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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
You know, it's hard to be Tanya because when you
go out in the wild, people just compliment her about everything.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Nice truth.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I mean, look, you have a great smile. I love
your attitude. You're so positive. I'm a big fan of
your podcast, Scrubbing Out with Becca Grubbing Scrubbing In with
Becca Tilly. I just love it. You know, I'm a scrubber, so,
I mean, it's tough to go out and public the
grocery store. Tide's difficult. It stopped every five minute stranger,
(00:38):
everybody complimenting on nothing, right, so now people can't stop
complimenting you on what on my jawline?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
And this was from one of my best friends, and
she the other day was like you're like. She was like,
your jaw looks like so different and like something. She's
complimenting my jaw And I was like, she said, what
have you been doing? And I like, literally to think
about it. I was like, I haven't really been doing anything.
I was trying one of those red light things for
a while, like you know, and I did it for
(01:05):
three days and then I stopped and I was like
trying to think about, like, what have I been doing.
I haven't been doing anything, and then it came to me.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Botox, no eve, my.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Mouth tape.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
So it's the only thing that I've been doing consistently since.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Like September October. I do it every single night.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
And I looked it up and it is apparently some
sort of side effect of taping your mouth shut at night.
It's supposed to like something with the way that you
when you sleep with your tongue, and it does apparently
do something to your job. You're working out those muscles
and your sleep. No, it's like the way that your
tongue sits. Apparently when your mouth is taped shut.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
What's the primary reason you tape your mouth shut at night?
Not just because Robbie didn't want you to keep talking?
What was the other reason?
Speaker 4 (01:52):
No, So it's supposed to give you like deeper sleep,
and I really believe that it's been at work and
it's been.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
And also it's supposed to better with getting sick. It's
supposed to prevent you from getting sick. There's a lot
of benefits, and so we're just like, let's try, but
I've been well.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
To me, the greatest benefit would be a chiseled jaw line.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
It's not like to me, it's not very noticeable because
I've been doing it every.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Night for so long.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
But I didn't notice it.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
How does it work?
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Because like I put a bunch of like chapstick on
before I go to bed at night, and so my
lips are like moisturized.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
You can't. Oh, that's a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
I don't know that. I think I might die, Like
I don't know that I could breathe. Yeah, panic in
the middle of the night. I think I'm suffocating and
not wake up.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
It's scary when you think about it, but after you
do it, it's like game changing.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well, if it's gonna chisel a jaw line, maybe it
will actually pull up my neck a little bit.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
I mean it's taken six months, but like I really
do notice it.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, I guess we see you every day. Yeah, so
you know for somebody, I hadn't seen it in a while,
so sorry, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Even notice myself.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
But then when my girl friends that I hadn't seen
her in a couple months, and I was like, oh
my gosh, like, I really think it's this mouth tape thing.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
And what kind of tape? Like, could you explain with
people it's not duct tape. It's a special I just
get I just.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Go to Amazon and type in like mouth taping by
the first one. But it's yeah, it's just basically like
a little like it's almost exciting tape.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Is there a plethora of mouth tape?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Can you wouldn't imagine?
Speaker 2 (03:18):
I would not believe the subculture of mouth tapers like
fifteen or twenty. I'm gonna jump to Plaia right now, Plia,
del Ray grace, good.
Speaker 7 (03:26):
Morning, Good morning Ryan.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
How you doing doing great? Fine? Thank you very much
for asking. So tell me you went on a sound
bath first date?
Speaker 8 (03:40):
Yeah, oh my god. So yeah, I met this guy
on hinge a while back. But I talking a lot
and getting thank you and then getting like good vibes.
He was like, I really want to take you out,
like I think we would just be a really good match,
like our vibes really match up. But I want to
surprise you with something. So then like he drives me.
I'm like, oh my god, we're in Venice. This is great.
(04:02):
And yeah, he pulls up to a sound bath and
I'm like, oh my god, that's this cool yoga place.
And at first I was like, oh no, like what
am I getting myself into? And then it was super
hippy stuff. At first I'm like, okay, I don't need
to like get in touch with my aura, like I'm fine,
but then it was actually really lovely. And then so
at the end, like we're like reconnecting because this isn't
(04:24):
like a group class and he was like, wasn't that great?
I was like yeah, and it was just like silent
the whole time and then he's like okay, so like
see again, and then he like got the scar and
I was like wait a minute, so like this is done,
and he's like yeah, and then like that was it,
and so I was it just like really threw me.
