September 23, 2025 • 38 mins
How To Shut Down Unsolicited Advice
A behavioral researcher and psychology expert recommends these simple, effective phrases to effectively shut down unsolicited advice.
Jobs That Make The Worst Spouses
How about DJ's?
More than 2-thousand responses have come in so far on Reddit.
Should Marcus Wear A Special Shirt To His Daughter's Game?
Marcus ordered a jersey that looks like his 11-year old daughter's volleyball jersey. It even has their last name on it. He is on the fence about whether to ask her permission to wear it to her next game or should he surprise her? Is it better to ask forgiveness than ask permission? We put it to the talkback.
Second Date Update
Dylan thought his rooftop wine bar date with Marissa was classy. He said they sipped, laughed, and leaned in close...he even thought they might kiss before saying goodnight. Dylan couldn’t believe she ghosted. He thought it was pretty unforgettable.
A behavioral researcher and psychology expert recommends these simple, effective phrases to effectively shut down unsolicited advice.
- “Thanks for sharing. I’ll consider it.” - It’s polite and keeps the peace.
- “That’s a useful view. I prefer to handle it this way.” - You’re listening to their perspective, but protects how to deal with it.
- “I appreciate your input. I already have a plan for how I’ll move forward.” - This gives a clear message you’ve got things under control and reduces a repeat.
- “That means a lot. Right now I’d really value support more than solutions.” - This is helpful because it guides them toward what you actually need.
- “I hear you. If I need more guidance, I’ll reach out.” - It validates their effort, but sets a clear boundary and discourages them from giving more unsolicited advice.
Jobs That Make The Worst Spouses
How about DJ's?
More than 2-thousand responses have come in so far on Reddit.
- "Chefs, restaurant/bar manager/owners. They work every day, often 12–15 hours, every holiday and weekend. The term 'restaurant widow' is a real thing."
- "Surgeons. The personality type a surgeon is often a relentless and sociopathic person with a singular interest on one thing (being a good surgeon)."
- “Police officer: Very high rates of divorce, alcoholism and it can be a dangerous job.”
- "Lawyers. Often married to the job, whether it is for the money or a cause."
- "Flight attendants/Pilots. They work away from home for days or weeks, jetlag messes with the body, and they deal with unruly passengers with a smile. Also, cheating is through the roof."
- "Investment bankers often make terrible spouses. The job is incredibly demanding — long hours, high stress, and a spillover effect into everyday life."
- “Architects. High strung, type a, perfectionist, often narcissistic.”
- “Musicians, flakey, sh*t hours, always broke.”
Should Marcus Wear A Special Shirt To His Daughter's Game?
Marcus ordered a jersey that looks like his 11-year old daughter's volleyball jersey. It even has their last name on it. He is on the fence about whether to ask her permission to wear it to her next game or should he surprise her? Is it better to ask forgiveness than ask permission? We put it to the talkback.
Second Date Update
Dylan thought his rooftop wine bar date with Marissa was classy. He said they sipped, laughed, and leaned in close...he even thought they might kiss before saying goodnight. Dylan couldn’t believe she ghosted. He thought it was pretty unforgettable.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:07):
How are you, Cory Tuesday?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
It's Tuesday. I am sticking to my guns. I did
a little zoom but yesterday you and I'm proud of
myself because I didn't fall down because the last time
I did zoom, but one of my legs just gave
out and I was on the floor.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah, videos would be spectacular.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I will say. I filmed the aftermath. Yeah, video incoming. Okay,
I like it, So it's going to be a before
and then after.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
H I had a Corey Foley moment at the doctor's
office yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Did they tell you have a fetti liver?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
No.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So I was supposed to have a meeting with my
ender chronologist today to go over blood work because I
like to keep an eye on my diabetes.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
The diabetes.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So yesterday and I'm lucky enough that my doctor's office
and the blood lab are in the same place. They're
at the same hot so I just go so one
stop shopping. It's fantastic and they can get the results
really quickly. I only have to show up twenty four
hours in advance. So I went I got a call
yesterday from the doctor's office. Don't forget you got an
appointment tomorrow. I said, no problem, I'll go get my
(01:13):
blood work. I said, do I need to fast? She looks,
She goes, no, it's just a once.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
He You're good, okay. I was like cool.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
So I get down to the lab and the lady
at the front desk looks at me and goes, did
you fast? And I said no, They told me not to. Oh, well,
you're not going to check lipids and cholesterol. You have
to be fasting for that. I'd already eaten breakfast right right.
It's hard to fast on a weekday because we get
up at four. Well, basically I'd drove down there and
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couldn't get my blood work done because I didn't fast,
because she told me not.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
To worry about it.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So then I got in the elevator all heated, yeah,
marched up to the third floor, went to the desk
and I said, hey, I got to reschedule my appointment tomorrow,
and may I just please add for your own bookkeeping?
And I let him know what happened, and I looked
at the guy. I go, this is about as angry
as I'm going to get about this right now because
it's not worth it.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But I have wasted my entire afternoon.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I just want to let you know that maybe we
could fix the process somehow so this doesn't happen to
somebody else.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
There's so many moving parts because I had a zoom
call with a doctor last week on a Friday, and
then I got all these calls on Wednesday, like why
aren't you at your zoom call? And I said, because
it's Friday. They're like, no, they rescheduled it to Wednesday.
I go, well, no one told me that, and she's
and the doctor said, I'm sorry this has been happening
with other patients that they're like, you know, the computer's
(02:35):
manipulating things behind the scenes and not you're not getting
any sort of notification.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
It's hard because I forget, I'm not the most important
person there, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
They have a lot of patients.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
I know.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
That's why I'm like, I said, it's fine, I'm available,
let's do this now.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
That's why I didn't get mad at the guy. I
was like, you know what, dude, I just it's not
his fault. This just shouldn't happen. I just want to
let you know what happened. This shouldn't happen anyway, see
you next week. So they rescheduled me for next week,
So I'm good during the week.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
No, I'm gonna go in on a Saturday.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah, that's what I do.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
What I do?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You go on a Saturday and then reward yourself with
a nice brinch.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Ooh, I like that idea. All right, six oh one.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
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one on one three It's Marcus and Corey Tuesday morning,
Good morning, Good morning. Here's something useful for this room.
(03:32):
Phrases that you can use to shut down unsolicited advice
in a flash.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Now, where are we doing this at work? Wherever?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Just in general, if you have someone in your life
Corey who offers unsolicited advice on a regular basis, these
are ways to shut it down.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't know if you have someone like that in
your life.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I don't know anybody like that.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I'm right here.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Oh sorry, I think I'm physically incapable of not offering
unsolicited advice. I don't know where I think when I
became a dad, I don't know. Maybe it's by a
virtue of function of being a dude.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I feel like one of those guys in the commercials
about becoming your parents when you're a homeowner, give un
solicited advice.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
So phrases that will shut down on solicit advice in
a flash. There are five of them. Two of them
are garbage. Okay, I'll start with the good one. This
is the number one hitter.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Okay, so you have an issue, I offer unsolicited advice
and then you say that means a lot, but right
now I'd really value your support more than solutions.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's definitely shutting you down.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Because what that says to me then is it's a
signal to me because I'm learning this. Sometimes people just
need to be heard.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I'm definitely that person where I like to verbally get
stuff off my chest and then it's gone. But like yesterday,
because you know, I'm on this journey of trying to
eat better and work out more. And you you suggested
I get.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
A personal trainer, and you didn't ask no.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
And I've had personal trainers, and I have all kinds
of workouts, and I've done all kinds of workouts.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
And I just said, you know what, I get it.
