Here's a Tip to Help You Relax When You Meet New People

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So how are you at meeting new people. It's interesting.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
In a random circumstance, I'm pretty comfortable with it. Like
I love to talk to an uber driver, I love
to talk to a server. I love to talk to
you know, if I'm waiting in line tomorrow, I'll talk
to somebody i'm waiting in line with. But in a
small room of people that we might know, I'm not
as comfortable.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
It's weird. I'm more comfortable talking to a stranger than
people that could know.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
Somehow, I'm kind of the same way. I have a
little bit of anxiety sometimes in a room like that. Yes,
if I go to a party, I'm not comfortable. Look,
I wouldn't know who to go up to. If I
got imuted to party, I don't know anybody. Like We're
going to a wedding this weekend and I only know
like the bride.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
And I run out of stuff. But with a stranger,
I don't know, I'm much more comfortable. It's very strange.
But if you get nervous, do you even remember their names?
Are you bad with the small talk? There's a tip
that I wanted to share. They say makes you more relaxed.
You try to notice their eye color. Humm, try to
notice their eye color.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
They say.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Eye content puts people at ease and makes them feel
a connection with you. I find it totally uncomfortable to
look at somebody in the eye. Just started talking to him.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
I don't know interesting.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
I don't look in the eye for a long time.
I look around when I think, I look around when
I talk. Might saying it's good. I'm just saying it
comforts me a little more. But I'm doing it wrong.
Look in the eye and try and notice their eye color.
Today's quote that we're focused on. Sometimes people pretend you're
a bad person so they don't feel guilty about the

(01:32):
things they did to you.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Wow, it's so true. Do I have time. I don't.
It's