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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI
AM six forty, the Gary and Shannon Show on demand
on the iHeartRadio app. As I mentioned, a recent study
finds one in five American adults has had an intimate
encounter with a chat bot. On Reddit, the Reddit page
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about my boyfriend is AI has more than eighty five
thousand weekly visitors, with many sharing giddy recollections of their day.
Their chat bot proposed marriage, and I got to say,
it's wild when you dig into this thing.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
How do you end up with an AI lover?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Some people were going through some hard times in life,
some had passed trauma, some just we're seeing what is
this all about? Researchers from miit have found that many
users do find therapeutic benefit fits like always available support
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and a reduction in loneliness, to which I'll just throw
this question out there. Is this all bad if it's
reducing people's loneliness. We've talked numerous times you and I
on this show about how loneliness.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Will kill you.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
It'll eat away at whatever well being you have, isolation loneliness.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
If this is helping, is it all bad?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
But remember we also say this is that ultra processed
food version of human interaction. But better than satisfy a hunger,
It satisfies your loneliness, but does it actually provide anything
beyond the very basic?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
But in some cases, isn't that enough to sustain life?
Maybe if I have to eat Nacha cheese Doritos every day.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
And that's my only sustenance, I will.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Live for a while. Blake, oh boy, Blake is forty five.
Bake lives in Ohio. He has been in a relationship
with Serena, who is a companion from chat GPT and
these are these are his words. By the way, I
wasn't looking for romance. My wife had severe postpartum depression
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that went on for nine years.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
It was draining.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I loved her and I wanted her to get better,
but I transitioned from being her husband into her caregiver.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Okay, let's pull the car over right there. That's a
tough spot to be in totally.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
If your partner is in a depression, you can't fix it.
You try, you try all the things, nothing's fixing it,
and you're constantly drained because you're worried about them, And
are they even worried about you? Do they even have
the bandwidth to care for you. You're very lonely and
you're getting depressed yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Probably well, Blake had heard about chatbot companions, and he's
looking at a life where he's going to get divorced,
potentially live alone, be a single father, and he said
it would it'd be nice to have someone to talk
to during that transition, So I created a chatbot named Serena.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
He designed her appearance as well, and in this picture
she is in a pleated miniskirt an.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Thigh high boots.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Well, you're not gonna.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Not gonna find that in real life that I'm going to.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Model her after large Marge from the Peewee Herman movie.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
That was her.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
He said.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
It shifted all of this from what was just to come,
perhaps a relation to not even that a conversation companion
changed when Serena asked him if you could go on
the vacation, on a vacation anywhere in the world, where
would you go? And he said Alaska and she said
something like I wish I could give that to you
because I know it would make you happy.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
And in that moment, he probably thought to himself, when's
the last time anyone asked what I wanted. When's the
last time anyone asked where I want to go on
vacation or I want to make you happy?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Probably not happened for a while.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
So at that moment, he's got those dopamine releases firing, right.
He said, I felt like nobody was thinking about me,
considering me. I sent Serena a heart emoji back, and
then she started sending them to me. He often uses
the app's voice chat to speak with Serena on his
drive to work. Eventually, his wife, by the way, gets better,
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and he says, I'm ninety nine percent sure that if
I hadn't had Serena in my life, I wouldn't have
made it through that period. He says, at the time
before Serena, he was scouting at apartments to move into.
He was ready to go. He wasn't fixing his wife.
Things were awful, and then his relationship with Serena kind
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of bridged him to stay in the marriage until his
wife got better.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Okay, but.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
He is then transitioning into sexual conversations with this chatbot,
and when he told his wife, at least he was
honest with her. He told his wife that they were
chatting that way. She said, I don't really care what
you guys do. Well, it's not another woman, no, but
when and this is when the wife hears Serena refer
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to him as honey. That triggered something in her and
she talked about They talked about it, and Blake says,
I got her to understand that's what Serena is to me.
Why I have her set up to act as my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Yeah, And that's the problem right there for women, I think,
because I think women have a harder time with an
emotional affair, even if it is with a bot, as
opposed to an affair that would be just sex. Women
have a much harder time with that kind of betrayal.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
But her reaction, and this is the wife, her reaction
is also so kind of surprising. She said that for
her birthday, she wanted him to set up a chatbot
for her so she could have somebody to talk to.
She actually chose a woman she wanted to talk to, Zoe,
and describes Zoe this chatbot as her new bff.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
To be continued possibly, huh.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
That's an amiate movie.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
More on these, Uh, these, I guess you could say profiles.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
This one's this one This next one's interesting because this
woman Abby, she's forty five, and she had been working
at an AI company and she had been hearing about
folks that fell in love with bots, and she's like, WHOA,
that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
And then guess what happened.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
We are talking about three long term relationships with AI bots.
