May 20, 2024 • 5 mins
Ricky is worried. He's been working a lot. Just trying to hold down the fam, but it's caused a strain on his marriage.
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(00:00):
Son that you wanted you on cameobase number one fifth pap Orb is your
GOL side of what's out Happy Monday, gViz here Hello, Okay, crush
on you is going down. Sometimesit's serious, sometimes it's fun, sometimes
it's sexy. It's got all kindsof looks to it. But every morning
at seven fifteen, it's just basicallyabout bringing people together. And we call
it crush on you or keeping themtogether. I think, is uh where
(00:21):
we're at this morning with Ricky.So this crush that you're talking about rick
is like your wife, right,that's who's speaking on Yes, this is
my wife you talking about. Youknow, we've been married for a while.
You know I take the kids toschool. You know she's taking the
school. I've been working all thetime. I'm really just trying to make,
like, you know, our livesbetter. But you know, we
(00:41):
get an argument here. She's alwaysdropping the D word on me and divorce.
You know, I want it tobe right. I mean I don't
want no divorce. I want usto get right. So I needed to
call y'all. Maybe y'all can helpme out a little bit. So what
do you think is straining like isshe telling you she's not in love with
you anymore? Or like what?What's the real issue though, I'm just
working all the time, you know. I take all the ships I can
(01:03):
get so we can have some things, you know. I want to make
sure that we're all good. Idon't want to get no divorce. I'm
like, I love my I loveher like that, my baby. Yeah.
I know that money is important,man, But you know time is
important too, bro. Yeah,I mean, you can't lose sight of
each other. Right, Never stopcourting your wife, you know. And
you know you're just supposed to bethe person to hold her down. But
(01:26):
if you don't have time to dothat, then that's a problem. Right.
So, well, I don't knowif she's listening now or not.
If so, she might be callingus all ready to jump in this.
But what was your wife's name?I'm sorry, babe. All right,
Well, let's get Sandra on thephone. You know, I feel like
a lot of the times just communication. But you can't let your spouse talk
(01:47):
and then not follow suit. Yeah, you gotta hear me out. If
they're saying, hey, you worktoo much, I need you, then
you gotta you know, figure thatout. But if money's tight, I
get that part too. Let's getSandra on the phone for Ricky for crush
on you sonag on his show TogetherYou is my favorite. Y'all have been
taking people up on that crush onyou another on the sun Morning show,
(02:10):
Bey's number one for hip hop andR and B sixt one morning show on
KMLL, it's you go outside ofWhat's up? All right? So Ricky
hit us up, said, Iwork too much. I guess my wife
told me you know that I'm doingthat and she keeps throwing the D word
at me, which is divorce.He's like, I love my girl,
(02:30):
Like you know, I'm just tryingto make sure we're good. And I
don't think she understands. But youknow, sometimes you got to pull up
a little bit too. There's gotto be a middle ground so everybody feels
like they're being heard and felt andunderstood. So Sandra is his wife's name,
so he wanted to talk to herand just you know, express his
love. But crush on you thismorning, which I love. So Sandra,
(02:51):
this is Sauna. Hey, Sandra, gIBIS here, girl, what's
up? Good morning? Yeah,we've been talking to your hubby Ricky this
morning. You have yeah wife herenow, rick Hey, Hi baby,
Hi honey, Hi? What areyou? Why are the radio still there?
I needed some help from them.Okay, helps me to jump in
(03:13):
and say what it is. Yes, help me out a little bit please.
Ricky's like, you know, mywife has been throwing the D word
at me because I'm working so much. And I'm yeah, he puts your
he puts yourself out there. Butbelieve me when I tell you you absolutely
are not the only people going throughsomething like this where you lose sight of
probably each other. And he's justlike trying to let you know that you
(03:37):
know, you're the love of hislife. I don't want a divorce.
You know, in those moments,I'm angry and we're upset, we're fighting,
but you know you say you wantme to feel loved and you want
me to but you need to showit in your actions. You know,
I'm trying to keep the household good. The household's fine. We have savings
(03:58):
accounts for the kids, cow wepay our bills on time. You know,
I work. You work like themoney's there, the money's coming in.
You're always picking up extra shifts.You're always like Oh, I got
to work. I gotta work outof work, and it's like I feel
alone. Yeah, if the numbersare there, you might make her feel
like you're running away from the marriage. There, Rick, I mean,
baby, I just need time.I need time with you. I need
(04:20):
us to make time for each other. I know I'm part of that equation
as well. I just I don'tfeel like you're in it. So,
Ricky, do you hear what yourwife is telling you? Man, she
needs you to show up, notjust for the family, but for the
romance too. Men. Yeah,so let's do this. Let's force y'all
to go do something by saying youdon't have to pay. How about that,
(04:43):
Yes, you're going on a date. I think I like that.
I like that. I don't careif you got a shift coming up tomorrow,
Wednesday, Thursday, take that shiftoff and we're gonna make a date
for y'all and all you got todo is show up. Okay, I
like that. I like that.Well, make sure you're free when we
call you on Friday morning, there, Rick, because we want to hear
all the details, bro exactly.Oh, all the details. I think
(05:06):
I'm already happy. I'm already smiling. You know, so I'm feeling good
already. I don't want in yourvoice. I feel like you're thinking,
damn, I got to cancel.Shits coming up? Be about it,
man, right if I wanted thehomies to fill in, this is what
it takes, right, is talking, And you know I don't have anybody
but coaches don't play. You're tellingyou all that you know from the outside
(05:26):
looking in, it's easier to say, okay, do you hear what your
wife is saying right? Right?And then Ricky like you know, and
also her like he's just trying tobe a provider, so you got to
respect that too. But there's gotto be a meeting point. So let's
do this free day crush on youan early one for this week, and
then check on them on Friday,same time. Seven fifteen
Son that you wanted you on cameobase number one fifth pap Orb is your
GOL side of what's out Happy Monday, gViz here Hello, Okay, crush
on you is going down. Sometimesit's serious, sometimes it's fun, sometimes
it's sexy. It's got all kindsof looks to it. But every morning
at seven fifteen, it's just basicallyabout bringing people together. And we call
it crush on you or keeping themtogether. I think, is uh where
(00:21):
we're at this morning with Ricky.So this crush that you're talking about rick
is like your wife, right,that's who's speaking on Yes, this is
my wife you talking about. Youknow, we've been married for a while.