But then he reached out again and he was like
(04:46):
I want to plan something else and surprise you again,
and like I'm sort of willing to try it again,
but it was just so like abrupt last time, and
I didn't get the vibes from him because we were
literally just laying next to each other on the ground.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
This is a sound bath, so you what you wear
and you get in the tub together. What kind of
music do they pay?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
There's no tub, No, it just sounds.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
It's it's basically a yoga studio. You sit in like
a yoga room and you just lay you basically our
sleep for an hour.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Oh so you don't get in water.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
No, you get like on a mat and you lay
on the floor.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You've never done a sound bath, clearly.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
It's like a big is it a metal bowl?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
How do you just and then like the stick thing
and they swirl it around in a circle, amaze.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
And then they might have like like a rain, like
like a stick.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, I'd rather get in a tub with music.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I think you would love a sound bath, to be honest,
I don't think you.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
No way, No, I think you would want to check
his phone and like, yeah, five minutes.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Rubbing the rim of a bowl for meditation. I don't
want to force myself to meditate, but it sounds lovely.
So anyway, what's the gist here? You're going out or
not out again?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (06:08):
Like I don't know, because like it was a really
cool sort of like vibe and he was like, yeah,
I've done this before, and so I'm like okay, so
you're into all the sound meditation stuff. But like my
thing is, I just don't know if we should do
the surprise date thing again, because like he wants to
do that and I still feel like I hardly know
the guy after the first date.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Yeah, yes I do it?
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Who cares?
Speaker 7 (06:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Why not? I mean, what a spiritual thing you did?
There could be worse first date, So keep us posting
and good luck, Grace.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
It's like a different version of like having your first date,
b going to the movies.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
I don't understand people that do that, right because you're
just like not talking.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
I don't get to know them at all.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Nice, stop yelling, I wasn't I'm thinking a sound.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
It wasn't me.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
It was me.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Disturbing my sound bath.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
This is nice.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, how long does it last?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You could do it for an hour as long as
you want it to.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I'm going to do twenty seconds. So this is it
just people touching bowls with.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Sticks, but they like walk around the room so you
feel like come like close and far and like you
get into like a very deep sleep. It's like the
best nap you'll ever experience in your life.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Down for this.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
It's like restorative. Don't you need restorative stuff in your life?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Hold Tanya.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Oh, such a loaded question.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Restorative stuff in my life? Yeah, yeah, I need restorative stuff. Yeah,
I need cold plunges, ice buckets, I need dry heat,
wet heat. I need strangers walking around with white bowls
and a soft tool around the rim. That's what I need.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Well, it is the world we live in, you are right. Yeah,
And it has to do with impulse, doesn't it.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Instant gratification.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
Instant gratification exactly the viral products that we see when
we're scrolling TikTok or Instagram and they pop up on
your feed and you're like, Wow, I really do need
that thing for my cabinet, or I really do need
that special water bottle and it's only twenty five dollars
click purchase done. But all those little purchases, whether they're
(08:22):
ten dollars, fifteen, twenty five, forty five, they all start
adding up, and the damage that you're doing to your
finances throughout the year is kind of wild.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
So they pulled some data.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Gen Z spends almost eight hundred and fifty dollars a
year on spur of the moment impulse buys, and it's
even higher for millennials. We're at over one thousand. So
are you guilty of this?
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Well, the thing is when you're in it, I mean
they always say, and I should do this just in
general in life. Don't make a knee jerk decision about anything.
I'm going to in the moment kind of get it done,
make a decision to move on. Yes, I can't tell
you how many times eat it about something. And then
I realized literally four hours from then, I don't really care. Yeah, right,
(09:09):
like I it's just time helps in heels. But the
thing is that you got to just calculate and you
don't think it's look at your credit card statement. You
start looking at like you don't realize how or I
don't realize like the little charges at up.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
It's all the little charges.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
And then you can go into like the streaming services
that we all have because they don't seem like a lot.
It's like twelve meters, twelve dollars here, whatever, yeah, parking meters,
two dollars there, and it all starts adding up. So
these impulse by its imagine say even like one thousand
dollars or fifteen hundred bucks a year if you just
didn't buy that stuff on.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Instagram, last impulse buy Sissy.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
That last impulse buy. Actually this hydroflask.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
For your water. It's good. Yeah, how about for you, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
Mine was a hat organizer for the closet that's still
sitting on my desk and has not been put up
in the closet.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Yep, mine was a chalkboard.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
What are you gonna do with that chalkboard?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Oh, it's great. So I it's like a little chalkboard
you put on the counter and then you can write,
if anybody's come for dinner, what's for dinner. So it's
like a dinner party chalkboard, like the dinner menu. Yeah,
for Chaco Tuesday, you would put chicken.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
That is.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Very funny because I almost bought a mini whiteboard for
the same reason. Not for the same reason, but to
write Robbie's notes on in the morning. So I'm not
wasting paper more charming. Chalkboard's pretty cute, nostalgic, it's really cute.
