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Speaker 1 (00:00):
There's more variety from the two thousands of the nineties,
(00:02):
and today it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus
and Corey started at six o'clock. Good morning everyone, Hello,
was going on Corey.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Uh, First, I just want to say it was the
most beautiful drive in because the fog was sitting so
perfectly amongst the downtown buildings, and it's like one of
those things where I would have loved just taking a picture,
but I was driving, so I didn't.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I thought you were going to say you were so
late to work that the sun was coming up and
it was just gorgeous. Sunrise was gorgeous, And now I
was talking about the fog. You dank.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
And the reason I was late is so stupid, because
I was dilly dallying. All of a sudden, I was like,
oh I need.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
To charge this.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Oh god, oh you know what, I should probably do
a little bit of trimming on my cuticles.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Oh wait, how are my pores? I'm so stupid. If
you ever just like kind of got lost in your
dilly DOLLI you did it this morning. I did it
this morning, I mean, and then you're like, oh, I
got to make sure I put that on the laundry
I need. I needed dry shampoo. And I sat down
and gone on an Amazon and I said the words, Marcus,
do we need to be doing this right now? Right?
It's the it's the ADHD I get, it's kicking in.
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You have to do it right now. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I'm usually better than that, though I don't usually do that.
And then all of a sudden I looked at clock.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I'm like, uh oh, save. My only source of stress
is between five twenty five and five thirty five, wondering
if you're going to make it.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
That's where I texted you and said, I'm on my way.
I know that you get a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
That and how am I going to pay for this
private school? Literally? These are my not equal. These are
my two stresses in life. I have no other stress.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I'm sorry that you don't come in like one hundred
and fifty percent like I do.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I am rare to go. How do we turn back
your clock so that I did five point thirty becomes
five point fifteen? I did, what do you mean? I did?
Durn my clock back? I'm getting up earlier and I
still dilly dallied. Okay, the next time this happens. Say
we do what I do, say the words do I
need to do this right now? Or can I get
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to the station and then do it? I did it
last night.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
So before I had my MRI for my neck, I
had to take all of my jewelry out, you know,
because it's a big giant magnet. And so we had
the big day on the bay and I'm like, oh,
there's a per chance to take the stud out of
my nose and put it in a nose ring all
off y two K.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Well, last night I was like, you know what, I
should really switch them out.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
So I spent like thirty minutes last night before bed
trying to switch them out, and I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Jeff's like, do you really need to be doing this
right now? Feels like an intervention or something. No where,
where's your family? Let's get him in here? Well there's
Jeff and the dogs. Literally my only stress to get here.
Pressure on me? And then how am I going to
pay for my kids' school? That's don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
You put kids school above me. I will not take that.
I will not accept that. You're being mean.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
What's going on today? What do we have nothing but support? You?
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We need your help with something, especially if you have
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teenage daughters, because there's a guy on Reddit asking a
question he's a single dad, how to navigate an issue
with his daughter that I don't have an answer to
and neither does Corey. No, so because I remember seeing
this when I was a kid. Oh, I definitely went
through it with my sister, but I don't know how
to navigate it. We'll talk about it at six fifteen.
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We'll fill you in more variety for the two thousands
than nineties. And today it's Star one O one three.
It's Marcus and Corey. Good morning. Hello. This is a
dilemma with a teenage daughter that I don't know the
answer to. So if you have a team, might deal
with this, and I'm probably this is one of those
moments where I will default to my wife. However, if
you have a teenage daughter, and especially if you're a
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single dad, please listen up, because we're gonna need some help. Yeah.
It's a guy on Reddit who writes his name's Clayton.
