May 9, 2023 • 23 mins
Two ducks showed up in Amy's backyard and she thinks it's a sign. Kat isn't so sure about it though...she thinks Amy needs to call animal control. Amy tries to convince her by sharing the meaning of seeing ducks, as it totally matches her life right now:
"Two ducks are also generally seen as symbols of new beginnings or change. This is because they have the ability to adapt to new environments easily and quickly. They are also known for being able to find food and shelter in even the harshest conditions. As such, they can be seen as a reminder that no matter what challenges we face in life, we always have the potential to overcome them."
The two in Amy's yard are clearly in love and going to have ducklings....similar to Kat & Big P!!
Obviously the quotes (yes, multiple) for this episode are duck related, like this one: "Be like a duck. Calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath." - Michael Caine
Amy even shares a handful of duck jokes. This is our fav: Why did the duck go to the chiropractor? To get his back quacked.
A listener named Sarah emailed in to share that she's so thankful that she learned about Mel Robbins by listening to the 5th Thing! Mel posted this quote the other day and we love it: "Enough with the overthinking. Nobody gives a crap. Do it." Amy & Kat go over a few recent posts from Mel including one about ADHD & and one about knowing that you need to do something, but being too scared to do it!
Thanks & Have The Day You Need To Have!!!
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to the Fifth Thing. I'm Amy and
I'm Kat, and today's quote is, well, it's quotes plural
because I have a lot of them, and they all
have to do with ducks, because I'm a duck mom.
Now two ducks migrated to me. Kat just met them.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, you have two wild ducks.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yeah, and it's pretty awesome. I tentatively. Well, no, I
mean I feel like it's official now. Dolly is the
girl and Kenny is the boy for Dolly Pardon and
Kenny Rogers because of their song Island in the Stream,
that is what we are. You know. It's a love song.
(00:48):
And you saw them there.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
They love Yeah, and that's their partner for life, right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, they are two ducks in love and they are
likely making little ducklings in my bad tvd on that.
Kat is over here trying to tell me I need
to get the ducks out, and I'm sure that I do,
but I'm not gonna miss the opportunity to see the ducklings.
And what am I supposed to do? I would have
to call a wildlife experts.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I think that's what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
I guess this is why I'm making I'm making a
face at you right now that you guys can't see,
because my immediate thought was if you have two ducks
and their little ducklings, which I'm sure they have a bunch.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
When they don't have to have two, they probably have
like five.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Right, Yes, you're gonna have a lot of duck poop
all over your pool.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
That was my immediate thought.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
And then like, if I'm trying to lay out by
the pool, but then there's just all these like ducks
like quacking around, that would be amazing.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
That would be so annoying.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, just looked up. Islands in the Stream by Kenny
Rogers and Dolly Parton is an upbeat love song about
two lovers who rely on each other and find solace
in a relationship that is unchanging and unwavering.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Which is them because I feel like they're all each other.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Has you and big p.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Suck weed ducks.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
No, but your love is unchanging and unwavering. Planning a
marriage and you're getting Yeah, you're getting married. I am
it's crazy. How are you feeling about that? About getting
married or planning just a planning. Well, I'm almost done,
so I feel really good about it. And what I've
found through this process is everything costs seventeen times more
(02:25):
than you think it really should.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
But it's okay.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
But you've also gotten some I've got some deals deals
where it's like, oh yay, because you found a better
price on that, you get to order those disco balls.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
You want it.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
And I have not felt bad about asking if that's
like the best price.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
And normally I'd be like, okay, sure, I'll pay whatever,
but I'll send.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
A little email saying, oh, I don't know if we
can make that work, And of course then people are like, oh, well,
actually we can do this.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
So little pro tip. People aren't going to give you
the discount most of timeunless you ask for it.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So Dave Ramsey says, you're supposed to always, no matter
what you're buying, say is that the best price you
can give me?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
What do you mean always?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I don't think he cares where you are.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You just say what about the grocery store?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Do I say, like, for every individual item?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Is this the best price? In give me on these cheese?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's I think it's within reason, okay, especially if you're
buying something like a car.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Well that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Well, I guess also too, if you're buying like furniture
or something like that, because you don't know if some
are hidden somewhere is a code that they can scan.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Right, or if you see like a Sometimes we see
a scratch on something that we're buying and we say, hey,
can I get ten percent off? Or they may say, oh,
for the scratch, I'll do ten percent, And then you say,
is that the best you can do? And then then
maybe they do twenty.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Is that the best price you can give me?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I'm gonna start saying that instead of oh, I don't
know if we can do it. That sounds more like
professional and adult. Is that the best price you can
give me on those dis goo balls? Yes, because disco
balls cost a lot more than you think.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Are you renting them?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You're renting them.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
But what I have found is everything is more expensive
because I don't think about the fact that the labor
costs and then like tipping people and all that.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
But it's going well. I'm almost done planning in the
weddings in February.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So y'all should play Islands in the Stream.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Should that be your first dance song?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yes, there's more. The song speaks to the freedom, comfort,
and piece that come with being in a relationship that
is strong and supported. The chorus emphasizes the idea that
they are each other's islands in the stream and that
they are determined to sail to a better shared world together.