And they don't even come with chalk these days. They
come with chalk marks.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Chalk markers. Yeah, you might get that now.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
It's great. To be very careful. I made a mistake.
Make sure you look at the dimensions, because the other
thing I always get the wrong size. Yeah, like they
all look like, they all look human size. Then they
come g I Joe size.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Right, Yeah, yeah, you know, yes.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Shockboards will throw you.
Speaker 6 (11:02):
So there's a few ways that you can maybe stop
yourself from impulse buying. One, maybe wait a few days,
see if you actually still need that product in two
or three days. And then one thing I like to do,
And this list is long for me, I have a
wish list, so I'll be like, save for later, and
then I actually would go back to it and look
through it and I don't.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Need any of that stuff that I've saved later.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Also, don't impulse buy after a glass of pino.
Speaker 5 (11:27):
Oh drunk shopping?
Speaker 2 (11:28):
No, fuck, it's not drunk. It's just like a glass.
They make a lot of sense. How many times have
I solved problems after a glass of wine? Like you
know what, how come is then dawn on me sooner?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:39):
And then then you're like, well, you brush your teeth
getting ready to go to bed. You're like, that's dumb.
Got your quote of the day, but check this out.
How often do you return something you got from Amazon?
Have you done it before? Yeah? It makes sense. It
sometimes you might get something that someone else has actually
had and returned, and I don't know how I feel
about that. I'd like it to be fresh.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Right when it's closed. That bothers me.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
So here's a simple way to tell. If there is
a label on your product that starts with l p
N l p N p N. Yeah, that's it, that's it.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
What does that stand for?
Speaker 2 (12:17):
No idea, but it's Amazon code LPN. So just look
for the LPN. I will if you. If that bothers
you, you can return it for a refund l PN. You
don't have any idea what it means, but if you do,
call me now, I want to I want to order
something just to see. Right, all right, today's quote, it's
(12:38):
kind of a long one, So get your utensil out
to write. Most of your life will not be extraordinary.
Most of your life will be simple things done regularly.
Do you either learn to love the day as it
is or you don't learn to love life at all?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
It's a really good quote.
Speaker 5 (12:57):
Is day.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
A bit of a depth?
Speaker 6 (13:01):
So you said regularly interesting regularly? How do you say
it like regularly?
Speaker 2 (13:07):
At Sicin's place, her husband Michael is pinning other women.
Speaker 6 (13:12):
Okay, So here is the story.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Well, that's what it is. And you have some audio
of him.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Yeah, hang on with the audio.
Speaker 6 (13:22):
So, so we're on the couch the other night and
he took pictures of me with our new nephew and
on his phone, and so I was trying to get
the pictures and put them onto my phone. And so
I'm going through and my airdrop for whatever reason, was
not working, so I had to text them.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
And so then when I went to text them, and
I went to go look to see if they weren't,
they were not coming through. So I go to see
his text messages and I'm like, wait a minute, he
has like all these pins.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
Like you know, ifhen you go to your text messages
you have like.
Speaker 6 (13:47):
Your favorites, I would assume they're like your favorites, Like
I have Michael first, and then I have like my
sister and my brother, and.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
So he has I don't even know who they are.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
But then I see Marian, who used to work here,
pinned as one of his pins feed X Like I like,
I'm like, what is this, Like, how am I not
one of your pins?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
And he was like, but the way you say it,
like you were very defensive about not being a pin.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
I was offended. I was like, I'm your wife.
Speaker 6 (14:18):
I should be at the very first bubble, just like
you're my first bubble.
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Would be mad.
Speaker 6 (14:24):
Yeah, I'm mad, but I'm just like a little on alert.
So I secretly recorded him. That makes zero sense, And
that makes zero sense that you don't have like your
favorites pin, like you're my favorite on my pin.
Speaker 9 (14:36):
You're looking into pins in a different way.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Than I too.
Speaker 5 (14:40):
But you have set x pinned, but you don't have
me pinned.
Speaker 9 (14:43):
No, because I text you so much that you're always
in the top five, Like I had to pick because.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Pin you didn't have kid like literally.