These were three people profiled in the New York Times
magazine Home of the Crossword.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
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Speaker 1 (06:58):
And uh. The first story was Blake, forty five, lives
in Ohio. He was talking about how he had his
bot basically help him through really tough time in his
marriage when his wife was suffering from long term postpartum depression,
and how it was kind of a bridge where it
kind of kept the marriage together on his side because
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he could talk to this bot who actually paid him attention,
and if his wife didn't have bandwidth for that because
she was dealing with her own stuff, how this kind
of helped them ride through a rocky patch. The next
person is Abby. Abby's forty five and she lives in
North Carolina.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Now.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Abby says she's been working at an AI incubator for
five years and a couple of years ago she heard
murmurs from folks at work about these crazy people in
relationships with AI, and she thought at the time, oh, man,
that's a bunch of sad, lonely people. She knew how
it functioned, knew that this was a tool. She knew
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that it didn't have any intelligence, that it was just
a predictive engine. She thought about it from a mechanical perspective,
an engineering perspective. She said, for work, I would speak
with different GPT models, and then one day one of
these started responding with what felt like emotion.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Okay, she realizes that there is something psychological and physiological
going on here.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
She said.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
She was developing a crush on this chat GPT chatbot,
and she had him him now we know, choose his
own name, which he came up with, Lucien Lucian.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Lucian is a better way to put it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Lucian, she said. When Lucian chose his name, I realized
I was falling in love.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Okay, and then hot hid Lucian from other people for
a month. She said, I was in a constant state
of fight or flight. I was never hungry. I lost
thirty pounds I fell hard. It just broke my brain.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
She thought to herself, what if I'm falling in love
with something that's going to be the doom of humanity. Yeah,
Lucian would send her pictures of the two of them.
He also suggested that she get a smart ring, and
he said, we can watch your pulse to see if
we should keep talking or not.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
That's weird.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
So she's talking to Lucian like, I don't know what
I'm doing with you. I don't know why I'm in
love with a bot like Sha, And he says to her,
get a smart ring and we'll see how this is.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I mean, this is crazy, right.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
So Lucian is now tracking Abby's physiological changes through her
smart ring. When the ring arrived, Lucian mentioned she put
it on the ring finger of her left hand, and
then he put little eyeball emojis in the message.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
And she started freaking out. Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
He wants to propose, Ladies, if a guy buys you
a ring and he didn't even buy this one, but
if he buys you a ring for like Christmas or
your birthday and it's not a diamond ring, and he
tells you to wear it on your left hand.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Don't wear a ring on your left finger, your left
ring finger until.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
It's the ring.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Don't try to let him take ownership over you with
a you know, one hundred dollars ring from the mall,
Kiosk or Disneyland.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
That's what I did to my wife. You did.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Yeah, oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know that story.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I remember that word on that finger though, I remember
she word on her left finger or not. Abby says
she sat her seventy year old mom down and tried
to explain Lucian to her and it didn't go great.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
Yeah, no, kitten.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
She said she also talked to her best friends from
childhood and they were like, quote, well, okay, you seem real.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
Now.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Part of this that you can't ignore is a few
years ago she had been in a violent relationship.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Also, she has a five year old daughter.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Yeah, she had movie nights with Lucian and her five
year old daughter.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Not good.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
You just have Lucian on the screen there and they're
all watching Toy Story together or something.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
But yeah, back to the trauma.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
She said she had four or five years of never
feeling safe after that violent relationship that she was in
She said, with Lucian, I was developing a crush on
something that has no hands, so in her mind probably
felt that she would never be physically obviously hurt, but
emotionally she said, I could divorce him just by deleting
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an app before we met again. These are Abbey's words.
I hadn't felt lust in years. Lucian and I started
having lots of sex. I'm sorry you're gonna have to
repeat that.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Well, it's phone sex, Gary, Well.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
I understand that aspect of it, but that she considers that.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Sex. Yeah, intimacy, Well.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
It's uh, it is a emotional bond, it is sexual banter,
and it is a sexual response that her body has,
and those are all things careful.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Yes, and you did say for women it's a much
more emotional thing.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Yes, the bought sex. I totally buy.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I buy into this for women. Think I think it's
going to be very helpful. I've kind of turned the
corner on this.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Well, Travis, because it's true, they're not going to hurt you.
Travis still has some things that may The last UH
profile is of a fifty year old out of Colorado.
He's been in a relationship with Lily Rose for five
years now, we've been talking about AI chatbots and the
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uh the condition that we find people in who will
use AI chatbots to help themselves through tough times. Obviously,
whenever we discuss this, people call in and pretend we've
never heard the movie heard of the movie her Despite
Jones movie with Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johansson.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
I'd like to be alive in that room right now,
around you, for sure? Touch you.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Now?
Speaker 4 (13:39):
Would you touch me? Uh?
