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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Sky. For as long as I've known you, it
seems like you've always sort of had some trust issues
and that goes along with all kinds of different stuff.
But where do you think those trust issues come from?
Speaker 2 (00:13):
I can tell you exactly where they come from. Answered.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
They come from my one and only other long term
relationship outside of my husband, which was like basically my
junior year of high school all the way through my
first two years of college. And I thought everything was
rainbows and sunshine. I thought everything was great. I thought, honestly, like,
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this guy's kind of lucky to be with me. He's
kind of, you know, a little bit of sort well
not that not that I'm an amazing catch, but he
was a little bit not of an amazing catch.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
A loser.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah, I did want to use that word, but hey,
your word's not mine. I was thinking it. You said it. So, yes,
he was an alcoholic.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
He you know, wasn't all that nice to me or thoughtful,
like I mean, I don't remember my gangbanger face.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh yeah, that was a different face.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Oh. I mean, I know there's worse relationships out there,
but it wasn't a great one. But still me being
me and not liking confrontation and not wanting to hurt
people's feelings. I was just in it, Like I probably
would have married that guy just because him today, Yeah,
because I wouldn't want to cause waves.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
And like me, that's a issue. It's an issue.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
It's I mean, just thirty years. Why don't you get it,
you know addressed?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
So anyway, So we were living in southern California at
the time because I was going to cal State San
Marcos Go Cougar's And that's when my dad had a
medical emergency moved back up north and for the like
two weeks that we were living separate. Turns out, uh,
he found Horry mccorr face decided to spend quite a
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bit of time with her.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Why is she.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
She might not have known about you.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
No, she was the girl people always blame the other woman,
and it's I agree and I and I hate that
because she was in no relationship with me. But it
turns out she was because they lived in this apartment complex.
She was the girl who literally would sleep with anyone
in the apartment complex if you gave her a beer.
So so that that kind of like like you better
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get tested afterwards, type of chick, you know what I mean.
So I'm not just saying that because he cheated on
me that that was her reputation, if you will, a
good time to some, to others not so much. So
I get word of that, and that, I believe is
where all my insecurities come from about cheating and trust issues,
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because I was so ignorant at that point that that
would like even happen to me, And so when it did,
it was one of those moments of like any I
think could.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Happen to anybody at any time.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
You think you know a person and you don't know
a person's true, and that's always it's not true.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
But I mean, listen, that was thirty years ago and
your first real relationship. Yes, so you haven't got over
that yet.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I feel I've gotten over it to the point where,
like I was able to get in another relationship, but
you'd marry the next person you were with. Yeah, yeah,
it's wild, that's questionable. She was supposed to be my
first one night stand. Turns out that that didn't work out.
That ended up marrying the guy twenty five years later.
So I feel like I have gotten over it to
the point where I can have a functioning relationship. But
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if that little you know, switch gets flicked in me,
I could go to a little cuckoo spot.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean you do track your husband. Some say spy.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Well depends, Yeah, very true.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
There's other things that have popped up before that you
you know, get a little weird.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
If I have a bad dream that it's going to
be a weird couple days chat. If I have a
cheating dream, it's going to be a weird couple days
for my poor husband.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Yes, that's true.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
So you've always sort of had these kind of trust
issues in your life and your relationship and things like this,
and you know most of it I think you're a
little kooky about but this one is a little bit
of a head scratcher. I'll give you this.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
This is like scientific stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I am wondering how this happened.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Because Sky is questioning the boo all because he got sick? Yes,
what the hell is this all?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Well? Can I say for myself because the more I'm
processing this right now, I think also playing into my
trust issues is that my husband and I are not
quite sexually aligned, if you will, where Yeah, more of
a I've been described as more of a sexual camel,
who could you know, just go.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
For a coin, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Where As my.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Husband is I don't know, like sexual well muck bang,
where he like literally can't get enough at all times,
so aggressive word.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, I'm very confused right out. Should we have hit
the dumb button? I don't know, I don't know, I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
I was trying to think of something that's excessive, and
I couldn't come up with another animal, so all I
could think of was YouTube eaters. But anyway, another thing
though that your husband's probably into, by the way, rue,
well only.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Chicks, only chicks and like bikin easy weird stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yes, so I think that also plays into my trust
issues that you know, sexually we are on different pages
sometimes slash all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
So yes, Eddie's right.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Uh, some weird happened that I can't explain, and just
like we kind of talked about with my trust issues.
At first, I'm like, huh, that's weird, but then the
switch got flipped and I'm like, wait, this is more
than weird.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Okay, this isn't adding up. So uh.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
If you don't know the backstory on my husband, he
is a stay at home father and through his own DNA,
and I believe COVID has basically become a shut in.
