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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You know, I don't know what happened, to be honest
with you, I went had been dating my boyfriend for
several months now, almost a year, but we decided to
go to Vegas.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Vegas. That's your first vacation.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Yeah, I mean it was our first official vacation trip together.
He had tickets to the Raider game and he was
meeting his friends. But he said, why don't we go
a few days early and we'll spend some fun time
in Vegas and then you know, I'll go to the
game and you can get you know, a massage or
facial you know, go down to the.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Spot, a good sweet I'm jealous, but then again, I
ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
I wouldn't want to see them lost laws.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That's true. So how did the night turn out?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I had fallen asleep waiting for him to come back
to the hotel, and I woke up the next morning.
I was like, oh, well, I was the game, who won?
Blah blah blah, And he was like, oh yeah, it
was fine, And he didn't really go into it, and
I thought, oh, you know, maybe he's hungover. Maybe they
had some beers, you know, that's true. Whatever. He was
very very short, on a plane and we went back
(01:00):
to our separate apartments, and you know, I'd sent him
a few texts and you know, hey, I had a
great time. But he gave short responses. Everything is short responses.
He doesn't text me or call me. I can't figure
out what happened. We had such a great time and
now it's like, it's got to be something going on
that I don't understand. You must have did some I mean,
(01:22):
maybe do you talk too much? Do you not clean
up behind you?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Something?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
He ain't just ghost you like that. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
The only way we can find out is if we
get him on the phone and just really you know,
trying to corner him and get some answers, babe. So
I'll give him a ring hold on for me.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, okay, Hey, what's up, guys. What's going on? What
Ryan chilling?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I mean, I think that's the big question.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Right.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
We've been talking to Jessica this morning about how you
guys kind of like it sounds like fell apart after
your Vegas trip.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I don't know what y'all are talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Some change, man, Yeah, keep real with us, or at
least that's what Jessica is saying, I mean, we obviously
don't know you guys, but she said, you guys did
it for a long time and came back from Vegas
and things were different.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
I mean, I ain't got much to say. I mean,
you know, just just been kind of busy lately, and
you know, it is what it.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is, Okay, Well, if something has I mean, she obviously
has gone to the stand of contact in us to
try to see what that thing is, you know, or
at least get some words from you, because it's definitely
not like it was before you guys went on this trip.
So I'm gonna put her on the phone and you
just think about what you want to say to her. Jessica.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, I'm Ryan.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
What's up, Jessica. How you doing well?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
I've been better. I mean I've been trying to contact
you and you very little contact with me, and I
just don't understand what went wrong. I mean, we've had
such a great time for so long. What's going on
in your mind's and making it hard for you to
talk to me.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I mean, there's not much to say. I just you know,
I just trying to keep it moving, that's all.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You don't even respond and it's like you're not even
interested anymore. So why all of a sudden, what did
I do to make you not interested in me?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I think it would be time to go ahead and
come clean, Ryan, because obviously, you know, whether it's your
feelings change or whatever, it is, like you've got this
woman really feeling down on herself and wondering what's happening. So,
I mean, just out of respect for her at this point,
you might as well just be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Because I ain't no way you miss candle time playing.
Something's going on? What's happening?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Broh Uh, Yeah, I gotta do this, okay. I mean
I went to the Raiders game with some friends, and
you know that that game was rough. It's hard to watch.
I met a girl at the Raiders game and you
know she's a dancer, you know, in Vegas and stuff,
(03:45):
and uh, I mean, call it whatever you want to
call it, Like, I mean, don't be judging me and stuff.
I don't know. I mean, I guess, yeah, I fell
love is ripper and I don't. I don't care. Like
if you're all going to judge me, you can.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Judge, but judge, well, I'm judging you right now. We've
been dating for a long time.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I mean, I'm sorry I didn't say anything. I know
that was unfair, but like I just stuff happens, and
like I know you ain't into football and all that,
and so whenever I'm hanging with the guys, like you're
not gonna be Wow, I'm not. I'm not saying it's
your father or whatever, but like, but like that's it.
(04:31):
We're done. Like I fell in love. This is what
it is. And I mean I'm actually going to get
on a flex tomorrow to go and see her. So
you all want to make fun of me, say I'm stupid. Whatever,
We're in love.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
It's it's whatever. Like I said, we're done. We don't
even need to go on with this, Like I'm moving on.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
We'll go, you know. And Jessica, you you got the
answers you were looking for. Girl, I don't think any
of us could have called that coming. I thought maybe
you just stopped liking you got irritated with your underwear
on the floor. How you you know, I don't know.
