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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Jules dirty little secret. Hello, hey, you have a dirty
little secret? Yeah, sweet, what is it? What on purpose? Well,
how did that happen?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Oh so you didn't actually do that.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Your sister just told you to say that. I don't
have a cat. What's happened?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well, thank you for thank you for the dirty little secret.
With some of the ones we get, I believe you
for I didn't too. All right, I have a good day,
bye bye. So you never know where you're gonna get
with the dirty little secret.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Nope.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
The weird thing is there was somebody listening out there
who was like, tell me about it, kid, So did
Oh wait he didn't, he didn't.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Never mind, never mind. Finally I'm not alone in this world.
Wait a second, he's still hard are you talking about?
I'm talking about the truck that listens at poops on
his cat? Victoria. Oh hey, what's up? You have a
dirty little secret? I sure do.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I just want to preface this by beginning to say
I am not this person anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Okay, and well this is going to be good.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I think about this all the time, and I just
I am like riddled with guils. Back in the days
where flip phones were a thing, like me know, before iPhones,
I was dating this guy who was awful. He was abusive,
he was mean to me, wh shouldn't have been together.
So while we were together, I started to cheat on
him with my ex boyfriend, who was my high school
sweetheart at the time. Okay, I did that because my
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boyfriend at the time was so mean and so toxic.
She would always look at my phone I was sleeping.
He would read my messages like it was just a
relationship I need to be in. Okay, So one day
my ex boyfriend messaged me and said, hey, do you
want to come over?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
And I'm like, yeah, of course I do. I want
to get away from this guy.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
So I tell my boyfriend that my best friend needed
to ride because she got drunk and I needed to
go pick her up. And so I leave and go
to my ex boyfriend's house and go hook up with him.
And while my ex boyfriend is in the shower, I
take his cell phone and I have a fake conversation
with myself from his phone to my phone, and in
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his phone, I text me and I say, hey, you
want to come over? And I say no, I can't,
and like, I deleted the message where I said yes,
obviously I do. I said no, I can't, and so
I made myself say why, and I said I can't.
I'm trying to work things out with my boyfriend's name.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Now and I don't want him to be upset with me.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
I really love him. And he's like, okay, I understand,
I'm sorry, and I'm like it's okay, I just don't
reach out to me again. Like I had this entire
fake conversation in my phone and then I deleted everything. Okay,
So when I went home, I knew my boyfriend was
going to go through my phone, and so the next
morning I woke up and he told me I love
you so much and he gave me a kiss because
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he went through my messages and.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
He saw those fake messages.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So anyway, I'm.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Not that person anymore.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
We eventually broke up I think three weeks after that,
and I am also not a cheater anymore. Like that
was like a time back when I was young and
just stupid and not doing smart things. So I'd like
to practice also that once a cheater is always a cheater.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Is not the thing with me. I got married.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Once I got married, I would never cheat. I would
you have to pay me to even think about it.
But that's my dirty little seat. I feel terrible for
like having a conversation like a psychopath.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
But whoa. Anyways, I don't know. I think you should
be easy on yourself about that. It's like survival at
that point.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
If it was like if he's checking your phone like
that and it was abused with stuff, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Man, I guess, but I still think about it, so
I feel guilty because it's just a terrible way to live,
and it just it sits heavy on my heart, even
though I was really young.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
But you don't live that way anymore, and you definitely
learned a lesson, and thank you for sharing it.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
You also show people how stressful cheating is.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
That's the thing. I don't know how people do that, Like,
how do you like?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
It's hard to juggle. I could never do it again.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
It was so You're so right, it was so stressful.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
So it's not that the garbage man. Well, thank you
for telling us your dirty little secret.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
I love you guys, you too, what's your dirty little secret?