If y'all dance to this, I will bring the ducks
(04:35):
to the.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Hopefully the ducks have flown south for the winter at
that point.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
The song ultimately tells the story of a couple's unconditional
love that is strong enough to overcome any hardship.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Can you imagine if we did our first dance that
song and you were like, oh, hold on, and you
came out with a cage.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You know how people like release doves at weddings. If
you release and then they just walked around for the
rest of the wedding.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
No people worried about becoming you know, older cat lady.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
You're a duck lady.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I love my cat and I could see myself getting
another cat. But now I'm thinking, oh gosh, am I
gonna be old cat lady and old duck lady.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Well, it makes sense because you were the bird lady
for a while. I still am, and these are birds.
I yes, I think that the ducks came.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Where they have set up shop is right underneath my
bird feeder.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
There's probably some food down there they found.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Maybe because I've been worried about how they're eating. But
then Cat reminded me they're wild animals and they know
how to take care of themselves. Okay, So back to
my quotes that I found that are all duck related,
but they are inspiring.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
And encouraging them. They're not so they're serious.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
They're serious. They're ones you can use in your life,
like this one from Michael Caine. Be like a duck,
calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath. Huh.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
You know, wait, who is Michael Caye? Do you know
that he was in? Yes? I do.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Let me think he was in Dirty Rotten Scoundrels. What
I think? Hold on now, I have to look up.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Is that a band? Or is that a show?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
And she was also a miscongeniality. Oh you know what
I'm talking about. He was the Sandra Bull like her character,
miss congerality. He was the one that got her prim
and proper. Oh okay, you know I like him. I
think I remember Dirty Rotten Scoundrels because and now I'm like, what, Yes,
he wasn't that. Back in the day, McDonald's had these
things where you could get a quarter pounder and it
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would come with a VHS tape. Wait, what like a meal?
If you got two quarter pounder meals.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
It would come with a movie.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, and the first VHS tape my mom and I
we would go like once a week to see or
whenever a new VHS tape would come out, we would
go get the quarter pounder thing. And I always looked
forward to it. And one of the VHS tapes that
I got was Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, And so that's what
I always think of.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Wait, you just get a free movie. That is amazing.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I was also the kid, So maybe my mom had
to do more than that. I don't know. I feel
like we were just getting the ordering the quarterbounders and
then we got the VHS. But maybe it was that
you got to buy the movie at a discount price,
or maybe if you collected this many things you got it.
I wasn't the one paying.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
That reminds me when they had the Beanie the many
Beanie babies, and people would like go to McDonald's d
just to get the beanie babies.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, this is what we were doing, because we weren't
likely going to go to McDonald's if it wasn't for
the because we were Taco Bell family, because my mom
worked for Taco Bell and so can't go to the competition,
and they weren't.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Going to give you a movie at Taco Bell count anyway.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Okay, so this one's from Ellen Richards. If you keep
your feathers well oiled, the water of criticism will run
off as from a duck's back. It's a metaphor, but like,
don't let people's criticisms.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
So how do we How are we supposed to well
oil our feathers?
Speaker 1 (07:57):
That would be therapy? Okay, I'm thinking, where's your worthiness
coming from? Is it other people? Or is it within?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
So just some good old self care?
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Sure, Okay, this one's from I don't know how to
sit my BINCHI. I don't know how to say this
person's name, but I like this one. I don't think
you're happier if you're thin, or beautiful, or rich or married.
You have to make your own happiness. My heroines do
not become beautiful, elegant swans. They become confident ducks. And
get on with life. I think she's an author. That's
(08:29):
why she said my heroines like her characters.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Oh okay. I was trying to figure that out.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Because some people remember that show where they would do
the plastic surgery and it was called Swan or oh
my gosh, I can't what was it called.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
It was called the Swan, wasn't it.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
They did like total plastic surgery on these people to
make them in quotes beautiful.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yes, that is such a mess up show.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
So messed up. They went from the ugly ducklings to
the Swan. And so she's saying, uh huh, no, you
don't need to become a swan, you become a comp duck.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
You know.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
What I want to do is go research like how
those people have turned out that did that show?
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Now that I'm thinking about that, how is that allowed
to be on TV? I mean, I guess it's like
every show back then.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
But then also that's not to if someone wants to
make the choice on their own to have anything done,
cosmetic procedure, whatever you decide to do, that's on you
and for you to figure out in your healthy space
or mind from why it is you're doing it and
then when you come to that conclusion if you want
to do it, great, awesome, No judgment here about that.
(09:32):
It's just more of the show.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
It's life.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
There's a show other people tuning in and maybe looking
like something and then their weight. They're like, wait, I
look like that person. So now you're telling me yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
And for people to accepted, for other people to be like, hey,
if you get this work done, then you'll be able
to be a confident person. Right anyway, Okay, I like
that quote because of that story.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Do you have more?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Well, this one is just a saying. I'm sure a lot.
I don't know who said it originally, so I don't
have a personal reference, but you know, you know the saying.
Someone might need to hear this too, because if you've
got something going on in your life, you might need
this and you'll be like, oh, I should pay attention.
