June 20, 2024 • 54 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
All right, let's get to it. So you were telling
us you went to Disneyland over the weekend for father's dad.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yes, and it's so much fun, usually always at Disneyland.
But we had a little situation with Savellah, and if
I'm being completely honest, Michael and I are a little
rusty when it comes to emergency diaper situations.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
It's like, we have how long has it been since
you've had to deal with that?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, Like the the twins have been out of diapers
for like, you know, two and a half years at
this point, and we haven't had a major blowout like
this since they were baby babies, and Saveah hasn't really
had one yet. She's almost two. So we were finishing
up dinner one of the days there and I went
to pick pick her up out of her high chair
when I realized way too late that she had had
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a blowout out of her diaper.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So it got all long because to me, a blowout now.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Is yeah not the fun kind of blow up. Okay,
So her mess gets on my shirt and then it's
like as if remember that scene in Missus Doubtfire, where
no it's too graphic. Okay, fine, we'll es give that.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I can't even who can remember a scene in Missus Doubtfire.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
I probably could have seen it like one hundred times.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Anyways, let's just say there's a lot. So the tip
here is that many people would maybe just go to
a bathroom. But what I wanted to tell, like all moms,
if you're ever in a situation like this, Yes, there
is the baby centers at Disneyland and at Disney's California Adventure,
but we were at Disneyland specific specifically, and the baby
care center is at the end of Main Street by
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the First Aid. So when you go there, there's proper
changing tables, there's places for new moms to nurse their babies.
There's just like it's way more comfortable place to actually
change a baby versus like the bathroom where you just
have the one plastic changing table. So Michael went there.
We basically divided and conquered. So he went there. I
went to a nearby store to buy her a seventy
(02:01):
five dollars sweatsuit, because that's all I could do at
that point.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
You should have just watched Disney Plus, I mean.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Right, So then I go back and then it have
her size, so I had to do like an extra
extra small as if fits are all big. And so
we get back and I'm thinking, like he had made progress,
but he didn't because he couldn't find the wipes, and
like she and so anyways, by the time we had
cleaned her up and carried on with her evening.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Michael's a very handy guy. He's been trying to build
a deck out in your backyard for a couple of
years now. But he can't find the wipes.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
No, he had, we had wipes, but there was only
two left. He didn't know we had backup wipes, like
in the bottom of the diaper bag. So he was
trying to to ration like the two. And so there
was just a lot going back. How much activity does
this goofies blow up? Nenanza get this little daycare center,
this baby center? Oh it was active. He actually had
to wait in a little bit of a line too
to even get in, I know, and like they didn't
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care that he had an emergency.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
What happened to your shirt?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
So that's funny you say that, because after what I'm
thinking about, after we clean everything up, we get back
to the stroller rethinking we're all good. So I had
to clean myself the best I could with wipes like
in the in the beginning. But then we get back
to the stroller and we're like, like, I feel I
feel like you still smell it, like, and he's like
your shirt, Like you never changed your shirt?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, that's what That's what a great mom you are.
You didn't even think about the fact that your shirt
was soiled. No, you were just worried about the kids
and Michael father.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So he was like, go buy yourself a shirt too
or someone. I was like, I'm not buying myself a
shirt at this point, right, So I was like, give
me your your zip ap hooey, And so I just
took my shirt off. I ended up in my bra
and his zip up hoody and we went and watched
the fireworks and had.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
A great night. Do you think a lot of people
know about that baby Center?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I don't think a lot of people know about it.
So that's why I wanted to tell people about the
Baby Center. If you ever had, you know, want to
nurse your nurse your baby, change your baby in a
much more comfortable setting. They haven't met both parks.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Sounds like it was not the smoothest trip. But you
know what, everything's good at Disneyland. Everything just makes you
when you're there.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
It doesn't matter, right, Yes, you pivot.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Such a great ceremonial thing to wake up, have our
coffee together, those of us who are drinking coffee, which
you think most of us now are again coffee? Yes, yes,
have you had yours this morning?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Tanya?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I have my mushroom tea this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, we can tell we can. There's a there's a
different tempo.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
No you cannot, well we can.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Now here's the thing, getting up, getting here, having this
ceremony is like the way I like to start my day,
and that hopefully is contaged to the people who are listening.
And then we all go off to work. Right, So
this you can't really consider that, even though it is
the job. But we we.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Got rid of our coffee maker when we got off coffee,
and we haven't found anyone that we like. So I'm
still just like gonna be doing my mushroom tea.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So many great do group text me. I've been through
a lot of coffee makers.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Tell me, tell me.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Simple drip and don't go with these like press the
button and grind your beans overnight on a timer. Simple drip.
I've a queas an Art simple drip coffee machine. Okay,
it's so good. It's spress, so it's coffee. It's not espresso.
When have I said espresso. It's coffee, and clearly it's
(05:26):
called coffee. That's what you want to feel like that emote, guys,
it's emotion. Emotion creates emotion. Okay, so well you could
either emote or not. I'm just saying I like the
ceremony of us together every morning.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Maybe you just get the light roast.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, no, dark and strong.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
She doesn't need dark and strong because then she'll be
like this.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
This is quite a pleasure.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Actually, you're attacking her about the drip.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
I am not.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Say girl, I'm passionately pitching you my Queasin Art drip machine.
I'll send you pictures. I'll send you a photo.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I want to get to the morning hack and then
a Thursday Morning quote for you. But if you're flying
somewhere this summer, this is a hack that will help
you save money on baggage fees. Check this out. A
woman on TikTok did this and it worked so to
avoid an overt limit fee on her bags. You know,
when I go fishing and I put on my fishing
my tackle vest.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I'm sorry, you go fishing.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
One goes fishing and they put on their tackle vest,
you know, their fishing vest. You could pull all the
little hooks and yeah, rubber worms and things inside the pockets. Okay,
so she fit a week's worth of clothes in her
fishing vest. Oh my gosh, didn't have to pay for
an extra carry on on spirit. But you can picture
these vests with all the pouches. If you wisely roll
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up some shirts and shorts and things, you could virtually wear,
not carry on wear on your clothes.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I was thinking about this vest that I wear all
the time.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Because the pockets are very deep, I could definitely get
my underwear and socks in these pockets.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Well, I pack when I travel, I pack my underwear
and socks in my shoes.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Gross.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah, it really gross.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Your underwear so gross because it's like then you're under
smelling feet.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, well no, my shoes don't smell like feet. My
feet don't smell care.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
You put your foot in your shoes shoes and sweat
and walk around and.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Then up and I stuffed them in the tunnel of
the shoe.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I don't care. And then you put your underwear on
your body, I.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Would rethink that put the inside of my underwear on
my body. The outside is what touching.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
The shoe has a funk.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, I'm no, I.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Would just think they don't think I would rethink your
positioning over.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
About the socks.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You're actually gonna steal that? Thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
No, I was supposed to be a travel hack, not
a travel hack shaming.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
You're so proud of his underwear.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, that's not I'm not going to share my easy,
simple ways to get around with you guys anymore. Today's
Thursday quote. We can take this day on. We're almost
to the weekend. Here's the quote. You are worthy now,
not when you get the job, not when you lose
twenty pounds, now simply because you exist.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I wish I could believe. It's kiss FM. Let's go Thursday,
Come on Kiss FM Headlines with siciny Well Rappert.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Travis Thought was arrested this morning in Miami and is
facing charges of trespassing and disorderly intoxication.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
Justin.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Timberlake lawyer says he looks forward to quote vigorously defend
mister Timberlake against these accusations. You know, the singer was
arrested Tuesday morning in sag Harbor, New York and charged
with driving while intoxicated. Over six hundred workers at two
smart and Finals in Commerce and Riverside went on strike
yesterday and planned to walk picket today protesting mass layoffs
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and unfair labor practices. And Kendrick Lamar's hometown Juneteenth show
at the Kia Form was last night, and that was
a star studded ode to West Coast Rap featuring guest
appearances from Ti Dollar Sign, Tyler the Creator, YG Roddy Rich,
and Doctor Dre On air with Ryan.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Seacrets Ryan's roses, is it seven to be or not
to be? I do? I do? Uh? What other things
do you say when you're getting married? Or is that
to be? Not to be?
Speaker 7 (09:38):
That's not?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I shakesperienced the question I do I do?
Speaker 1 (09:44):
And death do us part?
Speaker 5 (09:46):
There you go got there mm hmmm, in sickness and
in how and.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
In sickness and in how, it's usually where I cried
that part.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
As long as you both shall live.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Wow hopefully well live a long time. So pretty well. Anyway,
the reason we bring all this up is we have
yet another back room staff member. What is going on
at the at the rate here of potential engagements? So
Collette works in the back room with Ruby, Michayla and everybody, Marianna.
(10:21):
Everybody's back there with the phones and the things that
all the moving parts and all the meat of the show,
all the bones of the show are back there.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
We call ourselves the back room besties.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
You do.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
That's nice, j'all go to.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Remember they have their own group text. We're not a
part of it.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Yeah, well I think those are station funds. So we'll
do a reading. Okay, so call out what's going on?
You are you? You and your boyfriend Raoul going strong?
Been going strong for a minute?
Speaker 8 (10:50):
Yeah over three years now.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Time.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
That's great? So where are we? What's on your mind?
Speaker 9 (10:56):
So yesterday I saw on instag that's someone I knew
in college who's a year younger than me, but started
dating her boyfriend at the same time I started dating
Roll got engaged, and so I showed him and I
was like, oh, look this person got engaged. Uh, and
then he and I wasn't trying to be like, oh,
look like time, you know, but he was like, well,
you probably won't have to wait that long, and I
(11:18):
was like, I was like yeah, literally like I was
bugging out, and then he and then he was like, yeah,
maybe end of year and.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
I was like end of year. Yeah, which so this
should be all very exciting.
Speaker 9 (11:34):
Yeah, I just want to have a few more of
my ducks in a row.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Interesting are your ducks now?
Speaker 9 (11:40):
So first he's like finishing up grad school. He finishes
up in December, which is the end of the year.
And then I'm hoping he gets a full time job
so we can get me a nice rings.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
More of his ducks not.
Speaker 9 (11:55):
Your ducks, okay, And I'd like to be in a
better apartment, and I like, uh, you know.
Speaker 8 (12:02):
Other things, Like I just like a few more things, not.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Too much to ask. Have you guys discussed proposal or engagements?
Speaker 8 (12:09):
Yeah, for sure. We plan on Like he's it for me,
he's my dude.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
We're good, but he could be your dude once his
ducks are in the right spot.
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Officially my dude, once his ducks are in Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, Now did he get the drift?
Speaker 8 (12:23):
I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah, she was in shock.
Speaker 8 (12:26):
I was like and I was like, oh cool, because,
like I.
Speaker 9 (12:30):
Mean, if he asked, I'm not going to say no,
I'm not going to be a jerk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
But well, I think listen, I think this is very common.
You know, you want to know that when you take
that step, there is a certain place you are in
your life, and it's okay to set it as a
mile marker to go, Okay, we know it's going to happen,
but let's just let's let's through some organization first, right. Yeah,
(12:57):
So once he does all of those things, and once
you have this new apartment, then you know it'll be time.
I'm just concerned if he does this too soon, what
will you do?
Speaker 8 (13:07):
I mean, I'll say yes, but I don't want to
be like a jerk.
Speaker 9 (13:10):
How do I even like bring it up to him, Like, Hey,
that thing you mentioned the other day, don't do it?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I know, what do you say in the moment?
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Yeah, what did you say in the moment?
Speaker 9 (13:18):
I was just like, oh, no, you should have read that.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
You should have known what that meant.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
What's a big concern that, like he's gonna get you
a ring? You don't like that you that you are
not going to have your own place, Like what's your
big if you had to do with like your pros
and cons list, Like what do you want to tackle first?
Speaker 8 (13:38):
I mean, I guess I'm because I'm only twenty four.
Is that like too young to get so.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
You feel too young to get way too?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Then you need to say that. Then that's that's then
that's that's your first concern. Then you need to voice that.
You need to say, I love you so much. I
think the end of the year is too soon for us,
and you need to voice that. Okay, if that is
truly your concern.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Otherwise you can have the real awkward conversation about this
when he's like on a knee. Yeah, and that's worse,
but some are just totally normal.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I think it's so normal for two people not to
have the exact same timeline of how they want things
to shake out.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Which is something you got to communicate to Sysney's play
and it will be worse if you don't, because he's
gonna literally propose You're going to say not yet.
