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September 16, 2025 39 mins
What Your Hugging Style Says About You
  • Romantic partners hugged much longer than platonic friends, with lovebirds hugging for an average of 7.02-seconds, compared to 2.88-seconds for pals.
  • Surprisingly, the way people positioned their feet, knees or hips didn’t seem to matter.
  • But personality factors play a part in hugging tightness. People who show high neuroticism (those prone to anxiety and self-doubt) tended to leave more distance in a hug, while tighter hugs were given by conscientious types (who tend to be responsible and careful).


Should You Comment On Your Teen's Social Media?
Ron on Reddit writes: I thought I was being funny when I would (very) occasionally comment on my teenage son’s social media posts, but yesterday he came to me with a serious look on his face to tell me that I’m being “cringe” and begged me not to comment anymore. I’ve always seen myself as the fun and goofy dad, making puns, posting dad jokes, and yes, sometimes replying to his memes. I think his friends like me and they always laugh at my jokes, but now he says I’m ruining his image and embarrassing him in front of them. I feel like I can’t win; I’m either “absent” if I stay out of his life or “cringe” for trying to interact. Is this just teenage stuff or am I actually the problem?
 
Did Your Friend Squad Change After Someone Had A Baby?
Things change when you have a baby; not just for you, but for your girl squad, too! Women without kids are getting real about how their girl squad changed after their friends started having kids. 

Second Date Update
Trevor called us about Alicia after they grabbed sushi in San Mateo. He said she was gorgeous, sharp, and they vibed right away over sake bombs. By the end of the night, Alicia even kissed him in the parking lot, and Trevor took that as proof things were headed somewhere. He told us he thought she was amazing and couldn’t understand why she ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
For a variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and
Corey five p. Fifty nine. Good morning. Hello are you Corey?

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Uh? You know it's Tuesday. Yes, yesterday was warm. We
actually busted out the portable acus.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Oh boy, now is this the same AC unit that
you had in the window of your apartment when you
were living on King Street?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yes, okay, and I had a little bit of trauma
you did free living those days.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Trying to remember it didn't almost fall out the window
onto the street or something.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
No, my window almost fell off and hit the streets.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah, during a gigantic rainstorm.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
With that crazy wind that like broke stuff. I just
remember also the trauma of living in that apartment building.
When they decided in July to cover the entire building
in plastic. It was a weird, weird year of my life.

Speaker 1 (00:53):
I remember if if you remember yesterday, I was talking
about I'm like my child. It gets I guess I
embarrass her because I cheer too much at the volleyball games. Yeah. Well,
she was glad to see me yesterday.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
That's nice.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
I walked into the gym and she smiled at me,
that's nice. And then I was trying not to cheer,
and one of the other dads looked at his daughter
and they were about to serve, and he goes, all right,
he goes, hunt it down. It's on you, And so
I yelled out, yeah, hunt it down.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
What does that even mean?

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Like, you know, call the ball, have a nose for
the ball, ball's coming at you, hunt it down, be
a missile. A.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
So my kid looked just daggers at me. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I don't blame her, because that's the silliest thing I've
ever heard.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
I loved it. Hunt it down.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
There's a great episode of Bob's Burger's where they're all
playing soccer and the parents keep repeating the same things.
Just have fun out there, keep your eye on the ball.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
It's a you know, there are any sports parents listening
right now. It's a fine line because you have you know,
you want your kid to be competitive and you want
to give them assistance, but you also want them to
have a good time, like put too much pressure on them,
right exactly, you don't want to be that parent. I
only apply the pressure that I know my kid can handle.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
And I you know you're probably saying you don't have kids, Corey,
and I'm like, yeah, but I was a kid and
I played sports.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
So tell me what we think of this idea. I'm
thinking of ratcheting it up. I've designed a T shirt
no that is basically a mock of her jersey with
her number on it. No, And I'm gonna wear that. No.
Why not?

Speaker 2 (02:36):
She doesn't want you to call attention to yourself, that's
the whole point.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
But I'm supporting. I'm a sports dat Now.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
You're saying, look at me, look at me. I'm clever
and funny, and I came up with a good idea.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
You know what. You know what we're gonna do. Here's
what I want to do. We're gonna take this to
a different time. We're gonna ask the people when they
wake up. I know there are people to wake now,
but there will be more people to wake at a
later time. With that look on your face is just
as much as I know about your daughter. Terrible. Do
you want to see the shirt?

Speaker 2 (03:07):
You already have a design?