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck,
and quacks like a duck, then it's probably a duck.
And so if there's obvious signs of something in your
(10:17):
life where you're sort of in denial about it, remember that,
do you see how the ducks are coming in? Handy?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Thank God, do you have these ducks? That's what will
we talk about today?
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why did the duck end up in jail? He was
selling quack. What do you call a duck that breaks
into people's houses?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Wait, let me guess.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
I don't know a robber ducky? Okay, now on to
you know how everything is a sign for me? Well,
not everything, but I try to find signs. If you
hear my dog barking right now, she feels left out.
I don't know what is going on with her, but
something you're saying she's acting normal. I know she normally
(11:01):
can be kind of crazy, but it's worse. I don't
know what. I don't know what's closing this because we
record all the time and she doesn't behave like this,
but you usually have her in here sometimes I don't
and she doesn't do that.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Is it the ducks? She there's one hundred percent has
something to do with it? Okay, two ducks the meaning
of ducks?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Right?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So I had two ducks that arrived, so I was
researching it.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You act like that when you say like they arrived,
like you ordered them.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
They came to me. Okay, they did come to you.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Two ducks are generally seen as symbols of new beginnings
or change. Hello, that's me. This is because they have
the ability to adapt to new environments easily and quickly.
They're also known for being able to find food and
shelter and even the harshest conditions. As such, they can
be seen as a reminder that no matter what challenges
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we face in life, we always have the potential to
overcome them.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
So is that why you want to keep them?
Speaker 1 (12:12):
They have meaning?
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
No, I just like them even if they had no meaning.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
But that's a sweet connection.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, like I feel like it's a thing. Yeah, maybe
it's what if it's my mom and my dad? I mean,
do you not as the ducks but they sent them
to me?
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I mean, so what would the okay, so you're not
saying that that's your mom and dad, like the maile
is your dad?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
To say? What would the ducklings be? Now, sister my brother?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
No? No, no, no no. Like when my mom's a cardinal,
she's not really the cardinal. The cardinal is a symbol
of my mom and my dad's a blue jay for me,
I see it. It brings comfort.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
I think of them.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
It's a sign they they may send me the bird,
But I don't think my mom.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Is the dying around. Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
The reason why it's possible for to also be the
duck is because she's not actually these animals.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
Yeah yeah, So for you, what would your mom be
is she's sending you this sign of you're going to
be okay through at this new beginning or yeah, just
thinks that you might like them and they will bring
you joy.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Whatever challenges you face, you have the potential to overcome
them and new beginnings are here and all as well.
Because when I posted about the ducks, people were telling
me I was giving Tony soprano vibes because did you
ever watch the Sopranos?
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Never?
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Okay, so in the first episode I watched The Sopranos
back in the day. I haven't seen it in a
long time, but then I pulled up this video to
revisit it. And the ducks play a big part in
his life because they represent something. But they're in episode one,
and when I looked up the video, I was like, oh,
we could play this clip because he's actually talking to
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a therapist about the ducks, like he's in therapy and
it's when the ducks had flown away, and he's been
all sad, and then the therapist is helping him unpat
what he's really feeling about the ducks and what it
has to do with his life. What is it about
those ducks that meant so much to you? I don't know.
It was just a trip, Evanos.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
While creatures come into my pool and have their little babies.
That was said to see him call. When the ducks
gave birth to those babies, it became a family, right,
that's the link, a connection. I'm afraid I'm gonna lose
(14:33):
my family. I lost the ducks.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay, So just like all the emotions in the clip,
ducks also represent journey, perspective, vulnerability, and family, which is
like what was playing out there. I wonder if the
writer of Sopranos knew that ducks represent all that. I
think that they would have to probably anyway. So now
I'm worried when the ducks leave, do we need to
send somebody to your house? No, I'm not that attached
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them yet. He had other things going on, I know, Okay.
Ducks also are a reminder to take time for yourself.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
So now I'm like, oh, I guess duck's not a.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Reminder of because I think they have like seventeen different meanings.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Which I did cut off all the meanings. I made
a meaning of ducks video on my Instagram if anyone
cares to watch it, it's at Radio Amy and I
clearly had no life this past Friday night when I
made it, and I'm sure I'll make another one when
the ducklings arrive.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
So who decides what things like ducks.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Mean ancient people? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'm just thinking there's so many meanings. Can anybody just
put on Google ducks mean?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Then? Well, a lot of animals have meaning, so spiritual meaning?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So do you think duck this is spiritual meaning from
like ancient Egypt or something?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yes, or like even biblically like those numbers and animals
and different things proverbs?
