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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy,
we all the breakfast clever time for asking? Ye hello,
who's this try? I don't want to stay anonymous? All right, anonymous?
What's your question for you? Okay? So, um, me and
my husband have been married almost two years now. Um.
Before I started dating him, I was dating a lot
(00:22):
of women, so I'm not really like experienced with like
the oral stuff for men. So I tried and he
didn't like it. So we haven't had boil sex in
a while. But I feel confident in my ability to
perform where he can be pleased. But he won't take
(00:43):
me seriously because it's been so long since he's had it. Okay,
so you know what you're doing now? You feel confident? Well,
I don't. I would never. I don't even know if
I I feel confident, But I don't know if it's
gonna be right until you know. I actually tried, but
he won't let me try because he doesn't want to
be a guinea pig and end up with some abrasions
(01:03):
on his penis. Yeah, so I'm trying to figure out
how to set it up to where he can be
comfortable enough to allow me to see, okay, what progression
I've made, and then go from there. Okay, so look,
this is what I think. Right before you guys get
to it, when you're doing your four play, you should
ask him, can I just kiss it? I'm not gonna
(01:24):
do anything more than that, and then you should kiss it,
and then you should tone kiss it, and then you
should just do a little bit more, a little bit
more until you know he's feeling good about it, and
then you know, that's when you go a little bit more.
But just make sure that you keep your mouth very lubricated,
don't use your teeth, tuck them away. Okay, but I
(01:44):
think you just want I just I think you don't
starting to feel less confident what we're definitely not talking
about that, but I just listen, just started off. So
just say, look, I'm just gonna kiss it. I'm not
gonna do anything else. And then when you kiss it, right,
kissing could mean anything. It could be closed mouth, open mouth,
(02:05):
and then you know, just play around with that area
and then if he likes it, he'll be okay with
you going a little further. Though, ask him, because a man,
he may he may just accept it just because the
love of me as his wife, but he may not
want to actually tell me that he's enjoying what's happening.
(02:26):
So I'm trying to do like what signs I should
look for when Well, first of all, there's nothing better
than asking a direct question, and you can ask it like, okay,
do you like that? Well, tell me what you want
me to do, and I'm gonna do it and be like,
how would you like it better? What? You know? Just
ask those questions, but you could do it in a
sexy way so that he's gonna direct you to the
way to do it and just be like, let tell
(02:47):
me what to do. Uh huh, Okay, Well I will
try that and I'll let you know how it goes.
Thank you. I cannot wait to hear about it. All right,
you guys, talk a good morning you too. And that
was another edition. All right? It really did sound like
(03:07):
you was talking about dj Envy riding his bike, though
I'm not gonna why why, Because that's what he was visualizing.
I had to think about talking about I'm a married man.
You got these fantasies about me, and I don't like it.
I'm starting to feel uncomfortable. You're a liar, what's with you?
Ask ye eight five A five one on five one
if you got a question for ye? Calling now? Was
(03:29):
the breakfast club? Good morning morning. Everybody is d J
Envy and Ngula, yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all the
breakfast club. But in the middle of ask ye what
you want to go to? Ye? Hello? Who's this? Hey?
This is poor show? Called Froston three? What's your question
for ye? Okay? So I have a question. Um, basically,
(03:49):
I've been dealing with some sexual harassment at my job
with my supervisor. UM. So I took the appropriate steps.
We to h R even, we talked to a lawyer
about the situation. But it's he's like, they're not trying
to let this manager go. So it was like, what's
the next step. What should I do from this point on?
Should I just find another job? Should I keep pushing
(04:09):
the issue because I feel like he's retaliate. You feel
like he's you feel like he's retaliating. You said yes, Like,
give me some examples. Um, Basically, like he tried to
put me on third shift without telling me, which was
one thing. Another thing, he nick picks at little things
that he claimed I'm doing wrong. Because I'm an industrial technician,
(04:32):
so I worked through maintenance department. Being that I'm one
of the girls with a bunch of guys. Um, he
just kind of nickpicks at me for little things that
I feel like it's like not even serious to nick
pick over because he never did before until I went
to HR about him. Okay, so here's a couple of things.
First of all, you said that you've complained, right, Yes,
(04:54):
I went to HR twice and so their response is
what we're gonna work on. We're gonna work on him.
We're gonna try to figure out how we're gonna make
you comfortable are being here because we know you're not.
