Have You Heard of the '3-to-5' Message Rule for Successful Dating?

If you're single and having a hard time transitioning from online matches to real ones, we have some advice for you! Have you heard of “the 3-to-5 message rule”? This if you’re single and having a hard time transitioning from online conversations to actual dates. Here’s how it works:

If there is chemistry after 3 to 5 messages, suggest meeting up! If they don't want to, stop wasting your time with them...

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's concept. Haven't got a quote of the day here
and now? If you are sort of having a hard
time getting from online matches into real life matches, have
you heard of the three to five message rule? They say,
if you're single and having a hard time transitioning from
online conversation to actual dates, they suggest this is there

(00:20):
chemistry after three to five messages. If there's chemistry after
three to five messages, then you should meet. If there's not,
move on, stop wasting your time. Just move on. This
is risky.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
Why is it risky? What's risky about it?

Speaker 1 (00:39):
It's risky because some people are not good texters. Hi,
I am a bad texture. I'm bad.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
I'm a bad texter.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, I don't pat myself on the back, but I'm
a better in person person than text person.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Text just get lost for me, Like I don't see
something the time.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
I'm certainly not chat GPT cutpace guy. I'm not that,
and so I'm not saying the time for that. I'm
not saying the time to be so clever Like sometimes
I literally will be okay, let's you know you should
do Ryan? What text back? Something cute and clever? Well,
then I'm in the dot dot dot on the other
side for like three minutes first, because then it's ak

(01:17):
you three minutes to come up with that.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Yeah, you just go with what your first instinct is
because that's the real you.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Who knows who is the real everyone today's quote, The
moment you stop apologizing for being ambitious is the moment
everything shifts. Hey,