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Okay, I need probably, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
I'm not trying to put you on the spot. I'm
just wondering because it seems that there's so many.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
It sounds like you are and no, I just want.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
To be sure that we're giving out accurate for me.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Well, obviously you can see it for what it is,
because some people might be like, well, I don't believe
in any of that stuff, so okay, then they're not
they're not going to take it. And then other people
are like, oh, I'm totally into that. I believe it
and that's amazing. And then they're going to go get
some ducks. They're going to order some ducks to arrive
at their house as well. No, because then it's not
you went out and got it. It's not a sign
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if you go order them.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But what if I have the urge to go get
a duck. Maybe their urge is.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Sure, I guess. But when they just like fly into
your backyard and set up camp, yeah, that's it's a
different vibe. So I've got an email from Sarah. She said,
Hey me, I just wanted to say thanks for talking
about your love of Mel Robbins on the podcast. I
recently started listening to her podcast and started following her
on Instagram. Holy couch, she's awesome. She's had a few
(16:59):
episodes lately to have really hit home for me with
anxiety and stress. I appreciate how you present ideas and
conversations on your podcasts, but aren't afraid to still recommend others.
I hope you're having the day you need to have,
which I pulled some recent mail posts that I thought
I would share. These are ones that stuck out to me.
These aren't podcast posts, but a lot of times what
(17:20):
she's posting on Instagram is from her podcast is in
alignment with that whatever episodes go up that week or whatever.
But I really really love this one. Winter is a
period of rest where you gather strength. Spring is a
time for growth where you harness all that strength you
gathered and reset your values, your goals in your life.
Spring is here, Savor it. And then another post she
(17:42):
had up was enough with the overthinking nobody gives a crap?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Do it? I feel like I need her to say
that to me a couple times a day.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Ezph for crap, she said the other word, oh, bet
for her, I edit it for here.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
On her podcast just warning, she selects the F word,
but she says it so.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
It sounds cool and you're like, yeah, now what else
would you say there?
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, she uses it well, but just warning because it's
a self help type podcast. But you might and you
might have it all with your kids and they'd be like, oh, hello,
hey there, which did I tell you that my daughter
had was lip syncing to some song and recorded it
on video and the decided to load it to TikTok
and we had to take it down and it was
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there a bad word. I could not believe it, and
she thought because she wasn't actually saying it, it's.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
A song because she was lip syncing this song.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
And I said, well, she also out had her school
shirt on.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
There was all kinds of things, you know what that is.
But I reminded myself.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
That yes, I sometimes think she's more mature than she
is because she is a mature, smart person. And I
think this is something for parents we need to always remember,
is that their brains aren't fully developed yet, they can't
always make the best choices. And so for me to
get mad at her for that, she wasn't doing it
intentionally and trying to be rebellious. She really thought there
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wasn't anything wrong with it. And I had to take
a few deep breaths and step back and say, Okay,
this is a teaching moment. Here's why I don't want
you to put those types of videos online. Because also
she's heard us cuss like I can't, and it is
in music, so sometimes it's okay for me to listen
to certain songs we try to listen to the clean version.
(19:27):
But it's just I don't want to come across as
hypocritical to her, But I just came up with a
good list of reasons as to why we don't want
to post videos like that or even make them or
have them on our phone at the risk of them
ending up in the wrong hands.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
And I like, you probably incorporated, not just you. It's like,
why none of us really want to do.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
That, right, And like I said, even my social media
because of my job, if I were to put up
a video like that, I would get a call from
a boss like, right now, you're getting a call from me,
because I had your ball her she was audience cool,
I said, you're getting a call from me. But I
would get a call from my boss saying, you know
doing you need to take that down. And then I
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would be like, Okay, I get it. And then I
wouldn't have the excuse of my brain not being fully
developed and understanding certain things. So another post that mel
had up recently was be honest with yourself. You know
what you need to do, you're just scared to do it.
And then she put up another one about how she
was diagnosed with ADHD at forty seven years old, and
(20:34):
I want to send people to it. You can scroll
down and try to find the posts. But she shared
the seven surprising symptoms that she had that she never
knew were ADHD, and those are anxiety about getting things done,
to do lists everywhere, leaving the faucet running, trouble coping
with stress, frequent mood swings, low frustration, tolerance, and then
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forgetting why she walked into her room and so for
her or getting the diagnosis and then whatever she's doing
to take care of it has helped her. Just knowing,
but like, oh, this is why this is happening because
I've talked about my ADHD. Sometimes I get emails from
people wanting to know certain things, and I'm like, oh,
everybody's story is so different and I can't say specifically,
(21:20):
Like someone was asking specifically what I was taking, and
for me, I don't feel like that's something I should answer.
That something you should seek out with a medical professional
to figure out for yourself what's going to be good
for you. And if you have ADHD, what if it's
something else or there's so many things that can look alike.
But if you can talk to the right person and
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take some of the right tests and have some of
the right conversations. You never know, it might be something else.
But you're the professional.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Well, I wouldn't be able to do that either, because
what you're saying is some people just knowing that there's
a name to what they're experiencing helps them deal with
it on their own.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Not everybody needs to be doing your.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Medication regimen or your self care regiment or your therapy regimen.
It's going to all be tailored to you, and your
symptoms are going to look different than mel robins, right,
it could be similar.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
I have also not medicated myself at different times, and
I have also tried a number of different types of
medication and some that other people love and I hate it.
Our chemical makeup is so different, so you never know.
I have some more duck jokes. You want to what
is story time called when you read to ducklings? What ducktails?
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Why did the duck go to a chiropractor to get
his back quacked? Yes?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Really, what time do ducks get up?