But that's pretty much it. And they're dragging their feet
about letting them go or you know, what are they
going to do with the supervisor. I had poots that
(05:15):
he did that text message and everything. So you have
all of this in writing and you've emailed them and
they've responded via email. I highly recommend you get yourself
a lawyer. That's when they take things seriously and you
should not ever have to work under these circumstances. You
should feel safe and protected at work. If you go
to HR with a complaint and evidence that somebody is
(05:36):
doing this see you and making you feel this way
at work and you're uncomfortable and you're feeling belittle then
you need to make sure that you take those matics
into your own hand, because you have the power to
do that. Okay, Well, I probably just go back to
the Turney I was talking to. She told me that
the only way she can take my cases as the
job was to fire me or um there was no
changes moving forward. So because there's no changes, I'm just
(05:58):
gonna go back to her. Yeah. Absolutely, And and it
sounds like you have a legitimate case. You have these
text messages. Plus I think you have to keep a
record of what's been happening at work since you've been
complaining to HR and all the things that he's been
every detail that you can get, and anything that you
can get in writing as evidence you should try to
get and make sure you send those emails, make sure
(06:19):
you show what their responses are present all of those
two a lawyer, you definitely have a case. And I
think this is great because you don't want this to
happen to somebody else. So it's great that you spoke up.
You've done what you're supposed to do on your part.
They haven't done what they're supposed to do on their
behalfs and now it's trying to move it to the
next level. Hey, look here, you ain't got no you
ain't got none of your cousins that can come box
him anymore. I mean, I do got cousins who want
(06:41):
to come box him out now, But it's like I don't.
This is a white man, so I don't want my
people have to get led off for that. And I
ain't a white man now that man. Ain't got no
business trying to feel on your bunkie at work. Now, Yeah,
you be trying. You want to talk to my tattoo
and all kind of stuff. You want to touch the tattoo.
(07:02):
You damn man, You are not getting None of your
family is locked up over there. Well, I need your
cousin to relax. Give me. I want conversation, not gonna
make the joke out of her sexual harassment, where they
no joke. I'm talking to her in our native language.
Just get you for three all days. But I'm with
(07:26):
your girl. I know it has to be tough for
you to go to work every day under those circumstances,
and I feel like anybody cares. I'm so uncomfortable every
day and it's like I left work today just to
get away. He took a sick day just to be
there with them. Yeah, that's a terrible family. So you
have to nip this in the butt and let them
know you ain't gonna keep this going. I have the
power over you, and I'm gonna make y'all look crazy exactly.
(07:48):
Thank you. I love you, though I love you more,
I'm sitious doing you got your cousins. I need that
shut up, put them. Thank you so much. I was
making about it. If you don't sneak them with something,
get asking five five one O five one. If you
need relationship advice, yeah, help you out and keep a lock.
(08:08):
It's the breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is d
j Envy Angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the
breakfast Club. Now it's time for as and e. Angelie
is out, so Charlemagne and I will be holding it down.
So let's go to the callers. Hello, who's this? Hello there?
What's up? Bro? What's your question for seeing me? Order
me something? Man, Order me something, man, give me something
(08:29):
At Charlemagne. Yeah, listen, uh, I got a question for
you a little quick like look I got I'll be
married for here, right, I'm just able minute. I got
a hunter distability. I originally called who change something about
my wife? But if they send me wait you look,
I need your help. I need your help like a
year then because one of my disabilities is that and
(08:54):
I almost cute. I got two cutes, right, and so
reasually why I'm calling because you always speak our mental health, right,
and I'm Dominican. I'm Dominican, right, so we don't believe
in that stuff, just like black people, you know. I
mean I can see to myself like not that I
considered myself black. That's not what I'm saying, but we
(09:14):
all know what I'm saying. Yeah, okay, that's what I'm
don't cool. I want you to tell my number because
I'm gonna need you. You know what I'm saying, because
I'm getting help right now with my mentor you know
what I'm saying, and I'm getting better. But what I'm
saying is I try to call the Reaganations before because
I feel like, you know how sometime guy tells you
(09:35):
to like do something and you. You either listen to
it or you don't. You know what I'm saying. So
I was calling you back then when I was in
my darkest place because I feel that you had the
answer to help me out. Well, I'll tell you what.
I don't have all the answers, you know what I'm saying.
I'm still going on my journey, just like you're going
on your your journey. But I do have a lot
of resources and a lot of people that you can
(09:55):
talk to, people that you know have have helped me
get through, and I have no problems and those resources
with you, my my Dominican brother. Okay, hold on, hold
one second. We're not gonna hang up. We're gonna get
your information. But I got a real question for the
brother though. Ok ahead, go ahead, asked me a question.
