Is a 5-Year Engagement Too Long? The Internet Is Divided

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
One of two point seven.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
You're listening for the home run at Dodger Stadium when
I play up between now and I'm gonna do it
a lot between now and nine. He called a one
to two get turn of fifty bucks qualify to go
to Game two of the World Series. So everybody in
on this, isn't itonian. There's a guy listen to this,
I want to curious. People are going up in arms
about it. There's a guy he posted about proposing to
his girlfriend and people are courted, like, well, wait a minute,

(00:27):
they're split, they're divided on it. So he's twenty one
years old, and he wrote that he and his twenty
year old girlfriend had been in a six year relationship
since they were teenagers. But he's noticed some women feel
it's frustrating to be a girlfriend for a long time.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
M hm yeah, but when you're that young, it's too young.
I mean he's young.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
He isn't too young, but it's young twenty one and twenty.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
So he he felt like, Okay, she's gonna be annoyed
to be a girlfriend for a long time. So he
had a solution, and that solution was to propose right
now and then they could get married in five years.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
I don't see anything wrong with this.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
So his justice, he said, justification was that way she
wouldn't have to be a girlfriend for eleven years before
becoming a fiance. So they went on vacasion, he proposed,
and she was very excited.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
The next day, his fiance asked what they should do
for their wedding, and he told her, I don't think
it's worth planning the wedding now since we're not getting
married for about five years.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
He said, oh, so she didn't. She wasn't in on
the plane, so she got very sad. Oh she got sad,
and now she's not talking to him. Oh my gosh,
this is va. This took a very crazy turn. I
did not think it was going to go this way.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
But I feel like if he were transparent about his
thinking that it would have been such a letdown and
she wouldn't have been so sad and.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
He would have actually about the thinking at that point.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Right, I think they're going to compromise and they're going
to meet halfway and they're going to get married in
the twoish three years.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Well is he?

Speaker 2 (01:50):
So who's right and wrong? I mean, somebody were saying
he messed up. If he doesn't want to marry her
anytime soon, don't propose.

Speaker 1 (01:55):
Yeah, he messed up. He messed up, and I'll tell
you why.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
He's twenty one.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
You know. It's just maturity level exactly. That's all it is.
It's fine. But some people say she over reacted, and
that's also maturity.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
So so just wait it out, guys, get engaged and
hold on for me.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Maybe you're gonna move it up. Maybe it won't be
that long.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
A lot of my arguments in my early years with
Michael was due to immaturity, and it was just because
we were young and dumb and thought about silly things
that you just fight about when you.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
Fighting, is such a waste of time. Nothing, Yeah, nothing.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
And I remember talking to my sister who's eight years
older than me, and she goes like, it's just maturity.
You neither either like stick it out and you guys
are both gonna like mature with time and grow together,
or you just break up and we stuck it out
obviously spoiler alert.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Thank you for spoiler.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
I think he should have just been transparent about his plan. Yes, along,
engagement's fine if you're both.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
On the same page, exactly, I love these things. When
I see him on reddits, it's so juicy.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
And then you read the comments.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah, I don't know the guy. I don't know her either,
but the world's talking about them all right. Coming back
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