August 7, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com. Maya is on the phone
today for a first date follow up, and she's getting
ghosted by a guy named Aaron. So in a second
we're going to call him and see fields house, why
is ghostinger? And maybe get her another date if she
still wants one. But first, Maya, how long has it
been since you heard from Aaron?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's been a month.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Oh, I know, a long time. Why do you want
to get a hold of him if it's been a
whole month?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well, I just really it felt like we had a
really good connection. You know. The conversation was really effortless,
and we had a lot in common, and he just
felt really special. And you know, it's kind of hard
to find that some nowadays, you know, and like's hard
to meet people and it's hard to really feel that
genuine connection. So I thought it was special and I
wish she's thinking about him.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Have you tried to reach out to him in this time?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I have. I reached out to him three times, but
I haven't heard to you.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
What do you say when you reach out?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Well, first time, it was like, oh, I had a
great time, it was it was really great getting to
know you, like to see you again. And then the
second time it was pretty much the same, like oh,
just you know, just reach out again, you know, just
seeing how you're doing. And then the third time I
was kind of concerned for his well being because I
was like, well, maybe something happened to him, you.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Know, and I was thing, it's okay, but I still haven't.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Heard anything, and why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
How did all of that go?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
It was great. We had this really cool jazz bar.
It was a really romantic atmosphere, and we both were
both really into music, so you know, we were listening
to music and talking about the music, and then we
just really clicked. We shoul had a huge dreams. We
had this really nice little boost, so it was really
(01:50):
easy to talk and that's about our work of traveling
and our where we want to go, like what kind
of places we want to go to, and we talked
about uh, you know, our pets and our passions and
it was really just great.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And he was really funny. He was making the laugh
and it just kind of felt like we'd known each
other for years, you.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Know, and we did, uh, we did share a kids
at the end of the night.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
It's asy to you, but I was it was going
so well so you know.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You sound so giddy right now just reliving it.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Yeah, yeah, I think I could just really felt for him,
you know, and then and it was a really good kiss.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Do you know like he felt too.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I think so.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
I mean, I I think he I think he did,
you know, could be in his eyes and and and
he and he said, you know, I had a really
great time and I'd like to see you again and
just and just really know just the way that uh,
the kiss, well, you know it was you know, it
started out he had tentative and then got you know,
(03:03):
we got kind of into it and and and it
just felt so you know, so so natural. You just
kind of figure out the angles and everything, and.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It just why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Well, okay, this is embarrassing, but you know, he was really.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Funny, and he was you know, you know, I'm just
like taking jokes the whole night and cracking me up.
I love a guy with some of humor, you know,
And he made this one really funny joke and I
laughed so hard, like some smack came out of myself.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I don't know if you saw it. I he was
kind of looking away, but it's kind of It was
dark in the clubs, so maybe he didn't see it
and I walked into us real quick. But uh, maybe
he did.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Maybe he was like, oh, like sorts.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
A little embarrassing. I mean, I wouldn't go somebody for that,
you know. I just take it as a compliment that
I made them laugh so hard that they couldn't control
their snot Oh that's so cute. All right, Well, we'll
see if we can figure it out. We'll play a
song come back, and then call him and see if
he'll tell us why he is ghosting you and maybe
get you another date. Okay, oh, thank you, I appreciate it.
(04:19):
Pla us on come back and get your first day
follow up the next Right in the middle of today's
first date follow up, if you're just joining us, Maya
is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a
dude named Aaron. So we're about to call him and
see if he'll tell us why is ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Maya, why don't
(04:39):
you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Erin.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Oh yeah, well it.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Was really great. We met up at this really nice
jazz bar. We heard some great music, we had a booth,
was a really nice intimate date, and we had a
nice conversation and he was really funny, and we really
hit it off, being a lot in common, and you
didn't have a really nice kids at the end of
the day. And I'll love to see him again. And
I even texted him the shoot time and I just
(05:05):
never heard anything back. And it's been about a month.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, a little nervous then already.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And you think the reason you're getting ghosted is because
you blew us, not rocket. I'm saying that. She just
said a little came out with big different All Right,
here we go. I'm gonna dolla this one number. Hello, Hi,
(05:36):
I speak to Aaron. Please.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
This is Aaron.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Aaron, Hey man, how are you? My name is Jewbell.