Speaker 9 (15:01):
Two texts in jingle Ball, there's all these other people
and I lost her text and I'm trying to search.
Speaker 7 (15:05):
For her name.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Oh my gosh, Tinder, you.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Are always there.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
I don't need to pay you, Like it's literally like.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
I will not lose your number. Wait, it's like I'm
under your couch listening to this in real time. Yeah,
uh it is. He's right.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
I understand the rationale.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
He's he's he makes sense with that, though, How does
he feel about you secretly recording him and play him back?
Speaker 6 (15:32):
Early in the morning, I told him afterwards, and he's like, oh,
I'm glad I help with your topic.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
That's funny. You know. In my real life too, I'm
always like, can you grat me a pedalum fast? I
need to write that down to tomorrow. I kind of
make a note. That's a great topic.
Speaker 5 (15:46):
He didn't know I was recording him until after.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
But he's he's a giggly little bubble, isn't it. He's
a joyful little bubble of boy.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
He's a good time.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
He's a good time. I saw someone on TV that
from minded me of his essence.
Speaker 5 (16:02):
Wasn't an actor from Sex and the City.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
No, Oh okay, because he's gotten big before.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Does not look like big.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
My sister tells him all the time, mister big, mister big. No, okay,
you know he's he's also gotten Michael Sarah.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Oh yeah, yes he does. Michael, your sister's pin compliments
like that.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
I know that.
Speaker 6 (16:29):
Like, uh, when Michael was younger, he used to be
like a child actor and he would lose roles to
Michael Sarah.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Michael Sarah out in the wild. Would there be tension? No?
I don't know anybody that I've met that likes dating
Michael anybody you ever meet that likes dating.
Speaker 6 (16:52):
Actually, one of my friends loves dating, but she told
me she I don't understand that she's the only one.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Tania just to date.
Speaker 6 (17:01):
I want to say I kind of loved it back
then too, like in my early twenties.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
Till you ebb and flow.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
Sometimes you love it, sometimes you hate it.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
It's the worst.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
I mean, it's the worst now because we're like older
and tired.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Yeah, just fast forward to number seven. Yeah, I just
want to I want the seventh date.
Speaker 4 (17:20):
No date three is like my favorite, and four to
two like.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
You'll never get to do it again in your life
never ever. That's way it is true.
Speaker 6 (17:31):
You date, you date your husbands over and over again,
new person for the first time.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
You never know if you're like bring them home with you.
Speaker 8 (17:37):
You know.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Like by the way, Sisiny, Robbie and Tanya sent me
a sort of a text saying, no pressure on my
performance doesn't have to be long at the weddings.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
It's a weird like passive aggressive.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
It was kind of great. It's like, hey, listen, bro,
just a few words, nothing, no pressure.
Speaker 6 (17:53):
Stress about are they're going to give you a list
of do's and dons?
Speaker 5 (17:56):
That you can and can't say.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
I don't know how it's gonna work to get or daned.
I got a lot of things to do, but more importantly,
right now, I've got to get to Alan, because Alan,
he's still going. Life still is happening for certain people
in Duarte, and Alan is one of those dudes where
he's still in it. He's in his life, but his
life is throwing him a curveball of sorts in the
dating world. So he met her on bumble. All right,
(18:21):
let's bring up Alan. Alan, you're listening to all of
us here on the line. Here we are, Sysney, Ryan, myself. Hi,
I'm just reading your email to them. So you met
on bumble. You got sushi in Monrovia, right.
Speaker 7 (18:33):
Yeah, definitely. It was a fun night, super fun, like.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Walking to a car or I'm just reading email. She
leaned in and said what.
Speaker 7 (18:44):
She said, I could do a kiss right now.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
I could do a kiss right now. I like that,
I could do it.
Speaker 5 (18:51):
Ye, step it up, let's go.
Speaker 7 (18:54):
And I've never had a date initiated kiss like that.
Like it was super forward, but like super confident and cool,
and it was amazing. Afterward, we talked about where we
should go for date number two? Uh, and I felt
like everything went great, but now I think she's lost me, Like,
what's going on? I have no idea? What could I have?
Speaker 2 (19:14):
You kiss her? When she said I could do a kiss?
Speaker 7 (19:17):
Yeah, yeah, no, she said I could go do a
kiss right now. And I leaned in and she leaned
in and before you ask, it was an amazing you
walk how you kiss?
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Pretend I'm her.
Speaker 7 (19:28):
Sure? Sure? So if you're yeah, she says it. I
look at her, she looks at me. I take a
step forward, she takes steps toward me, and then you
know we started we go for it, and it.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Was go for it. Are your lips touching mine? First?