Speaker 9 (14:20):
I think we're gonna have a long engagement though, Like
either way, like even a big fan, yeahling a one
or two year engagement, So then do I want to Like,
I also have to think about that in advance.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Even so you're only twenty four long engagement only still
puts you at like twenty six twenty seven getting married.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
That's so shocking. But at my age, I've never been engaged,
So you don't have to rush anything. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I didn't get married until twenty nine, almost thirty that year.
Like I really, I feel like you have a lot
of time. Yeah, but do what you want. Yeah, you
got to speak your truth. Don't hold back. Don't hold
back feelings because that's where you're going to get in trouble.
So if you're really feeling this stuff, you got to
voice it.
Speaker 8 (14:59):
I'll talk him after work. I'll wake Hi up because
we'll probably.
Speaker 10 (15:01):
Still be.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Hopefully okay. So if he's listening right now, I'm just
gonna do this. You should know you're talking about that.
So is it a family meeting or you're not resting? Well,
what is happening?
Speaker 2 (15:21):
I am an animal lover. I am not very fond
of insects. There's a few insects I enjoy. Butterflies are great.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Yes, cricket.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
How do you feel about really police roly Police.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
I love really police, lady bugs all beautiful. Oh you're
bringing it back. I cannot, I am. I'm in the
battle right now with that.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
With the cricket.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Just one or might be two.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I don't know where is the cricket.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
It's it's got to be like on my porch or
in the wall.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Oh it's so wait, it's you didn't see it yet.
You just hear it.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I just hear it. And it's just at night, and.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
It's just when you get quiet, And.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It's just when I get quiet, like after I put
the kids to bed, and like the house kind of settles,
because like our house is always like a footprints and
kids and kids running around. But so when Michael and
I finally like, okay, let's watch like you know, something
on Netflix or whatever, that's when it's like the cricket
all of a sudden, and so and this is a
new house and we're trying to figure out all the
new noises and stuff. But it's definitely like in the front,
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like on the.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Porch you go knock on the wall.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, yeah, So I.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Get scared.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
I don't they get scared.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
It does stop for a.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Minute, and then then once you settle.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Yeah, and then I'm like got him and then I
close the door, all like happy.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Nope. Well, so you know what you should do is
you should go get a bag of ice, use some
very sturdy tape and tape that ice up to where
on the wall, to where you think the cricket is,
and see if you can freeze the cricket. Cricket?
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Are you okay?
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Did you google this or something?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
No, I'm just telling you. I'm handy, and that's what
I would do. I have a cricket in the water
and freeze that.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Wait, that's like so morbid. It's like the mummies they found.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
They have to call it pest control. No, I know
you don't want to hurt the cricket.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
I have a better solution to freeze the cricket.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
He's gonna be mummified in my it can cricket?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Can thall give get a sound machine?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
I don't understand the people that have sound machines and
the one I love it, and that's their sound choice.
Sound to you like the cricket sound.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
We change it from time to time, but right now
it's a brown noise.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Which is what I heard.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
It's not good to fall asleep to sound.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
It's kind of like white noise, but like a little
bit like deeper. I want to say, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
We're trying to get it the like the kids have
sound machines and their babies and we're trying to get
rid of all that.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
No, it's good, by.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
The way I heard, it's bad for you, Okay, so
you should read up on it.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I'm trying to keep you guys in a positive frame
of mind here. It could be worse. It could be
a squirrel. I've had that. I've had a squirrel in
my wall, and a squirrel eats the wood, pain eats
your wood, So be happy.
Speaker 7 (17:55):
Yeah, cricket, not a squirrel or a what what are
the other? A woodpecker? Came to me a favorite Google
life span of cricket. Oh, I gotta wait this out lifespan.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Of cricket or mark life span of cricket. I'm gonna
see if the life span. You might have to wait
it out because I feel like when I have a
bug and I do this.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Is why the previous owner moved.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
No, I don't think so. It should be in your disclosures,
that's true. Check your disc mic on the disclosures and
check them out, like, did anybody die here? Where their
crickets in the wall? Like I need to know.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Six weeks on crickets, six.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
Weeks, that's nothing. I actually will tell you this. I
think in a couple of years you're going to change
your position on insects because I used to get scared
of every spider, every ant, every cockroach, every worm, even snakes.
In this moment, in this day, in these days of
my life, none of it bothers me. I don't I
don't get bothered. I don't freak out, I don't worry.
(18:50):
I don't I don't run. I just let them. I
kind of let them be. I take a deep breath,
and I figure their lifespan is shorter than mine, so
at some point they're gonna croak.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So you feel sorry for them.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
This is brown noise?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Yeah so m oh no, but we should I can't
hear it. Are you an infant in a uterus?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
This is what it sounds like in a uters Yes?
How do you know?
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Because that's what it sounds like when you do an
older sound.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Really, that's what it sounds like. Yeah, could sound? I
thought it was just images.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
You get sound?
Speaker 1 (19:25):
You can audio, Yeah, you can onio.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
You can hear the heartbeat.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Hello, maybe you wake up?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I see we played that brown noise ty and fell asleep. Yeah,
I got to wake you up here.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
That brown noise is good. Let me tell you to
try it.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I'm telling you. I read something that you're like, you're
not supposed to sleep with sound machines.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
F y. Yeah, it takes years off your life or something.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Yes, what look it up?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
I read the same article.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Oh my gosh, that is actually terrible.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
What's wrong? You're engaged? Nothing matters anymore?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Yes, it does life with him?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Ah h brown noise? Oh look at yes, I see it.
Brown noise not good for engaged couples. Hmm. Let me
pin that the.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Way white noise harmful for sleep.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
Now, brown noise not good for relationship. M Okay, here
we are. It's one or two point seven. Kiss fam.
I only take a deep breath with a little hesitation
there because I'm trying to figure this out. So it's
time for Ryan's roses. I'm going to bring on Christina
just to explain it. Could read you the email, but
let me bring her on. Christina in Norwalk, Thanks for
(20:35):
joining us. We're going to get to try and to
call your husband here in a second for Ryan's roses.
But you found a locked chat with the woman he
is having a chat with on WhatsApp? How did you
find that?
Speaker 10 (20:48):
So his phone was on the counter and he had
all of these notifications, like he had messages on what's appened.
I didn't even know that he used What's App, and
so I went to check it. But apparently you can
lock the conversation, so there's like a little lock icon,
so I couldn't access it. It just said message, but
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not who it's from.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
No, as you sit, I'm just imagining this going through
your head as you sit and start thinking about this
and playing it out. Do you have any idea who
might be.
Speaker 10 (21:23):
No, I mean not at all. I couldn't imagine who
he could be talking to. And of course I asked
him and he got really weird about it.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
What do you mean weird? What did he do that
was weird? When you asked him about it.
Speaker 10 (21:38):
He got like antsy, like no, nobody why you know,
kind of like a little defensive, And I said, you
got about six notifications, six with saying that you had
messages on What's App. And he's like, really, I don't
know it must be spam, and he was just kind
of dismissive about it. I mean, to me, it would
(22:00):
have been normal if he would have been like, no,
oh my god, no I don't have messages. I'll show you,
or I'll try and figure it out now in front
of you. And instead he just was like, no, it's nothing,
it's spam and then just dropped it.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Right, if he wasn't guilty, he would be able to
open the app right then and there. Oh, let's see
what it.
Speaker 10 (22:21):
Is, right, especially if it's spam, then delete it.
Speaker 11 (22:26):
Yeah, then delete it.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
He sees that you're concerned that would have been worse,
but prove it right then?
Speaker 1 (22:31):
How long have you been married to this man?
Speaker 10 (22:34):
Eight years? And we have a daughter, she's five, and
I mean, I don't know. Things have been okay, you know.
I mean, we haven't been as intimate as we have
been in the past, but I don't feel like we're
really going through anything. That's why it just I don't know,
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something's off. I feel like I feel like he's lying
to me.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Have you guys fighting it all lately.
Speaker 10 (23:02):
Only about the WhatsApp?
Speaker 1 (23:04):
You know?
Speaker 10 (23:05):
I was really pissed, like, what do you mean it's
spam just and I can't, you know, I want to
have enough trust to not be controlling and say give
me your phone. You know. I feel like that's that's
a little childish, but I mean I was really mad,
and this is the first time that we've ever had
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a fight where there's like I don't trust him and
I feel like he's lying to me.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
I've got Christina. We just met. She found a locked
up secretive conversation on WhatsApp with her husband and another woman.
She addressed it with him and got weirded out. Weirded
out by it. She thinks he's lying. She's sensing something
is not right in the relationship. She said, they don't okay,
So there are a lot of variables here and a
lot of feelings that something's off. I think that's fair
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to say, Christina. I need you to say, Ryan, you
my permission to call, and then your husband his name
on Kiss FM.
Speaker 10 (24:01):
Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Okay, We're gonna do it now, and you just need
to be very quiet while we speak with him so
we can get as much information as possible. Then we
will tell him he's on the air and we'll bring
you in. Okay, My good luck, Christina?
Speaker 10 (24:26):
Thanks?
Speaker 6 (24:38):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Hi is this Sean?
Speaker 6 (24:41):
I sure is Hi?
Speaker 2 (24:42):
My name is Emily. I'm calling from Norwalk Blooms. We
actually deliver it in Norwalk and surrounding areas like Lakewood, Crito's, Losal, Cyprus,
and we're offering local residents of promotion today of a
free dozen red roses. You can send to anybody that
you'd like. Is that something you'd be interested in? I
don't wouldn't need cash, I wouldn't need credit card info.
Absolutely free.
Speaker 6 (25:02):
I think you have the wrong number. Who are you
trying to call?
Speaker 2 (25:05):
Sean? Is this Seawan and Norwalk?
Speaker 6 (25:09):
That is my name? But I didn't enter a contest
or anything.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
No, no, no no. This is a flower shop and
we do a promotion about once a month and we're
just trying to promote our business. So if you're pleased
with our arrangements, we hope that you would come back
as a customer. But these are free. It's just a
dozen red roses you can send to anybody that you'd like.
If you have a loved one that you would want
to send them to today, like your wife or a
girlfriend or mom.
Speaker 6 (25:33):
I I think I see what's going on. Okay, I'm
not really not really interested. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
No, they're absolutely free. I don't need cash, I don't
any credit card. Is there anybody in your life you'd
want to send them to? I just need the name.
Speaker 6 (25:46):
Okay, but you're just giving away free roses here seems
a little uh, a little shay.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
We do this. We do this every month. Is there
anybody that you woul't want to send them?
Speaker 4 (25:58):
To?
Speaker 6 (26:00):
Send them to my wife Christina?
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Okay, what would you like to put on the card?
And then we can have them out by lunchtime?
Speaker 6 (26:07):
The card, I'm not I don't know get anything pre written.
I'm not really good at coming up with stuff.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
We have I love you cards, we have thank you,
Happy anniversary, you good, I love you? Sounds great, r Sean.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I have
your wife, Christina on the line. I'm going to tell
you why we're calling right now. She's listening to all
of this, and she has a very she's a very
strong feeling about something going on with you and another woman.
Are you having any communication outside of your marriage with
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another woman, Sean.
Speaker 6 (26:52):
Beyond work stuff? No, No, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Are you communicating on WhatsApp with another woman?
Speaker 6 (26:58):
Sean, Who who am I messaging on? What's are you?
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Are you communicating with another woman on WhatsApp? Sean?
Speaker 6 (27:08):
No, No, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Who are you talking to on WhatsApp?
Speaker 6 (27:14):
Nobody? I told my wife there was some notifications, but
I told her it was all just spam and I
just haven't gone in and turn off the notifications yet.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Is there any reason why she might feel like you're
lying to her?
Speaker 6 (27:27):
Sean, I would hope not, because I'm not Christina.
Speaker 10 (27:34):
Go ahead, you're lying. I know you. I can tell
when you're lying. You're totally lying. Who is she?
Speaker 6 (27:43):
What?
Speaker 10 (27:44):
Are you having an affair?
Speaker 6 (27:46):
Oh? Well, it's hold on. Let's just take it down
a not I am not having an affair.
Speaker 10 (27:52):
Then answer the question who are you messaging?
Speaker 6 (27:57):
Okay, I will tell you what's going on, but number one,
I want to say I'm not having an affair. And two,
this is it's gonna be really awkward to talk about
on the radio.
Speaker 10 (28:09):
Oh, this is gonna be good.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
Uh So you remember a few weeks ago we ate
that place, the local Peasant Sherman Oaks. Yeah, I remember
that place. And then the couple that came up to
us when we were wrapping up the check.
