On this episode of
Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty
(The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones
(Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish
(That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of
defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the
emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine
gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the
debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore
the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to
the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack
cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the
physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into
navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze
the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to
examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we
question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss t
he impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also
call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating
financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we
confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on
dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on
fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
Follow the Guests: IG: @passportcuttyIG: @mouse_jon