September 11, 2025 • 27 mins
Anyone else feeling like it's expensive just to wake up in the morning?! Maybe these ladies have the hack figured out...new season of Buns & Banter has arrived!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hell.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast by work Busties
for work Busties. Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Ali. We're
both morning show hosts for iHeartMedia. We're both millennials, and
we're both trying to figure out how to build the
lives we dream about, dating, marriage, career, career and being
a mom, how to get through a week without crying.
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Welcome to Buns and Banter. We're glad you're here. Twenty
nine cents is insane. My girl is worth more than that, Matthew.
My girl is worth more than that. She's just I'm
broke as a joke. So the twenty ninth cens is
a lot for me. Buns and Banter is back for
another season. We have been getting well, Okay, I'm gonna
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be honest. We've gotten like three total messages I think,
but that's gotten five, so I think we've gotten eight.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Okay, all right, of people asking, hey, is the podcast done?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
No, the podcast isn't done. You know that we do this.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
We bring it back for a season, We do like
eight to ten episodes, and then we take a little
break yep, and then we come back because that's what
works for us.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And took a little summer break. We're back. We've learned
a lot, We're a little more sumber, a little wiser, And.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I gotta say I've been foaming, foaming at the mouth
to be able to talk about this not a new
topic historically nor currently, but I've been foaming at the
mouth to talk to you about a couple age gap
relationships because wow, got a debrief.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But before we get to that, it's perfect. So if
you have our TikTok Live on right now, which you're
not if you're listening on the iHeartRadio app, it cost
me money to get into Allie's Live.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Did you end up paying the twenty nine cent No.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
We figured it way around it because I was like,
I don't even know if I have a card that
would not decline right now. It is so damn expensive
to be alive. And this is the crash out I
am having. But you're rich in love. It's on, you
know what. There's another thing to bring up. I love
the TikTok trend or the commenters that are like this
(02:09):
that you're rich, right, and it's something like you have
a mom that loves you and you have that's nice,
but it's not true.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Almost forgot that that was the whole point.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
It's sweet, but like girl, I am having a time
between my kids starting some new extracurriculars. Yeah, by the way, dance,
didn't know that was gonna cost me a kidney And
then like, not even just financially expensive, it's mentally and
emotionally expensive. I feel like coming out into the world.
The seasons are changing, so I feel like my head
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is just full of pressure on top of the anxious
pressure that I have every day, and it's just taken
a toll on my pocket, my brain, and my well being.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
So earlier this summer. You know, Jimmy, my boyfriend, plays
lacrosse every summer with the Grand Rapids Grizzlies. I'm gonna
give them their little shout out. I love that they
won their regionals this year and they went to Nationals.
But there was a weekend. He usually because all of
the guys are either like college players or they are
actual full grown adults that have like nine to five
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jobs every single day. They practice on Wednesday nights, and
they play their games on Saturday and Sunday. And this
is a travel league, so it's not uncommon for him
to be in Chicago or Toledo or wherever. There was
a weekend where he had home games, so in grend Rapids,
thank god. But that his car was just like it was.
(03:35):
It was messed up, like the tire was flat. We
couldn't inflate it. It was it was out of commission
for the weekend. So I was like, you know, what
is this actually like a very cute let's play house
trial run for what I think our life will be
one day? And I got to be lacrosse mom for
the weekend. Okay, thank snacks, I packed snacks, I watched
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the gear like I wanted to do it all, like
I wanted to, like, really, lacrosse mom, trial run it.
I'm washing all of your stuff, I'm driving you everywhere,
like I just want to see exactly what I'm in
for on top of working full time, yeah, you know,
and like doing all of the other things that we
needed to do that weekend. And oh boy, did I
get a taste? How did I get a taste? It
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tasted like I need to be a stay at home
mom if we're gonna have kids. That's what it tasted like,
which is a absolutely insane I can't believe I can't believe
that's what I walked away from the weekend with, because
never ever in my life have I ever even considered
being an sahm.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
And there's like a whole another conversation on TikTok about that,
where this woman is like, do you like being called
a stay at home mom because there's still such a
stigma attached to that, and these women are in the
comments like, oh, that's not what I'm called. I am
the director of our household. I am the CEO of
the social calendar, their elastic engineer, domestic engineer, because it is.
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It's I mean a ton I think being a working mom,
No doubt, a ton ton falls through the cracks.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I'll tell you what I did realize. I do want
a wife. I want a wife.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I want someone who's gonna keep all my shit together yep,
and keep everybody on schedule and pack the lunches and
do the laundry, and make sure that everybody knows what
time they need to beware and that all of their
stuff is washed and dried and on the dining room
table the night before. I mean, like, I really did it.
I really wanted a dry run and got a taste
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of what is I bow down to you.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
You and Chris do it with two kids. I don't.
I just realized we realized yesterday Will doesn't have any pants.
You put on jeans and they were up around his knees.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Are they really the most important thing? He's alive?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Like, well, it's gonna be eighty this week, so I
guess we'll go find pants for next week. That's right?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So much?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
And I'm like, God, everything is money and then if
you're feeling overwhelmed, you should go to therapy. Well guess
what that is? More money. I'd rather be broken depressed then, No,
I wouldn't. I would rather have some money and be
depressed than broken depressed. So anyway, I'm a little bit
on a crash out right now. Maybe not how I
should have entered the new season of Buns and Banter,
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But you know what, we're very open here. Deserves to
be talked about.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
You're giving me the perfect segue into exactly what I
want to talk to you about today. I want a
rich woman, and that is exactly what I feel like.
