BMMS 11-17-25

Welcome Back From The Weekend!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, E-Scooters Will Get You Killed, Shots Fired Over Chickens, Rear Ended Because Somebody Was Pissing In A Beer Can, Bet You Can't Eat This Burger Whole, We Spoke To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Drops By, & Video Game Misconceptions!!!

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We got to play a part where you guys can participate.
It's called best and Worst. What's the best part of
the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend. You
can text that to us anytime you want. We'll get
to that coming up here in a little bit best

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and worst of the weekend, We're gonna talk with one
of our listeners because they're awesome, and Jeff Finsley's going
to join us. If you're going through divorce, custody, guardianship,
name change, any of those things that have to do
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text BMMS and whatever that question is to eight two, nine,
four five or call when he's on with us at nine.
I don't know why this populated my FYP over the weekend,
but it did. I saw a lot and there were
many different angles and views of it where the video

(04:38):
shows a woman on one of those electrical scooters like
a limescooter yes okay, and crossing out an intersection and
falls whatever, and she's laying on the ground. The light
turns green, the car goes drags her.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
WHOA.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yeah. It happened at like four thirty in the morning
over the weekend, and some of the videos showed streak
marks because she was under the car.

Speaker 7 (05:18):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
It's some of the most disturbing video I've seen and
I was trying to go in my head, how do
you not see the individual? Because they were there and
then they fell. So maybe if you're changing the channel
and you didn't see they fell, and you know you're
in a large front heavy suv where you can't see

(05:38):
straight down in front of your vehicle. Yeah, yeah, I
could see that that being a possibility if you were intoxicated, obviously,
right right that at four or forty in the morning,
ain't nothing awesome happening. You are going to eat or
wishing you were or going to work from work. I

(06:01):
see a lot of people on the road because I
leave my house like three point thirty, and I question
it every time, all right, are you going to work?
Are you leaving a booty call? You know, how drunk
are you right now? Because this seems like there's a
lot of people on the road that early in the morning. Yeah,
one hundred percent. This is in downtown Dallas on Friday
night and a Saturday morning. Yeah, there's a good chance
they did it again, I think highly probable, right, I

(06:26):
think when we come to work, we're in that like
they're getting off work, Like they got off at like
midnight two am, and then did whatever, and then they're
out doing something right and bartenders that work, you know,
because they don't. They got to stay there until two
and then clean up takes what like an hour or so. Yeah,

(06:46):
and there's no telling if they had a few nips
after after shift, you know what I mean. Yeah, there,
that's it's a good chance. So the woman was dragged
by the suv. They had to use air bags to
lift the vehicle off of her, and then she was
taking to the hospital where she was pronounced dead and

(07:09):
they talk to the driver. But they have not said
this was as as of yesterday. I think they have
not said that the person would be charged. I even
whether their charge or not, you would still have wild

(07:32):
mental state, I would think after that. Yeah, but I
keep getting closer and closer to like, those scooters aren't
a good idea. Theres a lot of injuries on them, Yes,
a lot of them.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
Unless they have their own path and not just in
some states or you know, some cities, everywhere.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
They need their own path, Like what does that mean
to you?

Speaker 7 (07:59):
Like like a bike path? How you know it needs
to be everywhere.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
That sounds like a great idea on the surface, However,
you forget people have you know free will, right, you know,
just to take off and you know, if your path
and go anywhere they want. Just being stupid. Yeah, because
there's bike paths already and people get hitting them. Yeah,
that is hardly the thing that saves you from things.

(08:25):
I don't know, because there's also times where people are
doing exactly what they're supposed to and they get hit. Yeah, right,
Or there's people free will like we talked about, where
you're supposed to be one at a time on it
and then you put your kid on it with you.

(08:46):
It'll be fine, it'll be fine. We're just going up.
Do you think that the Internet has made people think
there's no consequences like you see video like you see
videos of people like cliche Russians right standing on the

(09:09):
edge of a building, pirouetting across a turret right and then,
but you've never seen the times they fall, right, or
any of those other things. You just think, Ah, it
worked out for wildy coyote.

Speaker 5 (09:26):
Right.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Uh did you did it say? How old this this
person that got ran over was not in the story
that I could find. They appeared to be twenty something. Okay,
it's still kind of young. Yeah, I mean even thirty something.
I'd be like, right, well, I say that because you
know how like teenagers, hey, teenagers, late teens, you know,

(09:50):
feel like they're invincible, you know, doing all kinds of
stupid stuff and don't really think about the consequences afterwards.
I think that is a nice cliche thing to say,
because I know plenty of twenty and thirty year olds
that I think consequences don't matter, aren't real, right, They're
just like, ah, I've never been caught, so what's the matter, right,

(10:11):
It's not a real thing if I've never been caught. Sure,
take your run over back are Yes.

Speaker 3 (10:18):
Maybe the person on the scooter was like, oh, I'm
too drunk to drive home, I better hop on this scooter.
Seems like a safer alternative. Lo and behold, they're way
too drunk for a scooter.

Speaker 2 (10:31):
The last time I took one might be nine months ago,
I don't remember exactly. But I will not park near
the Bok Center and just park near a scooter and
then ride the scooter to the Bok Center so I
don't have to pay for parking. Yeah, yeah, I don't
know if it's smart. I typically get pretty far away.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
I've never I've never been on one, you really never. Yeah,
I've been too nervous. I don't trust myself on one. Okay,
accident prone, Okay, last time for you, gimbee s. It's
been a couple of years. It's been a couple I
think the last the last time I can remember.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
It was me and my brother. We were riding around
and we went from like forty first Riverside all the
way downtown right at Riverside Park, kind of rode all
the way the hell downtown, tooled around there. I mean,
like when we did it, we did it right. We're
not just going up the road for a little bit
and they come back. We just tooled around and and

(11:33):
everything was going fine until we were hauling ass down
the sidewalk and things got a little too close. Sidewalk
got uneven. My brother ended up eating it right there,
and he ended up twisting his ankle or breaking his
ankle or some jive like that. Yeah, put him down

(11:55):
for a while. I think that's the last time that
I got on one. Not because of what had happened
to him. I I just haven't They are fun. I
get it. Yeah, they can be wind blowing in your hair, right,
zipping around you feel pretty cool. You're like, yeah, look

(12:18):
at me. They've always been fun. They hall ass. The
brakes have never been really good, though, and in my opinion,
it just seems like that's where they're lacking. Well, you
know what it is. It's your inability to understand how
to operate it. Now, not in an insulting way. It's
just like a rental car scenario where you don't even
know how to turn on the radio right, right, and

(12:39):
so you don't know.

Speaker 6 (12:40):
What to do.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
So what do you do? You bail right, and that
is fine and dandy and all, but sometimes you get hurt.
How fast did those scooters go? I want to say
they reach upwards to twenty twenty five, It says seventeen seventeen. Okay,
some local regulations feel like that's too fast, so they

(13:03):
lower it to twelve. I put a governor on your
electric scooter, and some cities even have it go can
only go ten miles per hour? How much safer is it? Like, hey,
we have found that if you get the chance of
you getting a traumatic brain injury is dramatically less, right

(13:24):
if you're not going that fast? Yeah, yeah, I don't know,
because you don't have to just like kind of like drowning. Man,
you can drown in an inch of water right right,
and you can get massive head injury from low speeds,
you know, just a man. It depends on like where
and how you conk your head. I guess because I would.

(13:45):
I can't imagine. Maybe if you're going ten, your ability
to manage a potential accident, right like increases. You're two
and seventeen, you're like, we're we are flying. You feel
like you're flying. And they don't come with helmets riding

(14:08):
like a bad as wear them?

Speaker 8 (14:10):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
People don't wear make their kids wear them. With bikes
most of the time, right, which they say you should. Uh, okay,
So at seventeen miles per hour, you travel twenty five
feet in one second. At ten miles per hour you
travel fifteen feet and breaks tank longer to stop at
seventeen than from ten. Sure, and so you are okay.

(14:36):
At ten miles per hour you are sixty percent less
likely to get in a crack a crash crack.

Speaker 7 (14:43):
Do you have to be a certain age to ride them?

Speaker 2 (14:46):
I think you just have to be able to pay?
Oh okay, right right? All you need is a credit
card man, nobody comes around in checks. No, you're right,
The line police aren't coming after you. So seventeen miles
an hour high risk, fifteen miles per hour twenty percent less,
twelve miles per hour forty percent less, ten miles per

(15:07):
hour sixty percent less likely. Small speed drops add up
to big safety gains. They say that you must be
eighteen years or older to use a line scooter, but
I know I've seen kids downtown tooling around on them. Again.
Oh yeah, because there's no age verification now, because I mean,

(15:34):
you open up the app, right, and that's how you
activate the scooter or whatever. And I can't remember because
it's been a long time, but I can't remember if
there was a litle like a button, it's like, are
you sure you're eighteen? So the companies state that ninety
nine percent of their trips are incident free. Technically they
say ninety nine point nine eighty five percent are accident free,

(15:56):
like they're trying to really sell that they're safe. Trips
requiring medical attention, hospitalization or worse were zero point zero
zero of all trips, according to the companies. But that's
all self reporting, yeah, right, And I can't imagine the

(16:18):
cat isn't dead if you don't open the box. So
I don't know, do you call him go hey, I
wrecked your scooter. Probably not. No, They just use the
GPS and find the scooter to throw it in the
back of the truck to take it to the place
to set it back up. I had one break on
me one time. The handlebars disconnected from the platform. God

(16:38):
like like McFly when he takes the he doesn't know
how to whatever he makes he invents the skateboard. Yeaeah,
yeah kind of like that. Yeah, was just just cruising along.
I don't want to say this is the same day
that my brother and I that he got into his
accident or whatever, But anyhow, yeah, we're right long and

(17:00):
all of a sudden, pop off goes the handles and
we're like whoa, whoa, So manage. We were going slow
enough where you know, you could just bail out and
not hurt anything. But I was like, well, what do
I do with this now? So I just propped it
up against a lightpole and went and got another one.

(17:21):
Somebody text in to sing up I'm a bit of
a dumbass and was on a line scooter in Tulsa
on the road and got hit by a car. My
fault for being in the road, but the people that
hit me bailed too.

