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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 1 (00:10):
Dating apps in AI they're they're now merging.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
At first it was simple.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
There was things were like back in twenty nineteen, bumble
with blur uh inappropriate photos, things like that. Cut to
Tinder now recently announcing an AI photos selector tool that
scans your photos and picks the best picks for your profile.
So it's kind of like a helper things like that.
But check this out. Have you heard of the riz app?

(00:34):
I'm sure you haven't, because you're kind of riz. So
you can upload a screenshot of the DM conversation that
you're having in whatever other dating app that you're on,
and it'll suggest ways for you to respond to those dms,
kind of like what Sierra and I did for Tanya

(00:55):
when she was first dming Robbie Bluss and she didn't
know what to say, so we that was an AI
that was like friend intelligence. So I think that this
is a great tool when you're kind of stuck in
that beginning, like what do I say? I don't want
to blow it? What's a good thing to say?

Speaker 1 (01:12):
But you're not showing who you are, or your personality,
your sense of humor.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
But that's fine because you meet someone on a dating app,
you talk to them for like a couple hours, and
you meet in real life and you have to be yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
M It could be it could be a slippery slope
because then you if you continue this with every single
DM conversation, then you are essentially talking to the AI
version of yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
Like the AI vers is going to be better than
I am anyway, So maybe I should take some lessons.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I'm saying, it's a tool.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
We're already kind of using it with our everyday lives
when we ask it suggestions things that we should do
for the week.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
End, spitball here. You know, I'm not getting any younger.
Which one would you say I should go on? If
I were to go on a dating app, Rya, Raya.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Or maybe Hinge? I hear, I hear great things.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Well, yeah, Robbie and Tanya. Apparently they're getting married in
like a day.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
I know a lot of people I feel have long
lasting relationships with Hinge. I think you should get on.
My brother and his now met on Hinge.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Can you get on both?

Speaker 4 (02:17):
Yes, you can get on both. You can get on
all the dating apps if you wanted.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
I love fun. So you did want? You ever did
one of these dating apps?

Speaker 5 (02:26):
No, but my friends are trying to get me to
do it because I.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Have mine to Yeah, which I mean, if you do it,
I'll do it. Well. I'm not trying to date you.
I just want to know if you take the plunge,
then which one? Which one would we want?

Speaker 5 (02:41):
I've heard good things about Hinge.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
That's because Tiny's getting married off well.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
And then there's another one called Coffee meets Bagel that
like fo yeah, friends, Coffee meets Yeah, they I know
at least two or three like actual marriages from that.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
What about Bacon? Is that any good?

Speaker 3 (02:58):
Any?

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Is that you should a real app.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Like keish Me's Bacon? All right, FINSI we'll talk about
this separately in the pre show post show meeting.

Speaker 5 (03:09):
I think it'll be fun.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Ryan. Wait, no, this is interesting, Montabello. Lorena brings it
to our attention. Is there a difference in saying to
your significant other I love you versus love you? Go ahead, Lorena.

Speaker 6 (03:27):
Yeah, my boyfriend and I got in a huge fight
over that last night, and it seemed silly, but I
feel like I don't know. I always try to say
I love you, and he just says love you, which
feels like dismisses and casual to me. And I've heard
him say love you is to like his friends and

(03:47):
his family.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Thank you with a sister.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
I mean, I Santa into a buddy in mine named
Bobby Kotik BK. So I'm at dinner on Friday night
out in the in the wood the Hollywood look great,
and I came up and I hugged him. I said,
it's been a minute. And when I walked away to
sit down on my table, I said, love you, bro,

(04:13):
love you. So I did. That's what we say now.
I also have from one recently say I love you,
and then I just kind of go, this is great,
isn't it? Because I don't want to say it back.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
I love you is way more intimate, for sure.

Speaker 4 (04:31):
But how do you not say, like I say love
you to you guys, like I'm leaving and I'll be like, bye,
I love you guys?

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Is I love you and you don't want to say
that back? What do you say?

Speaker 7 (04:41):
Love?