You know, the girls are on it, They're on it. Yeah,
I want to talk about Jordan Ooh, what's her last
Na Hudson, Yes, and Bill Belichick and I also want
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to talk about There was a new one that popped
up that I just saw. Darius Rucker has a new girlfriend,
Emily dial As I think how you say her?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
So he used he used to be with Hooty and
the Blowfish, but we don't bring that up, right, No,
you can. Oh, he's good with that. He's back with
Hoody and the Blowfish.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
In fact, Hoody and the Blowfish just did a song
with Scotty McCreery, so they're like dude back on the
radio again.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Fabulous.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Sarius Rucker right now is living in London. He decided
he wanted to move across the pond and just sort
of explore what if the UK had to offer from
my life. He said, He's not going to be over
there for the rest of his life, but there were
some creative opportunities that he wanted to explore over there.
And it seems like Darius and his new girlfriend, Emily
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have been together for the like almost a year, maybe
over a year at this point, because she's also from
North Carolina, where he's from and where he has lived forever.
And then they both moved to London, right around the
same time. They're not saying they moved there together, but
they did move there right around the same time. I'm
thinking that, like they were probably dating but just didn't
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want to go public with.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It at that time.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
But Bill Belichick and Jordan Hudson have a forty nine
year age gap. He is seventy two, she is twenty three.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I honestly thought she was at least late twenties. That's insane.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
No, she's twenty three. Really, Yes, Darius Rucker and Emily
Deal thirty two, so a little bit less of an
age gap. It's a twenty six year age gap. So
we talk a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I feel like when it comes to age gaps, not
necessarily the number. For me, it's the life space. And
I just have no idea what you, as an early
twenties young woman would have in common with someone that's
what's fifteen seventy.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Can I be so for real and so cynical? Oh?
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I do love it.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Because I What I'm not saying is that these people
do not enjoy the company of each other. Do they
get along, do they have a good time together? Do
they love each other?
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Probably? I think so.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
But I also think that this is a little bit
of an investment. This is going to be an investment
of my time and an investment of my energy because
in the end, what I'm going to get out of
this is a whole bunch of money. Oh sorry, sorry,
I just I can't relate, and I hate to not
be a girls girl like I love when women women.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
If this is the relationship for you, I really want
to sit there and be like, yes, love this for you.
I love that you found your forever person who's gonna
die forty nine.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Years earlier than you. How forever is it? Like, I mean,
that's just that's just science.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
My boyfriend is three years older than me, and thinking
about like, he's probably gonna kick the bucket first. Probably
not because he works out. I don't. He eats very healthy.
I really don't anymore, you know, girl.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I have known that's been my last decade of my life.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But we're three years apart, and I am already thinking, like, Okay,
my grandparents were the same age, and my grandpa died
quite a bit earlier. My grandma is ninety five and
like is still very active and very healthy. And he's
been gone now for like almost fifteen years. Oh, wow,
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And I'm like, I don't want to do that, and
I don't want to be without my person for oh
like twenty years, you.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Know, person like feed clothes and houses me.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I don't do any of that stuff for myself. If
I have, like Chris, the day you die, I am
literally twelve to twenty four hours behind you because pizza
roles as an elderly person is not gonna keep me
on this earth real long.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
We gotta find you a little cyanide capsule and.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Yeah, really, oh yeah happen. But it's and I guess,
is it someone in their young twenties. Maybe I don't know,
maybe she's not thinking it forever. But I'm an old
soul and I'm a planner, so I would look at
this and be like, well, I mean, eventually, am I
gonna want to have kids someday? And am I gonna
have their dad be eighty five years old? I don't
because I feel weird about like al Pacino, he just
(10:40):
had a kid. I know. I'm like, oh, I know,
but you're rich. You probably have you know, some nannies
or help or whatever. But I just can't help.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
But look at like the al Pacino thing for example,
Like I'm assuming it's his wife that had the baby.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I think it's his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
And his girlfriend, but she's thirties, Like you, I think
have got to know that he's not gonna play the
role of like super involved parent, right, Like he's starting
to slow down quite a.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Bit, right, Yeah, I mean you could have your baby
and a walker and your baby daddy and a walker.
No offense to al, he's still looking great, but who
could know what's around the corner. And if that is the.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Choice that you want to make, I support you in
making your own choice and your free will and doing
whatever you're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
That scares the shit out of me, Like is it
even worth the money if this is an investment? You know,
like you said, at their level, I know that they
probably have help. They have a staff of people and
nanny's and all of this stuff. But that's like one
of my biggest fears in life is being a like
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married single parent. Yes, you know, like oh yeah, and
that's why you choose the person that you choose, yeah,
to marry and like have kids with. And I think
I think fingers like it's looking like it's looking like
I'm gonna I'm not gonna have to worry about that,
which is a great thing, right. But I look at
these relationships and I'm like, I just look at it
(12:11):
being lonely, yeah, you know, or I mean, I guess
it can be love and a business opportunity. I mean,
I know Jordan's like trying to kind of trauayan as
his like pr person. Yeah, yeah, gonna be both. Am
I pessimistic? Am I jaded? I'm probably cynical?
Speaker 1 (12:31):
And you know what is so funny too, I'll own this.
I'll own this is that I look at it completely
different when it's the woman older than the man, Like
Ellie Goulding. She's got a new man in her life, boyfriend,
and I think he's like ten years younger than her.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
And then you're like you go girl, and I'm like, okay, yeah,
share was dating and dude, it's like thirty years younger
than her. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
See that one is different. I don't look at that
the same way as I look at the Eli Golding.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Is an age gap boundary for you over fifteen?
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Well, I've dated people that were like a decade older
than me.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Mm that's right, yep.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I've dated like six years, seven years ten years. And
then I also did go on a couple dates with
guys that were younger than me. I did go on
a date with a guy who was like ten years
younger than me. Well coo and I yeah, because I
was like, let me tell me, let me try this on,
let me see how this fits. It didn't work. I
didn't like it. He was a really nice guy. Yeah,
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because what was it?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I again, it goes back to life space with me,
where I'm like, I don't know if I were to
think about dating someone that was even like my half
my age right then I'm sitting there like, dude, I
don't know what six seven means. You've got to stop
saying that. And then I just feel even more old.