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Huh h. We'll discuss later. It's just got my head hurts.
I feel like secretly I'll be like, look, man, it's
I got my my favorite player on them.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Have you asked your wife?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, not yet. Why I'm because I'm going rogue.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
I just I just everything being stop.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
We'll discuss later. What else is going on this morning?
More tickets for Hannah Berner at the Masonic. She's a
fantastic comedian. We're gonna hook you up for a little
date night in the city courtesy of Live Nation. That's
coming up at eight oh five, and then coming up next.
What your hugging style says about your relationship? Okay, and
frankly about your personality. They've drilled it down using AI

(03:59):
of course, watching people hug, the duration, the style, the
body part positioning. Okay, well they went all the way in.
We'll talk about it at six fifteen. More variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today. It's Star one
oh one three Marcus and Corey Tuesday morning. Good morning, Hi,
about to get into some science. Are you ready? Yes?
What your hugging style says about your relationship?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
This is really interesting and this isn't just like your
romantic relationship says right here.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
People hug all the time for many different reasons. A
new study has suggested that a hug can reveal a
lot about the way somebody feels about you, Okay. Researchers
use high speed cameras to capture participants hugging, and then
they used advanced AI to analyze the embraces, measuring subtle
body positions. Hug length timing is key. Romantic partners hug

(04:48):
for an average of seven seconds, compared to friends who
hug for just two point eight eight seconds.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Well, the style has a lot to do with it,
because if you're going like chest to chest, that's going
to be a lot more intimate and probably last a
little longer. Whereas I had a friend she drove me
crazy because she always went in for the side hug
and I was going for the full hug, And if
you go side hug full hug and bump into each other,

(05:15):
you almost kiss each other on the face. She just
looks so awkward when she'd come in for a hug,
like she was doing it because she thought she should,
but she didn't really want to.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
It's that the psychology of a side hug, because I
often wonder if somebody gives you a side hug. It's
like two or three reasons. One is I don't actually
want to hug you, but I kinda I don't want
to make it weird. And the other one is that
I found is and I'm very careful with this. If
I have a friend who is married, you know, and
she wants to be respectful to her husband, you get

(05:48):
like a little side hug, and it's not it's not
a cold hug. It's just not a like a full embrace.
Wouldn't be appropriate culturally or otherwise.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
I get that, But it's like you and I hug
and it's not a big deal. We're both There's hugs
I give to people that need that kind of comfort,
and then there's hey, man, hong it out. Like when
Jeff's grandma passed away. I gave Grandpa Eddie a really
deep hug.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
He needed one, he needed it. I want to talk
about this. It's appropriate. And you know who I'm talking about. Yeah,
we had a coworker who's no longer here, so I
feel okay, But sometimes he'd be in a bad mood.
He was a good guy, and Corey knew that he
had a crush on her, and so she would get

(06:34):
up and she would say, I'm gonna go give him
what he needs and she'd get all the way in
there with the hug, with the with the boobies and everything,
what are you nine? And it would absolutely make his day.
I feel so vindicated being able to talk about this

(06:56):
right now, because if he was still here, it would
be an hr situation. But he isn't.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
It's fine because he and I are friends outside of work,
right and threat to my husband, it's not a disc
to my husband.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
Best believe the Jeff is not threatened by anyone or
anything period.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
And it would be more of a hey, this is
just what you need right now.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, you could do that right in front of Jeff
and he'd look at the guy and be like, congratulations.
I get that all the time, just the look on
his face, because you have to understand, I'm talking about
hugging right now. And again, we had a coworker that
would he'd be MOPy, and Corey knew that he really

(07:35):
liked her hugs. We walked to his office and I'd
be walking behind her and she'd go in for the hug,
and the look on his face he would just brighten
all the way. Oh yeah, his favorite time of day.
And Corey came in with a little sunshine. I have
to get back to this scientific study. We are all

(07:56):
over the place. Basically, the longer you hug, the more
you like. That person that goes without saying Sure, a
hugs should be at least three seconds in order to
get the full effects of it. But then you don't
want to make it weird and be like, okay, you
can let me go now that's you. Uh right. People
who suffer from anxiety or self doubt have according to

(08:17):
this AI leave a little bit more space, hug a
little less. People that are more conscientious and more responsible.
I don't know if that's true, considering my pedigree hug longer.
These are the takeaways.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
I don't know how. I don't agree with that because
I have anxiety and I love hugs. I'm oll off, yeah,
I have warm hugs.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Says right here. Surprisingly, the way people position their feet,
knees or hips did not seem to matter.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
And when those are the takeaways, what your hug says
about you. Sometimes a well placed hug from the right
person can brighten your day, Am I right?

Speaker 2 (08:50):
Corn?

Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, yeah, dearly or variety for the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's star one on one three, it's Marcus
and Corey Tuesday Morning, Good morning morning. There is a
dilemma on Reddit that I am fascinated by because it's
just something that I'm probably gonna run into as a father,
and I don't know the answer. So maybe somebody's got
some insight on this. This guy named Ron who wrote

(09:12):
on Reddit. He says, I thought I was being funny
when I would very occasionally comment on my teenage son's
social media posts. But yesterday he came to me with
a serious look on his face and told me I
was being quote cringe, and he begged me not to
comment anymore. I've always seen myself as the fun and
goofy dad, making puns, posting dad jokes, and yes, sometimes

(09:36):
replying to his memes. I think his friends like me
and they always laugh at my jokes. But now he
says I'm ruining his image and embarrassing him in front
of his friends. I feel like I can't win. I'm
either quote absent if I stay out of his life,
or cringe for trying to interact. Is this just teenage

(09:56):
stuff or am I actually the problem?

Speaker 2 (09:59):
To be honest, I think it's both okay teenage stuff,
and maybe this isn't your platform. I mean, I love
it that his son's friends laugh at his jokes.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Well they kind of have to, I mean, according to him. Yeah,
that's the brilliance of a dad joke. And we do
jad jokes on this show every week. I don't care
if you get it. Dad jokes to me are statements
that dads make and everyone else just has to try
to keep up.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
I have to say, my dad's not huge on social media.
He's on there, but he doesn't really comment on anything
I post, and I'm okay with that.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
But think about it. If you were a teenage girl
in high school and your dad was checking in on
your posts and making jokes and whatever else, I.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Would feel more like it was a little bit of
a spying technique to see what I'm doing. But I
think he should just not post on his son's page.
And it doesn't mean you're being an absent father.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Oh, there are so many ways to be present.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
Besides that, it's just funny that this is an issue
and I didn't grow up with this issue because there
was no social media oh when we were in high school.
And I'm trying to think what the equivalent would be.
It's like your friends came over to your house, and
your dad pops in is making jokes, being weird.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
He wants to sit down and watch TV with us
and whatever else. My dad, get out of here.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
I'm out.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
I had the number one hitter. My dad was a
teacher at my high school. Yeah, I was super popular.
Oh yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure. I'm just I think
about it. And my daughter's eleven. She does volleyball, and
she has asked me, and I can't tell if she's
kidding or not. Dad, please don't come to my games.
You make too much noise.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
I can totally see that. But I mean, you're cheering
her on. So I think that the motivation is is pure.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
There are parameters, you know. There's a certain volume that
I'm allowed to cheer at. There are certain things I'm
allowed to say and not say, and so I respect those.
And when I do show up, I see her smile.
So I think there's a little bit of her just
being like, Dad, don't show up, But she actually secretly
wants me to.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
I think she wants you to be there. Just don't
be so loud. You're the same guy who was on
the Jumbo Tron this weekend.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
Our Gience game. Yeah, God, I wish I would have
gotten video of that. My buddies and I singing party
in the USA the Giants game on Friday. Talk about
embarrassing your kid.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
Yeah, so she's got a lot to deal with.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Should you or shouldn't you comment on your kids social
media if they ask you not to? Any parents of
teenagers want to check in on this, I would love
some insight because I genuinely don't know. I have my thoughts.
But it's the little red microphone. If you're streaming Star
one on one three right now, you can leave us
a message. Check in. Please Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey seven fifty three. Good morning. This

(12:38):
is what I'm talking about. It's what's trending on Star
one three.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
What's happening in entertainment news, the biggest stories of the day,
and everything people are talking about today.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
In the Babe, Robert Redford has passed away. The handsome, iconic,
an Oscar winning director passed away the age of eighty nine,
and it's a good run. I just love him and everything.
And he was in one of my mom's favorite movies

(13:10):
which introduced me to one of my favorite movies, which
is Barefoot in the Park and he was in that
with Jane Fonda. It's based on a play. Okay, and
I'm named after Jane Fonda's character really Corey Bradder. Oh okay,
so he holds a special place mart Golden Girls celebrate
forty years this year, and cake Worthy is releasing apparel
to honor the show. It's gonna have T shirts, dresses,

(13:32):
button ups, hoodies, jacket, sleep wear accessories, and home wear pieces.
And of course Dorothy, Rose, Blanche and Sofia are all
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peachy yellows, and mint because you know they're in Miami, Florida.
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Speaker 1 (13:54):
Oh this is exciting.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
That's where Rose was from. This collection will drop soon
at cake Worthy's website.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
I feel like we all have a Golden Girls fanatic
in our lives.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
Oh totally.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
I liked it. If it's not you, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
I love the Golden Girls. I thought it was written
very well. Mattel is doing something really special. For Diadu
Las Mortos. Barbie and Ken are dressed in traditional ceremonial
attire and it's going to be available at major retailers
such as Walmart, Amazon, and Target for around one hundred bucks.
Ken's only seventy five. Yeah, Ken, I'm just kidd. Dia

