May 14, 2024 • 7 mins
Steve has been hanging out with Everly and things were going great until she saw that he had her phone number saved in his contacts as "Random Hookup #4," and she hasn't talked to him since! He's been pushed back to the Friendzone, and he wants out. Can we help?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You know, I've been seeing this girl everly for like
a month now, and you know, she's she's beautiful, she's amazing,
really really nice girl. We met at a bar and
you know, we were drinking. I landed her number at
the end of the night and you know we had
a date you know by the you know, next week,
and like, I don't know, I feel totally clicked. You know,
(00:21):
she was exactly what I'm looking for. Personality wise, is great.
You know, the after hours play dates was, you know,
it was amazing. And here's where, like, I don't know,
we had a misunderstanding. Was like last week, you know,
we were at dinner and the end of the night
comes and you know, I couldn't find my phone in
my truck. I asked her to call it, so, knowing
(00:44):
my luck, it was under her seat. It fell in
between the seat and she picked it up and she
saw that I had her saved as random hookup number
four on the phone. No yeah, And I was like, well,
this isn't good, and I mean yeah, so she got
(01:04):
all mad. She slammed the door.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Why, I mean, sorry, yeah, I know, what, well, what
do you say in defense of that?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I guess I mean honestly, Like, I don't even know
what to say, Like she just kind of caught I
just I don't know why I saved it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Wouldn't you want to keep a name on there, wouldn't
it be? I mean, if you liked random hookup number
four was a four or five?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Uh it was four?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Okay, wouldn't you want to have a name on there? Yeah? Yeah, okay, Yeah, So,
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I haven't seen her. She's like pretty much ghosted me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So so basically this is like repair mode stuff that
we're doing. I don't know how we're gonna I don't
know what what I mean. I'll let you say whatever
you need to say to her, get down on both knees,
whatever you gotta do. But we'll do that next. Okay,
can you hold the line?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
All right, So let's all Everly with Steve on the
phone to get to the bottle of what's going on here.
It's a cool name like that. Hello, Hey, is this Everly?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yes, yes it is.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's Kristen Camble too. I love your name, by the way, Well,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I'm not trying to butter you up, Susan. But if
I ever had a daughter. That would be like the
perfect name I just love.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah, it's my grandmother's name. I was named after my grandmother.
So I heard you lost it be you sound You
sound so much like how you sound. You sound the
same on the phone as you do on the radio.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
We thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I maybe yeah, well, I you know I'm calling, but
you don't really know why. Can I get to the why?
And you may already have it figured out? But it
means bringing somebody in. Can I do that quick?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, come on.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
And say hi, Everly? Hello? Who is this Everly? Don't
don't hang up?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Okay, who is this?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
This is? This is Steve, not to Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I know, I hope.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Uh yeah, that's that's Steve. But but hold on, uh.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
He's not, by the way, he's not calling to make
the situation worse. He's trying to do something else. Go ahead, Steve. Okay,
but I so I blocked you, and you have to
call a radio station. You can't just like borrow a friendsbone.
Oh my god, I.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Mean yeah, that's like, this is how desperate I am
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
By the way, I didn't know he did that. I
did not know he did that.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I'm like you sneaky little but anyway, he go ahead
and say what you need to say, Steve.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah, I just I need to talk to you, like
I have to get some stuff off my chest. Okay, okay,
did he now?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Did he tell you that my name was random hookup
number four?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
By the way, five, six, seven, and eight?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I will say I told him everything, like and trust me,
they're they're on your side. I just need you just
to hear me out, so like a minute, okay, like please, okay,
but first can you will you tell me did you
call one, two, and three?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Do they know?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
No? Stop?
Speaker 1 (04:09):
No, they there's no one, two, you know? Three or five?
There's not Like okay, whatever, Okay, well, I mean I
really let's let's be honest. When when we met, like
be real, we we had some liquor that night, right, Yeah,
I wish we didn't, I know, but like I was
(04:29):
so drunk and I put you in the phone as
that for. I don't know why I did it. I'm
an idiot, okay, And I probably thought it was funny
at the time. And I woke up scrambling to find
your number on my phone. I even said to myself,
and I saw it. I was like, oh, you're idiot.
You are an idiot.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
No, LIKEE see the idiot number four? Or is the
idiot number five?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
These idiot number.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
One, four and five? No, I know, I trust me.
I was laughing at myself, like how stupid it was.
