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December 5, 2024 50 mins
Do you feel a constant pressure to optimize every aspect of your life?   

What if hyper-optimization protocols actually do more harm than good?   

The glorification of hustle culture has given many of us the nagging feeling that no matter how much we do or accomplish, it's never quite enough.   

Living in a cloud of frantic, urgent, reactive energy can even cause us to lose sight of who we are and why we’re working so hard. 

If you want to reclaim your time, energy and purpose in life, you need to rebel against cultural norms and conditioning that does not serve you. 

You’ll be in good company. Studies have shown that no matter their field or area of expertise, peak performers share a unique characteristic: they take time for complete rest and recovery. 

So when was the last time you created space for rest, or experienced the unexpected joys of under-committing and doing nothing for a minute?

If your identity is in any way defined by over-achievement, hyper-optimization, perfectionism, or an obsession with productivity, this episode is for you. 

And listen, I may be behind the microphone, but I’m just as guilty of all of this tomfoolery as the rest of you!

Today, we're here with Israa Nasir, a New York City-based psychotherapist, author, and the founder of WellGuide—a digital community for mental health awareness. Israa's new book, "Toxic Productivity" is strong medicine for anyone who's ever felt the pressure to be constantly busy, constantly achieving, and constantly proving their worth. 

In this episode with Israa, you’ll hear: 
  • Why hyper-optimization protocols often do more harm than good 
  • Why chasing and achieving the next big win can eventually lead to feeling more empty and disconnected than ever before 
  • How to break free from the constant pressure to achieve and optimize every aspect of your life 
  • How to build meaningful relationships in a hyperconnected but lonely world
  • And much more… 
One quick note. Israa recorded this from a hotel room in the middle of her book tour, and her wifi connection was low-quality and dropped a few times, so we did our best to cobble it back together. Apologies in advance for any audio or video issues. 

As a recovering perfectionist myself, perhaps releasing an imperfect show is indeed part of the recovery process. :)

Read the show notes: https://fatburningman.com/israa-nasir-why-hyper-optimization-protocols-do-more-harm-than-good/

Go to https://www.israanasir.com/ to get Israa Nasir's new book, "Toxic Productivity"

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