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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to Ryan.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Good Monday Morning, Monday. I know this is Tiny's favorite
day of the week, so she's celebrating.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I want you guys to think of Mondays differently. Actually,
Mondays are mid for me.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
No really, No, here's why. If I think of Monday differently,
Friday's less. Like I need money to be at a
certain decibel, so Friday's higher. Yeah, Mom builds up as
the week goes. Exactly. If there's no build, it's like
having too much sugar, right right, Like if you have
dessert every day, it's it. Doesn't you don't look forward
(00:43):
to it on Friday?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
I know?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
But then don't you love a reset Like I love
a reset. It's like my favorite thing. And I feel
like Monday is a reset.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
We have so much to do. Yeah, that's why I
don't see it as a reset. I see it as
the mountain.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Yes, yeah, check the checklist of things that we need
to get done, the need to get done for the week.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Yeah, it's a game.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
That's why we're all different.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Guys. Tanya say something, Well, I don't know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I think that mondays.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Are you staring at me?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Because Mondays are they set the tone for the week?
Or you if you have a bad Monday, you're gonna well,
let's say you have a good Monday, You're gonna have
a good week.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
So there's the positive reinforcement you need. Then there's the
realist in Sissy and I saying we got to climb
them ountain. But fine, all we're all in it together.
But he continues highs in the upper eighties, low hundreds inland.
It's hot a week. So just to set it out
this hour, I want to talk about this. If you
and your partner are starting to feel a little lack
of connection, maybe it's your Monday every day, then we'll
(01:42):
let you know something that might help that spark come
back immediately. We'll talk about that this hour. Okay, Ryan's
roses next hour. So she came home early from work
the other day. She found her with their bed stripped
and the blinds closed. What's the bed strip? WHOA what'd
you do in the bed? You had to strip the bed?
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Well, if they have kids, maybe one of the kids
came in the bed.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
And pete or threw up, or maybe or maybe he
had a fever and swept through the night.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Nope, nope, no noe.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Okay, are you saying note like you know or he doesn't?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I do? Oh I read some of the emails. Oh
so that's a seven forty six Nags magic mound tickets
every hour? First, how will your day shape up? Do
you follow your star sign? Sistany Tanya, let's go for it.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
All right, we're gonna kick it off with aries. Sometimes
saying nothing is saying at all.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Taurus, try to get to the green today. Gemini, try
meditating before you.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Go to bed.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Cancer, say hi to a stranger today.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Leo, seek deeper to get the answer you're looking for.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Virgo, listen to an old album for the nostalgia feelings today. Libra,
quit the cycle today, Scorpio. Positivity will get you through
the day, Sagittarius. Plan for something in twenty twenty five, Capricorn.
If you can't figure it out, dance it out, Aquarius.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Spiderwebs aren't built in a day, Pisces, try planting a
new sea today.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
All right, so good luck with accomplishing what you need
to today. You know, in a second, I also want
to get into I'm reading about all the new venues
named for the Olympics in Los Angeles. Very exciting. All
this is happening in our backyard. It may it'll be crowded,
but then afterwards there are some real benefits to the
stuff that will be happening here. So we'll get into
(03:28):
that first sysney. What do we miss while we were sleeping?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Well, Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as the front
runner for the Democratic nomination in the hours since President
Biden announced he would not seek reelection. The Democratic Convention
starts August nineteenth. In Chicago, a vegetation fire near Corona
and Lake Matthews has forced officials to give evacuation orders
(03:52):
to some residents.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
In the area.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
The fire is currently about four hundred and fifty acres
and twenty five percent contained. And Twisters opened number one
at the weekend box office with eighty point five million,
the year's third biggest opening after Inside Out two and
June Part two.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
And that's what happened overnight. Well, the Paris Olympics they
start this week. It's so wild, so many great memories
of the Olympics with you guys. I know, remember we
went to London, went to Rio Tubs, I don't know why.
It stands out to me that you had the most
fun in Rio. I can tell you why.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Why because he was single at the time and it
was during his birthday, so it was just like extra kind.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Of party vibes the tubs. I was single then, I
remember specifically, and I know why I remember.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Care to share.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Nice remember specifically, and I know why I remember tubs.
But you were single and you were that's when you
just discovered Tinder, right, Yeah, that was earlyubs days. Yeah,
but we're at the real Olympics. I'll never forget it.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
I mean, good on tubbs.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You're in Brazil. What I mean, that's what you're d
in Brazil.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
I mean, why wouldn't he It's Brazilian women.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Hello times, did you? Yeah? I don't talk about it
because you're engaged. Oh, it was all very like innocent.