That's a great suggestion.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Sure, it's not really my jam. I don't know if
it's a guy thing or what. I don't want to
be gender specific. But for me, when someone has an
issue that they're just talking about it, it becomes part
of my list of to do things. So I want
to get I want to figure it out, get it done,
and cross it off the list.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Even though crazy because you don't have empathy.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
That was a little that was a shot.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
No, You're self admitted. You're like, if I can't control it,
I'm not going to waste time worrying about it.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Well, I'm also trying to get it out of the
universe too. I guess I just want to I want
to fix it and move on.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Speaking of moving on, here's here's a here's a phrase
that I don't think would work very well. Somebody gives
you unsolicited advice. You say, I appreciate your input. I
already have a plan for how I'll move forward. I'm
not sure that's wrong with that, because then I go, well,
what is it, and.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I'll say, Nunya, Nanya business. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I from Nunya is a good way to close a conversation.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I mean, maybe.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Here's another one that I think is garbage. This one
I don't think would work unsolicited advice. And then you
say that is a useful view. I would prefer to
handle it this way. Here's the problem with that. Now
you've left yourself open because now I can poke holes
and you're this way.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Whatever you're this way is.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
That's why I don't like that, because you're just leaving
yourself wide open. I mean, honestly, the best way to
shut down unsolicited advice to go, oh my gosh, thank
you so much. I really appreciate that. Don't say you're
going to use it. Don't say you're not going to
use it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's not on the list.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I know.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Here's one that I think would work, and we'll close
with this one. I hear you if I need more guidance.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
All these all seem very like it's kind of like that.
I'm sorry you feel that way. They're not very kind.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Sure they are not. Really, you're super pro. All you
have to do is say, oh my gosh, thanks for
the advice.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
If STFU was a sentence, it would be I hear you.
If I need more guidance, I'll reach out.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Basically, none ya.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Phrases the shutdown unsolicited advice.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
If you have a fave, maybe you have one that
you like to use, hit us with a talkback if
you don't mind. It's a little red microphone on the
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Speaker 3 (07:41):
It's Marcus and Corey Tuesday morning, Good morning.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
It was a Reddit thread the worst professions to be
married to. These professions make the worst spouses. Yeah, Radio
DJs not on the list, although it should be. What
do we know from personal experiences? DJs are exhausting. Well,
we can have wonky out wonky hours.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
You're dating someone who does the morning show. If you're
doing somebody who.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Does like overnights, Sometimes my wife has to tell me, hey,
big guy tone it down. Your show ended at ten
this morning. Oh, sometimes I get to the house and
I keep I'm very performative. Yes, I've heard. I wouldn't know,
but DJs move around a lot. Oh, Corey, would you
know anything about that sarcasm?
Speaker 2 (08:20):
No, I mean, yeah, yeah, a lot. I've seen every
part of the country.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Then you have to drag your spouse with you.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I hope I'm not dragging, but I would say we're
fun to be married too, because we get to do
a lot of fun stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
There are opportunities that I think we've gotten that other
people wouldn't, and my husband's included in that, like I
don't know, broadcasting from Disney.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
My ex wife had the most savage comment after we
broke up. She said, you know, I don't miss you.
I do miss the lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Justly, She like took your paper cut and just went,
let me just get that lemon juice right in there.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, we're going backstage to meet a B and C artists,
or we're going to shows for free or whatever else.
I mean, it's it's a lifestyle. It certainly is. But
to that point, like the work and the play, the
lines get blurry. Anybody else deal with a job like that.
Some of the other worst spouses to have as far
as professions, and I'm gonna lump these all in the
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same fighter pilots, architects, surgeons, architects, high strong type A perfectionists,
often narcissistic.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
This is what somebody wrote on Reddit. This is not
me talking, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
As far as surgeons, says, from my experience, the personality
type of a surgeon is often relentless and sociopathic, with
a singular interest on one thing, which is being a
good surgeon.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
This is this great movie called Malice with Alec Baldwin,
Nicole Kidman, Bill Pullman, and Alec Baldwin plays this very
arrogant surgeon. Yes, and he actually refers to himself as God.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
I feel like it has to be right in a
weird way.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Control.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I mean, they're putting you back together.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
And they're doing stuff other people can't do.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Fighter pilots in the same category says right here, similar
to surgeons in many ways, you have to be incredibly
driven and focus to make it on that level. Combined
with what they called exactly what you mentioned, Cory a
god complex and being deployed for months at a time. Yeah,
now what else can we lump together flight attendants and
pilots working long hours away from home, jet lag, messing
with their bodies, having to deal with unruly public, and
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apparently cheating is through the roof.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Oh I hate to think that. You know, I was
thinking about being a flight attendant when I couldn't find
a job. But then I realized so many people, so
many people I'd have to deal with on a DA base. People.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Oh that was the end of the sentence. That's it
got people will stop. Police officers on here at no
shock are very high rates of divorce and.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
To be scared all the time.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Well, you know, cops and first responders see things that
I would not want to see in my lifetime.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Well that and also right now I feel sorry for
some people who are an authoritative figure because they're dealing
with a lot right now.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
What about the service industry, Restaurant managers, bar owners, chefs
working every day, twelve to fifteen hours, every holiday, every weekend.
Somebody wrote the term restaurant widow is a real thing.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Yeah, I mean we've seen that in real time.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And then finally, musicians flaky, crappy hours, always broke.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I was gonna say If you want to be a musician,
that has to be your side gig, that has to
be your hobby, unless you're John bon Jovi's son.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Anyway, there you go.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
If you want to add to the list again, these
are professions that make the worst spouses. Talkback is open.
It's that little red microphone. If you're streaming Star one
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Well, they canceled the Red Carpet and Sarah McLaughlin and
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they both opted out, and McLaughlin said, we are doing.
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Yeah, because ABC and Hulu are involved in the Jimmy
Kimmel controversy. This documentary is on Hulu. But she was
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No?
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It's going to be a big show, but both weekends
are now sold out, so hope if you slept on tickets,
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There was a teenager arrested in a multi million dollar
hack of Las Vegas casinos in custody. I guess it
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got a call with the IT depart be, requested a
password reset, and then gained access to their internal systems.
(15:04):
About ten minutes later, Las Vegas PD says this is
costing casinos over one hundred million dollars and he could
be charged as an adult.
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Variety from the two thousands, the nineties and today it's
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey back
with it again this morning it's second date update.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
It is not easy to find a partner in line.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It is and maybe you're hitting the apps, maybe you're
trying to meet people in real life. We're just trying
to figure out how to get.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
You that second date spring on Dylan. Good morning, Dylan, Hey,
good morning, hey man. So thanks for getting up early
with us. We want to hear all about Marissa. I
understand you guys went to a wine bar.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, we did.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
It was a rooftop wine bar, and I thought it
was a pretty classy.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Did you guys meet online or what you how'd you meet?
Speaker 4 (16:42):
So we met online? Yeah, on an app? Easy, but yeah,
I wanted to, you know, kind of make a classy
with the rooftop wine bar. So, you know, we sipped
some wine, laughed, and at one point we've been leaning close.
I thought somebody even kissed before say good night, but
then I got ghost it after that. I mean, I
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thought it was a pretty unforget forgettable night, un forgettable night.
But I'm just I don't know what happened.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Okay, you didn't mess anything up, did you think?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I hate to phrase it like that, but it's always
like somebody did something, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Yeah, but it might not be fault. No, you're right,
you're right.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Before we call her, Corey, do you have a theorist
to what might have happened to Marissa?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Well, I think what we don't realize is that Marissa
works a day job in a steel mill and dances
in a bar at night, and when she discovers that
her boss is both interested in her and supportive of
her performing career. She renews her efforts to get accepted
into a prestigious dance and conservatory. She's frightened a failure,
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but she's cheered on by her boss as well as
her mentor and former ballet performer Hannah Long.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Are you saying that Marissa is like the woman from Flashdowns?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Maybe she could be studying right now. I was gonna say,
kote Ugly.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Was anyone in Coyote Ugly a steel worker during the day?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
No, all right, let's move on, Dylan. Here's what we're
gonna do. We're gonna call Marissa. We're gonna see what happened.