That's what the life space part of it. I wouldn't
even date someone like when I was eighteen. I had
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a boyfriend in college who was twenty two, and that
was really hard because I was just starting college as
this like do eyde dumbass, brand new person to college
and you know, he can, like, you know, hypothetically bat
me beer because I would never but he was ready
to graduate and we were in completely different phases of life,
(14:16):
and it was super hard to figure out things to
do and talk about. Yeah, and I couldn't get in
anywhere because it was eighteen. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
And at first, when you when I was dating people
who were older than me, like, at first, it was
like really attractive, right, because I would say that typically
I tend to be a little bit more mature than
my actual age. I agree, yeah, I'm thirty three, but
like I had a lot in common with with the
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guys that I dated that were older, and.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Men tend to mature a little bit slower than.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Us until exactly this is exactly my point. Until it
got to a point where I was like, oh, wait
a minute, I'm a little bit more mature for my age.
This person is a little bit immature.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
For their age.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
And then and then it became not hot anymore.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
I'm sorry it did.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
No.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
I think that's super honest. It didn't you get worried.
You're like, I don't want to be your mom.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
And I was like, wait a second, you're supposed to
be like hitting these milestones like in your forties, because
in my head, I know the milestones that I want
to hit in my forties, and I'm like, oh, wait
a minute, we have a decade apart and we're and
again there's no timeline, there's no plan. Oh, you can
do anything, but it just it threw me. It really
threw me. Yeah, and like you know, the then kids
(15:38):
got thrown into the mix. And it was actually somebody
on TikTok Live one day. I was like talking about
it and they were like, oh, so you're you're ready
to be a stepmom and I was like, no, no,
that's that's intense and I got really defensive. Yeah, and
I was like, no, that's not what it is. Like
I'm we're just like dating, like I'm not. You know,
(16:01):
they have a mom like I don't. And the person
commented and they were like, I think you need to
sort of take a step back and examine that. This
that is where it is gonna head. That is kind
of the expectation of you. And if you're not cool
to be their step mom, that's not really fair to them.
And I'm like, well, how do we even know that's
what they want? And then I was like, Okay, I
(16:23):
do need to take a step back and maybe examine
a few things.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Because I'm not.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
But also, what good advice from TikTok to be a
teen stepmom? In my thirties or my twenties.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Oh my god, No, you know, I am a mom
right now and I'm still feel unprepared every single day
every day. Yeah, you are a teen mom right now.
It does feel that way. So it was like, don't
you dare tell me I'm in my med thirties. I
am twenty two.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
But you're gonna tell me. You're gonna sit here and
you're gonna tell me that guys like Bill Belichick and
Darius Rocker, they are successful guys. They have a lot
of money, they have a lot of power, they have
a lot of.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Success, right influence.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, and you're gonna tell me that they they saw
these that they saw these women and they were like, yeah,
this seems like we're in love and not like I
just yeah, how do you get how do you get
past when you're someone who is a celebrity. How do
you get past feeling like someone is or is not
(17:28):
in it for the right or wrong reason?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I don't think you do. I think that's why it's
just so hard to have a relationship in those places.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Do you think they just always assume like in it
for the maybe wrong reasons is just always going to
be a little bit of a fact.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yeah, I think they're cautiously optimistic.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
So I'm just gonna like pick the person who I
have the most fun with, who I get along best with,
and just know that that is the territory that I'm
working in.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
And if it happens to be thirty to forty years
younger than.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
Me, and if it happens to be a twenty three
year old woman who literally is on the field while
you're coaching games, that's mind blowing to me.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I mean, this is like a car in a midlife
crisis because it's always questioning. It's really interesting to me
when you see like a marriage that's been together for
a while, especially in Hollywood, that breaks up and then
a few months later they're with someone much younger, and
you're like, oh, okay, kind of followed the script on
that one, I guess.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
And I don't have a problem with that, like you know,
I don't. And these are relationships that were after divorces, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Was Bill Belichick married? He was, wasn't he?
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Because I remember his ex wife is always at the
same events as Jordan. I remember reading a bunch of
stuff about that.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah. Darius Rutger was married I think for almost thirty years.
See wow, and then they called it quits. And but
that's a whole other side of this. I'm so curious
what happens like if you've put that kind of time
in because this, I mean, this goes back to the
money conversation. I love my husband, but like also.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
We could not afford to get divorced, and we openly
say that to each other all the time, Like we
have a fight, we have a disagreement, We're like, well,
we're gonna figure it out, because my god, have you
seen the concept divorces these days?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
We'll just light it all on, sift through the ashes,
whatever you can take with you in a couple, ikia bags,
have at it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
I would though, be interested, you know, fly on the
wall as cliche as it is, like a date night
with these these couples, what do you talk about? Talk
about the game coming up, talk about a concert coming up,
collaboration album. Yeah, I think they're.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
More normal than we think they are. Yeah, I think
everybody's life is just what their life is, And like
you got to talk about the same things that everybody
has to talk about. You got to talk about logistics,
where the kids are going this weekend. How they're doing
in school? Did you send the tuition check? Did I
think like they taught? What do you have going on?