Yeah yeah, yeah. You want a gold medal that year
for Tinder Tubs right now a wheel? Are you at
the Wheel of Fortune Studio? Yes? I am. How's it
going there? Uh, it's coming along a lot of that's
(05:33):
sound good. We're building the kiss M Studio the Wheel
of Fortune set. Yeah, that's pretty cool. Cool. I want
to spin that wheel. Well, I saw your video of
you spinning the wheel. Yeah, I was the first.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Is it heavy?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
It is? Yeah, I'd be the contestant if I were
to play, be the contestant where the wheel goes two wedges.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, I'll do it again, sir.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
A lot of cords to plug it, all right. So
I bring up the Olympics because I was just reading
four years from now Olympics here in l A. And
they're we're announcing what is going to take place where.
So the coliseum is going to have track and field,
which is historic because it did back in nineteen whatever
and whatever. Eighty four, the into a dome, gonna have basketball.
Nice Crypto dot Com arena is gonna handle the gymnastics
(06:18):
so cute. You know, when the Olympics came to Atlanta
when I was a kid, we all ranted to rent
out our houses for people because the hotels were full.
There wasn't enough like hotel rooms, so people were renting
out their houses. I'm not mad at that idea.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Maybe I will and then I'll just go move in
with my parents for those two weeks.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
You could probably get a good deal like price. Yeah,
there's two weeks of the games. But you know, a
lot of weeks a little bookend on the festivities, l
like con mentioned center, judo, table tennis, wrestling and all
that stuff. So these are the venues they announced. Dignity
Health Sports Park's gonna have rugby woo oh oh, and
(06:52):
you'll love this there' they're putting in a temporary pool
or maybe more than one, but they're doing the swimming.
Get this so far.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Fact that they're doing the swimming at so Far is
pretty major. They're gonna put Olympian sized pools in it.
It's like, you know, does the football field and then
Monster Jam and then like it's crazy how they move
everything out of there.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
And baseball will be at Dodger Stadium. Soccer's gonna be
at Rose Bowl not confirmed yet, but that's what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Skateboarding and BMX and the supple at a basin.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Well, we got fifteen hundred days from now.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I think, Oh my god, I love the countdown.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Olympics coming soon. Olympics start Friday in Paris. Up next.
If you and your partner have been together a long
time and there's a little LACKI lack, we have a spark.
Spark Sidney Michael been married for fifteen years. My parents
married fifty four years. They say it's normal from time
to time to feel a little disconnect. Maybe this is
happening to you, but I was reading that. Experts say
if you do this, you'll feel that spark all over again,
(07:49):
and that is rewatch your wedding video.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Oh you know what?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
This is so true? Does that help rewatch your wedding video.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
It's not going to I mean if you're lacking a
spark or whatever. But the memories that it brings back
to watch it, Mike, when I watch it every anniversary,
and it is it's so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Well, I think it's a great idea, So try it
a few.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
That is not what I expected it to be.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Honestly, No, it's a good one. It's easy. Yeah, all right.
Your quote this Monday, the six best doctors. They are sunshine, water, rest, air, exercise,
and eating. Well.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I mean so true.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I love that best doctors. That is a good one.
I'm glad you'd like it. I'm here to please believe
me acceptance validation. This FM headlines with siciny well.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Vice President Kamala Harris has emerged as a front runner
for the Democratic nomination in the hour since President Biden
announced he would not seek re election. The Democratic Convention
starts August nineteenth in Chicago. Ella County public health officials
have issued an ocean water closure near Baiona Creek after
nearly fifteen thousand gallons of untreated sewage spilled over the weekend.
(08:56):
Fourteen thousand Disneyland workers voted overwhelmingly to the rise a strike.
Negotiations between the unions and the theme park are set
to take place both today and tomorrow. And a three
point five magnitude earthquake was reported in the South Bay
at three nine yesterday afternoon. The epicenter was just off
the coast, about four and a half miles west of
palas Vera's estates on air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Well, Rachel's on the phone. Good morning, Rachel, how you doing.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
Hi, I'm good things.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
I wanted to take your call because I just was.
I get a call screen of all the lines and
I can see it, says Rachel. I saw my boss
watching something in a photo he sent me. So, your
your boss sent you a photo, but in the background
you saw him watching provocative videos.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Was it a still shot?
Speaker 6 (09:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (09:50):
It was a picture of my invoice because I worked
from home, and so I asked him if he could
send me a picture of it, and he was holding
it in front of his computer.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Oh and his can you ever had adult things on it? Uh? Huh?
And ouch? Oops? Did you tell him yet that you
saw it?
Speaker 5 (10:07):
So weird.