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Is it some kind of at the quack of dawn?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
I was going to say some duck of something?
Speaker 1 (22:51):
What a ducks used to fix things around the house
duc tape.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Oh, I should have known that.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
How did ducks make pancakes? They use this quack. I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
That was not as good.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
I know it's what it's the last one.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Those are good. I'm going to use thus with my
with my six year old niece. I think she'll like.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
You're welcome, Kat. Where can people find you?
Speaker 3 (23:13):
On Instagram?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
At at cat dot defauda and at You Need Therapy podcast.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
And I am at Radio Amy. You can also hit
up radioamy dot com and Kat and I both hope
that you have the day you need to have.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
Bye Bye,
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to the Fifth Thing. I'm Amy and
I'm Kat, and today's quote is, well, it's quotes plural
because I have a lot of them, and they all
have to do with ducks, because I'm a duck mom.
Now two ducks migrated to me. Kat just met them.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, you have two wild ducks.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yeah, and it's pretty awesome. I tentatively. Well, no, I
mean I feel like it's official now. Dolly is the
girl and Kenny is the boy for Dolly Pardon and
Kenny Rogers because of their song Island in the Stream,
that is what we are. You know. It's a love song.
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And you saw them there.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
They love Yeah, and that's their partner for life, right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, they are two ducks in love and they are
likely making little ducklings in my bad tvd on that.
Kat is over here trying to tell me I need
to get the ducks out, and I'm sure that I do,
but I'm not gonna miss the opportunity to see the ducklings.
And what am I supposed to do? I would have
to call a wildlife experts.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
I think that's what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
I guess this is why I'm making I'm making a
face at you right now that you guys can't see,
because my immediate thought was if you have two ducks
and their little ducklings, which I'm sure they have a bunch.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
When they don't have to have two, they probably have
like five.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Right, Yes, you're gonna have a lot of duck poop
all over your pool.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
That was my immediate thought.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
And then like, if I'm trying to lay out by
the pool, but then there's just all these like ducks
like quacking around, that would be amazing.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
That would be so annoying.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, just looked up. Islands in the Stream by Kenny
Rogers and Dolly Parton is an upbeat love song about
two lovers who rely on each other and find solace
in a relationship that is unchanging and unwavering.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Which is them because I feel like they're all each other.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Has you and big p.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Suck weed ducks.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
No, but your love is unchanging and unwavering. Planning a
marriage and you're getting Yeah, you're getting married. I am
it's crazy. How are you feeling about that? About getting
married or planning just a planning. Well, I'm almost done,
so I feel really good about it. And what I've
found through this process is everything costs seventeen times more
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than you think it really should.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
But it's okay.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
But you've also gotten some I've got some deals deals
where it's like, oh yay, because you found a better
price on that, you get to order those disco balls.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
You want it.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
And I have not felt bad about asking if that's
like the best price.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
And normally I'd be like, okay, sure, I'll pay whatever,
but I'll send.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
A little email saying, oh, I don't know if we
can make that work, And of course then people are like, oh, well,
actually we can do this.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
So little pro tip. People aren't going to give you
the discount most of timeunless you ask for it.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So Dave Ramsey says, you're supposed to always, no matter
what you're buying, say is that the best price you
can give me?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
What do you mean always?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I don't think he cares where you are.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You just say what about the grocery store?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Do I say, like, for every individual item?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Is this the best price? In give me on these cheese?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's I think it's within reason, okay, especially if you're
buying something like a car.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Well that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Well, I guess also too, if you're buying like furniture
or something like that, because you don't know if some
are hidden somewhere is a code that they can scan.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Right, or if you see like a Sometimes we see
a scratch on something that we're buying and we say, hey,
can I get ten percent off? Or they may say, oh,
for the scratch, I'll do ten percent, And then you say,
is that the best you can do? And then then
maybe they do twenty.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Is that the best price you can give me?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I'm gonna start saying that instead of oh, I don't
know if we can do it. That sounds more like
professional and adult. Is that the best price you can
give me on those dis goo balls? Yes, because disco
balls cost a lot more than you think.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Are you renting them?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You're renting them.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
But what I have found is everything is more expensive
because I don't think about the fact that the labor
costs and then like tipping people and all that.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
But it's going well. I'm almost done planning in the
weddings in February.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So y'all should play Islands in the Stream.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Should that be your first dance song?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yes, there's more. The song speaks to the freedom, comfort,
and piece that come with being in a relationship that
is strong and supported. The chorus emphasizes the idea that
they are each other's islands in the stream and that
they are determined to sail to a better shared world together.
If y'all dance to this, I will bring the ducks
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to the.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Hopefully the ducks have flown south for the winter at
that point.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
The song ultimately tells the story of a couple's unconditional
love that is strong enough to overcome any hardship.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Can you imagine if we did our first dance that
song and you were like, oh, hold on, and you
came out with a cage.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
You know how people like release doves at weddings. If
you release and then they just walked around for the
rest of the wedding.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
No people worried about becoming you know, older cat lady.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
You're a duck lady.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I love my cat and I could see myself getting
another cat. But now I'm thinking, oh gosh, am I
gonna be old cat lady and old duck lady.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Well, it makes sense because you were the bird lady
for a while. I still am, and these are birds.