Speaker 5 (17:33):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, this says I rented an e bike in DC
that would go nearly thirty miles per hour. It was
a blast. The note that I saw said DC is
the people that limited to ten. Now maybe that was before. Well,
I mean, this is an e bike and those are scooters.
Maybe there's a good point there, good catch, you know,
a little bit more stability on a bike. Yeah, I

(18:00):
don't know. An article for Tulsa highlighted injuries from e
scooter accidents and noted that devices like these have been
tied to eighty thousand injuries nationwide in a four year span.
I know that sounds like a lot. It's pretty safe
in a four year span, So twenty thousand a year, Okay,

(18:25):
you probably trip and get injured more.

Speaker 7 (18:26):
Right, except on more legos.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Right overall, I think they're relatively safe. You're gonna get
on one. It's incident free, but you know, the splash
matters and convenient.

Speaker 3 (18:39):
Maybe when when when I was living in South Bend,
they had them and they people loved them.

Speaker 7 (18:46):
To get to campus.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Sure, yeah, college kids love them, they're great. A lot
of colleges ban them. They don't let you bring them
up on campus because they get littered all over the campus.
I know there was a South Park episode about it,
But like, how did these things come about? They just
started popping up in cities all over the place, and

(19:08):
the next thing you know, they're kind of everywhere. But
I don't ever remember any kind of like advertisements or
anything like that coming zoom to a town near you,
and they.

Speaker 7 (19:20):
Just showed up.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
Yeah, they just started popping up on street corners everywhere. Yeah.
I think it was probably a combination of a couple
of things. It was probably like around the time Uber
was happening, and you wanted to go a little bit
further maybe I don't know, or you wanted a cheaper
option than Uber. I think that there was because it's

(19:42):
never what you think. Those companies aren't about providing scooters.
They're about providing data, so they track and notice the
places people go, and then they can sell that information
because when you sign, you're like, yeah, yeah, sign agree, agree, agree,
I need the scooter. Yeah, And then the next you know,
they've been following your every move and you let them

(20:04):
do it. Yeah. I think there's also probably a little
bit of somebody that created the sprocket that goes inside
one that makes it work. And then suddenly they're everywhere
and this guy's now sold or girl who sold gazillions
of sprockets, right, thanks lying right and bird. Yeah, And

(20:24):
there was probably no regulation for it, so they could
show up in cities and just drop them right and
then because they weren't regular, they don't have to be regulated,
or at the time they didn't, so it was kind
of like you know, the Proctor. It was a gold
rush essentially, right, everybody's just driving up in town in
their pickup trucks and dumping off of a dozen little

(20:46):
scooters in every corner. I was like, and that wouldn't
be a bad gig because I'll get up early anyway,
you go around on Saturdays and just pick up scooters
throw And then I was like, hell, no, it wouldn't.
It would be awesome the first day, every stop, then
get out and throw it in your truck. Right then
you gotta wait for like an hour for each one
the charge of yeah, yeah, do I take them home?

(21:07):
In charge them?

Speaker 1 (21:08):
Now?

Speaker 2 (21:08):
What are they literally my garage? Right right? And what
do do you have like a like a zip strip
of like five different you know extension cords you know,
plugged into it. Yeah, they paid me for my electricity
a god to see. No, it's not worth it, No,
not at all, not at all. Hey, you know it's
worth it. The I want to hear what the best
and worst of your weekend was texted to us bmms

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and whatever that is to eight two nine four five.
What's the best and what's the worst. We'll do that
soon here in a few minutes, The Big Man Morning
Show Readers, it's time for news quakies, world news, local
news and news that just makes you say, what the
Here's Corbyn, gimme.

Speaker 6 (21:47):
And lindsay with what's going on?

Speaker 2 (21:48):
News quakies from The Big Man Morning Showing ninety seven five.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
Man fires at people over argument about how many eggs
chickens lay.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
Yeah, that's important.

Speaker 3 (22:01):
So last Tuesday, a guy named Peter Rieira fired about
four rounds from a forty five caliber block at three
people outside Harper's Pub and Port Saint Lucy. They were
sitting outside the bar and talking about chickens and laying eggs,

(22:23):
and the police sergeant said an argument between the three
victims and mister Rieira stemmed from a conversation about how
many eggs a chicken can lay. Now, mister Rieira claimed
to be a farmer who raised chickens, and he became
paranoid after the argument, accused accusing victims of trying to

(22:44):
con him. All parties have been drinking and were intoxicated
to varying degrees. Now Rieia faces multiple charges, including three
counts of aggravated battery with a deadly weapon. Two victims
also faced charge charges for resisting officers during the investigation.
The officer stated, arming yourself with a handgun when you're

(23:07):
under the influence is not a good idea.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
So you hear bar in Florida and you're like, yeah,
you think of beach, maybe a pelican out front. I
don't know this had a cigarette machine inside because I
just looked at some pictures. That should be all you
need to know. Yeah, it sounds like exactly. Ain't nothing
wrong with those planes, but they're pretty fun. But you
also know what you're getting into when you go in there. Yeah,
it's not surprising that somebody's got a gun while they're

(23:34):
talking about chickens. I want to know what stance he had, right,
what was We're not clear on what the argument was.
I get he thought some people were cut, So what
what side were you taking? Probably somebody was like, nah,
chickens can lay three eggs and mostly Ah, I raised
chickens all my life. But God, and I know for

(23:55):
a fact that a chicken can lay six eggs. No,
that ain't it tomorrow a line from Jeff. It's complicated.
The answer is complicated. Depends on the sun, depends on
their age. But it's like three hundred. It's some crazy
number that they lay in a year. Yeah, chicken farmer
enough to get shot over. Yeah, if he was a
chicken farmer, you knew it. Oh yeah, that's the smell. Yeah,

(24:19):
the smell predates them, like yeah, it's it's burned and
and then their clothes. Yeah, there would be no doubt
you smell that. Oh that's just chicken farmer. Jeff walking
in right. Oh God, I knew a guy like that, right,
he's a chicken farmer and we called him chicken farmer Gary. Yeah, yeah,

(24:39):
we growing up a new Character's a lot of f
f A kids up there almost said f A was like, no,
that's not it. F f a kids and one of
them coming in smelling like hog crap, yeah, pig poo. Yeah,
they'd work in the bar before they came in. Yeah yeah, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
This bar looks like any old dive bar and that
you anywhere with the smoking fans.

Speaker 2 (25:05):
That are clogged up because they've never been cleaned.

Speaker 7 (25:08):
Right.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
Yeah. Accident caused by man distracted while peeing in a
Budweiser can. It's compressive, yeah right. This comes out of
Montana where fifty three year old dude named James Howard.
He is the one that was driving the suburban that
rear ended two folks that were in a Volkswagen. See

(25:30):
what had happened was this Volkswagen gets off the highway
and they're on the off ramp and they're just they're
minding their own business and they see this car coming up.
The headlights are getting there faster and faster and faster.
So Dee tells his old lady, hey, brace for impact,
and that's when boom, pal Jimmy here slams right into
the back end of this Volkswagen with his suburban. Of course,

(25:52):
the police get involved, they come out. When they get there,
they see that James has a tall can of Budweiser
in his hand that he put in the center console, right,
just like, put that right there. Cops say, hey, give
me that beer can, and then Jimmy's like, hey, that's
pissing there, not beer, but you don't sing, right. Jimmy

(26:18):
went on to tell him, hey, I only had just
one beer, man, He said, I I shouldn't be driving.
I've had several d You why, He's being really honest
with the police at this point, right, So he lets
him know what all was going on. And because of
Jimmy's slow, slurred speech, they realized, you know, this guy's

(26:43):
a little bit tipsier than just one beer anyhow, So
they did this sobriety test on him. He ended up
his BAC was three times the legal limit. So yeah,
Jimmy was a little bit jacked up on more than
just the one tall can. Anyway. He says that he
would paying attention and that he was trying to, uh,
he was trying to piss in the beer can when

(27:05):
he ended up smashing into the back end of these people.
And of course they pulled him out and he's piss
all over himself. It's terrible. Now, they took him in.
They took him in for aggravated do you win felony now,
along with reckless driving and driving under suspension as well.
I would just be too nervous to piss into a can.

(27:27):
I can't exactly matule. Yeah, you know gatorade bottles one thing, yeah, plastic.
But and if you and they didn't say it in
a story, but I got to thinking. I was like,
if he is peeing in the can while he slammed
into the rear end of this volkswagon, I'd be afraid
to get cut because all the impact. You know, yeah, cotoon,

(27:49):
Not only do you get your own piss all over
the place, but he don't cut you, Wayne or two. Right,
that's a whole other problem. Bad newsman man in critical
condition after swallowing burger hole. By the way, good job.
Last week we did an all women's day. Today we
did all men. Good job. A twenty two year old
man is in critical condition after attempting to swallow a
burger hole. The ambitious eater, whose name has not been released,

(28:13):
made an attempt during a meal with friends on Thursday,
and hey since been placed on a ventilator. The man
reportedly stopped breathing for two minutes, and his airways were obstructed,
leading to severe complications affecting his brain, kidneys, and other organs.
Police are investigating the incident and are seeking footage from
the restaurant to determine if anyone encouraged the man to

(28:35):
attempt the stunt. Of course they encouraged him. What are
you shiking? Right? I bet you I could eat this
whole thing like a snake. No, I don't know. Sometimes
people are like, you will be trying to eat the
whole thing. I'll do it, right. And I don't wonder
how big this burger was, right, I thought you're gonna
see the guy. No, Like, was this like a like

(28:56):
one of the forty nine cent cheeseburgers you get from
McDonald's in her kids meal, okay? Or was this like
a big mac or you know, six dollars burger? I mean,
how big a burger are we talking about here? I mean,
I don't think it has to be a white Castle burger?
Will you will choke on that? True?

Speaker 7 (29:12):
I mean yeah? But then it would say a slider, right.

Speaker 2 (29:15):
I don't know, it's still a burger, right.

Speaker 7 (29:19):
But I feel like it would say a slider.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
I'm just picturing like at least a quarter pounder with cheese. Yeah,
just trying to shove that whole last thing out, isn't.
I mean, there's no way I had lettuce and tomato
and all that on it.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
Eh.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
Maybe that's the burger I'm picturing, But not every burger
looks like a pub burger. No, no, no, you guess
some of them. That's just catch up mustard and cheese. Yeah.
He was twenty two years old, is was? He is alive?

Speaker 5 (29:51):
Right?