Then you're tongue and walk me through how you kiss
and where are your hands? Was wrong? Maybe the guess
went back?
Speaker 7 (19:48):
All right, if you want the full play by play,
like it was like step toward her, she did it,
step toward me my hand like on the small of
her back and then like on the side of her
like face, you.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Know what I mean, well done?
Speaker 7 (20:00):
And then she and then I kind of pull her in,
but I'm not too forceful, right, like it's just you
keeping it. It was a ballet, yeah, exactly. It was
very very balletic, very very much like a dance, and
then starting don't go straight into a French kiss, right,
you don't want to go too big, too quick, but
like pull in, passionate, hold the kiss, and then you
know we'd like, you know, our lips open more and
(20:22):
and we're we're honestly, we're going at it for a
passionate like you know, passionate minute or something, you know,
and then you know, you do this pull away thing.
You both look at each other and you're being a
little like, hey, how you doing. Hey, I'm doing good,
you know, go back into it again.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Yeah, it's too much detail. I don't know why you
give me all this details? Too much?
Speaker 7 (20:39):
You are, I'm a word of it. I'm a poet.
What can I say?
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Well, listen, poet, ballet dancer. And something went wrong, something
went wrong between that kiss and when she blocked you.
So we're going to find out what that is. Just
hold on for a second. Alan. I like Alan. It
seems like he's got it down.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
Yeah, block a lot.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
It's a big deal. Alan, be very quiet. I've got
Denise who's agreed to come on and talk to us.
She will not know you're here. We'll tell her at
the end.
Speaker 7 (21:07):
Okay, okay, sound good.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
So this dude, Alan goes out with Denise. They met
'm Bumble. They go to Sushi min Rovi. It's the
end of the date. She says I could do a kiss.
He leans in, hand on the small of her back,
other hand on her cheek. Slowly he kiss for a
few minutes. He slowly backs off, He leaves, and she
blocks him. So does he? Did he not do a
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good job? Something?
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Block because of a bad kiss?
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Maybe? Maybe maybe she's just too into him, and maybe
she just needed some time, some space, too much, too soon,
too fast. I don't know. We're going to talk to her,
sysn't he?
Speaker 5 (21:45):
Oh that's interesting? Well maybeeah, maybe she has an ex
that's coming back.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
But she's getting feels too fast, like I gotta slow down. Denise,
thanks for a grain to come on the air with us.
It's Ryan Seacrest Sisney and telling you. I'm just gonna
jump right into it. You went out with a guy
named Alan Bumble.
Speaker 7 (22:02):
Okay, Yeah, tell.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Me about your date with Alan.
Speaker 10 (22:09):
Oh wow, okay, it was great honestly, But what is
this about.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Alan and your date with him?
Speaker 6 (22:16):
Huh, just go ahead, Oh tell us about it.
Speaker 10 (22:24):
Well, I mean I've blocked him. It wasn't great, but
yeah I blocked him.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Why why did you block him after it went great?
I'm trying to trying to understand that and forgive our intrusion.
Speaker 10 (22:36):
Yeah, you know, we went to a sushi place on
Huntington and it was really good.
Speaker 7 (22:42):
It was really good.
Speaker 10 (22:43):
So some friends and I went there a few nights
later and he was there canoodling with some other chicks.
Speaker 7 (22:51):
So we left.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Oh well that will Yeah, that do it. And so
you just did you say anything to him?
Speaker 7 (23:03):
Ever?
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Again?
Speaker 10 (23:05):
We were planning, Uh, we were, we were planning on
a second date.
Speaker 8 (23:09):
But yeah, I mean.
Speaker 10 (23:11):
It's you know, it's just it's not like we were
even exclusive or anything. But it just made me feel
like not special, you know, like the it just entered in.
Speaker 5 (23:21):
There, you're not top of mind. If he's still going
out and about like that.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
You're not exclusive, then he's not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
He's not showing focus. How is he kissing? Is he
a good kiss for this? Alan from d'Arte?
Speaker 7 (23:36):
Yeah, no, I mean the date was good.
Speaker 10 (23:38):
There's there was nothing wrong like with our connection on
the date or anything.
Speaker 11 (23:43):
It was he was a good kisser, Like I just
felt like I.
Speaker 10 (23:48):
Was one in the long line of girls that he
took to Kiku Sushi, Like I was Friday and she's
the Sunday Sushi girl and there was maybe a Thursday
girl before for me.
