BMMS 2-3-25

Welcome Back From The Weekend!! We  Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, DOn't Go Grocery Shopping At The Beggining Of The Month, Watch Out For That Fish, Daddy's Phone Has Child Porn On It, We Spoke To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, & You Made How Much Doing Porn?!?!?!?

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You've got best and worst of the weekend. What's the
best thing that happened to you this weekend and the
worst thing that happened to you this weekend? And we
have our listeners are awesome. We'll speak with a listener,
we'll share their story with us. And if you're going
through a divorce or you find yourself needing to figure
out custody, or maybe you just don't like your name.

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in the studio at nine Jeff from Hissey and Associates,

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We'll be here. The Grammys were last night, and I
typically don't get too much into the Grammys, but I
checked it out a couple of times last night. I
thought it was uh. I thought it was pretty good.
I thought it was entertaining. I thought the categories were
pretty tight. But there were a couple of things that
I was kind of not put off by, but kind

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of confused and one of them, and they were all
pretty great categories. I mean, everybody. There were so many
good artists like take Country for example, Laney Stapleton, the Beyonce.
There were so many good albums that maybe you could
argue any of them one but I'm not a country guy,

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but Lanny Wilson may have one of the best country
albums in like decades. Casey Musgrave's album is ridiculously good.
Chris Stapleton's album is really good. Beyonce's Album's really good.
I just couldn't believe that she won for that album, right,
which Beyonce did. Yeah, Beyonce did. It feels like.

Speaker 6 (05:14):
When it comes to the Grammys and the country shows
have their own country music award shows too, you know.
So it feels to me like they do that because
she's more of a artist that would perform at the
Grammys and not you know what I mean, and not
a traditional country artist. They and I feel like they

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always say, oh, well, the Country Awards, they have their
own show and awards, so let's give it to someone
who's not necessarily country.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
If I'm not mistaken, she wasn't even up for country
album that the year in the Country Awards. Wow. Yeah,
but nonetheless, So I just thought that was a real
The pop group was really good. The performances were really,
really good. But there's one thing that stuck out to
me as super bizarre, and that is they were highlighting
Los Angeles and supporting that community, and I thought they

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did a really good job of that. A lot of
the artists came out were like, you know how important
it was to them. They had those artists all performing
the classic song I Love La. It was really good. Right,
I thought all of that stuff was really good. And
they kept pointing to a QR code that was on
the screen for us to donate, And all I could

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think about was I could name at least five artists
there that are worth four billion dollars, five billion dollars
that could easily donate. We'll just take Jay Z as
an example, worth over two billion dollars. If he gave
one hundred million dollars, which is crazy, that's only three

(06:50):
percent of his worth. But do you understand he would
be looked like that would cantapult him. He could cheat
as many times as he wanted. And how that's just
And again it's their prerogative whether they do or not. Right,
maybe they did, Maybe they gave it a couple thousand. Yeah,

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I think if you're worth millions and millions and billions.

Speaker 8 (07:14):
You can come off more than just a thousand dollars.

Speaker 6 (07:18):
A couple thousand dollars, that's probably what he spends at
the grocery store.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
Well, doubtful. Taylor Swift billion dollars if she gave six percent, right,
one hundred million dollars, that would be insane. That's two
hundred million dollars they would get from two people. Yeah,
But instead they're like, no, you donate right right right?

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Just google real quick.

Speaker 8 (07:47):
American billionaires right of twenty twenty four, just trying to
see how many we have, right, because you are one
hundred percent right, these people could take just a small
percentage what was would you say, three percent? Three percent
of what they have and help out tremendously completely rebuild.
So of course you got Musk and Zuck, right, Uh,

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there's Alice Walton, sure, Julia Kotch, Michael Dell, Larry Page.
And that's just a quick Google search, and that's like
out'll phil right, you know just those one, two, three, four, five, six,
whatever six of those could rebuild that entire community.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Well, I don't know, I think you'd rebuild, but they
definitely help out a lot. I help out, yeah, for sure,
for sure.

Speaker 8 (08:33):
But instead, you know, it's like, hey, I know that
things are really hard for you right now, and you're
having a tough time even buying eggs.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
But come on, come on, I mean, throw a dollar
in the hat. Would you three percent of your total
net worse right across the board? If you did that forever,
if everybody did that, Yeah, pretty wild. Yeah. And we
hear this phrase a lot, at least in the last
five days or so. I felt like, we pay your
fair share. And I'm like, and again, is that there responsibility?

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I don't know. I just think it's a little hypocritical
to stand up there when you know, and I just
named a few people in that room and there are
there's probably there's probably a trillion dollars of net worth
in that room. And if they made it where if
you want to attend the Grammys, you've got to give
one percent of your net worth to this cause that

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we're going to ask people who probably don't have the
money to be buying Taylor Swift concert tickets, that are
financing Taylor Swift concert tickets to don't it feels a
little wild. It feels like you're capitalizing on your fame.
To me, there's a big difference between you know, a
local event where the news is like, hey, come help

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because it affects the community, right there, but then a
national thing to deal with one community when you've got gazillionaires. Yeah,
it just kind of makes me go ooh. It gives
me the used car salesman feel, if you will. And

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that's too bad because I thought they did a really
good job with all that stuff. And I think it's
important when catastrophes happen. If people want to donate, go ahead,
you absolutely should. Giving is the best helping out is
the best way to feel your spirituality in my opinion.
Oh yeah, it's literally what we're supposed to do is
help each other. Just feels weird when somebody's up there like, well,

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I'm not giving, but you should.

Speaker 8 (10:38):
Somebody had texted in it's a memory serves old Taylor
Swift donated a pretty epty amouth. So I had to
look and it says here that more than two million dollars,
which is great, fantastic, and that two million dollars will
help tremendously. But that's that's just one person compared to
all the other multi millionaire billionaires that are that are

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here in America.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
Right, And you would think, because if it affected that
area of those people, that it would be a different
It would make a difference.

Speaker 8 (11:06):
Right, you would think, yeah, you would think, and I
get it. You know, you gotta rebuild. You got you know,
all those actors who lost their homes.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
That sucks. You got the money, You got the.

Speaker 8 (11:17):
Money to rebuild, and not only just your place and
your stuff, but the community around you as well.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
Maybe now I'm going to play the other side of
the point. Maybe because you starve on the salary today
that you begged for yesterday, So it is entirely possible
that those people don't have a surplus of income. Yeah. Maybe.
So we talk about you know, athletes, and they're all millionaires,
they're also kids, right, who aren't great with their money.
The number of NFL players that made millions who now

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don't have money is endless.

Speaker 8 (11:47):
There was a great TikTok I seen last week or
whatever as an NFL player and he's he's speaking in
front of a bunch of like high school students football players,
and he tells them how the contract works, right, and
he's like, you know, got signed for you know, to say,
one hundred, you know million dollars. Well half of that
already gone to taxes, so now you're down to you know,
fifty million dollars. Well, then this guy needs his guts.

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So he basically broke it down to we're in the end.
You still got some change, but it's not it's not
one hundred million.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
That you thought you. Yeah, well there's this whole other
thing too, that, like the Lucas story, which I'm sure
we'll get to out of the NBA getting traded to California,
that was a financial move more than anything else, right,
And we can get into that a little bit later.
But what I learned about athletes at least, like, let's
use the NFL as an example. And if you're an
athlete that lives in Florida, where there's no income tax,
and then you play in California, Yeah, your salary check

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is taxed in California. There's it's called the athlete tax,
and every state has it, so you pay tax for
income in that state because you were working in that
state when it happened. I just think about that.

Speaker 8 (12:51):
You're traveling all over the country plane in different states
and every state is different.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, he had mentioned that too. I was like, that's crazy.
I didn't know that.

Speaker 6 (12:58):
Yeah, maybe that's why the home home team advantage is
in effect there, because like you get to play from home,
You're like, yeah, I'm keeping my entire paycheck. No, no
taxes come out. Maybe that's a little boost of energy
for them to know when they're playing at home. Could be.
I mean it would help me. I'd be excited about it.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
You'd be like, I got to play better today because
I pay less taxes.

Speaker 6 (13:25):
Well, no, I'd be like, I'm keeping more of this paycheck. Yeah,
it would make me feel good.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
All right. So we've got tickets to Theory of the
Dead Man we're gonna give away. Plus we're gonna qualify
our first person for Rocks and Roses, which all week
and next week when we qualify a winner at seven
point thirty, they're all in the running for that thousand
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We'll do that coming up at seven thirty. We'll take
a break and we'll be back. Tell us This Morning.

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Show, The Big Bad Boarding Show, The Assaulting Genius, next
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Speaker 1 (14:00):
Good Morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one, eight, four, six,
oh k m o D. Coming up. Jeff Finsley from
Finsley and Associates will be joining us. If you have
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Let's do news quikies. It's time for news quakies. World news,
local news, and news.

Speaker 8 (14:29):
That just makes you say, what the Here's Corbin Gimpi
and Lindsay with what's going on newsquakies from the Big
Mad Morning Show in ninety seventy five.

Speaker 6 (14:36):
Kmod mermaid performer who had giant fish bite her head
speaks out. If you saw this over the weekend, this
viral video, you may have thought the same thing I
did Ai Generated. I watched it a couple of times.
It came into my reels feed on Facebook and I thought, wow,

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that's creepy. And then the second time I watched, I
thought definitely AI generated.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
Really, I thought it was real from the beginning. Yeah,
just the way the fish reacted was very natural.

Speaker 6 (15:09):
Well, it was very real, and the video is. It's
showing twenty two year old a Maria Zelinia, a Russian
mermaid performer who goes by the name of Masha. The
incident occurred while she was swimming in the aquatic show
at China's Primitive Forest Park on January twenty eighth. To her,
it was a day like no other. At first, nothing

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seemed out of the ordinary as she performed her set
in front of families young children. Having been on the
job for the past ten months, she says, you're bound
to get comfortable in the daily routine. Anyway, she was
not to know that a giant fish was going to
attack her in this tank. She was swimming up to

(15:52):
get air after her swimming session, her little dance underwater,
and this giant Chinese stirin, who they can get up
to about sixteen feet long in size, just grabs her
head and bites her. And you see her whole head
in this fish's mouth. She shared that the fish is

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actually an endangered fish, and according to the National Oceanic
and Atmospheric Administration, that fish is usually found off the
coast of China. The fresh water fish can reach up
to sixteen feet and this one was not quite that size,
But she said she didn't understand what was going on.

(16:39):
I began to push away out of the fish's mouth,
and when she surfaced she realized that she didn't have
her goggles on any longer. She was shocked, she felt numb.
The viral video came with rumors some people began to
target her place of work after the incident circulated. Some
reports specific said she was forced to go back to work,

(17:01):
and she said that is not true. I was immediately
taken to the hospital. She had luckily only a scratch
above her eyelid and bruising on her face. But she
will make a full recovery.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
It's kind of funny. Wild animals be wild and absolutely crazy.
Absolutely no idea the gorilla was going to attack me.
I mean I've done it ninety five other times. It
was completely fine. Yeah, you mean the gorilla was waiting, right,
Not that she was in any really inherent danger with
a sturgeon. But still they can still attack. Absolutely.

Speaker 8 (17:38):
Yeah, that's a big bitch for sure. I mean, but
it ain't no great white So.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
No, that's true. You know that's true. I'm always shocked
when people are like I hadn't I had my pet monkey.
I always it was always fine, Yeah, until it rips
your face offa or.

Speaker 6 (17:53):
Your friend's face off.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:55):
I always think about wild animals and the comparison between
humans and when you think about like does a We've
talked about this on air and the bird they're flying
together and one of their bird friends gets hit by
a car and they just keep flying. People a going.
Did they go huh and go or do they go,
oh God.

Speaker 8 (18:16):
Pull over stuff at like a ramata? Yeah, I had
on the roof for a little while.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
More viral into like dependency on worms. I don't know. No,
the answer is no, A little some penguins that die
from okay, hmm, yeah.

Speaker 8 (18:32):
Son reports his dad for child porn. So there's this
sixty three year old guy named Jean Fallen and Jane
here was having some issues getting into his Gmail account,
his Google mail account, right, So he calls his son over.
He's like, hey, Jared, that's the son's name. Hey Jared,

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I can't get into my email. Can you help me out?
And Jared's like, sure, Dad, I'll be right over. So
Jared comes over and he gets his phone. He gets
his dad's phone and he's digging around trying to figure
out what's going on. How come old Papa here can't
get into his Gmail account. Well, come to find out

(19:13):
that Jane's phone his email was deactivated because Google's Google's
monitoring system had noticed that he had been uploading child
porn from his phone to his Google's Photos accounts, and
they're like shut her down. So then Jared's like, oh,

(19:37):
holy crap, my dad's watching kiddie porn.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
This is terrible. So he calls the police. The police
get a couple of subpoenas and warrants and got it. Ad.

