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People say we inevitably become our parents, But what weight
does that carry when one of your parents is a
serial killer? Joined Melissa Jesperson more on Happy Face as
she travels back into her past searching for insight into
her father's crimes. Listen and follow on the I Heart
Radio app or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. Morning,
Everybody is d j Envy Angela, Ye, Charlemagne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for asking ye? Hello,
(00:23):
who's this? Um? This is be Honest from Norfolk. Hey
seven five seven? What's your question for ye? So my
question is today is my husband's birthday and I'm broke. Okay,
that's nothing wrong with that. So I don't know. I mean, maybe,
like fifty bucks is all I have. I don't know
how to make it special because I love him so
(00:43):
much and he takes good care of all of us.
So I don't know him. So think about some things
that mean a lot to him because you know him well, right,
And I think that's what's the most important thing when
you pay attention to somebody's needs and wants and desires,
and what is it that he loves? What is something
that he's been wanting to do. What is his favorite foods?
What is his favorite anything that you can do. Maybe
(01:05):
there's a gathering you can have with you know who
his friends are. Maybe you could surprise him with something
at the house or at a restaurant where everybody could
chip in. Yeah, I could do that. You know. I
think it's all about planning, and it's all about planning
and experiences. But because you guys are so busy, that's
what makes it even more special, because you don't get
to do stuff like that. Okay, things, I appreciate it. Um,
(01:25):
y'all have a good morning. I appreciate you taking my call.
All right, Happy birthday to your man. Thank you. All right,
let's go to Lucky number three. Hello. Who's this? He
yea good morning. Oh jeez, I don't know why I go.
What's your course of fee? Yes, I had a question
(01:46):
about Possibly I haven't encouraged my boyfriend to be more romantic. Yes,
I don't need him to be like sexual like that's fine.
I just I just want the romance to lead up
to the thing. You know what. I don't want to
I want to just want to be like bro, it's
not I'm not feeling this, like I don't feel like
having right now because you just jump in the bed
and just be like, let's do it, Like no, I
(02:08):
need the sweet things that lead up to that. That's
so funny because I had a problem like that earlier
with my boyfriend and I had to really have a
discussion with him about it, you know what. And sometimes
that happens and we have an attitude and guys don't
know what we're mad about, but we haven't said anything,
so they have no idea, And that is why it's
important for you to say something. But I always feel
like it's better to say things in an encouraging way
(02:29):
rather than and I'm mad at you type of way.
So in other words, you can be like, you know
what I love when you do this before we have sex.
So when we kissed, that really gets me excited because
then that makes him want to do it because he
knows how much you love it, and you've told him that,
you know, the conversation before. That's the thing, Like I
just like it was a joking way, but I was
still like no, but but I'm real like stopping like
(02:53):
it's not a gay baby, it's not a joke, but
he's a joke just so he can't. I don't know
he on this thing. That's what I'm most times when
we're talking about a serious topic, but when it comes
to our relationship, like I don't know if he takes
it serious or if he just does. Yes, aren't you
sometimes like who were you with before me? That you
(03:13):
don't know how to do these things properly? Somebody did
not train you well? T K. Kirklands who raised you? Yeah? No,
I think we do have to leave by example. And
that also means sometimes a yes, you have to keep
on telling him what it is that you like instead
of what you don't like, telling what you do like
you know, so sometimes we have a tendency to be
(03:33):
like I don't like when you do this, or this
is so annoying, that's so wack. Just say what you
do like and just put that in his head and
you make it sexy too. Sometimes it can be you
telling him now, slow that, wait a minute, we're not
doing all that. You can't put it in yet. You
got to do that, why right? Like I try to
kind of slow it down and be like, hey, let's
do something else, or up with blah blah blah, but
(03:54):
he's just be like, no, I'm not doing all that
like that, Like you gotta stop him and you gotta
let him know because then I'm like, what is this?
Then I feel fourceful if I take the lead and
if I guy's left. Sometimes when you take the lead, though,
y'all got to switch it up. I mean, look, sometimes
(04:15):
you have to show him what you like. It might
even be you say, Okay, we're gonna have a night
where I'm gonna say everything that we're doing. It's like
we're doing a movie and I'm the director who's gonna
want to hold camera. I ain't got time for him,
but no camera. But just be like, look, we're gonna
we're gonna do this, and I'm gonna say exactly what
we're doing. And just for tonight, you're gonna do what
I say or what you're doing? Is you right? You right?
(04:37):
You say, babe, right, two things you love about me
and two things you dislike, and you do the same
with him, And then y'all had that conversation be like, look,
you really ain't doing this. You really got me dry.
I need to call Angela and get some man. Pay
some bills. Put you to pay pay off your student loan.
You wouldn't even have access to these type of things
if you wouldn't like handling his business otherwise, life okay, okay,
(05:01):
he just needs to stop having sex like a teenage boy. Basically,
don't wish I can still have sex like a teenage
I wish I can still have sex. She talk, Go ahead.
I don't want to make it seem like he don't
know what he's doing, because like we're good at most
aspects of that. But it's just I like, for you
want some play, we need that. You gotta just be
(05:23):
sexy about it. You gotta be like, hold on, because
you're making this so it's about to get even wedding
when you do this. Wait a minute, you better you
better do your dirty talk girl. Now say we was
doing that for a minute, but then it got weird,
like he just started making it weird. I was just like,
forget it. He's saying some crazy stuffy all right, But now,
(05:46):
like I said, just give that positive reinforcement and tell
him and be like like, for this tonight, tomorrow night,
we're gonna do what you want to do. Tonight, We're
gonna do it how I want to do it. And
you gotta obey every command I give you. I'm gonna
try it. Thank you, You're welcome. Asking drink you back
every morning on the way to work. Thank you, Mama.