(14:31):
delas Mortos takes place this year on November first and second,
and traditions include creating an altar with photos, candles, flowers,
and music to under those who have.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
Passed, a very traditional thing to do.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
I attended a ceremony in Sedona and we got to
paint on a wall. They got all this paint and
they needed like candles and the flowers were amazing. I
would love to do it in Mexico.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
You have to do the pilgrimage, whether it's San Miel
which is great, or Wahaka or Mexico City or wherever
it's fantastic. I want to, speaking of which today is
Mexican Independence Day. I'm here, depend Ilia.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
I'm so peppy.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
The song I just wanted, honestly, what it is thinking.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
About the most popular chick in the neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
Also not for nothing, but it's National Wacamole Day. Yes,
it is coincidence, I think not.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
No.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
I am in the process of putting together what I
think is the last wakamole, the recipe you ever need.
Even I'm gonna even. I'm gonna give you the whole thing,
no gatekeeping, including my secret ingredient that I think takes
it over the top that you may or may not
think about, that will be up by give me tell
nine o'clock. I'll have it on these Stars one on
three FM Instagram.

Speaker 2 (16:01):
Yes, yeah, there is a poll on the Star Instagram
about guacamole. How do you take it? Is it something
you know traditional with chips, putting it on your tacos,
having avocado tos? How do you take your quat.

Speaker 1 (16:13):
All of that and more, let's see, Okay, The iHeartRadio
Hunger Action Week is in full effect this week. We
have teamed up with the other radio stations here in
the building and we are benefiting food banks all over
the Bay. So this Friday, I would love for you
to come out and meet up with Corey and I.

(16:34):
We're going to be in Newark at the Sprouts from
four to six. Yes, and we have a QR code
you can come make a monetary donation but more importantly,
we just had a big discussion about the proper hugging etiquette,
and I just need some huggers. Where my hugger's at
Team hug I mean, our.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Goal is to collect food donations and monetary donations. But
I guess it's a plus, right, get a hug from Marco.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
Yeah, so number one, monetary donations. Number two, Yes, you
can bring some canned food and this will all benefit
the Alameda County Community Food Bank. I'll give it to
you one more time, and I would love to see
you there. I almost said I would expect to see
you there this Friday at Sprouts in Newark four to six.

(17:20):
This is the jarvisav location. Okay, can't wait. On the
Marcus and Korey Instagram, check out the dad joke of
the week. It got physical. Corey chose violence.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Well, sometimes you just don't know what else to do.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
I thought the joke hit. So give it a rating
ten out of ten. No doubt. It's up right now
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Thank you. Guess What's Up? Guess What's Up? Catch What's trending?
Every weekday morning.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
On the fifties does six fifty seven, eight fifty.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
AM and Connection Now with Marcus and Corey everywhere at
Star one O one three FM.

Speaker 5 (17:55):
And I'm Marcus and Corey.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
All right, we're gonna get variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today Star one on one three. It's
Marcus and Corey. We're back with second date upday. Let's
do this.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
Why are you not getting your second date right? It's
what we're trying to figure out.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Mm hm, say what's up to Trevor this morning? Hello Trevor, Hi,
how's it going? Guys?

Speaker 2 (18:11):
Good?

Speaker 1 (18:12):
How are you?

Speaker 6 (18:13):
I'm okay.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
I guess maybe we can get some good news for
you today. Maybe we can find a second date. I
want you to tell us about Alicia, Like, how you
guys met and what did you do for your date?

Speaker 6 (18:26):
Well? We met on an app, you know, like many
people do. Sure, and I thought the date went pretty well.
We grabbed sushi and san mateo.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
Uh huh.

Speaker 6 (18:36):
I thought she was just awesome, gorgeous, smart, super sharp
and witty. We had a lot of fun. I thought
we vibed right away. We were, you know, drinking sake
bombs and oh my god, the night went on.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
You guys were bonding.

Speaker 6 (18:51):
Yeah, it was great. We even kissed in the parking
lot afterwards. I thought that meant we were doing something,
we were going somewhere, you know. She was amazing, and
then I don't know if she just goes to me.
I really don't get it.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
Okay, Corey, do you have any idea what happened to Alicia? Well?

Speaker 2 (19:06):
I think Alicia went on a last minute vacation, you know,
with some family, uh huh. And it's like a fishing
weekend at a Wisconsin lakeside cabin and she's having a
great time. But then one of the other relatives crashes
the trip, you know, not even invited, just shows up
with his whole family, and they're obnoxious and they kind

(19:29):
of ruined the whole thing. And so she's gone on
another vacation to get away from these people.