You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How many pair of
white jeans do you own? I have you owned? I
(10:17):
know it throughout your life? Seriously, hold on, like seriously,
probably like once or twice. Because there was a white
party and I need everything white. Okay, Okay, Oh, Dominicans
don't have white jeans. Hold on after that man about
his white jeans. Man, I'm about to get your I'm
gonna get your number and leave your number with the producer.
I'm gonna hit you. I met you in the show
(10:38):
over in like an hour. All right, goodness, gracious hello,
who's this yo? This magic magic question? Yeoh, man, I
got I got some questions, ma'am. A little relationship problem
I got going on right now. We're on my girl
for a year. She got three kids and uh, she's
pregnant now with the fourth one by me, is my
(10:58):
first one, but like it ain't eve. She got three
from another man. He got three different baby daddies. Well
she has four and now four baby daddy now, but
that okay, yeah, and then it's been rough to me. Man,
It's like I go through hell. I do everything she
has to do. Basically, I've been a dude boy for
her since she's been pregnant. And she called me selfish
(11:20):
just because like I complain or something like that for
getting up in the middle of the night doing something
for her, Like I'm doing it, so shut up. But
she don't respect you, bron. It's kind of hard to
respect the fourth baby daddy, you know what I'm saying.
I'm scared for my life though, for real man, I
ain't she put hands on you? Yeah she has, she has, yeah, yeah,
(11:43):
you know, I ain't know what I'm saying. This is
this one time incident, but that's what she used to
do that in her path. And I'm toxic woman. I'm
not that guy you know from you. I'm not youring
eggs baby daddy or nothing like that. I want to
come home, get drunk and put you know, put my
hand on your stuff like that. You know, I communicate,
you know, just talk to me whatever the problem is.
(12:05):
We're try of solve instead of this argument back and forth.
But like I said, she ain't got there hood and
not so pregnant now and not some time. I want
to be me, no mode, and that's not what I
wanted my wife, my first jilb. I want to be
a whole family, not just I feel bad for your
brothers with somebody that's toxic. Man. Are you taking care
(12:27):
of three I'm starting want to having my first child
and it ain't how I wanted to be. Are you
kids really driving me crazy? Boy? If you don't listen
to me? Are you taking care of others? Three kids? Barely?
Are you taking care of him? So you are you
know what I'm saying, like I'll do what she asked
me to do for them or whatnot. Listen, if the
(12:49):
roads were reversed and you was dating a toxic man
with four different baby mamas who put hands on you,
what would your girls be telling you to do? People
are telling me that, but I just didn't listen. I
don't know why. I really goddamn girlfriends. Your girlfriend right now,
you said you fair for your life. She puts hands
(13:09):
on you, she makes you do everything. You sound like
you do everything, and you're about to lose it. So
you better leave alone before she hit you with it.
Envy front your girlfriends. Envious Joan Clayton. We're telling you
to leave Maya. Okay, Actually you would be leaving in
a situation like this. This something Lenning would get herself in. Alright,
(13:30):
you got she got three kids already from three different
baby daddyes's got one on the way from you. Be
a father to your child. But this sounds like a
very toxic human that you're dealing with, and she needs
to get some healing. And when she gets some healing,
it becomes the woman that you need her to be.
Then you can be with her. Told her. I told
her time about getting married and stuff before the baby
get here. I told her, you want to do that,
(13:50):
we gotta have to go to council that much. He
don't need that. Really stressful, man, it's really putting a
tone on me for real. You know what toxic people do.
They never let things go. They can't move forward. They bully,
they intimidate, they lie, they create drama, they play the victim,
and they act out of fear and insecurity. That's all
that person is doing to you right now. You gotta go, bro,
(14:11):
be a father to your child. That's a very toxic woman.
She sounds like the future of females. Repeat after me.
I am strong, I am strong. I will not let
her hit me anymore. I will not let her hit
me anymore. What do anymore? That's right? I am strong,
I am a good man, and I am a good father.
(14:34):
I am strong. I am a good man, and I
will be a good father. You go, when you got
that written down, that envy and why you that's your
daily affirmation. I'm trying to give him self esteem to
make him feel good this morning. Man, brother, you go
out there, you have a great day, and you take
care of business, I brother, eliminate all toxic people from
your life. Man, Why we always give people more chances
than they deserve? Why do we do that? Man? A
(14:55):
little self esteem? All right? We got more coming up
next with a breakfast club
Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy,
we all the breakfast clever time for asking? Ye hello,
who's this try? I don't want to stay anonymous? All right, anonymous?