Speaker 2 (29:52):
He ain't? I don't know. I mean, the story is
a couple hours old. Yeah, I mean, he could have died,
but they said he was on a ventilator. So yeah,
this says he did it for a joke. Now, who's laughing?
Gr was standing over his shoulder and was like, oh God,
all right, I'll give you something to laugh about. The

(30:14):
man began panicking after swallowing the burger and then collapsed
on the ground. Yeah, once he realized, oh I am
in way deeper than I thought. This gets better. One
of the people inside said he had something like a
panic attack. He got up and then ran away. I

(30:35):
guess he thought he was gonna vomit and didn't want
to make a mess. Around others. He didn't do that.
He makes a move to come back and then goes
away again to spit out. We thought, okay, now it's coming.
Now we're good. And then he starts coming back again
and the moment we realized something was wrong, he was
hitting his back against a column, probably trying to spit

(30:57):
it out or something. Give me some of the old time. Yeah,
come on man, hello again. It'll be fine, brad Al
we've been crazy.

Speaker 4 (31:10):
Man.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
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(31:53):
and Worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that
happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend?
BMMS and whatever that is to eight two, nine, four five.
We're going to find out the best the worst. Then
we'll go to you guys, So get your text over
to us BMMS and what's the best and worst of
your weekend? Lindsay what's the best and what's the worst.

Speaker 7 (32:11):
Overall? It was a pretty great weekend, I'd say the best.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
My girlfriend Kim and I her her oldest son is
getting married to this upcoming weekend, and so we took
the twins shopping.

Speaker 7 (32:27):
At Cohle's on Saturday, and I had to get them
suits for the wedding.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
Are they in end?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
No, there were guests and and I was gonna not
go with the suit, just you know, ties and dress pants.
But they had suits on sale, and I thought, you
know what Christmas programs at school, they can always use
a shit, you know. And when they came out of
the dressing room in these suits, they looked so handsome.

(32:56):
I about bust into tears.

Speaker 7 (32:58):
I'm like, I I did tear up. I could have cried.
They looked so handsome. I'd never seen them in suits before.
They just looked so good, so grown.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
So it was a really good kind of emotional moment.
And they felt good, like you could see them like, hey,
you know, like they just felt good. So it was
a really nice moment. And then I guess the worst
part of my weekend. Yesterday after church, we stopped by
the grocery store. Uh, And the plan was I only

(33:30):
needed to pick up a few things, so I was
planning on probably spending around.

Speaker 7 (33:34):
Forty dollars and I had the kids with me, and
we left with two hundred and thirty six dollars worth
of groceries.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Oh so you got like one more thing?

Speaker 7 (33:47):
Oh my goodness, yeah crazy. It was, Oh and mom,
we're out of this, and oh can we get this?
And do you mnd, hey, do you mind if we
get some of this? And yeah, go ahead, sure, I mean,
I know it's all gonna get eaten. But it's just
wasn't planning on that.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
Benston worst the weekend? What's the best thing that happened
this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend
BMMS and whatever that is to eight two nine four five.
I'm gonna read your text here in a minute, so
get it over to us. Give me what's the best
and what's the worst? Oh, I think the best part
of the week would have been Saturday. The whole crew
and I got together and celebrated my brother's fiftieth birthday,
which was last week, right, So we grilled out and

(34:29):
we watched football, watched Alabama loose to you. Then I
got to see Georgia run all over Texas. That was awesome.
We partied our little lasses up. Two of my three
kids come to hang out, so got to hang out
with them. My brother taught them how to drive a
front end loader that was kind of neat, and we

(34:50):
just had a great time man partying all afternoon and night.
And I guess the worst part of the weekend. So
I replaced the speakers in my bike right front and back. Right,
Did they need it or do you just want to upgrade?
I wanted to upgrade and get rid of those crampy
factory speakers, those stock ones that were in there, because
one of them was crackling, right, So got them in Friday,

(35:12):
which this is crazy and I, you know, Corbyn, You're like,
I think we live in a simulation, and I'm getting
more and more on board. But this, like, how can
I order speakers and get them the same day? Right?
Amazon's a fantastic thing, but it just blows me away
without you know, going to a store and picking them up.
You know, it's just like boom, they're there. Right, So

(35:34):
they get there Friday afternoon and I goes like, all right, well,
I replaced the speakers in my old bike, so I
knew kind of what I was getting myself into, right,
So it's like, all right, well, uh, let's go ahead
and replace the backs now. They're easy to do today.
And then the next day I go and I start
on the front because I got to take that whole
front faring off right, And that's when I realized, well,

(35:56):
this is totally different than my old bike. Right. Of course,
it's ten years newer, so a lot has changed. Giant
pain in the ding dong, this thing was right. So
after fighting with it and several YouTube videos later, yeah,
I finally get this. I get this speaker pod off

(36:20):
because they're not just flushing out of on there're an
these stupid little pods which great, makes it sound better whatever,
And I go and I'm going based off my knowledge
from my last bike, right thought it might be the same. No, go,
put the front speakers on. Damn wrong size, son of
a bitch. All right, get on Amazon. I want to

(36:42):
return these order some new ones. They get them overnighted, right,
so they show up my doorstep like four in the
morning or whatever. Right, so I had to put that down.
Finally get them all and get the new speakers in.
Da da da da, get everything all buttoned back up.
But before I put the firing back on, I'm like,

(37:03):
I wanna I want to hear this thing and see
what it sounds like. You know, there's a brand new, good,
good quality speakers. Go to turn on the bike. Zero power,
zero power. I said, Holy s And I'm freaking out
at this point. That's a brand new bike. Man, I
just got it. And so I call up my buddy Alan,
he he owns cycle works, right, and I'm like, hey man,

(37:27):
this is what's going on. And he's like, well, here's
what you need to do. Go back through everything that
you unplugged, unplug it again, check the pens. Blah blah blah.
I did all that everything seems fine, and I'm like,
oh crap, I don't want to have to send this
off to get fixed. I don't want to have to
call you know, Route sixty six. Hey, come pick this
thing up. So I googled it. This is what I did,

(37:50):
this is what's happening, and they say, oh, let's start
by checking your fuse box. And I'll be damned. It
was just a blown fuse. Oh right, tell me about it.
So luckily I had some replace the fuse, and it
was just a giant, giant pain in the dong just
getting that replaced pinched my finger, got a nice blood

(38:12):
blister right on the tip of my middle finger, which
I use for damn everything. It hurts. This would be
the argument I have of why I don't do any
of that stuff. Could I do it? Sure? I like
my Saturdays, right, Yeah. It took it took me all
weekend because I started Saturday morning, then realized I got

(38:35):
the wrong size. Well, I ain't got time to mess
with and now I gotta go to the party, And
then woke up the next day hungover, and then spent
the first half of the day getting everything taking care
of it. Oh god, I'm glad it's done, though, I
ain't got to mess with it again. And sounds great,
sounds fan good news. Best and worst of the weekend.

(38:56):
What's the best part of the weekend. What's the worst
part of the weekend? BMMS and would whatever that is
to eight two, nine, four five. We're gonna read yours
in a minute, so get your text to us. Mine
was best was we went to Oklahoma City. It was
a friend's birthday, fortieth birthday, and we did a surprise birthday.
They didn't know we were coming in. They didn't know,
like all these people were converging onto Oklahoma City just

(39:19):
for their birthday, and so that was really awesome. Yeah,
and then the worst part of the weekend is my
wife got super sick and so we had to come
back super early yesterday. Didn't get to sleep in, didn't
get to chill, came back early, so he was in like,
you know, brown bottle flu or just you know, I
think something. She ate the Oh she's got a she's

(39:41):
got a cold heart, but she's got a tender stomach. Man,
that sucks. Best. These are texts that are coming in.
Best drove three hours for a case of beer I
won from BMMS got lunch with the wife. Worst drink
the whole thing this weekend and feeling it at work
this morning. Worst, Oh you eating Alabama and having to
listen to my brother say, oh you doesn't get enough credit. Best.

(40:06):
I'm a Broncos fan and love watching them beat the Chiefs.
Passing the torch in the AFC West settled down that
both teams looked atrocious. There was someone's got to be
first by default, even the worst. If all teams suck,
somebody's got to be first. The best, oh you beating Alabama.

(40:29):
Worst was attending a memorial service for a guy I
used to be best friends with. His body was cremated
and I had the honor of helping dig the hole
that his ashes were buried in at a century old
cemetery out in the country. At least it was a
small hole. Yeah, I have to do a six feet
deep Yeah, well, and you just get a post hole digger.

(40:50):
I would think, Yeah, seems legit. You're not putting an
urn down in there, just the box or the bag
that the ashes gone. You might be doing urn, maybe
you might be doing the iron. Either way, How much
do earns run?

Speaker 3 (41:04):
They can be pricey, They can they can depending on
the material. I think the I'm trying to think.

Speaker 7 (41:13):
How much my dad's how long ago is this in
two thousand and nine? Okay, I think his was run
one hundred bucks.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
Oh, I'm sure it's more than that. Well, let's just
see what Amazon has. I don't know because of the
people that I've been with that have gotten cremated. I
picked it all up in cardboard boxes. So yes, and
you've got to put it in the earn yourself or whatever.

Speaker 4 (41:40):
I mean.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
They got a couple in here. One hundred bucks, seventy
two dollars. Okay. This says adult sized permanent earns are
priced broadly from seventy dollars to two thousand, two hundred
and fifty a standard adult earn that's good, good quality.

(42:01):
You can go ass as four hundred, and when you
use marble or bronze, it goes up even higher. Wow, okay,
Military marble cremation earn two hundred and nineteen dollars. Elegant
gold Mother of Pearl cremation earn seventy four dollars and
ninety nine cents. That's the problem with this stuff is

(42:25):
that you're like, ah, do I you know, put my
parents in a seventy four dollars earned right.

Speaker 7 (42:32):
But I feel like you can get nice looking earns
at hot like hobby lobby.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
Do they sell earns.

Speaker 3 (42:40):
Or similar?

Speaker 2 (42:41):
They look like? Are you talking about bases?

Speaker 4 (42:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (42:45):
They look like more like urns, though I.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
Know I don't think they sell urns at hobby lobby.
They do, there's only one way to find Yeah, No,
they do not sell urns at hobby lobby. Best celebrated
my son's twentieth birthday Friday, worst head on collision with
my dog, causing a one inch gash between my eyes.
Or are you testing ram skills right, let's play chicken

(43:14):
with the dog? Uh. Finally got my family together for
an early Thanksgiving and someone brought the stomach flu to
the party house of twelve people and there was not
enough bathrooms. Ewday, best of the week in Oklahoma, ending
the Bama wind streak. Worst of the weekend. Nothing accomplished
On Sunday. While recovering from Saturday, Best did some work

(43:37):
in the yard and felt like I got a lot done.
I bagged up a dozen bags of leave leaves. Worse
by yesterday, you could barely tell I did anything. I'm
gonna have to move to a neighborhood where a clear
cut everything. Trees are overrated. Everybody loves trees until you
have to rake them.