People say we inevitably become our parents, But what weight
does that carry when one of your parents is a
serial killer? Joined Melissa Jesperson more on Happy Face as
she travels back into her past searching for insight into
her father's crimes. Listen and follow on the I Heart
Radio app or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. Morning,
Everybody is d j Envy Angela, Ye, Charlemagne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for asking ye? Hello,
(00:23):
who's this? Um? This is be Honest from Norfolk. Hey
seven five seven? What's your question for ye? So my
question is today is my husband's birthday and I'm broke. Okay,
that's nothing wrong with that. So I don't know. I mean, maybe,
like fifty bucks is all I have. I don't know
how to make it special because I love him so
(00:43):
much and he takes good care of all of us.
So I don't know him. So think about some things
that mean a lot to him because you know him well, right,
And I think that's what's the most important thing when
you pay attention to somebody's needs and wants and desires,
and what is it that he loves? What is something
that he's been wanting to do. What is his favorite foods?
What is his favorite anything that you can do. Maybe
(01:05):
there's a gathering you can have with you know who
his friends are. Maybe you could surprise him with something
at the house or at a restaurant where everybody could
chip in. Yeah, I could do that. You know. I
think it's all about planning, and it's all about planning
and experiences. But because you guys are so busy, that's
what makes it even more special, because you don't get
to do stuff like that. Okay, things, I appreciate it. Um,
(01:25):
y'all have a good morning. I appreciate you taking my call.
All right, Happy birthday to your man. Thank you. All right,
let's go to Lucky number three. Hello. Who's this? He
yea good morning. Oh jeez, I don't know why I go.
What's your course of fee? Yes, I had a question
(01:46):
about Possibly I haven't encouraged my boyfriend to be more romantic. Yes,
I don't need him to be like sexual like that's fine.
I just I just want the romance to lead up
to the thing. You know what. I don't want to
I want to just want to be like bro, it's
not I'm not feeling this, like I don't feel like
having right now because you just jump in the bed
and just be like, let's do it, Like no, I
(02:08):
need the sweet things that lead up to that. That's
so funny because I had a problem like that earlier
with my boyfriend and I had to really have a
discussion with him about it, you know what. And sometimes
that happens and we have an attitude and guys don't
know what we're mad about, but we haven't said anything,
so they have no idea, And that is why it's
important for you to say something. But I always feel
like it's better to say things in an encouraging way
(02:29):
rather than and I'm mad at you type of way.
So in other words, you can be like, you know
what I love when you do this before we have sex.
So when we kissed, that really gets me excited because
then that makes him want to do it because he
knows how much you love it, and you've told him that,
you know, the conversation before. That's the thing, Like I
just like it was a joking way, but I was
still like no, but but I'm real like stopping like
(02:53):
it's not a gay baby, it's not a joke, but
he's a joke just so he can't. I don't know
he on this thing. That's what I'm most times when
we're talking about a serious topic, but when it comes
to our relationship, like I don't know if he takes
it serious or if he just does. Yes, aren't you
sometimes like who were you with before me? That you
(03:13):
don't know how to do these things properly? Somebody did
not train you well? T K. Kirklands who raised you? Yeah? No,
I think we do have to leave by example. And
that also means sometimes a yes, you have to keep
on telling him what it is that you like instead
of what you don't like, telling what you do like
you know, so sometimes we have a tendency to be
(03:33):
like I don't like when you do this, or this
is so annoying, that's so wack. Just say what you
do like and just put that in his head and
you make it sexy too. Sometimes it can be you
telling him now, slow that, wait a minute, we're not
doing all that. You can't put it in yet. You
got to do that, why right? Like I try to
kind of slow it down and be like, hey, let's
do something else, or up with blah blah blah, but
(03:54):
he's just be like, no, I'm not doing all that
like that, Like you gotta stop him and you gotta
let him know because then I'm like, what is this?
Then I feel fourceful if I take the lead and
if I guy's left. Sometimes when you take the lead, though,
y'all got to switch it up. I mean, look, sometimes
(04:15):
you have to show him what you like. It might
even be you say, Okay, we're gonna have a night
where I'm gonna say everything that we're doing. It's like
we're doing a movie and I'm the director who's gonna
want to hold camera. I ain't got time for him,
but no camera. But just be like, look, we're gonna
we're gonna do this, and I'm gonna say exactly what
we're doing. And just for tonight, you're gonna do what
I say or what you're doing? Is you right? You right?
(04:37):
You say, babe, right, two things you love about me
and two things you dislike, and you do the same
with him, And then y'all had that conversation be like, look,
you really ain't doing this. You really got me dry.
I need to call Angela and get some man. Pay
some bills. Put you to pay pay off your student loan.
You wouldn't even have access to these type of things
if you wouldn't like handling his business otherwise, life okay, okay,
(05:01):
he just needs to stop having sex like a teenage boy. Basically,
don't wish I can still have sex like a teenage
I wish I can still have sex. She talk, Go ahead.
I don't want to make it seem like he don't
know what he's doing, because like we're good at most
aspects of that. But it's just I like, for you
want some play, we need that. You gotta just be
(05:23):
sexy about it. You gotta be like, hold on, because
you're making this so it's about to get even wedding
when you do this. Wait a minute, you better you
better do your dirty talk girl. Now say we was
doing that for a minute, but then it got weird,
like he just started making it weird. I was just like,
forget it. He's saying some crazy stuffy all right, But now,
(05:46):
like I said, just give that positive reinforcement and tell
him and be like like, for this tonight, tomorrow night,
we're gonna do what you want to do. Tonight, We're
gonna do it how I want to do it. And
you gotta obey every command I give you. I'm gonna
try it. Thank you, You're welcome. Asking drink you back
every morning on the way to work. Thank you, Mama.
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