What's your question for you? Okay? So, um, me and
my husband have been married almost two years now. Um.
Before I started dating him, I was dating a lot
(00:22):
of women, so I'm not really like experienced with like
the oral stuff for men. So I tried and he
didn't like it. So we haven't had boil sex in
a while. But I feel confident in my ability to
perform where he can be pleased. But he won't take
(00:43):
me seriously because it's been so long since he's had it. Okay,
so you know what you're doing now? You feel confident? Well,
I don't. I would never. I don't even know if
I I feel confident, But I don't know if it's
gonna be right until you know. I actually tried, but
he won't let me try because he doesn't want to
be a guinea pig and end up with some abrasions
(01:03):
on his penis. Yeah, so I'm trying to figure out
how to set it up to where he can be
comfortable enough to allow me to see, okay, what progression
I've made, and then go from there. Okay, so look,
this is what I think. Right before you guys get
to it, when you're doing your four play, you should
ask him, can I just kiss it? I'm not gonna
(01:24):
do anything more than that, and then you should kiss it,
and then you should tone kiss it, and then you
should just do a little bit more, a little bit
more until you know he's feeling good about it, and
then you know, that's when you go a little bit more.
But just make sure that you keep your mouth very lubricated,
don't use your teeth, tuck them away. Okay, but I
(01:44):
think you just want I just I think you don't
starting to feel less confident what we're definitely not talking
about that, but I just listen, just started off. So
just say, look, I'm just gonna kiss it. I'm not
gonna do anything else. And then when you kiss it, right,
kissing could mean anything. It could be closed mouth, open mouth,
(02:05):
and then you know, just play around with that area
and then if he likes it, he'll be okay with
you going a little further. Though, ask him, because a man,
he may he may just accept it just because the
love of me as his wife, but he may not
want to actually tell me that he's enjoying what's happening.
(02:26):
So I'm trying to do like what signs I should
look for when Well, first of all, there's nothing better
than asking a direct question, and you can ask it like, okay,
do you like that? Well, tell me what you want
me to do, and I'm gonna do it and be like,
how would you like it better? What? You know? Just
ask those questions, but you could do it in a
sexy way so that he's gonna direct you to the
way to do it and just be like, let tell
(02:47):
me what to do. Uh huh, Okay, Well I will
try that and I'll let you know how it goes.
Thank you. I cannot wait to hear about it. All right,
you guys, talk a good morning you too. And that
was another edition. All right? It really did sound like
(03:07):
you was talking about dj Envy riding his bike, though
I'm not gonna why why, Because that's what he was visualizing.
I had to think about talking about I'm a married man.
You got these fantasies about me, and I don't like it.
I'm starting to feel uncomfortable. You're a liar, what's with you?
Ask ye eight five A five one on five one
if you got a question for ye? Calling now? Was
(03:29):
the breakfast club? Good morning morning. Everybody is d J
Envy and Ngula, yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all the
breakfast club. But in the middle of ask ye what
you want to go to? Ye? Hello? Who's this? Hey?
This is poor show? Called Froston three? What's your question
for ye? Okay? So I have a question. Um, basically,
(03:49):
I've been dealing with some sexual harassment at my job
with my supervisor. UM. So I took the appropriate steps.
We to h R even, we talked to a lawyer
about the situation. But it's he's like, they're not trying
to let this manager go. So it was like, what's
the next step. What should I do from this point on?
Should I just find another job? Should I keep pushing
(04:09):
the issue because I feel like he's retaliate. You feel
like he's you feel like he's retaliating. You said yes, Like,
give me some examples. Um, Basically, like he tried to
put me on third shift without telling me, which was
one thing. Another thing, he nick picks at little things
that he claimed I'm doing wrong. Because I'm an industrial technician,
(04:32):
so I worked through maintenance department. Being that I'm one
of the girls with a bunch of guys. Um, he
just kind of nickpicks at me for little things that
I feel like it's like not even serious to nick
pick over because he never did before until I went
to HR about him. Okay, so here's a couple of things.
First of all, you said that you've complained, right, Yes,
(04:54):
I went to HR twice and so their response is
what we're gonna work on. We're gonna work on him.
We're gonna try to figure out how we're gonna make
you comfortable are being here because we know you're not.