I had like a I haven't had a date in years,
like that, I haven't given my number to any girl
in years. I haven't had a random hookup in years.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
So okay, So I am though a random hookup like
you do random hookups.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So no, no, no, no, that's not what I'm saying. That's
not what i'm saying. I don't, I don't want to
be That's why I'm calling, Like I'm just a drunk,
stupid person. I just I shouldn't have done that. There's
no excuses, Like I'm being completely honest with you, Like
I want to date you, like I want to wine
and dine you, I want to like text you like
good morning and good night and stuff, and like I
(05:32):
want to take you to the movies and go to
concerts like I think would be a good match. So
I'm sorry, Really, I amn't.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He wouldn't be on the air doing this if he
didn't feel all this way, it does not take back
what he did. It does not take back what you
saw being random hookup number four on his phone as
the contact, which meant you can't take any of that away.
But I don't know why he'd be calling back to
do this, like just to torture you, or because he
feels he made the biggest mistake. I'm not defending those
(05:59):
his actions, by the way, I'm not defending anything. I'm
just giving it to you. And if you, guys want
to try to go into repair mode, we can take
you out to dinner. But if you don't want to
do that, we absolutely understand too. It's a dinner that's
paid for by K.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
One O two.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Okay, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
So you haven't been seeing anybody else?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
No, I swear you can go through my phone if
you want to.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
No, no, no, no, no, no, that's a nice it's an
awful way to to know.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't want to go through your phone. I just
want to know that you're not like making fun of
me or like being a player. I don't know, it's
just creepy. No, I know, I totally understand. That's why
I want to I want to take you on another date.
I want to like redo things and see if you
know we can start a relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Would you give him one more date?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
By the way, I'm not pleaing for him by any means,
by the way at all.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And I know there's a lot of cabin action.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You can even say, I'll think about it, because we
always like an answer by the end. But I can't
make you do that. But if you know him well
enough here you feel you kind of know where this
was going before that happened, and you know you realize
he's doing it publicly and everything else. Not trying to
sway him, really not. But just if you want to
and you could commit, we'll hook you up with dinner.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I am so mad though.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
You're such a jerk.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
It was so stupid.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Is he random jerk number one, two, three, four and five?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yes, random jerk number one number one? Absolutely so dinner dinner, Okay, Yes,
he is cute.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
We were having a lot of times before all that.
Like I mean, I say, one more chance.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
All right, one chance, Steve, you screwed this up. We're
gonna haunt you. Do you understand, I know, I understand
You know, I've been seeing this girl everly for like
a month now, and you know, she's she's beautiful, she's amazing,
really really nice girl. We met at a bar and
you know, we were drinking. I landed her number at
the end of the night and you know we had
a date you know by the you know, next week,
and like, I don't know, I feel totally clicked. You know,
(00:21):
she was exactly what I'm looking for. Personality wise, is great.
You know, the after hours play dates was, you know,
it was amazing. And here's where, like, I don't know,
we had a misunderstanding. Was like last week, you know,
we were at dinner and the end of the night
comes and you know, I couldn't find my phone in
my truck. I asked her to call it, so, knowing
(00:44):
my luck, it was under her seat. It fell in
between the seat and she picked it up and she
saw that I had her saved as random hookup number
four on the phone. No yeah, And I was like, well,
this isn't good, and I mean yeah, so she got
(01:04):
all mad. She slammed the door.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Why, I mean, sorry, yeah, I know, what, well, what
do you say in defense of that?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I guess I mean honestly, Like, I don't even know
what to say, Like she just kind of caught I
just I don't know why I saved it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Wouldn't you want to keep a name on there, wouldn't
it be? I mean, if you liked random hookup number
four was a four or five?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Uh it was four?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Okay, wouldn't you want to have a name on there? Yeah? Yeah, okay, Yeah, So,
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I haven't seen her. She's like pretty much ghosted me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So so basically this is like repair mode stuff that
we're doing. I don't know how we're gonna I don't
know what what I mean. I'll let you say whatever
you need to say to her, get down on both knees,
whatever you gotta do. But we'll do that next. Okay,
can you hold the line?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
All right, So let's all Everly with Steve on the
phone to get to the bottle of what's going on here.
It's a cool name like that. Hello, Hey, is this Everly?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yes, yes it is.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's Kristen Camble too. I love your name, by the way, Well,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I'm not trying to butter you up, Susan. But if
I ever had a daughter. That would be like the
perfect name I just love.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah, it's my grandmother's name. I was named after my grandmother.