Can you hang on the line. Yeah, sure, great, all right,
we'll do it.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Next.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Second Date Update Star one on one three variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second Date Update.
We've got Dylan on the phone. I like this date
a lot. Hey man, roof top wine bar in the city,
and you thought you might get a kiss because she
leaned in. Not only did he not get a kiss,
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my guy got ghosted.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Well, we gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Yeah, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have you
on the line. As you know, we're gonna call Marissa
and we're gonna try to figure some things out. So
let's cross our fingers for a second date.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Here we go. Go ahead and meet your phone.
Speaker 6 (18:55):
Okay, Hello, I may speak with Marissa.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Please. This is sh Hi Marissa. It's Marcus and Corey
from Star one O one three.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
She sounds very pleasant.
Speaker 9 (19:18):
Oh my gosh, you're kidding me.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
What's up? How are you?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (19:21):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (19:23):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Do you listen to our show?
Speaker 4 (19:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (19:27):
All the time.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Are you wondering why we have your phone number? She
probably knows very much.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Can you guess what? Uh?
Speaker 9 (19:39):
A couple of things I have in mind? I'm hoping
it's maybe not one of them, but what of it?
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Second date update?
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Would you mind participating in our second date?
Speaker 4 (19:47):
Up date?
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Do you have a couple of minutes?
Speaker 9 (19:53):
Yeah, yeah, I do.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
So.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
There's a guy who gave us your phone number, so
he called the his date with you unforgettable. This was
before you ghosted. Hold on, let me ask did you
ghost on?
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Dylan?
Speaker 5 (20:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (20:09):
Okay, yes, that makes sense. Okay, and he's listening right.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Yes, yes, Dylan, say hello, Dylan. Hey, hey, okay, Marisa,
we're trying to figure out how to make a love connection.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Let's go right for it.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Hey, fully Yeah, I mean it's funny too because you
always ask if they ghosted, and obviously they did, we
wouldn't be doing this.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
You mean, like she's gonna say, I'm super busy.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I don't know anyway, Marissa, Mike, I liked you. So
how was the date for you?
Speaker 9 (20:46):
All right? Well, listen, you called it was not it
was it was.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
It was an experience, Okay, just details.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You want to start with the good stuff and then
move on to the weird stuff for how do we
want to do this?
Speaker 9 (21:00):
Yeah, I mean, look like the place is nice, but
like that's where the good details kind of stop.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 9 (21:13):
Well, like, okay, if I'm starting from the beginning, we
start with drink orders and he orders a vodka froze,
which is not a thing. I've never heard of that,
and then he gets like poudy that they didn't have it.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Okay, Yeah, maybe I was bummed that they didn't have it,
but but come on, that would have been amazing. I was.
I was trying to keep it fun and you know,
not order something boring.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Well, Dylan, don't you have to have a machine to
make a frozen it?
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Anyway? Well, Dylan, let her let her finish, Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:49):
Okay, okay, no no, I kind of looked past that,
but it just keeps getting weirder.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
So like we get like part way through dinner and
he has got a selfie stick out okay that he
brought with him, and he starts filming video of us
eating and drinking, and he says this for something called
first Dates in San Francisco.
Speaker 4 (22:19):
Like online like on It's like it's like TikTok series,
look like that's that's my content, Okay, Like I'm trying
to grow my channel. I'm trying to grow my following.
It's kind of fluttering, right. I thought it'd showed that
I was excited to be there, Like I was excited
to be there.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
It's the first date and it's not your time? Can
we can we let the lady finish? But I will
say this, huh, you need to ask.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Her permission, right, I mean technically, okay, Marissa, was there
anything else?
Speaker 9 (22:48):
Yeah? I mean this is this is the nail in
the coffin on like everything else could have talked about
it maybe, but like we get to the end and
he wants to split it. He wants to split this
is his idea, by the way, like this place is
this whole place is his idea, he asked, And he's
wanting to split the check down the middle, like literally,
(23:11):
like takes up a calculator on his phone and he's
like figuring it out down to the penny, like okay, like, oh,
I oh, like somethings. I mean twenty six and you
twenty seven like that much?
Speaker 4 (23:21):
Yeah, down to the change. Look, here's the thing. Equality
should go both ways. Like I'm not made of money.
I still have a lot to do, you know, money wise,
and I figured you'd at least appreciate me being in
front instead of, you know, playing games.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, I could see how this could be off putting.
Speaker 9 (23:40):
That's not upfront, like discussing that the end is not upfront.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Okay, I don't know what to say to this, because
I would at least do the reach for my wallet.
But also, if you invited me and you took me
to a swinky place, I'm kind of gonna assume you're
gonna pick up the tab.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
You're gonna still do the fake reach.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
But yeah, I'm totally going to reach for my bag.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
All right, Well, let's just cut right to it, Maurissa.
Should we even ask about a second date?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (24:02):
No, that was a lot. It was a weird experience.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Fair enough.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Hang on, that was a lot of stuff at once.
Speaker 3 (24:12):
You know, like a lot.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I just don't know what people are thinking. Sometimes on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
They're not thinking it's a first date.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
I guess not.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
It'll be back tomorrow morning at seven five. Second Date Update.
If you want to download the podcast, you can binge
listen set a pre set. It's Marcus and Corey Second
Date Update. Nice and easy. We appreciate you listening and subscribing.
Thank you so much more variety for the two thousands
than nineties. And today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey. I'm going to keep reminding you
because his show is next Wednesday, Yes at Chase.
Speaker 8 (24:44):
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And we have some last minute tickets to give away
on the Star one on one three FM Instagram. And
these tickets on the secondary market are bonkers.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
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So we're just trying to hook you up. If you
go to Star one one three FM on Instagram. There's
a post right there. This is your shot. I'm manifesting
it for you right now. All right, I need help, Yeah,
parental help, especially if you have teenagers at home. How
far would you go to support your kid at their
(25:16):
sports but at the risk of potentially embarrassing them. Maybe
here's what I'm doing, and you tell me if I'm
doing this correctly. My daughter plays volleyball, and I have
been accused of being an aggressive cheerer.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Yes, and she has sometimes asked you not to go out,
tone it down or not come.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
My wife played volleyball, My daughter plays volleyball. Dad was
in the chess club. I get really excited when I
see them play because they're so good at it, and
my wife coaches, and so I'm on the sidelines hollering,
I'm yelling, I'm cheering, and so I decided to I
decided to do a custom shirt. The problem is, it's
(26:05):
a volleyball shirt that kind of emulates her jersey, and
it has our last name and her number on the back,
like she's my favorite player and I'd like to wear
it to the game.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
Okay, are you gonna tell her? That's forehand? That's the question.
That's the rub.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
I don't think you should what. I don't think you
should tell her?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Don't tell her. I think you should show up.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Just show up, because I think you are going to
create a vibe where she's.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
Like dad, I know that already, But also I want
her to know that I'm at least so I'm here's
where I'm teetering. And if you're a dad out there
and you're kind of goofy like I am, would you
just show up and said Jersey and be like, this
is me deal with it at the risk of potentially,
(26:54):
at least temporarily alienating your daughter. Or do you have
a conversation before handing, Oh, look I had this custom
thing made.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
I'd like to wear it at your game.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Did you tell your wife?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
No, nobody knows about this, well they do.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Now, why didn't you ask your wife her opinion?
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Because she's just gonna roll her eyes at me and
be like you're oh, it's okay. She's gonna be like okay,
but she's not gonna like it. I already know how
the conversations is gonna go.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
I mean, I don't think there's really any other option
here except to just show up in it cause.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Your dad was different, right, Like my dad was different.
He would my dad was a performer. He would just
show up and you just kind of went, that's dad,
he's nuts.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I remember my parents used to love to embarrass me.