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Aeron,
I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hey, I'm Victoria. How
many people live this three?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, and it's a radio show. I don't know if
you heard that part. I did okay's have you ever
listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Sometimes on my way to work?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Okay, cool? Have you ever heard of first date follow
up before?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I guess Okay, that's good. Well, guess what erin?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I'm on it.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
You are now the star of one.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Do you have any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 7 (06:21):
I might have an idea.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't really date many people. Okay, who do you
think it is?
Speaker 7 (06:27):
Probably Maya?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Guess what erin? You're absolutely correct. My emailed us and
told us about your date, and she wants to know
why your ghost would you tell us?
Speaker 7 (06:37):
I'm sure it's kind of crazy timing. So I have
real bad anxiety and I'm kind of working through it
with my therapist, and we actually in my last session
just talked about Maya, And you know, I feel bad
for not reaching out and possibly hurting her feelings. But I,
(06:57):
you know, I try to, I find myself figure up
the phone to call her or you know, respond to
her text messages, but I just.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I just can't.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Okay, So your therapist is helping you with that, Like,
do you think that you're going to reach out to her?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Was that part of the plan?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
That was it.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
I just haven't been able to you know, forsh that
call button.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Oh, they just can't call her.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Yeah, it's just I don't know what to say.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
And now it's been about a month and it.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Just makes things a little worse.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
And now I'm on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Maybe it's good timing though, because maybe this will put
you in a position to not have to worry about
what to say because she wants to know why you're
not calling.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I guess that helps anxiety or what.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:48):
Yeah, I have fear of rejection, I guess is what.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
My therapists said.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Okay, Like I said, I.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Don't really date much, so when I do date Aaron,
have you ever heard of the term cognitive behavior therapy?
Uh no, okay, cool, Well I'm going to tell you
what it is. So Cognitive behavioral therapy is when if
you have like a fear of something, they put you
in that situation so that you can see that it
goes well and then you can start to relieve that fear.
(08:18):
So like if you're scared of jumping into water, does
take you and jumping into water and you'll be okay,
and then you'll be like, Okay, it's not that scary.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
That sounds terrifying.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And the reason that I bring that up to explain
that to you is Maya's actually on the phone listening
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
So okay, hey, good to hear your sorry.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I have, you know, well hearing your reason it, I mean,
it makes sense, and it doesn't make me relieve because
I thought.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
That you just lost interests and or you.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Just didn't want to see me, or I'm theres to myself.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
No, but it's more of the opposite.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Yeah, I have you know, I care about you, or
I have strong feelings and I'm not sure how to
go through it.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Well, well, I care about you too, and I understand,
but just you know, it did really hurt my feelings
when I never heard anything from you, and then, I know,
anxiety very hard to work through, you know. I sometimes
(09:40):
I think it can be an excuse, you know, not
to tell your true feelings.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
I just.
Speaker 7 (09:52):
I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings or my own.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
U So I just yeah, So so is it an you?