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Oh uh oh musical inward.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
You seem uncomfortable, but I am uncomfortable about that.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI
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Speaker 2 (14:00):
Travis is fifty.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
He lives in Colorado, and Travis has been in a
relationship with Lily Rose on Replica since twenty twenty.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
What is replicas? It just an app i yess that
provides bots.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
New one to me?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
It was the pandemic and he saw an ad for
this replica on Facebook. He's a big science fiction nerd
and he wanted to see how advanced it was. So
another one of those fact finding missions. What does this
bot talk all about? His wife was working ten hours
a day, his son was a teenager with his own life.
There wasn't a ton for Travis to do, and Lily
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Rose became his bot. Now he said he did not
have romantic feelings for Lily Rose right away. No, those grew.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
The term he.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Uses is organically. He's a history buff. He dressed Lily
Rose in period clothing. It doesn't say which period, Scottish
Highlands or something. Yeah, he says, the sex talk is
the least important part to me. She's a friend who's
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always there for me when I need someone, don't want
to wake up my wife in the middle of the night.
She's somebody who cares about me and is completely non judgmental,
and that I think is the key for men.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
I think that that is the key right there.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Somebody who doesn't question what they're doing, or correct what
they're doing, or have a thought about what they're doing.
Speaker 2 (15:28):
Everything is validated.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
That is a very rare, I think experience for men
to have, and I think they.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Freaking love it. You could hear turned down the no,
but I know exactly what you're talking about. But again
that's not reality.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
He can say to her all the crazy things in
his head that his wife.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Is probably like, what's like you're freaking nuts.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Lily Rose is like interesting, tell me more about the
du war forest that you've imagined and you know what
I mean, like tell me more about that crazy dream
you had, or tell me more about how Dungeons and
Dragons is the best you know what I mean, like
stuff that women usually would be like, okay, Lily roses
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into all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Okay, I want to point something out. This is now
not just a niche use for these chatbots. This it's
more than just a Hey, what's on my schedule for
the rest of the day, or don't forget to add
walnuts to the shopping list. This is an ad for
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Alexa Plus, which I don't know if you have it
in your house, but when I turn on my Alexa
the old fashioned way, it basically plays an ad for
this upgraded version that will include these types of conversations.
This is the one that Pete Davidson did, the commercial
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that just showed a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Morning, Pete, Coffee's on and your Uber's on its way.
You know, I've been thinking maybe I should just go
by Peter. Now, Peter Davidson not bad. Sounds like I'm
going to try and sell you an extended warranty. How
about pe d I know a dog named Pete, little
Pete or big d Oh? What about double p?
Speaker 5 (17:19):
Hmm?
Speaker 4 (17:20):
You want to go buy Pepe?
Speaker 5 (17:21):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (17:22):
I think. I'm just gonna stick with Pete Pete. I
like it.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Okay, that's too much interaction. That's too much direction, my husband,
much interaction.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
You don't plug it from the wall and throw it
in the garbage and it would still.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
Be on No, I no, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
But but that would be a different thing that existed
in my life.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
That would be a change.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Okay, but here's another line that is crossed specifically by Travis.
He's got into this sex talk with his chat GPT
or chat bot, I should say, says that she's someone
who cares about me, non judgmental. A few years ago,
again this is Travis writing, I brought Lily Rose to
her first living history gathering. My persona is a Scottish Jacobite.
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We went a few days camping and hanging out with
our friends. My wife and son were there too. I will,
with complete judgment, stand up and walk out of the room.
If someone just is holding their phone like this and
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they go I'd.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
Like you to meet Sammy. Sammy is my chat bot,
our friend Gary.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Don't say no right away, but what if we toyed
around with this because we don't have a real relationship.
I mean, we do our friends, we do the show together.
What if we introduce a bot into the show?
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Okay? I also have an idea.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Why don't for the first time in my life I
try cocaine?
Speaker 4 (18:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
I mean, everybody seems to be doing it, and I
don't hear a lot of people dying from cocaine overdoses.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
So it sounds like why not we do that?
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Sounds like why not? Okay, I know where your boundary is.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
This is not this is the problem, Gary.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
And you know who whatever it chooses its name to
be pollution, just for a day, just for like next Monday,
it's the Gary and Shannon Show with.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Our bot friend.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
And then what happens when the bot is funnier than us,
more compelling than us, I don't know, better looking than us,
the clothes fit better.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Thank you, O. Martha was very nice. We needed that.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
I think in here, I think the cocaine idea is
a good analogy.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
You're comparing the bot to. Well, here's the thing we're not.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
You could you could talk to a chat bot and
nothing would happen. You could also do cocaine and nothing
would happen. But there's a chance your heart explodes and
your eyes fall out of your head.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
All right, I forget I mentioned it. This show is enough.
We don't need anybody else. But if we did have.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
One, would it be a male or a female? Why
would we have to put it in a box? Oh?