He says, as a single dad of a teenage daughter,
I'm having an issue concerning her fashion choices. She's taken
to doing clothing exchanges with her friends, and it's a
problem for two reasons. First, the clothes I buy her
weren't exactly cheap. I have an issue with them just
being given away to friends who might now not ever
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give them back. Second, her friends are far more quote
unquote adventurous with their wardrobe choices, and my daughter and
I have had serious blowouts over it not being appropriate
for her to show that much of her body while
she's out the about. I'm tired of fighting about it,
and I know that i'm the dad, but I also
fully realize that what she wears when she leaves the
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house could very well be different than what she actually
goes to somebody else's house with and changes. How do
I deal with this? Because what happens here If he
brings the hammer down and is super strict with it,
and then the second she turns eighteen she goes nuts,
I don't know. We can bring the hammer down. But
here's what my sister did, and I know your sister
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did this too, y maniac. My mom would not approve.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
What she's wearing, so she put on something my mom
would approve of, and then put a different outfit in
her bag, hand or borrowed clothes from her friends. Unless
you're monitoring her while she's out, I don't know how
you actually control this, especially if she's trading clothes with friends.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
There was one night I'll never forget. I was a
sophomore in high school and she was going to a
friend's house and they're like, Marcus, go with her. Make
sure she you know, acts propers. You're younger, right, yes,
by a year. We get in the vehicle and literally
going down the street and she goes take the wheel,
and we had a pickup truck with a camper shell
on it. Yeah, she says, take the wheel. I'm like,
what could you do? Real license? No, I'm fourteen. She
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goes take the wheel. She dives into the back of
the pickup truck and changes into whatever outfit was in
her bag and then pops back out like Duke's a hazard. Yeah,
how do you control that? And she would take the
clothes that my mother bought her and she didn't like
them necessarily, so she'd cut them up, and then she'd
screw up, and then my mother would find cut up
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clothes in the bottom of the closet. I don't know
the answer to this, Clayton.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
I would get in so much trouble if I cut
up clothing because.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
That's my hard earned money. That's money. You just cut
up my money. I'm lucky because you know. And again
we're talking about this single dad who doesn't know how
to deal with the fact that his daughter and her
friends are doing a clothing exchange. The clothes that she
gets are more revealing than he's comfortable with. I have
the luxury of being able to default to my wife
because my wife is she's very conscientious about this stuff,
and if she's cool with it, I might raise an
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eyebrow and go, all right, we need to talk about this.
What would you raise an eyebrow too? We're talking if
my daughter walked out in something that I thought was inappropriate.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Right, But I'm saying, what is that? What's inappropriate? Is
it a mini skirt? Is it a bear mid dress?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Yes? Am I just gonna list everything, and you're gonna
say yes, yes, it is this tough spot.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Remember my mom, I was getting ready to go out
one night and I was over twenty one, I was
an adult, and she just looked at me and she's
like why She shot up just like that. Yeah, in
the sense of like, why do you need to show
so much skin? And I was thinking to myself, I'm
actually kind of glad I did because I can't show
that skin now, no one wants to see it.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
But if you're in your twenties, cool, Yeah. My rule
will be and listen to me and big man, none
of my family to write this down, Write this down,
mark the time. You're under my roof. You're under my rules.
You can do whatever you want. When you turn eighteen,
I don't care. I can't wait till this sentence actually
comes out of my mouth in a group setting at
my house. Literally, that's how I feel.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, you know what the first thing I did when
I turned eighteen, boy god tattoo.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, and my Mom's like, new, you're gonna do that.
I'm going to hope that my daughter and I will
be intellectually on the same level and be able to
have a conversation as to why and not just my
way or the highway type situation or bring dad brings
the hammer down. But I do have friends that were
kind of wild who in retrospect, I have a friend
that told a story about her dad coming to a
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house party to get her to extract her. He was
in the military. Yeah, and she said in retrospect, I
thank him for it. I needed that their situations. I
think conversations are so key.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I like that you said, do you want to talk
to or if you want to give your clothes a weight,
you're going to have to start.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Paying for them yourself. Exactly what the other thing I
would do? I want you to be safe out there. Yes,
fully we can have a good discourse. Listen to me.
Did we just come up with a solution? Maybe? Oh man,
it's got to be somebody else smarter that actually has
real life experience in this that can offer. If you
wouldn't mind, the talkback is open. What would you do
in this situation? Maybe you've lived it. You know your
daughter's wearing stuff that you don't approve of. Please hit
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us up and let us know. It's a little red microphone.
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two thousands, the nineties, and today Star one, O, one three.