Speaker 7 (10:09):
I don't know what to do. I waited a couple
of minutes to respond, and he must have finally realized
that it was in the background, and so we un
sent the picture and then resent it without anything in
the background.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles,
the things that whatever's in your background, Like, take a look,
I mean, chicks happened.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
This is not a mistake. Not the fact that he's
watching dirty videos at work is not a mistake.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Like wit was he at home or work? I was
picturing it at home after hours? Okay?
Speaker 5 (10:51):
This is like during work hours.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Well, Rachel is like what kind of project you're working on?
Speaker 5 (10:57):
And whatever?
Speaker 2 (10:57):
We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking. Okay,
maybe he's mistake still happened, so but inappropriate at work completely? Yeah,
Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully.
What do we do. Do you go to h R like,
what do you want to do?
Speaker 7 (11:13):
I don't know? He he really like I haven't even responded.
Do I say things and act like I didn't see that?
Speaker 6 (11:20):
He unset?
Speaker 2 (11:21):
I think you don't respond erase it and let's just
move on. Oh right, it's not great.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again,
it's just like this is too much.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and
this is not maybe good advice, but I would just
like move on.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
But like, how uncomfortable now?
Speaker 2 (11:43):
But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's
on that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's
all bad on him, but it is your boss. Oh
I feel hunger pangs.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
Do you still have the original picture?
Speaker 6 (11:56):
I didn't screenshot it now, but.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
You should check your computer because sometimes when you unsend,
it still goes to your other right and it.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Goes to other devices. Okay, check that, and so check it.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Keep it as evidence because if you ever tried to
pull something fishy down that road to try to like
fire you or do something weird because he's uncomfortable, then
you have evidence.
Speaker 7 (12:18):
Okay, interesting, I like that idea.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
Thank you you've been watching your honor?
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Yeah, court of law.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah, good luck. I'm not messing around with her following
the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank you very much.
I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk
about him. If she's not, move on. Oh so listen
to this. There's somebody posted. There's the one that posted
and interactions she had with a guy that she met
on a dating app. Right, they're chatting. He asked her
out to dinner. She was into it, and then he
(12:48):
said this, shall we have a short walk before the
food to see how we feel?
Speaker 5 (12:54):
To see how we feel? Yeah, to see how we feel?
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Part kind of lingers at me. The part that strikes
me badly too, is he like auditioning? Is he gonna
go like see if they do we feel good with
each other before we go on the dinner date.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
But I don't mind the walk before.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
That's kind of cute.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
No, it's so annoying.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Why why because you're getting ready?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on
my heels. I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Like intersting. You say that because I have been asked
before in my past. Are we walking anywhere before or
after because I need to know about my shoes? Or
can we not walk before after? Because any you know
about my shoes?
Speaker 4 (13:34):
Right?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
If you want to go on a walk with me,
then it's going to walk.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
If you want to take me to dinner or take
me to dinner, but don't walk with me before, Oh
my gosh, go with.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
The flow, wear with the walking shoes, and then bring
your heels for dinner.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Like what big deal? Where are you going to carry
your shoes?
Speaker 7 (13:47):
Right?
Speaker 5 (13:48):
Leave him in his car? I don't know, it's not
that big of a deal.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
What if you take a ride share?
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Right then you wear you don't wear heels for the date? Like,
it's not a big deal.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
I agree, I change. I change, just you know, Tony,
I change my transit pattern based on shoes. I'm not
fighting that, Like if you want to put on shoes,
does that we don't walk?
Speaker 1 (14:07):
But I'm you're already giving signs of high maintenance and
you don't go with the flow, and so Jordan, I'm
not saying. I'm saying, if one.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Does this dating, yeah, not so fun, is it? I
like walking after? If it's a walkable blocker straight after
you have something. But I fully defer to shoe comfort
and whatever. If you want vanity shoe ors comfort you,
I'm fine.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
And also, like sitting jeans or standing jeans, tell me
about that.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
You know those genes that are like you have jeans
that you can only stand in. Yeah, like they're super
it's because it snatches your waist. So those the genes
that you can stand and they snatch your waist. But
when you sit down, it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah,
Like there's sometimes that just doesn't give. And those are
my standing only right, like if I'm going to a concert, yeah,
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standing only jeans because I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
Both of you. Thank you for these teachable moments because
I had no idea about that. Honest.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
That's the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
This is teachable. It's time for Ryan's roses. Kiss I
fab Ario, thank you for reaching out. I want to
go right to it. We've been waiting to get you
on the line all morning. So you come on from work.
Your bed is all stripped, the blinds are closed, right,
the bed stripped from all the sheets, everything's off the bed,
and you think, wow, this is odd. Looks like the
(15:29):
scene of something and you address it with your husband
and he says what.