Speaker 7 (10:01):
I mean no, No, I really liked you. I really
like you, and I'd like to, you know, hang out.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
But it's it's tough. Oh, I understand, and I don't
want to do too and be awkward.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I didn't think you were awkward at all when we
had our date. I thought it was great and the
conversation was great, and you were really charming and funny
and and i'd like to see you again. And I'm
willing to work with you, you know, and the understanding.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Just seeing how much I was sweating.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
To go out with Mia again. We'll pay for it. Yeah, absolutely,
you look at that. That's exciting. You got a second date, Maya,
and we here to Aaron's fear of rejection. Isn't that amazing?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Maybe I should pay you guys.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Dole's first Date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com. Maya is on the phone
today for a first date follow up, and she's getting
ghosted by a guy named Aaron. So in a second
we're going to call him and see fields house, why
is ghostinger? And maybe get her another date if she
still wants one. But first, Maya, how long has it
been since you heard from Aaron?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's been a month.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Oh, I know, a long time. Why do you want
to get a hold of him if it's been a
whole month?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well, I just really it felt like we had a
really good connection. You know. The conversation was really effortless,
and we had a lot in common, and he just
felt really special. And you know, it's kind of hard
to find that some nowadays, you know, and like's hard
to meet people and it's hard to really feel that
genuine connection. So I thought it was special and I
wish she's thinking about him.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Have you tried to reach out to him in this time?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I have. I reached out to him three times, but
I haven't heard to you.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
What do you say when you reach out?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Well, first time, it was like, oh, I had a
great time, it was it was really great getting to
know you, like to see you again. And then the
second time it was pretty much the same, like oh,
just you know, just reach out again, you know, just
seeing how you're doing. And then the third time I
was kind of concerned for his well being because I
was like, well, maybe something happened to him, you.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Know, and I was thing, it's okay, but I still haven't.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Heard anything, and why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
How did all of that go?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
It was great. We had this really cool jazz bar.
It was a really romantic atmosphere, and we both were
both really into music, so you know, we were listening
to music and talking about the music, and then we
just really clicked. We shoul had a huge dreams. We
had this really nice little boost, so it was really
(01:50):
easy to talk and that's about our work of traveling
and our where we want to go, like what kind
of places we want to go to, and we talked
about uh, you know, our pets and our passions and
it was really just great.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And he was really funny. He was making the laugh
and it just kind of felt like we'd known each
other for years, you.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Know, and we did, uh, we did share a kids
at the end of the night.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
It's asy to you, but I was it was going
so well so you know.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You sound so giddy right now just reliving it.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Yeah, yeah, I think I could just really felt for him,
you know, and then and it was a really good kiss.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Do you know like he felt too.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I think so.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
I mean, I I think he I think he did,
you know, could be in his eyes and and and
he and he said, you know, I had a really
great time and I'd like to see you again and
just and just really know just the way that uh,
the kiss, well, you know it was you know, it
started out he had tentative and then got you know,
(03:03):
we got kind of into it and and and it
just felt so you know, so so natural. You just
kind of figure out the angles and everything, and.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It just why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Well, okay, this is embarrassing, but you know, he was really.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Funny, and he was you know, you know, I'm just
like taking jokes the whole night and cracking me up.
I love a guy with some of humor, you know,
And he made this one really funny joke and I
laughed so hard, like some smack came out of myself.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I don't know if you saw it. I he was
kind of looking away, but it's kind of It was
dark in the clubs, so maybe he didn't see it
and I walked into us real quick. But uh, maybe
he did.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Maybe he was like, oh, like sorts.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
A little embarrassing. I mean, I wouldn't go somebody for that,
you know. I just take it as a compliment that
I made them laugh so hard that they couldn't control
their snot Oh that's so cute. All right, Well, we'll
see if we can figure it out. We'll play a
song come back, and then call him and see if
he'll tell us why he is ghosting you and maybe
get you another date. Okay, oh, thank you, I appreciate it.
(04:19):
Pla us on come back and get your first day
follow up the next Right in the middle of today's
first date follow up, if you're just joining us, Maya
is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a
dude named Aaron. So we're about to call him and
see if he'll tell us why is ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Maya, why don't
(04:39):
you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Erin.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Oh yeah, well it.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Was really great. We met up at this really nice
jazz bar. We heard some great music, we had a booth,
was a really nice intimate date, and we had a
nice conversation and he was really funny, and we really
hit it off, being a lot in common, and you
didn't have a really nice kids at the end of
the day. And I'll love to see him again. And
I even texted him the shoot time and I just
(05:05):
never heard anything back. And it's been about a month.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, a little nervous then already.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And you think the reason you're getting ghosted is because
you blew us, not rocket. I'm saying that. She just
said a little came out with big different All Right,
here we go. I'm gonna dolla this one number. Hello, Hi,
(05:36):
I speak to Aaron. Please.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
This is Aaron.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Aaron, Hey man, how are you? My name is Jewbell.
