Jordan feels like the spark in his marriage is fizzling between him & Viv, so he calls for help!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, I got kind of a problem in my marriage
right now. Nobody's cheating or anything like that. Nothing bad.
But we've been married for thirteen years and I love
my wife. This is the best woman on the planet.
I love it with all my heart. But lately we
just not on the same page. We're not in sync
like we usually are before things get worse. I just

(00:20):
want to fix whatever may be wrong. Like we have kids,
you know, we get busy, you know, paying mortgages, bills
and trying to keep the house right. But I just
feel like we need something to get us back to
that old feeling we used to happen.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, okay, Jordan, are you still dating your wife? That's
a big question, Fred Partner. Yeah, man, what the last
time you too got out?

Speaker 1 (00:37):
That sounds good, but I'm gonna be real, I ain't
really done that in a long time. That's all me.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Well, I mean I get it, though. You know, you
get in your hamster wheel of how the day goes.
Who's got who for going to soccer or who's taking Yeah,
you know, then they need stuff and then before you
know what, the fun to go out has diminished down
to nothing.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Tired. That's exactly what's going on, Like romance is taking
a back seat lately because he's so busy.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Right, okay, so this is just part of your you know,
basically letting her know. Look, I'm gonna I'm gonna step
it up, you know, and I think she should also
know that it takes two, so it can't just be you,
right right, right.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Right, Yeah, no, I'm going to do my part. But yeah,
but yeah, you gotta do hers too.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
So I'm sorry. What was your wife's name?

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Her name is Vivian, but I call her viv.

Speaker 5 (01:24):
Hey, good morning y'all to the show.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Thank you, baby, So your husband so on hold, we've
been talking to Jordan this morning.

Speaker 5 (01:32):
Wow. Yeah, wow.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
It's absolutely a good thing, though, girl, like with this
part of our uh okay.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
At this part of our show, like we try to
promote you know, people getting together, staying together, you know,
figuring things out.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
So I'm gonna let him take over though.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Jordan's yeah, hey baby, how you doing, viv.

Speaker 5 (01:50):
Hey, honey, I'm good what we do.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
First off, I didn't do anything bad, but I did
reach out for help. I know you probably felt this too.
In our relationship, lady, we don't spend as much time
as we used to together, and I kind of felt
like we're drifting apart, like we're not who we used
to be. Do you feel that too?

Speaker 5 (02:08):
You know? You know it's that life be life, And
I think, I mean, I think everybody know, like if
you've been married for a while and you've got kids
and stuff happens, but we're not like we used to be.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
I mean, no, no, no, and and honestly, if I
just wanted to tell you something, I just want you
to know this because I don't say it enough. You
are the most important thing in my life and I
love you with all my heart and I never want
this to go away. So whatever we need to do,
let's do it. Let's get back to who we used
to be. I love you. I love you, so I

(02:42):
just want to work on it. I need to start
bringing you flowers like I used to. We need to
start stating again. I need to take you out. I
need to do stuff. But you got to meet you halfway. Yeah,
like you got to do some stuff too.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Oh my gosh, you got me crying right now. I
mean this is so I mean not because it's like
I thought it was just me. I thought it was
just me. I thought like, and it seemed like you
were kind of shutting off. And I know we're busy,
but you know the type of person that if you
shut off, I shut off pouring into the kids and
stuff like that. And that's forward with me. But now

(03:13):
I'm probably like, oh, this.

Speaker 4 (03:14):
Is so let's get on. Well, don't do that.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Let's let's pull out one of them dresses and how
about y'all go out on a date. Okay, just if
you can make it happen tonight or tomorrow, and we'll
cover everything and just let us talk to you on Friday.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh my god, can somebody take the kids for two days?

Speaker 3 (03:29):
No, you can, business house got to make it a ready,
So you might as well watch a couple more.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
I'm already getting beat up. I can't take no more swings.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
All right, let's we're gonna get the details together and
let you know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
And then we just asked that we're able to check
in with you on Friday.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
That's fine, that's good, perfect, All good