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November 11, 2025 149 mins
YAY It's TUESDAY!!!! Randy Savage Was Flying Back InThe Day,  High Speed Ambulance Chase, The Roaches Told Me To, Get Out Of Jail Free Cards Aren't Real, Lisener E-Mails, To Tell The Truth, & Winning The Lottery!!!
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mean I think there was someone else that was gonna
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at the Bok Center.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Is Garrice always.

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Speaker 2 (04:33):
And we are four weeks away.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
From the annual Toy Drive where we collect toys from
the Marines and toys for Tots. And I don't think
any meed to tell you this year is going to
be more important than ever, and so start planning now,
especially with Thanksgiving happening, that's going to be kind of
a dead week for a lot of people and their offices.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
So get your office together, collect.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Some toys in your office and you can say, hey boss,
I need to go deliver them. You can get out
during the day, come over to Dave and Busters and
spend some time over there. It's an easy way to
do something nice and get off from work. And some
businesses will even match. So if everybody gets together and
puts in a hundie, the business will match and put

(05:18):
a Hondie into But that does take some legwork. You
got to get ahead of that, so I encourage you
to do that. It feels good to donate some toys
for that event. It's always at the end, besides being exhausted,
it's always you're like, damn, that's pretty cool man. So
we'll talk more about that as we get closer. Ace

(05:38):
Freely died.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
You might remember this.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
It happened on October sixteenth, and he apparently had a
fall in the studio a while back, and he was
in the hospital and they decided, ah, let's pull the plug.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
You've been around too long brew and so they did.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
And now the official medical reporter has come out and
they said he suffered a fracture to the back of
his skull.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Oh wow, he must have hit pretty hard whatever. He
fell and hit his.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
Head on a subdural hematoma, a collection of blood formed
between the brain's protective outer layer and the brain itself,
and he had a stroke and it was ruled an
accident all because he fell in the studio. Now it
is possible he was jumping up and down in an
excitement like Tom Cruise saying he had a girlfriend too
because he finally laid down the track of his life.

(06:31):
That's entirely possible at seventy four years old.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
I wonder if the stroke came first and that's what probably,
and then just made things worse from there, probably probably, right,
uh huh. And I don't know if I feel a
responsibility to bring up traumatic brain injuries a lot.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
I don't know why. I know a couple of people
it's happened to, and it is life changing. People underestimate
getting on their ladder to hang Christmas lights, yea. And
the number of traumatic brain injuries that result of that
is would astound people. And so I like to bring
it up to remind people you gotta be careful when
you're doing that, don't lean out over the ladder, that
type of stuff, and to prove that it's common. I've

(07:15):
got a list of people celebrities that have died from
traumatic brain injuries, blunt trauma. Some of these I don't
agree with that are on this list. You don't need
me to tell you Dale Earnhardt Sr. Died from blunt trauma,
but he did. You don't need me to tell you
that Ryan Dunn died from blunt trauma, right, that's a

(07:36):
car wreck. I don't consider that the same same thing, right, right, Right,
Sonny Bono hit a tree, causing blunt trauma.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Those trees are not very pliable in the woods.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
If I tell you, hey, watch out for traumatic brain injuries,
because that's what killed owen Hart, you would.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Go, well, yes, but also the fall from the sky.
Yeah right, I don't see myself. I don't know scaling
from a you know, an arena anytime soon. I agree.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Christopher Reeve, Yeah, riding a horsey fell, got a traumatic
brain injury, was paralyzed. Let his wife bang other people? Yeah,
Leslie Nielsen's wife. She's not a celebrity, but she died
that way. Oh yeah. And probably the most recent one

(08:33):
would be Bob Sagett.

Speaker 5 (08:35):
Oh yeah, he fell.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
It was in his hotel. Yes.

Speaker 5 (08:39):
Uh. Natasha Richardson also want trauma with a ski accident.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
Like so, it happens same thing.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
He got a subdural hematoma, had a hemorrhage, blant trauma
to the head. There are no signs of drugs or
alcohol or anything like that in his body.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
We're talking about Bob, right, correct, So what did he
trip over? What does that matter? Well? People just don't
fall over for no reason. People trip all the time exactly,
And that's what I'm trying to find out. What did
he trip over his shoelaces? Did he did he stub
his toe on the bed in the hotel room? You
see what I'm saying. There's not a lot in there
that like you could just trip over, you know, and

(09:22):
then hit your head. I'd get it. You hit your
head on the on the corner of the table or
you know, dresser or whatever. Yeah, that's gonna take you out.
But that one.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
Is a little fishy. Yeah, it's fishy because of the
point Gimpi's making, right, It just we we we tripped
and we catch ourselves.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
Yes, so it.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Feels fishy because there's just feels like, how is that possible?

Speaker 2 (09:46):
Right?

Speaker 5 (09:47):
But if he had low blood sugar or something like that,
then he would have like bled out. And I don't
know if that was ever determined or if that was
ever told. But like my mom's boyfriend, he before he
knew that he had diabetes and kidney failure, his blood
sugar was so low in the middle of the night,
he got up to go to the bathroom and he

(10:09):
got dizzy, lost consciousness, fell hit his head on the
corner of a desk, and my mom heard the fall.
That's what woke her up, and she said that she
thought he was dead. There was so much blood everywhere.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
Sure, I think that would be noted and maybe it
is somewhere, But I think diabetes would be a contributing
factor to it.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Right, But I think that.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
The seizure could have come after with Ace Freely, right
when he hit his head.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Yeah, he could have been in.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Bed, had a wild crazy dream, rolled out of bed,
but tit his head. You do not have to fall
very far to have blunt forced to the back of
the head.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
Back of the head is very delicate.

Speaker 1 (10:57):
And the stern stem of the brain does not like company.
It likes to be by itself, and so when other
things are introduced a subdural hematoma, it does not like that.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Yeah. Still curious as like how many of these had
something else happened before that? Like I said, with Ace
Freeley and the stroke, the stroke probably happened which caused
him to fall over, same way with Bob Sagging. And
I say all that because you know when we heard
macho man Randy Savage died. Yeah, he died in a
car accident. But then you find out later on he

(11:33):
had a heart attack and that's what caused the car accident.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Yeah, we found that out though, like within a week, right, right,
So what did he die of the heart attack of
the car crash?

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Right? It was the heart attack that you know he
died from and caused the car to smash into a tree.
But we didn't see that at first. We just said, oh, hell,
he smashed his jeep into a tree. Did he have
a widow maker? Macho man? Yeah? Sure, why not?

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Because he could have had a heart attack and then
had the axe like in the moment, had the accident, right,
and then took so long for recovery like to get
to him.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
Right, little combination of air reefing there, Yeah, caused him
to lose his life. Yeah, yeah, I don't know widow makers.

Speaker 5 (12:17):
You only have a twelve percent chance to survive, right,
and that's if you're in a hospital.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
A google.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
No, he did not, but a different wrestler did, Oh,
sure he could. That's Barry Wyndham was known as the
widow Maker. He was part of Randy Savage's team in
nineteen eighty nine. Ooh, the irony. Yeah, he had an
a large heart. He had ninety percent blockage of his

(12:49):
coronary arteries.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
I wonder why, Wow, slim gems. No, it's the eighties man,
the eighties that took a toll on him all that. Okay,
you can't tell me looking at tell me his wrestling
promos that that guy wasn't suited out.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Of his mind every time. I mean, I don't know
if is that a documented thing that he took. I
don't know if it documented.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
I don't know if anybody wrote it down and was like, yes,
Randy Okay was high on cocaine all his career. Now
take this for what it's worth.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
Claim that claims that Macho Man Randy Savage used cocaine
are a long standing rumor among wrestling fans.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
There's no definitive proof.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
The speculation largely stems from his intense, high energy on
screen persona, particularly his famous Cream of the Crop promo,
which some fans have interpreted as being fueled by drug use.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
Look at his eyes. The truth is always in the eyes, man.
It is all glazed over pupils the size of pinheads.
Come on, well, let's let's let us be the jury.
WrestleMania three at the Silver Loman Pontiac, Michigan. It's a
day that I'm certain, my guess that this time will
not forget. I'm talking about the former inter connidental champion

(14:09):
of the World. Macho man, Manny, it means nothing. Another
thing means nothing. Nothing means nothing.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
What do you mean by that?

Speaker 2 (14:16):
I'm talking about all the way to the top year,
justifiably in a position that I'd rather not be. But
the Queen rest to the top. Oh yeah, Machu Madness.
He has got more oofer than President Jack Tounny thinks
that I got. Yeah, I'll me tell you something right now,

(14:36):
card sticked against the machul Man, Rady Savage and WrestleMania three. Yeah,
let me see it you, let me see it out
loud and let me point to the President of the
World Wrestling.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
It feels like every promo he's ever done exactly so
for you, just the intensity of it is what now, Man,
it's not the intendity because just listening to it you
can't tell yeah, he's doing a wrestling promo.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
He is in your supposed to be intense when you
are a professional wrestler, right, It's it for me more,
it's it's look at him. Look at his body, Look
at his eyes, Look at the fourteen gallons of sweat
that's pouring from his body. That didn't help any That
didn't help any because what happens when you put water

(15:20):
on oil, It beads right off. Again, I'm just looking
at him, and I've always said it, and I'll stand
on it until the day I die. The truth is
in the eyes. Man. You want to know what somebody's on,
Look at the eyes.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
Yeah, he's He's wearing glasses in that promo, so I
can't really see him. Yeah, Okay, I don't have an
argument here other than we just don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Uh huh right, he ain't talking I swear him and
and Hogan Hogan, that's been admitted. Yeah, but Hogan's admitted that. Yeah,
and their partners. Sure, just because he did it. Just
just because Gipp does cocaine doesn't mean Corbin does blah
blah blah b whatever. You know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (16:04):
But just again, by the way, he's not saying, yeah,
we're partners whatever, dump that whatever.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
Just just look at them when they do their their
promos and stuff. And it's like, man, and everybody knows
that the eighties were the the the high times for
the cocaine.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
I forgot. Miss Elizabeth died. Oh yeah, she was forty two.
She overdosed on painkillers and alcohol. No, it would have
said that she died from exhaustion. Same reason every celebrity
goes into rehab exhausted. Yeah they they She got with

(16:48):
a Lex Luger. She was with Lex Luger when she
died of an overdose. So she died in two thousand
and three. He died in twenty eleven. He was only
fifty eight.

Speaker 2 (17:00):
Wow, all right, I'll be there in about eight years. Huh.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
All that from dramatic brain injury. All right, we got
to take a break. We got tickets for a day
to remember, we're gonna give away and we'll be back.
I'm about this time. We like to do our news quikies.
Let's get started.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
It's time for newsquakies. World news, local news, and news
that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbyn, Gimbi
and Lindsay with what's going on news quakies from the
Big Nine Morning showing ninety seventy five.

Speaker 5 (17:33):
Idiot leads cops on GTA style chase in ambulance stolen
from hospital. Hospital Hospital. This happened into Chicago, where fifty
nine year old Lamont Hill stole an ambulance while it
was parked at the hospital and with one of the

(17:53):
paramedics still inside. The suspect was seen being led out
of the hospital by security when he managed to jump
inside the emergency vehicle and the paramedic was able to
jump out of the ambulance, but the grand theft auto
style chase was on, with shots even being fired by police. Eventually,

(18:18):
the chase did end when the ambulance hit a police
vehicle head on and the driver tried to flee on
foot before finally being apprehended. The chase resulted in seven injuries,
three of which were police officers. I can't imagine maneuvering
an ambulance on a high speed chase in Chicago.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
I have no idea. If they're I would think they're
top heavy.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Right, But you also gotta think they're probably lower just
because they look boxing top heavy because they have to
drive at high speeds, right, maybe not doing one hundred
and twenty five, but they do have to give from
wherever they're at two hospital in a quickness. So my
guess is as they are boxy and top heavy, they're lowered,

(19:04):
so that therefore the center of gravity is not going
to be so I wonder if people that design or
make ambulances take into account passenger comfort, Like do they
like when it rolls?

Speaker 5 (19:20):
Like?

Speaker 1 (19:21):
Do they go it rolls too much? So far as
like the gurney or whatever, Yeah, like it it moves
around too much.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
We gotta figure it. Like. I think that's why they
learned to lock them in the place.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
Right, No, I know, but that still doesn't mean you
don't lean into a turn, right.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
That's probably why they strap you down while you're on
the gurney as well. I think it's more because they're
afraid you can be like combination of the two babies.
So man tells cops the cockroach told him to kill
comes out of it. Why we got an idiot cockroach?
These people have names, right, not cockroach from the Cosby shoot. Right.

Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah, we know the character ste name was assigned to
the wrong character.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
So this comes out of Albuquerque where cops got reports
of gunfire around ten o'clock in the evening. So they
show up to this house and well, they have two
dudes that are dead inside. The guy who answered the
door twenty five year old Alexis Ernandez was armed when
he answered the door. He said told the cops that

(20:25):
he thought that one of the victims was stalking them
and that they had installed cameras in the light fixtures
of his house. He went on to tell him that
he went over there to confront them and he ended
up shooting. He confessed to shooting Hector and a guy
named Yoursus says he did it in self defense because

(20:48):
they allegedly led him to a back room. He said
he heard creepy voices coming from the fence and that's
when he got this is what it says, an encryptid
message in a cockroach instructing him to kill. There were
three other adults and two children in the house when
Alexis shot the two men. The two children witnessed Alexis

(21:14):
shoot and kill the two dudes. But old Alexis here
did tell the police, hey, I did not intend to
harm any of the kids at all whatsoever, And they
say that this is still under investigation.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
I'm always shocked when people do this because there is
plenty of data cops, the TV show that shows people
do this, and it never works.

Speaker 2 (21:41):
So far as what do you mean the cockroach was
trying to kill me. I have diarrhea.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
Whatever the excuse is, they usually go no, yeah, we'll
deal with that later.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
Maybe he's trying to lay the groundwork for an insanity
please okay, yeah, I don't hate that, say the cockroa
told him to kill because you know, right, there's one there,
there's one there right.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
Driver tries to use Monopoly card during traffic stop.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Again.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
A Southern California police officer got a surprise when he
pulled over a driver for a traffic violation. When the
police officer approached the vehicle and asked for license and registration,
the driver handed him a get out of jail free
card from Monopoly.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
The officer had a good laugh, but let.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
The driver know that though he appreciated the creativity, it
was not a legal defense. He wrote a citation anyway,
and later posted a photo of the exchange on social
media now as a joke.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
I don't hate that. You never know though, I mean
you and I know that it wouldn't work, But you
don't know until you try.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
Of the few times that I been I'm trying to
think the last time I got pulled over, No two
pull ago, I got pulled over here and there was
construction on sixty first by the you know, the cemetery
and quick trip. Nope, sixty first by the the bank.

(23:12):
Okay and the quick quick trip or whatever it is
now yeah, yeah, no, no, no near one sixty nine
mingo manga and the officer I was like, damn it,
speeding totally new I was. When he pulled me, I
was like, all right, here we go. And I tried
to make a joke and he did not laugh at all.

(23:34):
And I'm not listen. Not all my jokes are home runs.
I get it, But I was trying to make light
of a situation instead of like, I get.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
It, you're just doing your job.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
I got caught. How many times I speed and don't
get caught. I'm one of those people that when it happens,
I'm like, well, okay.