I yes, I think that the ducks came.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Where they have set up shop is right underneath my
bird feeder.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
There's probably some food down there they found.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Maybe because I've been worried about how they're eating. But
then Cat reminded me they're wild animals and they know
how to take care of themselves. Okay, So back to
my quotes that I found that are all duck related,
but they are inspiring.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
And encouraging them. They're not so they're serious.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
They're serious. They're ones you can use in your life,
like this one from Michael Caine. Be like a duck,
calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath. Huh.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
You know, wait, who is Michael Caye? Do you know
that he was in? Yes? I do.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Let me think he was in Dirty Rotten Scoundrels. What
I think? Hold on now, I have to look up.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Is that a band? Or is that a show?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
And she was also a miscongeniality. Oh you know what
I'm talking about. He was the Sandra Bull like her character,
miss congerality. He was the one that got her prim
and proper. Oh okay, you know I like him. I
think I remember Dirty Rotten Scoundrels because and now I'm like, what, Yes,
he wasn't that. Back in the day, McDonald's had these
things where you could get a quarter pounder and it
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would come with a VHS tape. Wait, what like a meal?
If you got two quarter pounder meals.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
It would come with a movie.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, and the first VHS tape my mom and I
we would go like once a week to see or
whenever a new VHS tape would come out, we would
go get the quarter pounder thing. And I always looked
forward to it. And one of the VHS tapes that
I got was Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, And so that's what
I always think of.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Wait, you just get a free movie. That is amazing.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I was also the kid, So maybe my mom had
to do more than that. I don't know. I feel
like we were just getting the ordering the quarterbounders and
then we got the VHS. But maybe it was that
you got to buy the movie at a discount price,
or maybe if you collected this many things you got it.
I wasn't the one paying.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
That reminds me when they had the Beanie the many
Beanie babies, and people would like go to McDonald's d
just to get the beanie babies.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, this is what we were doing, because we weren't
likely going to go to McDonald's if it wasn't for
the because we were Taco Bell family, because my mom
worked for Taco Bell and so can't go to the competition,
and they weren't.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Going to give you a movie at Taco Bell count anyway.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Okay, so this one's from Ellen Richards. If you keep
your feathers well oiled, the water of criticism will run
off as from a duck's back. It's a metaphor, but like,
don't let people's criticisms.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
So how do we How are we supposed to well
oil our feathers?
Speaker 1 (07:57):
That would be therapy? Okay, I'm thinking, where's your worthiness
coming from? Is it other people? Or is it within?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
So just some good old self care?
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Sure, Okay, this one's from I don't know how to
sit my BINCHI. I don't know how to say this
person's name, but I like this one. I don't think
you're happier if you're thin, or beautiful, or rich or married.
You have to make your own happiness. My heroines do
not become beautiful, elegant swans. They become confident ducks. And
get on with life. I think she's an author. That's
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why she said my heroines like her characters.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Oh okay. I was trying to figure that out.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Because some people remember that show where they would do
the plastic surgery and it was called Swan or oh
my gosh, I can't what was it called.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
It was called the Swan, wasn't it.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
They did like total plastic surgery on these people to
make them in quotes beautiful.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yes, that is such a mess up show.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
So messed up. They went from the ugly ducklings to
the Swan. And so she's saying, uh huh, no, you
don't need to become a swan, you become a comp duck.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
You know.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
What I want to do is go research like how
those people have turned out that did that show?
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Now that I'm thinking about that, how is that allowed
to be on TV? I mean, I guess it's like
every show back then.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
But then also that's not to if someone wants to
make the choice on their own to have anything done,
cosmetic procedure, whatever you decide to do, that's on you
and for you to figure out in your healthy space
or mind from why it is you're doing it and
then when you come to that conclusion if you want
to do it, great, awesome, No judgment here about that.
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It's just more of the show.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
It's life.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
There's a show other people tuning in and maybe looking
like something and then their weight. They're like, wait, I
look like that person. So now you're telling me yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
And for people to accepted, for other people to be like, hey,
if you get this work done, then you'll be able
to be a confident person. Right anyway, Okay, I like
that quote because of that story.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Do you have more?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Well, this one is just a saying. I'm sure a lot.
I don't know who said it originally, so I don't
have a personal reference, but you know, you know the saying.
Someone might need to hear this too, because if you've
got something going on in your life, you might need
this and you'll be like, oh, I should pay attention.
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck,
and quacks like a duck, then it's probably a duck.
And so if there's obvious signs of something in your
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life where you're sort of in denial about it, remember that,
do you see how the ducks are coming in? Handy?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Thank God, do you have these ducks? That's what will
we talk about today?
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why did the duck end up in jail? He was
selling quack. What do you call a duck that breaks
into people's houses?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Wait, let me guess.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
I don't know a robber ducky? Okay, now on to
you know how everything is a sign for me? Well,
not everything, but I try to find signs. If you
hear my dog barking right now, she feels left out.