It's Marcus and Corey Wednesday, Good morning. I do like
a good clickbait headline. Sometimes here's one. Okay, this tiny
tweak to your bedtime routine can help you lose weight
while sleeping. That sounds amazing. Go to bed early. All
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I have to do is lie down. All you know,
All you have to do is go to bed early.
How tough is that for you? Corey Foley?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
It's hard because I am a night owl, which is
just the opposite of what you need to be for
this job. And then I'm at night and with my husband,
we're having a good time, We're watching funny stuff, and
I just don't want that moment to end.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I thought about a billboard for our show Morning Radio,
not Mourning People, because I am also a werewolf. It's terrible.
I love it. I love this show so much I'll
get up for it. The other night, my wife was like,
I don't even know how you do it. Every night
I'm getting like five hours of sleep and I'm cool.
It's not good though, No, it's not good for you.
(09:30):
Tell me how I can lose weight. Oh sorry. Going
to bed early leads to less snacking. That's step one.
You can't eat if you're asleep. Oh okay past that.
Nighttime eaters consume around seven hundred calories, which is just
a gigantic no no, oh god, especially if you're trying
to maintain you know, the big buzz phrase is calorie deficit. Yeah,
(09:53):
so no late night snacking. I try to end all
my eating by like six o'clock. Going to bed early
helps balance hormones, supports your circadian rhythm. There was a
nutritionists who explain that not getting enough sleep will cause
the body to release more of the hunger hormone oof.
So you get hungry now you're up, you're eating right
(10:15):
before bed. Not good, not good. Going to bed early
supports a healthy metabolism. Obviously, if your metabolism is slower,
you're gonna hold onto fat more. And you go to
bed early, you're in a better move. The next day,
you're gonna make healthier decisions. Allegedly, I just.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Wish it was you know, I could take my brain,
put it in a cabinet for the night, and then
I wouldn't have any sort of movies playing in my
head or thoughts that are keeping me from sleeping.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Nighttime anxiety is different than nine time munchies. That's a
whole other week.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
I know, I know, but maybe my anxiety is gonna
make me run to the fridge.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
There you go. Easy hacks to help you lose weight
while you're sleeping. Love it. All you gotta do is
go to bed early, go to bed. How we do it.
It's what's trendan on Star on.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
What's happening in entertainment news, the biggest stories of the
day and everything people are talking about today in the Bay.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
The details about the wedding between Selena Gomez and Benny
Blanco are not as secretive. They're going to be tying
the Notts Turber twenty seventh in Santa Barbara at a
private estate. Guests will be at the nearby El and
Canta Hotel, which rooms could be thirty five hundred dollars
a night, but it's all booked up. Guests will be
picked up and driven to the location without knowing where
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it will take place ahead of time. They started dating
in twenty twenty three, and I think it's too bad
that celebrities have to go to these lengths to have
a ceremony because of paparazzi, social media. You know, it's
like it's they can't just enjoy their day. Yeah, but
they are super cute. I saw them at the Emmys together.
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James Cameron has revealed he's still working on a new
Terminator project. He is busy with the Avatar films, but
an interview, he said he's struggling with writer's block. He
says it's hard to write science fiction right now because
real events we're living in a science fiction age. Rapid
advances an AI make dystopian storytelling more challenging. That is
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so true.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
It's hard to write fantasy fiction when it's actually nonfiction.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
When it's right outside in a way, Mow Friends fans
get ready because Central Perk is moving into Times Square permanently.
The cafe will open in the fall. It's described as
a modern day version of legendary TV hangout, complete with
artisanal drinks, friends inspired bites, and of course the famous
orange couch which you and I got to sit on
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during the Friends experience that was here in the South.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
It was fun, It was really fun.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
You get to take pictures, you get to go to
Central Perk, The spot follows the permanent outpost in Boston,
which launched in twenty twenty three, and the attention it's
getting is amazing because the show ended twenty one one
years ago.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Iconic though twenty one years ago. It can drink now.
Let's see what are we leading with. There's gonna be
a cool down tomorrow. It's gonna be hot as hades today,
but tomorrow, and I'm gonna be in Santa Clara this afternoon.
I am so excited. Can I just please gosh jealous?
(13:24):
I'm very jealous. My two favorite things are coming together.