Would go mini golfings, right, and they knew that I was,
you know, fourteen fifteen, right, just at that total awkward,
insecure age. And we'd be on the mini golf course
and they would take their putters and they would raise
them above their heads and they would march to every
hole with the putters above their heads, causing a scene.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
And I'm like, you, guys, that's my question.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Like in the moment, you hated it, you hated it,
and you weren't very fond of them. But now that's
a memory. So me showing up at her game with
her jersey on, that's my dad.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
But don't ask permission, ask her forgiveness, all right, that's
my dike.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
If I if if you think I'm wrong, please let
us know. I'm Here's okay, I'm pulling the curtain all
the way back. I spent a lot of years caregiving
for my dad. I missed out on a lot of
years of bonding as my child I'm trying doing everything
I can not to push her away or to make
her and mad at me.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
If we're really talking mad, I don't think she's going
to be surprised because you're a goofball. This isn't new.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
What's the move? Can I get some dad advice here?
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Uh? Mark is so desperately trying to connect.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
It's not funny, No, it's sweet, it's it's it's more
the angst around it. That's I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
If you have a thought on this, the talk back
is open. It's the little red microphone on the iHeartRadio app.
Would love some feedback on this.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
It's time for good News with Marcus and Corey.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Sometimes all you need is one a good thought to
make it a great day.
Speaker 6 (29:16):
So let's do this.
Speaker 7 (29:17):
It's good News on Star one three.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
So we give you good news twice in the morning,
seven forty just to make you smile, brighten your day
a little bit. It brought to you this hour by
Shreaving Company, Luxury time Pieces, Fine Designers and Flawless Diamonds. Apparently,
Camilla Cabeo showed up at a stranger's wedding over the
weekend and performed the song for the Father Daughter Dance
(29:42):
Live out of the Blue.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
How does this happen?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Yeah, this is further proof that Camilla Cabeo is an
amazing human being. So I guess she met the bride
to be and her family randomly at a hotel bar
in Iowa. She must have been on too or she
was in town. Met the young lady who was nineteen.
Her name's Kelly, and Kelly was like, I'm planning to
(30:10):
use your song first Man for the father daughter dance
at my wedding. AWW, And Camilla apparently was so moved
that she agreed to sing the song at the wedding
because the song meant so much to her. So she
got up and spoke at the wedding. There are videos
online and she explained that the song first Man is
(30:32):
actually a song about her own dad and that she
felt really honored to be part of the occasion.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
This is crazy, so you just just having a bump
into it can nuts.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Then she could see how tight this girl Kelly was
with her dad, Mike, and how much he loved her,
and she ended her speech by raising a glass to
all the daddy's girls out there before she started the performance.
And then you know, Kelly and her dad danced give
me the cobeo sang do you.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Know where they got married?
Speaker 3 (31:04):
I don't?
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Is it in Ohio?
Speaker 3 (31:05):
Nah? I don't know, Okay, I couldn't answer that.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Because I'm just I feel like, you know, when it
comes to somebody like give me a cabella or her
schedule's got to be super tight. She's got to be
super busy. So it's just stop down, go to where
this wedding's taking place and sing, what a nice person.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I don't know the timeline between the moment that they met, yeah,
and when the wedding was, but it happened. That's great,
pretty bananas anyway. I thought that was pretty great abiety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey time to
play the Bay's favorite trivia game.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
What you know about that?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
For a massive price, We've got five hundred dollars from
the Voice. NBC's four time Emmy Award winning musical competition
series is back. All star coaches Michael Bubla, Snoop Dogg,
Nile Horn, and Reeve mcattire reclaim their red chairs for
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at eight on NBC Bay Area.
Speaker 3 (31:54):
TA, good morning to our concessants.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We take you to Santa Clara, say had a Christina.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
What's it like being in forty nine ers epicenter? Just
Banana's down there.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (32:05):
I work at a school, so not so much.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
That was to say, you know what, forty nine ers
three and oh, it's got to be the most exciting
thing to happen in Santa Clara since they open the
holiday in express?
Speaker 3 (32:15):
Am I right?
Speaker 2 (32:17):
Seriously?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Probably? Are Should we say where you teach now? Or
should we wait till you win?
Speaker 6 (32:23):
I'm over at burs Awesome.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Let's take it to Belmont and say what's up to Jeremy?
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Good morning, Jeremy, good morning. What do you got going
on this morning?
Speaker 9 (32:31):
Taking my son Jacob as school?
Speaker 3 (32:33):
Good luck to you both. The game is super simple.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
It's five trivia questions, fifty seconds to answer them all.
Each person's gonna be asked separately with their opponent on hold.
Whoever gets the most right answers wins. If you don't
know an answer, you yell out, pass and we'll come
back to the question. If we have time left, Okay,
sound good? Everybody play along at Homer in the car.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Jeremy goes on hold in Belmont. We start with Christina
and Santa Clara. Question number one is from last night's
episode of the Voice. The first contestant, Aiden row Us
gets all four coaches to turn their chairs around for him.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
Who's team does Aid and choose to join?
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Rhett, Butler and Scarlett O'Hara are characters in which.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Movie Oh Bus?
Speaker 4 (33:17):
I am gannicking Pa.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards. Now,
what is the name of the device used to catch Pokemon?
Speaker 4 (33:41):
A poke a ball?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (33:44):
And the first action The first action hero was this
toy soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 9 (33:53):
I'm Superman.
Speaker 6 (33:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
Okay, we'll go with Superman. I hang on on line
one second.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
Christina goes on holding Santa Clara. We pick up Jeremy
and Belmont.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Hi, Jeremy, Hi, good morning. Question number one from the
show The Voice. The first contestant, Aiden Ross gets all
four coaches to turn their chairs for him. Whose team
does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Brett Butler and Scarlett O'Hara characters in which movie Oh Path?
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards.
Oh my gosh, past. Who does the name of the
device used to catch Pokemon? Oh my gosh, the first
(34:43):
action hero was this toy soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 9 (34:51):
Army Man.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Going back to number one on the Voice, the first contestant,
Aiden Ross gets all four coaches to turn their chairs
for him.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Whose team does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Nile full name?
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Oh god, um niall out of time?
Speaker 1 (35:10):
All right, Christina comes back in Santa Clara. We'll see
how she did against Jeremy and Belmont. Question number one
on the show the Voice, the first contestant, Aiden Ross,
gets all four coaches to turn their chairs for him.
Whose team does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Christina passed. Jeremy said Niael We needed Nile Horn. Which
is the correct answer? Nile Horn.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Next question, Rhet Butler and Scarlett O'Hara are characters in
which movie?
Speaker 2 (35:33):
Both Christina and Jeremy past It's Gone with the Wind.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
Christina and Jeremy past it's beefeaters.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
What is the name of the device you used to
catch Pokemon?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Christina said, poke ball? That is correct, Jeremy.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Passed, and finally the first action hero was this toy
soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Christina said Superman, Jeremy said, armed Man is actually g
I Joe. Our winner is Christina.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
One to nothing, Christina?
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Who did it?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
Who did it?
Speaker 1 (36:03):
I don't know how you got that five hundred bucks
from the voice.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
Congratulations Jerry, you get a Marcus. What are you about?
Speaker 7 (36:11):
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Trip from Chicago.
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But I'm just so excited.
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That's so great. What's his name?
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Bart?
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Okay, oh for sure, for sure, the best time.
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How are you, Cory Tuesday?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
It's Tuesday. I am sticking to my guns. I did
a little zoom but yesterday you and I'm proud of
myself because I didn't fall down because the last time
I did zoom, but one of my legs just gave
out and I was on the floor.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah, videos would be spectacular.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I will say. I filmed the aftermath. Yeah, video incoming. Okay,
I like it, So it's going to be a before
and then after.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
H I had a Corey Foley moment at the doctor's
office yesterday.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Did they tell you have a fetti liver?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
No.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So I was supposed to have a meeting with my
ender chronologist today to go over blood work because I
like to keep an eye on my diabetes.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
The diabetes.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So yesterday and I'm lucky enough that my doctor's office
and the blood lab are in the same place. They're
at the same hot so I just go so one
stop shopping. It's fantastic and they can get the results
really quickly. I only have to show up twenty four
hours in advance. So I went I got a call
yesterday from the doctor's office. Don't forget you got an
appointment tomorrow. I said, no problem, I'll go get my
(01:13):
blood work. I said, do I need to fast? She looks,
She goes, no, it's just a once.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
He You're good, okay. I was like cool.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
So I get down to the lab and the lady
at the front desk looks at me and goes, did
you fast? And I said no, They told me not to. Oh, well,
you're not going to check lipids and cholesterol. You have
to be fasting for that. I'd already eaten breakfast right right.