Speaker 2 (23:49):
Finally got you. Yeah. Yeah. He might have caught him
on a bad day. Sure, he could have been on
his fourth bad joke of the day, and he's just like, uh, okay, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
I hang out with some police officers. They're pretty funny.
They're fun yeah, But in that environment, I guess you
you have to put up your guard, like you don't
just approach a car, you know, when you're on patrol,
and go, Man, I hope they tell me a joke,
right right, No, you go, this person might try to
kill me, right because I don't know who this is

(24:23):
in the car, and the joke maybe a cover, right, trying.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
To let them down their guard a little bit. Yeah.
I never really thought of it like that.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
Here I am being like, ah, man, you're just doing
your job. I get it right, and he's like, shut up,
Oh you ain't keep No, he didn't say that hands
of kids the car.

Speaker 4 (24:41):
Now.

Speaker 5 (24:42):
I remember visiting my hometown. It was probably I was
in my late twenties and I got pulled over because
they had they had, really they had reconstructed our downtown area,
made one ways and put in new stop signs, took
out it was completely different. And my father in law

(25:02):
at the time said, be careful when you're driving downtown
now it's completely different. And I said, oh okay, And
boy was he right. And I got pulled over and
I because I blew a stop sign and the officer
came to my car and I knew exactly why. I said,
I'm I'm so sorry, I'm so unfamiliar with this area

(25:24):
now and I look up at the police officer and
it was someone that I'd graduated high school with and
I recognized him instantly, and I said, Jesse, you're a
police officer and he said, I am, I'm officer. I
don't even remember his last.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
Name now, and I'm over compensating for my high school
years exactly.

Speaker 5 (25:41):
And I said, it's good to see you, and he
was like, it shouldn't be good to see me, yeah,
and I'm I'm like, I'm so sorry. I haven't been
back here since the remodel of the downtown area, and
I said, do your job, but it's it's genuinely nice
to see you. I haven't seen you since our senior
year of high school and we were in band together
and every I mean we literally like sat next to

(26:03):
each other in Man.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, he turns into Jesse Plemons on game night exactly exactly.

Speaker 5 (26:08):
And I mean he gave me a warning, thankfully, but.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
You total he gave you a warning, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (26:14):
But he was a jerk about it, Like it wasn't like.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
Oh, hey, you can't have both things.

Speaker 5 (26:18):
What are you doing these? You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (26:20):
Like he could have small, he could have planted.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
I could have could have shot you. Yeah, I think
you're being ungrateful. I got pulled over for speeding going
back to Saint Louis for my dad's surgery. I was
trying to make it in time for the surgery and
left here at like four am, and the surgery was
like at seven.

Speaker 2 (26:43):
It was some crazy thing. And so.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
Some small town I get pulled over by the popo
and he's like, do you know why I pulled you over?
And I was like no, and he's like, you were speeding,
to driver licensedistration, all those things. Is like, I want
you to come back to my car, which, for those
who don't know, that is a tactic. They're trying to

(27:07):
get you in a confined space to give them more
probable cause for other things. Right, And so I get
in a squad car and he asked me where I'm
going Saint Louis. What's in Saint Louis? And in my
mind I go, do I play the card.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
My dying dad card?

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Yes, And so I go, I'm trying to make it
to Saint Louis. My dad is having cancer surgery today.

Speaker 5 (27:36):
M hmm.

Speaker 2 (27:37):
Keeps writing. You know how many of those stories they
hear a day? Sure, yeah, so you may be telling
the truth, but how many of them aren't, So you
got to treat them all the same. I get it.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
But when you look when you run my plates and
you run my driver's license and you see I've never
been arrested for kidnapping or charged with embezzlement or any
other truck crime, I think you can go with hey
keep the likelihood of him telling the truth is pretty
high here.

Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yeah, yeah, but it doesn't pop up in the system
when they run your name. Oh dance having cancer surgery. No,
one hundred percent, one hundred percent. And I'm not saying
he should have cut me a break would have been nice, though,
I just yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:21):
Neither one of those situations, right stopped me from speeding. No,
even if you would have been given me a break,
I still would have sped right.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah, wait until he's out of your view and then
hammered down.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
One hundred percent And little do you know sometimes they
hang back to see if you do that and you
get popped twice, that's a day poof right, No, thank you, Yeah,
all right, we got to take a break.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
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Speaker 1 (29:47):
So I found this story about futuristic ideas for medical problems,
and I found it really fascinating because the idea that
inventions for metal are kind of crazy. They're kind of
crazy to me. They feel not real. Like when my
grandfather had a pacemaker put in the eighties, he was

(30:07):
in the hospital for like a month. Now it's an
outpatient procedure. They go put something in your chest and
you go home same day. That's crazy, right, And so
these are some that they have come up with, and
one of them is a titanium artificial heart with a
magnetic rotor.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Oh okay, so it's a full.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Mechanical heart, no valves, no beat, just a spinning rotor.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
And sometimes you hear these ideas and you're like, yeah,
that sounds great, and they're like, you know, we're gonna
get rid of red dye in ten years, right.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
You're like, okay, that's on. But this is apparently very close.

Speaker 1 (30:46):
Human trials have already happened, and they think it may
be within five years.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
Okay. I've been saying that for years. How come we're
not three D printing organs and stuff, you know, because
they can do it, they can do it on it
a human level using microbes and stuff.

Speaker 1 (31:03):
Yeah, I don't know if they could do that with
a kidney, But the heart is more of a machine
than it is anything else, right, It's sole job is
just push blood through the body, right, right. Another one
stretchable brain modern monitoring. Stretchable brain monitoring chips. These are

(31:23):
flexible chips that sit on the brain and track electrical activity.
It's been tested in animals. They think it's probably ten
plus years out before they can do that. And what's
the point of that. Well, I think the monitoring chips
is just a way to track neurological things that are
happening in the brain. Okay, just to see where things like,

(31:43):
let's say, how the brain thinks, right, how it feels pain?

Speaker 2 (31:49):
Right? Can it detect a stroke before it happens? Correct
those type of things.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
How about fungus derived cancer molecules?

Speaker 2 (32:00):
Anything with fungus is bad news, man. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
This actually goes back to King Tut believe it or not.
And they compounds found in ancient tombs that are in
the fungus are being tested for anti cancer properties. This
is still at lab level. They haven't tested on humans yet.
They think this is about twenty years out. Okay, okay,
the idea like, I'm somebody who believes you fix one

(32:25):
problem that you're just removing it and the vacuum has
to be filled with a different problem. It may not
be the same problem, it may not be as intensive
a problem, but there still needs to be a problem.
It's kind of like when somebody, you know, you have
somebody that you're in your office and they're the you know,
the village idiot, and they fire the village idiot. Guess what,
someone new becomes the village idiot, right right, And you

(32:46):
keep doing that and if there's two people left, one
of you is the village idiot. And if they fire
the other one of you, then you're you're one person.
You're the village idiot. AI Howard Echo Cardiogram and diagnostic models.
It's AI that reads hard scans and flags problems faster

(33:07):
than clinicians. Hospitals are already using this, and they're still
trying to adopt regulation because it's growing. So it's happening
so fast, it's moving faster than they can regulate it.
So I'm looking forward to being diagnosed with the bag
of ridos, right, Yeah, I think they get it wrong.

(33:29):
I gets it wrong a lot. Your Jeff say that
on Mondays, like, don't trust ai.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
Yeah, it's still learning. It hasn't perfected itself yet.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
Lab grown human like teeth, Okay, it is toothbuds grown
from pig human hybrid cells that could replace missing teeth.
First human trials are starting soon. They think this is
about eight years out.

Speaker 5 (33:56):
Okay. I remember reading about that in a news quickie
that they were already starting to grow those. But eight
years maybe that's because it takes them that long to
actually grow.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
No, because they have to test. It's science. They test
and test and test and test, and it's not like
every scientist in the world is focused on growing teeth.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
If I'm going to a doctor and I want one
of your fancy new growing teeth, I don't want to
wait eight years for it to finally grow in Yeah,
I want to know.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
Right, you wanted to grow like about like six months minimum,
maybe a year, right. And this is a necessity because
currently when they do titanium teeth, they have to put
it into the jawline, so it's pretty invasive surgery.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
For this.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
You can put it in there and it just grows
in your mouth. You pig just my teeth. Fat trapping
microbeads made from green tea molecules is one of the
future medical discoveries. These are tiny beads that latch onto

(35:04):
fat in the gut and stop absorption.

Speaker 2 (35:07):
Think bobo bobela.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
What are those things called boba t Yeah, and animal
studies shown huge promise. Human trials haven't shown long term
safety yet, and so they think this is well over
ten years out. Okay, soft wearable robots for mobility and rehab.
I have seen some of this at play. It's fascinating.

(35:31):
It's a lightweight robotic sleeve that helps weaken limbs, move
and rebuild strength. So someone who has like weak knees
or can't and then it's a robot that.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
And they can walk again.

Speaker 5 (35:43):
Right, or physical therapy recovery from a surgery. Yeah, like
acl yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
Yeah, they can do that. Instead of you doing the motion,
it does it for you.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
So rather than you go hey pain, See, you're like,
oh it's slow move right. When I did my shoulder,
it was slow degrees on my rotator right, and then
but you know, ever seen a robot go crazy.

Speaker 2 (36:08):
Rare rare right?

Speaker 1 (36:09):
Gosh yeah, Synthetic mucus like hydrogels for gut injuries. This
is a gel that mimics mucus to protect and heal
the digestive track. If you are someone who's ever worked
on a car specifically from like maybe the seventies through
the eighties, and you had a radiator hose have a

(36:31):
leak and you couldn't find it, you could buy a jar.
It was like a brown liquid that had some pellets
in it, and you'd shake it up and you would
pour it into the radiator and when that radiator would
heat everything up, it would then coat the tube to seal.
It was kind of a cheat. It didn't work great
the radiator tubes. I think that's what they're implying here.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
You could do the same thing with black pepper and mustard.
I think we need more context. If you're working on
old cars like that, you have a radiator leak, you
dump a bottle of mustard into your radiator. When that
comes out, you'll see the yellow from the mustard. You
know where your leak is at. The black pepper is

(37:13):
just big enough to clog the holes.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Huh. And it's just it doesn't dissolve or breakdown.

Speaker 2 (37:19):
Huh. Fascinating.

Speaker 7 (37:21):
Interesting.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
So far this works well in mice. They still haven't
done human trials. They think this is possible in five years. Okay,
So if you've got a tear, instead of cutting it
out of your you know, intestines or whatever, boom, they just.

Speaker 2 (37:37):
Mustard and pepper like a radiator.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
A smart pacifier for infant electrolyte monitoring.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
Why pacifiers aren't used as like an oor a ring
or a fitbit or anything like that, I have no idea,
because babies constantly use them. They're not in the way,
and I think you could get a ton of data
in that scenario. Anyway, It's a pacifier that tracks electrolytes, sodium,
and hydration through saliva limited testing. But they think it's

(38:08):
about three years out. So babies sometimes it's hard to
know if they're dehydrated or they're sodium's low or things
like that because what is it called talking? Yeah, they
can't talk, So you rely on some sort of visual
sign to the body lethargic maybe, and then you take

(38:29):
them in then they're like, oh, they're dehydrated.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
Yeah, you take it a step further and add a
thermometer in there. See, you stop shoving thermometers with baby butts.

Speaker 1 (38:37):
Dude, there's this thing. It came more mainstream right as
my youngest was born. But it's a pad you lay
down in the crib and when the baby sleeps on it,
it collects data body temperature, heart rate, if they're breathing, patterns,
odd social Security number.

Speaker 2 (38:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (39:00):
It's like a smart a smart watch essentially, or when
you wear to bed that monitors everything on an adult
but a pad smart patent.

Speaker 1 (39:09):
Yeah, crazy data, right, rather than you know, if you
know the parent that gets up every hour to check
on their baby, like first, weird sound right? This you
could just see the data or an alarm would wake
you up if something's not right.

Speaker 2 (39:24):
Fascinating, right.

Speaker 1 (39:26):
They say that this is about three years out and
I think they'll use hospitals will use it first. Okay, Yeah,
Low intensity brain simulation for Alzheimer's. This is a gentle
electrical stimulation to slow cognitive decline individuals. The results aren't

(39:47):
one hundred percent yet. They think it could be for
mid Alzheimer's patients, so for those on there's different levels
of Alzheimer's and this is within five years. They think
they can have this implemented and why they don't try
any of these things. I can't imagine anybody wouldn't be
for it. I can't imagine anybody wouldn't think that there

(40:09):
is a way to help with Alzheimer's because it is
detrimental to watch that happen to somebody you love.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
Somebody had to get to that point though, like, hey,
if we use electricity on these Alzheimer's patients, it might
help them out a little bit. Okay, well, I'll tell
you what. Grab those little electrodes, grab bul over there,
just give her a little shock.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
Two thirty minute sessions a day, patients have shown cognitive improvement.
Scientists say this maybe because the electricity helps the brain
enhance plasticity, allowing it to form new neural connections and pathways.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
Didn't we stop using electro shock therapy? No, you know
we still do it, do they really? Yeah? I try
to stay out of the crazy words.

Speaker 6 (40:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
They think that's gonna make you not be homosexual.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
I thought you just pray the gay away. I thought
that's how that worked. No, that's you.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
And then this is another one that's on here. And
I actually practice this now because I've become pretty infatuated
with sleep and getting the best sleep I can and
that cold therapy for sleep improvements.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
It's a controlled cold exposure to help with sleep pattern.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
This is there's no long term clinical proof that this works,
but they are showing that if you can sleep in
a cold scenario, you will have better deeper sleep.

Speaker 5 (41:38):
I agree with that. I sleep way better when I'm
when I am sleeping in a cold environment, Like if
my nose is cold but the rest of me is
war I know I'm sleeping really good.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
Now, this is an extreme situation. What was the movie?
What was the movie with the doctors and the the
blue sheet and it turned blue and they basically made
them cold and then stopped their heart and then warmed
them back up flatliners.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
Where they like almost die. Yeah, that you fork feeling
and then have to be brought back to life.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Yeah, So what they do the test they've done twenty
women and men, the average age of twenty three. They
exposed them to extreme cryo stimulation for five consecutive days.
Participants spent five minutes each day at minus one thirty
wearing a swimsuit, crocs, mittens, and a knit hat. So

(42:36):
they know the participants then had the rest of their
day like normal. After the five days, their sleep improved.
Their slow waves sleep the most restorative kind, that's the
most important one that dumps all the toxicities out of
your brain every day. Think of inside out when they
dumped the memories at the end of the day.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
Kind of like that.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
It increased by an average of more than seven minutes. Participants,
mostly women, benefited from reduced anxiety. Now I told you
I do this. I don't do minus one thirty, No,
like maybe sixty eight. Maybe. All I know is it's
a it's a level three, right, I don't know what

(43:19):
the tim I guess I can change its temperature to
find out what I'm chilling my bed to. But I
do not want minus thirty.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
No, there is a point of getting too cold. Hell,
even when I just got the ac on in the
house right sleeping on the couch, chill and relaxed, and
you know, got a blanket on, curled up, I wake up.
My feet are cold, my nose is cold. I'm like, no, no, no,
they're just too cold. The cold is what woke me up. Yes, there.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
If you are someone who sleeps hot and you sleep
with the covers off.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
At one point you wake up and.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Cover yourself back up because your body temperature already decreases.

Speaker 2 (43:53):
When you sleep. Right. Yeah, I'm good on all that.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
So I don't know what. We have a titanium heart possible.
We'll just have to see.