Speaker 8 (19:45):
They end up seizing his phone and they say that
on on Jean's Google Photos nine and fifty two files
containing child pornography and child era.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (20:01):
Yeah, so now gene here is looking at twenty different
felony charges.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
Yeah. Yeah, that's messed up, dude, terrible, right, But good
on that kid for turning in for sure. Well, because
we've had discussions on the air, like if your kid
does something, you turn them in, right, but we've never
had the discussion the other way around. Yeah right, yeah,
uh and yeah absolutely. The only question I have is

(20:30):
is if, like I'm sure Lindsay's got pictures of her
kid in a swimsuit right when they were younger, maybe
even in a bath on their phone that could classify
as child porn. I'm not saying that's what this guy did, right, right,
But now more than ever, the most thing that takes
up space on your phone is your photos because we
take so many now right right, right, But I don't

(20:52):
want to ask, like, do they need to start they
need to right clarify what these photos are. Yeah, I
can do.

Speaker 8 (20:59):
We never done this before. We're talking to our listeners
are awesome later on today. And he is a former
FBI agent, oh right, and he's done some child porn
cases like this before. And we had a bit of
a discussion of something like that, like, if it's on
Lindsay's phone, it's not child porn, right, if it's her
kids in the bathtub, or you know whatever, it's when

(21:22):
it leaves her device and it's found on somebody else's, right,
that's when it becomes child porn.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
So okay, And we can ask him this, So if
you are, we're just gonna use Lindsay because it's an example. Yeah,
but if Lindsay is a pedophile, she's not. Lindsay's not
a right sorry, el Dog, We'll just say that el
Dog is a pedophile, huh. And the ell Dog has kids,
and el Dog takes photos of their kids.

Speaker 8 (21:50):
Right, Well, there's a little bit more that goes into it,
but like just basic ennocent because we talked about it
before of people taking pictures of their kids in the
bathtub and the posting it on social media and I
feel that's just weird.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
No, stop doing that.

Speaker 8 (22:02):
Yeah, yeah, And he was explaining to me that, like,
you know, it's not child porn at that point, but
it's when somebody else takes it, maybe puts it on
the dark web, somebody else, that's when it becomes child porn.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Our TV is set up so when there is when
it's on pause or whatever, the screensaver comes on and
it rolls through photos through my wife and I phone. Right, yeah,
it's awesome. Right, we see photos we haven't seen a while,
the kids or whatever, and there are something that shows
up with the bathtub, and I'm like, hey, we got
to get that out of here.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
I don't need somebody coming over with their friend and
then being like hey wait, wait, don't change the channel
ring yet. Babysitter charged with five year old ants at night.
Babysitter charged after a five year old answers door for
police with gun whoa man was babysitting at a Michigan home,
and he's been charged with child abuse after a five

(22:53):
year old he was caring for open the door with
a loaded handgun when a police cadet was serving a
subpoena on Saturday. Lake I'm real busy Yorks was arraigned
on the charges and is in the jail. Police searched
the home and found an infant covered in rashes and
rushed that child to the hospital. The other two children

(23:13):
were taken to Child Protective Services and the man admitted
to the gun was his Wow, damn. I have interviewed
and maybe Lindsay has two many babysitters. At one point
we were having a nanny and we were interviewing nannies
and not once did we ask if they carried.

Speaker 6 (23:36):
Yeah, I don't think we did. I know we didn't either.

Speaker 8 (23:39):
No, that's something you don't really think about. But I mean,
anybody can. It's their constitutional right.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Yeah, for sure? For sure. Also, am I right to
tell you can't bring it in my house? Right? How
many of those nannies and babysitters you interview were dudes?

Speaker 9 (23:54):
Though?

Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah? No, I have a hard fast roll on that.

Speaker 8 (23:56):
Yeah, I find that to be a little bizarre unless
it's like, you know, family member, like your brother or
someth because I've had my brother watch the kids.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
Look for well, good news. Brothers have never been the Molessa.
Nobody has a family members, right, which is wild, But
I'm with you, like it would make sense you would
pick a family member over a stranger.

Speaker 6 (24:15):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
Now with that being said, I am confident there are
men that are great babysitters and nannies. Absolutely. I was
a babysitter grown up. I babysit my neighbors. I didn't
pursue it as a career, right. I was gonna say,
you were like, what twelve at the time. Maybe I
think it was more of like they wanted to go
out and they were My mom and dad were part
like Corbyn's twelve right, yeah, right, you're not twenty five. Yeah.

(24:39):
Kid also fell off the couch and hit his head.
So what am I know? A very good baby? No man, Yeah,
it wasn't my fault. I didn't push him off the couch.
I was watching him. I was watching him right off
the couch. Yeah. His dexterity is not good at like one.
All these stories are on our Facebook page at facebook
dot com, slash bmms six nine. This Morning continues.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
Next with a Big Man Morning Show on Tulsa's rock
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Speaker 1 (25:08):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Six oh
KMOD can also text BMMS and then what you want
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what Lindsay has for Balls to the Wall Sports.

Speaker 6 (25:31):
The NFC notched its third consecutive victory over the AFC
and the Pro Bowl Games. Detroit Lions quarterback Jared Goff
in Minnesota Vikings cornerback Brian Murphy earned MVP on ers
and helped guide the NFC to a seventy six to
sixty three win over the AFC and Sunday's Flag Football Game.
Goff completed ten of eleven passes for one hundred and

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twenty six yards and three touchdowns, while Murphy delivered a
second half pick six. The NFC had started out the
day with a fourteen to seven even the Pro Bowl Games.
Following Thursday Nights challenges, the conference added to its lead
with wins in the Great Football Race and Tugabar competition
on Sunday. This makes a third straight Pro Bowl Games

(26:12):
win for NFC coach Eli Manning.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
I thought This was the silliest thing I've seen in
a long time. Yeah, I didn't find it entertaining. I
didn't understand what was happening. It was a kid's like
fun day at school. Huh field day there you go.

Speaker 6 (26:33):
Yeah, it feels like a field day.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
Absolutely not really highlighting their skills. Maybe when the quarterback
the indoor, when the quarterbacks are doing the throws, but
all you do is a fani. You're like, where were
those throws during the season? The season? Yeah right, yeah yeah,
and then the score was like sixty three to like
fifty seventy six. M It just gives you an opportunity

(26:56):
to see your favorite player still do something after the postseason.
Jump into a phone pit.

Speaker 8 (27:02):
I get I never really understood the Pro Bowl and
all that stuff, especially now since they come back with
all this weird stuff that goes with it. You know,
it used to just be play the game and that
was that. And I get it, you know, you don't
want to hurt your yeah, blah blah blah. I totally understand,
but it's just like, do we really even need the
Pro Bowl? You know, can we just like, can we
just not do that? And skips straight from boom to

(27:25):
the big game.

Speaker 6 (27:25):
Yeah, they want the advertisement money.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Two things. Two things. One, if you are a Redskins fan,
or you are a Vikings fan or even a Cowboys
do you tune in to watch to see No, I
don't know. I mean as a Bears fan, as a
forty nine do you tune in to see don't? I
don't know the answer to that. And but here's an idea.
Because every team has a practice squad, you let the

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practice squad play in.

Speaker 8 (27:52):
That game like an actual legit game right to the
flag football BS right.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
And you still vote for your MVP, and you still
get George Kittle as the for the Pro Bowl. But
each person, so if you get one person, you that
for tight ends. You get a tight end on the
team from your practice squad. So we get to see
up and comers.

Speaker 8 (28:13):
Right, they get a chance to play. You're not hurting
your star players. Yes, it's an actual real game. Yes,
I'm for it, man.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
And then as far as coaching goes, you let oh
see coordinators be the head coaches for the up and
coming head coaches.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Yeah, that would.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Just to like kind of see like these what do
we have to be excited about? That might get my attention, right, Yeah,
and you could still do this stupid you know, powder
puff game or whatever it was.

Speaker 6 (28:42):
It does feel another way, like to keep Eli and
Peyton Manning relevant to and keep you know there.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
Who care light. They get plenty of exposure, they get
their own thing on Monday Night football, which is okay.
I just don't I don't know if we need them. Yeah, yeah,
but it was definitely not exciting or I can't imagine
a big ratings. I was actually more annoyed than it
was on I was looking for a college basketball game
and I was.

Speaker 6 (29:08):
Like, ah, man, yeah, the Lakers will not be sending
off another superstar. Prior to the trade deadline, ESPN reports
that Los Angeles forward Lebron James intends to stay with
the team beyond Thursday's deadline. The forty year old James
signed a two year contract extension with the Lakers this
past offseason. His deal includes a de facto no trade

(29:29):
clause and a player option for next season. The four
time MVP will now team up with five time first
Team All NBA selection Luka Doncik, who the team acquired
in a blockbuster trade with the Dallas Mavericks over the weekend.
The twenty five year old Don Chick is a five
time All NBA First Team selection and was one of
the three finalists for Most Valuable Player last season. The

(29:52):
Mavericks received Anthony Davis from the Lakers in the trade,
who will turn thirty two in March. He is a
four time All NBA First Team honoree. Both players are
averaging more than twenty five points per game this season.
The Lakers are also sending Max Christy and a first
round draft pick, while the MAVs are sending two additional
players to the Lakers. The Utah Jazz is also reportedly

(30:14):
involved in the three team deal.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
This story is I mean, it was amazing to watch
people online like freaking out. It was cool. But listen,
Luca is now no longer eligible to sign a designated
veteran super Max extension, which was expected to bring in
five years at three hundred and forty five million dollars.
Now he'll get four year extension about two hundred and
twenty nine and he's moving to a state with a

(30:36):
higher tax. This was a financial move on Dallas's part. Yeah,
he's injured a lot. There's a video going around the
internets of him after winning, so I forget what it
was that they won, and he's drinking a beer in
the locker room and somebody from the come from the
front office taking the beer from him, and he's like,
you clearly annoyed.

Speaker 6 (30:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
I don't know if that's the thing. I don't know
if that's the reason, but it feels like the Dallas
was very annoyed. Jason Kidd was interviewed and said he
had no idea until the deal was done and he's
the coach. Wow wow. So it sounds like there was
some other thing going on that spurred this, whether it
be financial, whether personnel issue, and then they just dished him.

(31:20):
He's injured. He's not even gonna play it right.

Speaker 6 (31:23):
You think he asked for the.

Speaker 1 (31:25):
It is unclear, but I think when you're about to
sign a three hundred and forty five million dollars uh.
And he loved Dallas, So I think that's wild.

Speaker 6 (31:36):
Yeah, And that is your balls to the wall sports.
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Speaker 1 (32:29):
All right, we're doing best and Worst of the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened to you this weekend
and the worst thing that happened to you this weekend?
We need you to send a text and tell us
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to eight two nine four five. What's the best and
what's the worst?

Speaker 6 (32:48):
Lindsey, I guess the worst would have to be the
thought and anticipation of six boys at my house on Saturday,
the twins when it was their birth day. Last month,
Eli got sick and so we couldn't have a sleepover
or play date with his friends over, and that meant

(33:09):
Leo couldn't either, So we postponed it until over this weekend,
and on Saturday they each had a couple of friends over.
And the thought of it is scary and gives me anxiety.
But all was well. They played their video games, they
played outside for a while because the weather was nice,
and everyone got along and it turned out. But the

(33:30):
thought of it is, oh gosh.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
What was the special food that he had they had
for their birthdays?

Speaker 6 (33:35):
I mean tacos When we celebrated their actual birthday on
their day that we took them bowling to Andy Be'es
and we ate there and they got to eat junk
food and loved it. So yeah, Saturday, made them homemade tacos,
got some ice cream, did tacos or did you just
pick it. They love. They'll eat tacos any day of
the week.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
How do you do that with twins? How do you
let them decide what they get on their birthday?

Speaker 6 (34:01):
They usually decide on it's the cake that they decide on.
They're not picky eaters, so they don't really care what
they eat. But it's usually do you guys want an
ice cream cake? Or do you want you know, one
for the bakery a Walmart whatever? Do you want to
design your own cupcakes? In the past, they have liked
to design their own, which has been fine, and at

(34:22):
the Walmart bakery it's not as expensive, so it's spent.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Easy research and they're whipped. Yes, but they always agree huh, Yeah,
they're not like they figure it out pretty fast.

Speaker 6 (34:36):
Yeah, as long as it involves sugar, they're all good,
you know. And then I guess the best part. Yesterday
I was at the Living Women's Expo inside the Central
Park Hall and it's not the at the expo center.
I got it and lots of cool booths and stuff
all for women, and I got some free samples of

(34:56):
some good skincare while I was there, and I mc
the the mother Daughter Lookalike contest and it was fun,
it was cool, got to meet some listeners of the
show and it was just nice. And then ended the
day outside having a couple of cocktails on my girlfriend's
back porch like very perfect watch sunset. Was just such
a great day weatherwise.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend? Bmms and whatever that is to eight two
nine four five gimp. What's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 8 (35:28):
I guess the best part of the weekend would have
been yesterday. Yesterday, gathered with the crew and my brother
and a couple of friends and we all went to
Chandler Park played discalf But the best part of it
was my oldest boy I had him come over and
we both hopped on motorcycles and rode over there together
cool which he hadn't been on a motorcycle since he
was sixteen sixteen, so it was his first real ride.

(35:52):
And we did the back roads. We didn't get on
the highway or anything. We just did the side streets
all the way from my house all the way out
to Chandler Park. So it took because thirty forty five
minutes to get there. But better safe than sorry.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
I think. And he does he have a little bike?
Is that what he has?

Speaker 9 (36:07):
Uh?

