3 Private Thoughts That Psychologists Say You Should Keep To Yourself

We all have random thoughts that pop into our heads, but some of them should stay there. According to psychologists, these thoughts should stay unspoken:

(TO YOUR PARTNER) YOUR PARENTS DRIVE ME CRAZY

(TO YOUR PARTNER) MY EX WAS BETTER AT THIS THAN YOU

(TO YOUR FRIEND) YOU COULD DO BETTER

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Just one of the random articles that pop up into
my feet.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
There's uh, this one about psychologists saying that you should
not share these things with people close to you, your partner,
for example, or your friend, but specifically to your partner.
Your parents drive you crazy. Don't say that to your partner.
I have never said I've never said that. I said
my mom could be funny after a cosmopolitan cocktail.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
I've never said the word crazy. No, have you ever
said that?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
No?

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Plus, they don't.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yeah, they say to your partner, don't say my ex
was better at this than you.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Who would ever say so? Literally, Like, that's just not smart?
You think it, you don't say it. What would you
ever say? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Right, what would you ever say your ex is better
at that? And that doesn't I mean that just goes?
How's that ever going in the right direction?

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, won't. Uh. And they also say this is the
one that struck me.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
This is psychologist saying, don't ever say this out loud.
And that is to a friend, for example, you could
do better like it. You could do better as a
person in the world, or you could do better as
a friend to me, or you.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Can do better in your relationship. Yeah, you could do
better than the person you're with. Right, Oh, that's what
it is. Yeah, that's why. That's right. I didn't see
the glass half that way. Yeah.

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Oo. Why that lab at the end. That's good, oh
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