Speaker 2 (44:02):
Rush more of the Big Med Morning Show is nast
Let's play a game.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
We got tickets we're gonna give away for a day
to remember. That show is happening at the Bok Center
on Thursday. Get your tickets Bokcenter dot com. And it
is Tuesday. So the game is sing sing. The current
record is.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
Well, I am leading with twelve, and Corbyn you're kind
of right behind me with ten, and Lindsey is directly
behind you with nine. Last week's winner that would be me.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
So Corbyn and Lindsay eight three three four six oh
K m O D eight three three four six oh
kmo D Calum decide who's going to be your clue giver.
Whichever team gets the most right is one of those
tickets for a day to remember at the Bok Center.

Speaker 2 (44:48):
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name, Beth, Beth?
How are you today?

Speaker 1 (44:56):
Are you good?

Speaker 2 (44:57):
Beth? Who do you want to give clues? Lindsey or Corbyn.

Speaker 5 (45:03):
You get with my bear Fan lindsay, Okay.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
Right, sixty seconds are on the clock. Timer starts after
the first clue.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
Here we go.

Speaker 5 (45:12):
All right. This is a awesome song about something that
a woman demands from her man. Yes, this, Yes, this
is the This was a huge movie with Ryan Gosling

(45:34):
as Ken and it is by Mattela. What is the
Yes that is the first word of the song. The
second word is the opposite of boy girl. Yes. This
is Axel and Slash, their band, singing about the current
month that we are in, November. Yes, if you're not

(46:02):
a winner, you're a m h this is I'm going
to Wichita. Uh the number after six? Seven? Uh huh,

(46:23):
you got it.

Speaker 1 (46:26):
There's time, time, time, time time. It looks like four
is what you got. That's pretty good, Beth, hang on
the line. Okay, sure, good.

Speaker 2 (46:36):
Morning, you're on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 6 (46:40):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (46:40):
Good morning is nic Nico? How are you buddy? Doing great? Man? Good,
It's great to hear from you. Man. Let's go ahead
and play the game. We've got to beat four. Are
you ready? All right, let's do it. Here we go. Uh.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
This is the Latino singer. He was in Menudo. He
went mainstream on his own, had a pretty great Enrique Galacias,
No too old, you need to come. Oh no, that's
his that's the the sun about that same time.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
She bangs, she bangs. Oh, I don't know who actually
sees that. I just know the dude the singing on
American Idol. Yeah, that's so awesome.

Speaker 1 (47:30):
Finish this actor's name that has white hair.

Speaker 5 (47:33):
Steve.

Speaker 2 (47:36):
Comedian Gaius, Steve Glacias. No, that's not right, Martinias.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
Okay, this is the name that Lucio Ball would yell
when she was mad at her husband.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
Ah, that's right out of my age bracket.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
Sure, okay, Blank Springfield, Blank, Springfield, Missouri, Springfield. The singer
blank Jesse's.

Speaker 2 (48:09):
Good morning, Lindsay.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
Oh nope, nope, sorry, got down and got out over
my skis there.

Speaker 2 (48:29):
I was just letting you do that a little longer.

Speaker 4 (48:32):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
Well, come and says here. FDA eliminates black box warning
for HRT products. The FDA is elimiting its highest warning
label from hormone replacement theory therapy products for menopause. FDA
Commissioner doctor Marty mcgeary says the so called black box

(48:53):
warning on hormone therapy, pills, creams, and other treatments scared
women from using the drugs that Mccaery says are very beneficial.
Airi says the warnings about breast cancer was placed on
the product based on outdated studies from the early two thousands.
He went on to call the use of the label
one of the greatest mistakes of modern medicine.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
I mean, I would say that more attention needs to
be paid to menopause and how women get treatment for it. Yeah, yeah,
maybe this is accurate.

Speaker 2 (49:29):
I don't. I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
I don't know enough about menopause medicine to know if
a warning who reads warning labels?

Speaker 2 (49:36):
I think if it's in giant black and white bold letters,
kind of can't help it. But I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (49:42):
Isn't that like reading the Surgeon General is warning on
a pack of cigarettes.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Oh, we know it's there, and we've read it before.
We just don't care.

Speaker 1 (49:50):
But this by the theory behind this that if this
were true, and then people would not smoke because they're
because of the label.

Speaker 2 (49:57):
Right, But that's not true, Right, We still do it anyway. Yeah,
And I think you know, I mean, it's up to you.
If you see the warning label and you're like, I
could give you cancer, ain't take it anyway, Well that's
that's all on you. But to eliminated completely, that's like
with your example, taking the Surgeon General warnings off cigarettes.

Speaker 1 (50:16):
Yeah yeah, if it helps women, I'm all for it,
right yeah. The downside, though, it may confuse probably more
than anything else, so like wait, why was it and
creates all the skepticism, pride?

Speaker 2 (50:26):
What else we got here? America marks Veterans Day Today
is Veterans Day, the day set aside to honor the
millions who have worn the United States Armed Forces uniform.
According to the Department of Veteran Affairs, more than forty
million men and women have served in the military over
the course of the nation's history. Today, the total number
of living US veterans is estimated at right around eighteen million.

(50:51):
Oh here's one for you. Here's some more. Kool aid
iHeartMedia and TikTok partner launch first of its kind multi
platinum partnership, multi platform partnership, or platinum whatever. The collaboration
includes the launch of the TikTok Podcast Network, which will

(51:12):
feature up to twenty five new podcasts hosted by TikTok creators.
The partnership also includes TikTok Radio. That's a fast paced format,
pairing TikTok creators with experienced iHeartRadio personalities like us. This
is where listeners will feel like they're scrolling on TikTok
but with their ears. My Heart Media and TikTok will

(51:36):
join forces for live events as well. And then lastly,
here Corbin. The Tulsa City County Library to debut self
service Kiosk and Tulsa Premium Outlets. The Tulsa City County
Libraries is coming to the tul Supremium Outlets. A self
service library vending Kiosk will be making its way to

(51:56):
the outlet mall on November twenty third. Tulsa City County
Library Express combined self service with convenience. The kiosk will
house hundreds of books for all ages and book return
rentals are for fourteen days and can be returned to
any library location, and the kiosks also accepts returns for

(52:19):
any Tulsa City.

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Good look, all.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
Right, let's do listener emails. You can always email us
show at kmod dot com. We read the email on
the air and you guys get to help give advice.
You can give advice for the listener email by texting
BMMS and whatever that is to eight two nine four five.
This email says, I proposed to my girlfriend last week
and at a nice restaurant. I'd planned it all out,

(53:22):
worked with the restaurant to have the ring hidden in
the dessert. Got our friends at a nearby table, ready
to film the whole ordeal, asked her dad. When the
waiter brought it out and I got down on one knee,
she froze, and she said I can't do this and
walked out. Everywhere everyone in the place went dead quiet.

(53:42):
I just sat there, embarrassed. I turned to our friends.
They were gone. I felt as humiliated. I paid the
check and called her uh in the car, but she
wouldn't answer. Later that night, she texted saying she needs
time and wasn't ready. That's it, no explanation since she
hasn't answered my text or my calls. What does not
ready mean?

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Is this over?

Speaker 1 (54:05):
How long do I wait to see if she comes
back around. I'm not giving my advice yet, but that's funny.
Come on, life is funny. I'm sure he's heartbroken.

Speaker 5 (54:22):
Yeah about what.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
About what he.

Speaker 5 (54:30):
Was left in the middle of a restaurant?

Speaker 1 (54:33):
He took a chance? And a funny thing about chance.
Sometimes it don't work out. I didn't say in the
email how long they've been together?

Speaker 2 (54:43):
No, right, because I'm kind of curious, like, have you
only been together for a couple of weeks or a
month and you're already proposing to this broad, maybe even
a couple of months and you're already proposing. No wonder
she ran the hell out there.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
When you know, you know, sure, there's plenty of people
that have gotten married in a short time after meeting
each other and it work out great. And there's also
people that have been together a long time get together and.

Speaker 2 (55:09):
It don't work out.

Speaker 1 (55:11):
Yeah, So I don't know if there is one way
or another that proves it to be right.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
He took a guess.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
Yeah, and sometimes it's red and sometimes it's black. That's
funny to me. That's funny you put five hundred dollars
on red and it came up black. Can only laugh,
But that's not my advice. Listener email from a guy

(55:39):
who asked his girl to get married did everything sounds
like the right way, and when he asked her, she
said I can't do this and walked out and then
went a wall. She did text and say she needs
time and wasn't ready. Listener email wants to know what
is not ready mean? And is this over? And how

(56:02):
long should I wait to see if she comes back around.

Speaker 2 (56:06):
I thought the phrase not ready was pretty self explanable, right,
you know, you don't really need to know what not
ready is.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Clearly this is it, I know, but not ready for marriage,
not ready to be in a serious relate, not to me.
That makes that's a fair question, right, it's a pretty
easy out right.

Speaker 2 (56:25):
It seems like a go to out. It was It's
not you, it's me, right right, this Tex says move on.

Speaker 1 (56:31):
She made her choice, cut all ties and let her
end up as a forty year old with nine kids
that no one wants to date and watch karma. It's beautiful, God,
your name is appropriate in our system. Uh yeah, that's
definitely one way to have to go because we don't

(56:52):
know how they are. But to go through let's just
say they're twenty and have twenty years of contempt waiting
for their life to fall apart is a wild take.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
Maybe maybe it was a sign saying don't do it.
But how crappy of her too, not even answering your
calls like being an adult and explaining yourself.

Speaker 2 (57:11):
Bitch, let me guess you're a dude. You know, that's
a lot to take in for one person, especially if
she is not ready as she said. You know, so
I can't say is that a blame her for not
instantly returning phone calls. Right, he planned this, Yeah, he's
come to terms with it. She's just found out.

Speaker 5 (57:35):
I find it interesting that he went he had the
conversation with her parents and got you know, he said,
I talked to her parents about it, said her dad, Yeah,
and got his permission. It's it's to me that feels
like they've been together for a while, because even even
if they hadn't, maybe the dad would have said something

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or hinted.

Speaker 1 (58:02):
I have a hot take on that. It's not a
dad's business to say yes or no. It's just not
This isn't nineteen sixty, right, It's.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Just an old, old school tradition. Is it respectful? Sure?

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Yeah, but that it's not the dad's job to play gatekeeper, right, right.

Speaker 5 (58:18):
But maybe it was a conversation that he had with
his girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (58:22):
Yeah he could have. We don't know that, Like if.

Speaker 5 (58:24):
It's important to her, and if it was, he did
all the right things.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
Here's next.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
I feel like people should have a discussion about marriage
where they are in their lives and if they are
ready for that sort of commitment before they decide to propose.

Speaker 2 (58:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:39):
I also think that nobody should break laws and no
one should get murdered. Rejection is God's protection. Take the
pain and move on. The right one will come along,
but clearly she's not the right one. I don't know
if I agree with that first part. Rejection is God's protection.
A lot of people have been rejected and going and

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got what they wanted.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
I wonder if this is the same email or from
what was it last week the week before where he's like,
I can't find a date or right, you must be
miserable if I'm miserable, right, and then he found one,
and then you know, shot his wad too early proposed
this text. She's a cheating more this text.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Even the friends bailed. That's cold, man. Forget the girlfriend.
Find some new friends first. Yeah, we don't know if
they were his friends.

Speaker 2 (59:26):
Or her friends.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
If they were her friends, I could only imagine if you,
even if you had similar friends like you together found
these people and it was let's say it's a guy
and a girl and the girl runs out. I could
only imagine the girls going, hey, go, I gotta.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
Go right, and the guy's gonna follow.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
Yes, yes, uh, a little late for advice, but getting
engaged shouldn't be a surprise. Where and when the proposal
happens should be it should be talked about beforehand, in
my opinion. Another text, don't walk run similar thing happened
to me two. Another text, she's a cheating horror bro

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run while you have the chance. Reasonable answer oof sounds
like you talk to everybody about proposing, but the one
person you should have. Kind of blunder usually means it's
over nuclear answer, Haha, you moron. She's ready, just not
ready for you. That might be true, and I don't know,

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I don't. I think part of the problem here is movies, right,
Movies make it believe that you're supposed to surprise.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
He did do the cliche movie proposal. Went to the restaurant, Yes,
them had him hide it in the dessert. So when
she's munching on her pie or whatever, she gets a
chip of tooth.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
Let me, let me, let me finance twenty percent of
my salary to buy a ring that I'm gonna have
to get back from you in five years and then
give it to John right in.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
The kitchen at cheesecake.

Speaker 1 (01:01:04):
Uh. I'm curious to how long they were together. My
husband and I have been married twenty five years. We
were engaged after two weeks and married after five months
of getting together. But I tell people all the time
that is not normal. No, I don't know if it's
normal or not normal. People are people, right, There is

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no formula to how long you should wait before you
get engaged.

Speaker 2 (01:01:28):
No h And just my personal opinion, I feel there
should be longer than two weeks. That's just me though.
I mean, at least they waited for another five months
after that to actually get married, so it gave them
some time to figure out, Hey, is this something? Because
I get it, emotions start running high, you know, and
you're like, oh, this is fan. We talk about the

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same thing, and going on vacation in Mexico, you're like,
we should live here. And then you get there and
you're like, this sucks because now it's just life in Mexico.
And you're like, we should get married, yes, yeah, and
then you do it. You're like, this sucks. This is
not what I was expecting.

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
I think that there's been many things that I've happened
in the last fourteen years that I've been with my
wife that would have never thought of to communicate with
her about before we got married. That have been pivotal
moments in our relationship. There's no way to have all
the conversations. And sometimes people believe that you are put

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on this earth, and the statistically the odds for you
to be where you are and to find someone who
cares and loves about you is astronomical.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
So why not take the chance.

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
That's called living life, baby, that's life in the circus.

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
Why this takets Just married my wife three weeks ago,
and I asked her about a month after we met,
and she said, yes, different strokes, different folks, that's right.
Tell them to find one that says yes. So go
and ask every woman you encounter, will you marry me?
Will you marry me? Will you marry me? Will you
marry me?

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
Right, eventually you get ask somebody texts this, this is interesting.
He's the second guy she keeps on a back burner.
Move on Facebook. Dating is great to smash your heart away.
I know we joke about this. I don't think everybody's
got a back burner going. Some people do, but most

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people don't. Maybe she didn't think it was that serious. Right,
unless you want something going nowhere, stay if you want more,
move on another text Let her walk, buddy, I let
mine walk. Once she was shocked that I showed no
emotion at her leaving. Then then we never had an
issue again. That was an obvious no from her, So

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just move on, man. Wait, so you like, I'll just
leave and played the game. Well bye, She learned her lesson.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
It never happened again. It's hard for them to leave
when you got him tied up.

Speaker 1 (01:03:55):
The universe does this funny thing where everything comes back
full circle. Sometimes people come into your life early enough
and then leave, but then after some time they come back.
You just you can just be yourself, bro, Only you
can make you happy. It's not about gatekeeping. It's about
giving your blessing. It is about gatekeeping when you're like,

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the parents should be involved and say yes or no. Right,
and you better know how important their dad is. If
the dad is not an awesome person, you don't need
the dad's blessing, right, just very This relationship has run
its course.

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
Another one.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
I wonder if they talked about marriage, if they discussed
it a little to none, then her reaction to proposal
makes sense. Yeah this one, And to my point, marry
her dad if he likes you so much?

Speaker 2 (01:04:47):
Oh god? Yeah? Or six again?

Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
Huh what if the dad does not have the relationship
with the daughter to know if she's happy.

Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
Or not right, and probably's like, yeah, sure, if that's
what you want to do, go for it. And so
some people would interpret that lackluster emotion as a well
game it is blessing. He said, yeah, go ahead. Well yeah,
I also said go ahead and rob that bank if
you want to as well.