You're San Francisco forty nine ers and food. I have
been invited as an official s F forty nine ers
influencer to showcase their new food offerings at Levi Stadium.
Do you know what you're gonna be tasting? No idea,
I don't care. I'm so excited. So I'll be driving
out to Santa Clara. The bad news is it's gonna
be one hundred and sixty seven degrees ah that they're
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not gonna need a warmer for any of this food.
But I will have a full video let you everybody
in on this. It's gonna be so much fun. Speaking
of food, it is iHeartRadio Hunger Action Week, Yes, and
we have teamed up to try to fill the food
banks here in the Bay area as more and more
families in the Bay need our help. So with our
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sister stations, you know, Wild km Yell the Breeze, we
are all posted up at different spots. Corey and I
want to meet you and we're going to be at
the Sprouts in Newark on Friday, So that's on Jarvis
Avenue four to six pm. You can come through. We'll
have a QR code setup for cash donations. If you
want to bring some canned food, great, please make sure
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it's non perishable. You can If you can't make it
and you still want to donate, you can go to
the website as well one on one three dot com
for full info. Again, it's iHeartRadio Hunger Action Week. We'll
be in Newark on Friday afternoon from from four to
six at the Sprouts. What I want to know if
you live in Newark or Fremont of the surrounding area,
where am I eating before the gig. I don't get
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to Newark that often, but if you're like, oh, Marcus,
you're coming to Newark. You have to go to blah
blah blah to have the blah blah. I don't even
care what it is, but please hit me up with
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Marcus and Corey on Instagram. Giants dropped a tough one
last night, sixty five to the Diamondbacks. Third game in
that series is this afternoon. We're three games out of
the playoffs. Let's just cross our fingers. Go Giants. And
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then the Valkyries have the big game tonight, hosting Game
two of their playoffs series against Minnesota at SAP Center
because of the scheduling conflict at Chase Center. But there's
all kinds of stuff going on four thirty. There's gonna
be a block party starting on Barack Obama Boulevard and
San Jose. There's a watch party at Thrive City starting
at five thirty, and then tip off on that game
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It's Star one on one three, It's Marcus and Corey
back with second data update. Let's get started.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
If you're having a problem in your dating life, we
want to help you out. So if you go on
a first date and you can't get a second one,
we will.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Track down why spring on Adrian? Adrian, Hello, Hey, how's
it going. We're all right? Man. I understand you have
been ghosted, but based on your DM, it sounds like
you were really into this girl. So let's talk about Brooke.
How did you guys meet? And then what did like,
how did the first date go? What'd you guys do?
Speaker 5 (16:22):
We met through mutual friends. It was kind of like
a little small party, like a rooftop party at my
friend's apartment, and we had mutual friends, and I agreed
to meet up with her for some Hawaiian food over
in St. Carlos. So we laughed all through dinner and
we just kind of clicked. We even liked kind of
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the same foods, which I think is important in a relationship.
And I really wanted to impress her. I was like,
I'll do something crazy and I surprised her with a
helicopter ride afterward.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
On the date, like the same night. Wow, this is
a first may I ask Adrian, what do you do
for work?
Speaker 5 (17:09):
I didn't finance.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Of course he is, he sells helicopter.
Speaker 5 (17:15):
In my mind it was like, hey, this is spontaneous,
romantic and unforgettable. She's gonna love it.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
I'm assuming this is like out of the San Carlos Airport,
not SFO right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
No, no, no Carlo. And frankly, it's not as expensive as
you would think. It's not really a big deal. But yeah.
And then not hearing from her after like what I
consider a magical night, I was like, wait, what what happened?
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I don't know, I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
So she is a former detective and she gets recruited
by her old boss to continue her old job as
a replicant hunter, and she gets to eliminate four escaped
replicants from the call What Turn to Earth. Before starting
the job, she goes to the corporation where they make
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the replicants and falls in love with a replicant guy.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
What is a replicant? You know what a replicant is?
You're never gonna get this movie before. Adrian has no
idea what's going on? A replicant could be android. I mean, yeah,
I knew the assignment. I mean, dude, you're this close.