Speaker 8 (36:07):
Yeah, hell, he's got uh not tiny bike, but he's
got a smaller bike. The one that I had, my
other Honda seven to fifth, the first one you got, no,
third one, Okay, the third one is the one that hed. Yeah,
this one that he rode or whatever, you know, because
it's still in good shape. You know, everything's good, it's
all legal whatnot. It's my spare bike in case anything happens.

(36:28):
So that one got it. So he rode that one,
and like I said, it's a lot of fun. You know,
we've never really written together before, and it's something I
want to get him to do so he can come
with us, you know, on these.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Rides that wait. So that was really cool. I played horrible.

Speaker 8 (36:41):
I came in fourth out of the group, so I
guess that ain't too awful bad but you know, fourth
out of eight, right whatever. Worst part of the weekend
I went and got groceries on Saturday, put a gun
in my mouth and pull the goddamn trigger.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
What alright? So not only it was.

Speaker 8 (37:02):
Busy af Saturday at the window that's where I go
and get my groceries.

Speaker 6 (37:05):
First of the month, man, exactly.

Speaker 1 (37:08):
I said.

Speaker 8 (37:09):
And that's goddamn line that wrapped around the aisles. I
was in that line forty five minutes before I got
to check out, right, So you gotta keep in.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Mind, I got all my groceries and everything.

Speaker 8 (37:25):
And and as as you're as you got your groceries,
you know you've got some frozen stuff and ya some
some some refrigerated goods. Now that as you're going through
the grocery store, they're slowly defrosting, right, And then you
get to sit there and wait in line for another
forty five minutes just.

Speaker 1 (37:43):
To check out. That's wilda.

Speaker 8 (37:45):
It was insane. Uh, But I mean all right, cool whatever.
Got my groceries, boom, loaded them in the car, got
to the house and uh Windco in their deli department,
and they have a seafood department they sell They make
sushi there. Selid containing it up and I was like,
that's gonna be great lunch. I'll get me some sush right,

(38:06):
and it's really good. It's really good for grocery store sushi.
It's is I haven't got good. But I get to
the house, I'm all excited put my groceries up. I'm like,
I'm gonna have some sushi, and I'll be damned if
I didn't leave that bag behind.

Speaker 6 (38:22):
Oh No, at the.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
I was pissed. I was like, god, damn it.

Speaker 8 (38:29):
All right, Well, I mean I could go back, but
it's not gonna be any good by that point in time,
roasting in the sun.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Oh god. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (38:37):
So I just counted my losses on that one, and
me and the lady we hopped on the bike and
went over to Sushi Train had some sushi.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
I was really wanting some sushi. Man, So it worked out.

Speaker 8 (38:51):
But it's just the fact that money left behind so
pissed me off.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Going to the grocery store on the we feels like
I'm going to war, right, And I'm not underminding those
that have done that. I'm just saying it is a commitment. Yeah, yeah,
I will. I will do especially with our schedule, I
will do all I can to avoid it costcos Sam's clubs.

(39:21):
I will do all I can, and should I need to,
I will get up early and go right when it opens.

Speaker 2 (39:28):
Oh.

Speaker 8 (39:28):
Absolutely, That's a cool thing about Winco being the only
twenty four hour Storre left right. Yeah, because you can
still do those three four o'clock am grocery runs where
it's not near as bad.

Speaker 6 (39:40):
That's another reason why I love Walmart pickup.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (39:42):
I mean I ordered my groceries on Friday online and
I went early Saturday morning, yeah, to bump, and I
just felt like, Oh, this whole parking lot is so full.
I'm so glad I'm not a part of that.

Speaker 1 (39:54):
Yeah. And you can do Walmart pickup for free.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (39:56):
It feels like a win every time and a hack
for yes, And it really is because I don't overspend
when I order my groceries online, okay, rather than being
inside and you seeing everything, Oh I want that, or
going hungry. You know, when you shop hungry, you buy more. Yeah,
it feels I probably save. In my mind, I'm probably
saving anywhere from fifty to one hundred dollars by pre

(40:19):
ordering my groceries.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
You want to hear something that somebody at Walmart told
me about your pickup time. Don't worry about your pickup time.
So if you want to, if you think you can't
get there till one, yeah, but you might be done
at noon, schedule your pickup at like ten or eleven
and then just get there. When you get there, Yeah,
and the groceries be sitting in their card I'll buy. No, No,

(40:41):
they're going. They're cool. They're in a grocery unit. Yeah,
they're in a cool unit.

Speaker 6 (40:44):
Yeah. My pickup time was scheduled between ten and eleven,
and at nine am. I actually did get the alification
that my groceries were ready.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
Yeah, but I'm so like, if I think we're going
to be done at one, but sometimes we get done
at noon, I'll schedule it for ten am, yeah, and
then go pick it up right when we're done. It's
always ready. Yeah. I feel like I agree Walmart pick
up as a giant hack, especially on days when you
know you're gonna have to go with you know, busiers.
Yeah yeah, what time did day? Did you go? Oh?

(41:15):
It was like noon something? Oh my lord, yeah, yeah
that's yeah.

Speaker 8 (41:19):
It was twelve thirty when I got there, and uh
it was it was one five one hight.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Wow, it's almost two o'clock one Yeah, left, it was ridiculous.
Somebody Texans scan and go at Sam's brow. There's still
crowds though. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (41:36):
I don't mind going in, you know, it sucks it's
part of it. But at least in my eyes, you know,
I know what I'm getting, especially when it comes like
produce and meat and stuff. I just don't need people
just willy nilly, well I need some green leaf lettuce. Okay, fantastic,
this one will work. And again in it's all half
wilted or whatever because they don't take the time or

(41:56):
really care.

Speaker 1 (41:57):
They just get in the package, you know. So why
I go in and do it myself. I get it.
I have not run into that problem yet where I
get something that I'm like is gross like rotted or
gross or anything, or the wrong thing.

Speaker 8 (42:09):
Or there's been times because my girlfriend does they shall
have it delivered or whatever, and you know, either they
didn't have it, or they grab the wrong thing and
they're like, well we need large tortillas and they send
like the small white.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
That has happened occasionally, you know what I mean.

Speaker 8 (42:22):
So again, it's at least this way, I know I'm
doing it the way I like it, and I know
what I'm getting. The key thing is just don't leave
it behind.

Speaker 1 (42:31):
Sure. Yeah, that's the other that is the benefit of
doing the pickup and go is that it all makes
it into your car right right. Somebody texts his eggs
are stupid expensive. Uh. I don't want to get into
all that, but I buy eggs at five dozen at
a time. I buy a ridiculous amount of eggs, and
I buy them about every two weeks because we eat
so many eggs and they haven't had them lately, and

(42:54):
so I've had to go and buy like a dozen
at a time or eighteen at a time. It's been chaos.

Speaker 8 (42:59):
I get it, man, I had this settle for large
eggs instead of jumbo eggs at this time.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
Get do you dig into that? Is that a thing?

Speaker 8 (43:06):
I prefer the jumbo eggs really, yeah, as opposed to
the large eggs. But I'll take whatever an egg is
an egg.

Speaker 6 (43:13):
Especially for those deviled eggs, huh said jumbo, Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
I don't care that much about the size of the egg.

Speaker 6 (43:18):
They're much easier to crack open, especially for deviled eggs.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
Okay, we're gonna get into very bmms. Uh. If you're
trying to crack an egg like not hard boil, but
crack hit them on each other, there will be almost
no shells that will get exposed to fall into your eggs. Yes,
that's a nice trick rctre. Yeah, and there's tons of
tricks for hard boiled eggs ice.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Anyway, um eggs. We are doing best and worst of
the weekend. What's the best part of the weekend? What's
the worst part of the weekend? Bmms and what that
is to eight two, nine four five. Worst part of
the weekend for me is my shoulder was really bad
this weekend. I don't know if I hit it or whatever.
Part of the best part of the weekend caused more
pain in it. But the best part of the weekend

(44:02):
was it was the father daughter dance at my kid's school,
which was awesome. It's my fourth year doing this, if
I'm not mistaken, my third with my my second with
my youngest, and it's a I always love it. It's
it's a lot of fun. But we were dancing and
my youngest made me twirl her and then she pulled

(44:24):
on that arm and I love doing it, but it
is so challenging to slow dance with both of them
at the same time.

Speaker 2 (44:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (44:32):
Did you all color coordinate your outfits?

Speaker 1 (44:36):
No, but it was a Hawaiian theme and I have
a blue Hawaiian shirt, so I wore that.

Speaker 6 (44:41):
That's cool, cute.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
I go wear that on your cruise too. Probably, yeah,
probably it seems fitting being a Hawaiian shirt and all
shirt and all and a cruise or whatever. Say. I
bought it a few years ago and we got dressed
to go out to dinner when I when we were
on vacation, and I wore it, and they were just like,
couldn't believe I owned a blue blue shirt. Don't really
have a best, But the worst was my dad shanked

(45:03):
a golf ball and smoked me on the arm. I
don't know. Maybe your best is you got to go
golfing with your dad.

Speaker 6 (45:09):
Yeah, lucky, Yes.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
The three of us would like to remind you that
we don't have our dad to go golfing with and
have him. I would give anything for my dad to
be me with a golf ball for real, at least
yell at me and tell me I'm doing it wrong.
Hey right, hey, Corvin, you can talk to your dad again.
But you've got to take a titleist to the calf.

(45:33):
I'd be like, great, done, sign me up. Hit me,
big fella. You already did your best. Oh damn best.
I discovered that if I run to the ten k redline.
I can hit sixty miles per hour in first gear
on my motorcycle, worst bled the brakes on my truck,

(45:53):
and I now know what break fluid tastes like. Ye,
if only there's an option for that. Have to incur that.
We're giving away tickets to see Theory of a Dead
Man and we're qualifying people for Rocks n' Roses, where
you will win one hundred dollars gift Moody's gift card
today and then get in the running for one thousand
dollars gift card to Moody's Jewelry when we draw the
grand prize winner for that right before Valentine's Day. So

(46:16):
listen to get qualified and get tickets to Theory of
a Dead Man. We'll do that with a new game
when we come back Tilsa's.

Speaker 3 (46:21):
Morning Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The assault continues
next ninety seven.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
To FIVEMOD Good morning, It's The Big Man Morning Show.
Nine one eight four six oh kmo D. You can
also text BMMS and then what you want to say
to eight two nine four five. Let's play a game,

(46:48):
all right, we got a pair of tickets seet Theory
of a Dead Man who are going to be at
the Tulsa Theater Unplugged on Saturday. Get your tickets Tollstheater
dot com. And anybody who wins this week and next
is gonna be getting one hundred dollars Movies gift card
and qualify for a thousand dollars gift card to Moody's
Julie for Rocks n' Roses. All you need to do
is play this new game that I've come up with

(47:11):
called Note you, and it's a one second of a
song and you've got to tell me the song and
you'll get one guess if you don't too bad. I
don't know what to tell you, So we're gonna run.
You have a lot of people have a chance, right,

(47:31):
somebody may get it the first shot. Somebody might not.
So I will play it and then start taking calls
nine eight four to six oh kmo D nine and
eight four six oh kmo. D ill play one brief
second of a song. Not joking on one note is
probably the better phrase one note, hence note you. Let's

(47:55):
go to the phones and get our Oh let me
play the clip first here it is, what song M
good morning, you're on the air. What is your name?
I'm sorry, what is it?

Speaker 9 (48:11):
Jennifer?

Speaker 1 (48:11):
Jennifer. You're gonna be the first contestant of our new
game called Note You. I will play one brief note
of a song, and if you guess it correctly, you're
getting not only tickets to see Theory of a Dead
Man Unplugged on Saturday, you'll also get a one hundred
dollars Moodies gift card and be in the running for
a thousand dollars gift card to Moody's Jewelry for rocks
and roses that will give away and right before Valentine's Day.
All right, okay, here is the one note? What song.

Speaker 10 (48:40):
Is a shine down syentem of being human?

Speaker 1 (48:45):
It is not? Thank you for playing. Thanks my hope
here and we're going to get through a lot of contestants.
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 9 (48:56):
My name is Brian, Brian.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
How are you today? I can't complain? Good well, I'm
gonna play one note. If you guessed the song correctly,
you're gonna get the tickets to see Theory of a
Dead Man and one hundred dollars Moodies gift card and
be qualified for rocks and Roses. Are you ready?

Speaker 9 (49:11):
Let's do it?

Speaker 1 (49:14):
What song?

Speaker 9 (49:16):
H oh wow, I don't have clue. It's Green Day,
Boleward Brook and Duriams. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (49:25):
It is not man. Thank you so much.

Speaker 9 (49:28):
Thanks to see you letter.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name? Brandon?
How are you today?

Speaker 9 (49:36):
I'm doing good.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
I'll play one note of a song. Guess correctly. You're
winning all those prizes. Are you ready?

Speaker 9 (49:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (49:42):
Here it is? What is it? Bad girlfriend? Bad girlfriend
is incorrect? I'm sorry, Brandon, Thank you man, See you later.
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 9 (49:58):
It's your boy, Jay Rock.

Speaker 1 (50:00):
How are you friend?

Speaker 9 (50:01):
I'm great? How are you? Brother?

Speaker 1 (50:02):
Good man? Here is your song? What song is that?