Speaker 1 (01:05:10):
But right, this email says I proposed to my girlfriend
last week at a nice restaurant. I'd planned it all out,
worked with the restaurant to have the ring hidden in
the dessert, got our friends at a nearby table to
film the whole deal, asked her dad. When the waiter
brought it out, I put down on one knee. She froze,
said I can't do this and walked out. Everyone in

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the place when dead quiet. I just sat there. Oh
my God, dear baby, Jesus, please let this happen to
me in my life. I would love to bear witness.

Speaker 2 (01:05:39):
Oh life happened to you?

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
Or just watch it? No, bear witness man. Life was
fun to watch from the sidelines.

Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
Ain't that the truth.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
I turned to our friends and they were gone. I
was humiliated. I paid the check, called her on the
way to the car. Later that night, Oh, she didn't answer.
Later that night she texted saying she needs time and
wasn't ready. That's it, no explanation since she doesn't answering
my text or my calls. What does not ready mean?
Is this basically over? Or how long do I wait
to see if she comes back around?

Speaker 2 (01:06:09):
Lindsey?

Speaker 5 (01:06:10):
It's over? Move on? I I have I feel very
deeply impassionate about a man doesn't ask a question he
doesn't already know the answer to. So you probably in
general or just with marriage, with marriage, so okay, clearly
you guys didn't discuss it enough and the friends were

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gone too, and he said I had our friends there
to record it and stuff. Those weren't your friends if
they left you behind as well, just sitting there alone
because you he was the one that needed the consoling.
I would I would think.

Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
Uh, I think, GIMPI will agree with me on this.

Speaker 2 (01:06:55):
Maybe he won't.

Speaker 1 (01:06:56):
When you have friends and they're your friends, are our
friend friends, and you into relationship, you lose friends absolutely
in the divorce, right, and that's an instant thing that happens.

Speaker 2 (01:07:10):
People take their sides. Yeah, but she's that doesn't make
them not his friends.

Speaker 5 (01:07:14):
But she's never said I'm ending the relationship. She's just
told him I need time. So maaping is ended. But
I think that it's definitely ended, and she's too scared
to say that it is over. So he just needs
to walk away. She wasn't ready and clearly she's not
ready for marriage and to be in this serious of

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a relationship with him.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
These friends that were there could have been her friends,
and he doesn't have any friends. So because she's got
friends and he doesn't have any friends, he's including him
as their friends. Right, Yeah, My wife and I have
some good friends. Right. We go on vacation with them together.

Speaker 1 (01:07:51):
We go, we have dinner with them a lot, We
travel together, sometimes with their families.

Speaker 2 (01:07:55):
Sometimes we don't.

Speaker 1 (01:07:56):
I am confident that have if our relationship ended, they
would no longer be my friends. That doesn't make them
not my friends now, right, gimme?

Speaker 2 (01:08:09):
Uh? Well, it sucks, but I would just chalk this
one up as a loss and keep on going about
your business, you know what I mean. No sense of
sitting there pining over it, and you know it sucks
and it's embarrassing. And we laughed heartily at your failure.
I'm sorry, but it is what it is. But you tried,

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it didn't work out. I wouldn't even mess with it anymore.
I wouldn't mess with that broad anymore at all. Whatsoever
there cliche time. There's plenty more out there, man, plenty
more fish in the sea, as they say, So I
just say, go on about your business. You'll be all right.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
That's exactly what my theory was. It's gonna be all right.
We don't know if they had a conversation or not.
Maybe he did feel like you knew the answer to
the question. Maybe they've been going to dinners and dates
and been together for two years and every there's been
never a conversation of displeasure. There's her toothbrushes at his house,

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his toothbrush is at her place.

Speaker 2 (01:09:13):
Maybe they lived.

Speaker 1 (01:09:15):
There's so much context. We don't know, but I would say, hey, man,
you tried the pancake theory, right. You got to make
one bad pancake before you can make the whole batch.
And so you've done that right. You didn't get it right, Okay,

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move on to me. If she's going radio silent, why
can't you go radio silent?

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
Right? And if she pops back in. Okay, you have
to have self worth.

Speaker 1 (01:09:52):
You have to know you bring something to the table
and that your happiness doesn't hinge on someone else doing that.
Someday you'll look back and it'll be funny, and you'll
also never get engaged in the restaurant again, or.

Speaker 2 (01:10:09):
Maybe at all for that fac right, depends on how
traumatic or how traumatized this guy is. Do you go
back to the restaurant ever? Oh? Yeah, Iver, hope it's
not your favorite. Oh it's your favorite. That's why you
went there. Maybe it was her favorite. Pa way, it
was her favorite. If it's her favorite, then you know whatever.
I don't know. I think it's tainted all the way around.
It's got a bad memory. It's the car crash intersection. Yeah,

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you may it may take a couple of years, but
you know, maybe ten years from now you'll be like, man,
last time I was in this restaurant, I propose to
this gal I really liked, and she got up and
ran off.

Speaker 5 (01:10:40):
Yeah, one day he'll laugh about it. I mean, how
good is the food?

Speaker 2 (01:10:44):
I mean good enough? You wanted to get engaged there? Yeah,
you need to stuff a diamond ring down into their whatever.

Speaker 5 (01:10:50):
And don't ever do that again. Nobody wants to wear
jewelry covered in food.

Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
Just suck it up. I don't know. M yeah, I'm
not won't cake? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Do you How long do you wait, lindsay, before you
go back? Do you go on another date there with somebody?
How long do you take Let's say you move on
and get married. How long do you do you take
your new wife there?

Speaker 5 (01:11:19):
No, I think that it would be a date there.
Like you want to hear a funny story?

Speaker 2 (01:11:25):
Oh, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:11:28):
If you're dating so I mean you don't know. I
don't know, or if it ever gets brought up, like hey,
you want to go here for dinner? Like ooh, I
don't know. I want to hear. Last time I was there,
it was not a good experience for me. Great food, yea?

Speaker 2 (01:11:40):
How was it? Then? Do the food taste like garbage?
What happened? What happened? Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:11:45):
Well, I almost got engaged there.

Speaker 2 (01:11:49):
What do you mean almost? Like you said yes? And
then no?

Speaker 5 (01:11:51):
Oh? No, I proposed and she left. I didn't even
get to the proposal part. She saw it coming and
said she couldn't and that was the end of it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
I gotta tell you if I'm let's say I'm single
and I date a girl and she's like, oh, my
ex brought me here and got and asked me to
get engaged. It depends on where my mental state is
at the time, but I think I'm probably gonna go, oh,
how long ago was this? And now I'm starting to
evaluate a bunch of things that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:23):
Red flag cannot go up fast enough. Okay, you know
it's just like, oh, okay, so you went here, you
almost he proposed to you, and then you got up
and left.

Speaker 1 (01:12:34):
Okay, Yeah, there's follow up questions, right, how long were
you together?

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
Oh like three or four years? Why didn't you get right?

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
Now, this conversation is not about dating and getting to
know you, even though this is part of your life.
This is now I'm searching for red flags. I am
evaluating is this a thunderstorm advisory? Is this a thunderstorm watch?
Or is this a thunderstorm warning? And I think the
same thing would be true if it was reversed. If

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it was a female and a male, You're trying to go, WHOA,
what is happening here?

Speaker 2 (01:13:08):
Did he at least finish his meal or get a
to go? Boy? If you're the restaurant. Do you comp
the meal? Yes, that would be the heartfelt thing to do.

Speaker 5 (01:13:18):
Heartfelt, right, not the right, not the you know, not
any just heartfelt.

Speaker 2 (01:13:22):
I don't know. They don't get my order sometimes, right,
and they don't give me anything. So I'm so sorry
for your luck. Man, case of das on me.

Speaker 1 (01:13:31):
Hey listen, well, here's all your food. We're so sorry.
I can't comp your meal, but I threw in an
extra order of jalapeno poppers things.

Speaker 2 (01:13:40):
There's an extra bloomin onion left.

Speaker 5 (01:13:43):
We're not going to charge you for the dessert, right that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:46):
We stuffed a ring in?

Speaker 7 (01:13:47):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:13:49):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
You can always email us show at kmod dot com.
Do you get a day off of work?

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
Can you You call your boss and you're like, hey, hey,
my girlfriend to get married, and she said, no, I
need a.

Speaker 2 (01:14:07):
Couple of days off work. Okay, lindsay would you say?

Speaker 5 (01:14:12):
I say no, you don't get a day off of
work for that. I think that you go into work
and if you're in a mood, your boss is going
to ask you what's going on with you? And then
it's up to him to be like, oh man, why'd
you even come in? It's up to him to say,
go home and take the day.

Speaker 1 (01:14:32):
Let that be the boss's call. Yes, what do you think, KIMPI?

Speaker 2 (01:14:36):
No, Yeah, I'm with Lindsay on now. One you don't
get in a day off. It's like maybe a small
part of you died last night, but come on, I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:14:46):
I'm like, yeah, take a day, that's fine, because I
don't want you here half assing it. If I know
you're not coming in other we can get it covered.
But if you come in lollygagging eyre and around the office,
I don't know if I want you here right.

Speaker 2 (01:15:03):
That's where Lindsay's like, it's up to the boss. I
have to agree. The boss is like, listen, you suck today,
get out of here. And it's one thing, but to
expect it to call in no, because if you were me,
if it wasn't me, somebody and I was the boss
and they're like heartbroken last night, I don't think I'm

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gonna make it one. I'm gonna laugh. Well, I probably
have to mute the phone first, because that's an HR thing,
I believe. But they'd be like, nah, bro, this is
the work out. Get to work, Get to work.

Speaker 1 (01:15:35):
Yeah, but are you thinking your opinion tends to always
be pretty harsh on these things.

Speaker 2 (01:15:39):
Very well could be JETD I call it lack of empathy.

Speaker 1 (01:15:43):
But whatever listener emails, you can always emails show at
kmod dot com. Show at kmod dot com. This email says, uh,
my dad and I haven't spoken in almost four years.
Huh oh wait, my dad and I hadn't spoken in
almost four years. We fell out over politics, stupid arguments.
They turned into full bollwing fights. Got to the point

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where we couldn't be in the same room without bringing
it up, so we stopped talking all together. Last month,
he passed away of a heart attack, no warning. Now
I can't stop thinking about all the things I never said.
We wasted years over opinions that don't matter. I keep
replaying our last conversation in my head, wishing I'd let
it go. I don't even know what making amends could

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be in this situation now that he's gone. Do you
guys have any ideas of how to make amends or
do I just have to carry this?

Speaker 2 (01:16:40):
That sucks, man?

Speaker 1 (01:16:41):
It does all over somebody else's opinions politics, making amends
and they're gone.

Speaker 5 (01:16:53):
Probably brought up on Thanksgiving, right.

Speaker 2 (01:16:57):
Or Christmas or birthday, first three Ramadan, Columbus Day, Harbor.

Speaker 3 (01:17:04):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Yeah, that's tough, man, That is a tough one.

Speaker 2 (01:17:09):
Yeah. Me and my dad had a fallen out right
before I guess it is maybe a year or so
before he died. And uh, you know, we didn't talk
at all, same same thing as this listener email right here.
We didn't talk at all. He ran off and started
living with his new girlfriend. I was just trying to,
you know, live my life and raise kids and whatnots
and uh and luckily I was, I was. I was

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blessed that He's like, hey, why don't you come over
for Thanksgiving? And I was like, all right, yeah, let's
do that. So get everybody together, go over there and
we have Thanksgiving. And uh that was the last time
I saw him. So that was good to be able
to go over there and share a moment and you know,
just kind of get past all the the bs. Did

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you guys act like it like just moved on or
was it addressed? No, we just we just moved on
with our life. You know, there's no sense in addressing it.

Speaker 1 (01:18:03):
I mean sometimes there is like going, hey, I could
like an idiot.

Speaker 2 (01:18:07):
Yeah, I guess if you banged my wife or something, Yeah,
we could address that, but you know, this was just
something stupid, and I think we both knew it was stupid,
so it was just like, all right, whatever, Why why
let that slow you down?

Speaker 1 (01:18:19):
Listener email from someone whose father passed away but they
didn't get to make amends. They hadn't been talking to
each other. It says, I got a phone call from
a nineteen year old in tears late at night. Oh yeah,
I covered his route for a day. Felt bad for
the kid. Oh okay, that's somebody saying I thought I

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was like well, nineteen year old. Listener email from a
guy who hadn't spoken to his father. They were on
the outs all over politics. Says they stopped talking altogether
and then he passed away, have a heart attack with
no warning. And he can't be wasted years over opinions

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that don't even matter anymore. I keep it playing the
last conversation in my head, wishing I'd just let it go.
I'm not even sure what making amends looks like when
the person's gone. Any ideas on how I can do that, man,
I don't. I don't know if there is a right answer.

Speaker 2 (01:19:22):
Oh God. Somebody text in, Oh God, sounds like you
won the fight. Real questions. Who got the last word exactly?
I thought I was pretty universal, like, you just shouldn't
talk about those things. Politics and religion, I think are

(01:19:42):
the two main ones you just shouldn't talk about.

Speaker 1 (01:19:44):
Yeah, I'm not a fan of that company. I'm not
a fan of that thought process. How do you expand
on ideas? How do you think? How you learn about things?
How do you come to conclusions? Now, if you're stubborn
and aren't open to ideas, then sure I agree with that.

Speaker 5 (01:19:59):
You should be able to have conversations.

Speaker 2 (01:20:01):
Right, should be able to and being able to and
doing are all totally different things. And I think anyway,
and I'm probably wrong. I usually am. But like most people,
when they are steadfast on one thing, politics, religion, right,
there's no changing their mind. You can listen to each

(01:20:23):
other fantastic, but there's no change. And that's why it
gets so heated, and that's why guns get pulled, and
that's why you know, you end up ruining relationships over it.
I think you're right.

Speaker 1 (01:20:35):
If your purpose of the conversation is to win the conversation,
I agree one hundred percent but if your purpose of
the conversation is to learn about the other individual, right,
then I don't think there's anything wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:20:45):
With having those talks, right, just if you can handle
it and that goes I guess both on both parties.

Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
Yeah, this Tex says, my wife and her mom fight
over stupid stuff and quit talking for months. I have
to tell her to get over and forgive so this
will not happen and break her Ohen, the only thing
you can do now is learn and not pass that
kind of trauma.

Speaker 2 (01:21:05):
To your kids. Oh that's too late. Yeah, they bear witness. Yeah,
those kids got it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
Listener email from a guy who says that him and
his dad hadn't spoken in years, all over politics, and
they stopped talking all together last month he passed away,
have a heart attack with no warning. And now I
can't stop thinking about all the things I've never said.
We wasted years over opinions that don't even matter. I
keep it playing the last conversation or a head, wishing
I'd just let it go. I don't know what making

(01:21:36):
amends means or looks like when the person's gone. Do
you guys have any ideas how to follow through with.

Speaker 5 (01:21:42):
That Lindsey, I have I don't think there is a
right answer for this. You have to you have to
move on. You have to forgive yourself. I'm sure that
your dad has forgiven you sun text.

Speaker 1 (01:22:01):
Sorry, we're gonna interapt Lindsay so we can read this text.
I don't normally do this, but this text says call
Lindsay's aunt. She can contact him.

Speaker 2 (01:22:11):
Maybe I'll spoil it for you.

Speaker 5 (01:22:14):
No, Yeah, you just gotta forgive yourself, and I'm sure
your dad has. I'm sure you did years ago. Yeah,
you're gonna have to just help yourself to move past
it and try not to do the same thing with

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your own children.

Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
GIMPI. Oh, yeah, you're gonna have to bury this one man.
You can't. You can't make amends with the dead person.
The only thing you can do is convince yourself, deep
down inside that it's all right. So you cannot you
cannot go and talk to this person that you felt wronged,
you were you wronged them and let them know how
you feel. You can go to their grave or whatever

(01:23:02):
and talk to the ground, but that you're not getting
any feedback. You're not getting a Hey, it's okay. And
if you do get a hey, it's okay. Either you
know in your head or you know your soul or whatever.
That's more likely just your brain telling you what you
want to hear. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about this,
so push it down with some brown until it goes away.

Speaker 1 (01:23:28):
I think when you make amends, you have to make
amends for yourself, not for the other person. You hope
they take it, but that doesn't mean they will. So
what's the matter if they're alive or not. So write
a letter, tie it to a balloon, let it go.
I don't know, write a letter, burn in the fire.
I mean, these are all things people say you do

(01:23:49):
when you're dealing with grief and you felt like you
didn't get to say the things you needed to. I
don't know if it works or not, but if you
feel like you need it, go ahead. When you make it,
sounds like you hasn't opened a conversation anyway, so I
don't know how would be different if he was he
actually will listen this time because he's not gonna talk
any other things. And what's your spiritual belief. If your

(01:24:14):
spiritual belief believes that they hear you, then go ahead.
Or it was a joke, but hire Lindsay's aunt because again,
I believe amends are for you, so you can move
on for your wrongs and you hope they take it.

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But just because you make amends doesn't somebody mean someone
goes okay, sounds good. You can always email us show
at kmod dot com. Show at kmod dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:24:48):
Man Morning Show returns next.

Speaker 1 (01:24:50):
Good Morning Lindsay, Good Morning Corbyn.

Speaker 5 (01:24:52):
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Speaker 2 (01:25:10):
Good Morning, Gimpie, Well, Good Morning Corvin. The Nineteenthenne Old
Cancer Sex Concert's going to be here before you know.
It's at the end of the month. November twenty ninth
The Canes Ballrooms starring Josie Scott, the original voice of Saliva,
of course, Miranda and the top two winners of our
Battle of Bands contest, which is over by the way,
but if you want to go, hey, get your tickets
at Canes Ballroom dot com. Time to tell the Truth.

(01:25:31):
This is your opportunity to ask anything you want. Just remember,
keep it clean, no bodily fluids, nothing sexual hand don't forget.
We can and will pass on a question. Let's open
up the phone lines. Here's Corbyn in the gang with
all the truth you're gonna need.

Speaker 1 (01:25:46):
Eight three three four six oh kmod can also text
BM mass and then what you want to say to
eight two nine four five.

Speaker 2 (01:25:55):
This is more for lindsay.

Speaker 1 (01:25:56):
I don't know, maybe gimp can answer this too.

Speaker 2 (01:25:58):
What uh did you do you guys do elf on
a shelf?

Speaker 5 (01:26:02):
Yes, Markle Parkle mic sprinkles is our elf on the shelf.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
And so you move it every night?

Speaker 5 (01:26:16):
No? Well yes, well what is dry? Sometimes he doesn't
move because somebody was up too late and he didn't
have the opportunity to move. He doesn't want to be
seen moving.

Speaker 1 (01:26:32):
No, he's supposed to report to san every night. Yeah, Gimpie,
did you guys have elf on a shelf?

Speaker 2 (01:26:37):
Nope, never have, never will. It's stupid, retarded, takes too
much work for nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:26:42):
I mean, I agree with ninety percent of what you said.
It helps the magic if anything, but it is a
ton of work. My kids like, let's get one. I'm like, no,
I don't want more things to do.

Speaker 5 (01:26:59):
No make him. We don't put him in weird situations
or make him do pranks in the house. We simply
move him from different areas and the kids just have
to go around and find him and they get it.
They get a kick out of that. Still they like
to wake up and go did he move?

Speaker 2 (01:27:18):
Where? Where is he?

Speaker 5 (01:27:19):
Find him?

Speaker 2 (01:27:20):
So? Do do you do? You so you don't do
any of the crazy no things you see online? No?

Speaker 5 (01:27:28):
I think there was one year where Kevin and I
stayed up late drinking one night and he was like, ah,
let's get let's make it look like the elf got drunk.
And it was one time where he laid passed out
on the kitchen floor with a champagne bottle by his head.
And that was in a couple of empty beer cans maybe,

(01:27:51):
but that was that was it.

Speaker 2 (01:27:53):
Does your favorite still get into it even though he's old?

Speaker 5 (01:27:58):
My oldest Bill will, so you know who we're talking,
look for the he said oldest. He he will still
look for it with his brothers, I think, just to
get them excited. And sometimes he will remind us like, hey,
don't forget Marko Farkle's got to move.

Speaker 2 (01:28:20):
What do you think he's going to break the news
to them?

Speaker 5 (01:28:24):
I think they already know, I really do.

Speaker 2 (01:28:30):
This text came in for to tell the truth.

Speaker 1 (01:28:32):
What is your most prized possession outside of family, kids, car?

Speaker 2 (01:28:38):
House?

Speaker 1 (01:28:39):
Where's your most prize possession outside of your family, kid's
car and house?

Speaker 5 (01:28:46):
Hmm? I guess uh. Photo albums can't replace those. I
have some really old photos and if that I mean,
I guess that pertains too family as well. But because

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it's photos of family there, I can't replace them, Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:29:15):
Can be Uh? I think it's probably the only thing
that I still have from my childhood, which is uh,
which was brutally slaughtered by a guy named Josh here
on the show many many years ago. And that's a
stuffed pink panther that my grandma gave me when I
was like four three or four something like that. I
still have it. It's in a bag. I just need
to stuff its enters back in there and stitching back up.

(01:29:39):
My zero turned mower. Okay, I really like it. Blonda
doesn't even be mowed. You just out there cutting that.
It's made mowing enjoyable.

Speaker 1 (01:29:54):
Trimming not so much, but moint Yeah, yeah, I don't
one hundred degree day. I don't care, right, it's it's
been one of the better purchases I've made. Really, Uh,
give a mess and whatever your question is for to
tell the truth to eight two nine four five one
of the three of you, who would you trust least

(01:30:14):
to cook Thanksgiving dinner? We've all proclaimed that we are cooks,
So who would you trust the least to cook Thanksgiving dinner?

Speaker 5 (01:30:24):
Lindsey, I feel like we would all probably do a
good job with it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:30):
Yeah, but that's not the question.

Speaker 5 (01:30:32):
But I don't like green bean cast role, so I'm
not going to have GIMPI cook my Thanksgiving meal.

Speaker 2 (01:30:43):
You trust him the least, yeah, asks the question. Well,
there's more Thanksgiving than just green being I know, but.

Speaker 5 (01:30:49):
I don't even want that showing up on my dinner table.

Speaker 2 (01:30:52):
So just for that, I'm bringing some over Gimpy. Uh.
You know what, Lindsay doesn't trust me, so I don't
trust her either. He's gonna get about halfway through a
box of wine, fall asleep, burn the turkey, you know,
or get too excited and pull it out too early,
Giggy and then uh, now we all got salmon Nella.

Speaker 5 (01:31:13):
No, Uh Huh, it's actually my favorite meal.

Speaker 1 (01:31:17):
So what that doesn't automatically make you trustworthy?

Speaker 5 (01:31:21):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (01:31:21):
Yeah, I'm one picking. Lindsay, I don't want.

Speaker 2 (01:31:24):
Cabbage or baked potatoes.

Speaker 5 (01:31:28):
I don't do either of those.

Speaker 2 (01:31:29):
That doesn't mean anything. That's what I hear you talk about. Yeah,
don't defend. There's no defending. It's just a question. I
think this is worth addressing.

Speaker 1 (01:31:41):
Somebody texting how long do you feel we should keep
saying the original voice of Saliva after saying Josie Scott,
do you.

Speaker 2 (01:31:46):
Want to hit that game? Beer? Do you want me
to hit it? We could both hit it at the
same time if you want, sure, as long as you
like well what I said, feel like it? Yeah? Uh no,
that is a legal thing. That is not us or him.

Speaker 1 (01:32:05):
The people that are in that band now don't want
him saying he's saliva.

Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:32:14):
Do you all ever listen to your own radio station
when you're not at work? Lindsay yes, Kimmy.

Speaker 2 (01:32:20):
Not as much as I used to, but yet still sometimes. Yes.

Speaker 1 (01:32:25):
If you had to replace a turk the turkey at
Thanksgiving with any food, what would you pick.

Speaker 5 (01:32:31):
Ham? Because I love ham a gravy. It's sweet and
you know some some people will say ew ham gravy,
but it's delicious and all you just are baking your
ham with seven up instead of lots of chicken broth.
You're adding seven up to make it sweet. And when

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you make your gravy, oh it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:57):
Is hold on, you put soda in your gravy.

Speaker 5 (01:33:01):
Yeah, you're baking. You're baking your ham.

Speaker 2 (01:33:04):
So the case is at the bottom of the pan
that you use to make your gravy. Is gonna have that,
you know, lemon, lime, citrusy seven up, Okay, kind of
like doing doctor pepper and barbecue GIMPI. Typically it would
be a ham, but since Lindsay said ham, all go
different and say.

Speaker 1 (01:33:24):
Meet woke, I'm gonna go with what we did one
time in my house smoked salmon.

Speaker 2 (01:33:33):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:33:33):
So it was a full smoked salmon.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
On the table. Just like the Pilgrims. You get to
spend the night in one room. Which room are you choosing?

Speaker 1 (01:33:45):
Room one, Margot Robbie and Sidney Sweeney, Room two Scarlet
Johansson and Emma Watson, and then room three Megan Fox
and Emma Stone. So Emma Watson is what's her name

(01:34:06):
from Harry Potter, Emma Stone is Croella easy a. Oh yeah,
The Help, Zombie Land all that. So Room one, Margot, Robbie,
Sidney Sweeney's, Room two, Scarlett Johanson, Emma Watson. Room three,
Megan Fox, Emma Stone, Lindsey.

Speaker 5 (01:34:27):
Okay, so I'm not really into blonds, so Margot, Robbie
and Sydney Sweeney are out for me. Although Sydney Sweeney
did look really really hot in that dress the other day.
But and Emma Stone, she seems like so much fun,
like just cool chick that you'd want to go drink
in with. But Megan Fox is a new mom. She's

(01:34:51):
got a new baby, so she's gonna be up all
night with the baby. You're not gonna get much sleep
or attention. She's gonna be with her baby. So I'm
gonna go with Scarlett Johanson and Emma Watson. Scarlett Johansson
is funny, she's hot, and Emma Watson I could listen

(01:35:13):
to her talk for hours because of her accent.

Speaker 2 (01:35:18):
Gim be number one two hottest babes on there, Marto,
Robbie and Sydney Sweeney one hundred percent, even if we're
just sitting around playing Chinese checkers. I'm okay with that. Yeah,
it feels like that is the the best one. Yeah,
I like that one. Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:35:43):
What's your family's weirdest Thanksgiving food tradition?

Speaker 5 (01:35:47):
We make our own butter. I don't know how weird
that is, but we will. It started when I was
in third grade away on a field trip, and we
learned how to make our own butter by just using
heavy whipping cream, pouring it in a jar and shaking

(01:36:08):
the hell out of it and then adding some salt.
You just shake it, chake it, chake it, shake it,
shake you do that, don't do that, pass it around
the room.

Speaker 2 (01:36:14):
Don't stare in my eyes. You do be doing an
old school butter turn.

Speaker 5 (01:36:18):
Yes, and everyone has to participate, and it usually takes
like a good thirty minutes to an hour or so in.

Speaker 2 (01:36:30):
Here time to turn some butter. Your dad's gonna give
me some cream and a jar. You shake it till
it solidifies. GIMPI Uh. We were always pretty traditional, so
we didn't have anything weird. We're not turning our own
butter or anything like that. It was pretty standard. Turkey,

(01:36:52):
ham stopping pies, yeah, all the all the just regular
traditional stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:37:00):
I don't have a weird Thanksgiving tradition. Well, ours are
different almost every year. And what whether there's turkey, sometimes
there's not. This year, my youngest birthday is on Thanksgiving,
so she's deciding what we're doing. Oh fun, So like
we probably won't have a traditional like turkey or any

(01:37:21):
of that stuff at all because she's deciding because her
birthday supersedes Thanksgiving.

Speaker 2 (01:37:28):
Yeah, so I don't. I don't know if Bloody Mary's
at eight am? Okay, yeah, ain't none roll with that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:35):
It's not uncommon to drink wine, and it also make
it into whatever we're making, like you pour some in
out of the bottle.

Speaker 2 (01:37:42):
Do kids like the Bloody Mary spicy or regularly they
like a virgin? Yeah, they don't participate in that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:48):
Of course, if you were hosting Thanksgiving this year for
your entire extended family, who are you telling you bring napkins?

Speaker 2 (01:37:56):
And why.

Speaker 5 (01:38:01):
My aunt Kathy? I'm telling her to bring napkins because
growing up, I don't think she ever made anything but
green bean castrole, honest to goodness, and I don't eat

(01:38:23):
green bean castle. So there you have it.

Speaker 2 (01:38:26):
Gimbi. Probably my kids because they're kids, they're young, adults
don't have a lot of money, probably not a lot
of experience cooking a whole ass turkey or anything like that,
you know. So yeah, and then usually I do tell them, hey,
ring napkins, silverware, sodas, whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:38:48):
Yeah, I think that's a good take. My brother in law,
he already has that responsibility, so they.

Speaker 2 (01:38:54):
Always make him bring ice. We call it.

Speaker 1 (01:38:56):
It's the ice person, ice man. Yeah, the least important things. So, uh,
give me your similar cost alternative for doing turkey or
ham for Thanksgiving? Stop with your prime rib roast and
ribb eyes for everyone not trying to spend a car payment.

Speaker 5 (01:39:17):
Hmmm, what are the little uh? What the what is
the bird that look that looks like a little chicken?

Speaker 2 (01:39:30):
A chicken? Hint? Yeah, the little chicken cornish a cornish hen.

Speaker 5 (01:39:38):
Yeah, cornish game. Hen. Those are pretty uh inexpensive. You
could do those, and you could even stuff those.

Speaker 2 (01:39:52):
You're not supposed to stuff turkeys, I know, but people
do it. Ah, I don't. I've never known anybody to
do it.

Speaker 5 (01:40:00):
Really, I've I've never not eaten a stuffed turkey years old.
I've never gotten sick off of a stuffed turkey.

Speaker 2 (01:40:09):
Gimme, uh, that's a that's a good one. I mean,
you could always do barbecue like some ribs or something
that's enough to feed everybody and they're delicious. I'm not
hating Lindsey's personal Chicken you know idea. But again, that's
where a good meat wolf comes into play. You know,
it's a loaf of meat. Interesting and it's cheaper than

(01:40:34):
anila zello ones. That is an interesting take.

Speaker 1 (01:40:38):
I mean, meat loaf is typically a poor person meal, right,
that's what it's associated with, struggling times. Yeah, and I
don't know how you elevate it.

Speaker 2 (01:40:49):
Different seasonings, different flavors, do more than just put ketchup
on top of it and call it done. You could
fancy man a meat loaf pretty good, like I put
a tighter seasoning in mine and shredded mozzarella and provolon
on top and inside, like I make a pretty fancy
ass meat loaf.

Speaker 5 (01:41:11):
I don't even know if it would be that inexpensive.

Speaker 2 (01:41:13):
It wouldn't, That's what I'm saying. You know, it's cheaper
than a turkey, of course, you don't know, and you're
not having to buy ribbis for everyone. It's just like, listen,
you get a loaf. You get a slice of meat loaf,
some brown gravy on top. Yeah, I mean I boogied
up meat loaf before like bacon. Eh. I'm going to pick.