Speaker 8 (15:35):
He says, that one of our cats puked on the bed.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
Now, why don't you don't believe him?
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Why?
Speaker 6 (15:42):
Right?
Speaker 8 (15:43):
I just you know, none of it made sense, like
all the evidence, basically, like it was just one of
those great days for me where everything went faster than
expected and I made it home early. I basically got
home around like three thirty instead of my usual time,
which is right around I'm six, and my husband worked
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from home, and I texted him saying that I was
on my way, but I didn't think that he got
or I don't know, he never responded. So I got
home and I basically found the beds tripped and the
blinds were closed, which I never closed the blinds, And
I asked him what happened, and he just very quickly said, oh, missy,
(16:27):
or one of our cats got sick on the bed
and so I stripped the bed and I washed them
or whatever, And I just.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Well, why don't you believe him? Why why does he
even is there something that you've always thought about concerned?
Speaker 8 (16:42):
Well, not really not in that sense, more so just
of the scenario, like mixty. Our cat rarely goes in
our bedroom. I mean rarely, and you would think that, like, okay,
if the cat got sick, there'd be some sort of evidence.
You'd see something in the trash or like towels or something.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
There was no.
Speaker 6 (17:01):
Evidence of her getting sick.
Speaker 8 (17:03):
And I couldn't smell anything, I mean nothing, right, So
I asked him why that blinds were closed too, and
he just said, oh.
Speaker 6 (17:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (17:14):
And I was like, okat, you mean it on and
he's like, oh, well, I raised them, you know. When
I was cleaning up the mess. I'm like, wait, what,
It's just none of it is making sense, and I'm
afraid that he took a terrible war. And I'm just
getting it in my head that something else is going on.
Speaker 6 (17:30):
In the bad.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
How long have you been married?
Speaker 8 (17:32):
Real quick, we've been married for your ears three.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
He doubts her husband doesn't believe him. Let's get into
the next Ryan's roses. Well, it's time for Ryan's roses.
So I don't want to judge before we do it,
but I think that he's lying. She comes home from work,
he's working from home, married, right, all of a sudden,
she goes in the bedroom. The bed is stripped, the
blinds are closed, like there was something going on there.
(18:00):
He says, one of the cats puked on the bed. Mitzi.
Mitzi was Mitzi the cat. It's a cat's name, something
like that, Right, Ariel, You're going to call your husband
and see what we can find out, just quickly, generally speaking,
as the marriage been solid otherwise, because you're casting a
lot of doubt.
Speaker 8 (18:19):
Honestly, no, it hasn't been great. We got married in
twenty twenty one, so it's still pandemic time. And I've
just always had the feeling that his family has never
liked me. I thought that they would eventually come around,
but I really don't think they have. And now we're
at a point where you know, I'm I want to
take her, I want to start a family with him,
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I want to start having kids. And he's coming and hawing,
and I'm afraid he's just even completely changed his mind.
And honestly, it just hasn't been It hasn't been wonderful.
I'm afraid to say this.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Is important, this is important. We're going to call him
right now. I need you to say, Ryan, you have
my permission to call, and then his name.
Speaker 6 (18:57):
Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
We're doing it right now. Be very quiet. Let's see
what we can find out. Who is this?
Speaker 6 (19:20):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Is this Derek?
Speaker 2 (19:24):
Yes, Hi Derek.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
My name is Wendy. I'm calling from Burbank Blooms. How
are you doing this morning?
Speaker 6 (19:32):
How did you get this number?
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (19:34):
So you're in our database or a flower shop here
on Magnolia and are offering a promotion. It's a free
dozen red roses that you can send to anybody that
you'd like today.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
How do I get off this list? Oh?
Speaker 1 (19:46):
Well, it's free roses that you can send to anybody
that you'd like. I don't need cash from you or
anything like that.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Look, I don't appreciate calls from telemarketers. I'm on the
do not Call list, but that does nothing. I get
these calls every day. It's driving me crazy.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I'm not a telemarketer. I just own very a local
flower shop here in Burbank, and we do this promotion
about once a month.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
It's free roses. I don't need cash from you or
any info from you.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Truly.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
We just hope that if you like our arrangements, you
come back as a customer one day or FIRS to
friends and family. I apologize for intruding with It's just.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Something that we do, Okay.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
I would just need the name of the person you
want to send them to and a note, and then
we can deliver them by lunchtime today if that's convenient
for you, or a different day or time.
Speaker 6 (20:43):
Okay, cool, send them to send them to my wives.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Okay, say with love from no Wait nice, say you
dare nice. Say you're on the air with us right now.
I need you to stay on please. It's a nice
save right there. You're sending your flowers to your wife,
but you're hesitating. By the way, my name is Ryan.