Because I'm gonna be on tour, like I've got to create.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Full girlfriend has those same conversations like, oh yeah, I
can take the kids here or well, and like that's
an interesting thing because circling back to like the events
that they go to together and the places they go
to together.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
Like he's not Bill Belichick or maybe Darius Rucker. He's
a little bit younger than Bill Belichick. But are they
going on the nights out with like the friends or
like out to dinner with the friends, because I don't
see twenty three. I was out on the town, baby,
every single weekend.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
We were out, We were at the bar, We were
mine and Stiletto's dead ass a winter now.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
But like if I could have been on a yacht
instead of at the bar, actually I actually don't know
if I would have traded that. I really really enjoyed
my twenties with my friends, I mean, Brian rappit know,
like and you just you learn a lot in that time.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
And sometimes they still come out sometimes that sign of
schmidty still comes out, and maybe it's just that way
all the time for someone that has a youthful relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
And I wasn't in a lot of serious relationships when
I was in my early twenties, and I look back
on that and I'm really glad. Yeah, I'm really glad.
I got to experience a lot of different things. I
got to figure out a lot of yeses. I got
to figure out a lot of no's. But you're twenty
three in a relationship with an almost eighty year old man.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
You're learning new things, like.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
A as a thirty three year old. I look back
at twenty three or some of my relationships in my twenties,
and I think you stayed too long. You wasted years
of your life in that. And like you knew, you
knew from this point, which was way sooner than when
you broke it off. Yeah, like that was precious time
that you could have had no regrets, no regrets. But
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I do just I just want to talk to these
Hudson specifically. I know I would love to get her
in a room for like an hour and just be like,
what's the plan here? Would she be honest about it?
Speaker 2 (22:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Because it very very much looks like this is a
career move and like a societal climbing the ladder sort of.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
She doesn't talk. I mean, she doesn't address that kind
of with.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Bill Balachak, one of the best coaches in NFL history.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
This guy is not dumb, but you have the sleeves off.
You look at this.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Relationship and you think, what is he What kind of
mental gymnastics is he telling himself or performing in order
for him to just like let some of.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
This stuff out. He just or he's like what, I
don't know, He's just like, you know what, the love
life is worth it. I don't care that she comes
down on the field. I don't care that it's gonna
be like the lead on whatever sports talk the next
day that maybe she's the one actually coaching the team.
That's a good love life is worth it. What else
does he have to prove? I mean, like he's done
it all and he's all eighty I'm like giving up
(23:05):
on that by forty Okay, he's not as old as
I thought. He's only seventy two. Oh he does not
look exact, but good on you.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Bill.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
That was probably the most insulting part of this entire
conversation to be a fly on the wall.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
I know it to be a fly on the wall.
You know what I was thinking about the other day,
I was thinking about Taylor and Travis.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
I wait, how old is Travis? I was confused because
I think it Patrick Mahomes turns thirty next week, and
I thought it was Travis. But Travis is closer in
age to her, right, but she is older, because I
wasn't sure how much of an age gap is there.
He's thirty five, okay, so they're only a couple of years,
and she's thirty five. They're whole thirty five look at us.
(23:51):
But you know what I was thinking, that's men and women.
Though I really thought he was younger because it just
takes you that much as a man, I think to
catch up.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Well, she's a billionaire with a bee. But I was
thinking about, like, what do they fight about?
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Oh? Do you think they fight? I don't know. We
have Every person has like one couple in their sphere
and never fights. And it's like that's annoying. It's annoying
as shit. And you're always reading like, no, you shouldn't
not talk to each other, right, you don't talk about anything? Ever,
you don't speak words. So what if that's then do
(24:27):
you breathe.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
In the same vicinity, because sometimes that is enough to
just all the time sat it off, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Absolutely, I did feel.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Kind of bad the other day and he called me
out on it, which I'm glad he did. But I
was like doing the dishes in the kitchen and Jimmy
walked into the kitchen. He was like, do we have
any popcorn? And I was like, I don't know. Open
the pantry and you're sorry though, I was like, okay, sorry,
I'm over stimulated. I hate doing the dishes. I'm really sorry.
(24:56):
I don't know if there's popcorn in my own pantry.
You'll have to look.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Oh, I love God. I'm over stemmed so much. It's
just always that way.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
I just want to know if Travis and Taylor fight
and what they fight about, because you don't get to it.
They've been together for like a couple of years. Yeah,
at this point, you don't go through an entire relationship
and decide that you want to get married without ever
having fought with each other.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Maybe what we've got a couple and already they're still together,
but we're all like, it just seems so perfect that
I'm like, one of these days, I feel like you're
gonna wind up on one of the like like the
Betrayal podcast or something that you just have so many
things that you keep hidden so well because I guess
I'm just like, I don't understand how you can go
(25:44):
through a relationship without having even an argument. Not you
seen it, never seen like none.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Of it, not even an argument about schedules or like, hey,
I told you I was gonna come to this thing,
and I can't because now I have.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
A work thing. No, there's one of them, and they're
they're just they're those people that are like I don't know.
We just know every Sunday, we schedule out the week
and we keep our boundaries and no matter what comes up,
we know what we've said yes to him, Like that's
not That's not why I call Chris all the time
and I'm like, man, sorry, get aft, I gotta work tonight.
(26:15):
That's why, Yes, they're just still together. Hey, if you're
in a couple that never fights, get it touch. How
we'd like to get in a room with you for
an hour? Are you independently wealthy? I don't think I
would argue a lot if I was independently wealthy.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Well, we know that's one thing. They don't have to
fight about it exactly.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
And I think that's a big I bet that's a
big like indicator for a fight, even if it's not
about anything. It's just I'm so annoyed or stressed out
with finances. I snap for a minute, We have our argument,
we go about it. But I think if you're I
don't know, or you fight because you've got too much
money and you don't know where to put it. Oh
love to know what that feels like.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
You know what I should We should probably do that,
just to see research and make sure right, Like, how
hard is it to figure out between like property companies?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Are you gonna buy into some tech bros? I would
like one weekend of having to figure out that stress.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, what are things we don't have to worry about
for five hundred
Hell.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast by work Busties
for work Busties. Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Ali. We're
both morning show hosts for iHeartMedia. We're both millennials, and
we're both trying to figure out how to build the
lives we dream about, dating, marriage, career, career and being
a mom, how to get through a week without crying.
