family like heart to heart.

Speaker 6 (43:03):
I will take the eighty biddies any day just to
feel that again, because before it was like my big
old chest. And even though mine were seriously like nice
and coachy, squishy, not the normal like there's a lot
of them that too, will get hard after time because
they're calcified. There's like all kinds of things that happened
to them too. Just being able to have that heart

(43:24):
to heart made all the difference in the world for me,
Like that that's lidified my every being. Like I loved
being to the little itty biddies now just then, so
I really feel like you have to figure out and
find out and for this million times, and I was like, wow.

Speaker 5 (43:42):
It really is your why.

Speaker 6 (43:44):
It's like the second that I got it, like nothing
no matter what my chest looked like, no matter what happened,
no matter what they had to do. Like first of all,
I was like I wanted my brain back. That was
the first and foremost, Like, just give me my brain back.
I want to know where I parked my are I
want to know that my keys are, you.

Speaker 5 (44:02):
Know, in my hand and not a refrigerator. I want
to know that at that time I had too little puppies.

Speaker 6 (44:06):
But my guys want to make sure that I made
sure I got them back in the house because like
I had to keep checking and it was like see me,
like okay, they're in the house, They're in the house.
And then I had to start writing everything down and
then I had to check it like yep, okay.

Speaker 5 (44:19):
I did do that. I did do that. So it is.
It is very very real and it's very very scary.

Speaker 6 (44:26):
So just know that you are not alone, and we
are here to support you, and we are here to
help you in your journey. And like you always got,
I always got the lady in the bathroom, like Laura
is amazing.

Speaker 5 (44:42):
Go wrong with.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
Laura, Yeah, yes she is.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
So I want to go back. I just want to
go back just a little bit too. After you had
your surgery, after the X plan, walk me through what
that felt like in what, let's say the first six months,
let's just say the first how did you feel from there?
Was the symptoms going automatically or what did it take
a moment in some time for them to go away?

Speaker 6 (45:08):
So interesting enough, Laura, I can speak for Laura too,
And and I told you to. I actually was gonna
send you a link and I forgot to send you
the link. I actually found it.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
We did.

Speaker 5 (45:19):
I did an interview with Laura on what happened with
us since on.

Speaker 6 (45:22):
My YouTube channel and Laura immediately, like within like right
after surgery, she was.

Speaker 5 (45:29):
Like, Shelly, my eyes are right anymore. I can see
the whites of my eyes.

Speaker 6 (45:34):
And I'm thinking, Laura, you just got full of ivy
fluid like you're hydrated. Of course I aren't gonna be white,
but they really were white. Like the red ness in
her eyes did go away, and she like literally felt amazing,
Like immediately, does that happen to everybody?

Speaker 5 (45:52):
No, sometimes it does take a while. So with me,
I did notice too. Right away my memory where you
like came back like at eighty percent.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
I was like yes.

Speaker 6 (46:05):
And then with that moment too, I was like the clarity.
I was like, okay, it really is the implants.

Speaker 5 (46:11):
Like I got my memory back.

Speaker 6 (46:13):
And then just different things started coming back together too.

Speaker 5 (46:17):
And one of the things too.

Speaker 6 (46:18):
That that boggles my mind, and it's just me, is
all the fear that comes around having your ex plants.
And I'm like, but you got them put in, like
you have surgery. All of a sudden, surgery is this
big fear like they don't want to go under, they're
not going to come back out. And I'm like, but
you went into surgery and had them put in, So

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I'm like, that's that's really boggles.

Speaker 5 (46:42):
Me and I and that's just my honesty about that.

Speaker 6 (46:46):
For me, I was like, I'm going to get these
things out like I might and again, my wife was,
I just want to feel good.

Speaker 5 (46:53):
I want my brain to work. So I was.

Speaker 6 (46:55):
I was fortunate too that doctor Cayenne had us, had us.

Speaker 5 (47:00):
We we actually had the bags like we had.

Speaker 6 (47:03):
We had the bags and everything and we were wrapped
and everything in that work.

Speaker 5 (47:07):
There are some doctors that don't believe in it, and others.