Speaker 7 (43:52):
Yeah, I feel his pain.

Speaker 3 (43:54):
Every day we are out there getting rid of the
leaves in the backyard, and every next day there again.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Yeah. They had some like horticulture whatever agriculture person asking
them what to do about leaves? Do you need to
rake them? And he was like, no, your best bets
to mo over them and like put them back into
the yard. Yeah, what I do, he said, if you
unless they're in large groups or they're super damp, then
that's obviously a problem. He goes, But overall, just mo

(44:21):
over them, put the nutrients back in the ground. You're like, sure.
Best was my son scored a goal in the Midwest
Lacrosse Championship game. Worst was the round trip to drive
to Saint Louis. Yeah that sucks. Best, Oh, you beat
Bama and Texas lost. Worst my Bengals lost to the Steelers.
Another text. Best made almost one thousand dollars working softball fields.

(44:44):
I hope you're doing like yardwork, like maintenance on the fields.
I hope you weren't working the fields. Worst dragging ass
this morning from working all weekend best Packers barely win
barely worst woke up sick again and Roger breaking his wrist. Uh.
Dad's cost eight hundred dollars. They also buried it in

(45:05):
the wrong plot mid funeral while we were at the
right space. Oh my god, that's horrible. Oh hey, guys,
wait a minute, we're over here. Where's dad? Who's earns that?
That's so wild?

Speaker 5 (45:23):
Ah.

Speaker 2 (45:24):
You take a moment that's already you're super vulnerable, and
then you feel like you shouldn't have to do checks
and bounds. You know, like when you get married and
you have any sort of organization involved, you're like worried
about the food or the flowers or whatever thing, and
that's already stressful. But a funeral, you just assume the

(45:45):
funeral director is going to take care of all that stuff. Right.
But that's I don't know if that's their role. There's
not like a you know, funeral coordinator you hire. No.
I mean it's in the title though, director, you know,
so you're spokes to direct the funeral, right, the funeral,
not the whole process after? Is that not after afterwards?

(46:07):
Not a part of the funeral? I always thought it was,
you know, going to the cemetery or whatever. I always
thought that was part of it. You're the expert. New
and Lindsay are the experts in the room. I mean,
I've been a part of plenty, but I'm planning not one. Yeah, yeah,
I just uh, I want to think about it. Funeral
director handled a lot of it, a lot of the
leg work and stuff, and and uh, all right, well

(46:29):
this is where we're going to bury him, and then
after the service we'll go over there. And yeah, they
did a lot of the work.

Speaker 7 (46:35):
For me, and we didn't. I didn't put my dad
in the ground.

Speaker 2 (46:38):
So right, so you just had a service, yeah, our
funeral director friends that are listening, is that just included
in the price or is that part of We'll come
on over here. We'll show you where the plots are,
right right, you can choose from this map. I do
know that you've got I mean, well, okay, so when

(46:59):
my mom died, they got her in the VFW a lot, right,
And then while my dad was there at Memorial Gardens
dealing with all that, he's like, well, muss, we'll just
go ahead and get mine while I'm here, So I
don't know if that it's separate or not. Yeah, I
don't know, because my dad handled all that stuff with Mama,
and then when he passed, I just kind of Okay,

(47:20):
well he's he's got a plant already. And I would
think a lot of people are so overwhelmed just that
the loss of somebody that they're just they're either a
aren't paying attention or be relieved they don't have to
think of those little details. And understandably so you don't
want to be in that moment being like, Okay, well
do we have this and the is the trumpet guy

(47:41):
gonna be there for the to honor their sacrifice to
the country. Yeah, and do we need a permit? Who
contacts the guy? All Right, we got to take a break.
We got tickets we're gonna give away to the Cancer
Sucks concert and we'll be back. See what Gimpie has
in his four x four. Hear that the FAA is
lifting flight restrictions at airports nationwide. A reduction in flights

(48:05):
at forty major airports began a week ago to help
address fatigue and snapping issues among air traffic controllers during
the record long government shutdown. The decision led to thousands
of flights being delayed and canceled. What else we got here?
Chinese hackers weaponized AI an autonomous global cyber attack.

Speaker 6 (48:27):
N dun dum.

Speaker 2 (48:29):
Artificial intelligence company Anthropic says it has uncovered what it
believes to be the first large scale cyber attack carried
by AI. Carried out by AI. The company blames the
attack on a Chinese state sponsored group of hackers that
used its own tool to have filtrate Giggey to infiltrate

(48:50):
dozens of global targets. Anthropics said the attack started in
mid September and used its clawed code to launch a
spy campaign targeting major tech firms, financial institutions, chemical manufacturers,
and government agencies. The company said the hackers manipulated the
model into working on offensive actions autonomously, and described it

(49:15):
as highly sophisticated espionage operation. Yeah, those are just the
ones we know about. Yeah right, What else we got here? Hey?
GLP one is linked to lower colon cancer mortality ring
What time now? A new study highlights a potential link
between the use of GLP one medications to lower death

(49:38):
rates and colon cancer patients. The University of California, San
Diego study examined data from more than six tho eight
hundred colon cancer patients. It found that the five year
mortality rate was significantly lower at fifteen point five percent
among patients who were using the golp ones compared to

(49:58):
the thirty seven point one percent among those who are not.
Researchers say the fine names are observational, but the signal
that the need for clinical trials to determine if the
drugs can approve cancer survivor rates. And then lastly, here
Sapulpa woman uses lay's money to help others this Thanksgiving.
A Suppupal woman who won one million dollars from a

(50:21):
laz potato chip contest this summer, is using her prize
money to help others, including providing Thanksgiving meals to more
than twenty families and opening a home for disabled men.
Each family will receive a turkey, all the tremens and
even desserts, all handpicked by Paula George herself. Paul has
also helped others with mortgage and rent payments, plus she

(50:42):
recently purchased a property called the Million Miracle House, a
home in Supaulpa for Dessein Lindsay.

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(51:27):
for our listeners are awesome. This is where we chat
with the listener and they share part of their life
with us. And Mark is on the line. Hey Mark,
how are you doing?

Speaker 4 (51:35):
All right? Are you?

Speaker 2 (51:36):
I'm good man? Before I get started, I'm gonna totally
catch you off guard. This is not something in your notes.
I just saw it when I was going through your
pictures on your Facebook page. How tough is it to
be an Oklahoma State fan? Right now?

Speaker 4 (51:49):
It's horrible right now, it's so horrible.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
Yeah, and we should have full disclosure. You don't live
in Oklahoma. You actually live in Thibodaux, Louisiana. What how
is it to be an Oklahoma State fan in Louisiana?

Speaker 4 (52:05):
Oh, it's not that bad. That's the one thing that
down here that not so bad. They don't care what.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
Team you like. So what brought you? What brought you
to Thibodeaux? Uh? Work?

Speaker 4 (52:19):
So we moved down here to start a tank repair company,
you know, like the big oil storage tanks out and
cushing and whatnot. Yeah, so we come out here to
start that and it was all going good and well.
Then COVID hit and everything shut down. So I got
stuck down here.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
And just have it. Haven't looked back, right?

Speaker 4 (52:43):
Oh yeah, I've looked back. I've looked back. So after
our company is shut down, the main thing is right
now is to get home back to still Water area
so we can be back home.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
So pretty much, it says he you've been married twenty years,
which is awesome. Man. Congratulations, How did you meet your wife.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
So my best friend. I've been a friend of their
family for since I was seven years old, eight years old,
and she moved down from California, and I just I
met her through the family, my best friend. So she

(53:26):
moved down from California, like I said, and let's see,
I met her like basically right after she got off
the planet there in Tulsa. So because I went and
helped picked her up and whatnot, like that, didn't know
her or anything, but and you were just getting enough,
you were enamored.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
You were like, holy cow.

Speaker 4 (53:50):
Yeah, I wouldn't say that. I mean, I was like, yeah,
she's pretty, she's good looking. But at the same time,
at that time, I didn't know how old she was,
and I didn't know if we were going to have
anything in common as well.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
So that's usually not something somebody brings up unless there's
another piece of information that's about to fall. So how
old was she?

Speaker 4 (54:11):
She was sixteen at the time when I was nineteen.
Oh wow, it's not like that though, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (54:24):
Hey, nobody like that. Hey, nobody's saying something. You're the
one that's getting get a little shame kicked in, not us.
And what did when did you tell your your family
friends here that you were like, I kind of like her.
I want to ask her out.

Speaker 4 (54:42):
It was actually recommended to me from her cousin.

Speaker 2 (54:48):
So it's like her cousin set you up, like, hey,
you should use.

Speaker 4 (54:51):
Yeah pretty much my cousin. Yeah. Basically yeah, her cousin's like, yeah,
she likes you. Y'all got to go on a date,
all right. And that was probably like a month after
I met her or so.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
So okay, and where did you take her for a date?
The mall?

Speaker 4 (55:15):
Actually we were We all went to the lake and
had fun on Keystone Okay, so that was that was
a that was the date. When did you know you
wanted to marry her? Like you were like, I'm going
to ask her to get married. Let's see. We dated
for probably about four or five months before we decided,

(55:40):
but I would say I broke up with her for
like a week and a half and I just really
missed her, Like we had a lot in common, we
got along and it was worth it, you know, soa
and asked her back out. Six months later, we're you're married.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
So if I'm doing my math correctly, she wasn't eighteen
when you got married. No, Now, how do you legally
work that? How does that work legally?

Speaker 4 (56:14):
So it's just like any other marriage thing that changes
is there has to be like if you're a minor
under eighteen, you have to have just a signature from
a guardian on a piece of paper saying I approve
of it. It's fine. Nothing else like that. No legal

(56:35):
repercussions or anything. It's gonna fall from it. Basically, you've
got to get a letter from her parents. Well, they
have to sign a deal for the state. So when
you go to apply for your marriage license, the parent
has to sign off saying it's fine.

Speaker 2 (56:56):
Like they have to go with you or they did.
The piece paper has to come back signed by the parent.

Speaker 4 (57:00):
All right, piece of paper has come back signed and notarized.

Speaker 2 (57:03):
So okay, And did you go talk to you guys
go together or did you go separately to talk to
her parents?

Speaker 4 (57:13):
Be honest with you, I don't remember. I want to
say she just talked to her talk to her mom
and that was fine. I can only her mom and divorced.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
So okay, I can only imagine the optics on this.
People have made and teased, like teased you and tried
to make jokes. How's that been?