(00:25):
Welcome to Buns and Banter. We're glad you're here. Twenty
nine cents is insane. My girl is worth more than that, Matthew.
My girl is worth more than that. She's just I'm
broke as a joke. So the twenty ninth cens is
a lot for me. Buns and Banter is back for
another season. We have been getting well, Okay, I'm gonna
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be honest. We've gotten like three total messages I think,
but that's gotten five, so I think we've gotten eight.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Okay, all right, of people asking, hey, is the podcast done?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
No, the podcast isn't done. You know that we do this.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
We bring it back for a season, We do like
eight to ten episodes, and then we take a little
break yep, and then we come back because that's what
works for us.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And took a little summer break. We're back. We've learned
a lot, We're a little more sumber, a little wiser, And.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I gotta say I've been foaming, foaming at the mouth
to be able to talk about this not a new
topic historically nor currently, but I've been foaming at the
mouth to talk to you about a couple age gap
relationships because wow, got a debrief.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But before we get to that, it's perfect. So if
you have our TikTok Live on right now, which you're
not if you're listening on the iHeartRadio app, it cost
me money to get into Allie's Live.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Did you end up paying the twenty nine cent No.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
We figured it way around it because I was like,
I don't even know if I have a card that
would not decline right now. It is so damn expensive
to be alive. And this is the crash out I
am having. But you're rich in love. It's on, you
know what. There's another thing to bring up. I love
the TikTok trend or the commenters that are like this
(02:09):
that you're rich, right, and it's something like you have
a mom that loves you and you have that's nice,
but it's not true.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Almost forgot that that was the whole point.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
It's sweet, but like girl, I am having a time
between my kids starting some new extracurriculars. Yeah, by the way, dance,
didn't know that was gonna cost me a kidney And
then like, not even just financially expensive, it's mentally and
emotionally expensive. I feel like coming out into the world.
The seasons are changing, so I feel like my head
(02:41):
is just full of pressure on top of the anxious
pressure that I have every day, and it's just taken
a toll on my pocket, my brain, and my well being.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
So earlier this summer. You know, Jimmy, my boyfriend, plays
lacrosse every summer with the Grand Rapids Grizzlies. I'm gonna
give them their little shout out. I love that they
won their regionals this year and they went to Nationals.
But there was a weekend. He usually because all of
the guys are either like college players or they are
actual full grown adults that have like nine to five
(03:14):
jobs every single day. They practice on Wednesday nights, and
they play their games on Saturday and Sunday. And this
is a travel league, so it's not uncommon for him
to be in Chicago or Toledo or wherever. There was
a weekend where he had home games, so in grend Rapids,
thank god. But that his car was just like it was.
(03:35):
It was messed up, like the tire was flat. We
couldn't inflate it. It was it was out of commission
for the weekend. So I was like, you know, what
is this actually like a very cute let's play house
trial run for what I think our life will be
one day? And I got to be lacrosse mom for
the weekend. Okay, thank snacks, I packed snacks, I watched
(03:56):
the gear like I wanted to do it all, like
I wanted to, like, really, lacrosse mom, trial run it.
I'm washing all of your stuff, I'm driving you everywhere,
like I just want to see exactly what I'm in
for on top of working full time, yeah, you know,
and like doing all of the other things that we
needed to do that weekend. And oh boy, did I
get a taste? How did I get a taste? It
(04:17):
tasted like I need to be a stay at home
mom if we're gonna have kids. That's what it tasted like,
which is a absolutely insane I can't believe I can't believe
that's what I walked away from the weekend with, because
never ever in my life have I ever even considered
being an sahm.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
And there's like a whole another conversation on TikTok about that,
where this woman is like, do you like being called
a stay at home mom because there's still such a
stigma attached to that, and these women are in the
comments like, oh, that's not what I'm called. I am
the director of our household. I am the CEO of
the social calendar, their elastic engineer, domestic engineer, because it is.
(04:56):
It's I mean a ton I think being a working mom,
No doubt, a ton ton falls through the cracks.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
I'll tell you what I did realize. I do want
a wife. I want a wife.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I want someone who's gonna keep all my shit together yep,
and keep everybody on schedule and pack the lunches and
do the laundry, and make sure that everybody knows what
time they need to beware and that all of their
stuff is washed and dried and on the dining room
table the night before. I mean, like, I really did it.
I really wanted a dry run and got a taste
(05:30):
of what is I bow down to you.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
You and Chris do it with two kids. I don't.
I just realized we realized yesterday Will doesn't have any pants.
You put on jeans and they were up around his knees.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Are they really the most important thing? He's alive?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Like, well, it's gonna be eighty this week, so I
guess we'll go find pants for next week. That's right?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So much?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
And I'm like, God, everything is money and then if
you're feeling overwhelmed, you should go to therapy. Well guess
what that is? More money. I'd rather be broken depressed then, No,
I wouldn't. I would rather have some money and be
depressed than broken depressed. So anyway, I'm a little bit
on a crash out right now. Maybe not how I
should have entered the new season of Buns and Banter,
(06:10):
But you know what, we're very open here. Deserves to
be talked about.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
You're giving me the perfect segue into exactly what I
want to talk to you about today. I want a
rich woman, and that is exactly what I feel like.
