#865. What if the life you built—your marriage, your identity, your comfort zone—no longer aligned with who you really are?
Bestselling author and speaker Amber Rae joins Kaitlyn to talk about her new book Loveable and the moment everything changed: meeting her soulmate while still married. She opens up about navigating a sexless relationship, struggling with Adderall addiction and eating disorders, and learning how to sit with her emotions instead of silencing them.They dive deep into the power of truth, vulnerability, and the scary but beautiful process of coming home to yourself.
If you’ve ever stayed in something because it felt comfortable—or silenced your truth to avoid disappointing others—this episode is for YOU.
Listen now and ask yourself: What truth are you afraid to admit… and why?
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
- (8:09) – Amber shares the pivotal moment she met her soulmate while still married and how it set off a complete unraveling of the life she had built.
- (17:50) – A powerful conversation about people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and what happens when you realize you’ve been living for others.
- (26:40) – Amber opens up about life after a sexless marriage, reconnecting with desire, and healing intimacy wounds in a new relationship.
- (37:30) – A raw look into Amber’s experience with Adderall addiction, eating disorders, and the deeper issues driving them.
- (48:57) – Amber shares a powerful question to help you face the truth you might be avoiding.
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