breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

breakup BOOST is your golden ticket to healing heartbreak, raising your standards, and dating smarter. Hosted by Trina Leckie, this podcast dishes out honest talk, sharp insights, and no-nonsense advice to help you reclaim your power and turn the page with purpose. * Your bounce-back era starts here. * Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you'll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" * For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupBOOST. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup BOOST."

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May 23, 2026 8 mins

Few things are more aggravating than being hurt by someone who refuses to simply own it.

Instead of taking accountability, they make excuses, deflect, blame-shift, or act like YOU'RE somehow the problem. Huh??!!

In this episode, I break down 5 reasons some people refuse to take accountability after hurting you.

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Have you ever been told you're "being negative" just because you expressed a concern, had a different opinion, or didn't automatically go along with something?

Yeah… we need to talk.

In this episode, I'm getting into a communication pattern that can quietly create anxiety, resentment, and emotional distance in relationships of all kinds.

Because there's a big difference between negativity and simply having a mind of your own.

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When emotions take over, people can start doing things that feel justified in the moment… but usually lead to more pain, more confusion, and less self-respect.

The first way to avoid desperation in dating situations or after a breakup is to call yourself out on it. 

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If you're tired of feeling drained, confused about someone's effort, or stuck in a situation where you're doing way more than your share - hello - this is your wake-up call...

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We've all had THAT friend - and / or - BEEN that friend who won't move on, but also won't stop complaining.  At what point does it drive too big of a wedge between two people? Also, what you want to keep in mind when it comes to giving friends advice...

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After a breakup, nothing messes with your head more than seeing your ex move on fast. One minute you're still processing what happened… the next, THEY'RE posting, dating, or already acting like they've upgraded their entire life.

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Have you ever reconnected with someone from your past and convinced yourself that things will be different this time? 

Second chances can feel hopeful… even exciting. But they can also come with a hidden risk that many people don't realize until they're already back in the dynamic.

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You may not be actively pursuing your ex, but if you're still leaving the door open "just in case," it can quietly keep you stuck in the past... and that's not a good place to be... 

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Sometimes it's not just the romantic relationship that needs boundaries - it's the others around it. In this episode, I talk about a dynamic that can create problems before and after a breakup.

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This episode has been a long time coming... I break down the delusion, dismantle the excuses, and expose the "twin flames" fantasy you're worshipping - so you can stop embarrassing yourself and start reclaiming your dignity. A MUST-LISTEN! Common sense, baby... common sense...

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In this episode, I'm talking straight to YOU about the mindset you may jump into after a breakup and how it can quietly keep you stuck without you even realizing it. 

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This episode exposes a painful reality… and you'll know pretty quickly if it hits a little too close to home. That's a GOOD thing though. As they say... the truth will set you free. xo 

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Forget resolutions - - - this is about choosing ONE WORD to help you stay focused, accountable, and aligned in how you think, decide, and move through the year.

I also share the word I chose and "the why."

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ASK TRINA is back... tackling 20 random questions with zero fluff and maximum honesty. Grab some snacks and get comfy!

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You keep saying your ex ruined your life - but you've got to stop giving them so much power. I get it... after a breakup, you're hurt, you're angry, you're replaying everything in your head… but calling your life "ruined" doesn't just flatter them - it makes it sound like you don't even have an identity without them. Come on now.... it's time to flip this script!

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You've probably seen people throw around the term "trauma bonding" like confetti on social media… but are they using this term correctly?! In this episode, we're breaking down what trauma bonding actually is, how people misuse it, and why calling every messy relationship by that name might be keeping you stuck.

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This one's your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don't even pay full attention, that's on you. Self-respect isn't arrogance - it's knowing you're not a clearance-rack find.

The moment you start acting like you're the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better.

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Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a "mistake," a "drunken slip," or "not really cheating," but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you've been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real.

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Whether you're reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don't end up looking back, wishing you had.

Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen.

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Red flags aren't just cute little quirks you should "wait and see" about - they're WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That's how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun.

If you've ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn't want to "make a big deal out of it," this one's for you. 

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