You know, the girls are on it, They're on it. Yeah,
I want to talk about Jordan Ooh, what's her last
Na Hudson, Yes, and Bill Belichick and I also want
(06:36):
to talk about There was a new one that popped
up that I just saw. Darius Rucker has a new girlfriend,
Emily dial As I think how you say her?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
So he used he used to be with Hooty and
the Blowfish, but we don't bring that up, right, No,
you can. Oh, he's good with that. He's back with
Hoody and the Blowfish.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
In fact, Hoody and the Blowfish just did a song
with Scotty McCreery, so they're like dude back on the
radio again.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Fabulous.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Sarius Rucker right now is living in London. He decided
he wanted to move across the pond and just sort
of explore what if the UK had to offer from
my life. He said, He's not going to be over
there for the rest of his life, but there were
some creative opportunities that he wanted to explore over there.
And it seems like Darius and his new girlfriend, Emily
(07:18):
have been together for the like almost a year, maybe
over a year at this point, because she's also from
North Carolina, where he's from and where he has lived forever.
And then they both moved to London, right around the
same time. They're not saying they moved there together, but
they did move there right around the same time. I'm
thinking that, like they were probably dating but just didn't
(07:39):
want to go public with.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It at that time.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
But Bill Belichick and Jordan Hudson have a forty nine
year age gap. He is seventy two, she is twenty three.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I honestly thought she was at least late twenties. That's insane.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
No, she's twenty three. Really, Yes, Darius Rucker and Emily
Deal thirty two, so a little bit less of an
age gap. It's a twenty six year age gap. So
we talk a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I feel like when it comes to age gaps, not
necessarily the number. For me, it's the life space. And
I just have no idea what you, as an early
twenties young woman would have in common with someone that's
what's fifteen seventy.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Can I be so for real and so cynical? Oh?
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I do love it.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Because I What I'm not saying is that these people
do not enjoy the company of each other. Do they
get along, do they have a good time together? Do
they love each other?
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Probably? I think so.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
But I also think that this is a little bit
of an investment. This is going to be an investment
of my time and an investment of my energy because
in the end, what I'm going to get out of
this is a whole bunch of money. Oh sorry, sorry,
I just I can't relate, and I hate to not
be a girls girl like I love when women women.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
If this is the relationship for you, I really want
to sit there and be like, yes, love this for you.
I love that you found your forever person who's gonna
die forty nine.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Years earlier than you. How forever is it? Like, I mean,
that's just that's just science.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
My boyfriend is three years older than me, and thinking
about like, he's probably gonna kick the bucket first. Probably
not because he works out. I don't. He eats very healthy.
I really don't anymore, you know, girl.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I have known that's been my last decade of my life.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But we're three years apart, and I am already thinking, like, Okay,
my grandparents were the same age, and my grandpa died
quite a bit earlier. My grandma is ninety five and
like is still very active and very healthy. And he's
been gone now for like almost fifteen years. Oh, wow,
(09:52):
And I'm like, I don't want to do that, and
I don't want to be without my person for oh
like twenty years, you.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Know, person like feed clothes and houses me.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I don't do any of that stuff for myself. If
I have, like Chris, the day you die, I am
literally twelve to twenty four hours behind you because pizza
roles as an elderly person is not gonna keep me
on this earth real long.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
We gotta find you a little cyanide capsule and.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Yeah, really, oh yeah happen. But it's and I guess,
is it someone in their young twenties. Maybe I don't know,
maybe she's not thinking it forever. But I'm an old
soul and I'm a planner, so I would look at
this and be like, well, I mean, eventually, am I
gonna want to have kids someday? And am I gonna
have their dad be eighty five years old? I don't
because I feel weird about like al Pacino, he just
(10:40):
had a kid. I know. I'm like, oh, I know,
but you're rich. You probably have you know, some nannies
or help or whatever. But I just can't help.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
But look at like the al Pacino thing for example,
Like I'm assuming it's his wife that had the baby.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I think it's his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
And his girlfriend, but she's thirties, Like you, I think
have got to know that he's not gonna play the
role of like super involved parent, right, Like he's starting
to slow down quite a.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Bit, right, Yeah, I mean you could have your baby
and a walker and your baby daddy and a walker.
No offense to al, he's still looking great, but who
could know what's around the corner. And if that is the.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Choice that you want to make, I support you in
making your own choice and your free will and doing
whatever you're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
That scares the shit out of me, Like is it
even worth the money if this is an investment? You know,
like you said, at their level, I know that they
probably have help. They have a staff of people and
nanny's and all of this stuff. But that's like one
of my biggest fears in life is being a like
(11:49):
married single parent. Yes, you know, like oh yeah, and
that's why you choose the person that you choose, yeah,
to marry and like have kids with. And I think
I think fingers like it's looking like it's looking like
I'm gonna I'm not gonna have to worry about that,
which is a great thing, right. But I look at
these relationships and I'm like, I just look at it
(12:11):
being lonely, yeah, you know, or I mean, I guess
it can be love and a business opportunity. I mean,
I know Jordan's like trying to kind of trauayan as
his like pr person. Yeah, yeah, gonna be both. Am
I pessimistic? Am I jaded? I'm probably cynical?
Speaker 1 (12:31):
And you know what is so funny too, I'll own this.
I'll own this is that I look at it completely
different when it's the woman older than the man, Like
Ellie Goulding. She's got a new man in her life, boyfriend,
and I think he's like ten years younger than her.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
And then you're like you go girl, and I'm like, okay, yeah,
share was dating and dude, it's like thirty years younger
than her. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
See that one is different. I don't look at that
the same way as I look at the Eli Golding.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Is an age gap boundary for you over fifteen?
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Well, I've dated people that were like a decade older
than me.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Mm that's right, yep.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I've dated like six years, seven years ten years. And
then I also did go on a couple dates with
guys that were younger than me. I did go on
a date with a guy who was like ten years
younger than me. Well coo and I yeah, because I
was like, let me tell me, let me try this on,
let me see how this fits. It didn't work. I
didn't like it. He was a really nice guy. Yeah,
(13:32):
because what was it?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I again, it goes back to life space with me,
where I'm like, I don't know if I were to
think about dating someone that was even like my half
my age right then I'm sitting there like, dude, I
don't know what six seven means. You've got to stop
saying that. And then I just feel even more old.