It's hard to fast on a weekday because we get
up at four. Well, basically I'd drove down there and
(01:41):
couldn't get my blood work done because I didn't fast,
because she told me not.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
To worry about it.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So then I got in the elevator all heated, yeah,
marched up to the third floor, went to the desk
and I said, hey, I got to reschedule my appointment tomorrow,
and may I just please add for your own bookkeeping?
And I let him know what happened, and I looked
at the guy. I go, this is about as angry
as I'm going to get about this right now because
it's not worth it.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But I have wasted my entire afternoon.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I just want to let you know that maybe we
could fix the process somehow so this doesn't happen to
somebody else.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
There's so many moving parts because I had a zoom
call with a doctor last week on a Friday, and
then I got all these calls on Wednesday, like why
aren't you at your zoom call? And I said, because
it's Friday. They're like, no, they rescheduled it to Wednesday.
I go, well, no one told me that, and she's
and the doctor said, I'm sorry this has been happening
with other patients that they're like, you know, the computer's
(02:35):
manipulating things behind the scenes and not you're not getting
any sort of notification.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
It's hard because I forget, I'm not the most important
person there, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
They have a lot of patients.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
I know.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
That's why I'm like, I said, it's fine, I'm available,
let's do this now.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
That's why I didn't get mad at the guy. I
was like, you know what, dude, I just it's not
his fault. This just shouldn't happen. I just want to
let you know what happened. This shouldn't happen anyway, see
you next week. So they rescheduled me for next week,
So I'm good during the week.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
No, I'm gonna go in on a Saturday.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah, that's what I do.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
What I do?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You go on a Saturday and then reward yourself with
a nice brinch.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Ooh, I like that idea. All right, six oh one.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
What's coming up this morning? We have more tickets for
Ed Sheeran. That's what you need to know right now.
He is coming to town Levi's as part of his
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variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today star
one on one three It's Marcus and Corey Tuesday morning,
Good morning, Good morning. Here's something useful for this room.
(03:32):
Phrases that you can use to shut down unsolicited advice
in a flash.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Now, where are we doing this at work? Wherever?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Just in general, if you have someone in your life
Corey who offers unsolicited advice on a regular basis, these
are ways to shut it down.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't know if you have someone like that in
your life.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I don't know anybody like that.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I'm right here.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Oh sorry, I think I'm physically incapable of not offering
unsolicited advice. I don't know where I think when I
became a dad, I don't know. Maybe it's by a
virtue of function of being a dude.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I feel like one of those guys in the commercials
about becoming your parents when you're a homeowner, give un
solicited advice.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
So phrases that will shut down on solicit advice in
a flash. There are five of them. Two of them
are garbage. Okay, I'll start with the good one. This
is the number one hitter.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Okay, so you have an issue, I offer unsolicited advice
and then you say that means a lot, but right
now I'd really value your support more than solutions.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That's definitely shutting you down.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Because what that says to me then is it's a
signal to me because I'm learning this. Sometimes people just
need to be heard.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I'm definitely that person where I like to verbally get
stuff off my chest and then it's gone. But like yesterday,
because you know, I'm on this journey of trying to
eat better and work out more. And you you suggested
I get.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
A personal trainer, and you didn't ask no.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
And I've had personal trainers, and I have all kinds
of workouts, and I've done all kinds of workouts.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
And I just said, you know what, I get it.
That's a great suggestion.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Sure, it's not really my jam. I don't know if
it's a guy thing or what. I don't want to
be gender specific. But for me, when someone has an
issue that they're just talking about it, it becomes part
of my list of to do things. So I want
to get I want to figure it out, get it done,
and cross it off the list.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Even though crazy because you don't have empathy.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
That was a little that was a shot.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
No, You're self admitted. You're like, if I can't control it,
I'm not going to waste time worrying about it.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Well, I'm also trying to get it out of the
universe too. I guess I just want to I want
to fix it and move on.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Speaking of moving on, here's here's a here's a phrase
that I don't think would work very well. Somebody gives
you unsolicited advice. You say, I appreciate your input. I
already have a plan for how I'll move forward. I'm
not sure that's wrong with that, because then I go, well,
what is it, and.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I'll say, Nunya, Nanya business. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I from Nunya is a good way to close a conversation.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I mean, maybe.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Here's another one that I think is garbage. This one
I don't think would work unsolicited advice. And then you
say that is a useful view. I would prefer to
handle it this way. Here's the problem with that. Now
you've left yourself open because now I can poke holes
and you're this way.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Whatever you're this way is.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
That's why I don't like that, because you're just leaving
yourself wide open. I mean, honestly, the best way to
shut down unsolicited advice to go, oh my gosh, thank
you so much. I really appreciate that. Don't say you're
going to use it. Don't say you're not going to
use it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's not on the list.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I know.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Here's one that I think would work, and we'll close
with this one. I hear you if I need more guidance.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
All these all seem very like it's kind of like that.
I'm sorry you feel that way. They're not very kind.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Sure they are not. Really, you're super pro. All you
have to do is say, oh my gosh, thanks for
the advice.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
If STFU was a sentence, it would be I hear you.
If I need more guidance, I'll reach out.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Basically, none ya.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Phrases the shutdown unsolicited advice.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
If you have a fave, maybe you have one that
you like to use, hit us with a talkback if
you don't mind. It's a little red microphone on the
iHeartRadio app. If you're streaming Star one on one three
right now, it's more variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
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Speaker 3 (07:41):
It's Marcus and Corey Tuesday morning, Good morning.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
It was a Reddit thread the worst professions to be
married to. These professions make the worst spouses. Yeah, Radio
DJs not on the list, although it should be. What
do we know from personal experiences? DJs are exhausting. Well,
we can have wonky out wonky hours.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
You're dating someone who does the morning show. If you're
doing somebody who.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Does like overnights, Sometimes my wife has to tell me, hey,
big guy tone it down. Your show ended at ten
this morning. Oh, sometimes I get to the house and
I keep I'm very performative. Yes, I've heard. I wouldn't know,
but DJs move around a lot. Oh, Corey, would you
know anything about that sarcasm?
Speaker 2 (08:20):
No, I mean, yeah, yeah, a lot. I've seen every
part of the country.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Then you have to drag your spouse with you.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I hope I'm not dragging, but I would say we're
fun to be married too, because we get to do
a lot of fun stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
There are opportunities that I think we've gotten that other
people wouldn't, and my husband's included in that, like I
don't know, broadcasting from Disney.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
My ex wife had the most savage comment after we
broke up. She said, you know, I don't miss you.
I do miss the lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Justly, She like took your paper cut and just went,
let me just get that lemon juice right in there.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, we're going backstage to meet a B and C artists,
or we're going to shows for free or whatever else.
I mean, it's it's a lifestyle. It certainly is. But
to that point, like the work and the play, the
lines get blurry. Anybody else deal with a job like that.