Speaker 11 (24:00):
I guess like.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
There's nothing that it's kind of attracted. Everybody wants this
Allan and you are going out with him, and maybe
he really is into you and not them.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
That's what dating is. It's a number of games.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
As Alan, You're just a number getting.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Easy on the language because you are on the air.
But Denise and Alan are back together? Alan, is that true?
Are you a rotating revolving door with dates at this
sushi place?
Speaker 7 (24:30):
Okay? So Hi Denise, Hey, how you doing right? But
Ryan like, okay, I will confess I am guilty of this.
I love that place for a first date.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
But are you taking good? Are you going when lighting
is good? Lighting is very important. I love that you
said that. And if you smell like pine but not pine,
not pine salt? Alan, So you're you're taking different women
to the same place all the time. Do you get
why Denise doesn't feel?
Speaker 7 (25:01):
Yeah? But I need to like it's not all the time.
It is my like general first date spot. But what
happened was I had asked that girl out a few
weeks before that, and she had been out of town
and then she just got back that week, and so
it was it was just a timing thing. But but
honestly it doesn't matter, like like Denise, I don't want
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to have a second date with Sunday Girl, but I
would really love to have a second date with you.
I thought we had a great connection.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
I don't hate it.
Speaker 5 (25:30):
But then why didn't you cancel?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
That date? Was Sunday date too?
Speaker 10 (25:33):
Like cause Denise, wait, so I'm the Friday girl.
Speaker 11 (25:39):
Oh gosh, okay.
Speaker 7 (25:44):
You blocked me. And so I was like, well she
blocked me. I guess I'm gonna like go like I
don't know, like like I had already, I was already
on the schedule, like we had had a great first date.
But you never know. And so I was like, well,
I don't want to cancel on this girl. I think
they want to be mean, you know what I mean?
And then and then I was like, do you thing
about the Sunday girl was that it only confirmed how
into you I am? And then I come back and
(26:06):
I'm blocked, and I'm like, whoa, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Okay, guys, I need to there's an entire city listening
to this right now and more because we're streaming and syndicated.
I guess yeah, I'm just explaining how it all works.
Oh God, do you want to go out with Alan again?
Speaker 7 (26:27):
You don't think you did anything wrong here?
Speaker 2 (26:29):
I mean Alan, don't speak, Denise? Do you want to
go out with Alan again? This is your call?
Speaker 5 (26:36):
Are He's saying nothing wrong?
Speaker 2 (26:37):
You don't speak, let talk?
Speaker 10 (26:42):
Maybe maybe not. I don't know. I'm like having trouble,
like shaking the egg.
Speaker 7 (26:48):
So you go with my gut.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Here's the deal. That's great. Go with your gut and
if you unblock Alan, then he'll get your message. If
you keep him blocked, there's no second date. Alan doesn't
say anything. Don't don't speak.
Speaker 7 (27:01):
I'm just saying I think we would have had a
really great date. But I'm.
Speaker 2 (27:07):
But you're not hearing because you're talking.
Speaker 12 (27:10):
I'm no, don't just say but this is the problem. Stop, Denise.
Would you like to go out?
Speaker 2 (27:21):
You're going to pass on Alan? Is that the verdict here?
Speaker 5 (27:24):
I don't know why don't you think about it.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
What don't you think about it? Denise?
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Do it?
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Go out with them again? Denise, think about it.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
You can unblock him in a week or two weeks,
whenever you feel comfortable.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
And then Alan, let's leave it at down.
Speaker 5 (27:38):
That's a chance.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Thank you for reaching out to us. Wait on Denise
to get to you, and good luck to both of you.
Thank you very much for talking Court Denise, thank.
Speaker 10 (27:47):
You so much.
Speaker 7 (27:48):
Yeah, I'm going to give it a be all right, y'all.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
Take care. See, I liked Alan until I didn't like
him talking.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
I liked him the whole way.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
No, I liked him, but then he needs to stop
once he says his piece, like don't keep pushing right
days like calling girls by days of the week. Bro,
you're let's get the headlines Sysn't it just FM headlines
with siciny.
Speaker 6 (28:11):
California lawmakers introduced a new legislation that would require agents
participating in immigration enforcement activity to properly identify themselves during
enforcement actions. Governor Gavin Newson is offering a new film
tax credit to boost the movie industry in California.
Speaker 5 (28:26):
Maroon five is hitting the road again.
