Here Are 3 Phrases Happy Couples Never Say to Each Other

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well it is one or two point seven kiss FM.
All right, just Tanya in Happy Couple Relationships here, And
I was reading about this, and when I read about
stuff like this, I think, I wonder if they do this.
So marriage experts are saying that couples should never use
these three phrases. What if any of y'all use these
three phrases? Okay, one, I'm sorry you feel that way.

(00:26):
Oh yeah, I said that for yeah, kind of placing.
It's kind of placing, it's kind of it is condescending.
I'm sorry you feel that way. That's so nice. Like,
I'm so sorry you feel that way. I guess it's
not nice. It's not nice, and they made your selection
if you say it like that, like, I'm so sorry
feel that way. An apology, I'm sorry you feel that way. Well,

(00:46):
no one talks like that. Well maybe that they might,
but it's being stubborn, Tanya. It is. It's like it's
followed by butt. I'm doing it anyway. I kind of
slap in the facey. That's one. Interesting. Another one, don't
ever say this to stay happy. It's not worth getting
upset about. I do like that one. I feel like
I can totally picture you saying that. But the point is, yeah,

(01:07):
because let's move on. It's not worth getting show. Literally
choose your pick your battles, because it's like, you know,
I guess I see the downside to that, because you're
telling somebody that what they feel isn't important for being upset. Right. Yeah,
and this one. I can't stand this one. And when
I hear it, I take total personal offense and I

(01:31):
take a deep breath and I say, please don't say that.
I know what it is. What is it? Calm down?
That's it? Is it? Really? Yes, yes, anybody like hearing
calm down. But I say to my kids all the time,
all fine, you're in charge, But in a relationship, calm
down is the worst. Like you could say, things start

(01:54):
with an F to me, Calm down, really, calm down,
calm down? No you Today's quote some days are better
than others, and today is not one of them. Well,
I just thought it'd be fun, you know, after coming
out of calm down. Some days are better than others. Tuesday,

(02:20):
you know, it's cynical Tuesdays