Speaker 1 (19:36):
Trevor thoroughly enjoying himself outdoors, great outdoors, gosic yanking one
from the eighties.

Speaker 2 (19:45):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Let's move on, Trevor. I hope we've lightened the mood
a bit. Let's see if we can find Alicia. I'd
love to get you a second date. Man. We're gonna
call her let's play a song. We'll call her with
you on the phone. Can you hang out for a bit? Yeah?
Fingers crossed yea A variety from the two thousands of
the nineties and today Star one O one three. It's
Marcus and Corey. We're back with Second Date Update. Obviously

(20:07):
we've been chatting with Trevor about his date with Alisha. Uh.
They went for sushi and samonteo and they had sake bombs.
Why wouldn't this work out?

Speaker 2 (20:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
You know what I mean? Trevor? You still there? I'm
still here? You ready to make this phone call? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (20:22):
Please help me?

Speaker 1 (20:23):
All right, let's give her a shout and see if
we can figure out what happened.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
Here we go, Hello, Hi, may speak with Alisia? Please?

Speaker 5 (20:38):
Yeah, because it's Alicia.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Hi, Alisia, This is Marcus and Corey from Star one
on one three.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
She sounds very sweet. Hello, what guys? Hey?

Speaker 2 (20:50):
Do you listen our show?

Speaker 5 (20:52):
Oh? My gosh, yeah, you got to look my friends.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
Oh that's nice.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Do you so we're doing second Date update? Do you
know what that is?

Speaker 2 (21:00):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (21:00):
I sure do?

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Okay, great? You want to be a part of it?
You want to be the featured star.

Speaker 2 (21:04):
You'd like to invite you one?

Speaker 5 (21:07):
Wow? What what an honor? Yeah, let's let's go.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
You guys, okay, you already know the gig. Trevor's listening in. Yeah,
and we want to talk about your first date. Trevor.
You there, Yeah, I'm here. No, so I mean we're
all here, we're all adults. Alicia, did you ghost? Because
he said he had a great time and you guys
even kissed in the parking lot, so like we're trying
to figure out what happened.

Speaker 5 (21:32):
Yeah, I did, okay ghost, you know, apologies, but it
was it was just a little bit strange for me.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
I guess, okay.

Speaker 5 (21:45):
Eight. So we're at a sushi restaurant and the first
course or plate or whatever arrives at the table and
he pulls out like a little carrying case that has
his own chopsticks, and I just he pulls those out
and that's fine. It was just a little odd. And
then like whenever there was a dull moment or just

(22:07):
like a lull, a natural lull in the conversation, he's
just over and over was humming the top gun thing
to him, like a song to himself. From the soundtrack,
from the soundtrack, Yeah, like like danger Zone. It was
he just kept humming danger Zone.

Speaker 1 (22:22):
So you're literally sitting there eating and it's.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
I don't think I would have done danger Zone. I
would have maybe hummed like the beginning when they're like
scanning the runways and way cooler.

Speaker 5 (22:34):
Yeah, it was bizarre, but you know whatever. And then
about three quarters through the like quarters of the way through,
we're kind of sitting by a window and like these
it's a car pulls up and the headlights are blasting,
and I'm like, man, who would do that? It's so rude.
And he was like, oh, that's that's just my ex.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
And why was she there?

Speaker 5 (22:59):
Well, well, she was just sitting there for a while,
uh huh. And she even like waves at some point
and he waved back, and I was like, I don't
know what. I don't know what is going on here.
It was so bizarre and I just didn't really know
how to react, so I didn't say anything. I was like, Okay,
maybe this girl's weird. Hopefully he'll explain this. And then

(23:19):
after the date, he goes in to kiss me, and
I'm just kind of stunned and shocked and like feel
like I'm floating in space. They don't really know what's
going on. It's weird. And he goes in to kiss me,
and I just didn't really feel like dodging, and so
yes we did kiss, but I did not initiate. And
then afterwards he just just went went and got in

(23:41):
the car, went and got in the car with his X.
So I was a little weird speaking him up.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
Was she there to give him a hold of Okay,
all right, all right, time out, Trevor.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
Yeah, Uh, why did you get in the car with
your AX?

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Can you explain that part of it?

Speaker 6 (23:59):
Oh, we're like roommates now. I mean, yeah, she's my ex,
but we you know, we still have to uh you know,
we're still like living with each other. She's my roommate,
you know, until the lease is over, and it's like
platonic now, like brother and sister.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
Almost.