Speaker 10 (28:26):
Oh my god, Yes they were swingers.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
That was so gross, right right, well, uh, well they
got my number, and well they've been pursuing us.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Let's say, get your number.
Speaker 6 (28:40):
Your number?
Speaker 10 (28:41):
You mean you gave them your number?
Speaker 6 (28:44):
Well yeah, the guy plays golf. But anyway, the point
is one is I've been talking to them. Nothing, nothing
has happened. Let me strenuously say nothing has happened.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
Wait wait, hold on, yeah, John, you understand their lifestyle,
and yet you gave your number to play golf.
Speaker 6 (29:04):
Right. Well, I and to be honest, I'm curious. I'm
a curious fella. I wanted to know more, I think,
and it turns out.
Speaker 10 (29:11):
Wait wait wait wait, were you going to talk to
me about this?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
It sounds like he was going to line it up
and get it all set up and then talk to
you about it.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
I wanted to get I wanted to get more information.
I wanted to get some inside about how to approach it.
But you know, it's not that weird. A lot of
couples do this sort of thing.
Speaker 10 (29:29):
Okay, just so I'm clear, is this like a partner
swap thing where we switch partners.
Speaker 6 (29:36):
That's one of the potential scenario. Sure, And they mentioned
maybe kind of like a group situation, Sean.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
They men speaking to his wife as well. They mentioned it,
you're speaking to both of the couple.
Speaker 6 (29:51):
Wow, yeah, they're Yeah, they're both interesting. It's it's interesting,
it's it's.
Speaker 10 (29:58):
It's Sean, Sean, never talk to those people again. Shut
that down. That's disgusting. If you don't shut this down,
I swear to God, I am done well.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Also, you know, it's sketchy if you're locking the conversation.
Speaker 6 (30:18):
That's not really on purpose. I'm not a tech guy,
but I'm just I'm just trying to open to new things,
you know, new and exciting adventures. We've always been down
for new things.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
I mean, this is kind of crossing a different line.
Speaker 11 (30:34):
We have a child like what.
Speaker 6 (30:37):
You talk to you about, but not necessarily on the radio.
Speaker 10 (30:44):
Don't get cute with me right now. You need to
end this.
Speaker 6 (30:48):
Block them, well.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Just fin Sean, listen to your wife. How are you
going to end it? What are you going to say?
We want to hear it.
Speaker 6 (31:00):
Listen. I'll just I'll just tell him that, tell him
she's not into it, and she's the most important thing
to me, and she always comes first. But but I'm
still curious. I'd still like to know more.
Speaker 10 (31:11):
Oh my god, are you stupid. I'm sorry, but I
just told you. You need to shut this down.
Speaker 6 (31:20):
Right, You're right, You're right. It's done. Consider it done.
Speaker 10 (31:24):
Go watch a movie if you're curious. My god, this
is like a whole other level.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Yeah, you can't come back from this, Sean, I was
just curious.
Speaker 6 (31:35):
I'm just I'm just curious and interested in things I
don't I don't understand why that's such a big deal.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Well, it's a big deal because I have to into
it too.
Speaker 6 (31:42):
If you open your mind a little bit, he's.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Clearly not it Like, how much more deliberate can your
wife be? And clear can she be with how she feels?
I think we're good. You need to shut it down.
Good luck, Thanks Christine, thank you very much for coming on.
(32:04):
Good luck. So Sean and Christina they're at a restaurant,
Sherman Oaks. They live in Norwalk, so it's a night out.
They make the drive. They d up meeting this couple. Somehow,
Sean exchanges numbers with this couple, knowing that they were
swingers and he and his wife, and he knew it.
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But then he sneaks his number to the couple, and
then we find out he's been communicating on WhatsApp with
both the husband and the wife because he's very curious
about the lifestyle and is proposing to his wife.
Speaker 12 (32:43):
They try it and hes Aly not.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
He's having a locked conversation about all the facts because
he's curious, getting ready to present the idea to his wife.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
And she's like, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Not, absolutely not. And he knew absolutely not because I
think they were like weirded out by it when they met.
The couple.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
At least she was right. They knew about it. I'm
sure they talked about it the whole drive home.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
So Sean says, no, I got their number because I
got plays golf, right, they'll play.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Golf, which was a lie.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
You don't learn a couple does that and then give
out your number, not thinking that that might be what
they're thinking you're trying to do.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
Yikes.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
So, at what point did Sean go wrong?
Speaker 2 (33:30):
At that?
Speaker 1 (33:31):
What time does the train lead the station? At what
point did Sean go wrong?
Speaker 2 (33:35):
That's a math question.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
Yeah, And if the train left the station left San
Diego too, and went thirteen miles per hour? What time
to get at San Francisco? Gosh, like never, I don't know,
all right, So where did he go wrong.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Giving his number without telling his wife.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
To giving the number out to the couple knowing about
their lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Honestly, he didn't go wrong with giving the number, because
if you actually did want to go play golf, you
can be friends with swingers and not swing.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Okay, so fine, very tempting.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Fine, like, I'll give him that if he actually did
want to go play golf with the dude.
Speaker 12 (34:10):
Fine, Okay, No, I'm with Tanya, mate.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
You went wrong with.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Saying this is my lifestyle high couple, this is our
lifestyle couple, and you give out your number.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
He went wrong.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
I think. No, he's sending a signal that he's interested,
and he was. He wasn't wanting to go play golf.
He was interested in knowing more because he wanted he
and his wife to look into it.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
I'm just saying, if he was actually wanting to play golf,
there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
You and Michael meet a couple at this restaurant and
they say that lifestyle and then the guys like the
other guys like you know, I'm in a band. I'm
in a band and Michael gives him his number because
the're gonna play guitar one night, And you don't think
that's that's fine.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
If they're just playing in a band, like at least
who he becomes friends with?
Speaker 1 (35:02):
No way, I would be all over Michael. Are you
sure you're just playing guitar with him and he gonna.
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Do a hook up with a guy like, I'm not
worried about that.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
No, but his wife is a swinger too.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
And she's in the band.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
Yeah, I trust Michael.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I think you'd be so pissed. You'd be so upset
if you trust him. You'd be so upset if you
like gave out your number, my number, your collective number,
it's your family's number. Would you have a shared plan?
I would be I would be upset. And I'm with
Tanya on this one.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
I think it's the line for me.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
I think the second that dude gave out a phone number.
Problem he didn't tell his wife Paige. Yeah, he snuck
the golf connection, you know, minor back page your long beach?
What'd you think?
Speaker 11 (35:52):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (35:53):
First of all, you communicate on WhatsApp and hide the conversation.
Speaker 11 (35:57):
Yeah, it's.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Yeah, you could just regular text message if it's not
a secret, right, like that's what you do. But anyway,
I did this, and for anyone listening who's considering, do
not do it. Like my my husband and I met
another couple. We had them over. We cross pollinated, so
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to speak. And anyway, like once you bring someone else
into your bedroom, it's over. There's like jealousy and suspicion
and distrust and all of that stuff, and basically it's
the end. Yeah, and yeah, and I mean we made
it about a year, but.
Speaker 7 (36:36):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
And so after you was you cross pollinated, that was it.
You tried, but everything changed, right.
Speaker 10 (36:46):
Everything changed?
Speaker 4 (36:48):
Yeah, And I mean I think we both regretted it,
but it was too late. At that point, there was
no turning back. We'd already done it.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
That's I'm saying. You do something like this, it's like
you can't turn back the clock.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Yeah, So I do not recommend.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
No, all right, not for me, I'm gonna say, not
for me. I think the jealousy would make you nuts.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
Me stick to my stomach just thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
Actually, Page, thank you very much. I appreciate your honesty.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Thank you welcome.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Actually, you know where else this guy went wrong. It
was still happy go lucky about it when his wife
said no, absolutely not, and he kept trying to convince her,
Like the news on our own path, I think I
think whoever said this is gonna be a problem because
he's so curious. It's gonna be a problem if you
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want us to address something in your life, Ryan because
FM dot Com from Ryan's Roses on air with Ryan Seacrest.
I think we're gonna need everybody in here for some
relationship or friendship at Why don't two point seven kiss?
(38:02):
We have a call on the line. Let's grab Veronica
and send Gabriel Veronica, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 11 (38:10):
Good morning? I'm good Ryan, Thanks, how are you?
Speaker 1 (38:12):
I'm doing well? Thank you. So we're all on Mike here,
Assistney tiny myself. You're in San Gabrie and you want
to leave your boyfriend's family group chat. What's happening?
Speaker 11 (38:22):
Oh yeah, So it was so sweet of him to
add me to it, and like, yeah, I thought it
was great at the time, but it's been a couple
of weeks and honestly hate the group chat. They text
NonStop in it, like it's one hundreds of day, like
my phone blows up with it and it's all for
dumb things like his dad and brother will have a
(38:44):
condo in the group chat that should absolutely just be
the two of them, and does me to include everyone
his sister in law and well, my sister in law
sends like fifty picks a day of our nephew and
like even two kid. But I don't need to see
like that many pickures of him eating ice cream, you know,
And like I don't know, do I ask the boyfriend
or a movie from the chat? Do I just leave?
(39:06):
And like hope no one notices, Like I don't want
to be rude. I've just done you.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Know, Yeah can't You can't leave because it alerts the
whole group. It says, you know, Veronica left the chat.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
So what's the solution? I why does it?
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Do you mute it?
Speaker 4 (39:21):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (39:21):
Is that how you can get rid of not telling
people you're going?
Speaker 2 (39:24):
I think you can mute the chat so you won't
get the alerts on your phone, but they'll still you'll
still be in.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
It the person When someone leaves the chat and I read.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
That, yeah, you can't leave it. That's the problem. Like
now that you're in, You're in, You're trapped.
Speaker 11 (39:39):
Thank you. So yeah, that's a good point. And like
the thing is, I do have it muted, it's just
still pops up on my phone right like in the hundreds.
It's wild.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
So even if you mute it, you still get the
red number of texts on the icon.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Right if you still see the yes, the unread. But
it doesn't it doesn't like notify you.
Speaker 11 (40:03):
Yeah, And like I'm worried, like if I don't keep
up with it, then they'll reference something and they're like, oh,
you didn't see it in the group chat. And I
want to be like.
Speaker 12 (40:11):
No, like you're under Maybe maybe you can say, maybe
you can say that the alerts, because there's so many,
have been keeping you up, and you got a new job, and.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
But does she get a new job? What's your job?
Speaker 5 (40:32):
But I'm saying, maybe the alerts keep you up and
you just need to get out of it to focus
on your work or even slacking on your work, blame
it on yourself.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Mm I think you should leave this relationship.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
Oh my gosh, make it drastic.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
Well, it's much easier. It's a universe saying maybe the universe,
maybe you're here because this is not right. Maybe that's
why you're calling this. Is it right?
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Is it right? Are you happy?
Speaker 11 (40:59):
I am happy for the most part, but I mean
this is sort of a little bit of a red flag.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
Well, I mean I tend to look at things like that,
but you don't have to. I do think that on
the scale of things, if you're happy in a relationship,
I wouldn't worry too much about this.
Speaker 11 (41:15):
Yeah, yeah, it's like worth it for him, But I
don't know, keep my guard up, thank you.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I don't sweat the small stuff.
This to me is a small stuff thing.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
Contribute every now and then to the chat.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
I just throw it, you know, a bunch of stuff. Yeah,
get a bunch of pictures, hold on to them. Fire
the moll ironica. Thanks, good luck. But I do know
I have friends out of these group chats, and they're
like all quick and really witty, and they have nothing
but time to I guess, come up with fast, clever responses.
I'm like researching my responses because I want to come
(41:50):
up with something to out clever. They're clever, and I
don't have the time to do it. Don't need to
do that, I know but they do put group text
do put pressure on people to feel like if you
aren't adequately supplying the clever wit, then they judge you.
That's what you call good friends. We talk about weddings.
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Who's down?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
I love a wedding?
Speaker 5 (42:15):
Do you I just went to a wedding this weekend?
Did you like five hundred people?
Speaker 2 (42:20):
Five hundred people?
Speaker 1 (42:21):
So many people. The bride and groom cannot enjoy five
hundred people.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
There's a Persian Jewish wedding and they tend to be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
I've been to a Lebanese wedding, same thing, five hundred people.
Speaker 5 (42:33):
Ryan, you would love it because you walk in and
there's food everywhere.
Speaker 3 (42:39):
There's food.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
You know who I am at that? I am the
guy you cannot get close to while talking to because
I will have all of those flavors on my tongue.
