Can You Ever 'Train' Your Partner? Tanya's Fiancé Has This Bad Habit

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Miguel's your thing.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Before seven o'clock we can talk about our partners, well,
you guys can and is his neat? Yes, you're not
going to pick on Michael this morning, Tanya, you're not
going to pick on Robbie this morning.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
But you're going to share something.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yes, did he die?

Speaker 3 (00:16):
I'm don asking for advice at guidance? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Okay, so your fiance soon to be husband, we now
have a date?

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Does something that I know I don't like the word
of noy a pet peeve of your yes?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yes, okay, what is it?

Speaker 3 (00:31):
So?

Speaker 4 (00:31):
I love him so much, really truly to me, he's
not a perfect person, but to me he's perfect.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Does that make sense?

Speaker 1 (00:38):
Yes? And now tell us what he does wrong?

Speaker 2 (00:40):
He?

Speaker 4 (00:41):
I don't know what it is, but he will leave
a pair of shoes anywhere in our room, aside from
the space in the closet that is meant for his shoes.
So I am now to the point where I'm taking
pictures of every said shoe at different corners.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Honey, welcome to marry in our bedroom.

Speaker 4 (01:00):
There's some there not in the closet. There's some there
not in the closet.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
Wait, what are those little hello, kiddy ones.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Oh oh, those are his crocs we put he puts
like funny little Those are like his house shoes.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Okay, they're very pretty.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yeah they're bright with like fung gibbits. Another pair of
shoes just out.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh I have those shoes, and yeah, his running shoes
just out. I mean, they're just okay. Not about the shoes,
it's the fact that.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
They're all I kick mine off with my like from
my shit, my heels like I kick mine off, and
I do leave in thresholds, do leave around, but they
annoy me because I know that when I'm gonna get
up pee in the middle of the night, I'm a
trip over them.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
So I end up putting them away because of that.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
So that's the issue for me when I wake up
in the morning it's dark and I trip over them
going to the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Not him, But the.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
One thing I do leave all tangled up and bunched
up on the floor of the bathroom are my panties
and my workout clothes.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Oh and in the position.

Speaker 1 (01:55):
I don't pull them apart.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
It's as if you stepped out of them.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Yeah, he just stepped right out of that. And I
leave him by the sink on the floor.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Michael does the same thing.

Speaker 5 (02:04):
He leaves him right by the bathtub or right on
the floor, right where the scale is.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Because you can see what he did.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
He took off all his clothes to weigh himself, killed
him apart.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
I keep them all tangled up.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
How do you train someone out of these habits?

Speaker 5 (02:16):
You don't I've been married for ten years and you
just pick up Otherwise you're going to spend your whole life.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Complaining, Oh my shoo, I don't know. I used to
be messy on the toilet and then.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
What does that mean?

Speaker 3 (02:29):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
A partner of mine really was not having it and
asked for a little more respect with the toilet seat
and the tone in words in which one used to me.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
I was like, okay, I'm definitely changing that habit. It
was just you.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
That should just be common sense, like generally, even if
you're not with somebody's a long time. But then you're
the one that has to go back to that messy toilet.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
Eww, I don't even want to know. I don't want
to know. Nobody offered any advice.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
What what what's the problem?

Speaker 4 (03:06):
Mark?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yes, he's all He's all bunched up that I call
my underwear panties. It's fine, be more descriptive than underwear.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Okay, do you want to do my makeup?

Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Else there was no advice given.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
I can't keep this conversation advice.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
I said, this is just it. She said, just live
with it.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
I said, have a real conversation about respect. He might change,
but gotta move. Next, I'm gonna tell you, give you
a quote of the date, and also tell you the
way to push off a sneeze if it's coming at
the bad time.