I don't know what is going on with her, but
something you're saying she's acting normal. I know she normally
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can be kind of crazy, but it's worse. I don't
know what. I don't know what's closing this because we
record all the time and she doesn't behave like this,
but you usually have her in here sometimes I don't
and she doesn't do that.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Is it the ducks? She there's one hundred percent has
something to do with it? Okay, two ducks the meaning
of ducks?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Right?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So I had two ducks that arrived, so I was
researching it.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You act like that when you say like they arrived,
like you ordered them.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
They came to me. Okay, they did come to you.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Two ducks are generally seen as symbols of new beginnings
or change. Hello, that's me. This is because they have
the ability to adapt to new environments easily and quickly.
They're also known for being able to find food and
shelter and even the harshest conditions. As such, they can
be seen as a reminder that no matter what challenges
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we face in life, we always have the potential to
overcome them.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
So is that why you want to keep them?
Speaker 1 (12:12):
They have meaning?
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
No, I just like them even if they had no meaning.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
But that's a sweet connection.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, like I feel like it's a thing. Yeah, maybe
it's what if it's my mom and my dad? I mean,
do you not as the ducks but they sent them
to me?
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I mean, so what would the okay, so you're not
saying that that's your mom and dad, like the maile
is your dad?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
To say? What would the ducklings be? Now, sister my brother?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
No? No, no, no no. Like when my mom's a cardinal,
she's not really the cardinal. The cardinal is a symbol
of my mom and my dad's a blue jay for me,
I see it. It brings comfort.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
I think of them.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
It's a sign they they may send me the bird,
But I don't think my mom.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Is the dying around. Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
The reason why it's possible for to also be the
duck is because she's not actually these animals.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
Yeah yeah, So for you, what would your mom be
is she's sending you this sign of you're going to
be okay through at this new beginning or yeah, just
thinks that you might like them and they will bring
you joy.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Whatever challenges you face, you have the potential to overcome
them and new beginnings are here and all as well.
Because when I posted about the ducks, people were telling
me I was giving Tony soprano vibes because did you
ever watch the Sopranos?
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Never?
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Okay, so in the first episode I watched The Sopranos
back in the day. I haven't seen it in a
long time, but then I pulled up this video to
revisit it. And the ducks play a big part in
his life because they represent something. But they're in episode one,
and when I looked up the video, I was like, oh,
we could play this clip because he's actually talking to
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a therapist about the ducks, like he's in therapy and
it's when the ducks had flown away, and he's been
all sad, and then the therapist is helping him unpat
what he's really feeling about the ducks and what it
has to do with his life. What is it about
those ducks that meant so much to you? I don't know.
It was just a trip, Evanos.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
While creatures come into my pool and have their little babies.
That was said to see him call. When the ducks
gave birth to those babies, it became a family, right,
that's the link, a connection. I'm afraid I'm gonna lose
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my family. I lost the ducks.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay, So just like all the emotions in the clip,
ducks also represent journey, perspective, vulnerability, and family, which is
like what was playing out there. I wonder if the
writer of Sopranos knew that ducks represent all that. I
think that they would have to probably anyway. So now
I'm worried when the ducks leave, do we need to
send somebody to your house? No, I'm not that attached
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them yet. He had other things going on, I know, Okay.
Ducks also are a reminder to take time for yourself.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
So now I'm like, oh, I guess duck's not a.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Reminder of because I think they have like seventeen different meanings.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Which I did cut off all the meanings. I made
a meaning of ducks video on my Instagram if anyone
cares to watch it, it's at Radio Amy and I
clearly had no life this past Friday night when I
made it, and I'm sure I'll make another one when
the ducklings arrive.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
So who decides what things like ducks.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Mean ancient people? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I'm just thinking there's so many meanings. Can anybody just
put on Google ducks mean?
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Then? Well, a lot of animals have meaning, so spiritual meaning?
Speaker 2 (15:49):
So do you think duck this is spiritual meaning from
like ancient Egypt or something?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yes, or like even biblically like those numbers and animals
and different things proverbs?
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Okay, I need probably, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
I'm not trying to put you on the spot. I'm
just wondering because it seems that there's so many.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
It sounds like you are and no, I just want.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
To be sure that we're giving out accurate for me.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Well, obviously you can see it for what it is,
because some people might be like, well, I don't believe
in any of that stuff, so okay, then they're not
they're not going to take it. And then other people
are like, oh, I'm totally into that. I believe it
and that's amazing. And then they're going to go get
some ducks. They're going to order some ducks to arrive
at their house as well. No, because then it's not
you went out and got it. It's not a sign
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if you go order them.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But what if I have the urge to go get
a duck. Maybe their urge is.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Sure, I guess. But when they just like fly into
your backyard and set up camp, yeah, that's it's a
different vibe. So I've got an email from Sarah. She said,
Hey me, I just wanted to say thanks for talking
about your love of Mel Robbins on the podcast. I
recently started listening to her podcast and started following her
on Instagram. Holy couch, she's awesome. She's had a few
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episodes lately to have really hit home for me with
anxiety and stress. I appreciate how you present ideas and
conversations on your podcasts, but aren't afraid to still recommend others.
I hope you're having the day you need to have,
which I pulled some recent mail posts that I thought
I would share. These are ones that stuck out to me.