Speaker 5 (42:48):
Yeah, And like each station, the plates are like the
size of your hand, and I'm like, how much meat
can I put on?
Speaker 2 (42:52):
The supposed you're supposed to keep going back?
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Right?
Speaker 3 (42:56):
Right?
Speaker 1 (42:58):
So what about how would you feel about the prize wedding? Sisney?
What happened here? So?
Speaker 2 (43:02):
A woman posted on Reddit that she and her boyfriend
got invited to a fancy party. So context, they have
been together for five years, and while they've discussed marriage before,
there were really no plans to get married and they
were not engaged. So she and her boyfriend got all
dressed up for this party, so to speak, and as
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she walked in, she was shocked to see all of
her family, all of her friends. It was her wedding.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
So the people invited.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
Didn't know, yes, I guess, or maybe they found out
rather when they got there. Okay, so now she has
a choice to make go along with the surprise wedding
or leave. While she decided to leave.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Wait, so hold on, she wait, she didn't know it
was her wedding.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
She did not know it was her wedding and in surprise,
but just kind.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
Of paint the picture for myself. So the only person
that knew was the boyfriend. Yes, so he basically did
the proposal of the wedding all once.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Yes, he thought it was going to be very romantic
to just.
Speaker 1 (44:05):
To say, hey, guess what I want to marry you years.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
Yeah, it had been five years and they had talked
about marriage and all that stuff. They were not engaged.
Speaker 1 (44:13):
This guy's a genius.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
I think so too. I thought it was a very
romantic gesture to be like, she left this moment, now
let me marry you. So dark, So he says she overreacted,
spoiled a very beautiful moment, and she says marriage should
be a joint decision with open communication and shared experiences.
Both of their families agree with him, so like even
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her family is taking his side.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
But hold on, my hold on. It's so over the top, beautiful,
romantic and like it's been five years. Clearly they've talked
about this before. And he goes and organizes everyone in
all the families to be there, and she leaves, proposal
marriage all in one. If she didn't want to get
married in that moment, it could have been an engagement party.
(44:58):
I see you, I.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Only she I don't think you leave like you even
like even if you have a gun in your stomach, like, man,
this is not really what I wanted. You just go
along with it, right, and you just you deal with
it at that point. But I don't think. I don't
think leaving was the right answer.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Commenters on Reddy of course.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
They're still together, by the way, even though she left, like,
they're still together, and one said like if he marries
you without having to ask you, what else is he
gonna do down the road? Like it's almost like maybe,
like he's so controlling.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
I didn't see it as controlling, and I saw it
as one would maybe to do this, and he kind
of made it very efficient and you could say, I'm
so happy, but we don't need let's make this an
engagement party. Could have been like different paths to this thing.
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Yeah, I see both sides. Like part of me like
I was so ready to get married when I married Michael,
and we had been together for five years by the
time we got married, and so if this would have
happened to me, I would have part of me would
have been bummed that I didn't get to plan my
own wedding because there was things that I wanted to pick.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
Shoo, this is the way to do it.
Speaker 2 (46:09):
But yes, but now looking back, fine.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No, even just the way to do it. What if
you and Michael were in on it and the friends
and family didn't know and they were surprised that may
be a better way to do it.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Well, who my Michael in this area.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
I'm not I'm saying, like Tanya, if let's just say,
you know, whoever and however was getting married, and you
both two of the whoever is both knew that there
was going to be a surprise wedding. That's kind of fun.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
Yeah, I don't hate the surprise wedding.
Speaker 5 (46:37):
I think what would bum me out is like even
like Robbie threw me a surprise birthday dinner one year
and it was so lovely and I loved it, and
I think he would do an amazing job if he
were to do this. But I feel like they always
forget certain people, you know what I mean, Like you
do need the combined effort of two minds so that
you make sure you don't leave people out.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm hoping that maybe he did have that man. Seemed
like family and friends were there, But I know what
you mean, like maybe there was like a dance teacher
that she would have wanted.
Speaker 3 (47:04):
There, like somebody that like maybe he just didn't know from.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
Her list or from her guest list that. Yeah, but
at the end of the day, it's like all done.
I do look at it. My gut reaction was, Wow,
what a romantic gesture like this, Like this is beautiful.
Go with it, you know, I pictured like I pictured,
like go into this bedroom and like the wedding dress
was hanging there. It's like put that on and like
here we go, it's your wedding.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
That's the movie I'm watching.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
Yeah, that's the movie that I was watching too. But
a lot of people on Red Air are like, no way, dude,
break up with him.
Speaker 5 (47:36):
Because if you don't have any say that would be
like really put yourself in that situation, that.
Speaker 1 (47:41):
Would It seemed like he was trying to do something
I think romantic. I don't think he's trying to control it.
But I like the idea of a hybrid. Both the couple,
the groom in the and the fiancees are in on
it and the whole families and friends are surprised. I
like that if you all get invitation to surprise party.
Speaker 3 (47:57):
Ah ah.
Speaker 1 (48:00):
A lot of games here on Kiss in the Morning.
You've got higher or lower? It's isn't your favorite?
Speaker 2 (48:05):
I do enjoy that match game.
Speaker 1 (48:08):
You've got match game?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
I love now their favorite.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
You've got You and Marianna go out with the guy
she met on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Oh is this a game?
Speaker 1 (48:15):
Play that one? Now? Well, it seems like it's I
don't know if it's a game, but it seems like
a recurrent theme. Butianna, how are you?
Speaker 2 (48:22):
And she does her song for her dating life. I'm
doing good?
Speaker 13 (48:27):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (48:28):
I'm doing well? So how would you frame up this
single life for you? Right now?
Speaker 2 (48:32):
I think it's going good?
Speaker 1 (48:34):
Like I can't.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
I don't have no complaints, no complaints.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
So are you? Are you dating a couple of people?
Speaker 13 (48:40):
I'm just going with the vibes, you know, like if
I meet someone and they're down to hang out and
they want to ask me out, like I'm up to it.
You know.
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Just just just think about this. I think we've been
down a couple of paths here recently with you, right, Yeah,
remember the guy who made her she like leave fast
Acts after thirty minutes? There was that guy.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
I Yeah, that guy, Sacha.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
You don't go to fast Ax and like now let's go.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
We're out right or any movie period.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
You sit through it. Okay, So Marion, what's the latest?
Speaker 13 (49:14):
So I was talking to this guy that I had
met this guy over like a year ago, but I
never really like talked to him on Instagram and he
was just dming me and stuff, and like I kind
of finally started talking back to him and he's like, oh, yeah,
I really want to see you, and like the other day,
well we exchanged phone numbers, and the other day we
were on the phone for like three hours, which is insane.
Speaker 1 (49:34):
Yeah, what do you do for three hours?
Speaker 2 (49:36):
Right, it doesn't happen in twenty twenty.
Speaker 3 (49:37):
Three, somebody.
Speaker 13 (49:39):
Yeah, Well, this is a whole new person, like I
have never I mean, usually I'll talk to people that
I've known from my past, and this is like a
whole brand new person.
Speaker 2 (49:47):
I don't know anything about him. Great, breaking your pattern.
How did you guys meet initially? Did you meet in person?
And then you so it's all Instagram? All Instagram, So
I'm like, never seen him. No, he pulled pictures, you know.
But this is how I met doctor w who and workout.
Speaker 5 (50:05):
But I mean, we're not together anymore. But it was
he was great. He was a good guy.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
He was a good guy.
Speaker 5 (50:11):
He wrong, No, he was not a bad guy. We
just had different You got it wrong.
Speaker 3 (50:17):
Yeah, we just weren't of a good fit.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Marianna. What is it about him to interest you to
keep you on the phone for three hours?
Speaker 13 (50:25):
Well, we were just both getting to know each other. Like, oh,
he's lived in he's from the East Coast, but he moved.
Speaker 2 (50:30):
He moved to La He's lived in Mexico.
Speaker 13 (50:32):
He's lived like in so many different places, and like,
I feel like we kind of got a connection and
like the things that we like, like the same music,
exploring food and stuff. And he's like, I really want
to hang out with you. So he's like, let's do
something this week and so and then he's like, I
know you get out of work early. I'm like, you
remember my schedule already.
Speaker 1 (50:54):
Guy's taking notes. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
So I'm like, I don't know if this is creepy
or talker.
Speaker 1 (51:00):
Hold on, there's like this fine line between creepy and thoughtful.
Speaker 5 (51:04):
Yeah, so true and being thoughtful, very fine line.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
It seems like we should know he's listening for once,
so we should play this out. Where would he take you?
Did he talk about it? Where would you guys go?
Speaker 13 (51:20):
He didn't say exactly where, but he said we'll grab
lunch and then like go to an art museum or
something like that, which I do love.
Speaker 1 (51:26):
That, you know, So I'm like lunch, he ghost our
museums or he just says that because that is a
cool thing.
Speaker 8 (51:32):
No, he does.
Speaker 2 (51:33):
He like, like we like the same things. And like
New York. Yeah, he's he's from New York.
Speaker 3 (51:38):
Keep it to one activity though for the first day.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
You don't want to know, Tanya. You should not give
dating advice to America.
Speaker 5 (51:46):
I'm sorry, Mario, he gave you the best advice thus far.
Speaker 3 (51:53):
Not be honest.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
Because of the d's going well, it's also nice to
have a couple of things on the you know, in
the agenda.
Speaker 5 (52:03):
If the date's going well, then you make a second date.
There's no if ands or butts about it.
Speaker 1 (52:07):
I'm gonna tell you I used to date, believe it
or not, And when a date went well, I remember
saying to one of the dates I was on, we
were clicking, we were vibing. We planned to have lunch,
and I said, what are you doing for the next
twenty four hours? And we did something for the next
one that's hot.
Speaker 2 (52:22):
Yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 5 (52:23):
If you're on the date and it's going really well,
to extend. But I'm saying, going into it, you want
to have an end and he's.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
Not going great, then she can make that excuse if
it's an and.
Speaker 5 (52:32):
So like they just go to lunch and if it's bad,
she just has to go through lunch and go on.
Speaker 1 (52:37):
Go to the museum. Man that's going to roll into it.
Speaker 2 (52:39):
After one date situation?
Speaker 1 (52:42):
What the good news is we have a potential opportunity
here to meet a guy who listens, who speaks on
the telephone, who has lived in several places.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
What's his Instagram?
Speaker 13 (52:54):
Like?
Speaker 3 (52:54):
What's his Instagram like?
Speaker 2 (52:55):
He's kind of very low key too, doesn't like that.
Speaker 1 (52:59):
Are there any photos of him with coconut oil on
his body? No?
Speaker 3 (53:03):
Okay, that's like beach photos.
Speaker 1 (53:05):
Would that be a bad thing? Yes, yes, it's a
bad time. It's definitely. What are our next steps here, Marianna.
Speaker 13 (53:15):
I'm gonna go for it and I'll just, you know,
turn my location on so you guys know where I'm
at exactly.
Speaker 1 (53:21):
All right, keep us posted. When are you gonna tell
me you're you're down?
Speaker 2 (53:25):
Probably tomorrow?
Speaker 1 (53:27):
Great? How about jump into it?
Speaker 2 (53:30):
Can call in?
Speaker 1 (53:32):
How are you doing? Eight oh six? All right? Thank you?
So fun?
Speaker 2 (53:38):
Isn't great?
Speaker 1 (53:39):
It's so fun? Off dates everybody here.
Speaker 3 (53:42):
Instagram is the best place to meet people.
Speaker 2 (53:47):
Again, it did not work out for you. I don't
understand what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (53:51):
Just because it didn't work out for me.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
It doesn't mean it's not a great place to meet people.
It's like a tool. It is a tool for the using.
It's a it's the oyster in the sea.
Speaker 2 (54:00):
What are the oysters?
Speaker 1 (54:02):
Tool? And see?
Speaker 3 (54:03):
But you know what I mean, Like, there's plenty of
fish in the sun.
Speaker 1 (54:05):
Tool.
Speaker 2 (54:10):
On Air with the Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Two types of people on Thursdays, those excited about the
weekend and those that stress out about not having their
plans yet. Which person are you.
Speaker 2 (54:25):
Excited about the weekend?
Speaker 1 (54:26):
I'm excited about the weekend. Yeah, got a hometown house.
So tomorrow Morning Hack. If you'll be traveling over the
next few weeks, the ingredients for a perfect vacation, I'll
tell you about that. Have it going, guys, Talk soon,
Kiss FM. Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
All right, let's get to it. So you were telling
us you went to Disneyland over the weekend for father's dad.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yes, and it's so much fun, usually always at Disneyland.