Speaker 1 (01:41:38):
A pork shoulder, okay, because when you cook a pork shoulder,
it always fills the house with smell, okay, or if
you smoke it on the grill, uh, and you can
stuff it. You do many things with it that leftovers
work really well. I think that's a solid choice. What's

(01:42:00):
one Thanksgiving dish you secretly think is underrated? Lindsey jellied cranberry.

Speaker 5 (01:42:12):
I do not like homemade cranberry sauce whatsoever you like
in the can? Jellied in the can is the best.

Speaker 2 (01:42:20):
Okay, sorry, got the pre cut lines on there and everything. Yes,
I know a portion size.

Speaker 5 (01:42:28):
Absolutely. I don't like the texture of homemade cranberry sauce
to meats, no no good, no boino. But I like
the flavor of the jellied.

Speaker 2 (01:42:41):
Gimpi uh, green bean cast role. Everybody makes it differently,
Like my brother when we get together, we have to
do two separate ones because he makes this totally different.
He also makes this with cream mushroom, and I do
not do the cream and mushroom. I'm like, no, so
I bring my own and we usually have two types

(01:43:02):
of green being casts rolling. Everybody hits it. What's your
substitute for crema? Musherd? Like creama celery? Now, but everybody
eats it. There is not a bit of it left over.
That's the deviled eggs, onions or crushed potato chips on top. Oh, onions,
it's gotta be the French fried onions. Yeah, same with him.

Speaker 1 (01:43:20):
Yes, I think it's appropriately underrated.

Speaker 2 (01:43:27):
Rolls.

Speaker 1 (01:43:28):
Okay, rolls are underrated. You can definitely buy rolls. You
can definitely buy the frozen ones and make it. But
nothing tops freshly made rolls. It it smells in the house. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:43:41):
Two things I always forget to cook when it comes
to holiday meals, and that's the cranberry and the rolls.
I get everything else done and at the end everybody's
all eating. I'm like, yeah, damn it, I forgot to
put the rolls in. I didn't open up the can
for the canberry's off.

Speaker 1 (01:43:56):
Yeah, if you can take an inch off for one
hundred thousand dollars, how many inches would you take off?

Speaker 2 (01:44:03):
I'm just gonna assume your guess you're saying height and
he's talking about waiters.

Speaker 5 (01:44:10):
Lindsay, I guess just one inch for one hundred thousand dollars.
So I I always wanted to be a little bit
taller than what I am.

Speaker 2 (01:44:23):
You're already really tall, I know, but how told did
you want to be.

Speaker 5 (01:44:30):
Like five ten five eleven? I wanted to be that tall. Yeah,
I felt it would be easier wait wise.

Speaker 1 (01:44:41):
So Jesus, gimpy, oh dick, I know, he's like, I've
always wanted to be taller.

Speaker 2 (01:44:56):
That's a huge bitch.

Speaker 5 (01:44:57):
Can't be a supermodel if you're under five.

Speaker 2 (01:44:59):
Ten, right, don't t these up for me. I am
going to answer this question. Please stay focused. We're taking
off inches of hike to get one hundred thousand dollars
for each inch that you take off. Shoot, I'll shrink

(01:45:23):
myself down five foot for you know how much am
I getting? Yeah? Yeah, I'll do that. Yeah, I could
do that. Sure, why not damn near a million dollars? Sure?

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
I mean, initially I was gonna do one hundred thousand
two because I don't want to buy new clothes. But
I love the idea of getting down to like five
foot and having really long arms. That's funny, just dragging
the ground. Yeah, yeah, I like that. All right, we
got to take a break. We'll be Billions is going
to be nine hundred million dollars tonight, maybe more by now,

(01:45:59):
who knows. And Powerball is going to be five hundred million.
And if you know anything about when we've talked about
winning the lottery, I am fascinated by the process of
getting your money. You win nine hundred million dollars and
you take the annual payments or the annuity where you

(01:46:23):
get it like every thirty days or whatever you can.
You will get your first check in thirty days, okay,
So not immediate. And if you take the lump sum,
which in the Mega million scenario would be four hundred
and fifteen million, you might get it in four.

Speaker 2 (01:46:41):
Weeks, okay, which is just a couple of days, shy
of thirty days. Yeah, so there's not much difference there.
There's a process that has to go through it, but
you can get it as soon as two weeks.

Speaker 1 (01:46:52):
It just depends, right, And you have to go through
a process where obviously you don't need me to tell
you that you would meet with them. You have to
meet with them to verify the ticket. And this is
where I wouldn't go by myself. I would want somebody
of legal authority to.

Speaker 2 (01:47:10):
Be with me. Oh so somebody who says just your
wife to take a trip with you, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:47:14):
Or meet me there an attorney, And I feel like
I would need security. Yeah, you win four in a
million dollars. I don't know what's happening.

Speaker 2 (01:47:23):
Well, okay, so I don't know. I've never won the lottery.
I've never been to the Oklahoma Lottery Commission building. Is
it a big sign outside that says Oklahoma Lottery Commission, right,
big flashing sign? Or is it just like in another
office building like we are. We share a building with

(01:47:43):
a bank, you know, when it has the bank's name
out there. You know what I'm saying. So, like, would
people know if you walking out of this random building
in Oklahoma City? Would they know unless they've been there.
I'm looking right now to see. Yeah, it's just north
of Bricktown. I totally get where you're at. Like security,

(01:48:04):
you know, especially if there's a big sign out there
that says Oklahoma Lottery. You know, people be waiting outside,
you know, with ak's and knives and stuff, trying to
take you down.

Speaker 1 (01:48:15):
Well, I just like the ticket, Like, so they verify
takes one of three days to verify. Do I just
give them the ticket and they just go, hey, who
are you sir? I'd be like, I'm gonna hold on.
I'm not handing it to you. I want to have
possession of the whole. That's why I would need like
an authority figure to be with me. So like, and
do I just put in my front pocket when I

(01:48:36):
walk out?

Speaker 2 (01:48:38):
Well, don't they keep the ticket when you walk out
of the building. I don't know, because I now I'm
trusting them. I say, you don't walk out until you've
got a cashier's check, money order, big check, not a
big check because it's kind of obvious what you just
did well and they're not real right, but like some
form of you know, compensation in your Yeah, no, you

(01:49:01):
don't walk out with any money. So it gets mailed
to your wired to your bank. So I'll get to that, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:49:05):
But that's my thing is like, do you give me
a thing that says I gave you the winning ticket?

Speaker 2 (01:49:12):
Asked? How do you take my word?

Speaker 1 (01:49:14):
That's why I would need an attorney, like someone that
knows the lay of the land, dude.

Speaker 2 (01:49:18):
Yeah, I think you put it in a steel briefcase,
locked handcuffed you exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:49:26):
Okay, that feels really obvious too, though maybe so, But
they don't know what's in there.

Speaker 2 (01:49:30):
And I don't need some punk coming and just taking
my hand off ask.

Speaker 5 (01:49:34):
For a police escort.

Speaker 2 (01:49:35):
I don't think you get to ask for.

Speaker 1 (01:49:37):
A police escort, and that's going to draw more attention. Yeah,
you would need to pay for a police escort. But again,
you're not getting your money for four weeks, right in
the worst case scenario. And so that's why I would
be a little concerned about showing them the ticket and
then also them taking and going Okay, we'll see you

(01:49:58):
maybe in a couple of weeks, you know what I mean.
People can do that all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:50:03):
Maybe.

Speaker 1 (01:50:03):
I'm sure they have a good process claiming filing. So
then a few days later you go to the lottery office.
Then you go through all the taxes, ID and paperwork
to do to get the money, and then you can
get a lump sum in two to four weeks. But
this says you need to show up with your attorney,

(01:50:26):
trust all that set up ahead of time, be ready
to take the money. Should they offer to even though
they won't. Then you get a lump sum. Well where
do you put that? You shouldn't put it in your
bank account that you pay Netflix out of.

Speaker 2 (01:50:42):
Yeah, you'd have to start up a whole other account.
Do you do it with a different bank or the
same bank.

Speaker 1 (01:50:48):
These are all questions I'm prepared to answer right now,
because I too was thinking that usually.

Speaker 2 (01:50:56):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:50:56):
I had a scenario where I bought a car recently
and I was taking a cashier's check and they told
me they don't take cashiers checks. I'm like, it's from
a bank, and there the quote we don't trust banks.

Speaker 2 (01:51:09):
Huh, okay, this is from the dealership. Correct. That seems weird.

Speaker 1 (01:51:13):
I thought so too, upon investigating it is common now
because of the forgery that comes along with cashiers checks.
It is at the discretion of the dealerships, and more
than one does it news to me. I thought a
cashier's check was as good as cash.

Speaker 2 (01:51:29):
Yeah, so you can just use a regular bank.

Speaker 1 (01:51:34):
Though small banks do not like eight figure deposits because
it puts them in a litigious situation and a checks
and balances system that they don't want to be a
part of, and so you can go to private banks.

Speaker 2 (01:51:51):
Right now, you're all going.

Speaker 1 (01:51:51):
Private banks exist, A few of you are going, yeah, dummy, Yes,
private banks exist on a local level, and of course
on a national like a Chase Bank of America things
like that. They have a private bank for people that
have large sums of money, and they have a different
set of benefits for putting your large deposit into the

(01:52:12):
accounts right locally, the big banks locally that we all
know of can do that. And I'm not going to
say their names because I don't know for certain and
I don't want you pinning.

Speaker 2 (01:52:23):
It back on me.

Speaker 1 (01:52:24):
But you know who the big Oklahoma banks are, or
you should. You should be aware of them if you've
seen their commercials, are seen their names on arenas. So
those places do that as well, and probably would be
your best bet because it's local.

Speaker 2 (01:52:39):
Yeah, but Farmers Bank and Trust you know what I mean. Yeah,
Bob's dry Well and drive through checking. Yeah, I don't
think as much as they might like it because they've
never seen a deposit that big before. Hell, oh my,
it's so much bigger than I'm used to the big

(01:53:00):
deposits there. Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:53:01):
Come on and you can set up the account but
you should talk to the bank. Meet with the bank
so they are aware that this large deposit is going
to be entering their system and they know who you are, Like,
you've got to have a relationship with them.

Speaker 2 (01:53:18):
Yeah, mister Drysdale doesn't like to be taken by surprise,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:53:23):
Bank president, Sure, we need you to come in. Someone's
making a large deposit.

Speaker 2 (01:53:31):
I'll be right there.

Speaker 5 (01:53:33):
And then they're going to set you up with a
financial advisor that's on staff to show you probably what
they think you should do with your money.

Speaker 1 (01:53:40):
Well, of course, I mean they're obviously going to do that.
But if you have a large deposit in your bank,
you're already an elite member just by the sheer volume
of money you're going to put through their system. They're
already making money off of you, so they definitely want
you to put their money there. But again, it recommends
showing up with all that stuff. Set up a lawyer,

(01:54:00):
financial person, maybe a financial attorney, Like you need to
have the X, Y and z's before you ever step in,
and that wouldn't sign up some kind of like red
flags at least of the bank or whatever. Be like, sir,
why why are you looking for this here new bank account.
When you don't you're not putting any money in right now?
Why are you asking for all these you know resources?

Speaker 2 (01:54:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:54:24):
So you I would imagine if an attorney's president, they
know the correct jargon to say, but you just say
you have a large wire that will be coming in, gotcha?

Speaker 2 (01:54:33):
And maybe maybe it's common. I don't know. I think
if you're at a private bank, they're well aware that
you have an influx of money. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:54:41):
And again if you have a private bank, do I
just go into the lobby and be like, Hi, I
have a large deposit that's going to be.

Speaker 2 (01:54:48):
Made Yeah yeah. Make it as uncomfortable as a camp
for everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:54:53):
But again, you're still four weeks out. Yeah, in worst
case scenario from getting your your wife. Do you know
much money I can blow in four weeks?

Speaker 5 (01:55:03):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:55:04):
Yeah easy.

Speaker 1 (01:55:06):
I don't know if I could if I won four
hundred million dollars, I don't know if I could continue
to work for four weeks.

Speaker 3 (01:55:12):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:55:12):
It's kind of like, you know, you've already put your
two weeks notice in at your job. You know it's
ending soon, So why are you even going to try?
And a lot of people don't even show up for
that last week.

Speaker 1 (01:55:22):
Sometimes you put in two weeks and they go, we
don't even need your two weeks. Yeah, Yeah, let's just
call it a day. Yeah, let's start, let's move on.

Speaker 2 (01:55:30):
But you'd have to have that awkward conversation with your boss, right,
be like, listen, it's been a great twenty five years here,
but I'm not coming in anymore after this.

Speaker 1 (01:55:43):
Oh, I gotta be honest, I don't know if I'm
telling them the truth, right. I think it would be
some sort either I would have the attorney to it
and let it be kind of a ghosting scenario, right,
and let them deal with the because they know how
far they can push it and what they don't do,

(01:56:04):
and don't have to say yeah, and they can just say, hey,
your employee, I am so and so attorney. I'll have
the paperwork to follow up with this, but they will
no longer be working for you. They've asked me to
contact you.

Speaker 2 (01:56:17):
That might be the best way to handle all of it.
Just get yourself an attorney and let them do all
the legwork, the quitting of your job, the opening of
an account, right the you know, all the paperwork that
they need to trust. Let them do everything because you're
gonna they're gonna charge you a good penny anyway, and

(01:56:39):
you're probably gonna pay him good because you just got
four hundred million dollars. Right, You're like, oh, here's a
mill for you, Jeff Ensley. Yeah, so of course they
so just let and then you don't have to worry
about any of it. All you got to do is
just show up with the ticket.

Speaker 1 (01:56:53):
Yeah you don't want saw Goodman though, No, right, you
you need to make sure you have somebody that has
experience with that, I would think, and can speak the
correct jargon to get you through all that.

Speaker 2 (01:57:07):
So do you just like do start at Google search,
go through their YELP reviews for financial attorneys, because that's
what you're gonna need, right, I don't know. And let's
just say you are an attorney that does this.

Speaker 1 (01:57:25):
It's not like there's a powerball winner every week here.
We're not California. Yeah, they seem to always get them right,
So I don't know. It's just you think you're gonna
win the lottery and your your your life's gonna change tomorrow. Nope,
it'll change in about four weeks. Somebody text in and

(01:57:55):
asked us as we were finishing the show. If you
win the lottery, why are you giving two weeks notice?

Speaker 2 (01:58:02):
Lindsey, what do you think?

Speaker 5 (01:58:04):
I mean? It's I I'm a firm believer in and
not burning bridges. I just think it's a respectful thing
to do.

Speaker 2 (01:58:11):
But they don't do that to you. They don't care
about burning bridges.

Speaker 5 (01:58:16):
It is true, But I mean I have been I
have been let go from a company and also hired
back from the same company.

Speaker 2 (01:58:23):
So I mean, but they let you go right you
didn't quit on them. They're like, get the hell on
out of here, and they're like, ooh my bait, we
kind of need somebody against I feel that it might
be a little bit different, but it's all the same.
It's breaking up with somebody and then trying to get
back with them again.

Speaker 1 (01:58:38):
If you're good, None of that matters, I think. But
it's a fair question to ask, why do you think
can be? Because that's how we were in doctrine growing up,
is that that's what you should do.

Speaker 2 (01:58:50):
It's the proper thing to do. So they can find
somebody else who's going to take your job, and you
can show them how to do your job. When you're
on your way out the door. That's why they say
to do it. I've never been a big fan of
the two weeks. Notice I've done it a few times
because why that's what they tell us we should do.