Speaker 1 (04:43):
Love a Friday? I love green, bye, I love pastries.
I'm with you. It's more intimate now what he needs
to do. And I try and remind myself regularly to
do this beginning of the week and of the week. Hey, Tanya, Yes,

(05:05):
let's put to put down your back okay, before you
go to work. I just want to tell you how
much I love you. I just want to say it
and just think about that and feel that to take
it bag that also work. You gotta like make it
a thing so sweet. Hey, I'm sweet, I'm sweet, Like
this is it? This is sweet.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
That's cute.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
But like you got to like stop in your tracks,
like ause if it's going to be something dramatic and
all of you.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Can't tell him to love her like that. He needs
to just do it.

Speaker 6 (05:39):
Yeah, And I can't ask him to say that.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
I mean, yes, I mean we know the guy loves you,
just don't like saying it. Some guy's getting a little
weirded about saying it.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Just saying more than almost like h like brainwash him
to say I love you.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Never you ever been like in a moment with somebody
and they're like, I love you. I mean I don't
mean like that, but I just said it in a moment.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
No, I feel like back in the day for sure.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
It happens to me sometimes.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yeah. I think my husband after the first date it
was like they're.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
Loving a moment, but then I love you, but then
they're like, you know what I mean, so funny, so
fun All right, well, Lourena, we love you. Get this
guy to thank you. Tell him you he loves you.
All right, good luck, thank you. I do a lot
of you know, when people text you, I do miss

(06:38):
you love us. I don't read the text. I just
respond with miss.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
You love us, miss you love us.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
Like for dudes, my bros, I love us, I love
our relationships. Miss you love us.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
I like your your big hugs.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Yeah, big hugs.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I do that A good one, solid Courtney, Good.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Morning, thanks for listening.

Speaker 8 (06:57):
All right, good morning, good morning.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
I love this. Anybody that works with somebody that smells
bad listen. So your coworker has a bad smelling perfume.

Speaker 8 (07:10):
Yeah, yeah, sadly it sounds silly, but yes.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
How is it bad? Perfumes are meant to be pleasant.

Speaker 8 (07:21):
It's it's not even that it's like an awful sense.
It's that it's just so strong, like and it kind
of just overpowers any room that you're in and it's
so strong that it lingers. So even if she's not
in the room, if her stuff is in the room,

(07:41):
or if she was just in there like you, it's
still there.

Speaker 6 (07:46):
And so.

Speaker 8 (07:48):
Yeah, it's it's it's a weird situation, but it I
feel like it's overtaking a lot of my mental space,
to be honest.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Oh wow, I've you asked her to have you just
it in a very subtle way that maybe it's too strong.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
I'm sure she can't do that.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
Well, Tanya, you might be able to because she can't
smell her own perfume after a while, you don't smell
your set.

Speaker 6 (08:12):
You know.

Speaker 8 (08:13):
I cannot say that I have said anything. I have
said something to our manager and just like mentioned it
and they sort of just brushed it off. Which it's like,
it's a weird situation, Like how do you how do
you even handle that? Because it's just.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
Maybe you maybe you start blowing your nose a lot
around her, I mean like I must be allergic to
something in here.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
I don't know what, and then maybe she'll just maybe.

Speaker 8 (08:43):
Maybe. I mean I I have been getting a lot
of headaches since she's been.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Oh there you go, Yeah, I lay that headache car migraines, right, yeah.

Speaker 8 (08:56):
Like maybe that is something?

Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
How do you.

Speaker 8 (09:00):
Approach that, Like, okay, like do you say, hey, you know,
ever since you've been working here, I have migraines because you.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Basically basically say, I hate to say this, but I'm
not I'm not sure what it is. Something I've been
getting these crazy atics. It might be and it can
be set off by the most random things. It's possible
it's your perfume. I just want to test this theory out.
Maybe you could just wear a little less or don't
wear a couple of days, let me see if it
if my headache goes away.

Speaker 8 (09:32):
I mean yeah, yeah, that could work. And maybe maybe
even say something like my aunt, this is was a
thing with her and so then you know she had
she can't wear perfume when I'm around her or something
like that.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
Like, yeah, you say your former aunt died of somebody
where he runs in a family, somebody wearing too much
perfumes extreme and then yeah, you're morbid, so sad to
lose ang gladys, but you know, somebody's aroma.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
It is interesting how these people that wear these strong
perfumes and colognes.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
Don't notice that it's that strong because you.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Get used to it. And let me tell something. If
you come over to my house, I usually spray people
with my scent on their way out, So uh, I
have spray bottles by the door, and yeah, yeah, I'll
just give you because I used two spray I combined
two coloones to make my own sense.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
It's not overpowered. No, he hasn't been wearing that for years.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
This is rose and sand the wood, two different bottles.
But I'm happy to spray with my scent on the
way out. Just it's all there by the door. It's
all there by the door. It's just the party.