Speaker 6 (24:14):
There's nothing weird about it. She just was giving me
a ride and like I said, until my lease runs out.
And other than that, my car was in the shop.
So I wanted to do the date, but I didn't
want to like tell her all this drama about everything else.
So I was like, just wait outside and when the
date's over. We'll go back to our house if it
doesn't work out, you know, And it's not that big

(24:34):
of a deal. She's not my girlfriend or anything anymore.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
Was Uber not an option?

Speaker 7 (24:39):
Oh yeah, I guess it was. I just don't like
waiting outside for like an uber. I just kissed her.
It's the way white linger, you know.

Speaker 5 (24:51):
I think maybe that would have been less weird than
getting in your excess car. Just from my persponsive.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
Yeah, that's optics or everything. Yeah, on our first date, Trevor,
and you're you're certain there's nothing there, Trevor, Like, it's just.

Speaker 6 (25:07):
Absolutely she's dating someone else, not her and I are
not a thing anymore.

Speaker 1 (25:11):
Okay, my roommate and you're going to move out after
the lease is up, exactly. Okay. Knowing all of this, Alicia,
would you look past it? Did you have a good
enough time to warrant a second date?

Speaker 5 (25:24):
The situation just seems a little odd. I think maybe
it's just for someone else. It was very weird that
your ex was sitting in a car and could see
us enough to the point where you guys waved at
each other. It just seems like that's the potential for
drama or something messy, So I think it's going to
be a fil for me.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
All right, very good. Hang on, that was the weirdest
thing I've ever heard.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
That was, I mean, maybe not the weirdest thing I've
ever heard.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
It's up there, bizarre, it's up there. Not surprised. It's
over Second Date, Outdate seven oh five. Weekday Mornings with
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Star one O one three Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey. It's seven to twenty. Good morning.
Interesting little BuzzFeed article child free ladies sharing how the

(26:11):
relationships changed after their friends had kids. It happened mm hmm.
Number one hitter lady says, my friendships with them faded
as someone who wants a child. Not only am I
kind of sad about the friendship going away, but I
can't join, can't join well becaush doesn't have a child,

(26:31):
she wants a child. Maybe she's having issues having a child.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Oh, I gotcha.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
You know.

Speaker 2 (26:36):
I have a friend who is actually one of my bride'smaids,
and we were super tight and a lot of things
we had in common is that we were both you know,
we were when we were single, we supported ourselves and
we were hard workers and really dedicated to our jobs.
And then she had a baby and all she wanted

(26:58):
to do there's nothing wrong with this. Let me just
say that she wanted to sit on the floor and
watch her son spill fake cranberries on the floor and
then she would gather them all up, put them back
in the basket, and he would do it again.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
Yeah, and sounds great.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
I sat on the couch and like when we would talk.
So I was visiting. I was in town to visit
her specifically, and we were going to go to her
club because she and her husband joined some golf club
or whatever where they have a spa and they have daycare,
and so we were going to take the sun to
day care and we go to the spa. She didn't

(27:37):
want to do that. She want to do the cranberrything.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
It's a very strange phenomenon because I lived it on
both sides. I had a friend who had a daughter,
and when the daughter was a baby, we were at
a concert and all she was doing was staring at
pictures of her kid on her phone.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
The kid wasn't there.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
No, she just missed her baby. And I didn't get
it until you have I have a daughter, and now
I have fifty thousand pictures of my kid, and they
come up in my Facebook memories and my Instagram member
not Instagram memories, but Facebook memories, and I just and
I'll show Corey I took this vote.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
And they're adorable.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
They're adorable, but like, it makes me miss my kid,
and now I get it. Like one of my greatest
joys is just to like scroll through all the pictures
of her as a as a toddler. You know, she's
eleven now, but even now, and then send them to
my wife. Hey remember this one, Hey remember this one.
I think that's right, horribly boring if you don't have children.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
It's not boring. It's because I'll do that with my dogs.
But people will assume that you don't like children if
you don't have them, and that's not the case at all.
But it just never happened for my husband and I.
We moved a lot, we changed jobs a lot, it
just didn't happen. But you know, I love my nieces
and I love getting tired, yeah, to spend with them
and that's an example of the other end of the spectrum.