But we had a little situation with Savellah, and if
I'm being completely honest, Michael and I are a little
rusty when it comes to emergency diaper situations.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
It's like, we have how long has it been since
you've had to deal with that?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, Like the the twins have been out of diapers
for like, you know, two and a half years at
this point, and we haven't had a major blowout like
this since they were baby babies, and Saveah hasn't really
had one yet. She's almost two. So we were finishing
up dinner one of the days there and I went
to pick pick her up out of her high chair
when I realized way too late that she had had
(00:52):
a blowout out of her diaper.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
So it got all long because to me, a blowout now.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Is yeah not the fun kind of blow up. Okay,
So her mess gets on my shirt and then it's
like as if remember that scene in Missus Doubtfire, where
no it's too graphic. Okay, fine, we'll es give that.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I can't even who can remember a scene in Missus Doubtfire.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
I probably could have seen it like one hundred times.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Anyways, let's just say there's a lot. So the tip
here is that many people would maybe just go to
a bathroom. But what I wanted to tell, like all moms,
if you're ever in a situation like this, Yes, there
is the baby centers at Disneyland and at Disney's California Adventure,
but we were at Disneyland specific specifically, and the baby
care center is at the end of Main Street by
(01:39):
the First Aid. So when you go there, there's proper
changing tables, there's places for new moms to nurse their babies.
There's just like it's way more comfortable place to actually
change a baby versus like the bathroom where you just
have the one plastic changing table. So Michael went there.
We basically divided and conquered. So he went there. I
went to a nearby store to buy her a seventy
(02:01):
five dollars sweatsuit, because that's all I could do at
that point.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
You should have just watched Disney Plus, I mean.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Right, So then I go back and then it have
her size, so I had to do like an extra
extra small as if fits are all big. And so
we get back and I'm thinking, like he had made progress,
but he didn't because he couldn't find the wipes, and
like she and so anyways, by the time we had
cleaned her up and carried on with her evening.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Michael's a very handy guy. He's been trying to build
a deck out in your backyard for a couple of
years now. But he can't find the wipes.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
No, he had, we had wipes, but there was only
two left. He didn't know we had backup wipes, like
in the bottom of the diaper bag. So he was
trying to to ration like the two. And so there
was just a lot going back. How much activity does
this goofies blow up? Nenanza get this little daycare center,
this baby center? Oh it was active. He actually had
to wait in a little bit of a line too
to even get in, I know, and like they didn't
(02:52):
care that he had an emergency.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
What happened to your shirt?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
So that's funny you say that, because after what I'm
thinking about, after we clean everything up, we get back
to the stroller rethinking we're all good. So I had
to clean myself the best I could with wipes like
in the in the beginning. But then we get back
to the stroller and we're like, like, I feel I
feel like you still smell it, like, and he's like
your shirt, Like you never changed your shirt?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, that's what That's what a great mom you are.
You didn't even think about the fact that your shirt
was soiled. No, you were just worried about the kids
and Michael father.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So he was like, go buy yourself a shirt too
or someone. I was like, I'm not buying myself a
shirt at this point, right, So I was like, give
me your your zip ap hooey, And so I just
took my shirt off. I ended up in my bra
and his zip up hoody and we went and watched
the fireworks and had.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
A great night. Do you think a lot of people
know about that baby Center?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I don't think a lot of people know about it.
So that's why I wanted to tell people about the
Baby Center. If you ever had, you know, want to
nurse your nurse your baby, change your baby in a
much more comfortable setting. They haven't met both parks.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Sounds like it was not the smoothest trip. But you
know what, everything's good at Disneyland. Everything just makes you
when you're there.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
It doesn't matter, right, Yes, you pivot.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Such a great ceremonial thing to wake up, have our
coffee together, those of us who are drinking coffee, which
you think most of us now are again coffee? Yes, yes,
have you had yours this morning?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Tanya?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I have my mushroom tea this morning.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, we can tell we can. There's a there's a
different tempo.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
No you cannot, well we can.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Now here's the thing, getting up, getting here, having this
ceremony is like the way I like to start my day,
and that hopefully is contaged to the people who are listening.
And then we all go off to work. Right, So
this you can't really consider that, even though it is
the job. But we we.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Got rid of our coffee maker when we got off coffee,
and we haven't found anyone that we like. So I'm
still just like gonna be doing my mushroom tea.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So many great do group text me. I've been through
a lot of coffee makers.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Tell me, tell me.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Simple drip and don't go with these like press the
button and grind your beans overnight on a timer. Simple drip.
I've a queas an Art simple drip coffee machine. Okay,
it's so good. It's spress, so it's coffee. It's not espresso.
When have I said espresso. It's coffee, and clearly it's
(05:26):
called coffee. That's what you want to feel like that emote, guys,
it's emotion. Emotion creates emotion. Okay, so well you could
either emote or not. I'm just saying I like the
ceremony of us together every morning.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Maybe you just get the light roast.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, no, dark and strong.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
She doesn't need dark and strong because then she'll be
like this.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
This is quite a pleasure.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Actually, you're attacking her about the drip.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
I am not.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Say girl, I'm passionately pitching you my Queasin Art drip machine.
I'll send you pictures. I'll send you a photo.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I want to get to the morning hack and then
a Thursday Morning quote for you. But if you're flying
somewhere this summer, this is a hack that will help
you save money on baggage fees. Check this out. A
woman on TikTok did this and it worked so to
avoid an overt limit fee on her bags. You know,
when I go fishing and I put on my fishing
my tackle vest.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I'm sorry, you go fishing.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
One goes fishing and they put on their tackle vest,
you know, their fishing vest. You could pull all the
little hooks and yeah, rubber worms and things inside the pockets. Okay,
so she fit a week's worth of clothes in her
fishing vest. Oh my gosh, didn't have to pay for
an extra carry on on spirit. But you can picture
these vests with all the pouches. If you wisely roll
(06:50):
up some shirts and shorts and things, you could virtually wear,
not carry on wear on your clothes.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I was thinking about this vest that I wear all
the time.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Because the pockets are very deep, I could definitely get
my underwear and socks in these pockets.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Well, I pack when I travel, I pack my underwear
and socks in my shoes.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Gross.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah, it really gross.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Your underwear so gross because it's like then you're under
smelling feet.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, well no, my shoes don't smell like feet. My
feet don't smell care.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
You put your foot in your shoes shoes and sweat
and walk around and.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Then up and I stuffed them in the tunnel of
the shoe.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I don't care. And then you put your underwear on
your body, I.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Would rethink that put the inside of my underwear on
my body. The outside is what touching.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
The shoe has a funk.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, I'm no, I.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Would just think they don't think I would rethink your
positioning over.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
About the socks.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You're actually gonna steal that? Thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
No, I was supposed to be a travel hack, not
a travel hack shaming.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
You're so proud of his underwear.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, that's not I'm not going to share my easy,
simple ways to get around with you guys anymore. Today's
Thursday quote. We can take this day on. We're almost
to the weekend. Here's the quote. You are worthy now,
not when you get the job, not when you lose
twenty pounds, now simply because you exist.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I wish I could believe. It's kiss FM. Let's go Thursday,
Come on Kiss FM Headlines with siciny Well Rappert.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Travis Thought was arrested this morning in Miami and is
facing charges of trespassing and disorderly intoxication.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
Justin.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Timberlake lawyer says he looks forward to quote vigorously defend
mister Timberlake against these accusations. You know, the singer was
arrested Tuesday morning in sag Harbor, New York and charged
with driving while intoxicated. Over six hundred workers at two
smart and Finals in Commerce and Riverside went on strike
yesterday and planned to walk picket today protesting mass layoffs
(09:02):
and unfair labor practices. And Kendrick Lamar's hometown Juneteenth show
at the Kia Form was last night, and that was
a star studded ode to West Coast Rap featuring guest
appearances from Ti Dollar Sign, Tyler the Creator, YG Roddy Rich,
and Doctor Dre On air with Ryan.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Seacrets Ryan's roses, is it seven to be or not
to be? I do? I do? Uh? What other things
do you say when you're getting married? Or is that
to be? Not to be?
Speaker 7 (09:38):
That's not?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I shakesperienced the question I do I do?
Speaker 1 (09:44):
And death do us part?
Speaker 5 (09:46):
There you go got there mm hmmm, in sickness and
in how and.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
In sickness and in how, it's usually where I cried
that part.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
As long as you both shall live.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Wow hopefully well live a long time. So pretty well. Anyway,
the reason we bring all this up is we have
yet another back room staff member. What is going on
at the at the rate here of potential engagements? So
Collette works in the back room with Ruby, Michayla and everybody, Marianna.
(10:21):
Everybody's back there with the phones and the things that
all the moving parts and all the meat of the show,
all the bones of the show are back there.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
We call ourselves the back room besties.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
You do.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
That's nice, j'all go to.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Remember they have their own group text. We're not a
part of it.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Yeah, well I think those are station funds. So we'll
do a reading. Okay, so call out what's going on?
You are you? You and your boyfriend Raoul going strong?
Been going strong for a minute?
Speaker 8 (10:50):
Yeah over three years now.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Time.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
That's great? So where are we? What's on your mind?
Speaker 9 (10:56):
So yesterday I saw on instag that's someone I knew
in college who's a year younger than me, but started
dating her boyfriend at the same time I started dating
Roll got engaged, and so I showed him and I
was like, oh, look this person got engaged. Uh, and
then he and I wasn't trying to be like, oh,
look like time, you know, but he was like, well,
you probably won't have to wait that long, and I
(11:18):
was like, I was like yeah, literally like I was
bugging out, and then he and then he was like, yeah,
maybe end of year and.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
I was like end of year. Yeah, which so this
should be all very exciting.
Speaker 9 (11:34):
Yeah, I just want to have a few more of
my ducks in a row.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Interesting are your ducks now?
Speaker 9 (11:40):
So first he's like finishing up grad school. He finishes
up in December, which is the end of the year.
And then I'm hoping he gets a full time job
so we can get me a nice rings.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
More of his ducks not.
Speaker 9 (11:55):
Your ducks, okay, And I'd like to be in a
better apartment, and I like, uh, you know.
Speaker 8 (12:02):
Other things, Like I just like a few more things, not.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Too much to ask. Have you guys discussed proposal or engagements?
Speaker 8 (12:09):
Yeah, for sure. We plan on Like he's it for me,
he's my dude.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
We're good, but he could be your dude once his
ducks are in the right spot.
Speaker 8 (12:18):
Officially my dude, once his ducks are in Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, Now did he get the drift?
Speaker 8 (12:23):
I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah, she was in shock.
Speaker 8 (12:26):
I was like and I was like, oh cool, because,
like I.
Speaker 9 (12:30):
Mean, if he asked, I'm not going to say no,
I'm not going to be a jerk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
But well, I think listen, I think this is very common.
You know, you want to know that when you take
that step, there is a certain place you are in
your life, and it's okay to set it as a
mile marker to go, Okay, we know it's going to happen,
but let's just let's let's through some organization first, right. Yeah,
(12:57):
So once he does all of those things, and once
you have this new apartment, then you know it'll be time.
I'm just concerned if he does this too soon, what
will you do?
Speaker 8 (13:07):
I mean, I'll say yes, but I don't want to
be like a jerk.
Speaker 9 (13:10):
How do I even like bring it up to him, Like, Hey,
that thing you mentioned the other day, don't do it?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I know, what do you say in the moment?
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Yeah, what did you say in the moment?
Speaker 9 (13:18):
I was just like, oh, no, you should have read that.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
You should have known what that meant.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
What's a big concern that, like he's gonna get you
a ring? You don't like that you that you are
not going to have your own place, Like what's your
big if you had to do with like your pros
and cons list, Like what do you want to tackle first?
Speaker 8 (13:38):
I mean, I guess I'm because I'm only twenty four.
Is that like too young to get so.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
You feel too young to get way too?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Then you need to say that. Then that's that's then
that's that's your first concern. Then you need to voice that.
You need to say, I love you so much. I
think the end of the year is too soon for us,
and you need to voice that. Okay, if that is
truly your concern.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Otherwise you can have the real awkward conversation about this
when he's like on a knee. Yeah, and that's worse,
but some are just totally normal.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I think it's so normal for two people not to
have the exact same timeline of how they want things
to shake out.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Which is something you got to communicate to Sysney's play
and it will be worse if you don't, because he's
gonna literally propose You're going to say not yet.