Speaker 8 (10:41):
I mean you, you and my coworker have a lot
in common then, because everyone leaves smelling like her as well.
So maybe maybe people are this.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Is not bo All right, well, I think there's ways
to address this with Finasse. Good luck on it, and
thanks for calling. You know, he smells the prettiest today
that I'm told. It's in the back room. It's that
Fondso he smells pretty today. He does what's he smelling?

Speaker 2 (11:07):
I don't know actually what it is.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
But he also has like puts on a lotion or
hand sanitizer and it just smells delicious so good.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
That's up. What are you wearing? Uh, let's see.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
So I think today was clean No, yeah, clean slate
from Beth and Body Works. It's like a colone that
they sell now. Because I got it for Christmas, but
then ever since then, I was just like, oh, dang,
I actually like this. And then I saw how much
like my uncle spent on it, and I was like, wow, okay,
I spent a little more, but like, you know, it's
not bad, actually not bad.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
No, some of the cheapest stuff's the best. I did
this like two dollars thallium for years until I couldn't
find it anymore.

Speaker 6 (11:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (11:46):
No, but yeah, So I got a compliment from Mark
today and I was like, oh dude, I'm blushing.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
What do you say to you?

Speaker 2 (11:54):
What?

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Mark sadio? He's like, you smell great? Mark? Did you
say that?

Speaker 6 (11:57):
I did?

Speaker 1 (12:00):
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Speaker 3 (12:19):
Travel advisor a travel agent different? What's what's the difference?

Speaker 4 (12:24):
A travel agent books your trip, A travel advisor advises
your trip.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Is that I mean, Tanya, That doesn't define it when
you use the word, right, that's.

Speaker 2 (12:35):
The word an agent. I understand what agent. I understand
advice is.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
So they they're just giving you Advisor, not helping you
book it.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
It seems like it seems like a great gig.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
Nah, it seems like they're not helping helping you at all.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
I think they curate the experience. Oh like they you know,
if you're going to go to Lima, they're going to
set up your hike to that was it, Machipichu.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
Yeah, but they're not going to set it up up
another travel agent. Well, we're gonna call it other sound
bath sound bath.

Speaker 1 (13:03):
Instead of the best Savichi restaurant.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
It's no different than just following a blogger on you.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah advisor, come right? All right? The three most disappearing
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Speaker 2 (13:21):
Bank tellers yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
And postal service clerks.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Wow.

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Speaker 1 (14:12):
So, on social media, a lot of people talking about, hey,
how is your mental health not great? Why? Because of
my social media? And so they put a list of things,
a bunch of things you can do that are sort
of non therapy things to improve your mental health. I
want to run through these and see what you think. Okay,
So I want to Avon says, I do little favors

(14:34):
for myself. Future me will love waking up to a
clean room, fresh leftovers, fresh laundry. So she does little
things for herself. Fine, she feels good.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
So just chores.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Yeah, chores, right, page, I like this. One page doesn't
say I'm sorry for everything, like I'm always I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. I right, I'm sorry, Miny Way, I'm sorry.
Can I get it? I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry.
Are you using that bench track? I'm so sorry using.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
That with stop it?

Speaker 1 (15:05):
Well, I'm going to because Page says, not apologizing for
things is a game changer. You don't have to be
sorry for everything.

Speaker 2 (15:12):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
Louis says, all those things I've been saving for a
special occasion. I do him now. Good for your mental health?

Speaker 2 (15:20):
Yeah, I can see that.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Complimenting a random person, Zoe says, I made my room
comfortable with warm and lightning. I like that. Becca says,
saying no. Saying though is so powerful for mental health. Right,
stop watching the news. That's another one that's better for
mental health. Ken Dole says, saying I'm so brave before

(15:44):
doing anything that makes me nervous.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
I can see that. Stop talk, little pep.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Talk, Mackenzie. These are people that are tapping in a
helm for mental health out therapy. Mackenzie says, do not
disturb Lily twenty four to seven.