He's always had a bit of social anxiety and you know,
a bit of a homebody. But ever since COVID, it's like,
dude doesn't leave the house. Like unless it's to drive
our daughter somewhere or to go to home depot or
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the grocery store.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Du doesn't leave the house.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
And so it was the other weekend when my daughter
and I went up to Laguna Woods to visit my
mom went to see the Long Beach Aquarium and we
were gone hot weekend.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
What a trip.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Oh man man, Lucky we didn't get arrested with all
the fun we had that weekend being in the fifty
five up community, just it's so amazing. So we were
gone for the entire weekend. And so uh no, cause
you know, he he's watching the dogs. But really he
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would just prefer to stay home, you know. He does
doesn't want to go stay at my mom's condo. He
doesn't want to spend six hours touring an aquarium on
a weekend.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
He doesn't want to miss a football Sunday.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
So he stayed home doing his projects whatever.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
So many projects, lots of projects on his laptop. I
bet that that laptop top got some work.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
So so of course, as I'm gone, I'm seeing the
usual activity I see on my phone when I'm not around,
and the only activity I'm seeing, because you know, we
share an Apple I d is that he is getting
grub Hub deliveries. And I'm like, okay, that that makes sense.
That that tracks, you know, guys getting taco shop and
burgers and gut bombs, all the things. Okay, And then
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I come home, great, no, no big deal. Well I'm
home for like an hour, and all of a sudden,
guy is not feeling well.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Headache, neck pain, stomach ache.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Starts to turn pale, starts getting nauset, and I'm like,
oh my gosh. And so it's like three days of
this where all of his symptoms.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Look very fluey, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
He doesn't have a fever, but everything I mean, I've
given him COVID tests, I'm giving him tylan al Like,
to me, it looks like dude has the flu.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Okay, and your flu shot. That's not how it works.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Your head's up.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Okay, stop stop with all of that, all right, Okay,
you want so I'm pretty much in my mind guy
got the flu?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
That sucks?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Heard it's going around whatever. But then this is where
the cuckoo switch comes in, because I go, wait a second,
guy literally did not leave the house allegedly for three days.
How are you gonna get a virus or a sickness
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if you.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Don't leave the bubble? Like I don't. I'm not a scientist, I'm.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Not a doctor, but I think it's impossible to catch
the flu if you don't leave the house, if you
don't interact with another human.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Huh, yeah, how do you get the flu when you're
in a bubble?
Speaker 1 (09:13):
And we're sure he didn't go to the grocery store
or didn't go anywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I ask the station.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
I mean yeah, I asked him, and he said no.
And the only thing he could think of is that,
like maybe his hand touched the door dash guy's hand,
but he doesn't even remember because but most of the
time they just leave it outside our front gate. So
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I don't even know if he like interacted with the
door dash guy. And so with every minute that goes by,
I'm getting more and more conspiracy thing.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
What do you mean, what could it be?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
You won't track him. You know he didn't leave.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Well no, I mean I don't track him unless I'm
looking for him. So it's not like I'm so I
don't know, I didn't look at his location.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Been, I don't know. I don't have anything like that.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Whoa, Emily the Life three sixty app that I use,
you could see like all the trouts. Oh see, I
just use find my iPhone so it just shows you
where they're at.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
At that minute.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Amateur hour.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
So, so a lot of confusion. He claims he didn't
leave the house. But I'm getting more and more curious.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Then, what what is your thought process?
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Some shady's gone?
Speaker 1 (10:33):
What do you mean? What could it be to chicks.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Or or more like a you know, uh, you order
one up the real classy ones.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
To come over to your house.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
You think your husband ordered an escort to come to
your house when you were gone for the weekend.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Hey, we're just spitballing.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
You have a thousand ring cameras at your house. You
would have seen something.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Well, get alerts when there's motion.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
I do.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
But there's motion all the time.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Dogs running by, the college student living in the adyu walking.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You could go back and look at your footage. You
know that that's not the case.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
There's no Well I did go back and no, you
didn't look at the footage sky.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
That's creepy, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
I just I would just got thinking.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
And then again that switch kind of and I go, well,
I can see I can see if the door dash
guy lingered and they touched hand.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Okay, so you.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Know that flues are and things like that can gest state,
and so he could have gone out the week before
and then caught something.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Oh are you a doctor? Now, are no idea?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
I did get the flu flu shot. Okay, that doesn't
make you but that's psychotic behavior.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Was there a little bit of guilt after I scrolled
through the ring cam motions and saw nothing besides the
dogs running around and Amazon packages?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
You know your husband? That guy is the most least
likely to cheat human being on the planet for some reason.
A Number one, he's really into you, which I no
one can understand.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
That's really wild.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Number two, he doesn't go anywhere. He doesn't like human interaction,
so having a stranger, and he knows how crazy you are,
so he would he would never risk it.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
He would never risk it too risky.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
No, it's such a crazy thought process that you would
think that this guy would do anything like that.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
I see, I could kind of see though.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
I mean, well, you're also crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
I don't think I'm like.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
This guy said.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
You never know, Yeah, you never know what he's gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
What do you think?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, well how I started off, I was so trusting, and.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Then you said for yourself that the guy was a loser.
Well he was, okay, So all the things that about
the boo, you can say whatever you want. He's not
gonna go out looking for a piece of strange.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
He's just not Does anybody know if you can retrieve
deleted files from the ring camp.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
I'm just going out there and that's about it. I mean,
you think you'd learn your lesson your psycho, all right,