(28:51):
My sister in law really didn't change that much when
she became a mother.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
I don't think I would. I thought my daughter would
just kind of be our ride along, come on our
adventures with us. But no, your whole world gets turned
upside down when you have a kid.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Oh, I'm sure, I'm sure. And then I have another
friend who's like, do you not want to hang out
because I have a kid? I'm like, no, I like
your kid, I don't like you.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
I've lived this with Corey. This is a very interesting
relationship on the other end of the spectrum, Like when
I had a kid, all of my single guy friends
kind of just evaporated because I don't know how not
that I don't know how to hang out with him,
but like, you're not going to be a wingman. No,
all of my friends are married. In fact, I was

(29:39):
telling Corey we went to the Giants game on Friday
with my guy friends, all dads, all husbands, and I
posted a picture of the four of us and my
friend texted me she had close up done one of
my friends and was crushing on him, and she's like,
what's his story? I go best. Believe all my friends
are married. They're all married with.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Kids and a thing. Sorry, even if you don't have kids,
but you're all married, you kind of have the same
goals when you hang out. Let's go do dinner, Let's
go to a movie. Let's what you know. I don't
want to go to a club. I don't want to
go to a place.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
We all have the same struggles. Let me ask you
this one though, because this was interesting, so again we're sharing.
These ladies checked in on both feet about how their
lives changed after some girls in their squad had kids.
Let me know how you feel about this. This lady writes,
they became very entitled to my time. Everything had to
be worked around their schedule. Yes, everyone has to compromise

(30:38):
for them because of their child. I do my best
to hang out with my friends with kids. I don't
have any issues with their kids, but the expectation was
that I do all the work to maintain the friendship
because they're quote busy with their kids.

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Is that it depends on who it is, you know.
It depends on your friend and what kind of relationship
you have. But yes, I've had the people who are like, well,
you have to do. Oh okay, So same friend, going
back to the Cranberry story, same friend. She wanted to
come visit And the reason that we went to visit
them is because she gave me a laundry list of
things I had to have in my house for her child.

Speaker 1 (31:15):
I mean, that's real. Though.

Speaker 2 (31:17):
I had to get a pack and play.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Oh well you should know.

Speaker 2 (31:21):
I had to. I had like baby proof of my house.
And I'm like, maybe you guys should stay at a hotel.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
Yeah, you should. That's the other thing too. And I
believe like conscientious parents will be like, look, I don't
want to be a burden on you and your house
and whatever. Here's what we can do. We are going
to get a hotel. If I needed a pack and
play at your house, I would order one to have
it delivered to your house.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
She wanted me to do it, and she ever said
anything about reimbursing me.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
It was all very weird. And by the way, why
would I know what a pack and play is? What
is that?

Speaker 1 (31:55):
Do you have any thoughts on this, I'd love to
hear it. Whether you are a single person and you
have to work around your friends because of their kids
or you've got kids, and are there certain expectations or
are you kind of kind of self contained and you
don't expect people to, you know, do things on your
behalf because you have kids, or do you use your

(32:15):
kids as a cop out. I'll do that sometimes really,
Oh yeah, I'll be like, I can't make it. My
kid blah blah blah blah blah, can't make it.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
Which in reality, you're doing karaoke by yourself.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
Correct. The talk back is open. I would love to
hear from you if you have a moment. It's the
little red microphone on the iHeartRadio app. If you're streaming
Star one on one three. Right now, it's time for
good News with Marcus and Corey. No one go.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Sometimes all you need is the one a good thought
to make it a great day. So let's do this.
It's good News on Star one one three, So.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
We give you good news twice in the morning. It's
seven forty eight forty. This hour brought to you by
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I read this story and then I had to make
sure it wasn't Corey. Check out this headline knowing that
Corey's from Florida and loves dogs. The headline reads, Florida

(33:15):
woman saves her puppy by punching a five foot alligator
that had grabbed the dog during a walk.

Speaker 2 (33:22):
Wasn't me, I was here.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
You would do this though? Oh god, yeah, somebody grabbed
little Ryland.

Speaker 2 (33:27):
Oh god, yeah, I mean it's probably not smart, but yeah.
So this woman, her name's Danny, was walking her four
month old Shitsu named Dax near a creek behind her
Landa Lake's home when an alligator emerged from the water
and grabbed the dog's collar. The gator was trying to

(33:47):
drag the dog into the water, because it's what they do, right,
They take you under the water, they do the roll,
they do the roll, and but she held on to
the leash and fought back. She punched the gator in
the eye until it loosened its grip. Now, that gator's
teeth did scrape her arm as she was pulling away.
But she's a former college rugby player. I was gonna

(34:08):
say she'd probably yelling the whole time.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
F around and find out.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
She flipped the gator on its back and escaped with
her dog. She'd said she'd never seen a gator in
that spot before, and the gator had to come about
fifteen feet out of the water to attack. But she says,
you know, she warns other dog owners to be more alert.
I mean, we always knew that as kids. When we
went to the lake, we didn't go near the water