Some of the other worst spouses to have as far
as professions, and I'm gonna lump these all in the
(09:10):
same fighter pilots, architects, surgeons, architects, high strong type A perfectionists,
often narcissistic.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
This is what somebody wrote on Reddit. This is not
me talking, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
As far as surgeons, says, from my experience, the personality
type of a surgeon is often relentless and sociopathic, with
a singular interest on one thing, which is being a
good surgeon.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
This is this great movie called Malice with Alec Baldwin,
Nicole Kidman, Bill Pullman, and Alec Baldwin plays this very
arrogant surgeon. Yes, and he actually refers to himself as God.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
I feel like it has to be right in a
weird way.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Control.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I mean, they're putting you back together.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
And they're doing stuff other people can't do.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Fighter pilots in the same category says right here, similar
to surgeons in many ways, you have to be incredibly
driven and focus to make it on that level. Combined
with what they called exactly what you mentioned, Cory a
god complex and being deployed for months at a time. Yeah,
now what else can we lump together flight attendants and
pilots working long hours away from home, jet lag, messing
with their bodies, having to deal with unruly public, and
(10:18):
apparently cheating is through the roof.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Oh I hate to think that. You know, I was
thinking about being a flight attendant when I couldn't find
a job. But then I realized so many people, so
many people I'd have to deal with on a DA base. People.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Oh that was the end of the sentence. That's it
got people will stop. Police officers on here at no
shock are very high rates of divorce and.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
To be scared all the time.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Well, you know, cops and first responders see things that
I would not want to see in my lifetime.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Well that and also right now I feel sorry for
some people who are an authoritative figure because they're dealing
with a lot right now.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
What about the service industry, Restaurant managers, bar owners, chefs
working every day, twelve to fifteen hours, every holiday, every weekend.
Somebody wrote the term restaurant widow is a real thing.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Yeah, I mean we've seen that in real time.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And then finally, musicians flaky, crappy hours, always broke.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I was gonna say If you want to be a musician,
that has to be your side gig, that has to
be your hobby, unless you're John bon Jovi's son.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Anyway, there you go.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
If you want to add to the list again, these
are professions that make the worst spouses. Talkback is open.
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What's happening in entertainment news, the biggest stories of the day,
and everything people are talking about today in the Bay.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Disney is bringing Jim mckill live back tonight after it
was suspended last week. DISNEYO CEO Bob Eiger and entertainment
co chaired Dana Walden ultimately approved his return. But right now,
what did you say? At least twenty percent of the
affiliates will not be running his show.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
So there is a company called Sinclair Broadcasting that owns
I guess twenty percent of ABC affiliates, and they're saying,
according to the New York Times, they're not going to
be running the show. Okay, never wanted Right here, Next,
Star and Sinclair, which control over twenty percent of the
ABC affiliates, will not broadcast Jimmy Kimmel's TV return tonight.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Okay, other late night hosts were congratulating him and saying
it's great that you're back, and Stephen Colbert said, our
long national late nightmare is over.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
Now.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
The Red Carpet wasn't the only aspect of the Little
of Fair documentary premiere that was canceled. So this documentary
is Little of Fair building a mystery, the untold story.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
It's on Hulu and they had the big premiere last night.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Well, they canceled the Red Carpet and Sarah McLaughlin and
Jewel were both supposed to perform after the screening, Well
they both opted out, and McLaughlin said, we are doing.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
This in support of free speech.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Yeah, because ABC and Hulu are involved in the Jimmy
Kimmel controversy. This documentary is on Hulu. But she was
met with cheers and applause when she said we're not
going to be performing. She was totally supported when she
did that.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Did you ever go see lolith Fair?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
No?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I did one time.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
I mean it sounds like something that would be right
at my Alley.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
I fell in love with Susanna Hoffs.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Oh from the Angles.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Oh she's cute, she's adorable, She's cute.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Now let's switch gears and talk about something very near
and dear to my heart that I have to limit myself.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
Hamburger Helper been on the shelves for decades. Ankles are
getting thicker just thinking about it.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
And it comes up with new recipes all the time.
And now they're introducing four first time ever breakfast meal kits.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Let me just say, cheesy hash brons. You know, you
can add whatever you want to.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
But they've got a couple style Southwest style farmhouse. But
in addition to that, they've got some new flavors for
the regular Hamburger Helper, sweet and savory, Teriaki, brew Pub Cheeseburger.
Don't say no, you're on your fitness grind. I know, well,
I only have it once a year on my birthday.
I think I'm calling Brew Pub Cheeseburger this year. Don't
(14:19):
forget cheesy buffalo mac and zesty marinera.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Before you could say what, Coachella has sold out, I
saw that. So the headliners are Justin Bieber, who we
just played Sabraina Carpenter, and Carol g all massive names.
It's going to be a big show, but both weekends
are now sold out, so hope if you slept on tickets,
I'm sorry, it's over.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
This is interesting.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
There was a teenager arrested in a multi million dollar
hack of Las Vegas casinos in custody. I guess it
happened in twenty twenty three. This kid called and he
used linked in to impersonate an MGM Grand employee. Wow,
got a call with the IT depart be, requested a
password reset, and then gained access to their internal systems.
(15:04):
About ten minutes later, Las Vegas PD says this is
costing casinos over one hundred million dollars and he could
be charged as an adult.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
I thought that story was nuts. I mean, it's just
so scary. I don't trust anything anymore.
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Heat wave today gonna be ninety six and Pleasanton about
eighty two in the city. By tomorrow it's gonna drop
to seventy six in Pleasanton. So today is the hottest day.
Tomorrow We're gonna be alright. Just FYI. We already talked
about the Benson Boon tickets, but also keep in mind
ed sheer and tickets are up at nine thirty five
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Speaker 1 (16:06):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties and today it's
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey back
with it again this morning it's second date update.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
It is not easy to find a partner in line.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It is and maybe you're hitting the apps, maybe you're
trying to meet people in real life. We're just trying
to figure out how to get.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
You that second date spring on Dylan. Good morning, Dylan, Hey,
good morning, hey man. So thanks for getting up early
with us. We want to hear all about Marissa. I
understand you guys went to a wine bar.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, we did.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
It was a rooftop wine bar, and I thought it
was a pretty classy.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Did you guys meet online or what you how'd you meet?
Speaker 4 (16:42):
So we met online? Yeah, on an app? Easy, but yeah,
I wanted to, you know, kind of make a classy
with the rooftop wine bar. So, you know, we sipped
some wine, laughed, and at one point we've been leaning close.
I thought somebody even kissed before say good night, but
then I got ghost it after that. I mean, I
(17:03):
thought it was a pretty unforget forgettable night, un forgettable night.
But I'm just I don't know what happened.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Okay, you didn't mess anything up, did you think?
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I hate to phrase it like that, but it's always
like somebody did something, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (17:20):
Yeah, but it might not be fault. No, you're right,
you're right.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Before we call her, Corey, do you have a theorist
to what might have happened to Marissa?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Well, I think what we don't realize is that Marissa
works a day job in a steel mill and dances
in a bar at night, and when she discovers that
her boss is both interested in her and supportive of
her performing career. She renews her efforts to get accepted
into a prestigious dance and conservatory. She's frightened a failure,
(17:49):
but she's cheered on by her boss as well as
her mentor and former ballet performer Hannah Long.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Are you saying that Marissa is like the woman from Flashdowns?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Maybe she could be studying right now. I was gonna say,
kote Ugly.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Was anyone in Coyote Ugly a steel worker during the day?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
No, all right, let's move on, Dylan. Here's what we're
gonna do. We're gonna call Marissa. We're gonna see what happened.
Can you hang on the line. Yeah, sure, great, all right,
we'll do it.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
Next.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Second Date Update Star one on one three variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second Date Update.
We've got Dylan on the phone. I like this date
a lot. Hey man, roof top wine bar in the city,
and you thought you might get a kiss because she
leaned in. Not only did he not get a kiss,
(18:41):
my guy got ghosted.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Well, we gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Yeah, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have you
on the line. As you know, we're gonna call Marissa
and we're gonna try to figure some things out. So
let's cross our fingers for a second date.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Here we go. Go ahead and meet your phone.
Speaker 6 (18:55):
Okay, Hello, I may speak with Marissa.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Please. This is sh Hi Marissa. It's Marcus and Corey
from Star one O one three.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
She sounds very pleasant.