(01:59:12):
But there's been more times than nothing. I'm just like,
you know what, if you guys have this' is a podcast, right,
I'm fucking out of here.

Speaker 1 (01:59:18):
Yeah, I am gonna put in my two weeks because,
as Gimpie said, that's what you're supposed to do.

Speaker 2 (01:59:25):
But then I'm turning in all my vacation, right, just
use your vacation if you have left. I'm going on
vacation for that on my sick days, right, Yeah, yeah,
I'm not well, yeah I might as well, because you
don't they don't cut you a check for the unused
vacation day. Not here, they don't know. I don't think
there's a lot. Maybe there are some any company I've
ever worked for, you don't you don't get that at

(01:59:47):
the end of your service there, it's like you're done,
You're done, have a nice frigging day. Yeah. Yeah, it's
a fair point.

Speaker 1 (01:59:55):
But I also think there's a little bit of hey,
Corbyn won't be coming back, like if you have an
attorney doing Hey, Corbyn won't be coming back. The response
is why my phone's blown up.

Speaker 2 (02:00:05):
It won't matter. I'm changing my phone immediately, right, you
just don't even change the phone, just don't answer.

Speaker 1 (02:00:10):
Yeah, but if I if I don't need the temptation,
I don't need to go back to it. Fair, I
would rather just change it. And then that's the that's
the band aid peeled off, and that's it.

Speaker 2 (02:00:19):
Start right the hell on over again. Yeah, I get that.

Speaker 1 (02:00:22):
And some people asked, what are the dangers of being public? Uh,
you open yourself up to relatives you didn't know you had,
really right, because there's I mean, last names are common.
Look at Smith, right, the common. Yeah, there's a lot
of last names out there that are super common. You know,
even my grandparents, I didn't think their last name was

(02:00:43):
very common. It was Zimmerman. You know how many motherfucking Zimmerman's.

Speaker 2 (02:00:46):
Are out there?

Speaker 5 (02:00:47):
A lot?

Speaker 2 (02:00:48):
Right, a lot. So you get every last one of
them coming after you with they hand out. Well, you
know how many motherfucker's gonna come up saying they're your dad.
We don't look anything alike.

Speaker 1 (02:00:58):
Hey, nobody said thing right, Daddy gets four hundred million
dollars sudden, all these dads are lining up.

Speaker 2 (02:01:05):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well you know what the answer to
that is. You didn't do dick for me growing up,
so I ain't doing dick for you right now? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:01:12):
How about blackmail by being public? How about home invasion?

Speaker 2 (02:01:16):
Right? That's always been a goddamn fear of mind anyway,
home invasion? How about people following your family? Right?

Speaker 1 (02:01:23):
It isn't just you that spider's out right, because does
my wife quit work?

Speaker 2 (02:01:31):
I think you? I think so? Yeah, four hundred million dollars. Yeah,
both of you are retired and your kids might not
even have to work for a while.

Speaker 4 (02:01:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:01:42):
Lawsuits.

Speaker 1 (02:01:42):
You open yourself up to litigious situations where someone could
come on your property and act like they fell, maybe
act like you hit them with your car.

Speaker 2 (02:01:51):
Who knows?

Speaker 1 (02:01:52):
Ex girlfriends, ex boyfriends, people just show up out of
nowhere saying you owe them money, thing, you are their
financial savior.

Speaker 5 (02:02:02):
Can you be anonymous in Oklahoma?

Speaker 3 (02:02:04):
No?

Speaker 2 (02:02:05):
Ain't that some bullshit? Ain't that some bullshit? You can't
be an honest. You can't be like I just want
to collect my money and go move to the fucking mountains.

Speaker 1 (02:02:14):
Yeah, I don't think you have to do a picture anything,
but they it has to go on record, right, I
don't think a trust.

Speaker 2 (02:02:21):
But is that public record?

Speaker 5 (02:02:23):
Like?

Speaker 2 (02:02:23):
Can I call the Oklahoma Lottery Commission and be like,
I need the powerball winners Oklahoma power Ball winners for
the last five drawings whatever, and do they give that
to you.

Speaker 1 (02:02:36):
It's a state funded thing, they'd have to have it
public somewhere. Yeah, it's public record.

Speaker 2 (02:02:40):
I don't see how that can be a thing. How
well that's legal. Right, that's good they've gotta because you're
not really protecting anybody. I could be like, Okay, well
I see Corbyn Pierce won the lottery back in twenty
twenty four. I'm coming after this motherfucker. Now. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:02:54):
But I think because it's state funded, it's part of
the state entity, that is it has to be public.

Speaker 2 (02:03:00):
Yeah, that's a good point.

Speaker 1 (02:03:01):
This says in Oklahoma you cannot fully connect anonymously. You
can claim your price through a trust or legal entity
in some cases, and that gives you some cover, but
not total anonymity. Personal details may still be required to
internally for tax and verification purposes. Oklahoma law requires the
winner's name and city of residents to be public record.

Speaker 2 (02:03:24):
Due to the state's open records law.

Speaker 1 (02:03:27):
Wow, you cannot hide your identity entirely from the public
in the claim record under standard rules. Even if you
use a trust or LLC, the entity name is public
and depending on the entity set up and an identity
might still link back to you.

Speaker 2 (02:03:42):
So even if you've got a lawyer to do all
that stuff for you, go collect the check, collect the money, right,
set everything all up for you, it's still going to
be John Smith Esquire doing business for the winner. Yeah.
So it's still a way to get out. Man. That sucks.
That sucks.

Speaker 1 (02:04:03):
Yeah, they still need your Okay. So this says if
I said if I use a trust, do they still
need my name? Yes, the lottery will need your real
name even if you use a trust, but the public
doesn't have to see your personal name if the trust
is set up correctly.

Speaker 2 (02:04:16):
Okay, So that's where the key is there. Yeah, I'll
set up in a trust.

Speaker 1 (02:04:20):
So the answer is yes, you can do it anonymously,
but also no, just nice and confusing, just the way
I like it. Yeah, that's why, just like we talk
about with Jeff, don't you don't know shit?

Speaker 2 (02:04:32):
Right?

Speaker 1 (02:04:33):
What's the line from Ozark, you don't know shit about fuck, right.
Let someone who knows at least a little more shit
about fuck than you right to handle all that stuff.
There was this story in the news about a former
NFL player and he was doing an interview and he
said he always peas on the floor of airplane bathrooms.

Speaker 2 (02:04:57):
What because they're too small? Maybe I don't know, or
he's just a fucking nasty slob like that. That's gross.

Speaker 1 (02:05:07):
He was on a podcast, of course, and he was asked,
out of all the things happening in your life right now,
what makes you the most annoyed, what pisses you off
the most non football related?

Speaker 2 (02:05:21):
And he said, uh.

Speaker 1 (02:05:24):
He likes to punish bad travelers. He says, I'm the happiest,
go luckily. Look, I'm the happiest, go luckiest guy you'll
ever meet in your entire life. I will say one
thing that irritates me is, see now I'm telling on
myself people that don't know how to travel, Like, nobody

(02:05:47):
wants to see your feet and flip flops on a plane,
not one person. Nobody wants to see you in a
tank top with your armpits hanging out. That drives me insane.
Have some kouth about you, you know, dress appropriately, put
on a pair of shoes. And then the co host said,
can I ask you this, should the people in flip
flops on airplanes? Should they be executed? It feels like

(02:06:10):
a stupid question. Yeah, yeah, uh, he said. I don't
know about that, but I always pee on the floor
to make sure. I even see people walking socks in
the bathroom, I always peel on the floor to make
sure if you walk in socks you're getting urine on
your feet.

Speaker 2 (02:06:24):
What I yeah, he's just being an asshole at that point.

Speaker 1 (02:06:29):
Who are you to decide how people should dress or
not dress? And who are you to inflict a punishment? Right,
I'll get it if you are in first class. Even then. Now,
even then, I'm paying the money to fucking sit up here.
I'll fucking wear whatever the hell that I want, you
know what I mean? I agree with him that people
should have some kooth like you should wear shoes, right,

(02:06:50):
you shouldn't be barefoot?

Speaker 2 (02:06:52):
No, but flip flops work just fine. Yeah, Jesus, sandals
work just fine. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:06:58):
If that's on you to do that, I agree that
that's who am I to say that you shouldn't. I
just think that you shouldn't have to be putting your
stinky ass feet or bare feet near me.

Speaker 5 (02:07:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:07:11):
No, keep on the floor. Yeah, keep him on the
floor right there as they should be. Wire your fucking
feet up on the back of the chair anyway, you
damn we'd do. But people be people, you know, And
that's shitty of him. I hope that comes around somehow.
He ends up, I don't know, being banned from every
flight ever from here on out, or I don't know,
is he did they say with you he was current

(02:07:33):
NFL player.

Speaker 1 (02:07:34):
I know I believe he's retired. I believe he's retired.

Speaker 2 (02:07:37):
Okay, well then he can't take his job away from him,
but you can't take his flying rights away from him.
Fuck him. Yeah, that's all I got to say about that.
I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:07:49):
People think flying is this really great thing. It's the
fucking greyhound of of the air. It isn't a time
when not everybody can afford it. You're flying fifty dollars
to Dallas, so it is pretty easy. People are spending,
you know, fifteen hundred dollars on an iPhone. They're figuring
out how to buy a plane ticket. Yeah, so it

(02:08:10):
isn't this time when everybody wears suits and hats right
on the get the fuck out of here.

Speaker 2 (02:08:15):
Right like I did back in the day when it
was so new. This feels very yell at the sky.

Speaker 5 (02:08:20):
Yeah, he's definitely more offensive than their person taking their
shoes off.

Speaker 1 (02:08:24):
Yeah, well, now that's true. Piss it on the floor
is way more gross than someone in bare feet.

Speaker 2 (02:08:29):
Yes, because not only are the people who happen to
be in bare feet or wearing their socks, everybody's trampling
through your bodily fluids. Everybody is every fucking passenger that
goes in there, the flight attendants. Because you get golf steward.
This is anymore so you get the fly pilots. Every

(02:08:49):
motherfucker that goes in that bathroom is gone trampled into
your piss all. Why because probably because one crunchy hippie
pissed you off.

Speaker 5 (02:08:56):
Right, and he says he does it on every flight
that he's on. Just because there's some people that take
their shoes off. Well, you know what, there there are
reasons that people take their shoes off on flight.

Speaker 1 (02:09:06):
Some people, okay, I'm intrigued. Some people I don't.

Speaker 5 (02:09:08):
I don't take my shoes off.

Speaker 1 (02:09:10):
Hold on, slow down. I can't think of a reason
why you have to take your shoes off.

Speaker 2 (02:09:15):
I can't. I know you're gonna tell us, but can
you think of one, gimpy no, outside of just comfort,
that's it. Yeah, that's the only thing I can think
is comfort. Go ahead. So maybe your gout is flaring up,
not a.

Speaker 1 (02:09:29):
Problem, that's you also have been chosen to induce yourself
with that problem.

Speaker 5 (02:09:32):
Okay, so but what what I'm thinking, Like, I do
get my fingers and my ankles will swell on an airplane. Sure,
so maybe someone who has that problem, they are like,
oh my feet are getting swollen. I'm gonna take my
shoes off while I'm on this plane.

Speaker 2 (02:09:50):
No.

Speaker 5 (02:09:50):
Could be a reason, though.

Speaker 2 (02:09:51):
But that's not a that's you believing it's a reason.
You were all. It goes back to comfort.

Speaker 1 (02:09:55):
Yeah, you, that's comfort. That's you thinking you need to
do that. That's not a real thing, right.

Speaker 5 (02:10:00):
Well, and it's not a real reason to pee on
the floor of a bathroom something.

Speaker 1 (02:10:06):
I don't disagree. But he's not saying it's for a
medical reason, legitimate reason.

Speaker 2 (02:10:10):
That's you. You're saying it's a legitimate reason.

Speaker 5 (02:10:12):
Yeah. Well, I mean he could ask someone why are
your shoes off?

Speaker 2 (02:10:16):
Oh that's also stupid too.

Speaker 5 (02:10:18):
He could just say put your shoes on.

Speaker 2 (02:10:19):
If I heard that, I'd be like, get bent fucker.
None of you gon' it because I want to. Yeah
that's why.

Speaker 5 (02:10:25):
Yeah, but to me, he's he is definitely more offensive
than a person taking their shoes.

Speaker 1 (02:10:30):
I think the biggest problem is you're making somebody who's
probably got a second job trying to feed their family
have to clean it up, right, yeah, right, stewardesses.

Speaker 2 (02:10:43):
Aren't doing it.

Speaker 1 (02:10:44):
And by the way, by the way, ahole, Now it's
a bodily fluid, right, you could delay the takeoff of
the plane.

Speaker 2 (02:10:53):
It's a biohazard at this point. Yes, I no joke.

Speaker 1 (02:10:56):
We were on a plane coming back from Mexico think
and somebody vomited in the seat right in ice. Oh shit, man,
it was bad and my wife was like, do we
need to get off? I'm like I don't, I don't know.
They made everybody get off the fucking plane. We had

(02:11:17):
to get a different plane. Yes, it was fucking wild
because you don't know.

Speaker 2 (02:11:22):
What kind of diseases. Yes, they're going and then that's
just vomit. We don't know what you're pissing out onto
the floor, and you know they're not going to take off.
Maybe maybe they might miss it. After everybody gets onboarded right,
and they go through and they do the check, they're like, okay,
nobody left their purse or their bag, and check the

(02:11:42):
bathroom real quick. And there's fucking standing water. Hey, they're
standing water in here. Why is there standing water? It
ain't water.

Speaker 5 (02:11:52):
You think of the circulating air. It's just recycled air
in the airplane. And you're smelling that vomit.

Speaker 2 (02:11:58):
Oh yeah, it's really.

Speaker 5 (02:12:00):
Get me the hell off of this aircraft asap.

Speaker 2 (02:12:04):
I was gonna say, which is worse a baby with
a shitty diver on a plane or vomit?

Speaker 5 (02:12:09):
Vomit?

Speaker 2 (02:12:09):
I think vomit got it?

Speaker 3 (02:12:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:12:11):
Yeah, any complain about a baby stupid, right, because they
don't know any better.

Speaker 2 (02:12:16):
Yeah, they're just a baby. Of course. They want us
to believe that they're just babies and they don't know
any better. But how do we not know that they're not?
Like inside because they can't talk, they like, you know what,
fuck these guys, I'm gonna shit my pants, right, fucking now.
I want to make every last one of you motherfuckers.

Speaker 1 (02:12:33):
Like at Zotopia where the fox has the little guy
and when they when he finally talks, he's like.

Speaker 2 (02:12:37):
Hey, motherfucker, Yeah, we don't know what's going on in
that baby's d Yeah. Uh.

Speaker 1 (02:12:44):
This is a pretty funny quote from Dana White. He
said that Mark Zuckerberg would beat the living shit out
of most of you.

Speaker 2 (02:12:52):
Why isn't even like a black belt or like no
platinum belt, No, like no fucking triple taekwondo. Fucking you
got some stripes purple.

Speaker 1 (02:13:02):
The last thing I saw he was a blue belt,
which means he's been at it for two.

Speaker 2 (02:13:11):
To four years. Yeah. Yeah, but if he is being
trained by like shoolin Monks and not you know, done
me anything some guy named Jeff and a strip mall
somewhere don meaning maybe I don't know, he's not a
black belt. And by the way, even if you're a
black belt, that doesn't mean you you you are abstained

(02:13:32):
from getting your ass kicked. A lot of guys that
fight in the UFC have black belts and they get
their asses whooped. Sounds bad ass.