Speaker 6 (47:09):
Are like, and I'm going to tell you right now,
I do not ever go to a doctor that says,
we'll just give you a local.

Speaker 5 (47:16):
No, you you have surgery. You need to get a
whole and black capsulectomy. You get all of that junk
out of you. That's you have to do that. It's very,
very important. So for me, the journey was was not
that hard. They say six weeks, you know, don't lift
your arms, don't do this, don't do that.

Speaker 6 (47:35):
It really depends on you. And so that was the
other thing too in the group that and this is
this is the other thing that you still continue to
compare yourself to others.

Speaker 5 (47:47):
Stop doing that. Stop doing that, because how.

Speaker 6 (47:50):
You live, how you eat, how you how all the
things you are completely different than somebody else. So you're
so your recovery is going to be completely different than
the other person, and then somebody will say, well, that
didn't work for me, and you said no, no, no,
no no no.

Speaker 5 (48:06):
They said it. Because it worked for them does not
mean it's going to want to work for you. So
everybody's journey is going to be different.

Speaker 6 (48:14):
However, the whole, the end goal though, is that we
are all in it together. Yeah, we're here to support you,
to know that you know what. All these fears that
you have are real and they're they're acknowledged. I hear you,
I see you, and I understand that you know.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
But I just want you to get healthy. I want
you to get these things out and to live your
life like I'm sixty five, Like we could go any day.

Speaker 6 (48:38):
It doesn't matter our age, it does not matter. But
what I want to do is I want to live
a long, long life.

Speaker 5 (48:45):
I still want like ten twenty years ahead to me,
and I don't want.

Speaker 6 (48:48):
To die along life and with implants in So to
your point, Naomi, when you talk about the women who
are like they're more afraid of what they look like
than how they're going to feel.

Speaker 5 (48:58):
So they'll keep these toxic bags in, but it will devastit.
I'm gonna I'm.

Speaker 6 (49:03):
Gonna call out someone right now on that. And I'm
like Wendy Williams when simply started in the beginning, I said,
oh my gosh, I go it's goott. And she just
kept getting bigger and bigger implants and the bigger they got,
this sicker she was getting and there was a bunch

(49:23):
of us women that were trying to get to her,
her publicists and whoever is say get those out of
her out because then she was diagnosed with all these things.
And I'm like her feet same as you Naomi talking
about her legs were swelling up. She had to come
on stage with with different shoes, right, they work, And

(49:43):
next thing you know.

Speaker 5 (49:44):
She's drinking. Well, of course she's drinking. She's feeling like.

Speaker 2 (49:49):
She is on the pain to erase the pain.

Speaker 6 (49:51):
Yeah, the pain and implants caused major depression, like because
of these chemicals that.

Speaker 5 (49:58):
Are going they're all throughout your body.

Speaker 6 (50:01):
And to this very day, I still believe that if
they would get those implants out of her and healing,
she would be just fine.

Speaker 3 (50:08):
Yeah too, Just when you just said that, that's just
say ding ding ding that really it was just a
ding ding ding.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
For me, Like, oh wow, yeah, absolutely right. Wow, wow, yeah,
I got one more time.

Speaker 3 (50:22):
Yeah, I got one more important question for you, and
it's personal.

Speaker 2 (50:25):
What does your body feel like? Now? I know that
you said that you know.

Speaker 3 (50:29):
You you still you know, feeling some things and you
know that can kind of came back. So I want
I want you to explain, is it like the first
time or is it more on a milder type of
feel that you have right now?

Speaker 2 (50:43):
And has your relationship with your body changed?

Speaker 5 (50:47):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (50:48):
So for me yes, because I'm having symptoms again, it
definitely has changed. But again, like you said, you to Olivia,
you know what's going out with your body. So I
know that there's some it's got to be from the
first implants.

Speaker 5 (51:00):
It has to be.

Speaker 6 (51:01):
And I just know that I didn't and give doctor
Cayenne all of the specs on that, so that is
not her fault that that didn't happen.

Speaker 5 (51:12):
I needed to be more clear about those things.