Speaker 2 (16:01):
Oh, like, she has her do not disturb on her phone.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
She's wearing around her head. Yeah, and Wells just says,
don't rush, slow it down. Oh yeah, I am a rusher.
I am a full time rusher, so I want to
slow it down it that's all stress. I want a
two seven. If you want to add to this or
send us a talk back inside the EET radio. I

(16:23):
you know how you knew that. I was thinking about,
you know, do I want kids? People want to ask
me this. Strangers every day went into shake Shack. The
guy goes, hey, up, guys, your question. You're Ryan? Yeah,
are you gona have kids? I mean, wow, get my
chake shocky thingy.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
I name a burger man.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
They's getting us a good burger.

Speaker 2 (16:43):
It's a good burger. Not's better.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
So I don't know that i'd say better. They're different
different sure yeah. So uh Anyway, I started thinking, you know,
are kids like yes, they're pain in the neck, they're annoying,
their aggriv they screamed.

Speaker 2 (17:03):
Positive first, it's unconditional lot. Brian's right. Other people's kids
can be those things.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
No, mine will be that too. But then there are
these moments right where you dress them up for the
Christmas photo, you take them to play volleyball at the beach,
or they play the next episode on piano for the
first time.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Kids can do cute things, they really can.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
So your son did what?

Speaker 3 (17:35):
So Maxon performed at his talent show and it was
one classic into another classic. He did the song called
Musette and which is by Bach I believe, and then
at the very end of it, he just remixed a
little tease of next episode as well, which also comes
from a very old song.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
So he performed this in front of faculty, the.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
Entire school and parents.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
Did he get keep nervous?

Speaker 2 (18:01):
No, he doesn't get nervous.

Speaker 3 (18:02):
I mean he maybe he actually he did say he
was a little nervous at first, but he doesn't look it.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
He doesn't. Went and crushed it all right.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
So here is the original holding we saw. I mean,
we know this if you're from these parts, it's a
class and yet it's a theme. I hope you're ready

(18:30):
for the Now that's the original. How old is Maxon?

Speaker 2 (18:37):
He is six years old.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
Here's the six year old version making it his own.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
That's so good, that's amazing.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
Did you the crowd?

Speaker 2 (19:04):
I know? It was so cute. Then he does a
little bow at the end, and he did bow.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
But were you so proud?

Speaker 2 (19:11):
So proud. Yeah, that's hard.

Speaker 1 (19:14):
Oh, I couldn't do it the same. I mean, that's
what I'm saying. Like, so, having kids it's not all bad. No,
it's not the do they do. Everyone to do cute
little things like that, and that's the reason to have them. Right.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
Well, Also, if you want kids, if you see it
in your future, I think.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
I gotta have some around after I am not.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
I think so too.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Right, little legacy.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
Program, right, the Seacrest name needs to live on.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah, what's up? Could you want Seacrest could do this?
I just take I'll just do this till he can
do it or she I guess. Yeah, I can't plan that.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
Well these days, technically you probably.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
Go on air with Seacrest. Oh, I like it.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
Don't take that name.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
I'm done.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Talk to Tanya while I'm talking to everybody listening. Don't
take Sienna because I like it.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
I like it too.

Speaker 4 (20:10):
Actually, list Sienna Seacrest, you do Ryan, I'm calling.

Speaker 1 (20:19):
I called Dibbs.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
I can't call.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
Yes, you can on the air, you can. I just
did it.

Speaker 2 (20:24):
Sienna.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
Yadagar sounds sound like, yeah, it doesn't.

Speaker 2 (20:28):
You can have it.

Speaker 1 (20:32):
You can have it, Yolanda Yadagar.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
I was thinking, oh, why, yeah, you need like a
two syllable name.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Yeah, yeah, you don't need it. Sienna. Sienna's for me.

Speaker 3 (20:42):
Wait, I'm getting a little fomo that like, I'm not
gonna have any more kids.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
I'm not saying I haven't it. I'm just thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yeah, but still I'm dumb.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
Well, I'll get something and you'll have some fun. Watch them.
You get it all over the world on iHeart radio.
But it originates from Los Angeles, the entertainment capital, the
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Speaker 2 (21:07):
That's just where we are people.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
Those two. So there's a new trend that I'm reading about.
I didn't read the whole thing, but basically they're calling
it micro retiring, right, micro retiring.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Yes, it's having a moment right now. It's exactly what
it kind of sounds like. It's stepping away from your career,
your job for an extended break and then eventually going
back to it when you're ready or when you're done
with your micro retirement. If you take a hiatus, yes,
sabbatical or something like that. It's kind of like, right

(21:48):
now we are grinding and working and essentially you retire
when you're sixty five. Right, Oh, so people are thinking,
why wait until we're sixty five to kind of do
some of the things on our bucket list that we
want to do, whether it's traveling and this, you know,
maybe starting a family, but like not having that crazy

(22:10):
work life. So it's a micro retirement and then eventually
you go back to your career.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
When you're ready, assuming that you can jump right back in.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
And it's not an I'm just playing this out here.
So if we took a micro retirement for a year,
I think they'd replaced.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
It, I would think.