Speaker 9 (19:18):
Oh my gosh, you're kidding me.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
What's up? How are you?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (19:21):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (19:23):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Do you listen to our show?
Speaker 4 (19:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (19:27):
All the time.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Are you wondering why we have your phone number? She
probably knows very much.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Can you guess what? Uh?
Speaker 9 (19:39):
A couple of things I have in mind? I'm hoping
it's maybe not one of them, but what of it?
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Second date update?
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Would you mind participating in our second date?
Speaker 4 (19:47):
Up date?
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Do you have a couple of minutes?
Speaker 9 (19:53):
Yeah, yeah, I do.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
So.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
There's a guy who gave us your phone number, so
he called the his date with you unforgettable. This was
before you ghosted. Hold on, let me ask did you
ghost on?
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Dylan?
Speaker 5 (20:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (20:09):
Okay, yes, that makes sense. Okay, and he's listening right.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Yes, yes, Dylan, say hello, Dylan. Hey, hey, okay, Marisa,
we're trying to figure out how to make a love connection.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Let's go right for it.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Hey, fully Yeah, I mean it's funny too because you
always ask if they ghosted, and obviously they did, we
wouldn't be doing this.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
You mean, like she's gonna say, I'm super busy.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I don't know anyway, Marissa, Mike, I liked you. So
how was the date for you?
Speaker 9 (20:46):
All right? Well, listen, you called it was not it
was it was.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
It was an experience, Okay, just details.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You want to start with the good stuff and then
move on to the weird stuff for how do we
want to do this?
Speaker 9 (21:00):
Yeah, I mean, look like the place is nice, but
like that's where the good details kind of stop.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 9 (21:13):
Well, like, okay, if I'm starting from the beginning, we
start with drink orders and he orders a vodka froze,
which is not a thing. I've never heard of that,
and then he gets like poudy that they didn't have it.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Okay, Yeah, maybe I was bummed that they didn't have it,
but but come on, that would have been amazing. I was.
I was trying to keep it fun and you know,
not order something boring.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Well, Dylan, don't you have to have a machine to
make a frozen it?
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Anyway? Well, Dylan, let her let her finish, Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:49):
Okay, okay, no no, I kind of looked past that,
but it just keeps getting weirder.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
So like we get like part way through dinner and
he has got a selfie stick out okay that he
brought with him, and he starts filming video of us
eating and drinking, and he says this for something called
first Dates in San Francisco.
Speaker 4 (22:19):
Like online like on It's like it's like TikTok series,
look like that's that's my content, Okay, Like I'm trying
to grow my channel. I'm trying to grow my following.
It's kind of fluttering, right. I thought it'd showed that
I was excited to be there, Like I was excited
to be there.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
It's the first date and it's not your time? Can
we can we let the lady finish? But I will
say this, huh, you need to ask.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Her permission, right, I mean technically, okay, Marissa, was there
anything else?
Speaker 9 (22:48):
Yeah? I mean this is this is the nail in
the coffin on like everything else could have talked about
it maybe, but like we get to the end and
he wants to split it. He wants to split this
is his idea, by the way, like this place is
this whole place is his idea, he asked, And he's
wanting to split the check down the middle, like literally,
(23:11):
like takes up a calculator on his phone and he's
like figuring it out down to the penny, like okay, like, oh,
I oh, like somethings. I mean twenty six and you
twenty seven like that much?
Speaker 4 (23:21):
Yeah, down to the change. Look, here's the thing. Equality
should go both ways. Like I'm not made of money.
I still have a lot to do, you know, money wise,
and I figured you'd at least appreciate me being in
front instead of, you know, playing games.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, I could see how this could be off putting.
Speaker 9 (23:40):
That's not upfront, like discussing that the end is not upfront.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Okay, I don't know what to say to this, because
I would at least do the reach for my wallet.
But also, if you invited me and you took me
to a swinky place, I'm kind of gonna assume you're
gonna pick up the tab.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
You're gonna still do the fake reach.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
But yeah, I'm totally going to reach for my bag.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
All right, Well, let's just cut right to it, Maurissa.
Should we even ask about a second date?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (24:02):
No, that was a lot. It was a weird experience.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Fair enough.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Hang on, that was a lot of stuff at once.
Speaker 3 (24:12):
You know, like a lot.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I just don't know what people are thinking. Sometimes on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
They're not thinking it's a first date.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
I guess not.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
It'll be back tomorrow morning at seven five. Second Date Update.
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it for you right now. All right, I need help, Yeah,
parental help, especially if you have teenagers at home. How
far would you go to support your kid at their
(25:16):
sports but at the risk of potentially embarrassing them. Maybe
here's what I'm doing, and you tell me if I'm
doing this correctly. My daughter plays volleyball, and I have
been accused of being an aggressive cheerer.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Yes, and she has sometimes asked you not to go out,
tone it down or not come.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
My wife played volleyball, My daughter plays volleyball. Dad was
in the chess club. I get really excited when I
see them play because they're so good at it, and
my wife coaches, and so I'm on the sidelines hollering,
I'm yelling, I'm cheering, and so I decided to I
decided to do a custom shirt. The problem is, it's
(26:05):
a volleyball shirt that kind of emulates her jersey, and
it has our last name and her number on the back,
like she's my favorite player and I'd like to wear
it to the game.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
Okay, are you gonna tell her? That's forehand? That's the question.
That's the rub.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
I don't think you should what. I don't think you
should tell her?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Don't tell her. I think you should show up.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Just show up, because I think you are going to
create a vibe where she's.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
Like dad, I know that already, But also I want
her to know that I'm at least so I'm here's
where I'm teetering. And if you're a dad out there
and you're kind of goofy like I am, would you
just show up and said Jersey and be like, this
is me deal with it at the risk of potentially,
(26:54):
at least temporarily alienating your daughter. Or do you have
a conversation before handing, Oh, look I had this custom
thing made.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
I'd like to wear it at your game.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Did you tell your wife?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
No, nobody knows about this, well they do.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Now, why didn't you ask your wife her opinion?
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Because she's just gonna roll her eyes at me and
be like you're oh, it's okay. She's gonna be like okay,
but she's not gonna like it. I already know how
the conversations is gonna go.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
I mean, I don't think there's really any other option
here except to just show up in it cause.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Your dad was different, right, Like my dad was different.
He would my dad was a performer. He would just
show up and you just kind of went, that's dad,
he's nuts.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I remember my parents used to love to embarrass me.
Would go mini golfings, right, and they knew that I was,
you know, fourteen fifteen, right, just at that total awkward,
insecure age. And we'd be on the mini golf course
and they would take their putters and they would raise
them above their heads and they would march to every
hole with the putters above their heads, causing a scene.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
And I'm like, you, guys, that's my question.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Like in the moment, you hated it, you hated it,
and you weren't very fond of them. But now that's
a memory. So me showing up at her game with
her jersey on, that's my dad.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
But don't ask permission, ask her forgiveness, all right, that's
my dike.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
If I if if you think I'm wrong, please let
us know. I'm Here's okay, I'm pulling the curtain all
the way back. I spent a lot of years caregiving
for my dad. I missed out on a lot of
years of bonding as my child I'm trying doing everything
I can not to push her away or to make
her and mad at me.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
If we're really talking mad, I don't think she's going
to be surprised because you're a goofball. This isn't new.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
What's the move? Can I get some dad advice here?
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Uh? Mark is so desperately trying to connect.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
It's not funny, No, it's sweet, it's it's it's more
the angst around it. That's I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
If you have a thought on this, the talk back
is open. It's the little red microphone on the iHeartRadio app.
Would love some feedback on this.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
It's time for good News with Marcus and Corey.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Sometimes all you need is one a good thought to
make it a great day.
Speaker 6 (29:16):
So let's do this.
