Should You Beware "The Amber Flag?"

We know of green and red flags, but have you heard of "amber"? Listen back here

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
A lot of people are talking about this. I have

(00:01):
not really heard much about it. In the relationship flag category,
you know, there's red flags, there's green flags. I think
there's yellow flags, which are warning flags. So now everyone's
talking about the amber flags.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
They're a little more like here's your like a yellow
caution light, if you want to look at it in
that way. Ryan. They're not necessarily a reason to go
running for the hills and completely dump them, but it's
something to maybe be a little bit more on high alert.
It kind of gets your.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Attention a little bit. Let's say they.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
Never introduce you to their friends, or they brush off
serious conversations with jokes.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Well, it's a little annoying. I mean that to me
is my yellow guess, yellow amber. They're kind of they're
in the same color category. But I you've just put
a pin in it, right. These are things that you
kind of file and if it becomes annoying or a
theme and it really irritates you, then it turns into
a red flag.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, but I think it just comes down to the
fact that, like you probably have been in a relationship
where there was tons of amber flags and maybe you
ignored them because they were just so little, and you're
just like, it's not that big of a deal. And
then they build and they build and they build, and
really what it turns out to be is that you
should have listened to all of those gut feelings at
the beginning of the relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
And look at this stage in my career of relationships,
I just kind of have let's see the red or green.
You know, it's think at the.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
End of the day, the relationship needs to feel good.
Like if you're not feeling if it's not making you
feel good at the beginning, especially, then it's probably not
the right relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
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