Speaker 9 (50:07):
I'm gonna go with nper Samman Metallica.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
Ooh incorrect? Shah, Thank you buddy. See you later. For
grabs a pair of tickets see There of a Dead
Man Unplugged at the Tuls Theater Saturday, and one hundred
dollars Moody Gift Card Moody's Gift Card and be qualified
for Rocks and Roses, which is one thousand dollars. Good morning,
you're on the air. What is your name Chris, Chris,
how are you buddy?

Speaker 9 (50:28):
Pretty good?

Speaker 1 (50:29):
Good man? Here's your song? What is it?

Speaker 9 (50:33):
That is a bullet with butterfly wings?

Speaker 1 (50:36):
Vam it is? Man? Congratulations, Wow, excellent job, sir. You're
gonna get a pair of ticket seat there as a
dead Man who are gonna be unplugged on Saturday at
the Tuls Theater And you're getting one hundred dollars Moodies
gift card and you're gonna be on the running for
one thousand dollars gift card to Moody's Jewelry for rocks
and roses. Congratulations friend, please Hanloine, so Gimpie can get

(50:58):
your info. Did you know it get No? I was
with j Rog. I was thinking it was Metallica, Yeah,
but way off.

Speaker 6 (51:06):
I was thinking something more on the lines of like
go Gos or Pat Benatar something We're around there. That
dude just nailed it. That was awesome.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Yeah, So we're gonna try this for a month and
see how it goes. It's reminiscent of when where we
did we did a version of this before and it
was called the one Second Game, and uh we played
one second but it was was it Metallica? I forget
different artists. Yeah. Yeah, so we've evolved it a little bit.
We'll see how this plays out. Uh. And we're gonna

(51:36):
give more qualifying for the Rocks and Roses all week
long where someone's gonna win a thousand dollars Moodies gift
card to Moody's Jewelry. We'll take a break and we'll
be back.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
The Big Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show ninety.

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dot com. Collet says here that Trump to speak with
the leaders of Canada and Mexico, and he told reporters
yesterday before he boarded Marine one to head to the
Old White House that he would speak with Prime Minister
Justin Trudeau in the morning along with Mexico, although he
failed to say if it would be with President Claudia

(52:38):
shine Bomb or somebody else from the Mexican government. Both
Trudeau and shine Bomb have criticized Trump's recent tariffs, which
Trump announced would be twenty five percent on imports from
the country. If I'm the president of a country and
i'd call another country, y'all, I better speak with the president.

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Got right, Snap, You're lucky.

Speaker 9 (53:01):
Now.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
Maybe you know, if I'm the president of Papua New Guinea,
maybe you don't get that type of ax. I don't know.
I'm just saying, your superpowered Yeah, top twenty, I'm with you, man,
answer the damn phone. All hold, and I don't want
to hold either, by the way, no, no, what else
we got here?

Speaker 8 (53:20):
The NTSB is still looking for the black box and
the Pennsylvania or the Pennsylvania crash that.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
Oldelphia or excuse me.

Speaker 8 (53:28):
Federal investigators are still looking for the black box, cockpits
voice recorder of the plane that crashed into a Philadelphia neighborhood.
Seven people were killed and nineteen others injured after the
medical transport jet plunged to the ground moments after after
takeoff Friday night. The head of the NTSB says it

(53:49):
was a high impact crash in the plane is quote
highly fragmented.

Speaker 1 (53:54):
Have you seen the video of this. It's in dude.
The pictures are insane. I just sent to a video
of somebody that people sitting inside, ah, like a restaurant
or something, and how they got hit by debris. And
when you see some of the footage of like the
devast like the devastation, dude, it's wild, dude. There's a

(54:19):
crazy They found the box this morning. There's a crater
in the ground and that's where they found the the
black box. But it it's a transport plane. But it
looks like like a whole like I don't even know
how to describe it, like it it looks like a

(54:40):
war zone, like a giant plane. Like there's a ball
of fire, the cars charred. It's the craziest scene. It
just to me not to be a con person. It
feels like a conspiracy. Like I'm sending you guys some
of these videos. Yeah, because they are wild. That's true.

(55:00):
Lights things up. That looks a little different than just
like a little plane crash. I'm sure there's a logical
explanation to it, but when you see the footage, it's insane.

Speaker 6 (55:14):
Just that poor old man alone sitting in that restaurant
going right through his knocking his hat off and hitting
him in the head. That is crazy.

Speaker 1 (55:25):
Hell, what else we got here? Hey?

Speaker 8 (55:27):
DHS Secretary Noome says that legal immigrants shouldn't fear ICE.
Homeland Security Secretary Christie Noom says that those in the
US legally shouldn't fear immigration authorities. They said that ICE
is targeting illegal immigrants and if legal immigrants are afraid

(55:48):
of being wrongfully detained, it's because the media has perpetuated
that fear or comments come amid reports that ICE agents
have detained multiple people who are in the country legally
amid nationwide immigration raids.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
And then all asked lay here.

Speaker 8 (56:05):
Food on the Move is chosen finalist for Oklahoma Nonprofit
Excellence Awards. Food on the Move was chosen as one
of eighteen finalists to earn the Oklahoma Nonprofit Excellence Award,
presented by the Oklahoma Center for Nonprofits. The Food on
the Move was chosen as of one of eighteen finalists

(56:25):
who earned the Oklahoma Excellence Award. The winner of the
Oklahoma Nonprofit Excellent Award will be announced on April fifth
at Tulsa Hills Excuse Me, Tulsa's Southern Hills Country Club.

Speaker 6 (56:49):
Baltimore, Ravens kicker Justin Tucker has been accused of multiple
massage therapists of sexual misconduct. The Baltimore Banner reports that
nine therapists at five different spies have claimed to be
victims of inappropriate sexual behavior at the hands of the Kicker.
Reports alleged Tucker exposed his genitals, brushed two of the therapists

(57:12):
with his exposed penis, and left what they believed to
be seamen on the table after three of his treatments. Five, yes,
five of the women reportedly accused Tucker of asking them
to massage his pelvic region or his inner thighs while
he had an erection. The report also says that some
of the therapists were so overtaken by Tucker's alleged actions

(57:36):
that they ended his sessions early or refused to work
on him again. Since these alleged incidents occurred between twenty
twelve and twenty sixteen, the statute of limitations has expired
and no criminal charges can be filed. This is, however,
the option of civil action. There's also the possibility of

(57:56):
an investigation and punishment from the Baltimore raven And or
the NFL as for Tucker. He released a lengthy statement
on X and called the allegations unequivocally false.

Speaker 1 (58:10):
The internet is wild. Yeah, and I don't know if
he did this or not. To me, it means nothing.
If people came forward now and it happened eight years
ago or what. I don't care about that, that doesn't
make it not happen. Right, And people are like on
the internet are going, oh, he's a he's a good man.
He's a good Christian man. Good men and Christian men

(58:33):
or women can make mistakes absolutely and have missteps in life.
It hardly absolves them from any type of weird kinks.

Speaker 6 (58:44):
Yeah. And on his statement on X's he talks about
how when he first heard that the newspaper was going
to do a write up about this with allegations, and
he was like, before you, I want to know what
these allegations are, and they didn't tell him and we'll
have to Yeah, And so it wasn't until he got
a defamation attorney that they were cooperating with him more okay,

(59:11):
he says in his statement.

Speaker 1 (59:12):
Yeah, because you don't want to with a goes to court,
You don't want to look like you weren't cooperating, right, right, Right,
But but also he has to then prove he's not
that person that's the messed up thing about that type
of lawsuit. So he has to he all they need
to do is find one person who's like, ah, he
has for me to rub his inside thigh. Wiley had

(59:33):
an direction, Yeah, what should I think? That's? Uh, I
don't know.

Speaker 8 (59:39):
I'm not never been a messuse, but I'd imagine that,
like that's common, right, yeah, that it happened. Yeah, people
get boners when they get touched.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
I gotta be honest, huh. I've had quite a few
massages at legitimate spas, never gotten a boner. Never. Never.
They're never touching my penis. I mean still your your penis?
Isn't your only around you know, a roging his own? True?
You know, so they're not kissing anything, right, all right,

(01:00:10):
let me rub your neck. They're not naked.

Speaker 6 (01:00:12):
But would it have been more appropriate if that happened
to him to say, let's take a time out or something,
Come give me ten minutes, come back, or so he
can calm down or get rid of the situation.

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
I mean, yeah, sure, maybe if he was an honest man,
I guess, I don't know. I would love for our
massus listeners to test in if they if I'm sure
it happens, by the way, I'm not saying it never happened.
How common is it though? Does it happen all the time?
Is it?

Speaker 8 (01:00:41):
Is it one out of ten people that get massages
get boners or is it like eight out of ten?

Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
I think it's like two out of ten? Think yeah,
I think it's pretty low. Man.

Speaker 8 (01:00:49):
I want to say, at least, you know, six out
of ten people are getting boners when they get a
what about when it's a man massage massus?

Speaker 1 (01:00:58):
Although you may be so, I mean, do you see
what I'm saying? Yeah, Like I go, I'll go ahead
and go with the whole idea of that, like maybe
you'd get in a rog in his own touched. But
then do you also and Justin Tucker did he go
to mail messuses and he asked them to do it too,
which would be fine, man, swing for the fences. I
don't care. But it doesn't have to be even though.
But if the argument is, hey man, you just sometimes

(01:01:20):
you get massage, you get a boner, then that has
to work across the board. Yeah, with mail massuses too.

Speaker 6 (01:01:25):
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Speaker 1 (01:02:25):
Good look. Our listeners are awesome and we love to
chat with our listeners and they share part of their
lives with us and joining us on the line right
now is James.

Speaker 9 (01:02:32):
Hey James, how are you doing well today? How are
you guys doing?

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
Good? Man James, It says you've been married twenty four years.
I've never asked this question to somebody that's been married
twenty four years, But does it feel like twenty four
years or does it feel like, you know, still the
day you guys met.

Speaker 9 (01:02:52):
Well, it's definitely not the first day we met, but
it's the first day probably that we started actually dating
and being really good friends.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
Because some people say, like, it's definitely feels twenty four years.

Speaker 9 (01:03:07):
No, that's just the age. That has nothing to do
with the time with the person.

Speaker 1 (01:03:11):
How did you meet your wife?

Speaker 9 (01:03:14):
We worked together for actually four or five years. She
was in a long term relationship. I was in a
I was married to my previous wife, and she and
I started going through a divorce, and after she broke
up with her long and broke up her long term relationship,

(01:03:39):
you know, just being friends at work, we just start
going out.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
And it says here that you're a marine. When did
you decide to join the Marines? What was the the
moment for you like, I want to be a marine?

Speaker 9 (01:03:54):
Well, my dad was a marine, and so I kind
of grew up with that and probably pretty early on
middle school or nowadays it's middle school. Back then it
was junior high, high school, it's probably when I'm well,
that's when I finally made the decision to go.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
Okay, And for you, what's a big memory of being
a marine? What's something that stands out for you?

Speaker 9 (01:04:24):
Oh? Just the camaraderie of everybody. You know, it is,
you know, everyone says, you know, you know there talks
about you know, the people that they served with, and
that's that's what it is. It's just you just don't
have friends like that anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
When you enlisted, did you feel pressure to be a
marine or you just wanted to join the service? Oh?

Speaker 9 (01:04:46):
No, I wanted to I wanted to join the Marines.
I definitely. It was definitely something I wanted wanted to do.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
And when you got out, was it just the natural
progression to get in law enforcement? Did you feel that
calling or what channeled you to go into law enforcement?

Speaker 9 (01:05:05):
Well? That one, I really don't know. I don't know
the answer to that one, because from the time I
got out to the time I got into the law
enforcement was probably about a span of close to ten
years and or more actually, And so it was I

(01:05:25):
wouldn't say it was a immediate thing, but it was
talking with another friend that I was working with and
a friend of mine that I that was as a
special agent. He was a supervisor in Muskogee. We were
off hockey together and we were talking about it and

(01:05:46):
I said, yeah, yeah, I said, that's something I think
i'd like to do, you know, serve my country in
that regards again, And that's what I did.

Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
What did you do between the marine? Being a marine
and joining the BI.

Speaker 9 (01:06:04):
School college, bachelor's NBA. Worked at PSO I think it's
now called AEP. Worked at Williams Communications.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
Okay, so not really no law enforcement because that feels
like a giant deviation, and usually they say they want
people with law enforcement to become FBI agents. Did you
find that process of becoming an FBI agent challenging because
you did those other things in between being a marine
and an FBI agent.

Speaker 9 (01:06:39):
No, Actually, I think you're kind of your assumption that
FBI wants law enforcement, I'll just say I don't think
is totally accurate. They want they want accountants, lawyers, chemists,
and scientists, m because they want people that are very

(01:07:09):
antal towards h Oh, what's the one I'm looking for?
I'm sorry, I just lost it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:16):
That's okay, that's okay.

Speaker 9 (01:07:18):
I mean, I mean paying attention, paying attention to the data,
and paying attention to two things that you need to
be able to pay attention to.

Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
Right, the idea that is the uh you know, the
uh oh the blue suits or whatever from back in
the day, that kind of has evolved into a different
type of police work that happens in the FBI.

Speaker 9 (01:07:38):
Now, correct?

Speaker 1 (01:07:41):
And how long were you in the FBI?

Speaker 9 (01:07:45):
About two years?

Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
What what areas did you focus on when you were
an FBI agent?

Speaker 6 (01:07:51):
I was.

Speaker 9 (01:07:53):
I served in a small office called r a's or
resident agency that we report to a bigger office. And
my two primary areas that I concentrated on was domestic
terrorism and crimes against children.

Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
And when you become an FBI agent, like your first day,
do they throw you into the deep end or do
they start you out with baby cases like bank robberies
and stuff before you get into like that type of thing.

Speaker 9 (01:08:26):
I'm at the now, they throw you in. Wow, it's
here you go, It's here you go. Well, you have
a mentor with you that you're able to ask questions
about and go through things. You know, what should I
do next or I'm thinking about doing this next? What
do you think and you can. I mean, you go

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through those steps, but you have a stack of files waiting.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
For you, wow, to just start hitting the hitting the
hitting the street and trying to figure it out, you know,
so to speak.

Speaker 9 (01:09:01):
Yes, yeah, I mean, especially in the resident agencies, you're
pretty much out there working your working on your own.

Speaker 6 (01:09:07):
Anyway, two years, James, doesn't feel like a very long
time to be an FBI agent. Was it because of
the severity of some of the things that you witnessed
or saw or were a part of that made you leave?

Speaker 9 (01:09:24):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
Will you elaborate on any of that?

Speaker 9 (01:09:30):
Okay? Well, I did a lot of child I mean
there was another guy in the office with me that did.
He did terrorism also, we were part of the Joint
Terrorism Task Force, but I did the domestic side. He
did everything else, But my primary one was the crimes

(01:09:52):
against children. And of course it took me, I would say,
a good six to eight mo just being able to
compartmentalize that and not take it home with me every
night about what I saw, the abuse, the pornography, the

(01:10:15):
sexual abuse, you know, those kinds of things, and it
just didn't end up being a good fit.

Speaker 1 (01:10:23):
I have a somebody I associate with that as a
detective in child crimes. And he always says, you don't
want to know.

Speaker 9 (01:10:31):
Yeah, you don't, I mean you don't. It's bad. It
can be pretty bad.

Speaker 6 (01:10:37):
Did that part of your job affect the way you
raise your own children.

Speaker 9 (01:10:43):
As far as knowing, especially now in the cyber age,
knowing what they're seeing and who they're talking with online. Yes,
definitely as.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
Someone who spent time in that field. What is the
number one thing you think parents overlook, I don't want
to say doing wrong, overlook when it comes to their child,
their children and their safety online.

Speaker 9 (01:11:11):
What do you mean by what? What overlook? Let's see what.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
Mistakes are parents making that you can give insight on
that they shouldn't be so easy with.

Speaker 9 (01:11:24):
Don't give them total privacy with it. Either put a
tracker on that you can go back and look. Or
I used to advocate computers always being in a public space,
not in a child child's room. That way you know
they know, I mean they know you could walk by

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any time, so you know and look over their shoulder,
and that will, you know, alleviate some there are you know.
Of course, now we have phones and just about every
teenager has a small phone. Of some kind Android or iPhone,
and you know it makes it harder because it's a
smaller screen. And but you know, put tracking, put tracking

(01:12:09):
software on there. And I don't mean where they necessarily are,
unless that may be an issue. But I'm talking about
you know their history, what chat groups are they in,
what websites are they looking at? Those kind of things.

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
So you do your time as an FBI agent, you
get out of it, then what industry do you go into.

Speaker 9 (01:12:32):
I did a couple of years as a director of
security for a trucking firm.

Speaker 1 (01:12:39):
Why would that be necessary? Why do you explain? Why
would that be necessary? And I hear security like what
get off the lot?

Speaker 9 (01:12:44):
Like what? What?

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
What does that mean?

Speaker 9 (01:12:46):
No, it was within my domestic terrorism. I actually did
a couple of cases concerning truck drivers. Think about a
long haul driver, even he travels all across the country
for his job, so there's no reason to suspect why

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is this guy going all over the country and doing things,
dropping things off, picking things up, talking to people. So
there are again those kind of issues. But in the
trucking industry, remember they carry pharmaceuticals, They carry high value

(01:13:28):
loads of meat products, food products of all kinds, and
so you know, you can either deal with theft, so
you have security for trying to prevent the theft of
the truck and trailer. You have possible terrorism ties through

(01:13:50):
because of how they go around or contamination like the
tail and hal scare way back in the I don't
remember when that was, but you know, I'm sure you remember.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
Right when you took over, when you did security at
this trucking company. Was that a new role there, or
like they were they were finally realizing that this was
a vulnerable peace and you were helping solve that. Or
did they already have something in place, or.

Speaker 9 (01:14:20):
They already had something in place. It just so happened
that as I was leaving the FBI, I had already
had in roads with that security with the former security
director at that trucking company, and he says, oh, by
the way, I'm leaving here, And so I went in

(01:14:44):
and introduced myself to the owner of the company and
we hit it off and they hired me.

Speaker 1 (01:14:54):
What was the biggest threat you experienced there?

Speaker 9 (01:14:58):
The biggest threat I experienced there? Yeah, personally, just you know,
being fired or you know, breaking a leg or something
like that. You know, some kind of you know, medical issue.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
Did you break a leg while doing security there?

Speaker 9 (01:15:23):
No? No, no, but that was but I mean, I mean,
I'm just saying, you know, just I mean doing security
there and for the trucks, you know, the biggest threat
was just something being stolen, but no personal threat to myself.

Speaker 1 (01:15:35):
Really, Uh yeah, I was more implying the threat against
that you were hired to protect against.

Speaker 9 (01:15:42):
Oh, well, you know, I mean the pharmaceuticals. I mean,
our biggest threat was we would have I mean, at
any given time, we could have several trucks crossing the
country with five to ten million dollars worth of pharmaceuticals
in the backup and those being stolen.

Speaker 6 (01:16:02):
Wow, So did you go on the rides too to
keep those things protected or how does that work?

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
No?

Speaker 9 (01:16:08):
We put in security protocols and developed security protocols, implemented
those security protocols, and enhanced what was already there to
make those safe.

Speaker 1 (01:16:24):
Is that common for semis with with loads like that
to get hijacked?

Speaker 9 (01:16:32):
Yes? Or it can be. I'm not what the I
haven't kept up with it since I left, so I'm
not sure what the how many times it does happen? Now?
Something like that on the news or something you know,
but you know you have I mean you have trucks

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coming from Mexico or going into Mexico or coming or
going to Canada, you know all the time, so you
know there's hijacking's anywhere.

Speaker 1 (01:17:06):
And now you're a private investigator. How do you find
that work? I mean, how do you enjoy it? You
do you enjoy it?

Speaker 9 (01:17:13):
Oh? Yes, I definitely enjoy it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
What is it that brings you joy with that job?

Speaker 9 (01:17:19):
Helping people that need helped? And then I'm still part
of the system as far as the judicial system of
making sure that it works.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
It says here to ask you about the high profile
case you've done. What is that?

Speaker 9 (01:17:41):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:17:41):
Here?

Speaker 9 (01:17:42):
As a private investigator, I was the investigator for the
defense team for Cedric Pohr. If you remember these quadrip
homicide back and there's thirteenenty thirteen I believe out there

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at sixty person Peoria, and then just a couple of
years ago, I was also the private investigator that worked
on the David Ware case.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
And how many hours did you spend on each of those?

Speaker 9 (01:18:15):
You think, oh, see Cedric Pohr. I would say close
to one hundred hours. David Ware was probably around forty.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
And what type of work did you have to do
with David Ware because that I mean that was all
caught on camera, right, correct, But there was.

Speaker 9 (01:18:37):
I mean the work that you do is and a
lot of cases, is to mitigate what people saw and
actually explain it because you know, we can't We're not
supposed to believe our eyes and all the time. So

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you know, it's like the it depends. Attorney asked me
to go verify whether or not he insurance or not,
you know, which he did. Was he at the casino?
Yes he was? How much money did he win? Verified that,
pulled records and video from the casino, you know, and

(01:19:22):
then verify everything that the police investigators do.

Speaker 1 (01:19:28):
Also, usually you hear PI and you think of, oh,
go catch my partner cheating. But this sounds like a
much bigger scope as a PI.

Speaker 9 (01:19:39):
Right, well, I mean there's I mean, I do I
have done some of those. I don't like doing, you know,
my my cheating spouse or whatever. I've done one that
was pretty ah humorous and actually but they a pis

(01:20:00):
are used anywhere from insurance and medical fraud to you know,
treating wives, child custody, child trafficking and criminal defense.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
How would one person know if they've got a PI
following them?

Speaker 9 (01:20:23):
Well, hopefully they wouldn't, especially if it's me. But the
the issue would be what have you done to have
a PI follow you? Are you? Are you? You know?
Are you a spouse that's going out someplace on your
wife that you shouldn't be? Well? If you keep doing that,
your wife keeps asking questions about what you're doing and

(01:20:46):
your being not forthroit, and she gets suspicious, you know
there is a chance she may hire someone to try
to follow you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
What's the most one person's ever spent, uh individual not
like on a defense case. What's the private individuals spent
hired you for?

Speaker 9 (01:21:12):
Close to five thousand?

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:21:15):
And how does one get a hold of you in
order to hire you as a p I?

Speaker 9 (01:21:20):
I have a Facebook, of course, if you put in
more investigations just in Google, it will pop up. You
can also go to CLETE, which is the state authority
that gives me a license to be able to be
a private investigator here in Tulsa or in the state

(01:21:42):
of Oklahoma for that matter, and they have a list
of investigators. I primary primarily get my jobs from more
to mouse.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
HM. Well, I mean fascinating. You have a fascinating career timeline, sir,
and uh, I hope I you're never following me. Maybe
maybe you're following me right now and that's what this is.
But I appreciate you taking the time. I don't like
that laugh. I appreciate you taking the time to talk
to us today.

Speaker 9 (01:22:14):
Thank you for having me. I hope you all have
a good Thank you too.

Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
Sir, Thank you so much. That's James. Our listeners are awesome.
We're going to take a break and we'll be back.

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rough tough play means that children might get a bumper
a cut, but it's an acceptable risk. Yeah, my kids

(01:24:15):
are like my kids love to My only boundary is
when you hit the other person above the shoulders, you're done.
Yeah right. I don't even love that you hit them
in the leg or whatever. But once you hit somebody
above the shouldren, like, we're done. Let's have fun, take
a chance getting hurt. I would rather not have to
take care of you for the rest of your life,

(01:24:37):
right right, and feed you and bathe you and all that.
So that's really it's very selfish of me, I understand,
but I'm a big fan and rolling in the mud.
My kids playing the mud. The only thing I don't
like them doing is we have a septic sprinkler, and
I don't love when they play in that mud. Yeah
that's nothing I mean, but because that's more extreme, Yeah,

(01:24:59):
should I be? But I just, you know, better safe
than sorry, I think.

Speaker 8 (01:25:03):
Yeah, we don't need any brain eating amoebas, you know,
attacking your children.

Speaker 1 (01:25:09):
I'm just saying, call me bussy, but I'm just like, ah,
that's kind of a slogan we have in our house.
Is like a err on the side of no equal eye.
Won't let us kids play in toxic sludge. We call
it gray water. But yeah, I don't let him play
in gray water. Just a boundary in my home. But

(01:25:31):
I love giving the kids the hammer and like, go.

Speaker 8 (01:25:35):
Ahead, yeah, let them have about it. Oh so they're
gonna learn. You know, you're only going to touch that
stove maybe two or three times before you realize maybe
I shouldn't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:25:43):
Sometimes we parent to avoid us happy to deal with it, right,
So like, I'm not gonna let you cook because if
you get burnt, I don't have to deal with the
streaming band aid and crying and well that sucks, yes,
but that's part of being a parent.

Speaker 8 (01:25:55):
Yeah, yeah, you have to take care of your kids.
You have to take care of the burns and EAPs.

Speaker 1 (01:26:00):
And the cuts. My youngest has shown an interest in cooking,
and now she has the best chocolate cake I've ever had. Sorry, Mom, Wow,
she found a recipe. She now she does some of
the measure. I mean, I have to help her with
some of the stuff, but she'd stirs. She does it
all nice, and it's she can't put it in the

(01:26:21):
oven it's too heavy. But she turns all. She does
all that stuff. But we would never have had that
cake if she hadn't explored that, we'd be buying box cake. Yeah,
she makes it from scratch.

Speaker 6 (01:26:34):
That's awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:26:35):
And the moon she makes it.

Speaker 8 (01:26:36):
I'm always like, that's gonna turn out. Put her on
Master Chef Junior. Now push her through Hollywood.

Speaker 1 (01:26:42):
Kid, Dude, I watch that show and you see these
kids cooking. I'm like, they have to have a recipe
in front of them right right.

Speaker 8 (01:26:49):
They're not coming up with that on I Am No
Adam makes me wonder, like how much those parents are
pushing their kids to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:26:58):
Yeah, just to be on the show for one, yeah,
is a big deal. But you know what I mean,
it's like.

Speaker 8 (01:27:05):
Those those those parents that push their children to play
the violin because they want them to, you know, be
the best violinist ever.

Speaker 1 (01:27:12):
I mean, just like football, there's people that push their
kids way deep into football or basketball, or wrestling, track
or gits here whatever that is. Uh huh.