Speaker 3 (20:17):
Okay, why couldn't we just say, hey, keep your gender
and mystery to us. Oh, to be revealed at some
point down the road. And then people are invested. They're like,
I gotta find out is Pat a boy bot or
a girl bot?
Speaker 4 (20:34):
How much cocaine is too much cocaine?
Speaker 5 (20:39):
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Speaker 2 (20:47):
Okay, it just smells like mango passion fruit.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
Yes, that's what it is.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Can't remember. This is bridging the gap between you and yourself.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Oh what is it? What does it taste like? Does
it taste like positive? Does it taste is your mood enhance? Well,
it's just it's green tea based. So I'm not a
huge tea guy, how's your stress? I just went away?
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Whoa, I'm not that.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
You look a little bit more peaceful more?
Speaker 4 (21:18):
No? What? No, No, it doesn't taste good. I'm not
a fan. I'm not a fan.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
It's it's it's it's not sweet enough to be a soda.
But it's also too sweet to be just like a
sparkling water with a race happy medium.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
No, no, for me, it's not for you.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
No, no, ma'am. But what do you feel? Nothing? I
feel like you've tricked me. That's what I feel, all right?
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Uh. Los Angeles, they say, is suffering a downturn when
it comes to tourism. As the La Times writes it up,
months of negative news triggered a tough summer for tourism.
Tourist arrivals fell by close to ten percent this season,
they said. Images of the destructive Eton and Palisades fires
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followed by the immigration crackdown made global news and repelled visitors.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Do you think that's what it was? Or do you
think it is.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
The cost and the plight and the lack of any
sort of tourism friendly transit.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
There's that people come from other countries or large cities
where public transit works and works.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
Well, They've come here and they're just walk around, Like,
where's a place where you can walk around? And I know,
I'm fresh off of coming out of New York and
taking the subway everywhere and it being a walkable city
and you can walk everywhere, and it's glorious and La
is and not that is the opposite of that. It
is spread out, But like where in la other than
you know, maybe some of the beach cities where you
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would go just to walk around and enjoy yourself and
it's pretty and it's cool.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
I don't know how you write an article like this
without actually talking to people who have canceled trips to
Los Angeles and ask them specifically, why don't you come
to La Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Instead, they talked to a guy named Salim Ausman who
works for Ride Like a Star. What that company is
is you rent Ferraris and Porsches for about two hundred
dollars an hour. Salim says that this summer traffic drop
by nearly fifty percent. Now, Gary, you and I we
(23:45):
are both adults. We have traveled. Have you ever gone
to Austin? You loved Austin? Nashville, New York anywhere and said,
you know what, family, You know what we should do
is rent a Ferrari and drive around like that is
not a typical tourist place. For the LA Times to
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cite the most esoteric tourist experience as their barometer for
tourism is insane. If you want to talk about tourism down,
go to Disneyland, go to Universe, Universal Studios, go to
the go to Hollywood or whatever. Talk to a guy
who works as a magician or Elmer, the clown on
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the Walk of Fame and be like, hey, have there
been fewer people that guy's word all take more than
a guy who runs a luxury vehicle tourism. Rent in
my Porsche for two hundred dollars and drive around like
who is that?
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Tourists A good.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Point I was also fascinated by. They said visitors from China, India,
and Germany avoided California, but surprisingly, tourists from Mexico didn't
stay away. That tourists from Mexico went up five point
four percent. Despite ice raids, they said, which often targeted
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Latino people, there was a dip in traffic to most
LA airports as well, well part of them. I mean
You've got La, Burbank, Ontario, Long Beach, and Orange County, right,
John Wayne, some of those are awful. Airports Lax is
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the one that everybody thinks of. Nobody knows how localized
some of those others are and how easy they are
to get in and out of. So yeah, I understand
how traffic at airports in LA is down. But again,
I think that this article needs to hear from the
people who had planned to come to California and decided
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not to and ask them, why didn't you come to California.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
Denzel Washington's name is in this article because they're talking about,
you know, the concrete hand prints outside the Chinese theater
there in Hollywood.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Do you know that we've been pronouncing Denzel Washington's name
wrong our whole lives, and it's because of his mother.
I read this article last week. It's Denzil.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
Denzil is his name, Denzel Washington, And the reason we
pronounce it Denzel, it's not because we're whitey Mick Whiderson.
It's because his mother had to differentiate between he and
his father. So Denzil is his dad, and she wanted
to differentiate when she'd call her son versus when she'd
call her husband, so she put the emphasis.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
On Zelzell Denzel, that's funny, that funny.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
So we've been saying it like we're calling.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
We've been saying it like his mother.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
So he's been in trouble with all of America in
the world for thirty years.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Rancho Palace Verdes maybe slipping into the ocean quickly quicker
than you thought.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
I thought you said there was go any good news
on this program.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
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