Speaker 4 (57:35):
Well, I mean, I'm from Oklahoma, so he's really not
that bad. I never got any degree from anybody.

Speaker 2 (57:42):
Enough.

Speaker 4 (57:42):
I've seen worse. I have actually seen worse. Yeah, that's
usually not a great argument, though, But it is Oklahoma.
I mean, granted it is not Arkansas, but it is Oklahoma.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
And what are you implying by saying that.

Speaker 4 (58:00):
Pokies do some safety crap? You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (58:02):
Just saying, Well, it clearly you guys were meant for
each other. It's worked out. You guys have been together
a long time. I mean, you have a complete family.
So how did you get into being a welder? Uh?

Speaker 4 (58:17):
Well, I'm from the little town in between Stillwater and
Manford on Highway fifty one. And you had two options.
Either be a welder or you go to college. And
I just wanted to get out of my parents' house,
and so I decided it being a welders what's going
to get me done quicker? So I chose a trade

(58:38):
over school.

Speaker 2 (58:40):
And so you've been doing that your whole life, my whole.

Speaker 4 (58:43):
Life, twenty twenty one years now, twenty two years something
like that.

Speaker 2 (58:49):
Ever had any injuries from welding? Yes, what's the worst.

Speaker 4 (58:57):
I blewe So we have what's called a plast cutter
where you can just cut metal with electric arc, real
real easy. Stuck it on my arm and the trigger
guard the trigger lock wasn't working. Then it blew a
hole into my arm. Oh wow, So that that was
a good one.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Uh.

Speaker 4 (59:18):
We were pulling, we were working inside of a tank,
pulling out a real thin stainless steel aluminum floating roof.
Climbed up on top of that and as thin as
that louminum, that stainless steel was cut right into my
knee and uh probably four inch gas You can see
all the way down.

Speaker 2 (59:36):
To my uh my bone.

Speaker 4 (59:40):
It's on my knee. So that was a good one too.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
Yeah, those are both wild. How big was the hole
in your arm from the cutter? Y? Not very not.

Speaker 4 (59:49):
It wasn't very big.

Speaker 2 (59:50):
It was more of a burn.

Speaker 4 (59:52):
It left a little intention, but not bad. But the
bad part was I was wearing one of those old
navy eyelon polyester thing sweaters and all that melted into
my skin. So that was one of that. That was
the worst part of it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
Did you keep welding or did you have to go
to the hospital.

Speaker 4 (01:00:17):
I just went in, cleaned it up, scraped all the
crap off of it, and went back to work.

Speaker 2 (01:00:23):
Different breed man.

Speaker 4 (01:00:25):
Yeah, I mean, I just that's all you could do,
you know. I mean, it wasn't worth a hospital. What
are they gonna do. They're just gonna throw a band
aid on it, put some antiseptic on it and go
about your day.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
Yeah, something like that. Yeah, and you've traveled the country
doing welding.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Absolutely, what was the lungs You were away from home.

Speaker 4 (01:00:47):
Three months?

Speaker 2 (01:00:50):
That had been hard.

Speaker 4 (01:00:51):
I went from, yeah, it is. It takes a toll
on the family, for sure. It was one of the
worst things. I guess. After a while, it got to
it got to the point where I told her we
were down in Texas South Pod Grey Island, Brownsville area,
working and I told her it's either time for you

(01:01:11):
to come out on the road with me and we
buy a travel trailer, or I'm quitting my job and
I'm finding something at home because I'm tired of traveling
without you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
Yeah, I can't even comprehend how tough that was. Not
to mention when you're on the road that much. Uh,
the there's an easy possibility to start developing some really
bad habits while you're on the road, right.

Speaker 4 (01:01:35):
Yeah, if if for sure, if you're not committed and
you're one of those guys that just think, well different
zip code doesn't count, you definitely developed a lot of
that habit real quick. But fortunately for me, I got
all those bad habits out by the time I was twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
So, well, where was the best like the best place
you went? Maybe you thought it was beautiful, maybe the
weather was what was the best place you went for work?

Speaker 4 (01:02:04):
So I got I got a few of them. Uh,
Northern California, that that place is beautiful. I mean, let's
all get out, going out to the mountains, getting in
the creed, spanning for gold. That was that was pretty fun.
That was one of my best ones. And then going
to d C just to see the history of DC

(01:02:24):
and everything. That was pretty pretty awesome too. And then
I spent some time up in northern Michigan. It's real
pretty and I enjoyed that area as well.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
So it says here that you found a dead body
one time? Was this when you were working on the road.

Speaker 4 (01:02:39):
Yes, yeah, we were in h Angola, Michigan, I mean Angola,
Indiana right there. On the border of Michigan, and uh me,
my family and my buddy went out to eat. I
forgot to eat. They we're going back to the hotel.
We're pull up and as we're trying to pull in,
ambulances coming into there, so like, what the heck's going on?

(01:03:02):
We get up there. My buddy's sitting in the parking
lot because he beat us back to the hotel, and
there was a dead guy hanging out of his truck,
pants pretty much down to his ankles. And that's a story.

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
Like was he masturbating? No?

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
No, I get the story we got back from everybody
after we did all of our statements and stuff. Was
he was doing. He was drinking and it interacted with
his art or something like that, and I don't know
it taught him to get overheated or something. And then

(01:03:44):
he just died right there in the.

Speaker 6 (01:03:47):
Truck.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
Do you still see that body? Like, can you close
your eyes and see it vividly?

Speaker 1 (01:03:55):
No?

Speaker 4 (01:03:55):
No, I donet forgot about that. It's I mean, I
remember the story, but it wasn't traumatizing like you would
think or anything like that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:03):
So it says here that you got rear ended, not
and this isn't related. You got rear ended by a
guy having seizures. Tell me about that.

Speaker 4 (01:04:15):
So we were in Eldorado, Arkansas at the time, and
we went out to get groceries and whatnot. I had
my one of my friend's kids in the back seat
in my car, and I had my three kids in
the back seat, and we stopped at a stoplight, and
I was looking through in the rearview mirror, as I
guess that's what I do. I make pay attention when

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people are coming up behind me, and I noticed this
guy wasn't stopping like, he wasn't slowing down.

Speaker 2 (01:04:42):
He was speeding up.

Speaker 4 (01:04:43):
So I kind of hit the gas just to get
out of the way a little bit as I could,
and I kind of hoped help hopped up on the curb.
He hit the back driver side of my car, which
was on the side that no kid was in on

(01:05:04):
the back seat because we had an Explorer with a
three third row, and he hit the back seat of that,
and I mean, yeah, it was it was crazy. I
got out of the vehicle because I was ready to
go pull the dude out of.

Speaker 2 (01:05:20):
His car and get him.

Speaker 4 (01:05:23):
And then I heard my son trying and That's kind
of what snapped me out of the rage of oh crap,
we're in an accident. I don't need to deal with
that guy.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
I need to deal with this.

Speaker 4 (01:05:32):
So I'm dealing with that, And then come to find
out he was having he wasn't supposed to be driving.
He was having seizures, and he had one while he
was driving hit us going about forty five miles an hour.

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
So nobody got injured in your car.

Speaker 4 (01:05:53):
My son had a little bit of whiplash. Other than that,
the driver's side took the brunt of the impact, which
luckily no kids were sitting on that side because it
did cave it into that back seat, So we got
lucky there. The only other people that had issues was
I had a whiplash and a little bit of neck injury.

(01:06:14):
Other than that, nothing, because I mean, it would have
been worse if I wouldn't have been able to see
it coming and got out of the way as much
as I could.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
And because you had a friend's kid in your car,
were you like not scared? But like, whoa this that
was crazy? Like they're trusting me with their kid.

Speaker 4 (01:06:35):
That happened right, so right as soon as it happened,
made sure everybody's right of called him let him know, hey,
we were rended. Everybody's fine. We're taking the kids, my
son to the hospital to get looked at. And he said,
all right, he just met us up there, and after that,
you know it, it was good. Other than that, you
know so, but yeah, it was real worrisome because you know,

(01:06:57):
I did have somebody else's kid in my hands, so
I felt film as bad as I could.

Speaker 2 (01:07:01):
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. Man. Well listen, it's awesome
talking to you, Mark, and good luck getting back to uh,
you know, Oklahoma. And sounds like you have a great family,
and thanks so much for taking the time.

Speaker 4 (01:07:15):
Yep, no problem. I appreciate you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
All right, man, have a good one. That's Mark. Our
listeners are awesome. We're gonna take a break and we'll
be back.

Speaker 6 (01:07:21):
If you're listening to The Big Man Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
Get your text to me with questions for Jeff Finsley
from Hinsley's associate. It says he will be in the
studio with us here soon to answer your question, so
feel free to get it to us. Show at kmod
dot com, Show at kmod dot com, or you can
text it like I said. I don't know if you
saw this from the other day, but the governor gave
clemency to someone who was on death row and it

(01:07:48):
was recommended by the the board, right, they were like, yeah,
this guy probably should get clemency. And the governor made
a statement. Hold on here, I'm trying to find because
I want to read what he said. But he made

(01:08:09):
a statement about it and why he didn't. Yeah, here
it is, he says, after a thorough review of the facts,
in prayer for all consideration, he had granted clemency. The
guy that was got clemency was is a forty six
year old man. He was convicted of killing a teenager
during a motel robbery back in two thousand and two.

(01:08:31):
So the main reason why the clemency board thought he
should get clemency is because his court appointed attorney admitted
to drinking and using cocaine during the trial. Oh why
would you admit that? Uh? Maybe because being honest. I mean,

(01:08:54):
I guess if you're asked. Maybe he was just so
popped up on the cocaine he just felt guilty. And
it's like I got a complaint, right, or he got caught,
you know, doing something stupid. Yeah, they're like, what you're
hiding up? But to doing it the whole time. This
poor guy on trial, he's like trying to talk to
his guy and he's like, yeah, man, I'll be alright,

(01:09:17):
your honor, I would like to request a break. I
gotta go to the bathroom. Be back, recess. When do
you like to continue? Anytime you want? Man, I'm right there,
go right now if you like, I can go all night, sir.
It's three o'clock in the morning, drinking and yeah, yeah,

(01:09:37):
it's just a party up in the courthouse. Man. I
guess listen. I can't imagine howd it is to be
an attorney, like, especially when you feel like someone's life
is in your hands right as as a state appointed attorney.
People they're looking to you to save them, you know,
if they feel like they're innocent, or they feel like

(01:09:58):
the evidence points that they're innocent, and so I'm sure
there's a lot of stress goes along with it. To me,
I don't know if you need a lot of prayer
on whether you should give someone clemency if their attorney
was high on cocaine. It feels like a pretty black
and white answer to me. Yeah, it doesn't feel like
he got a fair trial.