Speaker 8 (22:30):
So.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
I don't think this works for every job for sure.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
People forget about us in about a week.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
So what if we micro retire and just do like
the eight o'clock hour or something, you know, it's like
just do one hour at microtime.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
But that's not really like retiring, because I think the
whole point is to have days and weeks and months
where you just.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
Are not doing your job.

Speaker 1 (22:58):
You guys, fine, perfect, I got And why do you
guys do three weeks and I'll do one a month
and I'll micro time. I'm you know, I'm up there.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
I feel like that's not gonna work.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
I don't know that it would work, but I mean
it's the whole thing of like breaking the cycle of burnout.
Does everyone feel that eventually at some point in their lives?

Speaker 6 (23:20):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (23:20):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
And then by the time we all are supposed to retire,
are we going to be too tired to do.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
The things we wanted to do?

Speaker 6 (23:28):
Why?

Speaker 1 (23:29):
Wait?

Speaker 3 (23:29):
Yeah, So it's an interesting take on it. But if
I guess, if you can have the flexibility to do this.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
By all means, yeah, what.

Speaker 1 (23:37):
Do you call? This is interesting? I mean I call anybody,
anybody on updating, Babe, I just go to babe, Yeah,
I'm with you or right in a babe, Babe is easy. Babe.
What do you keep Michael in your contacts under?

Speaker 2 (23:56):
That's exactly what he is, babe with a heart.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
So when BEB calls, it comes up with BEB.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
And I have a picture of him holding Surveyor when
she was a baby and a baby Bjorn.

Speaker 1 (24:07):
What about you? What's his contact name?

Speaker 2 (24:10):
I think I'm literally Sisney via Clara in his name.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
Yeah, that's how he put it in when he met
my contact card, Tony, what's Robbie in your phone?

Speaker 2 (24:20):
He is fiance in my phone.

Speaker 1 (24:22):
You got to update that soon. I know, how does
he have you in his phone?

Speaker 2 (24:27):
He has me as tea?

Speaker 4 (24:29):
Well that's just tea, just tea, I mean kind of cute,
kind of yeah, it's totally cute.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
Mister T, missus T, mister T, mister T. Okay, Ruby,
What is David your husband have as your contact?

Speaker 2 (24:44):
Mine is actually husband. Oh you can't see it, but yeah,
it's cute. I can't hear this baby photo?

Speaker 1 (24:51):
And what what are you and his?

Speaker 2 (24:53):
He changed me?

Speaker 9 (24:54):
We did it together actually to wifey wifey, Yeah, doorle.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
I like it. So I have a couple in there
that I just haven't erased.

Speaker 3 (25:08):
So I've got how many babes do you have on
your phone?

Speaker 1 (25:12):
Just you know, you know, I don't go through and
delete everybody.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
You don't you to go to your b section? How
many babes might be?

Speaker 1 (25:22):
No babes, No, it's just their nicknames. Like I have
won cutie pie mixed macie pants is cute. You don't
know that I mix Oh man emoji's have an emoji
in there for Yeah, that's cute, that's it. Thunderbear. I
think I have a thunderbear as well.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
Who was this Thunderbear?

Speaker 1 (25:46):
Oh you don't you wish?

Speaker 8 (25:48):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (25:49):
You piece it all together?

Speaker 2 (25:50):
Do you leave them as that? Or do you go
back and add X?

Speaker 6 (25:53):
Well?

Speaker 1 (25:53):
Actually, sometimes after it's been while and I can't remember
their name. I mean I can't remember their name, but
I'm like, which was Thunderbear?

Speaker 2 (26:00):
Yeah, that would be tough to.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
Thunderp I do, but I do remember because I've been
in there.