Speaker 6 (28:27):
They announced a new US arena tour kicking off this
fall with stuffs in Palm Springs, Sacramento, San Francisco, and
a stop in Los Angeles on October tenth, and the
California Lottery Scratcher's ticket, where it's ten million dollars, was
sold at the Barley Bin Liquor on Norwalk Boulevard in Whittier.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
The winner has yet to claim the prize.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
So let's get into this. In a relationship, it is important,
and we advocate that you take time to just be.
Don't even make a plan. Just literally, I don't know
if you can. You do have to make a plan,
but just be, like put your phone down, put any
device that chirps away and down and like talk, yes,
(29:12):
ask questions, laugh, And people are doing this on something
called the bottle Night. Now.
Speaker 6 (29:21):
Yeah, so this couple went viral because they posted what
they do and they they kind of they call it
bottle night. And I'm sure every couple has polished off
a bottle of wine or two in their day and
sitting there and talking and stuff like that. But I
guarantee you that you did not lock your phone away
or didn't have the TV on in the background or
your Apple Watch.
Speaker 5 (29:40):
Even so, this is.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
Completely going off the grid, and it's almost like you're camping.
I don't know if you guys have ever been camping
where you don't have Wi Fi and you just don't
have any sort of questions in camping. Well, I'm saying
like recently, never been camping, because I just did it
like two years ago and it was such a trip
because we were kind of like on two different campsites
and I didn't have Michael and I was like, oh,
I'll just text it. My brother looks at me. He's like,
(30:02):
you can't text him, and I was like, oh my gosh,
it's such a weird adjustment. So, yes, going off the
grid completely for bottle night means that the two of
you lock your phones away, the TV is off, and
each of you grab a bottle of your favorite wine.
So you polish off two bottles by sitting there and
just talking and spending.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Then, if you have your own bottles, the bottle back
and forth like a couple, I guess you can do
whatever you want. Yeah, you take a sip. By take
a sip. You take it? Are you and you're supposed
to drink it without a glass right out of Yes, Yes,
that's the that's the catch.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
I think the bigger takeaway is that the devices are
out of them.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
I'm not shocked you say that. Not the people will
do that. I often will put my device in a
drawer just to put it out of the way.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
You're out of the ether, yeah, really out of the norm.
Speaker 2 (30:51):
I put it in a drawer, and sometimes I forget
which draw I put it in, because you know, you
just sort of say I'm putting it somewhere. Then you
put it away, and then you're like, what I put?
What where did I go? But I love to put
my device away. Okay, So if we were to do
bottle night and put our phones away, what would you
choose to drink? Siciny?
Speaker 6 (31:09):
I would definitely do a red maybe a Bordeaux.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Oh my gosh, he beats out in no time. That's
kind of high percentage of alcohol. Well that's what I
would want if that would put me to sleep so fast. Okay,
what would you pick? Tanya?
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Probably an orange natural wine.
Speaker 2 (31:31):
Do you like them? The color of them freaks me out?
Speaker 4 (31:34):
Yeah, same, we do like them, Tobs.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
What would you pick? I like a Sando VISI like
a Barolo or that's what I was gonna choose a
Sanjo vas. Ye, that's good stuff. That's the one I
was gonna choose, like an Italian wine for me, A
Kianti love all. I love a Kianti, So I would
pay tops you. We could have bottle night, bro, I'm
down right. When is the guy coming in from West Virginia?
(31:59):
Though I don't want to. I don't want to have
a conflict in your social schedule. Uh yeah, I like
I like to send you z grape as well. Let's
make it box night, everybody. Come on, let's have some fun.
Speaker 7 (32:11):
Ruby.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
What would your what would your bottle be?
Speaker 5 (32:13):
I probably do like is it game or gamey.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
Of it?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (32:18):
It's really good. It's a red or a pino?
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Right?
Speaker 7 (32:23):
All right?
Speaker 4 (32:23):
Well thanks, No one's doing with Rose.
Speaker 2 (32:30):
MICHAELA what would you have?
Speaker 5 (32:31):
That's like day drinking. I probably have a pino as well.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
Yeah, oh, very very good answers. There so sophisticated wine
drinkers around here. Different. Jenna is on the line. Good morning, Jenna,
how are you doing? Hi?
Speaker 11 (32:48):
Good morning, I'm okay.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
How are you super good? Thank you for plugging in
to kiss on this National Ravi Elite day. So what
happened with your cousin in the wedding.