Speaker 5 (01:10:18):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
Kind of makes you wonder though, like how many other
trials where the lawyer was zooted out on something you know, yeah,
and people get you know, wrongfully locked up for it.
My biggest argument while I'm against the death penalty, Let's
just say one hundred people have a ten or innocent
or had somebody zooted out, right, I feel like those

(01:10:41):
ten people shouldn't die. Right, right, You're dead because your
lawyer likes to party, right, he likes to get some
of those Malabi miles in Man, he's in his Mercedes
doing bumps right, a little keep. All right, well, let's
go what it's like at h It is it flight

(01:11:04):
the Denzel Washington movie, right where he stays up just
drinking binge drinking because he's an alcoholic, and then he's
got to go to his little quarter point or whatever,
you know. So that's when John Goodman's character comes in.
He's like, all right, I'm gonna need an eight ball
of cocaine and da da da dad and a pack
of new Ports or something like that. You are mis

(01:11:26):
selling what happens? Yeah, great movie. So Denzel Washington plays
a pilot, who that's just what he does. Drinks, he
flies whatever. The plane crashes, but he saves everybody, saves
everyone by doing an amazing barrel role. Yeah, and a jetliner.
You could make the he probably could make the argument

(01:11:46):
that if he wasn't intoxicated, he probably wouldn't have made
those gambles, right, But he saved everybody's life. No, that's
that's whatever. They obviously find out he's been drinking, and
he gets in trouble. He has to go do a testimony,
and they he cleans himself up. He meets these people
on along the way whatever what's her name from Yellowstone

(01:12:10):
plays the love interest in it anyway, So he like
kind of cleans his life up, and they the night
before they stay at a hotel close to where this
was happening, I guess, and they put him in a
room they remove the mini bar. I mean, they need
him straight as an arrow, and so he's in there.
The heavyness of the moment gets to him. He starts

(01:12:33):
like feening, sweating, and he breaks into the adjoining room
to get to the mini bar, which I don't think
there would be enough alcohol now in there, And only
in resorts have I ever seen alcohol in a room
in the mini bar Okay, Yeah, usually it's like, if anything,

(01:12:55):
a bottle of water, but maybe a beer, maybe a bottle,
a small bottle of wine left over from the person
that brought it in before. Yeah yeah yeah. Now maybe
if this was in the seventies, maybe it was different.
I don't know. I can't imagine they were just letting
mini bottles of liquor just run amuck in a hotel room, right,
But maybe they weren't. And he just gets annihilated like

(01:13:18):
he he again, there had to have been so much
liquor in that room for him to just get washed
right to where he can't function the next day. Yeah. Yeah.
And then they called John Goodman in who used to
be his buddy, not a good influence, all those things. Yeah,
and he just gets him straight as an arrow. Yeah.

(01:13:41):
October eleventh, twelfth, thirteenth, and fourteenth, I was drunk. I
was drinking all those days that pops up all the
time on TikTok Around October eleven, they like it's time
to celebrate Denzel days. Yeah, he he played that to me.
White be one of his best characters behind training day okay,

(01:14:04):
and he's had some amazing roles. Yeah, I don't think
there's any Denzel movie that I've watched and I'm like, well,
that was a turd. He's phenomenal actor all the way around.

Speaker 7 (01:14:16):
I even like him in Training Day, though I don't
like him as a bad guy.

Speaker 2 (01:14:20):
Okay, you don't have to like him, but you can
go he's pretty good at him.

Speaker 3 (01:14:23):
Oh he is?

Speaker 2 (01:14:25):
Yeah, I can't think you're right? Can be? I can't
think of one movie. I even saw that movie Fences,
which is more of a Broadway show they made into
a movie and it's kind of an awkward watch. But
I think he's he's great in that. Yeah, the Equalizer
series is amazing. Yeah, I'm just kind of scrolling through. Yeah,

(01:14:48):
I haven't found anything yet. What about carbon Copy with
him and George Sigal? To be fair, I have not
seen that, but I'm sure it's fantastic. On toob Walter Whitney,
who's played by George Segal, is a successful executive who
resides in an upscale southern California suburb. Like all of
his friends and neighbors, Walter is white, and he is

(01:15:10):
shocked when he learns his he has a son. He
never knew about a black teenager called Robert Porter played
by Denzel Washington. Spite his surprise, he welcomes Roger into
his home. Unfortunately, the less accepting missus Whitney boots both
of them out of the house, and Walter's racist boss
fires him, leaving him in a tough spot. Yep, well,

(01:15:35):
I'm gonna put that on my list watch that eventually. Sure,
you know, what was on last night was Trading Places,
and it's just, oh god, it's so good. And I
came in right at the scene where Jamie Lee Curtis
shows a boos. No, that is a great scene. But
as they were getting taken at gunpoint to the back
of the train and the girl is in there and
all that, and mister Beeks gets popped in the head,

(01:15:58):
and but dan Achard has blackface. Yeah, and I'm not
laughing that he had blackface. I'm laughing at just it
was fine, right, just walking through the train, It's fine.
Here's Eddie Murphy just like, yeah, so we're gonna have
dan Ackreid wear blackface. And You're like, yeah, well no,

(01:16:20):
it's a it's a costumed Corbyn, right, obviously cool cool
pool you pooh oh, you're German. No, I'm from Speeding. Yeah.
That movie's so good. Oh yeah, still good. Yeah. All right,

(01:16:43):
we gotta take a break. We're gonna reset. We gotta
take a break. We'll be back. Good morning, Lindsay, Good
morning Corbin.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
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Speaker 7 (01:17:05):
Bitch on the other.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
Good morning, gimp be well, Good morning Corbyn. Hey, don't
forget the annual twenty eight hour toy drives coming up
December third and fourth of Dave and Busters all benefit
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join us on the line now is Jeff Hensley from
Hensley and Associates. Good morning Jeff, Good morning Corbin, and

(01:17:32):
Jeff is here to answer any question that has to
do with family law and custody, guardianship, name change, any
of those things. A couple bays to do it. Eight
three three four six. Oh, KMOD, you can email it
show at kmod dot com or text PMMs and whatever
your question is to eight two nine four five. I
don't imagine this is what you would recommend, Jeff, But
I came across a news story where a man changed

(01:17:53):
his name every year to avoid pain child support.

Speaker 6 (01:17:58):
Well, yeah, it's definitely something not technically it's not even allowed.
I mean, typically when you go to change your name,
one of the questions that is asked is that you're
not doing it for fraudulent purposes. And obviously this individual,
whoever it was, is doing it for absolute fraudulent purposes,
so us so they can track people down. I mean
a lot of times these things are traced by social

(01:18:19):
Security numbers, data verse, which don't change in the name change.
So yeah, definitely wouldn't suggest it because you're committing fraud.
And but as many times as he's done it, there's
a potential for some criminal liability there, I would think. So, yeah,
not a wise thing to do at all.

Speaker 2 (01:18:34):
If you can't pay. What is your best recommendation to
give people that are like, hey, I don't think I
can pay this amount.

Speaker 6 (01:18:43):
Well, we can always modify based upon your income. But remember,
at least in the state of Oklahoma, they don't care
if you have debts. And what I mean by that
is is a lot of people think, well, you know,
I know my income says this, and I bring it home.
But after you know, I pay for my mortgage and
my insurance and you know, all these credit card debts
and everything else, I just don't have any money left.

(01:19:04):
I will tell you they don't care. Unfortunately, they don't
take any of that into that account. And so it's
one of those things that if it's oled, it's old. Now.
If you have lost your job and your income is changed,
or you've been laid off or something like that, we
can always modify it down during those times obviously, so
you can make it more affordable, but at the end
of the day, if there's an order to pay, it

(01:19:25):
has to be paid or you potentially could face going
to jail and paying fines.

Speaker 2 (01:19:31):
Eight three three four six Oh KMOD is the phone number.
You can also email show at kmod dot com or
text bmms and whatever your question is to eight two
nine four five. Like this one. It says, my ex
keeps showing up at my job even though we're not together.
Is that harassment or like a protective order thing?

Speaker 6 (01:19:50):
Absolutely? If I mean that is definitely harassment. Whoever this is,
please please go get a protective order. They should not
be showing up at your job and bugging you and
harassing you and and just you know, being creepy as
I'll get out. So please go to your county courthouse
and get a protective order because it's definitely definitely harassment
material and should not be happening. Do not stop your

(01:20:14):
exes at their places of work. That is not an
okay thing to new people.

Speaker 2 (01:20:18):
Uh eight three three four six KMOD is the phone
number to ask your question about family law with Jeff
Hensley from Hensley Associates and Justin is on. Hey Justin?
How are you?

Speaker 8 (01:20:29):
I'm good?

Speaker 2 (01:20:30):
Are you good? What's your question for? Jeff Hensley of
Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 8 (01:20:34):
Yeah, So I have a daughter that will turn eighteen
in March of next year. I'm been paying child support
and all of that is caught up. However, I got
a notification recently from oh Hello to reassess the child.

Speaker 6 (01:20:54):
Sport right, So you had a letter from DHS says
they're going to reassess the child. Is that what you
were saying. You cut out for a minute.

Speaker 4 (01:21:03):
Yes, that's it.

Speaker 8 (01:21:04):
And my biggest deal is I know that. So she's
now married, they've got a six child household, and her
husband owns a plumbing company, and I just she's claiming
that she makes like much less than I know they
have coming in.

Speaker 6 (01:21:22):
It's not based on the well, remember, it's not based
on their income. It's based upon her income, which she
makes alone. It doesn't matter if she's married to Warren Buffett. Okay,
it's what her income is. And so if she's making
a certain amount and it's minimum wage or whatever it

(01:21:42):
may be, that's what it is. It's not based on
household incomes. And so they are going to assess it
at her amount, not at what her family amount is.
And you know they, if DHS has enough time, they
will do these reassessments. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't.
But I will tell if you've get a child out
in March, it's next year. I assume they're graduating in May.

(01:22:04):
Is that correct after they turn eighteen?

Speaker 2 (01:22:06):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (01:22:07):
Good, So what we need to do is you'll still
have to pay until they graduate in May. What we
need to do is start the modification process at least
in March.