Speaker 6 (26:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
No, I don't change. I don't put it back, like, yeah,
they're all there there. I thought that was a fun
little conversation. Fonsie, what is your Are you single? Right?

Speaker 2 (26:15):
He is currently on the phone.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
He's always on the phone. Sorry, uh in a relationship?
What is your other half call you? Oh?

Speaker 5 (26:25):
Oh, I'm single. So I call myself handsome.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
Self esteem.

Speaker 6 (26:30):
I like it.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Good morning handsome.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
So sneak. What did your neighbors ask you to do? Okay?

Speaker 3 (26:36):
And I feel like it's something that maybe a lot
of neighbors just gonna say in passing, but it really
stuck with me all week. So last week they're back
now and everything's fine, but I'm coming home from school
with the kids and they're like, hey, so you know
we're going to be gone for a few days to
go visit our daughter, and this, can you keep an eye.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
On the house. I was like sure, that would say.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
What does that mean?

Speaker 2 (26:59):
And so like the whole week I was just like panic.
I was like, what car is that?

Speaker 1 (27:03):
Like?

Speaker 3 (27:03):
I was literally like if something happens to their house.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
That I feel responsible, but it's on you. I don't
have a tee say.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
To guard the house.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Literally just like keeping out in the house.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
I was like, I think they're just saying a FYI
were rolling out.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
Yeah, it was total. It was totally that.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
But I took it like as if I needed to
be like a soldier outside.

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Of the home. I need to put a spotlight on
their house, yeah, guard shack.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
Yeah, I mean any little thing. They kind of threw
me off, like they're they were filming down on my
street and so they put those like filming notices on
everyone's like front door, and like I took theirs and
I kind of put it away so it didn't look
like it was sitting there for a few days and.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
Yeah walk over turned lights on and off.

Speaker 2 (27:42):
No I didn't. I didn't have keys of their house.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Stop the paper so it doesn't stack up.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
Nobody gets papers anymore.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
But you know, a little things like that, and it
just kind of was like a stress all last week.
I'm glad they're home now because I'm like, I don't
need that respond.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
So in my book, then if they threw that on you,
they should bring you something back from their trip.

Speaker 3 (27:59):
You know what they always do. They are they are
not me for the kids. They'll bring something back for that.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
It's like their own.

Speaker 2 (28:08):
Kids, they have grandkids.

Speaker 3 (28:09):
It's I live on like the best street in America.
Like our neighbors are so nice, everyone's so kind.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
So that's why I didn't want to blow up so
shocked that they bring your kids get I know, and
like all the.

Speaker 7 (28:22):
Neighbors do, why don't you stay at their house? Then,
I mean, really take this seriously, get in there next time.
Maybe explain this one to me so I can make
sense of it. Flood Lighting it's a new toxic dating trend.
Flood lighting.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
What was it mean?

Speaker 2 (28:35):
Flood lighting?

Speaker 3 (28:35):
Okay, so it is almost a manipulative tactic, like a
dating tactic that you would do at the very early
stages of a relationship or getting to know somebody. So
let me give you a few examples just to kind
of like paint the picture for you, Okay, someone saying
I've never felt this way about anyone. I have a
history of abandonment, and I just kind of need to

(28:56):
know that you're not going.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
To leave me.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
So it's heavy and it puts pressure on you to commit.
But you might be into dp might be already emotionally
kind of connected to that person and they say something
like this, and you're like, well, of course I want
to Well how soon.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
I don't think you should use the word abandonment soon,
I mean think.

Speaker 2 (29:12):
About maybe the first few dates, probably early on.

Speaker 3 (29:15):
Another example would be like someone you just met suddenly
shares details about a painful breakup or family issues. They
start unloading past traumas on you things like that just
to kind of make you feel obligated to comfort them,
and then you become this like comforter all the time.
That's how your relationship kind of like sets the tone
is by you being the comforter and them always be
having the crisis.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Oh I don't love that.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
But you get trapped in this.

Speaker 3 (29:39):
You don't realize that you're in a relationship like this
because they're hot or like you have a connection Otherwise
or things like that, and.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
You get you know, blinded, blinded by love, so just
kind of be aware of it.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
So Brene Brown has talked about this before.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
Yes, Oh I love she Brene Brown saying that, you know,
it often leads to it's emotional imbalance and it's just
flat out manipulative.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
I don't love any of that conversation. The Morning Show portion, well,
I guess this portion of the day of The Morning
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