(34:32):
with our dogs.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
Okay, what about just in general, what about just you
going near the water? Just talking about this is creeping
me out. I gotta be honest.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
They're more about They think of like dogs and cats
as prey. Uh huh, And so it wouldn't be uncommon
to see a cat in the water. You just gotta
be very aware of your surroundings. And if you have
a little dog, the last place I'm taking them is
to a lake in Florida.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Sure, but he always remembers zigs always zigzag because they
have stubby little feet and they can't maneuver like that.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Yeah, they can run fast, but they can't zig zag.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Pro to drive a car Cordy Foley more variety from
the two thousands of the nineties and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey time to
play the Bay's favorite trivia games called what You know
about that.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
We've got a pair of tickets to see Hannah Burner
January twenty fourth of the Masonic and the City, courtesy
of Live Nation. Those tickets are on still now at Ticketmaster.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
Say good morning to our contestants. Jill is in Morgan Hill,
Good morning. Now, did you move there just so you
could rhyme?

Speaker 5 (35:35):
Or?

Speaker 1 (35:35):
How does this work?

Speaker 5 (35:36):
Yeah? I just call it Morgan Jill for he's.

Speaker 1 (35:40):
Even more clever than me. Morgan Jill, it's not that hard. Well,
welcome to the show. What do you got going on
this morning?

Speaker 5 (35:47):
I just drive into work. I'm gonna Suney's very good.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
Let's take it to Castor Valley. Say what's up to
your opponent? Kyle is on the phone. Good morning, Kyle,
Good morning. What do you got going on? Kyle?

Speaker 5 (35:56):
To drop by son off that daycare and end to work?

Speaker 1 (35:59):
Excellent? What do you do for I help people here? Awesome?
I love this guys. The game's super simple. It's five
trivia questions, fifty seconds to answer them all. Each person's
gonna be asked separately with their opponent on hold. Whoever
gets the most right answers wins. If you don't know
an answer, yell out pass and we'll come back to
the question if we have time left. Okay, right, we
play along at Homer in the car. Here we go,

(36:19):
so Kyle goes on holding Castro Valley and we begin
with Morgan. Jill, I did it? It worked? I liked it.
Question number one. Letters that aren't vowels are called what
content true or false. Nearly two thirds of our bodies
are made up of water. True? What fish lives in

(36:41):
both fresh water and saltwater and returns to the river
they were born in to lay their eggs. A group
of dolphins are called what? Who is curious George's human friend?
In the books.

Speaker 5 (36:57):
The man with the yellow hat, Let's go.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
Back to the one you pasted on? A group of
dolphins is called what. Okay, we're gonna go with pod
Jill had an answer for everything. Hang on the line
for me, all right. Jill goes on Hold in Morgan Hill.
We pick up Kyle and Castro Valley. Kyle yes.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Question number one. Letters that aren't vowels are called what
two or faults. Nearly two thirds of our bodies are
made up of water. What fish lives on both fresh
water and salt water and returns to the river they
were born in to lay their eggs. What fish lives

(37:49):
in both fresh water and salt water and returns to the
river they were born in to lay their eggs. A
group of dolphins are called But who is curious George's
human Friend? In the books, Oh.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
Oh, hang on the line for me, Bud, don't move,
Hang on all right. Jill comes back in Morgan Hill.
Let's see how she did against Kyle and Castro Valley.
Question number one. Letters that arn't vowels are called what.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Both Jill and Kyle said consonants.

Speaker 1 (38:27):
That is true, true or false? Nearly two thirds of
our bodies are made up of water.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
If Jill and Kyle said true, it is true.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
What fish lives in both freshwater and saltwater and returns
to the river they were born into? Late aches.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
Jill said salmon, Kyle passed. It is salmon.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
A group of dolphins is called what Jill.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
Said a pod? Kyle said family. It is a pod.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Finally, who is curious George's human friend? In the books,
Jill said.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
The man with the yellow hat. Kyle ran out of time.
It is the man with the yellow hat. Or winter
is Jill?

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Five? To two song work Council, Morgan Jill, you win,
all right? Got the tickets for Hannah Berner at the
Masonic Congratulations.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Tyler, you're the Marcus A Corey chiplip.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (39:12):
Play with us again at weekday mornings at eight.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
O five am and add to what you know about
that podcast is a preset on Oriheart app and never
miss an episode Star one on one three. It's Marcus
and Corey. We're about to bounce out of here. It's
gonna be a beautiful day.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
Warm.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
This should be your your signed to do a little
Carnes side at the house. Okay, it's Mexican Independence Day. Yes,
it's National Wacamole Day. I just posted my wacamolea recipe.
Uh yeah, I mean what else do you need? Nothing? Yeah,
today's the day. Enjoy the sunshine. Jillian's on the way next.
We'll talk to you tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Bye,
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