Speaker 2 (01:22:15):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:22:16):
If they're doing an assessment now, we could probably get
them to hold off until your child turns eighteen in
March and then start doing the termination process. So if
you give your name a number to Gimpe, I will
have my office give you a call this week and
we'll talk about a plan on how to attack this
for you.

Speaker 2 (01:22:32):
Okay, perfect, Hang on the line there from justin Jeff
Finsley's in the studio or with us. If you have
a question about divorce or custody or guardian ship or
any of those things, Jeff can't answer it. A couple
of ways to get your question to us eight three
three four six oh kmod eight three three four six
oh kmod. Or you can text a BMMS and whatever
your question is to eight two nine four five. This
one has to do a child sport. It says, my

(01:22:54):
ex keeps saying I'm behind on payments, but I've got
the receipts. How do I prove it? I want you
to answer that in two ways, Jeff. One, just because
your X says that doesn't mean anything right, and also
how do you prove it?

Speaker 6 (01:23:06):
Well, I mean, if you're paying, if you've got receipts
and you can prove it, then you know, first of all,
you're covered. Second of all, just because she says you're
behind doesn't necessarily mean that that's correct. I mean, if
you're paying through DHS, it's very simple to get a
record of payment and figure out exactly are you behind
or are you not behind? Those kind of things. So
if you know you're paying through DHS, whether it's because

(01:23:28):
they're an interested party because you've got sooner care on
one of the kids or something like that, or if
it's an income assignment where they're just to pass through,
we can find out what the record is. But we
need to sit down and figure that out because if
if you are indeed behind, we need to address it.
We need to get it taken care of so that
you don't keep getting deeper and deeper, because the longer

(01:23:48):
you go on, the more interest you wrack up. So
you know, whoever this says, please give us a call.
We'd love to help you through that. But don't just
listen to the other side. There are ways to find
out facts, get the information and assess what we need
to do next.

Speaker 2 (01:24:01):
Jeff Finsley's with us eight three three four six oho.
KMOD is the phone number. You can also email show
at kmod dot com and you can also text bmms
and whatever that question is to eight two nine four five.
This one says sorry, I lost it. It had to

(01:24:21):
do with pickup. Oh here it is. My ex keeps
changing pickup times and now says I can't have my
daughter if I'm late?

Speaker 4 (01:24:28):
Can she do this?

Speaker 6 (01:24:30):
Well, it depends, And what I mean by that is
is let's define what late means. I mean, typically there's
a fifteen minute windows. What we typically tell clients is
that if someone's not there within fifteen minutes, then they've
four footed their visitation. However, if they're communicating, hey, I'm
late because there's a wreck on one sixty nine and

(01:24:50):
it's down to one lane traffic and we're inching along
and it's nothing that I can control, and I'm doing
my best to get there. As long as you're staying
in contact with what's going on, you know they should
wait until you get there. But if they're not communicating
and they're just leaving you high and dry, then you know,
you wait fifteen twenty minutes and then you leave. It's
one of those things that you shouldn't be stuck out

(01:25:12):
there for an hour waiting for somebody to show up.
There's there's a problem with it for two reasons. A
the kids expecting you, okay, the parent to show up,
and if they're being late, that puts a lot of
stress and anxiety on the children as well as the
parent that's trying to exchange the child. So you know, again,
if you're going to be late, that's fine, but you
need to communicate it, and you need to communicate every
step of the way where you are, why you're late,

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how far out you are, and keep them updated along
the way. You can't just blow them off and not
show up or not tell them what's going on.

Speaker 2 (01:25:41):
Jeff Hemsley's with us eight three three four six oh kmod.
You can also email show at kmod dot com or
text bmms and whatever your question is to eight two
nine four five. He's here to answer any question that
has to do with child support or family law. Name change.
Adoptions are something that Jeff talks about doing and likes doing.
So if that's something you're interested in or you have questions,

(01:26:03):
now it's time to get your question to us. Show
at kmod dot com, text BMMS and whatever your question
is to eight two nine four five, or you can
call it eight three three four six. Oh kmo D.
This text that came in says you mentioned showing up
at work, but my ex keeps texting me NonStop. Is

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that harassment or are they just being annoying?

Speaker 6 (01:26:27):
Nope, that's arrassment too. I mean if they are continually
texting you over and over. I mean if you're getting
twenty to fifty texts a day or ten to twenty
or whatever, that's harassment. Okay, People, especially with digital access
to things, just don't understand these days that no means no.
Stop texting me means stop texting me. That doesn't mean, oh,

(01:26:48):
I'm kidding, keep texting me because I like being annoyed.
I mean that if they continue to do that, and
it's a consistent pattern and it's large amounts of texting,
then yes, absolutely that is grounds for protective order. Please
go and get one for harassment because that should not
be happening. That is not okay.

Speaker 2 (01:27:06):
I want your input on this. When I was going
through a situation with an X and how to protective
order and I went to court for harassment, I can't
I couldn't help but feel how silly I was being
about phone calls and showing up at work for my
protective order when all the other ones I were hearing
were far more intense.

Speaker 6 (01:27:27):
Yeah, but every case is different. I mean again, we
should not we the people should not have to live
in fear of or excess showing up at our work
or blowing up our phones or you know, doing those
kind of things. Once a relationship is over, it's over.
That doesn't mean keep trying harder, stupid. I mean, it's
one of those things that you have a right to
your own peace of mind and your own peace and quiet,

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and if someone is violating that, you have a right
to do something about it to protect that. If they
don't get the idea that it's over, then there are ways.

Speaker 4 (01:28:00):
To deal with that.

Speaker 6 (01:28:01):
Especially again, if they're blowing your phone up twenty to
fifty times a day, that is harassments, like, very plain
and simple. There's no two ways around it. Same thing
with showing up at work. If they're showing up for
your work several times a day, every single day for
weeks on end, that's backside stalking, definitely harassment. So you know,
again you are entitled as a human being to your

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own piece and quiet, and if they're violating that, there
are ways to deal with that.

Speaker 2 (01:28:27):
Jeff Finsley's with us from Hensley and Associates eight three,
three four six O KMOD. You can text BMMS in
whatever your question is to eight two, nine four or five,
or you can email show at kmod dot com. This
one says, do I need to call DHS if I
start a new job to let them know for child
support payments or will they just automatically start taking them?

Speaker 6 (01:28:47):
Well, if you switch jobs, okay, and let's let's look
at it from two aspects. A. Let's assume that the
job you changed to is not a change in income.
You're just letting them know that you're moved to a
different place so they can start taking the money out
of that instead of your previous job. Yes, that is
something that would be considered very rudent to do. Now,
if you move to a new job and your income

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has gone up or gone down, it requires a modification.
That is something that you are going to have to
file yourself, which is why you would want to call
us so that we can get that modification file. And
not only will we be dealing with the modification, but
obviously we'd be dealing with the issue of letting them
know about the new job and so they can start
taking that out of your check as well. But yeah,
I mean, if it's a literal position move and the

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income hasn't changed and you're just working at a new place, yes,
you need to let them know and understand that there's
probably going to be a thirty to forty five day
window before they can start taking it out of your
check at your new place because they have to process
all the paperwork. They have to send it to the
new employers to process it, who then has to send
it back to the Central registery in Oklahoma City and
all these other things. And so that gap, and the

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reason I bring this up is that gap. If you
don't see money being taken out of your check, you
need to pay that money directly to DHS estimate it's
counted uh and not missed. Otherwise you will be behind
and it will not be their fault. It will be
your fault. And it's not because some people say, well
that's not fair, I let them know they should be
taken care of this. Well, again, there's a processing window

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on the lows specifically the states that you are the
one that's in charge of making sure it gets taken
out and paid. So if there is a window, please
pay DHS or the other side keeps some sort of
record so that you don't miss the payment and get behind.
But yeah, there's definitely ways to handle that.

Speaker 2 (01:30:28):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is with us eight three
three four six, Oh, kmo d You can also email
show at kmod dot com. Show at kmod dot com,
or you can text bmms and whatever that question is
to eight two nine four five and Janie is on
the phone. Hi, Jane, how are you?

Speaker 6 (01:30:50):
I'm all right?

Speaker 2 (01:30:52):
What's your question for? Jeff Finsley?

Speaker 5 (01:30:55):
Okay, I want to know how I can get complete
cutty of my daughter. Her father has nothing to do
with her, doesn't pay to support, doesn't live in the
same state. We can't even get a hold of them
for a child sports or anything.

Speaker 6 (01:31:10):
But okay, so here's here call them.

Speaker 7 (01:31:11):
Here's my first question.

Speaker 6 (01:31:14):
Well, here's my question, and that's what I was going
to ask you is is are there any existing orders
from any court in any state that sets forth who
has custody? I mean, were you guys ever married or
was it just a boyfriend girlfriend situation?

Speaker 5 (01:31:26):
What was it? Yeah, a boyfriend girlfriend situation for twenty
two years?

Speaker 6 (01:31:32):
Okay. And did you ever, I mean, was there any
common law marriage tied to that? Did you guys ever
file taxes married filing jointly?

Speaker 2 (01:31:41):
No?

Speaker 6 (01:31:42):
Okay. I only asked because there's a different way to
answer it, if you if we'd had to do with
the common law issue in your case. In the state
of Oklahoma, the law is very clear and says that
mom has sole custody until dad gets off his button
does something about it in the court of law. So
you don't have to do anything at this point because
under the law you automatically have sole custody of your child.

(01:32:06):
That's just the way Oklahoma is. It's been that way
since November first of twenty eleven, so for the last
fourteen years and a couple of days now, that's what
we've been living under. And so you've already got custody.
You don't have to worry about filing anything in court
or spending any money whatsoever on getting custody. You already
have it under the statue here in Oklahoma.

Speaker 5 (01:32:28):
Okay, Is there like anyway physically that I can get
proof of that. I mean, like do the courthouse or something.

Speaker 6 (01:32:37):
Because it's called it's title.

Speaker 2 (01:32:40):
Tell me.

Speaker 6 (01:32:42):
It's title ten, sub section seventy seven hundred and it's
Here's what I want you to do. Give your name
and number to GIMPI. We will call you. I will
give you the exact statue and I will email it
to you. What are you needing this quote proof for though?
That's what I don't understand.

Speaker 5 (01:32:57):
I'm trying to buy a house and it's a restriction
requirement and buying it that I need so causty. I
have to have fifty one percent or writer of test
ever to be able to be applied to applying for
this program.