Speaker 7 (29:17):
It's good News on Star one three.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
So we give you good news twice in the morning,
seven forty just to make you smile, brighten your day
a little bit. It brought to you this hour by
Shreaving Company, Luxury time Pieces, Fine Designers and Flawless Diamonds. Apparently,
Camilla Cabeo showed up at a stranger's wedding over the
weekend and performed the song for the Father Daughter Dance
(29:42):
Live out of the Blue.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
How does this happen?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Yeah, this is further proof that Camilla Cabeo is an
amazing human being. So I guess she met the bride
to be and her family randomly at a hotel bar
in Iowa. She must have been on too or she
was in town. Met the young lady who was nineteen.
Her name's Kelly, and Kelly was like, I'm planning to
(30:10):
use your song first Man for the father daughter dance
at my wedding. AWW, And Camilla apparently was so moved
that she agreed to sing the song at the wedding
because the song meant so much to her. So she
got up and spoke at the wedding. There are videos
online and she explained that the song first Man is
(30:32):
actually a song about her own dad and that she
felt really honored to be part of the occasion.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
This is crazy, so you just just having a bump
into it can nuts.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Then she could see how tight this girl Kelly was
with her dad, Mike, and how much he loved her,
and she ended her speech by raising a glass to
all the daddy's girls out there before she started the performance.
And then you know, Kelly and her dad danced give
me the cobeo sang do you.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Know where they got married?
Speaker 3 (31:04):
I don't?
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Is it in Ohio?
Speaker 3 (31:05):
Nah? I don't know, Okay, I couldn't answer that.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Because I'm just I feel like, you know, when it
comes to somebody like give me a cabella or her
schedule's got to be super tight. She's got to be
super busy. So it's just stop down, go to where
this wedding's taking place and sing, what a nice person.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
I don't know the timeline between the moment that they met, yeah,
and when the wedding was, but it happened. That's great,
pretty bananas anyway. I thought that was pretty great abiety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey time to
play the Bay's favorite trivia game.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
What you know about that?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
For a massive price, We've got five hundred dollars from
the Voice. NBC's four time Emmy Award winning musical competition
series is back. All star coaches Michael Bubla, Snoop Dogg,
Nile Horn, and Reeve mcattire reclaim their red chairs for
season twenty eight. Watch The Voice every Monday and Tuesday
at eight on NBC Bay Area.
Speaker 3 (31:54):
TA, good morning to our concessants.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We take you to Santa Clara, say had a Christina.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
What's it like being in forty nine ers epicenter? Just
Banana's down there.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
You know what?
Speaker 5 (32:05):
I work at a school, so not so much.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
That was to say, you know what, forty nine ers
three and oh, it's got to be the most exciting
thing to happen in Santa Clara since they open the
holiday in express?
Speaker 3 (32:15):
Am I right?
Speaker 2 (32:17):
Seriously?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Probably? Are Should we say where you teach now? Or
should we wait till you win?
Speaker 6 (32:23):
I'm over at burs Awesome.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Let's take it to Belmont and say what's up to Jeremy?
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Good morning, Jeremy, good morning. What do you got going
on this morning?
Speaker 9 (32:31):
Taking my son Jacob as school?
Speaker 3 (32:33):
Good luck to you both. The game is super simple.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
It's five trivia questions, fifty seconds to answer them all.
Each person's gonna be asked separately with their opponent on hold.
Whoever gets the most right answers wins. If you don't
know an answer, you yell out, pass and we'll come
back to the question. If we have time left, Okay,
sound good? Everybody play along at Homer in the car.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Jeremy goes on hold in Belmont. We start with Christina
and Santa Clara. Question number one is from last night's
episode of the Voice. The first contestant, Aiden row Us
gets all four coaches to turn their chairs around for him.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
Who's team does Aid and choose to join?
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Rhett, Butler and Scarlett O'Hara are characters in which.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Movie Oh Bus?
Speaker 4 (33:17):
I am gannicking Pa.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards. Now,
what is the name of the device used to catch Pokemon?
Speaker 4 (33:41):
A poke a ball?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (33:44):
And the first action The first action hero was this
toy soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 9 (33:53):
I'm Superman.
Speaker 6 (33:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
Okay, we'll go with Superman. I hang on on line
one second.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
Christina goes on holding Santa Clara. We pick up Jeremy
and Belmont.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Hi, Jeremy, Hi, good morning. Question number one from the
show The Voice. The first contestant, Aiden Ross gets all
four coaches to turn their chairs for him. Whose team
does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Brett Butler and Scarlett O'Hara characters in which movie Oh Path?
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards.
Oh my gosh, past. Who does the name of the
device used to catch Pokemon? Oh my gosh, the first
(34:43):
action hero was this toy soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 9 (34:51):
Army Man.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Going back to number one on the Voice, the first contestant,
Aiden Ross gets all four coaches to turn their chairs
for him.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Whose team does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
Nile full name?
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Oh god, um niall out of time?
Speaker 1 (35:10):
All right, Christina comes back in Santa Clara. We'll see
how she did against Jeremy and Belmont. Question number one
on the show the Voice, the first contestant, Aiden Ross,
gets all four coaches to turn their chairs for him.
Whose team does Aiden choose to join?
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Christina passed. Jeremy said Niael We needed Nile Horn. Which
is the correct answer? Nile Horn.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Next question, Rhet Butler and Scarlett O'Hara are characters in
which movie?
Speaker 2 (35:33):
Both Christina and Jeremy past It's Gone with the Wind.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
This gin brand gets its name from the Royal English Guards.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
Christina and Jeremy past it's beefeaters.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
What is the name of the device you used to
catch Pokemon?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Christina said, poke ball? That is correct, Jeremy.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Passed, and finally the first action hero was this toy
soldier from Hasbro.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Christina said Superman, Jeremy said, armed Man is actually g
I Joe. Our winner is Christina.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
One to nothing, Christina?
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Who did it?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
Who did it?
Speaker 1 (36:03):
I don't know how you got that five hundred bucks
from the voice.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
Congratulations Jerry, you get a Marcus. What are you about?
Speaker 7 (36:11):
Play with us again at weekday mornings at eight o five.
Speaker 8 (36:14):
Am and add to what you know about that podcast
is a preset on our iHeart app and never miss
an episode.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Benson boone here next week you got a chance to
win tickets on the Star one on one three fm Instagram.
Give it a follow. Segueing now to Ed Sheering tickets,
which we're giving up all week long, and we.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Had a talkback for tickets. The question was which Ed
sheeran song best matches your vibe today and why I.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Am feeling shivers today because I am going home to
see my husband who just stopped back from a long.
Speaker 7 (36:46):
Trip from Chicago.
Speaker 6 (36:47):
And I love it when you do me like that,
give me the shivers.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Hello, have a great day.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
I love you guys.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
Oh Nik feeling some type of way man, let's call
her give us some tickets. Hello, I'm Monique, Please Marcus
A Corey your favorite morning show.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Oh my god, I love you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
We love you back. You're going to see it cheering.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Yeah, I'm still I'm still trying to decide if your
talkback was appropriate.
Speaker 2 (37:21):
Not really, I know, Oh my god, but he was
only gone for the weekend.
Speaker 9 (37:28):
But I'm just so excited.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
That's so great. What's his name?
Speaker 4 (37:33):
Bart?
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Okay, Well, when you guys, when you go to the show,
make sure you get a selfie and please tack us
up on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (37:40):
Okay, oh for sure, for sure, the best time.
Speaker 5 (37:43):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
My god, you got to hang on the line for me.
We'll get you set up all right, more tickets tomorrow morning.
It's seven thirty five. That's when you need to wake
up to win. Okay, Okay, make sure you have the
iHeartRadio app downloaded. Make sure you can stream Star one,
O one three. Get y'all set up to talk back
for tickets. Lillian is on the way next. Have a
great day.
Speaker 3 (38:01):
We'll talk to you tomorrow morning.
Speaker 2 (38:02):
Bye.
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