Speaker 8 (01:27:22):
You want to be a cook, you want to be
a master chef junior, Well, we're going to push it
beyond the limits. Yes, this will take up and consume
all of your time. You will eat, sleep, and breathe cooking.

Speaker 1 (01:27:35):
But I think there should be areas for like dangerous play.
I don't know if we should have open fires and parks,
but it's okay. I mean I think some people in
LA would argue that open fires not okay? Right? How
else did we go and cook our chicken for the picnic? Corbyn? Come?
I mean right, that's the other part, is like learning

(01:27:56):
how to cook over and open I mean, what is
the chances they're gonna have to do that if they
decide to go hunting and camping? Okay, but most people
are gonna go with the more conventional methods. You say
that now until a zombie apocalypse breaks out.

Speaker 8 (01:28:13):
Your family separated, and now your kid can't make it
on his own because you never taught him.

Speaker 1 (01:28:19):
That's true, of how to cook food over and open flame,
that's true. And I will kick back to you. It'll
be okay, all right, should that happen, eat out of
the dumpster, kid, you'd be all right. I promise that
if there's a zombie apocalypse and we get separated, their
biggest problem won't be can I cook a chicken on

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an open flame?

Speaker 9 (01:28:41):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:28:42):
That will not be their biggest obstacle.

Speaker 8 (01:28:43):
I see, hey, you gotta you're just adding to the
list of things we got to teach the kids. Got
to teach them how to beat off zombies and cook
over and open flame.

Speaker 1 (01:28:51):
Yeah. Sure, he's a nice guy. I'm not teaching my
kid that. No, I gotta take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:28:57):
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Super Bowl obviously happening this coming Sunday, and I am
on the hunt for chiefs things, so I'm gonna try.
I want to try and find like Chiefs a place
that makes Chiefs cookies, maybe like Chiefs cupcakes. I don't know.

(01:29:37):
I'm just gonna try and have like a lot of
those things. Because I was talking with my wife and
we were trying to plan that day. Well, the kickoffs
at five point thirty ish. Well, I mean that's about
dinner time in our house, so we will already have
eaten dinner. Doesn't make sense to have snackis so why
not do that stuff all day? Like kind of have
like a snacky thing all day. After breakfast, we'll put

(01:30:00):
some stuff together and have those things out. And so
I want to try and find I know a couple
places that do it right. And to be honest, I
don't like sugar cookies.

Speaker 6 (01:30:14):
I'd like them, I don't like them with frosting.

Speaker 1 (01:30:17):
But I'm willing to do that for the you know,
accoutrementt I always talk about, Well, I'm not going to
go spend four thousand dollars for one ticket. I could
spend a tiny fraction of that and still have a
fun day. I want to try and do that this year.
I want to try and have those fun things.

Speaker 8 (01:30:33):
Why don't you and the fam make your own cookies
and decorating yourselves with the Chief's logo and the stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:30:40):
I'm sorry I didn't add this other part. I don't
want more work. Yeah, but you building memories, man, Yeah,
this will also be a memory. This will also be
a memory for them. Sure, yeah, no, I get it.
I'm the asshole. I'm just saying.

Speaker 11 (01:30:56):
That.

Speaker 1 (01:30:56):
I was trying to think besides cookies and maybe a
cake or a cupcake.

Speaker 8 (01:31:01):
Yeah, you could possibly you could possibly order a pizza
with like, you know, pepperoni in the shape of the
Chief's logo.

Speaker 1 (01:31:11):
That could be interesting. People like that. Yeah, okay, and
you like to make pizza too.

Speaker 8 (01:31:15):
And I understand, you know, you just said you didn't
want to do the work or whatever for the cookies,
but I mean, this is pizza.

Speaker 1 (01:31:21):
It's a little different.

Speaker 6 (01:31:22):
Yeah, cheese and pepperoni pizza would be in Kansas City
colors essentially.

Speaker 2 (01:31:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
See, so there's a win right there. Yeah, that's a reach.
But okay, And to me, there's a big difference between
putting them work into something I like to eat and
something I don't like. Sugar cookies right right right right'
it's fun. It's okay to go through the work to
eat something you like cook it. But when it's something
you don't like and then you got to still do

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all the dishes, you're like, what am I doing? Yeah,
I'm glad Cinderella, Cinderella. Outside of that, I can't think
of anything else. I mean you either, you could have
like red and gold.

Speaker 8 (01:32:00):
It has to be two separate colors and liquid. But
you know, Paune, like koul aid whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:32:04):
Okay, like strawberry colard and like orange kool aid. That matches.
That's the collars. Okay, yeah, okay, all right.

Speaker 6 (01:32:28):
Speaking of the Super Bowl, the matchup between the Eagles
and the Chiefs will mark the eleventh Super Bowl held
in New Orleans. Super Bowl opening nights will be held today,
with hundreds of media set to interview players and coaches
during their only public appearance before taking the field for
the game on Sunday. The Jets continue to fill out

(01:32:48):
their coaching staff. The Green and White are hiring Scott
Turner as their passing game coordinator and Charles London as
the quarterbacks coach. Turner spent the past two seasons as
the passing game coordinator for the Raiders and was the
interim offensive coordinator for the final.

Speaker 1 (01:33:04):
Eight games of Ton hatta passing game.

Speaker 6 (01:33:06):
Apparently, London joins the Jets after serving as the QB
coach for the Seattle Seahawks last season. Turner in London
will work under former Detroit Lions assistant Tanner Ingstrand, who
was named the OC last week and a Super Bowl
winning quarterback, is downplaying rumors about reuniting with his former
head coach. Russell Wilson told reporters at the Pro Bowl

(01:33:29):
that he's focused on working on a deal with the
Steelers and isn't thinking about joining Pete Carroll's Raiders. The
thirty six year old said Pete is going to be
a great coach and is great at what he does.
The pair led the charge in the Seahawks Super Bowl
forty eight win over the Broncos and returned the following
year in a loss to the Patriots. Wilson is an
unrestricted free agent this upcoming offseason along with teammate Justin Fields.

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Pittsburgh owner Our Rooney the Second admitted last week that
it was unlikely both quarterbacks will be back.

Speaker 1 (01:33:59):
With the team. Yeah, that feels not accurate. I saw
two things, because I saw him potentially going to the
Raiders to be back with Pete Carroll maybe I don't know.
Russell said that now. I have no interest in doing that.

Speaker 2 (01:34:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
Yeah, when you say that out loud, I'm kind of like, okay.
And then the other thing I heard was Aaron Rodgers.
I've heard of the Minnesota one a bunch of times,
but Aaron Rodgers to Pittsburgh. Tomlin might be one of
the only coaches out there that can deal with him
and his all right weirdness.

Speaker 6 (01:34:33):
I don't know. I've I think Fields did way better
this past season than he did when he was in Chicago, and.

Speaker 1 (01:34:40):
I mean, yes, but still not a level starting at level.

Speaker 6 (01:34:43):
But I feel like he's young enough. I mean, Wilson's
thirty six.

Speaker 1 (01:34:46):
Now and Russell Russell's on the backside of his game,
and then Justin still needs a lot of apprenticeship. I
don't think he gets it from Russell Wilson. He has
to go somewhere else, yes, And then I also heard
Aaron rodg to the Raiders too, which.

Speaker 6 (01:35:02):
Ah, yeah, I don't say why they'd want him.

Speaker 1 (01:35:08):
He's an MVP Super Bowl winning quarterback, I know, but
who has greatness in him? What's that?

Speaker 6 (01:35:14):
I think he's they think that he's hard to work with.

Speaker 1 (01:35:17):
He is hard to work with, but sometimes great people
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So join us in the studio now is Jeff Heinsley
of Hensley and Associates, and he can answer any question
about family law that you may have. It could be divorced,
it could be custody, it could be guardianship, name change.
That's just to name a few of the areas that
he covers and the folks at Hensley and Associates cover.
If you have a question, a couple ways to get
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could text BMMS, space and whatever your question is to
the phone number eight two nine four five, or you
can call it nine one eight four six ozho KMOD,
Good morning, Jeff, Hey, good morning. A couple things I
saw in the news I wanted to bring up. It
was eluded that certain industries are industry people that work
in certain industries are less likely to go through a

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divorce based on the number that they go through.

Speaker 2 (01:37:12):
Right, did they say what kind of industries?

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
Yes, they did so. One of them was a farmer
that they it is not common for a divorce attorney
to see farmers come through and want a divorce.

Speaker 2 (01:37:23):
It's right, you know, I will say in certain areas
it's more rare.

Speaker 11 (01:37:28):
Obviously, I think part of and having grown up in
a portion of Oklahoma where there's a lot of farmers
and a lot of and my grandfather was a farmer
and all that kind of stuff, I would say that,
you know, I think it's a different mentality of we're
going to stick it out.

Speaker 2 (01:37:42):
No matter what, we're gonna do this, We're gonna do that.

Speaker 9 (01:37:45):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:37:45):
Have I seen farmers get divorced? Yes, okay, but not
saying it doesn't happen. But you're right.

Speaker 11 (01:37:52):
On a scale of one to ten, with ten being
oh my gosh all the time and one being what
are you talking about, it's probably a one.

Speaker 2 (01:37:58):
I mean, agreed.

Speaker 11 (01:37:59):
I again, I think it's a different mentality of raising
of working hard and making it work no matter what,
and seeing their parents making it work no matter what,
and those sort of things.

Speaker 2 (01:38:07):
So yeah, I could see that.

Speaker 11 (01:38:09):
So I guess if you want to get on that train,
you can get on that What is that website where
farmers can meet? I guess, right, So you know, I
guess that's the way to go. But no, I've I
would agree with that, I really would. It's not saying
it doesn't happen, but sure it's pretty rare.

Speaker 1 (01:38:24):
The what else an interview stated that it was based
off of the hours you have to put in to
be a farmer. There's no time for them to cheat,
which I know that's yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:38:34):
That's probably true, and you know, not only that, but
there's no time to argue because you're always out in
the field and never at home, you know, I guess, so,
I guess that's part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:38:42):
I think with all these which we'll go to the
other ones, is that it only takes one person to
want to divorce. Yeah, if you're out in the field
all the time, you may.

Speaker 11 (01:38:53):
If you're feeling the lady and you're feeling neglected, then
obviously yeah. I mean there's again not saying it doesn't happen,
but I would agree. I've seen far less filings for
agricultural positions than.

Speaker 2 (01:39:05):
I do for other jobs. Sure, accountants, really, I've got
one right now.

Speaker 1 (01:39:12):
Pharmacists, I've got one right now. Yeah. To me, there
is no industry that has absolved from divorce because again,
it takes one person, and it could be not the pharmacists, right.

Speaker 11 (01:39:23):
And I think too that it really depends on your area.
I mean, is Tulsa a major metropolitan area. No, But
you know, we're the second largest city in the state,
but we're nothing in size wise, in people wise, compared
to Dallas or Kansas City, or New York or San

(01:39:44):
Francisco or you know, all these other major metropolitan areas
who maybe these numbers are far more true for them
than they are for us.

Speaker 2 (01:39:51):
I don't know. It's interesting.

Speaker 1 (01:39:53):
Yeah, well, listen, doesn't matter what your industry is. If
you have a question for Jeff, you can call it
nine to eight, four to six. Oh K.

Speaker 2 (01:40:00):
You don't even have to have an industry.

Speaker 1 (01:40:01):
No you don't. You can be unemployed. That's right. This
text just came in and says, question for Jeff, my
daughter and I. My daughter and mother have never officially Okay,
question for Jeff. My daughter and I mother have never
officially been to court for custody.

Speaker 2 (01:40:18):
The mother is a daughter, and I got it, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:40:20):
But I have my daughter seven days a week, two
hours on Sunday in which she goes, and then two
hours on Sunday which she goes to visit her mom.
We have a written agreement that has been notarized, which
I know you'll address. Does a written agreement hold up
in court? Or do I need to have something else done?
I don't want her to be able to come after
me or take custody away later. Right.

Speaker 11 (01:40:41):
So you know, again these sounding people who are trying
to be grown ups, and I applaud that. Okay, it's
always better when the two can get along for the
better men and the child. Don't know the reason that
Dad's got the kid instead of mom, whatever it may be,
or not having equal time, it's not important.

Speaker 2 (01:40:57):
The first thing, let's address the issue of the notary.

Speaker 11 (01:41:01):
Okay, again, a notary is somebody who just is authorized
by the state to say, okay, this person came in
and signed, and therefore that is who they say they
are because they've shown me their ID and I've seen
their face and this is their signature.

Speaker 2 (01:41:14):
That's all a notary does.

Speaker 11 (01:41:15):
It doesn't make it an official court document. A court
document is only a court document when a judge has
signed it. So let's kind of throw that out there now.
The idea that they had something written down is helpful,
does a hold up in court. No, But the history
of the case, in other words, the time that they've
been doing and the things that they've been doing absolutely

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help the court understand what the history of this case
has been, and where the child has been and why
and those sorts of things. Because if mom were to
come in and immediately because remember, in a paternity situation
in Oklahoma, the law is and has been since November
first of twenty eleven, that mom's got soul cuss of
the kid until dad files something.

Speaker 2 (01:41:55):
All right, when they're born out of wedlock.