Speaker 11 (33:01):
So I have this cousin. I'm a year older then,
and I feel like our whole lives has kind of
been like a comparison, like competitiveness, not like by any
of us, by our families and whatnot. So we got
engaged within two weeks of each other, and so we
both started, you know, like planning the weddings. Now there's
been this venue I've been eyeing for years, like well
(33:22):
before I was with my fiance that I always wanted
to get married at, and I talked about it, and
you know, I've always dreamt about it a little pricey,
So you know, I was figuring everything out, and my
cousin went and booked it. And not only that, she
didn't even tell me about it. She just posted on
Instagram a story tagging the venue and the day she picked.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
I'm closed to you, to your cousin, would you say
to take a sip of water? Sometimes we ask a
question then we know we can sip our water. But yeah,
that question was you caught me, twig. My question was
how close you to your cousin.
Speaker 11 (34:04):
We're pretty close, like we grew up together like almost
like sisters, you know.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
But you're close now still as adult.
Speaker 5 (34:09):
I mean, yeah, it doesn't sound like it. It's like
bride Wars.
Speaker 11 (34:12):
But now my question is like, can I still go
to that venue? Like have our family? I mean have
to guess at our wedding is going to be the same.
Speaker 5 (34:19):
Joe, you can, can you make your day before hers
and to the venue?
Speaker 2 (34:24):
Now we're getting I don't like all that. I just
don't like that spirit. So jes started it. Hey, she
made the first move. She stole the headline. Yeah, she
made the first move. She stole the headline. She may
think she's being clever, but you know what, you're gonna
sit back in the pocket and you're gonna come up
with a clever plant. And it's not going to the
same venue. Unfortunately, I know you got to change the venue.
Speaker 11 (34:47):
You think I have to look elsewhere?
Speaker 2 (34:49):
Are you going to go to her wedding?
Speaker 11 (34:51):
Yeah, I'll go. You know, I'm I'm not thrilled with it,
and like we didn't talk about it yet, so like
my my family and my like my parents and my siblings.
You know, we've discussed it and everyone agrees with me.
You know that it's not right. But I don't know
if I bring it up, if I let it go,
like what to do for me?
Speaker 5 (35:08):
And she for sure knew that, like you wanted this venue?
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Yes, yes, okay, yeah, I think.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
So tricky that would be like end game.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
That is that is real fighting, that's fighting. Yeah okay, Jenna,
luck with.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
Your plan and you'll find a better venue.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
And here's the good news. My bet is that your
marriage lasts.
Speaker 5 (35:31):
Oh my gosh, Ryan, we don't need to go there.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
No, her, I don't take your custins will last as long.
It's called karma, isn't he.
Speaker 5 (35:37):
I understand karma very well. We don't even right.
Speaker 2 (35:39):
Well, Jenna's cousin's wedding is fine now, but it's not
gonna last, Jenna, is that what you want to get? Yeah?
Speaker 11 (35:47):
You know what at this point, at this point, you
know what, you know what though my dreams got take
it from me.
Speaker 5 (35:54):
You're you're going to find a better venue.
Speaker 3 (35:56):
You're going to find a better venue in your year.
Speaker 6 (35:58):
Is going to last, and your kids are gonna be cuter.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
Yeah, and then you're gonna have a tall son what
I've always wanted to.
Speaker 6 (36:09):
Yeah, they're gonna get full rights, full right scholarships for college.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
All right, Jenna, thank you. Were you trying to tell us?
Speaker 4 (36:15):
No, I was saying, I think that this is all
a sign that it's just gonna be. Your wedding is
gonna be even dreamier than she even thought.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
Well, how about a family member doing that? Is so
no ratchet.
Speaker 4 (36:29):
People are so particular, you know, people are so particular
about their wedding venues. Like I I've had friends who
basically call like they've called NAPA, like nobody can get
married and NAPA this year because like they.
Speaker 2 (36:42):
Call the whole tell me kind of.
Speaker 4 (36:44):
I know, my gosh, like Mexico's out too, because some.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Of the nation, like you want to get a continent
while we're there.
Speaker 6 (36:50):
If one of my friends wanted to do their wedding
at like the same venue that I got married at,
or like the same date as my wedding.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
Sit them down and say, I would be like, this
is my wedding.
Speaker 5 (37:00):
Eight you can't you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (37:02):
Well, you did it. You don't have to worry about Well,
I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
You guys coming over tonight tonight now I have dinner plans.
Speaker 5 (37:14):
Thank you so much for the invite.
Speaker 4 (37:15):
How about not the same day invite Taco Tuesday, broke
Kettle Black, Yeah yeah, texting us an hour before lunch, Hey, guys,
want to be that noon?
Speaker 2 (37:25):
For not going all right, We'll see you tomorrow.
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