Speaker 9 (14:20):
I think we're gonna have a long engagement though, Like
either way, like even a big fan, yeahling a one
or two year engagement, So then do I want to Like,
I also have to think about that in advance.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Even so you're only twenty four long engagement only still
puts you at like twenty six twenty seven getting married.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
That's so shocking. But at my age, I've never been engaged,
So you don't have to rush anything. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I didn't get married until twenty nine, almost thirty that year.
Like I really, I feel like you have a lot
of time. Yeah, but do what you want. Yeah, you
got to speak your truth. Don't hold back. Don't hold
back feelings because that's where you're going to get in trouble.
So if you're really feeling this stuff, you got to
voice it.
Speaker 8 (14:59):
I'll talk him after work. I'll wake Hi up because
we'll probably.
Speaker 10 (15:01):
Still be.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Hopefully okay. So if he's listening right now, I'm just
gonna do this. You should know you're talking about that.
So is it a family meeting or you're not resting? Well,
what is happening?
Speaker 2 (15:21):
I am an animal lover. I am not very fond
of insects. There's a few insects I enjoy. Butterflies are great.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Yes, cricket.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
How do you feel about really police roly Police.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
I love really police, lady bugs all beautiful. Oh you're
bringing it back. I cannot, I am. I'm in the
battle right now with that.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
With the cricket.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Just one or might be two.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I don't know where is the cricket.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
It's it's got to be like on my porch or
in the wall.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Oh it's so wait, it's you didn't see it yet.
You just hear it.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I just hear it. And it's just at night, and.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
It's just when you get quiet, And.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It's just when I get quiet, like after I put
the kids to bed, and like the house kind of settles,
because like our house is always like a footprints and
kids and kids running around. But so when Michael and
I finally like, okay, let's watch like you know, something
on Netflix or whatever, that's when it's like the cricket
all of a sudden, and so and this is a
new house and we're trying to figure out all the
new noises and stuff. But it's definitely like in the front,
(16:20):
like on the.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Porch you go knock on the wall.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, yeah, So I.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Get scared.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
I don't they get scared.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
It does stop for a.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Minute, and then then once you settle.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Yeah, and then I'm like got him and then I
close the door, all like happy.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Nope. Well, so you know what you should do is
you should go get a bag of ice, use some
very sturdy tape and tape that ice up to where
on the wall, to where you think the cricket is,
and see if you can freeze the cricket. Cricket?
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Are you okay?
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Did you google this or something?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
No, I'm just telling you. I'm handy, and that's what
I would do. I have a cricket in the water
and freeze that.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Wait, that's like so morbid. It's like the mummies they found.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
They have to call it pest control. No, I know
you don't want to hurt the cricket.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
I have a better solution to freeze the cricket.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
He's gonna be mummified in my it can cricket?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Can thall give get a sound machine?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
I don't understand the people that have sound machines and
the one I love it, and that's their sound choice.
Sound to you like the cricket sound.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
We change it from time to time, but right now
it's a brown noise.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Which is what I heard.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
It's not good to fall asleep to sound.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
It's kind of like white noise, but like a little
bit like deeper. I want to say, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
We're trying to get it the like the kids have
sound machines and their babies and we're trying to get
rid of all that.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
No, it's good, by.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
The way I heard, it's bad for you, Okay, so
you should read up on it.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I'm trying to keep you guys in a positive frame
of mind here. It could be worse. It could be
a squirrel. I've had that. I've had a squirrel in
my wall, and a squirrel eats the wood, pain eats
your wood, So be happy.
Speaker 7 (17:55):
Yeah, cricket, not a squirrel or a what what are
the other? A woodpecker? Came to me a favorite Google
life span of cricket. Oh, I gotta wait this out lifespan.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Of cricket or mark life span of cricket. I'm gonna
see if the life span. You might have to wait
it out because I feel like when I have a
bug and I do this.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Is why the previous owner moved.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
No, I don't think so. It should be in your disclosures,
that's true. Check your disc mic on the disclosures and
check them out, like, did anybody die here? Where their
crickets in the wall? Like I need to know.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Six weeks on crickets, six.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
Weeks, that's nothing. I actually will tell you this. I
think in a couple of years you're going to change
your position on insects because I used to get scared
of every spider, every ant, every cockroach, every worm, even snakes.
In this moment, in this day, in these days of
my life, none of it bothers me. I don't I
don't get bothered. I don't freak out, I don't worry.
(18:50):
I don't I don't run. I just let them. I
kind of let them be. I take a deep breath,
and I figure their lifespan is shorter than mine, so
at some point they're gonna croak.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So you feel sorry for them.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
This is brown noise?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Yeah so m oh no, but we should I can't
hear it. Are you an infant in a uterus?
Speaker 1 (19:14):
This is what it sounds like in a uters Yes?
How do you know?
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Because that's what it sounds like when you do an
older sound.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Really, that's what it sounds like. Yeah, could sound? I
thought it was just images.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
You get sound?
Speaker 1 (19:25):
You can audio, Yeah, you can onio.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
You can hear the heartbeat.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Hello, maybe you wake up?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
I see we played that brown noise ty and fell asleep. Yeah,
I got to wake you up here.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
That brown noise is good. Let me tell you to
try it.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I'm telling you. I read something that you're like, you're
not supposed to sleep with sound machines.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
F y. Yeah, it takes years off your life or something.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Yes, what look it up?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
I read the same article.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Oh my gosh, that is actually terrible.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
What's wrong? You're engaged? Nothing matters anymore?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Yes, it does life with him?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Ah h brown noise? Oh look at yes, I see it.
Brown noise not good for engaged couples. Hmm. Let me
pin that the.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Way white noise harmful for sleep.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
Now, brown noise not good for relationship. M Okay, here
we are. It's one or two point seven. Kiss fam.
I only take a deep breath with a little hesitation
there because I'm trying to figure this out. So it's
time for Ryan's roses. I'm going to bring on Christina
just to explain it. Could read you the email, but
let me bring her on. Christina in Norwalk, Thanks for
(20:35):
joining us. We're going to get to try and to
call your husband here in a second for Ryan's roses.
But you found a locked chat with the woman he
is having a chat with on WhatsApp? How did you
find that?
Speaker 10 (20:48):
So his phone was on the counter and he had
all of these notifications, like he had messages on what's appened.
I didn't even know that he used What's App, and
so I went to check it. But apparently you can
lock the conversation, so there's like a little lock icon,
so I couldn't access it. It just said message, but
(21:09):
not who it's from.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
No, as you sit, I'm just imagining this going through
your head as you sit and start thinking about this
and playing it out. Do you have any idea who
might be.
Speaker 10 (21:23):
No, I mean not at all. I couldn't imagine who
he could be talking to. And of course I asked
him and he got really weird about it.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
What do you mean weird? What did he do that
was weird? When you asked him about it.
Speaker 10 (21:38):
He got like antsy, like no, nobody why you know,
kind of like a little defensive, And I said, you
got about six notifications, six with saying that you had
messages on What's App. And he's like, really, I don't
know it must be spam, and he was just kind
of dismissive about it. I mean, to me, it would
(22:00):
have been normal if he would have been like, no,
oh my god, no I don't have messages. I'll show you,
or I'll try and figure it out now in front
of you. And instead he just was like, no, it's nothing,
it's spam and then just dropped it.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Right, if he wasn't guilty, he would be able to
open the app right then and there. Oh, let's see
what it.
Speaker 10 (22:21):
Is, right, especially if it's spam, then delete it.
Speaker 11 (22:26):
Yeah, then delete it.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
He sees that you're concerned that would have been worse,
but prove it right then?
Speaker 1 (22:31):
How long have you been married to this man?
Speaker 10 (22:34):
Eight years? And we have a daughter, she's five, and
I mean, I don't know. Things have been okay, you know.
I mean, we haven't been as intimate as we have
been in the past, but I don't feel like we're
really going through anything. That's why it just I don't know,
(22:54):
something's off. I feel like I feel like he's lying
to me.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Have you guys fighting it all lately.
Speaker 10 (23:02):
Only about the WhatsApp?
Speaker 1 (23:04):
You know?
Speaker 10 (23:05):
I was really pissed, like, what do you mean it's
spam just and I can't, you know, I want to
have enough trust to not be controlling and say give
me your phone. You know. I feel like that's that's
a little childish, but I mean I was really mad,
and this is the first time that we've ever had
(23:25):
a fight where there's like I don't trust him and
I feel like he's lying to me.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
I've got Christina. We just met. She found a locked
up secretive conversation on WhatsApp with her husband and another woman.
She addressed it with him and got weirded out. Weirded
out by it. She thinks he's lying. She's sensing something
is not right in the relationship. She said, they don't okay,
So there are a lot of variables here and a
lot of feelings that something's off. I think that's fair
(23:56):
to say, Christina. I need you to say, Ryan, you
my permission to call, and then your husband his name
on Kiss FM.
Speaker 10 (24:01):
Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Okay, We're gonna do it now, and you just need
to be very quiet while we speak with him so
we can get as much information as possible. Then we
will tell him he's on the air and we'll bring
you in. Okay, My good luck, Christina?
Speaker 10 (24:26):
Thanks?
Speaker 6 (24:38):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Hi is this Sean?
Speaker 6 (24:41):
I sure is Hi?
Speaker 2 (24:42):
My name is Emily. I'm calling from Norwalk Blooms. We
actually deliver it in Norwalk and surrounding areas like Lakewood, Crito's, Losal, Cyprus,
and we're offering local residents of promotion today of a
free dozen red roses. You can send to anybody that
you'd like. Is that something you'd be interested in? I
don't wouldn't need cash, I wouldn't need credit card info.
Absolutely free.
Speaker 6 (25:02):
I think you have the wrong number. Who are you
trying to call?
Speaker 2 (25:05):
Sean? Is this Seawan and Norwalk?
Speaker 6 (25:09):
That is my name? But I didn't enter a contest
or anything.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
No, no, no no. This is a flower shop and
we do a promotion about once a month and we're
just trying to promote our business. So if you're pleased
with our arrangements, we hope that you would come back
as a customer. But these are free. It's just a
dozen red roses you can send to anybody that you'd like.
If you have a loved one that you would want
to send them to today, like your wife or a
girlfriend or mom.
Speaker 6 (25:33):
I I think I see what's going on. Okay, I'm
not really not really interested. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
No, they're absolutely free. I don't need cash, I don't
any credit card. Is there anybody in your life you'd
want to send them to? I just need the name.
Speaker 6 (25:46):
Okay, but you're just giving away free roses here seems
a little uh, a little shay.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
We do this. We do this every month. Is there
anybody that you woul't want to send them?
Speaker 4 (25:58):
To?
Speaker 6 (26:00):
Send them to my wife Christina?
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Okay, what would you like to put on the card?
And then we can have them out by lunchtime?
Speaker 6 (26:07):
The card, I'm not I don't know get anything pre written.
I'm not really good at coming up with stuff.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
We have I love you cards, we have thank you,
Happy anniversary, you good, I love you? Sounds great, r Sean.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I have
your wife, Christina on the line. I'm going to tell
you why we're calling right now. She's listening to all
of this, and she has a very she's a very
strong feeling about something going on with you and another woman.
Are you having any communication outside of your marriage with
(26:49):
another woman, Sean.
Speaker 6 (26:52):
Beyond work stuff? No, No, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Are you communicating on WhatsApp with another woman?
Speaker 6 (26:58):
Sean, Who who am I messaging on? What's are you?
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Are you communicating with another woman on WhatsApp? Sean?
Speaker 6 (27:08):
No, No, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Who are you talking to on WhatsApp?
Speaker 6 (27:14):
Nobody? I told my wife there was some notifications, but
I told her it was all just spam and I
just haven't gone in and turn off the notifications yet.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Is there any reason why she might feel like you're
lying to her?
Speaker 6 (27:27):
Sean, I would hope not, because I'm not Christina.
Speaker 10 (27:34):
Go ahead, you're lying. I know you. I can tell
when you're lying. You're totally lying. Who is she?
Speaker 6 (27:43):
What?
Speaker 10 (27:44):
Are you having an affair?
Speaker 6 (27:46):
Oh? Well, it's hold on. Let's just take it down
a not I am not having an affair.
Speaker 10 (27:52):
Then answer the question who are you messaging?
Speaker 6 (27:57):
Okay, I will tell you what's going on, but number one,
I want to say I'm not having an affair. And two,
this is it's gonna be really awkward to talk about
on the radio.
Speaker 10 (28:09):
Oh, this is gonna be good.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
Uh So you remember a few weeks ago we ate
that place, the local Peasant Sherman Oaks. Yeah, I remember
that place. And then the couple that came up to
us when we were wrapping up the check.