Speaker 11 (01:41:57):
So in this particular case, you know dad got the kid,
Mom could file something to come get the kid, and
that's one of his concerns.

Speaker 2 (01:42:04):
So whoever this is, please.

Speaker 11 (01:42:08):
Call me this week, call my office, and we'll talk
about how to get that in place, simply because if
you don't want those issues coming back, we needed to
address it now and get it taken care of.

Speaker 1 (01:42:17):
So, if they've never been married, does he, because of
the track record, have a presumption of the father noout
having to prove any of that.

Speaker 3 (01:42:24):
No, no, No.

Speaker 11 (01:42:24):
Presumption in the state of Oklahoma goes to is your
name on the birth certificate? Did you sign the acknowledgement
of paternity at the hospital? Those kind of things, just
because he's acted as Now, if the child is older
than too, there could be a presumption that he's dad. Yes,
because he's held the child that is as his own
and all these other things. But of course, if nobody
is disputing that he's dad, we don't have to worry
about that portion. We don't need a DNA test to

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prove that he's dad in court if she's not denying it,
and all these other things.

Speaker 2 (01:42:50):
Then he's dad.

Speaker 11 (01:42:51):
We don't have to worry about that. But now we've
got to worry about custody. And of course, remember custody
goes to legal decision making. There has nothing to do
with time. There's no time component, okay, So that means
in a joint cussy situation, they'd have to make joint
legal decisions together. And they're only talking about life altering decisions,
not day to day haircuts and getting tested for flu

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or COVID or you know, teeth cleanings or running noses
or things like that. We're talking about, God forbid, the
child's got to have major surgery or you know those
kind of things what we call life altering decisions. They
would have to make jointly together and socus and of
course soul is the flip of that. You make the
sole decision for that for that child because you're the
soul custodian. And then of course we have the time

(01:43:32):
component side of things, which is where we get into
visitation schedules and things of that nature.

Speaker 1 (01:43:37):
I typically don't like to share when there's a text
update to a text that came in, because that's what
we want. If people have more they need to talk
to you because every case is unique. But they said,
I have a majority of the time because I'm financially
stable and have my own house. Her mother is jobless
and couch surfs. And you just stated the amount of
time they spend together is not relevant. They could still
have joint custody. But this feels like a little unique.

Speaker 11 (01:44:00):
Well, and again, whoever this is, please call me. The
reason being is because you know, it's great that you're
the stable one and she's not. But again, that doesn't
give you custody automatically in the state of Oklahoma. In
the state of Oklahoma, we have to have a paternity
and a decree of paternity that gives you custody that child.
Of course, it sets forth all the visitation schedules and
things like that. So again, you know, I applaud you

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whoever this is, for working together and trying to act
like adults. It's awesome because I don't normally get that
as much most of us don't and what we do
for a living here, So that's great you're doing that.
But if you're worried about these issues, we need to
talk to how to address them and get court orders
to make sure that you're recovered.

Speaker 1 (01:44:36):
I think sometimes people come forward with cases and they
think that it's a slam dunk, it's an automatic and
it's just not that true. True and family law right.

Speaker 11 (01:44:44):
And well, it's not just famal I think it's everything.
And again I blame the media. I'm sorry you media guys.
You know, when I say medium talk about TV, like
TV shows and movies and things like that, where people
can get really confused on what the law is because
a lot of people think that what they see on TV,
just because it's broad cast in Oklahoma, that doesn't mean
it's Oklahoma law. That doesn't mean that those laws you're

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hearing about apply to our state. And remember those are
TV shows made for the entire world, so they can
get confusing. And that's why you want to give us
a call so we can straighten those confusions out to
make sure you understand what your rights are in the
state of Oklahoma.

Speaker 1 (01:45:19):
Chad is on the line, Chad, what's your question for?
Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates, Yes, go ahead, what's
your question here?

Speaker 10 (01:45:28):
I found a stack of cash and I yeah, I
found it in a parking lot and I did some research,
said I needed to make an attempt. I called the
place where I found it, let them know if anyone
you know, came up missing, if they described it, I

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give it back. I called the police office.

Speaker 9 (01:45:52):
Of the town.

Speaker 10 (01:45:53):
I told them the same thing. And I haven't heard
a word. I've just stuck it in the in And
can you know, Oh, and how long do I need
to wait before I can spend it?

Speaker 2 (01:46:05):
Memory with this money, Well, how much did you find?

Speaker 9 (01:46:08):
Well, it's a pretty good amount.

Speaker 10 (01:46:10):
It's enough to run someone's day.

Speaker 2 (01:46:13):
Well, it's over that's subjective.

Speaker 1 (01:46:15):
Five hundred dollars is a thousand? Is it over ten?

Speaker 10 (01:46:18):
It's over a thousand.

Speaker 2 (01:46:20):
Okay, you know you've done the right things.

Speaker 11 (01:46:22):
You've checked with the place, you've called the police on that,
you've made report. I mean, you've done everything you should
do as far as a set amount of time. There's
not a law that says, well you have to wait
X number of days from this call or anything. But
I mean typically I've seen a couple of weeks before
you're able to do that again. Before you go and
spend it, you want to follow up at the place

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and with the cops and say, hey, I called, I
talk to you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:46:46):
A couple of weeks ago.

Speaker 11 (01:46:47):
Have you heard anything. Just make sure you kind of
cya yourself when you're doing that. And then if they said, well,
no one's you know, we've not had anybody make any
reports or come in asking or anything like that, then.

Speaker 2 (01:47:02):
Have fun.

Speaker 9 (01:47:02):
All right, Well, I appreciate your time.

Speaker 11 (01:47:05):
Congratulations man, goodness, And this is a good example of
someone trying to do the right thing, right. I mean
a lot of people would just stuck it in their
pocket and go, yeah, you know, but you don't do that.
You like, if you find it in a park Walmart
parking lot, you need to go in and talk to
the management and make a report about it, and then
of course call the police to make a report about it.
And that way you see why, I aid yourself so
no one can come back and say, well, he stole it.

Speaker 2 (01:47:26):
No, I made a report.

Speaker 11 (01:47:27):
Here's the report, here's a data called the cop here's
the detective I talked to, this is the person, here's
the manager I talked to it Walmart, and the day
I talk to what we talked about. I mean, if
you document all that stuff, you've got your sawayaid cover
and it is what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
Doing diligence is something you've addressed before, Like, you have
to make sure that you can show if you have
to go to court, you can show you've done your
part right exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:47:48):
And there's so many people that want to can I
say the B word?

Speaker 1 (01:47:51):
Is that?

Speaker 9 (01:47:51):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (01:47:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:47:51):
Go ahead? Sorry, I always just want to cover myself.

Speaker 1 (01:47:54):
Heavy fonetic on the bee, Go ahead, right.

Speaker 11 (01:47:56):
So people want to bitch and moan about. People want
to bitch amount about Oh, well she should have done
this or you should have done that. Well, take some responsibility, right,
all right, there's gotta be some self responsibility here on
your own actions, buddy.

Speaker 6 (01:48:12):
Well, and I think a lot of people too, if
they lose the amount of money like that in a
parking lot, they're gonna go right back. They're gonna go back,
and if it's gone, they're not thinking to call the
police right to say I left, Did anyone turn Most people, yeah,
that's someone that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:48:27):
Oh, I don't know if I called. If I lose
a thousand dollars, I'm definitely going and sign being like, hey,
I know this is a long shot, but turn in
lost cash.

Speaker 11 (01:48:35):
Well, and I think you know when you're talking about
it and I don't. Obviously, we don't know where this happened.
It sounded like it was a small town because he said,
you know, I call the cops.

Speaker 2 (01:48:43):
Of the town a small town or whatever.

Speaker 11 (01:48:45):
But you know, typically major retailers have cameras everywhere, Okay,
so you can always go in and say, hey, I
lost this money, this is when I lost it. Can
can we can you look on your cameras and see
what if anybody picked it up? In addition to asking
did anybody make rapport? Did anybody you know say that
they found those those kind of things?

Speaker 1 (01:49:05):
But you know, I agree.

Speaker 11 (01:49:08):
I mean, a thousand dollars or more, you're gonna immediately
go back and if it's missing, you're gonna do everything
you can to find it, especially if it's the mortgage money,
or rent money, or your car payment or something of
that nature.

Speaker 2 (01:49:20):
I mean, hopefully he didn't find it right outside a bank.

Speaker 11 (01:49:23):
Right from a legal standpoint, I mean, he's done everything.
There's only so much you can do, guys. I mean,
that's the thing is, as long as you've done everything
you can, and you've been honest about it, right, and
you've tried to contact everybody you can think of to
contact about it, then you've done your due diligence.

Speaker 1 (01:49:39):
That's Texas. My husband and I are planning a trip
to the Virgin Islands. I'd like to make sure we
have some type of will in place just in case
we don't come back. Is that appropriate?

Speaker 2 (01:49:48):
Absolutely? And you know, give us a call. We can
help you with that.

Speaker 11 (01:49:50):
I think we're going to see an increase of this
because of what happened in Washington, DC. You know, my
wife and I were talking about this the other day,
and you know, you never know, right, I mean, you
never know what was that black hawk doing so high?

Speaker 2 (01:50:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 11 (01:50:10):
I have some weird theories, but for another day, for
another day, and you know it, those are fun for me.
But you know, I'm my heart goes out to those
families and all those people that were on the plane,
the workers, the pilots, the everybody that was on that
plane that was hurt and killed. But it's always a

(01:50:31):
good idea to have a will or a trust in
place because you never know it's going to happen. Yeah,
you know, you never know when you could be driving
down the road and a bust them out of nowhere.

Speaker 2 (01:50:39):
That's it, you know, So It's always good to have
a will.

Speaker 11 (01:50:42):
It's always good to have a trust or something in
place so you know where your stuff's going and who's
being taken care of, especially if you've got children. That's
always a great thing to have in place. So if
you're you've got these concerns and you're flying again, you know, airplanes,
there's been a lot of crashes lately for whatever reason.

Speaker 2 (01:51:00):
Please give us a call. We'd love to help you
out and give you that peace of mind.

Speaker 1 (01:51:03):
Yeah, you don't have to be on a plane with
a helicopter flying too high. You can have a plane
crash like that happened.

Speaker 2 (01:51:07):
In Philadelphia, right, No, we're a metavac.

Speaker 1 (01:51:10):
So this text says, I have no court order for custody,
but I've been paying child support the whole life of
the child, not the child. Now the child is a teenager,
and they told me they want to live with me permanently.
If it's agreed upon with both parties, Do I need
to go to court and get something written in stone
and will I need to continue paying child support?

Speaker 11 (01:51:29):
Okay, So if the child comes and lives with you,
the answer is no, child support is to be given
to the other side. To help take care of issues
when the child is with that individual for longer periods
of time. Typically not always, but typically, so you know,
the answer would probably be no. As far as getting
an order, I mean you should yes, because until you

(01:51:50):
this sounds like a paternity case.

Speaker 2 (01:51:52):
This does not sound like a divorce case.

Speaker 11 (01:51:58):
You want to be able to have that so you
can go get the child enroll, take them to the doctor,
do all these things that you need to do, you know,
and if the other side isn't going to argue about
it being done, give me a holler.

Speaker 2 (01:52:10):
Let's get it done and get that peace of mind
for you.

Speaker 1 (01:52:13):
Jeff Fensley from Hensley Associates is in the studio to
answer your questions. This next one feels like an opinion question.

Speaker 6 (01:52:20):
Okay, why does it take the.

Speaker 1 (01:52:21):
Court so much longer to deal with deadbeat moms compared
to dead beat dads. The amount of fathers I've witnessed
fighting against the terrible mama baby Mama's in court is
so much longer than the mothers I've witnessed fighting the
same thing as someone who's in the trenches with that right.
Do you share that same sentiment? Man?

Speaker 11 (01:52:39):
You know I've seen it on both sides. In the
last eighteen years of practice, I know that it's frustrating
on both sides. I know that sometimes the court system
can be slow. One of the things we have in
Tulsa County that they started a long, long time ago
is is it's a Friday morning court called rocket docket.

Speaker 2 (01:53:00):
That's its informal name. Okay, it's the child support enforcement.

Speaker 11 (01:53:03):
Docket, but we call it it's called the rocket docket
because you can get you can file contempt on somebody
who isn't paying. The first hearing is within thirty three
to four weeks, and that person has arraigned on that contempt,
and then with the next three to four weeks they
immediately have a hearing as opposed to waiting six months plus.

(01:53:24):
So that's why it's called the rocket docket, is because
it gets done much of a esther that way than
the old days where we would have to do it
and it would take months and months and months past that.

Speaker 2 (01:53:32):
So, you know, I hear the frustration. I don't know why.

Speaker 11 (01:53:37):
I think smaller you know, some of the smaller counties
are much slower on it for whatever reason. There are
a few counties around Tulsa and I will not name them,
but I will say there are a few. There are
a few smaller counties around here in south of US
and north and all over in east and west that
kind of have an older mentality on things, and.

Speaker 2 (01:54:01):
Unfortunately that is what it is.

Speaker 11 (01:54:03):
If you have a problem with that, contact your legislator
or you know, vote differently in your county.

Speaker 2 (01:54:09):
But I don't know.