That's what the life space part of it. I wouldn't
even date someone like when I was eighteen. I had
(13:56):
a boyfriend in college who was twenty two, and that
was really hard because I was just starting college as
this like do eyde dumbass, brand new person to college
and you know, he can, like, you know, hypothetically bat
me beer because I would never but he was ready
to graduate and we were in completely different phases of life,
(14:16):
and it was super hard to figure out things to
do and talk about. Yeah, and I couldn't get in
anywhere because it was eighteen. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
And at first, when you when I was dating people
who were older than me, like, at first, it was
like really attractive, right, because I would say that typically
I tend to be a little bit more mature than
my actual age. I agree, yeah, I'm thirty three, but
like I had a lot in common with with the
(14:43):
guys that I dated that were older, and.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Men tend to mature a little bit slower than.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
Us until exactly this is exactly my point. Until it
got to a point where I was like, oh, wait
a minute, I'm a little bit more mature for my age.
This person is a little bit immature.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
For their age.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
And then and then it became not hot anymore.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
I'm sorry it did.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
No.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
I think that's super honest. It didn't you get worried.
You're like, I don't want to be your mom.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
And I was like, wait a second, you're supposed to
be like hitting these milestones like in your forties, because
in my head, I know the milestones that I want
to hit in my forties, and I'm like, oh, wait
a minute, we have a decade apart and we're and
again there's no timeline, there's no plan. Oh, you can
do anything, but it just it threw me. It really
threw me. Yeah, and like you know, the then kids
(15:38):
got thrown into the mix. And it was actually somebody
on TikTok Live one day. I was like talking about
it and they were like, oh, so you're you're ready
to be a stepmom and I was like, no, no,
that's that's intense and I got really defensive. Yeah, and
I was like, no, that's not what it is. Like
I'm we're just like dating, like I'm not. You know,
(16:01):
they have a mom like I don't. And the person
commented and they were like, I think you need to
sort of take a step back and examine that. This
that is where it is gonna head. That is kind
of the expectation of you. And if you're not cool
to be their step mom, that's not really fair to them.
And I'm like, well, how do we even know that's
what they want? And then I was like, Okay, I
(16:23):
do need to take a step back and maybe examine
a few things.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Because I'm not.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
But also, what good advice from TikTok to be a
teen stepmom? In my thirties or my twenties.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Oh my god, No, you know, I am a mom
right now and I'm still feel unprepared every single day
every day. Yeah, you are a teen mom right now.
It does feel that way. So it was like, don't
you dare tell me I'm in my med thirties. I
am twenty two.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
But you're gonna tell me. You're gonna sit here and
you're gonna tell me that guys like Bill Belichick and
Darius Rocker, they are successful guys. They have a lot
of money, they have a lot of power, they have
a lot of.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Success, right influence.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, and you're gonna tell me that they they saw
these that they saw these women and they were like, yeah,
this seems like we're in love and not like I
just yeah, how do you get how do you get
past when you're someone who is a celebrity. How do
you get past feeling like someone is or is not
(17:28):
in it for the right or wrong reason?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I don't think you do. I think that's why it's
just so hard to have a relationship in those places.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Do you think they just always assume like in it
for the maybe wrong reasons is just always going to
be a little bit of a fact.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yeah, I think they're cautiously optimistic.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
So I'm just gonna like pick the person who I
have the most fun with, who I get along best with,
and just know that that is the territory that I'm
working in.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
And if it happens to be thirty to forty years
younger than.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
Me, and if it happens to be a twenty three
year old woman who literally is on the field while
you're coaching games, that's mind blowing to me.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I mean, this is like a car in a midlife
crisis because it's always questioning. It's really interesting to me
when you see like a marriage that's been together for
a while, especially in Hollywood, that breaks up and then
a few months later they're with someone much younger, and
you're like, oh, okay, kind of followed the script on
that one, I guess.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
And I don't have a problem with that, like you know,
I don't. And these are relationships that were after divorces, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Was Bill Belichick married? He was, wasn't he?
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Because I remember his ex wife is always at the
same events as Jordan. I remember reading a bunch of
stuff about that.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah. Darius Rutger was married I think for almost thirty years.
See wow, and then they called it quits. And but
that's a whole other side of this. I'm so curious
what happens like if you've put that kind of time
in because this, I mean, this goes back to the
money conversation. I love my husband, but like also.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
We could not afford to get divorced, and we openly
say that to each other all the time, Like we
have a fight, we have a disagreement, We're like, well,
we're gonna figure it out, because my god, have you
seen the concept divorces these days?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
We'll just light it all on, sift through the ashes,
whatever you can take with you in a couple, ikia bags,
have at it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
I would though, be interested, you know, fly on the
wall as cliche as it is, like a date night
with these these couples, what do you talk about? Talk
about the game coming up, talk about a concert coming up,
collaboration album. Yeah, I think they're.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
More normal than we think they are. Yeah, I think
everybody's life is just what their life is, And like
you got to talk about the same things that everybody
has to talk about. You got to talk about logistics,
where the kids are going this weekend. How they're doing
in school? Did you send the tuition check? Did I
think like they taught? What do you have going on?