So I heard you lost it be you sound You
sound so much like how you sound. You sound the
same on the phone as you do on the radio.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
We thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I maybe yeah, well, I you know I'm calling, but
you don't really know why. Can I get to the why?
And you may already have it figured out? But it
means bringing somebody in. Can I do that quick?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, come on.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
And say hi, Everly? Hello? Who is this Everly? Don't
don't hang up?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Okay, who is this?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
This is? This is Steve, not to Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I know, I hope.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Uh yeah, that's that's Steve. But but hold on, uh.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
He's not, by the way, he's not calling to make
the situation worse. He's trying to do something else. Go ahead, Steve. Okay,
but I so I blocked you, and you have to
call a radio station. You can't just like borrow a friendsbone.
Oh my god, I.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Mean yeah, that's like, this is how desperate I am
to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
By the way, I didn't know he did that. I
did not know he did that.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I'm like you sneaky little but anyway, he go ahead
and say what you need to say, Steve.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah, I just I need to talk to you, like
I have to get some stuff off my chest. Okay, okay,
did he now?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Did he tell you that my name was random hookup
number four?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
By the way, five, six, seven, and eight?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I will say I told him everything, like and trust me,
they're they're on your side. I just need you just
to hear me out, so like a minute, okay, like please, okay,
but first can you will you tell me did you
call one, two, and three?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Do they know?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
No? Stop?
Speaker 1 (04:09):
No, they there's no one, two, you know? Three or five?
There's not Like okay, whatever, Okay, well, I mean I
really let's let's be honest. When when we met, like
be real, we we had some liquor that night, right, Yeah,
I wish we didn't, I know, but like I was
(04:29):
so drunk and I put you in the phone as
that for. I don't know why I did it. I'm
an idiot, okay, And I probably thought it was funny
at the time. And I woke up scrambling to find
your number on my phone. I even said to myself,
and I saw it. I was like, oh, you're idiot.
You are an idiot.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
No, LIKEE see the idiot number four? Or is the
idiot number five?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
These idiot number.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
One, four and five? No, I know, I trust me.
I was laughing at myself, like how stupid it was.
I had like a I haven't had a date in years,
like that, I haven't given my number to any girl
in years. I haven't had a random hookup in years.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
So okay, So I am though a random hookup like
you do random hookups.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So no, no, no, no, that's not what I'm saying. That's
not what i'm saying. I don't, I don't want to
be That's why I'm calling, Like I'm just a drunk,
stupid person. I just I shouldn't have done that. There's
no excuses, Like I'm being completely honest with you, Like
I want to date you, like I want to wine
and dine you, I want to like text you like
good morning and good night and stuff, and like I
(05:32):
want to take you to the movies and go to
concerts like I think would be a good match. So
I'm sorry, Really, I amn't.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He wouldn't be on the air doing this if he
didn't feel all this way, it does not take back
what he did. It does not take back what you
saw being random hookup number four on his phone as
the contact, which meant you can't take any of that away.
But I don't know why he'd be calling back to
do this, like just to torture you, or because he
feels he made the biggest mistake. I'm not defending those
(05:59):
his actions, by the way, I'm not defending anything. I'm
just giving it to you. And if you, guys want
to try to go into repair mode, we can take
you out to dinner. But if you don't want to
do that, we absolutely understand too. It's a dinner that's
paid for by K.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
One O two.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Okay, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
So you haven't been seeing anybody else?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
No, I swear you can go through my phone if
you want to.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
No, no, no, no, no, no, that's a nice it's an
awful way to to know.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't want to go through your phone. I just
want to know that you're not like making fun of
me or like being a player. I don't know, it's
just creepy. No, I know, I totally understand. That's why
I want to I want to take you on another date.
I want to like redo things and see if you
know we can start a relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Would you give him one more date?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
By the way, I'm not pleaing for him by any means,
by the way at all.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And I know there's a lot of cabin action.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You can even say, I'll think about it, because we
always like an answer by the end. But I can't
make you do that. But if you know him well
enough here you feel you kind of know where this
was going before that happened, and you know you realize
he's doing it publicly and everything else. Not trying to
sway him, really not. But just if you want to
and you could commit, we'll hook you up with dinner.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I am so mad though.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
You're such a jerk.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
It was so stupid.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Is he random jerk number one, two, three, four and five?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yes, random jerk number one number one? Absolutely so dinner dinner, Okay, Yes,
he is cute.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
We were having a lot of times before all that.
Like I mean, I say, one more chance.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
All right, one chance, Steve, you screwed this up. We're
gonna haunt you. Do you understand, I know, I understand
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