First trips are kind of shaky already. You really get
to know someone.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
So I agree, and I wish him the best and
a lot of penicillin and good luck to him.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
The penicillin
You know, I don't know what happened, to be honest
with you, I went had been dating my boyfriend for
several months now, almost a year, but we decided to
go to Vegas.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Vegas. That's your first vacation.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Yeah, I mean it was our first official vacation trip together.
He had tickets to the Raider game and he was
meeting his friends. But he said, why don't we go
a few days early and we'll spend some fun time
in Vegas and then you know, I'll go to the
game and you can get you know, a massage or
facial you know, go down to the.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Spot, a good sweet I'm jealous, but then again, I
ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
I wouldn't want to see them lost laws.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That's true. So how did the night turn out?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I had fallen asleep waiting for him to come back
to the hotel, and I woke up the next morning.
I was like, oh, well, I was the game, who won?
Blah blah blah, And he was like, oh yeah, it
was fine, And he didn't really go into it, and
I thought, oh, you know, maybe he's hungover. Maybe they
had some beers, you know, that's true. Whatever. He was
very very short, on a plane and we went back
(01:00):
to our separate apartments, and you know, I'd sent him
a few texts and you know, hey, I had a
great time. But he gave short responses. Everything is short responses.
He doesn't text me or call me. I can't figure
out what happened. We had such a great time and
now it's like, it's got to be something going on
that I don't understand. You must have did some I mean,
(01:22):
maybe do you talk too much? Do you not clean
up behind you?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Something?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
He ain't just ghost you like that. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
The only way we can find out is if we
get him on the phone and just really you know,
trying to corner him and get some answers, babe. So
I'll give him a ring hold on for me.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, okay, Hey, what's up, guys. What's going on? What
Ryan chilling?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I mean, I think that's the big question.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Right.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
We've been talking to Jessica this morning about how you
guys kind of like it sounds like fell apart after
your Vegas trip.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I don't know what y'all are talking about.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Some change, man, Yeah, keep real with us, or at
least that's what Jessica is saying, I mean, we obviously
don't know you guys, but she said, you guys did
it for a long time and came back from Vegas
and things were different.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
I mean, I ain't got much to say. I mean,
you know, just just been kind of busy lately, and
you know, it is what it.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is, Okay, Well, if something has I mean, she obviously
has gone to the stand of contact in us to
try to see what that thing is, you know, or
at least get some words from you, because it's definitely
not like it was before you guys went on this trip.
So I'm gonna put her on the phone and you
just think about what you want to say to her. Jessica.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, I'm Ryan.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
What's up, Jessica. How you doing well?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
I've been better. I mean I've been trying to contact
you and you very little contact with me, and I
just don't understand what went wrong. I mean, we've had
such a great time for so long. What's going on
in your mind's and making it hard for you to
talk to me.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
I mean, there's not much to say. I just you know,
I just trying to keep it moving, that's all.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You don't even respond and it's like you're not even
interested anymore. So why all of a sudden, what did
I do to make you not interested in me?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I think it would be time to go ahead and
come clean, Ryan, because obviously, you know, whether it's your
feelings change or whatever, it is, like you've got this
woman really feeling down on herself and wondering what's happening. So,
I mean, just out of respect for her at this point,
you might as well just be honest.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Because I ain't no way you miss candle time playing.
Something's going on? What's happening?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Broh Uh, Yeah, I gotta do this, okay. I mean
I went to the Raiders game with some friends, and
you know that that game was rough. It's hard to watch.
I met a girl at the Raiders game and you
know she's a dancer, you know, in Vegas and stuff,
(03:45):
and uh, I mean, call it whatever you want to
call it, Like, I mean, don't be judging me and stuff.
I don't know. I mean, I guess, yeah, I fell
love is ripper and I don't. I don't care. Like
if you're all going to judge me, you can.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Judge, but judge, well, I'm judging you right now. We've
been dating for a long time.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I mean, I'm sorry I didn't say anything. I know
that was unfair, but like I just stuff happens, and
like I know you ain't into football and all that,
and so whenever I'm hanging with the guys, like you're
not gonna be Wow, I'm not. I'm not saying it's
your father or whatever, but like, but like that's it.
(04:31):
We're done. Like I fell in love. This is what
it is. And I mean I'm actually going to get
on a flex tomorrow to go and see her. So
you all want to make fun of me, say I'm stupid. Whatever,
We're in love.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
It's it's whatever. Like I said, we're done. We don't
even need to go on with this, Like I'm moving on.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
We'll go, you know. And Jessica, you you got the
answers you were looking for. Girl, I don't think any
of us could have called that coming. I thought maybe
you just stopped liking you got irritated with your underwear
on the floor. How you you know, I don't know.
First trips are kind of shaky already. You really get
to know someone.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
So I agree, and I wish him the best and
a lot of penicillin and good luck to him.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
The penicillin
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