But that's pretty much it. And they're dragging their feet
about letting them go or you know, what are they
going to do with the supervisor. I had poots that
(05:15):
he did that text message and everything. So you have
all of this in writing and you've emailed them and
they've responded via email. I highly recommend you get yourself
a lawyer. That's when they take things seriously and you
should not ever have to work under these circumstances. You
should feel safe and protected at work. If you go
to HR with a complaint and evidence that somebody is
(05:36):
doing this see you and making you feel this way
at work and you're uncomfortable and you're feeling belittle then
you need to make sure that you take those matics
into your own hand, because you have the power to
do that. Okay, Well, I probably just go back to
the Turney I was talking to. She told me that
the only way she can take my cases as the
job was to fire me or um there was no
changes moving forward. So because there's no changes, I'm just
(05:58):
gonna go back to her. Yeah. Absolutely, And and it
sounds like you have a legitimate case. You have these
text messages. Plus I think you have to keep a
record of what's been happening at work since you've been
complaining to HR and all the things that he's been
every detail that you can get, and anything that you
can get in writing as evidence you should try to
get and make sure you send those emails, make sure
(06:19):
you show what their responses are present all of those
two a lawyer, you definitely have a case. And I
think this is great because you don't want this to
happen to somebody else. So it's great that you spoke up.
You've done what you're supposed to do on your part.
They haven't done what they're supposed to do on their
behalfs and now it's trying to move it to the
next level. Hey, look here, you ain't got no you
ain't got none of your cousins that can come box
him anymore. I mean, I do got cousins who want
(06:41):
to come box him out now, But it's like I don't.
This is a white man, so I don't want my
people have to get led off for that. And I
ain't a white man now that man. Ain't got no
business trying to feel on your bunkie at work. Now, Yeah,
you be trying. You want to talk to my tattoo
and all kind of stuff. You want to touch the tattoo.
(07:02):
You damn man, You are not getting None of your
family is locked up over there. Well, I need your
cousin to relax. Give me. I want conversation, not gonna
make the joke out of her sexual harassment, where they
no joke. I'm talking to her in our native language.
Just get you for three all days. But I'm with
(07:26):
your girl. I know it has to be tough for
you to go to work every day under those circumstances,
and I feel like anybody cares. I'm so uncomfortable every
day and it's like I left work today just to
get away. He took a sick day just to be
there with them. Yeah, that's a terrible family. So you
have to nip this in the butt and let them
know you ain't gonna keep this going. I have the
power over you, and I'm gonna make y'all look crazy exactly.
(07:48):
Thank you. I love you, though I love you more,
I'm sitious doing you got your cousins. I need that
shut up, put them. Thank you so much. I was
making about it. If you don't sneak them with something,
get asking five five one O five one. If you
need relationship advice, yeah, help you out and keep a lock.
(08:08):
It's the breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is d
j Envy Angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the
breakfast Club. Now it's time for as and e. Angelie
is out, so Charlemagne and I will be holding it down.
So let's go to the callers. Hello, who's this? Hello there?
What's up? Bro? What's your question for seeing me? Order
me something? Man, Order me something, man, give me something
(08:29):
At Charlemagne. Yeah, listen, uh, I got a question for
you a little quick like look I got I'll be
married for here, right, I'm just able minute. I got
a hunter distability. I originally called who change something about
my wife? But if they send me wait you look,
I need your help. I need your help like a
year then because one of my disabilities is that and
(08:54):
I almost cute. I got two cutes, right, and so
reasually why I'm calling because you always speak our mental health, right,
and I'm Dominican. I'm Dominican, right, so we don't believe
in that stuff, just like black people, you know. I
mean I can see to myself like not that I
considered myself black. That's not what I'm saying, but we
(09:14):
all know what I'm saying. Yeah, okay, that's what I'm
don't cool. I want you to tell my number because
I'm gonna need you. You know what I'm saying, because
I'm getting help right now with my mentor you know
what I'm saying, and I'm getting better. But what I'm
saying is I try to call the Reaganations before because
I feel like, you know how sometime guy tells you
(09:35):
to like do something and you. You either listen to
it or you don't. You know what I'm saying. So
I was calling you back then when I was in
my darkest place because I feel that you had the
answer to help me out. Well, I'll tell you what.
I don't have all the answers, you know what I'm saying.
I'm still going on my journey, just like you're going
on your your journey. But I do have a lot
of resources and a lot of people that you can
(09:55):
talk to, people that you know have have helped me
get through, and I have no problems and those resources
with you, my my Dominican brother. Okay, hold on, hold
one second. We're not gonna hang up. We're gonna get
your information. But I got a real question for the
brother though. Ok ahead, go ahead, asked me a question.