Speaker 11 (01:54:10):
I don't have a straight answer, simply because I'm not
the judge. I mean, everybody is supposed to be dealt
with equally, you know, as far as women shouldn't get
more leeway than men and vice first. I mean, everybody's
supposed to be an equal in court, and so you know,
I can't tell you other than that's what the judges.

Speaker 2 (01:54:27):
Some judges do, and that's I don't know. I hate
to say, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:54:32):
Last one for Jeff here from Hinsley and Associates. Any
family law question he can help. I'll give you a
number in a minute how you can call and have
a free consultation with him. Since my girlfriend and her
children's father have come to an agreement with shared custody
that was drawn up by their lawyers, they're both happy
with the agreement, but the judge has rejected finalizing the
agreement a few times because of some wording. The agreement
has been in practice since March of last year, but

(01:54:54):
she is continuing to get changed every month by her lawyers.
Doesn't normally take this long to finalize an.

Speaker 11 (01:54:59):
Agreement, I'm thinking, because the answer should be no, it shouldn't.
But there's always different circumstances, and we don't know every like,
for example, what's the what's what language is the judge changing? Now,
we had a particular judge in Tulsa for a little
bit who was very particular about these kind of things,

(01:55:21):
and we had it was taking forever to get orders
entered from everybody, didn't matter who you were as an attorney.
That judge is not on the family law docket anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:55:34):
And so you know that changed.

Speaker 11 (01:55:36):
Should it take that long? Not really no, But again
I don't know that. Again we're missing a specific here.
I don't know what the judge is asking to change.
Is a DHS language it's missing? Is I mean, what's
what's missing?

Speaker 1 (01:55:49):
The judge has a responsibility to make sure it's the.

Speaker 2 (01:55:51):
Order is correct.

Speaker 11 (01:55:52):
Yeah, yeah, and so it's and then it's equitable and
that it's fair and all these other things.

Speaker 2 (01:55:56):
I mean, judges have that responsibility.

Speaker 11 (01:55:58):
So you know, if there's ending it back saying this
needs to be changed, you know, the attorneys can always
go to the judge and say, well, I see you
did this, but why I don't quite understand, and they
have the ability to do that. We have the ability
any time to go and ask a judge, hey, I
respect your decision here, but can you explain why because
I don't quite understand. And that's always available, so you know,
whoever this is, please call me. I'd love to get

(01:56:19):
more specific so I can give you a much more
clear answer.

Speaker 1 (01:56:22):
Every case is uniquely different. That's why Jeff has set
up this free consultation. When you call his office and
mention kmod that phone numbers nine eight three nine eight
five six ninety two for Hinsling Associates nine three nine
eight five six nine two minch kmode get a free
consultation over the phone. You guys practice in other areas
of law as.

Speaker 11 (01:56:40):
Well, Absolutely so throra PRESCA office. We do everything else
in addition to family law. So if you've got a
criminal case from as lowly as a speeding ticket or
a jaywalking ticket, all the way up to murder and
everything in between.

Speaker 2 (01:56:51):
Please give us a call. We'd be happy to help
you with your case.

Speaker 11 (01:56:53):
If you've been heard in a car wreck, if you've
been hurt by somebody in the medical field, if you
been you know, treated wrong by somebody else, please give.

Speaker 2 (01:57:03):
Us a call.

Speaker 11 (01:57:04):
We'd love to help you with any case you've got.
If you've got oil and gas issues, if you've got
UH contract issues, if you need a will drawn up
or or trust, if you've got a probate issue, anything
in addition to.

Speaker 2 (01:57:17):
Famuel all we can help you with.

Speaker 11 (01:57:18):
Please give us a call at our Bahust office, which
is the Shoemake Law Firm. Yes it's a different name,
but it is our firm. Or call us in Tulsen.
We can hook you up at that office as well.

Speaker 1 (01:57:31):
Six nine two friends in associates, Jeff, have a great week.
Hey two, thanks, we'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:57:35):
Four of the Big Mad Morning Show is NEST ninety
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Speaker 1 (01:57:50):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine four
six oh K M O D. You can also text
BMMS and then what you want to say to eight two,
nine or five. Here people talk about all the time,
like quitting their job and wanting to do influencer something
like that. Right, Yeah, And this story, this woman was

(01:58:16):
a police officer and she quit her job to become
an adult film star. And she claims in her first
week she made how much.

Speaker 6 (01:58:27):
Lindsay, in her first week or year?

Speaker 1 (01:58:30):
Did you say in her first week? I'll give you that.
Within the first month, in the first month, how much
do you think she made?

Speaker 6 (01:58:36):
A couple grand?

Speaker 1 (01:58:37):
Okay, like two four two grand? Okay, gim twenty five
thousand dollars. She claims she made one hundred thousand dollars
in her first month. Damn what lindsay, Wow, shaking her
head in disgust or disbelief or disbelief. I don't know

(01:59:02):
anything about the pay scale of the porn world, don't
It's not clear to me if she went into like
OnlyFans porn or she went into real out in La
Orange County porn, right right, right, And they say a

(01:59:23):
lot of people make a lot of money off only fans. Yeah,
who's that broad that? I questioned her validity that she
had sex with like a thousand people in one day. Yeah,
and she posted only fans, only fans. She took that off.
So she's done all that work forgive me, but been
violated by one thousand men or one hundred men or

(01:59:45):
whatever the number was, and now she's got nothing to
show for. Yeah, Lily Phillips, that's one of them. There's
a couple of them out there that are trying to
do it because Lily Phillips is one of them. Because
it ain't your thing, it ain't your platform, there's no guarantee.
Bonnie Blue is the other one. Can you imagine. I
love that you have these just off the tip of

(02:00:05):
your tongue and I'll be like, Hey, what are we
doing on Friday? You're like, I don't know. But when
to take that type of people just I guess people
I don't know. I just look at that level of
intimacy as damaging to your quote unquote soul. Right, and
then you get you think you're doing it for money,

(02:00:27):
but then you find out the rug gets yanked out
from underneath you. Right, it feels wild, feels reckless. Now
if you go and go to LA and you have
a bustling career, right, and then that's the next step.
Then the progression is to make a video of getting

(02:00:48):
gang banged. Just a quick Google search, I just search
how much does a porn star get paid? Right up
and coming up performers may earn as little as three
hundred and ninety dollars a movie. ESPUL performers can earn
six figure salaries or more a year, it says. According
to a report from The Independent, a female actress might

(02:01:09):
earn thirteen hundred dollars for a scene with a dude,
and then eight hundred and ninety five dollars for a
scene with a woman. So with that being said, and
here's another one that's like, okay, anywhere from seven hundred
and fifteen hundred. So let's just say you're you're doing
thirteen hundred dollars for one scene with a with a guy,

(02:01:29):
right as a female actress. Yeah, you do a couple
of those in a day, you know, let's just say
you do like four of them in a day.

Speaker 8 (02:01:40):
I could see how you'd make one hundred thousand dollars
in the first month. Yeah, Now that being with that
being said, that's probably you know, you're legit, Like you said,
La Las Vegas porn companies, right, brawsers, stuff like that
with the only fans I don't know, because you're relying

(02:02:01):
on subscriptions for that point, right, Yeah, I mean all
of it's work, right, it's all work, But you gotta
you gotta build the subscriptions as to where it's like, okay,
we're uh, we'll just say brawsers. For example, we're the
production company. We're gonna pay you to make the scene.
You know, here's your money. You did your job, here's
your money. Have a nice day. It's not just relying

(02:02:22):
on Wow. Tim tells ten friends, you know, so I
can they can subscribe to my channel and I can
make that money.

Speaker 1 (02:02:31):
All right, I said, what do you she's got a
weird ass? What do you Yeah, what do you? What
do you give her?

Speaker 6 (02:02:40):
Lindsay, I think she's she's got a really cute face.
I'll give her, Oh, but then some pictures are face
not so much. Yeah, I give her a seven.

Speaker 1 (02:02:54):
Get I sent the one with I think she has.
I looked at her like, that's a weird ass. What
do you think give me? What do you give her?
That is a weird mission?

Speaker 2 (02:03:04):
It is so weird?

Speaker 6 (02:03:05):
Yeah, right, there's something even an ass. It's like just
the tops of her legs back with crack exactly it's
a back with crack, yes.

Speaker 1 (02:03:14):
And there's somewhere it looks great. But when you just
see her in like a song, you're like, what's going
on there? Is there?

Speaker 9 (02:03:21):
Is that?

Speaker 1 (02:03:21):
The coast of Florida? Yeah, that just took her down
a notch or four.

Speaker 8 (02:03:28):
Yeah, because like, all right, so in this video that
you send, you know, she turns around and you can
pause it.

Speaker 1 (02:03:36):
She based on this particular.

Speaker 8 (02:03:38):
Video with her weird back crack, yeah right, and that
weird looking face, I give her a six.

Speaker 1 (02:03:45):
Man.

Speaker 6 (02:03:46):
And I don't know about the lighting in this butt picture,
but it almost makes it look like her cheeks have
like weird points at the bottom.

Speaker 8 (02:03:53):
Ment Maybe it's implant gone wrong. Oh that's possible, That's
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:03:56):
Like the coast of Florida, Like I can't tell which
is this the Gulf of Mexico or the Pacific.

Speaker 8 (02:04:01):
Yeah, that's something that the Atlantic. I give her a
six based on that particular video that you'd send. Looking
at her other pictures, she cute.

Speaker 1 (02:04:10):
It's a lot of makeup though, Yeah, well there's one here.
I'll send you this one too, because I agree that
type of makeup and here is just not my bag. Man,
I'm not. There's nothing wrong with it. It's just not
my thing. But there's a couple in her oh natural
look that you're like, okay, girl.

Speaker 6 (02:04:28):
You don't need all that right, Oh she does without it.

Speaker 1 (02:04:31):
He puts her up to like an eight. Here's a
hot take. Y'all wear too much makeup. Y'all wear too
much makeup. That's fair. I'm I'm going to give her.
I think I'm gonna give her a seven to seven
because she's she's almost an eight. But all that makeup
and just the forcedness of it, you're like, try too hard, girl.

(02:04:54):
Yeah you are pretty, but you're trying too hard on
it notches it down. But she easily poorn material one
hundred percent for sure. With that. By the way, I'm
grading on like a different scale than I would if
she was like a teacher. There's a curve here, and
it's also her ass. Yeah, but I think she's she's

(02:05:16):
a if I saw at a bar, I mean I
would talk to her and those things. But when you
compare her to and in the like, if you had
to compare her you put her against like everyday people,
she's probably a nine. Yes, yeah, but in that genre,
I think you can be a little more harsh on
the on the grading, I think, yeah, but her in

(02:05:42):
a uniform, man, she's a ten. Yeah, I agree that one.
That one with her where she's in her vest and
she's all geared up. I mean, she's a ten all day.
But when you see her dulled up for porn like
porn stuff, you're like, whoa girl? Yeah, like you said,
just trying too hard?

Speaker 6 (02:06:03):
And what does she look like in an unfiltered photo?

Speaker 1 (02:06:07):
I would like to look that damn boogeyman. There's a
trend on TikTok right now. I don't know if you
guys have seen it, and it is so captivating and
terrifying at the same time. Is they show women in
like their normal every day and then there's a transition
of them dulled up. And the dauled up most of
the time is like they're tens.

Speaker 6 (02:06:28):
Yeah, but the.

Speaker 1 (02:06:31):
Ones before before the transition, they look like what's his
name from Lord of the Rings? Precious Ring. You're like, yeah,
You're like, God, it makes me so angry. I'm like,
that's not cool.

Speaker 2 (02:06:45):
That's mean.

Speaker 1 (02:06:46):
Yeah, I'm talking like hair thinned out, yeah, cracked teeth,
And then like the transition happens and they're gorgeous, and
you're like, I can't you meet some girl at a
bar and you go home, like does she take all
that off before you hook up?

Speaker 9 (02:07:05):
No?

Speaker 1 (02:07:06):
No, no, because you'd be running the hell out the door.

Speaker 11 (02:07:08):
Man.

Speaker 1 (02:07:09):
I feel I be worried you're gonna try and steal
my jewelry, right, like my gold ring. It's alarming. How
but do you when do you take that off after
they leave?

Speaker 3 (02:07:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:07:24):
But if you have a relationship that works out, at
what point do you go, hey, oh, by the way,
I'm not this Yeah. Yeah, maybe some people wouldn't.

Speaker 8 (02:07:34):
Some people would never turn that off, you know, just
because they're like, as soon as the secret will be
out then So I just got to keep that up,
wake up in the morning, apply the makeup before they
get up or what I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:07:48):
That is definitely a Ward and June Cleaver thing.

Speaker 6 (02:07:50):
Yeah. There was a story about guy. I don't know
if it was from Korea or China. He divorced his
wife because after their children were born, the children looked
nothing like them. They were, he said, ugly, and she
later admitted in court that she had had plastic surgery,

(02:08:10):
and so when he met her.

Speaker 1 (02:08:13):
She did.

Speaker 6 (02:08:13):
She he had no idea that she had ever had plastics.

Speaker 1 (02:08:16):
I mean that's a whole other thing, right, like the
idea of that who you find and you meet, maybe
they had plastic surgery and you think they're beautiful and
never show in motion, but at one time they did. Yeah, right,
that's hilarious. All Right, we got to take a break.
We'll be back.

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