You're on the air with us right now. We have
your wife on the phone, so I want to we
(21:14):
know something here. Your wife reached out to us to
step in for a second. It's a public service, and
so it's not to me and I reason I want
to jump in now is because you're hesitating about sending
flowers to your wife. We were told, Derek that you
were by yourself. Your wife came home early and the
bed was stripped from everything, the blinds were closed. Your
(21:35):
wife has real doubt in your relationship is he there?
Are you there? No, he's gone there. What is it
you hung up?
Speaker 3 (21:43):
Yeah, you're talking Aerl hang up.
Speaker 6 (21:48):
I'm so confused.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I hold on for a second. Is he not there?
He's not Derek. How long is it going on without
him on the phone? Good? Yeah, seconds for a while.
Speaker 6 (22:01):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Up.
Speaker 5 (22:03):
No, you don't need to apologize.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
Hold on, I'm going to tell you something, Ariel. I'm
very convinced. Well, he was hesitating to send you roses,
meaning he was about to send them to someone else.
So I really think he was covering up for something.
I do believe that that's what I heard.
Speaker 8 (22:18):
Yeah, and I know him like that's not a confident
that it should not have been a question mark and
that was essentially a question really struggled.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I think that was very telling.
Speaker 6 (22:31):
Oh, very telling.
Speaker 8 (22:33):
I'm just I wish I could have gotten more out
of him. I really didn't think he would just hang
up like that. And now I know how to handle
it when I get home.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Hold on for say, we can't pretend to know what's
going on in your relationship or what you should do.
But I, along with Sisney Tania, we heard you say
you have a lot of doubt. And you don't have
a good feeling in your marriage already right now, and
if something is going on, you need to think about that,
and also like what is best for you? What is
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you don't sound happy, what is going to make you happy?
And there may be challenges. I don't know what they are,
but if you're unhappy, you should really take a step
back and think about it. And maybe this is the
straw that breaks the camel's back. But it's not worth
being unhappy for the rest of your life if you're
not in a good marriage, Areel, You're right, I mean
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your marriage. You can also fix your marriage. I don't
want to choose a path for you, but I could
tell before we made the call it's not right.
Speaker 6 (23:37):
It's not I know it needs to change.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Good luck to you. Thank you for reaching out. I
hope you get to a place of peace and happiness.
Thank you, Ariel. Don't you agree?
Speaker 5 (23:49):
I agree with you.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
I feel like I could have gotten a little more
out of him without you interjecting.
Speaker 5 (23:54):
Yeah, you jumped.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Too fast. It's not talking about hesitating that. Look, there
was so.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Much more info we could have gotten from what.
Speaker 3 (24:04):
And Sisty could have asked him what type of flowers
you want? Romantic red roses or what?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
He hung up?
Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yeah, he hung up when he heard that he was
on the es.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Oh so I made him wong up? You Yeah you did.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
I blame you.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
But we don't need to blame anybody.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
You guys, sorry, but we could have gotten more.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
Okay, Well, casting blame this morning, aren't we. So I
just want to say, I don't know when the right
time is to jump into the Ryan's roses call and
tell whoever's on the line that they're on the air.
I'm just going with it.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Preferably after they we do the note, find out what
they're going to write.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
So just to recap, see if he wrote love.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Oh my gosh, I didn't even see if he wrote love. Love.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
The guy was hesitating to send flowers to his wife.
Flag Flag Flag, So Ariel and Derek married. She thinks
he's lying about the fact that the bed was stripped
and the curtains were closed when she walked in early
from work. Right, he lied and said it? Well, I
think he did and said it was the cat that puked.
I don't believe it, But the point is, she said,
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going in, she's got real problems with the relationship. The
marriage doesn't feel like anybody's in it anymore, like already,
it doesn't even matter what happened there. She's sort of
in a place of feeling alone in a marriage, and
so you need to fix that part too, or she
needs to move on. But you two, Sisany and Tanya.
I jumped in because the guy hesitated to send flowers
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to his wife.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
And maybe he was hesitating about what he was going
to write on the car.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
About somebody else. No, but I know when someone was
thinking about something else, he was thinking about another name.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
No, you don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
He tried to cover it up by using his wife's name.
I do know. I've watched a lot of these shows
on TV.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
And no, now we'll never know because you jumped in.
Even Ariel at the end was saying, I wish I
would have gotten more out of that.
Speaker 2 (26:03):
Christine, you don't feel the same, but you tell them
exactly what happened.
Speaker 4 (26:07):
I think she's stuck in a relationship with no trust.