Speaker 6 (51:15):
So but as far as like my brain and everything, though,
I still I have moments again right now, and again
it's just because I know that I just have to
go back to her and we just need to go
through things. I've got to call Laura Dawn, like something's
got to happen. Definitely not as bad, absolutely not. But
knowing though that it is breast and plant illness related though,

(51:39):
I have comfort in that.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
That's beautiful.

Speaker 6 (51:42):
That's the thing. I have comfort in that knowing that
that's what it is that I don't have. Like I said,
one doctors trying to tell me I have rum and
toward arthritis. Well, that's probably true, but as I know
where it's coming from, and this is the other this
is the other side of doctors is like I get,
I get. I'm infuriated with doctors that treat the symptoms.

(52:03):
I don't want to figure out where the source is
because it's coming from somewhere. You don't just get these things,
any kind of illness that comes from somewhere. What is
the source? And so when I tell them that as
president plant illness, they all look at me.

Speaker 5 (52:16):
Because they don't know, and they don't know what they
don't know.

Speaker 6 (52:19):
It's just like it's like them trying to tell you
about nutrition when they've only had six weeks. And that's
very true. Their whole doctor, you know, degree they only
know six weeks of nutrition. I know more new about
nutrition from my network marketing companies than I do from
my doctors, so and again from other people. So you
got to ask yourself to like what and who is

(52:42):
your group, Like who do you hang out with the most?
What is it that you do you and what do
you know the most? Then take that a step further
and say, okay, you know what I learned this from
so and so, And like you said in the beginning,
to be opened open your heart, like let it be
a flower, be open to the things it's be open
to learning something new so that you can lies told us,

(53:07):
stop believing all the things that people tell you, and
you take it to heart. Believe that because every belief
that we have is it can be broken. Yeah, and
we can be and we can be led to believe
something different. And breast and plant illness is no different.
And that's where my heart hurts for people. And I
get it. There are some women that end up with

(53:27):
breast cancer and they end up totally having I've seen them,
you know, just totally flat chested.

Speaker 5 (53:34):
You know, I got awful scars. Like my heart hurts
for them.

Speaker 6 (53:38):
And at the same time, though I'm like thinking, oh
my god, though your life was spared, but because we
have we are so conditioned to think that we have
to have boobs or we have to you know. Again,
I do too, like given coming here, like come on man,
like my chees are hanging on here, you know, but I.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
Want to go up? Is that all?

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Say?

Speaker 5 (54:00):
My face is fallen? But I can't get so silly?

Speaker 2 (54:06):
You is so stilly?

Speaker 1 (54:07):
But I do I have one more question? I know
I said that I have one more question because I
want to. I want to tap into your wisdom that
you have gained through this whole experience.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
What will you tell a woman who.

Speaker 3 (54:18):
Is considering expert surgery but it's still on the fence.

Speaker 5 (54:23):
Do it? Just do it? Like, just make that decision.
It is a decision. And again you're there is over again.
One group was one hundred and sixty thousand women. I
moved to another group I absolutely love and there's hundreds
in there.

Speaker 6 (54:40):
And again though you can go to you can put
brest in in Facebook that all these groups come up.
Google it rerest in playing illness like you will find.

Speaker 5 (54:50):
Talk to Naomi.

Speaker 6 (54:51):
She's got she seriously has great connections. I'm telling you
don't waste your time on thinking and thinking and thinking,
research and research and re searching because all the research too,
is on Facebook.

Speaker 5 (55:02):
You can find it all, all of it, like without question,
without a doubt, it's there. And there's also another lady.
She is a co founder. I had to bring this
up too because she's amazing.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
Her name is.

Speaker 5 (55:16):
Robin Taut TWT.

Speaker 6 (55:19):
She's actually a co founder of the Global Advocacy Coalition
and it's called Gpacunited dot org. That's g AS and
go PS and paul Acunited dot org. And she has
advocated so hard for us that she was one of
the women to that actually got the black box warnings

(55:41):
put on FDA.

Speaker 5 (55:44):
Approved for present plants. So it is a big deal.

Speaker 6 (55:48):
So you can go onto that website and you will
find all kinds of regulations and stuff. You'll find the
poisons that are in silicone.