Because I'm gonna be on tour, like I've got to create.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Full girlfriend has those same conversations like, oh yeah, I
can take the kids here or well, and like that's
an interesting thing because circling back to like the events
that they go to together and the places they go
to together.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
Like he's not Bill Belichick or maybe Darius Rucker. He's
a little bit younger than Bill Belichick. But are they
going on the nights out with like the friends or
like out to dinner with the friends, because I don't
see twenty three. I was out on the town, baby,
every single weekend.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
We were out, We were at the bar, We were
mine and Stiletto's dead ass a winter now.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
But like if I could have been on a yacht
instead of at the bar, actually I actually don't know
if I would have traded that. I really really enjoyed
my twenties with my friends, I mean, Brian rappit know,
like and you just you learn a lot in that time.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
And sometimes they still come out sometimes that sign of
schmidty still comes out, and maybe it's just that way
all the time for someone that has a youthful relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
And I wasn't in a lot of serious relationships when
I was in my early twenties, and I look back
on that and I'm really glad. Yeah, I'm really glad.
I got to experience a lot of different things. I
got to figure out a lot of yeses. I got
to figure out a lot of no's. But you're twenty
three in a relationship with an almost eighty year old man.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
You're learning new things, like.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
A as a thirty three year old. I look back
at twenty three or some of my relationships in my twenties,
and I think you stayed too long. You wasted years
of your life in that. And like you knew, you
knew from this point, which was way sooner than when
you broke it off. Yeah, like that was precious time
that you could have had no regrets, no regrets. But
(21:57):
I do just I just want to talk to these
Hudson specifically. I know I would love to get her
in a room for like an hour and just be like,
what's the plan here? Would she be honest about it?
Speaker 2 (22:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Because it very very much looks like this is a
career move and like a societal climbing the ladder sort of.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
She doesn't talk. I mean, she doesn't address that kind
of with.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Bill Balachak, one of the best coaches in NFL history.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
This guy is not dumb, but you have the sleeves off.
You look at this.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Relationship and you think, what is he What kind of
mental gymnastics is he telling himself or performing in order
for him to just like let some of.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
This stuff out. He just or he's like what, I
don't know, He's just like, you know what, the love
life is worth it. I don't care that she comes
down on the field. I don't care that it's gonna
be like the lead on whatever sports talk the next
day that maybe she's the one actually coaching the team.
That's a good love life is worth it. What else
does he have to prove? I mean, like he's done
it all and he's all eighty I'm like giving up
(23:05):
on that by forty Okay, he's not as old as
I thought. He's only seventy two. Oh he does not
look exact, but good on you.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Bill.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
That was probably the most insulting part of this entire
conversation to be a fly on the wall.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
I know it to be a fly on the wall.
You know what I was thinking about the other day,
I was thinking about Taylor and Travis.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
I wait, how old is Travis? I was confused because
I think it Patrick Mahomes turns thirty next week, and
I thought it was Travis. But Travis is closer in
age to her, right, but she is older, because I
wasn't sure how much of an age gap is there.
He's thirty five, okay, so they're only a couple of years,
and she's thirty five. They're whole thirty five look at us.
(23:51):
But you know what I was thinking, that's men and women.
Though I really thought he was younger because it just
takes you that much as a man, I think to
catch up.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Well, she's a billionaire with a bee. But I was
thinking about, like, what do they fight about?
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Oh? Do you think they fight? I don't know. We
have Every person has like one couple in their sphere
and never fights. And it's like that's annoying. It's annoying
as shit. And you're always reading like, no, you shouldn't
not talk to each other, right, you don't talk about anything? Ever,
you don't speak words. So what if that's then do
(24:27):
you breathe.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
In the same vicinity, because sometimes that is enough to
just all the time sat it off, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Absolutely, I did feel.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Kind of bad the other day and he called me
out on it, which I'm glad he did. But I
was like doing the dishes in the kitchen and Jimmy
walked into the kitchen. He was like, do we have
any popcorn? And I was like, I don't know. Open
the pantry and you're sorry though, I was like, okay, sorry,
I'm over stimulated. I hate doing the dishes. I'm really sorry.
(24:56):
I don't know if there's popcorn in my own pantry.
You'll have to look.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Oh, I love God. I'm over stemmed so much. It's
just always that way.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
I just want to know if Travis and Taylor fight
and what they fight about, because you don't get to it.
They've been together for like a couple of years. Yeah,
at this point, you don't go through an entire relationship
and decide that you want to get married without ever
having fought with each other.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Maybe what we've got a couple and already they're still together,
but we're all like, it just seems so perfect that
I'm like, one of these days, I feel like you're
gonna wind up on one of the like like the
Betrayal podcast or something that you just have so many
things that you keep hidden so well because I guess
I'm just like, I don't understand how you can go
(25:44):
through a relationship without having even an argument. Not you
seen it, never seen like none.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Of it, not even an argument about schedules or like, hey,
I told you I was gonna come to this thing,
and I can't because now I have.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
A work thing. No, there's one of them, and they're
they're just they're those people that are like I don't know.
We just know every Sunday, we schedule out the week
and we keep our boundaries and no matter what comes up,
we know what we've said yes to him, Like that's
not That's not why I call Chris all the time
and I'm like, man, sorry, get aft, I gotta work tonight.
(26:15):
That's why, Yes, they're just still together. Hey, if you're
in a couple that never fights, get it touch. How
we'd like to get in a room with you for
an hour? Are you independently wealthy? I don't think I
would argue a lot if I was independently wealthy.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Well, we know that's one thing. They don't have to
fight about it exactly.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
And I think that's a big I bet that's a
big like indicator for a fight, even if it's not
about anything. It's just I'm so annoyed or stressed out
with finances. I snap for a minute, We have our argument,
we go about it. But I think if you're I
don't know, or you fight because you've got too much
money and you don't know where to put it. Oh
love to know what that feels like.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
You know what I should We should probably do that,
just to see research and make sure right, Like, how
hard is it to figure out between like property companies?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Are you gonna buy into some tech bros? I would
like one weekend of having to figure out that stress.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yeah, what are things we don't have to worry about
for five hundred
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