You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How many pair of
white jeans do you own? I have you owned? I
(10:17):
know it throughout your life? Seriously, hold on, like seriously,
probably like once or twice. Because there was a white
party and I need everything white. Okay, Okay, Oh, Dominicans
don't have white jeans. Hold on after that man about
his white jeans. Man, I'm about to get your I'm
gonna get your number and leave your number with the producer.
I'm gonna hit you. I met you in the show
(10:38):
over in like an hour. All right, goodness, gracious hello,
who's this yo? This magic magic question? Yeoh, man, I
got I got some questions, ma'am. A little relationship problem
I got going on right now. We're on my girl
for a year. She got three kids and uh, she's
pregnant now with the fourth one by me, is my
(10:58):
first one, but like it ain't eve. She got three
from another man. He got three different baby daddies. Well
she has four and now four baby daddy now, but
that okay, yeah, and then it's been rough to me. Man,
It's like I go through hell. I do everything she
has to do. Basically, I've been a dude boy for
her since she's been pregnant. And she called me selfish
(11:20):
just because like I complain or something like that for
getting up in the middle of the night doing something
for her, Like I'm doing it, so shut up. But
she don't respect you, bron. It's kind of hard to
respect the fourth baby daddy, you know what I'm saying.
I'm scared for my life though, for real man, I
ain't she put hands on you? Yeah she has, she has, yeah, yeah,
(11:43):
you know, I ain't know what I'm saying. This is
this one time incident, but that's what she used to
do that in her path. And I'm toxic woman. I'm
not that guy you know from you. I'm not youring
eggs baby daddy or nothing like that. I want to
come home, get drunk and put you know, put my
hand on your stuff like that. You know, I communicate,
you know, just talk to me whatever the problem is.
(12:05):
We're try of solve instead of this argument back and forth.
But like I said, she ain't got there hood and
not so pregnant now and not some time. I want
to be me, no mode, and that's not what I
wanted my wife, my first jilb. I want to be
a whole family, not just I feel bad for your
brothers with somebody that's toxic. Man. Are you taking care
(12:27):
of three I'm starting want to having my first child
and it ain't how I wanted to be. Are you
kids really driving me crazy? Boy? If you don't listen
to me? Are you taking care of others? Three kids? Barely?
Are you taking care of him? So you are you
know what I'm saying, like I'll do what she asked
me to do for them or whatnot. Listen, if the
(12:49):
roads were reversed and you was dating a toxic man
with four different baby mamas who put hands on you,
what would your girls be telling you to do? People
are telling me that, but I just didn't listen. I
don't know why. I really goddamn girlfriends. Your girlfriend right now,
you said you fair for your life. She puts hands
(13:09):
on you, she makes you do everything. You sound like
you do everything, and you're about to lose it. So
you better leave alone before she hit you with it.
Envy front your girlfriends. Envious Joan Clayton. We're telling you
to leave Maya. Okay, Actually you would be leaving in
a situation like this. This something Lenning would get herself in. Alright,
(13:30):
you got she got three kids already from three different
baby daddyes's got one on the way from you. Be
a father to your child. But this sounds like a
very toxic human that you're dealing with, and she needs
to get some healing. And when she gets some healing,
it becomes the woman that you need her to be.
Then you can be with her. Told her. I told
her time about getting married and stuff before the baby
get here. I told her, you want to do that,
(13:50):
we gotta have to go to council that much. He
don't need that. Really stressful, man, it's really putting a
tone on me for real. You know what toxic people do.
They never let things go. They can't move forward. They bully,
they intimidate, they lie, they create drama, they play the victim,
and they act out of fear and insecurity. That's all
that person is doing to you right now. You gotta go, bro,
(14:11):
be a father to your child. That's a very toxic woman.
She sounds like the future of females. Repeat after me.
I am strong, I am strong. I will not let
her hit me anymore. I will not let her hit
me anymore. What do anymore? That's right? I am strong,
I am a good man, and I am a good father.
(14:34):
I am strong. I am a good man, and I
will be a good father. You go, when you got
that written down, that envy and why you that's your
daily affirmation. I'm trying to give him self esteem to
make him feel good this morning. Man, brother, you go
out there, you have a great day, and you take
care of business, I brother, eliminate all toxic people from
your life. Man, Why we always give people more chances
than they deserve? Why do we do that? Man? A
(14:55):
little self esteem? All right? We got more coming up
next with a breakfast club
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