Oh my god, I have no idea.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
I know.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
If anybody knows what that was, please hit us with
the talkback. I would appreciate it. Okay, so let's try
to figure this out. Let's call Brooke. We're gonna call
her with you on the phone. You know what we'll
do here? Well, have you mute? Yeah, we'll see what
she thought. I want to try to grab you a
second date, but can you hang on for a song? Yeah? Sure,
all right, we'll do it next. A second date update
A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today.
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It's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey
and we're doing second date update. We got our guy
Adrian on the phone. He is smitten with this girl Brook,
so much so. We found out that after their dinner
he surprised her with a helicopter ride. Yep, So the
only clue that we have is that this was out
of the ordinary fild Let's see what she says. Well,
maybe she's afraid of heights. Who knows who knows. Let's
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not speculate. Let's just get her on the phone. Okay, Adrian,
go ahead and meet your phone. We're gonna give Brook
a call right now and try to grab you a
second date. Here we go, Hello, I may speak with
Brook Please Brook? Hi, Brook, It's Marcus and Corea. It's
Star on one three. Hello, and good morning, Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Hey.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Hey, let's go aead.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
So you listen to our show?
Speaker 4 (19:49):
I do. I'm my way to work every morning and
uh yeah, I love you guys.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Do you listen to Second Date update?
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Uh ah, what's happening?
Speaker 1 (20:02):
An evil laugh? So?
Speaker 4 (20:05):
Uh is Adrian on the line?
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Yes, yes, Adrian? Where are you?
Speaker 5 (20:12):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (20:18):
The date sounded awesome, Brook, I mean, we all know
why we're here. Where you go stay? Adrian would like
a second date? So did something happen? Like, what's the deal?
Have you just been busy? Did you go?
Speaker 4 (20:30):
I mean I did? I'm sorry, I did go. Okay,
let me explain a little bit. It's not it's not
because I didn't I didn't like him, That's that's not
the thing. The date was amazing. I loved the date.
It was a lot of fun. We had really great chemistry.
But then at the end of the date, this guy
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just springs a helicopter ride on me. Yes, no morning,
no morning. It's just like we're doing this and like
part of me was like terrified because it was scary
and crazy, but the other part was admittedly really exciting
and thrilling. But it was a lot uh huh, okay
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for first date.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
It was a lot. Hey, Adrian, guess what The helicopter
ride threw her off a little bit.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
Yeah, I I'm gathering that. And wait, Brooke, you had
never been on a helicopter it before though, right, if
I'm not mistaken, Well no, I.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
Mean no, it was always kind of interested in it,
but like I just panicked because I was like, oh
my god, this is too much, too soon.
Speaker 5 (21:41):
But was it not cool? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (21:44):
It was. It was cool.
Speaker 5 (21:45):
It was it was fun.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
It was cool.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
Okay, what if Adrian pumped the brakes a little bit, Adrian,
are you hearing me?
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Yeah, he's still a little putt putt. I mean, do
we like him, Brooke, do we like him?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Yeah? Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
It was just it was just like a lot. It
kind of made me like lose focus on what we
were talking about, because like, oh, my god, we're going
on a helicopter?
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (22:10):
You know that's fair honestly.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Okay, Adrian, how about we tone it down?
Speaker 5 (22:15):
Maybe a speedboat ride next time?
Speaker 2 (22:18):
No?
Speaker 5 (22:20):
No, no vehicle ride, thank.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
You, No snowmobiles, no ATVs rickshaw.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
I know, maybe if we meet for a date. Am
I allowed to get you an Uber for the way home?
Speaker 1 (22:31):
Brook? Back to you?
Speaker 4 (22:32):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean I guess
that's I guess that's say that I would go out
on a date with you. But it was just like
a lot.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Do we get a second date out of this? I
can't tell Brooke.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
I mean, yeah, I'd be lying if I said I
didn't like him, so I'd be willing to go to
the moon.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Let's go. Where is the cowbell of destiny? You have
a win everyone.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
That's exciting, exciting, And I would never get in a
helicopter ever.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
It was sin It was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
I'm glad this worked out. Yeah, author, you guys guys
are experts. I think was the word you were searching for,
love experts.