Speaker 6 (01:33:14):
Well, whoever you're talking to, you should already know the law.
If they don't, then I would be a little suspect.
But you know again, give your name Numa Gimpe. We
will call you and we will walk you through this.
We will help with everything that we can to try
and get this taken care for you.

Speaker 2 (01:33:29):
Okay, Okay, hang on the line there so Gimpy can
get your info. These things can get complicated and just
as simple as this situation that Jeff was talking to
that lady about It should be pretty simple, but sometimes
they get a little bit complicated, and that's why you
need to have good representation to help you navigate how
this works in not just family law court, but any court.

(01:33:50):
That's why you need Hensley Associates. If you call them
at three nine eight five six ninety two and mention KMOD,
they're going to give you a free consultation to talk
through your situation and help you out. That's nine one
eight three nine eight five six nine two. And if
you find yourself in other areas of the law, Jeff
can help with that as well.

Speaker 6 (01:34:08):
I'm silly through our office in BOHSCA and don't worry
about the location. We may go all over the state.
If you've got anything in addition to family law, you know,
give him a call and give Sam Allison a call
up there. He can help you with, you know, any
criminal matters. We do quite a few up there, and
it doesn't matter where the criminal matter is. We can
help no matter what county. If you've got probate issues,
if you need a will or trust trap to up,

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or you've got a piece of land you need to sell,
or an oil and gas issue, or you know, a
car wreck or anything you've got going on. In addition
to family law, we can definitely give you help with that.
Call Sam Allison in Pasca. If the name of the
firm a shoemake. But if you can't remember that, and
it is our firm, we just left the name because
it's been there since the seventies. If you can't remember

(01:34:49):
the name, give us a call at Hinsley and Tulsa
and we will get you hooked up with Sam and
his staff up there.

Speaker 2 (01:34:54):
Eight nine eight three nine eight five six nine nine
eight five six nine two. Fornsley associates mentioned KMOD and
Jeff and the folks are going to help you out.
Nine one eight three nine eight five six nine two
Jeff have.

Speaker 6 (01:35:06):
A great week, thinks, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:35:08):
All right, we'll be back. There's a lot of misconceptions
about video games, and I'm gonna give you some. We'll
start old and move to modern. And these again, these
are all misconceptions. They are not true. Pong was the
first video game, okay, we thought it was right. It
was released in June of nineteen seventy two, But there

(01:35:31):
were a couple before that, like Tennis for two Ooh,
isn't that just Paul? No, that was created in nineteen
fifty eight by the guy who then went on to
create Atari in the game. Oh, then they create another

(01:35:55):
game called Space War. And in the game that was
created with some other MIT students, you fired torpedoes at
one another. Okay, And a year before Pong was released,
they created they released a coin operated version of the
game called Computer Space. Huh. How about that though, Yeah,

(01:36:17):
here's another video game, the video game Crash of nineteen
eighty three. Huh. Was a global phenomenon caused by the
ET game. Again, this is not true. Some of you
may be living under a rock and unaware about the
great global phenomenon called the video game crash of nineteen
eighty three. And that's okay. It's a historic crash in

(01:36:41):
the video game market that happened in nineteen eighty three.
And people equate that around pac Man being released in
eighty two. That it, you know, kind of tent pulled
everything up right. And I remember that ET game as
not being good. Yeah, I don't think I've ever played it.

Speaker 7 (01:37:03):
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:37:07):
Oh yeah, that looks terrible. Oh yeah, no, it was
not an awesome game. ET was boring and had an
annoying habit of falling into holes. A five million copies
were made and only one point five million were sold. Well,
I'll bet you if you got a copy of this
is worth some money. Though now you think so just

(01:37:27):
because of the rarity behind it. Maybe a terrible game,
but yeah, the rarety behind it. So the next one
I'm going to say about that's a misconception. You're gonna
have a hard time accepting it because you're gonna do
this thing where we as a society human beings will go, well,
that isn't true for me, therefore it must not be true.

(01:37:48):
So you're gonna have to not let your panties get
all tight when I say this. If your Nintendo system
didn't work, you were supposed to blow in it. That
is not true. Oh no, no, I just I just
said it really worked every time though. Every time? Yeah,

(01:38:12):
uh so, the way it worked was when you put
your cartridge into the system, the pins were supposed to
uh line up inside the console and things could go wrong.
We thought there was dust or maybe just need a
little bit of a fit that would help make the connection.
And so you remove the game blowing on it. And
certing again, and then basically you were just trying again

(01:38:36):
that's it. Well, I hit the reset but it didn't work.
Then they down blow. It works every time. Nintendo even
put out statements saying do not blow into your game
packs or systems. The moisture in your mouth can corrode
and contaminate the pin connectors. So you were doing it wrong,

(01:39:04):
your dummies. Here's another misconception. Donkey Kong is a mistranslation
of Monkey Kong. There's a Monkey Kong. No, that that's
they they misinterpreted. It was supposed to be Monkey Kong,
but it turned out to be Donkey Kong. But that's
this again. This is not this is not true. Anybody

(01:39:26):
who knows the game Donkey Kong that it's it was
really about Mario. Yeah, but they the donkey took the credit, yeah,
for the game. It was before Mario was even Mario. Correct.
It was a jumpman or something like, yes, he's a carpenter, yes,
and he was trying to save his girlfriend, Pauline horrible name.

(01:39:50):
Did he pick her up in Kentucky? What it feels
like Northeast? But I hear it, h Mario. Hey, in
the rumor, was that it was a result of a mistranslation.
But the story goes that it was supposed to be
Monkey Kong and accidentally got mistranslated from Japanese to English.

(01:40:13):
Other versions blame of blurry facts or a bad phone connection. Ah.
The true story is that Shagiru Miamato. He says that
he intentionally chose the word donkey because he wanted the
word to represent the character's stubbornness. Okay, okay. Another misconception.

(01:40:35):
I don't know about this one. Maybe GIMPI does. There
was a cheat code that made Laura Croft appear naked. Oh,
I did not know about that. Again, it's a misconception.
This is not real. But the gaming world is always
full of rumors. There's a ton of hidden features in games.
It goes way back. The Konami code comes to mind.

(01:40:57):
Right up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, start
or select start if your two player, and so it
doesn't surprise me that these things were out there. It
was called the nude code, and it was commonly discussed
on boards for those that don't know what those are.
That was just like a bulletin board essentially where you

(01:41:18):
posted notes, but not really. It was all computer generated anyway,
and it was a code where you could get Laura
Croft in the ninety six game Tune Raider to be
naked if you pushed the right buttons. Hey, now, that's
just about life. The creators of the game were pissed
and annoyed and quote even during development, someone in management,

(01:41:42):
perhaps half jokingly asked us for something similar, and we
told them to blank off. There wasn't anything in the
game that did that, But there was a fan made
patch for the PC sometime after the release. What was
a little surprising as how long the publisher leaned into it.
Those were the days when all publicity was seen as good,

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regardless of how it depicted the character. So then another misconception,
I think I can hear you. Yeah, I can hear Gimpei.
He can't hear us right now. Another misconception is that

(01:42:30):
you can find Bigfoot in GTA San Andreas, which was
Bigfoot in San Andreas, Big GTA Grand Theft Auto San Andreas.
That is a misconception. That's not a thing. That's not real.
Now I don't play GTA, so I don't know. I

(01:42:55):
don't know how if that that works, If that is
a thing, all right, I guess my head punts to
a cut upon me while you were talking now about
this GTA because yes, school, you can find Bigfoot in
GTA San andres uh Ooh okay, I know aliens are
involved in GTA five. I've heard of the bigfoot thing before,

(01:43:16):
but I never really searched it out. It came out
in two thousand and four on PS two, players were
claiming that they were having Bigfoot sightings in the remote
forest in the back oh beyond area. Okay, whatever that means.
That's technical for way out there. And in twenty thirteen,

(01:43:36):
The New Yorker covered it, and then online communities were
debating the existence for a decade. People even uploaded YouTube video,
images of footprints and other evidence to try and prove
that Bigfoot was in GTA, despite the fact that Rockstar
denied Bigfoot's existence in a magazine after the game's release.

(01:43:57):
The former CEO of Rockstar once put it up, there
is no Bigfoot, just like in real life. Oh that's
not a good statement, yeah right, you just don't want
us to know. Rockstar put big Bigfoot in GTA Auto five.
You can see him through a thermal scope in a
mission called Predator there's also a man dressed as Sasquatch

(01:44:19):
in the last one side quest. And if you have
a lot of time and you've already finished GTA five,
you can collect all twenty seven payote plants hidden around
the game, then find the golden Payote and with that
you'll have the ability to turn into Bigfoot, which makes
you stronger. So I've done the payote trip before. I
didn't collect all of them and get the golden one

(01:44:40):
to turn into Bigfoot, but I did turn into a
pug one time and just went around town biting people
for fun. Yeah, the last one here. That is a misconception.
Psychology experts agree that games cause violence.

Speaker 4 (01:44:56):
That is not true.

Speaker 2 (01:44:58):
That has been something people have outed for a long time.
That has especially in the nineties. Any FPS game, first
person shooter for those that don't know, doom, things like that,
people said that it was because of those things. In
twenty twenty three, the Stanford Brainstorm Lab, because they sound
completely focused and trustworthy with a name like that, published

(01:45:21):
their findings after reviewing eighty two medical research articles about
video games and violent behavior. They found that there was
no evidence of a casual link between the two. A
twenty twenty meta analysis of twenty eight studies with a
total of twenty one thousand subjects came to the same conclusion.
The US judicial branch came to the same conclusion. In

(01:45:42):
twenty fifteen, the Supreme Court struck down a California law
that bands selling violent video games to miners. They wrote,
psychological studies purposing to show a connection between exposure to
violent video games and harmful effects on children do not
prove that such exposure causes miners to act of great regressively.
Any demonstrated effects are both small and indistinguishable from effects

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produced by other media. I remember when Columbine happened. They
blamed video games a music. Oh yeah, it's always been
a thing, violent video games. It's reason, it's reasons for
all the trouble in the world nowadays. Shut up. The
American Psychological Association quote their resolution on violent video game
reads attributing violence to violent video game is not scientifically

(01:46:28):
sound and draws attention away from other factors. Yeah, like
you being a parent. Right. The only reason I did
the whole thing was to get to that one. Video
games do not cause violence. They're fun. Nobody believes they're
a sponge running through hurting people. I saw the sponge

(01:46:48):
do it, therefore I should be able to do it.
All right, We got to take a break and we'll
be back. Four of them. Big Mad Morning Show is
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