I mean, yeah, stirping the bed. I don't even know
if he knows how to do that well. I just
think the whole thing's bizarre. Between the shade thinks such
shut tight sounds like there's zero trust, and there is
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the whole kids thing. They don't have kids. After three years,
she doesn't trust anything about him, and then walking into
the situation, I don't know. I don't trust him either.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
So this is a blessing, real bizarre. This is a
blessing because now she's got real tangent reason to figure
it out or move on.
Speaker 5 (26:48):
We could have gotten more out of him.
Speaker 4 (26:50):
I think so too. He jumped in so quick.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I did not jump in, Christine, in no, Gabriel, how
you did trying to help.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
You were like a puppy with like a milk bone
dangling in front of his face, and you were like
just waiting to interject there.
Speaker 5 (27:10):
Yeah, like when have you ever interrupted the note?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Like you've never? Because the guy was hesitating too much
and I knew he was covering something up. I needed
to get to him. You can't. You can't second guess
one's gut.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
Well in this instance, yeah, Christine, thank you for listening.
Thank you, Christine.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
I don't show trying to be perfect.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
No one's perfect.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
It's perfect, right, Well they have it. That was imperfect,
all right?
Speaker 5 (27:37):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (27:38):
We all make mistakes I wasn't a mistake. I say
it was a mistake. This was imperfect mistake. I said,
I was imperfect.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Do you want to have an interesting fact I've learned
the other name?
Speaker 2 (27:48):
I mean a scale of out of ten. No, I
think we're out of time. I'm like tired, tired physically
from that. It's quick.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
Do you know that the percentage of marriages that end
in divorce within the first five years?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
No, you want to guess half?
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Twenty twenty percent?
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Okay, and why do you have that fact floating through
your nose?
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Well, because they're married for three years, so they might
now be in that percentage.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
Do you know how many end ever? Anyway? Half?
Speaker 1 (28:21):
So now that that change, Yeah, it changed. Yeah, yeah,
you got to update your backs.
Speaker 5 (28:27):
Yeah, you can say the.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Same fact for the last of the fact years.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
Monday, Thursday. Guess that, fab Hold on, let's come back.
I'm physically exhausted from it. Yeah, it's going down of
all marriages.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Of all first marriages end in divorce.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Yeah, check tomorrow. Well. Yeah, there was a big presidential
race news yesterday everywhere.
Speaker 5 (28:55):
Quite the shakeup.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Quite the shakeup. I mean, we've never seen this before
in our life. Lifetime. No, So that happened. And you
know what something like that happens when a big story
like that happens. I just I sit there and I
watched the news for hours the same they repeat the
same thing. But I just I just keep watching. I
love a special report.
Speaker 5 (29:16):
I know what you mean, but I do the opposite.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
I'm on, I'm online, and so I'm article after article
after article, and there's different takes and there's different views.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Well, when they say an ABC News special report sucks me,
it sucks me in there. So yeah, Biden dropped out
and that happened. But you know the other story that
is really interesting. The city of La settled a lawsuit
this about street vendors in La. Now you see them
in certain places, but they were not allowed to set
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up in other places in the city. If they did,
they were risking getting a citation, getting ticketed. That's right.
So I guess they settled a lawsuit over the weekend
brought by street vendors, saying that all the cities no
vending zones violated the law. So basically, vendors were not
allowed to sell food near check this out, schools, farmers' markets,
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swap meets, or temporary events which kept a lot of
vendors away from the high traffic areas. So I think
this is a great win. This is a big score.
It's good for the vendors, that's your job, and it's
good for us to be able to stroll up to
some of these places and get what we want when
we leave, you know, an event.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
More opportunities for us to grab on an elote or
a paletereo man all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (30:30):
What is your face do you have of those your favorites?
Speaker 1 (30:33):
Like, what is your favor I'm a sucker for a
good alte or escithe this something like that.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I'm a sucker for a good smell of grilled onions
anything that's anything anybody that's grilling onions, right, I want
grilled onions.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
The bacon wrapped hot dogs after a Charger game at
Sofi Stadium.
Speaker 5 (30:52):
That yeah, you're.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
Right, that gets you. So every time you've got Ernie
from Munchie Dogs and Redondo, shout out to Earth and
Lolos Filipino Barbecue, glass El Park. But street food street
vendors can be some of the best food in any city.
I mean when you travel around, if you travel at
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broad go to different cities. It's kind of all about
eating the street foods.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
Yeah, you think about New York, I feel like there's
one in every corner.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Well, the smell for me, the smell of the street
vendors in New York are better than me wanting to
eat some of this stuff I see.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Yeah, Ok, people don't eat it.
Speaker 5 (31:35):
Actually, you just smell it.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
People do eat. I don't eat so much of that,
but I do smell it. But I love a grilled
anything grilled with onions like that. Tommy, you got a
favorite hot dogs? You can't go wrong with a hot dog,
any hot dogs. Yeah, eight hundred and five to one
to two seven here Texas to four one of two seven.