Speaker 5 (23:15):
That's what I did. Is that what I said?
Speaker 1 (23:17):
Hang on the line for me? Oh my god, adorable,
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the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, It's Marcus and Corey. It's seven to twenty.
Good morning, Good morning. There is something that the younger
generations are doing, gen Z specifically, that I think is
one of the worst life decisions you could make. And
I know this because I've done it several times and
it was dumb. But half of gen Z already doing
it withdrawing from their retirement accounts, rating their retirements retirement accounts.
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You think you have plenty of time and to make up,
and you kind of do, But boy, is it a
slippery slope.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Well, you never know what's going to happen with the market,
and you never know, like all of a sudden, for
in a recession, and you're going to lose money already
in your four one K. But and there have been
times I dipped. It was to buy a house, and
you know I didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
I had to.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
But if you can avoid it at all costs, it's
the best thing you can do.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
The reason is compound interest is the eighth wonder of
the world. The example that they use is that if
you have one dollars ten thousand dollars, let's say, into
your four one K, and you withdraw it at age
twenty five to pay off debt with a very modest
seven percent annual return, that money could have been without
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another a deposit could have grown to one hundred and
fifty thousand dollars by the time you retire. Yeah, and
the reason why it's difficult to hear when you're twenty
five is because you're like, man sixty five, so far off,
I need my money now. Well, I'm here to tell
you as someone who withdrew the first time to buy
an engagement ring, and then withdrew the second time because
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all of my eating and restaurants got me in trouble,
and then we have to pay off credit card debt,
and then withdrew the third time because the same thing happened.
I am here to tell you that it was a
dumb idea. If I hadn't a done it, I'd be
sitting on three million dollars right now. Best believe I
went back and did the math. My heart hurts right now.
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Just let me be the idiot that saves you from yourself.
I've never taken it all out. I I have no
words right now where you said and look, I didn't
take it all out, but I took out substantial amounts
because the crush of thirty percent interest of retail credit
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is terrible. It's debilitating, and so I would I would
always God, I was like an addict. I would always
be like, all right, we're clear, now, let's not do
this again, and then I'm just do it again.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
It's interesting because I didn't have a lot of credit
card debt until I got married. But what's nice is
Jeff's really good at handling those finances and knowing, like
this one we need to pay off, now, this one
we can do a lower payment too.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
He's really good at allotting the money to where it is. Well,
you're leaving out the best part. Jeff is a VP
of finance. We don't all have that in our lives.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
He's good with numbers and like I said, though I
didn't have a lot of debt before I got married,
and we bought a house and this and that and
all that kind of stuff. I mean, just as you
get older you have things, you know, oh, we got
to buy two appliances, or.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
If you have a college student in your life. This
is not a plug. I think this book has the
dumbest title ever, but everything in it is valid. I
wish I would have picked up any kind of book
about how to manage your finances. This book called I
Will teach You to Be Rich. Stupid title. It sounds
like absolute snake oil. But everything in it is valid.
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And if I had picked up this book when I
was a young man and started making money, I would
be a bazillionaire. Right now, It's weird.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
We're talking about money and I feel like I'm having
a hot flash again.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Again. You don't have to get this book, but you
know again, it's called I Will Teach You to Be Rich.
But find a book. And there are so many other ways.
You could take a loan against your four oh one
K and not actually withdraw the money, because in addition
to losing out on compound interest, you're going to have
to pay a ten percent penalty for early withdrawal. Yes,
that's what I did. It didn't withdraw it. I took
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a loan against it. You can do that. You're still
going to lose out on compound interest. But like you know,
so to atone for my sins. And again we're talking
about fifty percent of gen Z have already liquidated their
four oh one case because they think they have plenty
of time, and you do, but you're gonna miss out.
There are other ways, you know, open a secondary account
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that you put do more deposits into, have those investments
earn some money, spend the money the investments earned. Don't
touch the next egg. You're laughing at me. Why I'm
not laughing, Yes you are. I'm not laughing at you.
Very vulnerable right now. I don't even know who you are.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Listen, I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing because you
sound like everybody's dad right now, and all your advice
is point on point.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
It's not it's not a negative thing.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
I just I feel like you genuinely care about helping
people out in this scenario because of the mistakes you made.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
How close am I to lecturing right now?