Speaker 10 (28:26):
Oh my god, Yes they were swingers.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
That was so gross, right right, well, uh, well they
got my number, and well they've been pursuing us.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Let's say, get your number.
Speaker 6 (28:40):
Your number?
Speaker 10 (28:41):
You mean you gave them your number?
Speaker 6 (28:44):
Well yeah, the guy plays golf. But anyway, the point
is one is I've been talking to them. Nothing, nothing
has happened. Let me strenuously say nothing has happened.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
Wait wait, hold on, yeah, John, you understand their lifestyle,
and yet you gave your number to play golf.
Speaker 6 (29:04):
Right. Well, I and to be honest, I'm curious. I'm
a curious fella. I wanted to know more, I think,
and it turns out.
Speaker 10 (29:11):
Wait wait wait wait, were you going to talk to
me about this?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
It sounds like he was going to line it up
and get it all set up and then talk to
you about it.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
I wanted to get I wanted to get more information.
I wanted to get some inside about how to approach it.
But you know, it's not that weird. A lot of
couples do this sort of thing.
Speaker 10 (29:29):
Okay, just so I'm clear, is this like a partner
swap thing where we switch partners.
Speaker 6 (29:36):
That's one of the potential scenario. Sure, And they mentioned
maybe kind of like a group situation, Sean.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
They men speaking to his wife as well. They mentioned it,
you're speaking to both of the couple.
Speaker 6 (29:51):
Wow, yeah, they're Yeah, they're both interesting. It's it's interesting,
it's it's.
Speaker 10 (29:58):
It's Sean, Sean, never talk to those people again. Shut
that down. That's disgusting. If you don't shut this down,
I swear to God, I am done well.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Also, you know, it's sketchy if you're locking the conversation.
Speaker 6 (30:18):
That's not really on purpose. I'm not a tech guy,
but I'm just I'm just trying to open to new things,
you know, new and exciting adventures. We've always been down
for new things.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
I mean, this is kind of crossing a different line.
Speaker 11 (30:34):
We have a child like what.
Speaker 6 (30:37):
You talk to you about, but not necessarily on the radio.
Speaker 10 (30:44):
Don't get cute with me right now. You need to
end this.
Speaker 6 (30:48):
Block them, well.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Just fin Sean, listen to your wife. How are you
going to end it? What are you going to say?
We want to hear it.
Speaker 6 (31:00):
Listen. I'll just I'll just tell him that, tell him
she's not into it, and she's the most important thing
to me, and she always comes first. But but I'm
still curious. I'd still like to know more.
Speaker 10 (31:11):
Oh my god, are you stupid. I'm sorry, but I
just told you. You need to shut this down.
Speaker 6 (31:20):
Right, You're right, You're right. It's done. Consider it done.
Speaker 10 (31:24):
Go watch a movie if you're curious. My god, this
is like a whole other level.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Yeah, you can't come back from this, Sean, I was
just curious.
Speaker 6 (31:35):
I'm just I'm just curious and interested in things I
don't I don't understand why that's such a big deal.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Well, it's a big deal because I have to into
it too.
Speaker 6 (31:42):
If you open your mind a little bit, he's.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Clearly not it Like, how much more deliberate can your
wife be? And clear can she be with how she feels?
I think we're good. You need to shut it down.
Good luck, Thanks Christine, thank you very much for coming on.
(32:04):
Good luck. So Sean and Christina they're at a restaurant,
Sherman Oaks. They live in Norwalk, so it's a night out.
They make the drive. They d up meeting this couple. Somehow,
Sean exchanges numbers with this couple, knowing that they were
swingers and he and his wife, and he knew it.
(32:29):
But then he sneaks his number to the couple, and
then we find out he's been communicating on WhatsApp with
both the husband and the wife because he's very curious
about the lifestyle and is proposing to his wife.
Speaker 12 (32:43):
They try it and hes Aly not.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
He's having a locked conversation about all the facts because
he's curious, getting ready to present the idea to his wife.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
And she's like, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Not, absolutely not. And he knew absolutely not because I
think they were like weirded out by it when they met.
The couple.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
At least she was right. They knew about it. I'm
sure they talked about it the whole drive home.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
So Sean says, no, I got their number because I
got plays golf, right, they'll play.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Golf, which was a lie.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
You don't learn a couple does that and then give
out your number, not thinking that that might be what
they're thinking you're trying to do.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
Yikes.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
So, at what point did Sean go wrong?
Speaker 2 (33:30):
At that?
Speaker 1 (33:31):
What time does the train lead the station? At what
point did Sean go wrong?
Speaker 2 (33:35):
That's a math question.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
Yeah, And if the train left the station left San
Diego too, and went thirteen miles per hour? What time
to get at San Francisco? Gosh, like never, I don't know,
all right, So where did he go wrong.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Giving his number without telling his wife.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
To giving the number out to the couple knowing about
their lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Honestly, he didn't go wrong with giving the number, because
if you actually did want to go play golf, you
can be friends with swingers and not swing.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Okay, so fine, very tempting.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Fine, like, I'll give him that if he actually did
want to go play golf with the dude.
Speaker 12 (34:10):
Fine, Okay, No, I'm with Tanya, mate.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
You went wrong with.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Saying this is my lifestyle high couple, this is our
lifestyle couple, and you give out your number.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
He went wrong.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
I think. No, he's sending a signal that he's interested,
and he was. He wasn't wanting to go play golf.
He was interested in knowing more because he wanted he
and his wife to look into it.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
I'm just saying, if he was actually wanting to play golf,
there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
You and Michael meet a couple at this restaurant and
they say that lifestyle and then the guys like the
other guys like you know, I'm in a band. I'm
in a band and Michael gives him his number because
the're gonna play guitar one night, And you don't think
that's that's fine.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
If they're just playing in a band, like at least
who he becomes friends with?
Speaker 1 (35:02):
No way, I would be all over Michael. Are you
sure you're just playing guitar with him and he gonna.
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Do a hook up with a guy like, I'm not
worried about that.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
No, but his wife is a swinger too.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
And she's in the band.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
Yeah, I trust Michael.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I think you'd be so pissed. You'd be so upset
if you trust him. You'd be so upset if you
like gave out your number, my number, your collective number,
it's your family's number. Would you have a shared plan?
I would be I would be upset. And I'm with
Tanya on this one.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
I think it's the line for me.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
I think the second that dude gave out a phone number.
Problem he didn't tell his wife Paige. Yeah, he snuck
the golf connection, you know, minor back page your long beach?
What'd you think?
Speaker 11 (35:52):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (35:53):
First of all, you communicate on WhatsApp and hide the conversation.
Speaker 11 (35:57):
Yeah, it's.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Yeah, you could just regular text message if it's not
a secret, right, like that's what you do. But anyway,
I did this, and for anyone listening who's considering, do
not do it. Like my my husband and I met
another couple. We had them over. We cross pollinated, so
(36:19):
to speak. And anyway, like once you bring someone else
into your bedroom, it's over. There's like jealousy and suspicion
and distrust and all of that stuff, and basically it's
the end. Yeah, and yeah, and I mean we made
it about a year, but.
Speaker 7 (36:36):
That was it.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
And so after you was you cross pollinated, that was it.
You tried, but everything changed, right.
Speaker 10 (36:46):
Everything changed?
Speaker 4 (36:48):
Yeah, And I mean I think we both regretted it,
but it was too late. At that point, there was
no turning back. We'd already done it.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
That's I'm saying. You do something like this, it's like
you can't turn back the clock.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Yeah, So I do not recommend.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
No, all right, not for me, I'm gonna say, not
for me. I think the jealousy would make you nuts.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
Me stick to my stomach just thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
Actually, Page, thank you very much. I appreciate your honesty.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Thank you welcome.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Actually, you know where else this guy went wrong. It
was still happy go lucky about it when his wife
said no, absolutely not, and he kept trying to convince her,
Like the news on our own path, I think I
think whoever said this is gonna be a problem because
he's so curious. It's gonna be a problem if you
(37:42):
want us to address something in your life, Ryan because
FM dot Com from Ryan's Roses on air with Ryan Seacrest.
I think we're gonna need everybody in here for some
relationship or friendship at Why don't two point seven kiss?
(38:02):
We have a call on the line. Let's grab Veronica
and send Gabriel Veronica, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 11 (38:10):
Good morning? I'm good Ryan, Thanks, how are you?
Speaker 1 (38:12):
I'm doing well? Thank you. So we're all on Mike here,
Assistney tiny myself. You're in San Gabrie and you want
to leave your boyfriend's family group chat. What's happening?
Speaker 11 (38:22):
Oh yeah, So it was so sweet of him to
add me to it, and like, yeah, I thought it
was great at the time, but it's been a couple
of weeks and honestly hate the group chat. They text
NonStop in it, like it's one hundreds of day, like
my phone blows up with it and it's all for
dumb things like his dad and brother will have a
(38:44):
condo in the group chat that should absolutely just be
the two of them, and does me to include everyone
his sister in law and well, my sister in law
sends like fifty picks a day of our nephew and
like even two kid. But I don't need to see
like that many pickures of him eating ice cream, you know,
And like I don't know, do I ask the boyfriend
or a movie from the chat? Do I just leave?
(39:06):
And like hope no one notices, Like I don't want
to be rude. I've just done you.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Know, Yeah can't You can't leave because it alerts the
whole group. It says, you know, Veronica left the chat.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
So what's the solution? I why does it?
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Do you mute it?
Speaker 4 (39:21):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (39:21):
Is that how you can get rid of not telling
people you're going?
Speaker 2 (39:24):
I think you can mute the chat so you won't
get the alerts on your phone, but they'll still you'll
still be in.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
It the person When someone leaves the chat and I read.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
That, yeah, you can't leave it. That's the problem. Like
now that you're in, You're in, You're trapped.
Speaker 11 (39:39):
Thank you. So yeah, that's a good point. And like
the thing is, I do have it muted, it's just
still pops up on my phone right like in the hundreds.
It's wild.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
So even if you mute it, you still get the
red number of texts on the icon.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Right if you still see the yes, the unread. But
it doesn't it doesn't like notify you.
Speaker 11 (40:03):
Yeah, And like I'm worried, like if I don't keep
up with it, then they'll reference something and they're like, oh,
you didn't see it in the group chat. And I
want to be like.
Speaker 12 (40:11):
No, like you're under Maybe maybe you can say, maybe
you can say that the alerts, because there's so many,
have been keeping you up, and you got a new job, and.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
But does she get a new job? What's your job?
Speaker 5 (40:32):
But I'm saying, maybe the alerts keep you up and
you just need to get out of it to focus
on your work or even slacking on your work, blame
it on yourself.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Mm I think you should leave this relationship.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
Oh my gosh, make it drastic.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
Well, it's much easier. It's a universe saying maybe the universe,
maybe you're here because this is not right. Maybe that's
why you're calling this. Is it right?
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Is it right? Are you happy?
Speaker 11 (40:59):
I am happy for the most part, but I mean
this is sort of a little bit of a red flag.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
Well, I mean I tend to look at things like that,
but you don't have to. I do think that on
the scale of things, if you're happy in a relationship,
I wouldn't worry too much about this.
Speaker 11 (41:15):
Yeah, yeah, it's like worth it for him, But I
don't know, keep my guard up, thank you.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I don't sweat the small stuff.
This to me is a small stuff thing.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
Contribute every now and then to the chat.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
I just throw it, you know, a bunch of stuff. Yeah,
get a bunch of pictures, hold on to them. Fire
the moll ironica. Thanks, good luck. But I do know
I have friends out of these group chats, and they're
like all quick and really witty, and they have nothing
but time to I guess, come up with fast, clever responses.
I'm like researching my responses because I want to come
(41:50):
up with something to out clever. They're clever, and I
don't have the time to do it. Don't need to
do that, I know but they do put group text
do put pressure on people to feel like if you
aren't adequately supplying the clever wit, then they judge you.
That's what you call good friends. We talk about weddings.
(42:11):
Who's down?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
I love a wedding?
Speaker 5 (42:15):
Do you I just went to a wedding this weekend?
Did you like five hundred people?
Speaker 2 (42:20):
Five hundred people?
Speaker 1 (42:21):
So many people. The bride and groom cannot enjoy five
hundred people.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
There's a Persian Jewish wedding and they tend to be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
I've been to a Lebanese wedding, same thing, five hundred people.
Speaker 5 (42:33):
Ryan, you would love it because you walk in and
there's food everywhere.
Speaker 3 (42:39):
There's food.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
You know who I am at that? I am the
guy you cannot get close to while talking to because
I will have all of those flavors on my tongue.