Speaker 1 (02:13:40):
It does sound badass, for sure, and I definitely wouldn't
want to get caught in a tussle. Yeah, I'm not
a black belt, right, And they're equating all this to
him waking up on a he says on a podcast,
he says, I wake up and fight people.

Speaker 2 (02:13:54):
Bitch.

Speaker 1 (02:13:54):
There's a lot of six am classes, and I would
argue that you're not going to a group clas you
probably a private one or you have one where people
you've selected to also be there. Yeah, it's a you
know what I'm saying, he ain't rolling with like Corbin
True to be fair, his platform makes me want to
fight people to sure. Yeah, stupid Facebook, he says. I

(02:14:19):
wake up at like seven seven thirty, the kids start
making noise around the house. It's like, all right, sleep
is done. And then I look at my phone and
I'm just like all these things that these people are doing,
like you did?

Speaker 2 (02:14:30):
What are you kidding me? Really? God damn it.

Speaker 1 (02:14:33):
I compose myself, go fight for two hours, recenter myself,
and it's like now I can go deal with this stuff.

Speaker 2 (02:14:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:14:39):
So if he's getting up at seven seven thirty, it
takes at least twenty minutes to get to the gym.
Let's assume he's close. Now, he's going till ten. He's
got a shower after. He ain't reporting to work. Goddamn
nut right, But.

Speaker 2 (02:14:51):
Does he have to? No, he does not, fucking Markus Zuckerberg,
he does not.

Speaker 1 (02:14:55):
That's true. I know plenty of people that spend much
time at the gym and they can't fight or shit.

Speaker 2 (02:15:01):
She's still married to that Asian lady.

Speaker 1 (02:15:03):
Yes, I mean should I wouldn't divorce him.

Speaker 2 (02:15:08):
No.

Speaker 5 (02:15:09):
No, they don't have kids, do they?

Speaker 2 (02:15:11):
Yes? They do, but he just said, yeah, kids getting
up and moving around, and she can.

Speaker 5 (02:15:16):
Take care of them.

Speaker 2 (02:15:17):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (02:15:18):
Dana White technically said people talk shit about Zuckerberg. Zuckerberg
is actually a great athlete. He trains, mma and surf.
He does all this shit. Zuckerberg will beat the shit
out of you. Okay, everybody thinks he's some computer nerd.
Mark Zuckerberg will beat the living shit out of you.
All these guys that talk stuff about him on the internet,
He'll kick your ass.

Speaker 5 (02:15:37):
Ah.

Speaker 1 (02:15:39):
I don't think anybody was questioning his athleticism. And there
are plenty of guys who train who look like nerds. Right, Mikey,
muse Mecky if I remember his name, right? He looks
like a dork, and he whoops people's ass in jiu jitsu,
so it ain't about looking like a nerd, right.

Speaker 5 (02:16:01):
I feel like Dana White's just kind of trolling. He's
just trying to hype him up, so maybe he'll come
do a fight because he thinks that's what people want.

Speaker 2 (02:16:09):
He's not gonna do a fight, No way, no way.
He's same.

Speaker 1 (02:16:14):
Reason is why I said it wouldn't happen with these
two guys represent trillions of dollars, Yeah, and one of
them getting injured, hurt or dead with detriment to the company.
There's no way the board of would would let that.
There's no way it's too much, so that ain't ever

(02:16:36):
gonna happen. And if there were, there'd be some sort
of all these rules to make it where he can't
get fucking hit right right, you know, whether he's wearing
face protection or whatever. Fuck, that fight's already off between
the Paul brother and uh Giovante. That kid, he's not
a kid, Goddamn, he's just tiny. Uh Yeah, but like that,

(02:16:59):
that fight's already off, and you could say it's self
tabat sabotage. Maybe it was promotion, don't I don't know,
but he got in trouble with the law. No, Floyd
Mayweather's old.

Speaker 2 (02:17:09):
Yeah, what if Zuck was like, hey, half my fortune
to anybody that can knock me out in three rounds.
First of all, there's a lot, right, there's a lot
of people. I'd give it a shot. He weighs one
fifty five.

Speaker 3 (02:17:27):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (02:17:28):
Yeah, so he's a small guy. Yeah. See, I'll tell
you if they're being honest to like five five eleven
five ten uh.

Speaker 1 (02:17:38):
Five seven, So he's shorter than me. Okay, yeah, he
would ease. There are plenty of people in his weight
class that would knock the shit out of him.

Speaker 2 (02:17:48):
Yeah, but imagine the television though.

Speaker 1 (02:17:50):
Listen, there's a massive difference between training jiu jitsu and
you're going with your buddies every day, going to the gym,
hitting mits every day, and then in a cage and
someone trying to fucking kill you.

Speaker 2 (02:18:04):
I'm just being honest.

Speaker 1 (02:18:06):
I first tournament I did, the octane things moved at
was intimidating.

Speaker 2 (02:18:12):
Right, you don't have time to think, you don't have
time to question things. You do things.

Speaker 1 (02:18:18):
The next thing you know, you're fucking pat tapping out.

Speaker 2 (02:18:21):
Right, right, and that's what I'm saying. Man, make a
competition out of it. Half my fortune if you knock
me out, you know how many people would sign up
to do it. And maybe he is a badass or whatever,
and nobody could knock him out, but everybody tries to
do it. I'd watch it. I'd watch it on pay
per view. Yeah, I would spar with him.

Speaker 1 (02:18:41):
I think that would be fun, you know, right, just
so you can say you sparred.

Speaker 2 (02:18:44):
With Zuckerberg, right, fucking billionaire. Yeah, that's fun.

Speaker 1 (02:18:48):
And there are guys that come to the gym that
have different statuses in the community and they're fun to
roll with.

Speaker 3 (02:18:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:18:54):
Right, I roll with a lot of police officers. I've
tapped a lot of police officers. They've tapped me, Like,
that's fun. So it would be fun to do that
with him.

Speaker 2 (02:19:02):
Yeah, just to say that you did it. There's a
video out there of him rolling with shit who is it?

Speaker 1 (02:19:10):
And when you see you're like, okay, he's not he
doesn't know shit, I'm not joking like Zuckerberg or the
other guy. Okay, no, Zuckerberg. And you see the video
and you're like, this is no. And the guy's a
world champion that he's going against.

Speaker 2 (02:19:30):
Yeah, but he get to say he got to spar
with Mark Zuckerberg, one of the richest people in the world.

Speaker 1 (02:19:35):
Yeah, okay, so here I don't know how to fucking
show you this in this goddamn studio, but like, this
is him, this is him. He's fighting one of the
best jiu jitsu guys in the country, and he's really
really good. And he did a single league take down.
He fucking just fell down. No stop, Mark, Yeah, he

(02:20:00):
lightly rolled over him. Yeah, and he just submitted him
in two seconds.

Speaker 2 (02:20:06):
That is not real.

Speaker 1 (02:20:08):
He doesn't know what he's doing. He's the guy that's
really good, is going at maybe twenty percent.

Speaker 2 (02:20:14):
Right, just going easy, a little little promotional Yeah, yeah, listen,
we just Mark wants to come in, he wants to fight.

Speaker 1 (02:20:24):
Okay, Yeah, here's another one here he is fighting, uh,
sparring with Alex Pereira, world champion, the best fighter in
MMA right now. And you tell me, does this guy
look like he's trying one hundred percent. He's tapping him
on his gloves, his his guard is closed before Zuck's

(02:20:48):
hand ever gets there.

Speaker 5 (02:20:51):
It's like, hey, yeah, he's the professional fighter, is actually
teaching it's like he's showing him that this is what
to do. Right.

Speaker 2 (02:21:02):
They're just sparring. There's no teaching there, he's just sparring.
They're just playing around. Yeah, that's a guy who's got
a lot of money who wants to you know, he's
probably gotten into this new hobby and wants to deal
with the elites that are in that field. So he's like, listen,
here's a here's five hundred thousand dollars. Just let me
fucking just go on.

Speaker 1 (02:21:21):
So typically guys that fight that spar with people who
don't fight will match the pace and cadence of the
person who doesn't know what the fuck they're doing, right,
So it makes sense absolutely they have a responsibility as
the professional to know how to holster right.

Speaker 2 (02:21:39):
And so you can see him h lightly just.

Speaker 1 (02:21:46):
He's dancing. Yeah yeah, And if you want you to.

Speaker 2 (02:21:50):
Real fight with Alex Prairie, you go holy shit, right right. Meanwhile,
Zuckerberger's over there. Did I do good? I did good? Yes? Yeah,
you did good? At him on the head.

Speaker 1 (02:22:01):
The number of people that even fight, you don't even know.
So just because someone's talking shit doesn't mean they're in
their basement drinking red bull all.

Speaker 2 (02:22:09):
Right, yeah, I love that stuff. Oh that's fun. I
would love to go spar with him with just Zuckerberg,
Yeah yeah, I guess, I guess, be all right, just again,
just say you did it with a billionaire. Yeah. I'd
rather go and have a you know, drink, yeah, shrimp
cocktail or something. But that's just me.

Speaker 1 (02:22:29):
There's a female fighter that's in our gym and I
sparred with her and.

Speaker 2 (02:22:35):
She destroyed me.

Speaker 1 (02:22:37):
And she's a buck twenty, right, she was training for
a fight, and so we all lined up and did
a thing. We're holding up her against the cage, and
even then she whooped my ass and I'm trying. My
job was to lean down and press on to her
against the wall, right, That's all I had to do,
and she was trying to work her system to.

Speaker 2 (02:22:59):
Get out of it.

Speaker 1 (02:22:59):
Yeah, even then, just feels like hype from Dana White.
By the way, I can't stand his is a Dodge commercial.
He voices a Dodge commercial, and he's because he always yells.
He's like, hey America.

Speaker 2 (02:23:13):
Yeah, I don't know. I've only seen the one recently.
I think it's with Terry Crews. Oh yeah, oh god,
does he do that? He does anything he wants.

Speaker 1 (02:23:22):
Yeah, this is the Dana White h Dodge commercial. Yeah,
the end where he's like, never stop being American. See
if this is gonna work here, the volumes are.

Speaker 7 (02:23:38):
Except one thing. We just can't stop being American because
since that revolution they said we'd lose, we just couldn't
choose to stop being American. We put hemyvhs back on
the strip and pack eight layers in a seven layer.

Speaker 2 (02:23:53):
Yeah, we don't need to here on that. I'll get
you to the end, and never ever.

Speaker 7 (02:23:57):
Ever stop being American. Nothing stops America, and nothing stops ram.

Speaker 2 (02:24:06):
I'd like to say that it's just a big dumb jock.
That's a script they give to a big dumb jock.
But he's probably a lot smarter than what you think.
He is. Smarter. You guy's running a fuck ULTI million
dollar Oh I have note.

Speaker 1 (02:24:16):
He's a genius, right, he is a genius. But his
you know, knuckle dragon voice is a little like god
dang man, and he's he can hype people up.

Speaker 2 (02:24:28):
I've seen him do it. It's awesome for sure. Yeah,
this isn't I hate Dana White.

Speaker 5 (02:24:31):
It's just like, oh my god, was he a fighter himself.

Speaker 1 (02:24:36):
H It's kind of like the criticism Joe Rogan's getting
right now because Ronda Rolsey came out and said that
he's just a fan that knows wow, because he's never fought. Yeah,
he competed in taekwondo and she is a gold medalist
in taekwondo. And she's like, that's not fighting, Okay, that's fair,

(02:24:59):
and so he is. And he's super knowledgeable. I think
he does great. He's a great commentator.

Speaker 2 (02:25:05):
Is she wrong? I don't know. Has he You've seen
him kick some bags and does he train?

Speaker 3 (02:25:11):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (02:25:12):
But again, I know plenty of guys that can fight
are high trainers and then they get in the cage
and they're like, fuck that.

Speaker 2 (02:25:18):
I'm not I'm never doing that again, right right? I
liked to better on Fear Factor. Yeah, yeah, which I
watched an episode yesterday. I'm seeing that showing. God damn ever,
it's a wild show, still a thing. It's a wild show.
So a new one. No, no, they were fucking old
reruns or whatever.

Speaker 5 (02:25:33):
But a new one is there? Yeah, with the dude
from Jackass.

Speaker 2 (02:25:37):
Johnny Knox. Kno, right, that's right, but they're not having
him drink mules seeming. No, that was that. That was
the episode that canceled for Your Factor.

Speaker 1 (02:25:49):
You you watch it and you're like, because that show's
twenty years old. Yeah, you watch it and you're like.

Speaker 2 (02:25:54):
God damn. Yeah. I watched yesterday and it was like
towards the end of whatever, and it was the uh
it was like the Buddies, you know episode or whatever,
and it's like two friends. It's like one of you
is going to drive the ramp car and then the
other one of you is going to drive the rear car,
and the job is to get the rear car over
the ramp car and onto the back of this you know,
flat bed semi while it's moving and weaving down the highway.

(02:26:18):
And I was like, what, how is this the thing?
How is this there? They they're not professional drivers. Now
they're going to fucking wreck is what's gonna happen? And
I was like, how did I liability? Yeah? Whatever made
him sign a fucking way or whatever, you know, And
and I'll be damn that guy gets up onto the
ramp car and then gets it up on the back

(02:26:38):
of the truck, loses fucking control, rolls his car off
the side of the flatbit and.

Speaker 5 (02:26:43):
How much do they win at the end of that
show back then.

Speaker 2 (02:26:46):
Fifty thousand dollars like that? I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:26:49):
Uh, there you got stuck in a rabbit hole of
the old Bully beat Down show. Oh yeah, which was
on MTV and it was for those who know a fighter.
May Jason Mayham Miller would host the show and talk
to bullies and then whoever they picked on would pick
a fighter to fight the bully and beat the shit.

Speaker 2 (02:27:09):
Out of them.

Speaker 1 (02:27:10):
That's awesome, yes, And the deal was if the bully
beat they would get ten grand. And it only happened once,
I think, But there's some controversy around it that the
bully and the person never knew each other before that moment.
It was all stage, which, of course maybe it was
a Some of those shows that MTV had fucking awesome shows,

(02:27:32):
the show where the girl got on the bus like
the bus and she had the guys came out and
would go on a date.

Speaker 2 (02:27:36):
Then they'd have to go back on the.

Speaker 1 (02:27:37):
Bus and god, just are they go to their room
and evaluate the room and whether they should date them.

Speaker 2 (02:27:44):
Some of those early two thousands, late nineties, early two.

Speaker 5 (02:27:47):
Thousands, I was surprised that they canceled ridiculously.

Speaker 2 (02:27:51):
It's about time the show has ran its course. Well, yeah,
next was the name of that show on your neck?
It was really fucking singled out was another great ye. Yeah,
if you want to throw it way back in the day,
remote control, back in the day. Yeah, and now it's
all nothing but fucking was sixteen and pregnant and fucking ridiculousness.

(02:28:15):
I don't even think sixteen are pregnant on those things.
Ridiculous bit ridiculousness just got canceled, That's what she was. Yeah,
which is good. That's a that's a good, solid run.
And I'm glad that they're finally hopefully soon, because why
yesterday I was going through channels and there it is
ridiculousness on every fucking hour on it and I'm just like,

(02:28:37):
this is something else.

Speaker 5 (02:28:39):
But didn't they just cancel MTV? Didn't retire MTV itself.

Speaker 2 (02:28:46):
That I don't know about that. No, it's a huge
brand for.

Speaker 3 (02:28:50):
No.

Speaker 1 (02:28:52):
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