Give a shout out to your favorite let's give them
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some love. Yeah, favorite local street vendor. And to those
of you who do that for a living, congratulations on
that big win here in La. All right, coming up,
it is a chance for you to get six flags
Magic Mountain tickets on this beautiful day. I love kiss
music first thing in the morning. That's right on a Monday,
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Tanya's favorite day. Tell you so you just seem so
ecstatic about today? You really don't, but you do. Tell
us that this is your favorite day. I do love
Monday and what's gone well for you so far.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
It's just a fresh.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
Start to the new week. That's the whole thing. It's
like a reset every single week.
Speaker 5 (32:39):
It's like, that's it.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Cisity. And I think Friday's are favorite days because on
or Thursdays, you have Thursdays, you have Friday.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
I think I chose Saturday Saturday, okay, because what I
do on Monday is I look to see how much
I have to do before Friday.
Speaker 3 (32:56):
I know, But if you're really honest with yourself, aren't
you tired on Friday?
Speaker 2 (33:01):
I'm excited. On Friday, No, I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
And then Saturdays like the first day I really slept
in Saturday.
Speaker 5 (33:07):
Saturday is a very cool day. That's like a whole
vacation in one day.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
Anyway, I say this to say to you, if Monday
is your favorite day, this is your day. Yeah all right,
this is crazy. So you could be out in the
wild and this might seem innocent and actually like a
good thing, but it's dangerous. Sistani people are hugging strangers
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and robbing them.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah, what would you do if a random woman came
up to you asking you for a hug.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
I would think, Wow, I look good today.
Speaker 5 (33:39):
I mean maybe right?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
Whatever I did to my hair, whatever I'm wearing, I
should wear this again?
Speaker 6 (33:43):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
Well, two people have been arrested in connection with an
attempted robbery in Orange County, and authorities are warning now
so Cow residents to be vigilant of approaching strangers who
appear to want a hug because one incident. In this case,
a mail driver parked his vehicle right in his front
driveway and out of nowhere, a woman came up, arms
wide open, asking him for a hug the minute he
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got out of the car.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
But does she pretend to know him? Because I might
fall for that.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
The details are there, I don't have.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
But what she's trying to do is she's trying to
She's trying to rob his gold chain around his neck,
which I don't even know.
Speaker 2 (34:18):
How do you do that? How can you be that
quick with the hand these pickpocketers, how can they get
into a tight pocket and out with your wallet?
Speaker 1 (34:27):
Well, she apparently had done it many times, and she
was working with somebody else because when they searched their
vehicle they found fifty plus different chains of pieces of
jewelry things like that, and so this wasn't the first
time that they were attempting to do that.
Speaker 2 (34:42):
So I am a hugger. If I do, like walk
up to your van and try and hug you, I'm
not going for your necklace. I do like to hug.
But the thing is, I'm also a sucker for a hugger.
So if she were to come up to me in
a parking deck with her arms wide open, I might
think I know her, and then I would also think
I'm very rude to not hug back and reciprocate.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
Yeah, I know what you mean. I think I would
hug back too. I would be like, Hi.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
Yeah. The thing is, like, I'm less afraid of that
than sometimes when people stop me to ask me a question,
which I think they may be distracting me because somebody's
going to do something around me. Question Tanya. It is
a difficult world.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Yeah, I know what you mean, tough out there to Yeah,
Michael thinks like this, He's like, don't trust anybody.
Speaker 2 (35:34):
Don't just anybody. They're they're distracting you because they're stealing
your car.
Speaker 5 (35:38):
Totally. I'm just like, what do you mean? Look at
that is nice?
Speaker 2 (35:42):
So be aware of where where has the world come?
Be afraid of huggers? Oh my gosh, hey, what would
you do, MICHAELA If we're talking about that that there's
a thing going around now if strangers walk up to
you and try and hug you, they may be trying
to steal your jewelry. Now, would you be afraid of
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a stranger hugger?
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Or it depends. If someone came up to me and
gave me a hug, I feel like it would be
rude not to.
Speaker 5 (36:10):
I'd be like, oh, this is a little weird, but
I probably still would.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
And by the way, when you're single, you kind of
looking for arms went open, right, I mean I'm like,
that's that's very sweet and I needed that because it's
been a while.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
But to remove your chain, I feel like that's not
quite the move. Is the move like, oh my gosh,
my bracelet stuck on you?