These aren't podcast posts, but a lot of times what
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she's posting on Instagram is from her podcast is in
alignment with that whatever episodes go up that week or whatever.
But I really really love this one. Winter is a
period of rest where you gather strength. Spring is a
time for growth where you harness all that strength you
gathered and reset your values, your goals in your life.
Spring is here, Savor it. And then another post she
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had up was enough with the overthinking nobody gives a crap?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Do it? I feel like I need her to say
that to me a couple times a day.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Ezph for crap, she said the other word, oh, bet
for her, I edit it for here.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
On her podcast just warning, she selects the F word,
but she says it so.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
It sounds cool and you're like, yeah, now what else
would you say there?
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, she uses it well, but just warning because it's
a self help type podcast. But you might and you
might have it all with your kids and they'd be like, oh, hello,
hey there, which did I tell you that my daughter
had was lip syncing to some song and recorded it
on video and the decided to load it to TikTok
and we had to take it down and it was
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there a bad word. I could not believe it, and
she thought because she wasn't actually saying it, it's.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
A song because she was lip syncing this song.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
And I said, well, she also out had her school
shirt on.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
There was all kinds of things, you know what that is.
But I reminded myself.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
That yes, I sometimes think she's more mature than she
is because she is a mature, smart person. And I
think this is something for parents we need to always remember,
is that their brains aren't fully developed yet, they can't
always make the best choices. And so for me to
get mad at her for that, she wasn't doing it
intentionally and trying to be rebellious. She really thought there
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wasn't anything wrong with it. And I had to take
a few deep breaths and step back and say, Okay,
this is a teaching moment. Here's why I don't want
you to put those types of videos online. Because also
she's heard us cuss like I can't, and it is
in music, so sometimes it's okay for me to listen
to certain songs we try to listen to the clean version.
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But it's just I don't want to come across as
hypocritical to her, But I just came up with a
good list of reasons as to why we don't want
to post videos like that or even make them or
have them on our phone at the risk of them
ending up in the wrong hands.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
And I like, you probably incorporated, not just you. It's like,
why none of us really want to do.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
That, right, And like I said, even my social media
because of my job, if I were to put up
a video like that, I would get a call from
a boss like, right now, you're getting a call from me,
because I had your ball her she was audience cool,
I said, you're getting a call from me. But I
would get a call from my boss saying, you know
doing you need to take that down. And then I
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would be like, Okay, I get it. And then I
wouldn't have the excuse of my brain not being fully
developed and understanding certain things. So another post that mel
had up recently was be honest with yourself. You know
what you need to do, you're just scared to do it.
And then she put up another one about how she
was diagnosed with ADHD at forty seven years old, and
(20:34):
I want to send people to it. You can scroll
down and try to find the posts. But she shared
the seven surprising symptoms that she had that she never
knew were ADHD, and those are anxiety about getting things done,
to do lists everywhere, leaving the faucet running, trouble coping
with stress, frequent mood swings, low frustration, tolerance, and then
(20:55):
forgetting why she walked into her room and so for
her or getting the diagnosis and then whatever she's doing
to take care of it has helped her. Just knowing,
but like, oh, this is why this is happening because
I've talked about my ADHD. Sometimes I get emails from
people wanting to know certain things, and I'm like, oh,
everybody's story is so different and I can't say specifically,
(21:20):
Like someone was asking specifically what I was taking, and
for me, I don't feel like that's something I should answer.
That something you should seek out with a medical professional
to figure out for yourself what's going to be good
for you. And if you have ADHD, what if it's
something else or there's so many things that can look alike.
But if you can talk to the right person and
(21:40):
take some of the right tests and have some of
the right conversations. You never know, it might be something else.
But you're the professional.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Well, I wouldn't be able to do that either, because
what you're saying is some people just knowing that there's
a name to what they're experiencing helps them deal with
it on their own.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Not everybody needs to be doing your.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Medication regimen or your self care regiment or your therapy regimen.
It's going to all be tailored to you, and your
symptoms are going to look different than mel robins, right,
it could be similar.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
I have also not medicated myself at different times, and
I have also tried a number of different types of
medication and some that other people love and I hate it.
Our chemical makeup is so different, so you never know.
I have some more duck jokes. You want to what
is story time called when you read to ducklings? What ducktails?
(22:36):
Why did the duck go to a chiropractor to get
his back quacked? Yes?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Really, what time do ducks get up?
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Is it some kind of at the quack of dawn?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
I was going to say some duck of something?
Speaker 1 (22:51):
What a ducks used to fix things around the house
duc tape.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Oh, I should have known that.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
How did ducks make pancakes? They use this quack. I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
That was not as good.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
I know it's what it's the last one.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Those are good. I'm going to use thus with my
with my six year old niece. I think she'll like.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
You're welcome, Kat. Where can people find you?
Speaker 3 (23:13):
On Instagram?
Speaker 2 (23:14):
At at cat dot defauda and at You Need Therapy podcast.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
And I am at Radio Amy. You can also hit
up radioamy dot com and Kat and I both hope
that you have the day you need to have.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
Bye Bye,
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