Speaker 2 (28:37):
It's very borderline ted talk. That's okay, No, you're making sense.
It's just it's hard. You know, earlier we were talking
about getting your teenage daughter, not to where we're revealing clothing.
There's just some things that kids aren't gonna hear.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
I just my daughter is eleven. She has been investing
for two years, which is fantastic. Probably has more money
in her saving account or your investment account than I do.
Right now, that's good retirement plan for you. I'm saying,
if I could just save one young person from being me,
you're being too hard on yourself.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
I know.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
But and if you, if you, if you just got
out of college or you got that big job, and
you think there's plenty of time, there is, But man,
you could be balling in a couple of decades if
you just live below your means and pick up a
book and learn about finances. All right, I'm done, Okay.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
I'm pretty sure that the ten thousand dollars inheritance I
got from my grandmother went all to Chili's.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
And Late Night Boy. It'll get you, all right, seven
twenty crying. Anybody want to jump in on this speaking
about finances, We do have the talkback open right now.
Would love to hear from you. It's a little red
microphone on the iHeartRadio app if you if you're streaming
Star one on one three right now Alex Warre an
ordinary more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and
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today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
It is Wednesday morning. Good morning, Wait what home dode?
Here we go. It's time for good news with Marcus
and Corey.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Sometimes all you need is one a good thought to
make it a great day.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
So let's do this.
Speaker 3 (30:16):
It's good news on Star fun one three.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
We do good news twice in the morning. Seven and
just to brighten your day a little bit, this one's
gonna warm your heart. Yeah, we're going to Corey's home
state of Florida. Oh. I like it when there's positive news.
We try to showcase because there's so much just uh.
I almost called it stupidity, but.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Well they've got like Florida man's stories, and they just
highlight the bad stuff.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
They don't highlight the good stuff. This is a story
of Florida volunteers pitching in the clean up yards for
their neighbors. And I'm here for it about ten miles
outside of Orlando. Hmm, and there is an event organized
by an organization called Community Flourishing Initiatives. I think we
should steal this in the Bay. And maybe you're already
doing this in your neighborhood. I don't know. But the
city worked with eight local churches, city staff, and businesses
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to support homeowners who just needed a little help bringing
their properties up to code. This is so great. So
over one hundred and fifty volunteers descended on these houses
and just fixed them up. Messy yards. Maybe it's a
hoarding situation, Maybe it's a clean up situation. Says right here.
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There was one property affected by hoarding that it had
attracting rodents for years and a lot of times. You know,
it's not necessarily laziness, but like there's an illness in
the family, there's a disability, orderly, elderly, overwhelming grief. I
can't tell you the number of times. And if you've
been a caregiver for an elderly parent or an elderly relative,
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like you feel so alone sometimes and helpless. You know,
I felt that way with my dad. And when somebody
stepped up when you didn't ask oh Man what a
feeling of just weight off your shoulders.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Whenever I see someone like mowing someone's lawn just out
of the kindness of their heart, I'm like, you took
time out of your day to make their day better.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
And that's awesome and it's easy, and so I just
think we could do this in basically every neighborhood. Again,
this is over one hundred and thirty volunteers banding together
to help get their neighbour's properties up to code. And
I'm here for It's what do you? Some good things
happen in Florida, right, Thank you. More variety from the
two thousands, the nineties, and today it's the Star one
on one three. It's Marcus and Corey time to play
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the bass favorite trivia game for prizes. It's called what
You Know About That.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
We have a pair of tickets to see Hannah Burner
January twenty fourth of the Masonic and the City courtesy
of Live Nation. Those tickets are on sale now at Ticketmaster.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
DestinE one is in the city. Say good morning to
Rebecca and Laurel Heights.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
Hello, Hi, good morning, How are you good?
Speaker 1 (32:46):
I understand you're doing drop off this morning. Who's in
the car with you drop off.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
I've got my daughter Anna, and then I'll swing back
around and.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
Peter up my son jeans oh man, uber Mom, Good morning, Anna,
how are you good? Welcome you guys. Good luck. Let's
go into Martinez and say I had Kaylen, good morning, Kayla,
good morning. What do you got going on this morning?