Speaker 2 (55:56):
Oh.

Speaker 6 (55:56):
That was another thing Naomi and I talked about too,
that people have a misconception that oh, minor gummy or
minor saline or mineor whatever. No, every single implant out
there has to have a silicon lining because it has
to be able to hold it in all of that.
So every single implant has a toxins and the all business.

Speaker 5 (56:18):
It's not just one in particular. So but you'll hear
more about silicon than anything else because that was the
thing that started all of it.

Speaker 3 (56:24):
There's a big thing that started all in a big
band on it and everything. Because honestly, when I first
got my implant, they were sailing and I thought that
I was a okay, But then my second implants were
the silicon, And in the interview that I had with Lord,
she let me know, no, the sailine is just a
toxic as the silicon was, and I was just, you know, flabbergasted,

(56:46):
like wow, wow, But you know what, we are coming
to the end of this, and I want to say
to you, miss Shelley, that I am so so deeply
grateful for you, just your vulnerability, your courage, and just
your willingness to just share your storage is so openly.
You are truly on the front lines of this and

(57:07):
I thank you, I truly thank you just for just
your honesty and your authenticity and even sharing your story
and saying, well, right now I'm getting, you know, feelings
on those symptoms again, but now I know where it
comes from. But also taking accountability. I didn't tell my
doctor everything. You know what I'm saying, and if anything,

(57:28):
people when you go into the doctor's office, be honest
about what's going on with your body. For me, everything
that happened with my body, I said on my phone,
I write a note on my phone what did happened?

Speaker 2 (57:40):
What time?

Speaker 3 (57:41):
So when I go in there, let the doctors know,
this is what's happening to me. You understand what I'm saying.
And don't let them gas like you don't. Please, don't
let them and I know we use gas like like,
don't let them say, oh, it's gonna be all right. No, no,
be your own advocate. You know, if you have to
switch over to another doctor, didn't do so, like she said,

(58:01):
those groups, there's so many different groups out there that
has the knowledge and can you can find where a
doctor is in your neighborhood or in your city. And
if you have to go take a bus ride or
try and ride at somebody else, that's an investment in you.
When I saw the when I saw how much that
it would cost for me, and that my insurance would
not cover it. And I'm going to tell y'all how

(58:22):
much it's fourteen thousand dollars, fourteen thousand dollars for my
whole thing. And I remember sitting in the beginning, I
was like, oh, and then I thought about it.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
No, I want to feel well. I want to be
able to enjoy my children. I want to be able
to enjoy my grandchildren. I want to be able to
travel the.

Speaker 3 (58:42):
World and speak and teach people about self love and
help people.

Speaker 2 (58:46):
I want to do this.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
I want to be at one hundred and I know
what a one hundred is and I want to be
back at one hundred. And for me to do that,
I need to take out these things because they ain't
doing nothing for me. People can't see them anyway. They
Lovesata right now. I'm not showing them anyway. But what
I'm saying is too.

Speaker 2 (59:06):
Is that truly? And when I say this, Lady's and
I know y'all said, Naomi, But I'm gonna be flat Chesters.
I'm gonna be Let me tell you something. I did
so much stuff when I was flat Chester. I tell
you I read faster, I jumped higher.

Speaker 5 (59:21):
Yes, yes, there really is so many benefits.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
I was able to wear some really cute tops and
all that other stuff.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
And I have to worry about having people on boot watch.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
You got to have the people on the boot watch
and go out to the club and you moved too
much and.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
Did the boot fly, which I know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
I know you're like, Naomi, this is not funny, but
you know, we have to find humor.

Speaker 3 (59:47):
We have to find something good about this, because one
thing is I don't want to do I don't want
to shame anyone, and I don't want to shame myself
or embarrassment because these are choices of us growing.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
Yeah, we were grown.

Speaker 3 (59:58):
I was thirty when you were well, you know, but
this is what we do.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
And we cannot blame I can I can say I
can blame you know on this, on.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
This and this, but I had to give the choice
and that was the choice I made. But also this
is another choice that I have.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
You do too.

Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
So if you are sitting there and you do have
in princi and you have been thinking about it, and
you're thinking about the money issue, this is an investment
in you. This is an investment in your health, This
is an invest in your future. This is an investment
in your children and your grandchildren and everything that goes
after that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
It is an invest man an investment, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:00:40):
So there's something that we started to do just so
this month only from beginning we do a closing out
of meditation.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
So right now, if you all can just close your
eyes for this moment so we can we can exit
out on a positive note. All right now, place both
hands on your heart and take three deep breaths in
and want to fuel your heart beating steadily faithfully. It's

(01:01:12):
keeping you alive and strong. Now send gratitude to your
body for all that it has carried, all that it
has endured, and all that it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Continues to do for you each day.

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
Thank your body for its wisdom, for the signal it
sends to you, for its incredible capacity to heal and
regenerate you. Now ask your boutty, now what do you
need me to know? What wisdom do you have for me?

(01:01:48):
And listen with your whole being to whatever arises. Maybe
it's a message about rest or movement, or maybe it's
encouragement about a decision that you're facing, and maybe it's
a simple reminder of how loved and supported that you are.

(01:02:12):
But whatever you receive, hold it with gratitude. Your body
is your greatest ally, your wisest teacher, and your most
faithful companion. Say to your body now, I trust you,
I honor you. I choose to listen to your wisdom,

(01:02:34):
love and respect. Take one more deeper then, and carry
this commitment into your day, and when you are ready,
gently open your eyes.

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
All right again, my beautiful people, thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
This has been such an amazing and amazing shell.

Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
Thank you so much again, Shelley.

Speaker 3 (01:02:57):
Do you have any last words for our listeners today?

Speaker 5 (01:03:02):
Well, first of all, again, I'm very honored to be
here and to share this story.

Speaker 6 (01:03:06):
And I stopped sharing my story for a while, so
it was a god thing for me too that I
ended up with you in an interview last weekend to
be on this podcast. And I know without a doubt
that our stories to definitely impact others. And just to
know that you are not alone. You're not alone, and
to if you're in that place of just feeling like

(01:03:28):
you said, shame or whatever it is, we have all
felt it and just like go that just for a
moment and just make the decision to jump in and
ask somebody to even help you in your journey because
we're here for you to support you and love you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Yes, beautiful, thank you, thank you, And again, my beautiful people,
you know this week I did you know I always
give y'all like a little homework or something like this,
So I want you to do something for me. I
want you to practice deeper listening with your body.

Speaker 3 (01:03:55):
If each morning you ask yourself, how how are you
feeling to day?

Speaker 2 (01:03:59):
How am I feel today?

Speaker 1 (01:04:01):
What do I need each evening? Acts what am I
grateful for? And what did I learned today? If Shelley's
story has resonated with you, please share this episode with
someone who might need to hear it. You're sharing it
could be the bridge that helps another woman find her
courage or feel less alone in this journey. And remember,

(01:04:23):
whether you're facing a major health decision or just simply
learning to trust yourself more.

Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
Deeply, you are not alone.

Speaker 3 (01:04:30):
There's a community of women who have walked before you,
who are walking beside you, and who.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
Are cheering you on. So trust your journey, trust your
body's wisdom, trust the courage that lives within you. You
are more powerful than you know. So until next time, kid,
listening to your inner voice and remember that every step
toward authenticity is a step toward for you. Again, have
an amazing, amazing day, have a good one. Thank you

(01:04:59):
for joining us so on this journey of discovering and
empowerment here at the Season and Self Love Podcast. Remember,
embracing self love is a continuous journey, and we're.

Speaker 2 (01:05:09):
So glad to have you with us.

Speaker 1 (01:05:11):
So if you enjoy today's episode, please leave us a
review and don't forget to join our community on Facebook
at Season and Self Love connect with like minded individuals
who are also on their self love journey. Now, if
you have any questions or topics that you'd like for
us to explore, we'd love to hear from you. Email
us at Season usseelf Love at gmail dot com and

(01:05:34):
let your voice be heard. So until next time, take
a moment for yourself today and remember you are worthy
of love, joy, and all the beautiful things that life
has to offer.

Speaker 2 (01:05:46):
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