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Aeron,
I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hey, I'm Victoria. How
many people live this three?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, and it's a radio show. I don't know if
you heard that part. I did okay's have you ever
listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Sometimes on my way to work?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Okay, cool? Have you ever heard of first date follow
up before?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I guess Okay, that's good. Well, guess what erin?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I'm on it.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
You are now the star of one.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Do you have any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 7 (06:21):
I might have an idea.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't really date many people. Okay, who do you
think it is?
Speaker 7 (06:27):
Probably Maya?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Guess what erin? You're absolutely correct. My emailed us and
told us about your date, and she wants to know
why your ghost would you tell us?
Speaker 7 (06:37):
I'm sure it's kind of crazy timing. So I have
real bad anxiety and I'm kind of working through it
with my therapist, and we actually in my last session
just talked about Maya, And you know, I feel bad
for not reaching out and possibly hurting her feelings. But I,
(06:57):
you know, I try to, I find myself figure up
the phone to call her or you know, respond to
her text messages, but I just.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I just can't.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Okay, So your therapist is helping you with that, Like,
do you think that you're going to reach out to her?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Was that part of the plan?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
That was it.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
I just haven't been able to you know, forsh that
call button.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Oh, they just can't call her.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Yeah, it's just I don't know what to say.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
And now it's been about a month and it.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Just makes things a little worse.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
And now I'm on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Maybe it's good timing though, because maybe this will put
you in a position to not have to worry about
what to say because she wants to know why you're
not calling.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I guess that helps anxiety or what.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:48):
Yeah, I have fear of rejection, I guess is what.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
My therapists said.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Okay, Like I said, I.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Don't really date much, so when I do date Aaron,
have you ever heard of the term cognitive behavior therapy?
Uh no, okay, cool, Well I'm going to tell you
what it is. So Cognitive behavioral therapy is when if
you have like a fear of something, they put you
in that situation so that you can see that it
goes well and then you can start to relieve that fear.
(08:18):
So like if you're scared of jumping into water, does
take you and jumping into water and you'll be okay,
and then you'll be like, Okay, it's not that scary.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
That sounds terrifying.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
And the reason that I bring that up to explain
that to you is Maya's actually on the phone listening
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
So okay, hey, good to hear your sorry.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I have, you know, well hearing your reason it, I mean,
it makes sense, and it doesn't make me relieve because
I thought.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
That you just lost interests and or you.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Just didn't want to see me, or I'm theres to myself.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
No, but it's more of the opposite.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
Yeah, I have you know, I care about you, or
I have strong feelings and I'm not sure how to
go through it.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Well, well, I care about you too, and I understand,
but just you know, it did really hurt my feelings
when I never heard anything from you, and then, I know,
anxiety very hard to work through, you know. I sometimes
(09:40):
I think it can be an excuse, you know, not
to tell your true feelings.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
I just.
Speaker 7 (09:52):
I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings or my own.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
U So I just yeah, So so is it an you?
Speaker 7 (10:01):
I mean no, No, I really liked you. I really
like you, and I'd like to, you know, hang out.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
But it's it's tough. Oh, I understand, and I don't
want to do too and be awkward.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I didn't think you were awkward at all when we
had our date. I thought it was great and the
conversation was great, and you were really charming and funny
and and i'd like to see you again. And I'm
willing to work with you, you know, and the understanding.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Just seeing how much I was sweating.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
To go out with Mia again. We'll pay for it. Yeah, absolutely,
you look at that. That's exciting. You got a second date, Maya,
and we here to Aaron's fear of rejection. Isn't that amazing?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Maybe I should pay you guys.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
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