Speaker 4 (33:02):
I just drassed my son off at school and now
I'm doing homework.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
What are the subjects? That's an anthropology to college courses?
I failed? Let's move on. I don't know what you
just said. The game is super simple. It's five trivia questions,
fifty seconds to answer them all. Each person going to
be asked separately with their opponent on hold. Whoever gets
the most right answers wins. If you don't know an answer,
yell out, pass, and we'll come back to the question
if we have time left. Okay, everybody play along. Homer
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in the car. Here we go. Kaylin goes on holding Martinez.
We pick up Rebecca and Laurel heights. Question number one
in soccer, how many players are on the field for
each team?
Speaker 4 (33:41):
I feel pass?
Speaker 1 (33:42):
What Anna's flavored drink is the national drink of Greece?
Which member of the Scooby Doo gang typically wears a
purple dress.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Daphne.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
What are male turkeys called? Actor Debbie Reynolds was the
mother to which Star Wars.
Speaker 4 (34:04):
Actress, Oh, Princess Leah carry Carrie.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Okay, go back to the first one you passed on.
In soccer? How many players are on the field for
each team?
Speaker 4 (34:23):
Eleven?
Speaker 1 (34:24):
And what Anna's flavored drink is the national drink of Greece? Rapa? Okay, rapa,
she said, grapa? What are male turkeys called? Tom? Just
under the wires? We are out of time. Hang on
the line for me, all right, Rebecca goes on. Hold,
they are in Laurel Heights in the city. We pick
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up Kaitlin and Martinez Kylen.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
Question number one in soccer?
Speaker 2 (34:49):
How many players are on the field for each team?
What Anna's flavored drink is the national drink of Greece? Oh?
Speaker 3 (35:02):
Path?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Which member of the Scooby Doo Gang typically wears a
purple dress?
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Jack? What are male turkeys called?
Speaker 2 (35:18):
Actor Debbie Reynolds was the mother to which Star Wars
actress I can't.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
Believe I've forgotten her name?
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Uh pack Okay, Going back to number one in soccer,
how many players are on the field for each team?
Speaker 1 (35:42):
We are out of time. Hang on the line one second. Okay,
Rebecca comes back in Laurel Heights in the city. We'll
see how she did it with Kaitlin and Martinez. Question
number one in soccer, how many players are on the
field for each team? Rebecca said eleven. Kaylin passed, it
is eleven. What Anna's flavored drink is the national drink
of Greece? Rebecca said groppa. Kaylan passed it's uzzo. Which
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member of the Scooby Doo gang typically wears a purple dress?
Rebecca and Kayln said Daphney, that is correct. What are
male turkeys called? Rebecca said Tom's. Kaylan passed. We will
accept Tom's or gobblers. That's just a funny meeting. Finally,
actor Debbie Reynolds was the mother to which Star Wars actor.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
Rebecca said Carrie. Kaylan passed, it's Carrie Fisher. I had
to have the whole name, so half points a word
on that one. Our winner is Rebecca three to one.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Rebecca, he's got the tickets for Hannah Burner. Congratulations, kay
Marcus and Corey to play Kayl And I'm sorry there
weren't more questions about Constantinople. I tried, what are you
talking about?
Speaker 3 (36:50):
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Speaker 1 (36:59):
Benson Boone my daughter's favorite song. He's gonna be here
in a few weeks. First probably rocking my beds and
Boone t shirt the other day. They're kind of cool.
They're like motorcycle chick shirts. I like it, kind of eighties. Yeah. Anyway,
Mystical Magical Star one on one three, it is Marcus
and Corey. We're gonna get out of here. I'm headed
down to Levi Stadium to check out the new food offerings.
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And I thought I was a big eater on the
show for the new season. I'm jealous of the footballs.
I'm excited about this food and forty nine ers forget it.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
And you gotta wear our gear on Friday for the
first Home Oh show.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Anyway, I'll give you a full report. Jillian is on
the way next to more Star music for your workday.
Have a great day, enjoy the sun. We'll see tomorrow. Bye.