Speaker 5 (36:32):
Like, oh, I'm so sorry. Let me just and then
you run for it.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
I wear a chain some with some shirts or silver chain,
but it takes me about five minutes to hook the latch. Well, no,
they would not cook it. They would just lift it
over your neck. No, you wouldn't notice them lifting it
over your neck.
Speaker 6 (36:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
I mean, Tommy, I don't think you'd be a good
hugging thief more. You can't just lift it over your head.
They can't just unhook it. That's what they do. That's
there were quick with the slide of the hand.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
I think the move is that they act like they
got caught on you, and then then you're trying to like,
you know, disengage, and then all of a sudden they
get it and they run for it.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
I'm just saying I couldn't be that person. It Literally
the day I don't have my chain on, it's because
I spent five minutes before I had to leave the
house couldn't get it over.
Speaker 5 (37:17):
That's how I am with bracelets.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Sometimes I forget it all right, let's get to this
trending report, Tanya Okay.
Speaker 3 (37:24):
So, Nick Jonas posted a really sweet tribute on Instagram
over the weekend.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
It was a picture and he said, I asked the.
Speaker 3 (37:30):
Most amazing woman in the world to marry me six
years ago today, thank you for saying yes, Prianca Chopra,
and so obviously Nick and Prianka they are married now.
So it got me thinking about anniversaries. Yeah, when you're dating,
do you celebrate the day that you met or do
you celebrate the day that you became officially officially a couple.
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When you get engaged, do you celebrate your engagement day?
Do you forget about your dating anniversary? And then when
you get married, do you forget about all the dating
stuff and just celebrate your wedding anniversary?
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Well, I mean for me, it's always a gray area.
Where and when did we meet? Where? How what? When?
When was it exactly? So it's not that uh and
when we officially started dating. I usually generally don't forget,
and I have been reminded in the past at the
end of an anniversary day, you know what today is? Oh,
that's so messed up. What's today? It's our for it's
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our anniversary? Oh, I mean, I I'm not great at
at those in the dating world. What about getting engaged?
Is that the celebratory moment? Like? What about you? Well,
that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (38:36):
So Nick Jonas and Prionca are married, but he celebrated
the day that he proposed to his wife.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
So I was like, what will you do?
Speaker 1 (38:43):
I think we'll.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
Celebrate our engagement anniversary instead of our dating anniversary this year.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Yeah, yeah, right, because I guess.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
That just goes out the window.
Speaker 3 (38:51):
And then after you get married, we'll celebrate the wedding
anniversary and that's it.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
Well, cistany you've done all of these things, how do
you celebrate just your wedding anniversary?
Speaker 1 (39:01):
I mean you have too many dates at that point
when you get older too, like your kids birthdays and
then all these other I just you're the wedding anniversary
is all you really need. We I think about the
day that we like are dating one every now and
that it's May sixteenth, but you really.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
She's got ready, No, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
I forget that day, but we don't celebrate it. We
have three other birthdays that month. Like it's there's no way,
there's no there's no reason to.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Yeah. I don't know if it's a dude thing or
it's just a me thing. But the dates I can't remember.
I can't remember what we did, but not the day
we did it. That's the way my brain works.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
Yeah, but that's so dark that she reminded you after
the day.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
I remember I was after the day, like at the end.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
Of the day, right right, right, I.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
Bet no one was mad, But I do forget because
I'm not great on the birthday, anniversary calendar stuff. Anyway,
I would definitely hug Nick Jonas and leave his necklace
on the congratulate. They do seem like a great couple.
Every time I hear about them or see them, they
seem super happy. Yeah, so I told you guys, marriages
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can be good. All right, coming up, That's not what
you say. I always say that. I say sometimes they
work out. My vocal cords are tired from the Ryan's Roses.
You know, you push, you push. Susanian thought that I
jumped in too early on the Ryan's Roses call.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
We thought it, our listeners thought it, Yeah, so you
can be the jodh on are Ryan seacrests.
Speaker 5 (40:34):
The people thought it.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Take a listen to podcast and you let us know.
I think it was the right time because he was
trying to deflect. He was actually about to send the
roses to another woman. I wanted to get him before
he recognized it was Uselessney, So I say.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
Bonny Sandwich. It was so jarring when you jumped in that.
I looked at Mark.
Speaker 5 (40:53):
I was like, what what do we do?
Speaker 3 (40:54):
Like?
Speaker 2 (40:55):
You never attention? He was about to recognize your voice
listening and I.
Speaker 5 (41:00):
No, he was not.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
What's not at all? You know what?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
Whatever makes you feel better is fine.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
I'm not trying to feel better, but you can because you're.
Speaker 5 (41:09):
Upset that you made a mistake and I'm zero says this.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Is me on upset. Uh huh okay, not upset, look
at me? No thanks mole Uh anyway, check it out
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