You know I take the kids toschool. You know she's taking the
school. I've been working all thetime. I'm really just trying to make,
like, you know, our livesbetter. But you know, we
(00:41):
get an argument here. She's alwaysdropping the D word on me and divorce.
You know, I want it tobe right. I mean I don't
want no divorce. I want usto get right. So I needed to
call y'all. Maybe y'all can helpme out a little bit. So what
do you think is straining like isshe telling you she's not in love with
you anymore? Or like what?What's the real issue though, I'm just
working all the time, you know. I take all the ships I can
(01:03):
get so we can have some things, you know. I want to make
sure that we're all good. Idon't want to get no divorce. I'm
like, I love my I loveher like that, my baby. Yeah.
I know that money is important,man, But you know time is
important too, bro. Yeah,I mean, you can't lose sight of
each other. Right, Never stopcourting your wife, you know. And
you know you're just supposed to bethe person to hold her down. But
(01:26):
if you don't have time to dothat, then that's a problem. Right.
So, well, I don't knowif she's listening now or not.
If so, she might be callingus all ready to jump in this.
But what was your wife's name?I'm sorry, babe. All right,
Well, let's get Sandra on thephone. You know, I feel like
a lot of the times just communication. But you can't let your spouse talk
(01:47):
and then not follow suit. Yeah, you gotta hear me out. If
they're saying, hey, you worktoo much, I need you, then
you gotta you know, figure thatout. But if money's tight, I
get that part too. Let's getSandra on the phone for Ricky for crush
on you sonag on his show TogetherYou is my favorite. Y'all have been
taking people up on that crush onyou another on the sun Morning show,
(02:10):
Bey's number one for hip hop andR and B sixt one morning show on
KMLL, it's you go outside ofWhat's up? All right? So Ricky
hit us up, said, Iwork too much. I guess my wife
told me you know that I'm doingthat and she keeps throwing the D word
at me, which is divorce.He's like, I love my girl,
(02:30):
Like you know, I'm just tryingto make sure we're good. And I
don't think she understands. But youknow, sometimes you got to pull up
a little bit too. There's gotto be a middle ground so everybody feels
like they're being heard and felt andunderstood. So Sandra is his wife's name,
so he wanted to talk to herand just you know, express his
love. But crush on you thismorning, which I love. So Sandra,
(02:51):
this is Sauna. Hey, Sandra, gIBIS here, girl, what's
up? Good morning? Yeah,we've been talking to your hubby Ricky this
morning. You have yeah wife herenow, rick Hey, Hi baby,
Hi honey, Hi? What areyou? Why are the radio still there?
I needed some help from them.Okay, helps me to jump in
(03:13):
and say what it is. Yes, help me out a little bit please.
Ricky's like, you know, mywife has been throwing the D word
at me because I'm working so much. And I'm yeah, he puts your
he puts yourself out there. Butbelieve me when I tell you you absolutely
are not the only people going throughsomething like this where you lose sight of
probably each other. And he's justlike trying to let you know that you
(03:37):
know, you're the love of hislife. I don't want a divorce.
You know, in those moments,I'm angry and we're upset, we're fighting,
but you know you say you wantme to feel loved and you want
me to but you need to showit in your actions. You know,
I'm trying to keep the household good. The household's fine. We have savings
(03:58):
accounts for the kids, cow wepay our bills on time. You know,
I work. You work like themoney's there, the money's coming in.
You're always picking up extra shifts.You're always like Oh, I got
to work. I gotta work outof work, and it's like I feel
alone. Yeah, if the numbersare there, you might make her feel
like you're running away from the marriage. There, Rick, I mean,
baby, I just need time.I need time with you. I need
(04:20):
us to make time for each other. I know I'm part of that equation
as well. I just I don'tfeel like you're in it. So,
Ricky, do you hear what yourwife is telling you? Man, she
needs you to show up, notjust for the family, but for the
romance too. Men. Yeah,so let's do this. Let's force y'all
to go do something by saying youdon't have to pay. How about that,
(04:43):
Yes, you're going on a date. I think I like that.
I like that. I don't careif you got a shift coming up tomorrow,
Wednesday, Thursday, take that shiftoff and we're gonna make a date
for y'all and all you got todo is show up. Okay, I
like that. I like that.Well, make sure you're free when we
call you on Friday morning, there, Rick, because we want to hear
all the details, bro exactly.Oh, all the details. I think
(05:06):
I'm already happy. I'm already smiling. You know, so I'm feeling good
already. I don't want in yourvoice. I feel like you're thinking,
damn, I got to cancel.Shits coming up? Be about it,
man, right if I wanted thehomies to fill in, this is what
it takes, right, is talking, And you know I don't have anybody
but coaches don't play. You're tellingyou all that you know from the outside
(05:26):
looking in, it's easier to say, okay, do you hear what your
wife is saying right? Right?And then Ricky like you know, and
also her like he's just trying tobe a provider, so you got to
respect that too. But there's gotto be a meeting point. So let's
do this free day crush on youan early one for this week, and
then check on them on Friday,same time. Seven fifteen
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