Speaker 5 (42:48):
Yeah, And like each station, the plates are like the
size of your hand, and I'm like, how much meat
can I put on?
Speaker 2 (42:52):
The supposed you're supposed to keep going back?
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Right?
Speaker 3 (42:56):
Right?
Speaker 1 (42:58):
So what about how would you feel about the prize wedding? Sisney?
What happened here? So?
Speaker 2 (43:02):
A woman posted on Reddit that she and her boyfriend
got invited to a fancy party. So context, they have
been together for five years, and while they've discussed marriage before,
there were really no plans to get married and they
were not engaged. So she and her boyfriend got all
dressed up for this party, so to speak, and as
(43:24):
she walked in, she was shocked to see all of
her family, all of her friends. It was her wedding.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
So the people invited.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
Didn't know, yes, I guess, or maybe they found out
rather when they got there. Okay, so now she has
a choice to make go along with the surprise wedding
or leave. While she decided to leave.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Wait, so hold on, she wait, she didn't know it
was her wedding.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
She did not know it was her wedding and in surprise,
but just kind.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
Of paint the picture for myself. So the only person
that knew was the boyfriend. Yes, so he basically did
the proposal of the wedding all once.
Speaker 2 (44:03):
Yes, he thought it was going to be very romantic
to just.
Speaker 1 (44:05):
To say, hey, guess what I want to marry you years.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
Yeah, it had been five years and they had talked
about marriage and all that stuff. They were not engaged.
Speaker 1 (44:13):
This guy's a genius.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
I think so too. I thought it was a very
romantic gesture to be like, she left this moment, now
let me marry you. So dark, So he says she overreacted,
spoiled a very beautiful moment, and she says marriage should
be a joint decision with open communication and shared experiences.
Both of their families agree with him, so like even
(44:36):
her family is taking his side.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
But hold on, my hold on. It's so over the top, beautiful,
romantic and like it's been five years. Clearly they've talked
about this before. And he goes and organizes everyone in
all the families to be there, and she leaves, proposal
marriage all in one. If she didn't want to get
married in that moment, it could have been an engagement party.
(44:58):
I see you, I.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Only she I don't think you leave like you even
like even if you have a gun in your stomach, like, man,
this is not really what I wanted. You just go
along with it, right, and you just you deal with
it at that point. But I don't think. I don't
think leaving was the right answer.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Commenters on Reddy of course.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
They're still together, by the way, even though she left, like,
they're still together, and one said like if he marries
you without having to ask you, what else is he
gonna do down the road? Like it's almost like maybe,
like he's so controlling.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
I didn't see it as controlling, and I saw it
as one would maybe to do this, and he kind
of made it very efficient and you could say, I'm
so happy, but we don't need let's make this an
engagement party. Could have been like different paths to this thing.
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Yeah, I see both sides. Like part of me like
I was so ready to get married when I married Michael,
and we had been together for five years by the
time we got married, and so if this would have
happened to me, I would have part of me would
have been bummed that I didn't get to plan my
own wedding because there was things that I wanted to pick.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
Shoo, this is the way to do it.
Speaker 2 (46:09):
But yes, but now looking back, fine.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No, even just the way to do it. What if
you and Michael were in on it and the friends
and family didn't know and they were surprised that may
be a better way to do it.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Well, who my Michael in this area.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
I'm not I'm saying, like Tanya, if let's just say,
you know, whoever and however was getting married, and you
both two of the whoever is both knew that there
was going to be a surprise wedding. That's kind of fun.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
Yeah, I don't hate the surprise wedding.
Speaker 5 (46:37):
I think what would bum me out is like even
like Robbie threw me a surprise birthday dinner one year
and it was so lovely and I loved it, and
I think he would do an amazing job if he
were to do this. But I feel like they always
forget certain people, you know what I mean, Like you
do need the combined effort of two minds so that
you make sure you don't leave people out.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm hoping that maybe he did have that man. Seemed
like family and friends were there, But I know what
you mean, like maybe there was like a dance teacher
that she would have wanted.
Speaker 3 (47:04):
There, like somebody that like maybe he just didn't know from.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
Her list or from her guest list that. Yeah, but
at the end of the day, it's like all done.
I do look at it. My gut reaction was, Wow,
what a romantic gesture like this, Like this is beautiful.
Go with it, you know, I pictured like I pictured,
like go into this bedroom and like the wedding dress
was hanging there. It's like put that on and like
here we go, it's your wedding.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
That's the movie I'm watching.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
Yeah, that's the movie that I was watching too. But
a lot of people on Red Air are like, no way, dude,
break up with him.
Speaker 5 (47:36):
Because if you don't have any say that would be
like really put yourself in that situation, that.
Speaker 1 (47:41):
Would It seemed like he was trying to do something
I think romantic. I don't think he's trying to control it.
But I like the idea of a hybrid. Both the couple,
the groom in the and the fiancees are in on
it and the whole families and friends are surprised. I
like that if you all get invitation to surprise party.
Speaker 3 (47:57):
Ah ah.
Speaker 1 (48:00):
A lot of games here on Kiss in the Morning.
You've got higher or lower? It's isn't your favorite?
Speaker 2 (48:05):
I do enjoy that match game.
Speaker 1 (48:08):
You've got match game?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
I love now their favorite.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
You've got You and Marianna go out with the guy
she met on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Oh is this a game?
Speaker 1 (48:15):
Play that one? Now? Well, it seems like it's I
don't know if it's a game, but it seems like
a recurrent theme. Butianna, how are you?
Speaker 2 (48:22):
And she does her song for her dating life. I'm
doing good?
Speaker 13 (48:27):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (48:28):
I'm doing well? So how would you frame up this
single life for you? Right now?
Speaker 2 (48:32):
I think it's going good?
Speaker 1 (48:34):
Like I can't.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
I don't have no complaints, no complaints.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
So are you? Are you dating a couple of people?
Speaker 13 (48:40):
I'm just going with the vibes, you know, like if
I meet someone and they're down to hang out and
they want to ask me out, like I'm up to it.
You know.
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Just just just think about this. I think we've been
down a couple of paths here recently with you, right, Yeah,
remember the guy who made her she like leave fast
Acts after thirty minutes? There was that guy.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
I Yeah, that guy, Sacha.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
You don't go to fast Ax and like now let's go.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
We're out right or any movie period.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
You sit through it. Okay, So Marion, what's the latest?
Speaker 13 (49:14):
So I was talking to this guy that I had
met this guy over like a year ago, but I
never really like talked to him on Instagram and he
was just dming me and stuff, and like I kind
of finally started talking back to him and he's like, oh, yeah,
I really want to see you, and like the other day,
well we exchanged phone numbers, and the other day we
were on the phone for like three hours, which is insane.
Speaker 1 (49:34):
Yeah, what do you do for three hours?
Speaker 2 (49:36):
Right, it doesn't happen in twenty twenty.
Speaker 3 (49:37):
Three, somebody.
Speaker 13 (49:39):
Yeah, Well, this is a whole new person, like I
have never I mean, usually I'll talk to people that
I've known from my past, and this is like a
whole brand new person.
Speaker 2 (49:47):
I don't know anything about him. Great, breaking your pattern.
How did you guys meet initially? Did you meet in person?
And then you so it's all Instagram? All Instagram, So
I'm like, never seen him. No, he pulled pictures, you know.
But this is how I met doctor w who and workout.
Speaker 5 (50:05):
But I mean, we're not together anymore. But it was
he was great. He was a good guy.
Speaker 2 (50:09):
He was a good guy.
Speaker 5 (50:11):
He wrong, No, he was not a bad guy. We
just had different You got it wrong.
Speaker 3 (50:17):
Yeah, we just weren't of a good fit.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Marianna. What is it about him to interest you to
keep you on the phone for three hours?
Speaker 13 (50:25):
Well, we were just both getting to know each other. Like, oh,
he's lived in he's from the East Coast, but he moved.
Speaker 2 (50:30):
He moved to La He's lived in Mexico.
Speaker 13 (50:32):
He's lived like in so many different places, and like,
I feel like we kind of got a connection and
like the things that we like, like the same music,
exploring food and stuff. And he's like, I really want
to hang out with you. So he's like, let's do
something this week and so and then he's like, I
know you get out of work early. I'm like, you
remember my schedule already.
Speaker 1 (50:54):
Guy's taking notes. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
So I'm like, I don't know if this is creepy
or talker.
Speaker 1 (51:00):
Hold on, there's like this fine line between creepy and thoughtful.
Speaker 5 (51:04):
Yeah, so true and being thoughtful, very fine line.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
It seems like we should know he's listening for once,
so we should play this out. Where would he take you?
Did he talk about it? Where would you guys go?
Speaker 13 (51:20):
He didn't say exactly where, but he said we'll grab
lunch and then like go to an art museum or
something like that, which I do love.
Speaker 1 (51:26):
That, you know, So I'm like lunch, he ghost our
museums or he just says that because that is a
cool thing.
Speaker 8 (51:32):
No, he does.
Speaker 2 (51:33):
He like, like we like the same things. And like
New York. Yeah, he's he's from New York.
Speaker 3 (51:38):
Keep it to one activity though for the first day.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
You don't want to know, Tanya. You should not give
dating advice to America.
Speaker 5 (51:46):
I'm sorry, Mario, he gave you the best advice thus far.
Speaker 3 (51:53):
Not be honest.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
Because of the d's going well, it's also nice to
have a couple of things on the you know, in
the agenda.
Speaker 5 (52:03):
If the date's going well, then you make a second date.
There's no if ands or butts about it.
Speaker 1 (52:07):
I'm gonna tell you I used to date, believe it
or not, And when a date went well, I remember
saying to one of the dates I was on, we
were clicking, we were vibing. We planned to have lunch,
and I said, what are you doing for the next
twenty four hours? And we did something for the next
one that's hot.
Speaker 2 (52:22):
Yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 5 (52:23):
If you're on the date and it's going really well,
to extend. But I'm saying, going into it, you want
to have an end and he's.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
Not going great, then she can make that excuse if
it's an and.
Speaker 5 (52:32):
So like they just go to lunch and if it's bad,
she just has to go through lunch and go on.
Speaker 1 (52:37):
Go to the museum. Man that's going to roll into it.
Speaker 2 (52:39):
After one date situation?
Speaker 1 (52:42):
What the good news is we have a potential opportunity
here to meet a guy who listens, who speaks on
the telephone, who has lived in several places.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
What's his Instagram?
Speaker 13 (52:54):
Like?
Speaker 3 (52:54):
What's his Instagram like?
Speaker 2 (52:55):
He's kind of very low key too, doesn't like that.
Speaker 1 (52:59):
Are there any photos of him with coconut oil on
his body? No?
Speaker 3 (53:03):
Okay, that's like beach photos.
Speaker 1 (53:05):
Would that be a bad thing? Yes, yes, it's a
bad time. It's definitely. What are our next steps here, Marianna.
Speaker 13 (53:15):
I'm gonna go for it and I'll just, you know,
turn my location on so you guys know where I'm
at exactly.
Speaker 1 (53:21):
All right, keep us posted. When are you gonna tell
me you're you're down?
Speaker 2 (53:25):
Probably tomorrow?
Speaker 1 (53:27):
Great? How about jump into it?
Speaker 2 (53:30):
Can call in?
Speaker 1 (53:32):
How are you doing? Eight oh six? All right? Thank you?
So fun?
Speaker 2 (53:38):
Isn't great?
Speaker 1 (53:39):
It's so fun? Off dates everybody here.
Speaker 3 (53:42):
Instagram is the best place to meet people.
Speaker 2 (53:47):
Again, it did not work out for you. I don't
understand what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (53:51):
Just because it didn't work out for me.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
It doesn't mean it's not a great place to meet people.
It's like a tool. It is a tool for the using.
It's a it's the oyster in the sea.
Speaker 2 (54:00):
What are the oysters?
Speaker 1 (54:02):
Tool? And see?
Speaker 3 (54:03):
But you know what I mean, Like, there's plenty of
fish in the sun.
Speaker 1 (54:05):
Tool.
Speaker 2 (54:10):
On Air with the Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Two types of people on Thursdays, those excited about the
weekend and those that stress out about not having their
plans yet. Which person are you.
Speaker 2 (54:25):
Excited about the weekend?
Speaker 1 (54:26):
I'm excited about the weekend. Yeah, got a hometown house.
So tomorrow Morning Hack. If you'll be traveling over the
next few weeks, the ingredients for a perfect vacation, I'll
tell you about that. Have it going, guys, Talk soon,
Kiss FM. Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
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