May 28, 2026 • 7 mins
Angie from Meriden went on a great first date, and now she's being ghosted. She said they made a connection over there, shared love of boats, wine, and travel. She wants to know why she's being ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Angie's on the line in Meridan this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Angie tell us about this great first date with a
guy named Adam.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Yeah, like he First of all, it was a great date.
We had a really spectacular time.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
I mean yeah, like we went on a date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
It was a really really nice dinner and drink. Oh
very you know, very classy, very lovely, and and I
thought we had a really great connection.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
We had just like a we just had.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
A ton in common, right, We had like a musical
love of wines.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Like he knew a lot about wines. I do, you know,
like kind of nerdy stuff, but like I you know,
he knew a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It was awesome. And he loves to travel. I love
to travel, and like he likes boats. I like, you know,
like I like boats.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Like it was just it just you know, it felt
like it really worked.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So it felt comfortable and you had a lot in common. Yes,
absolutely was there flirting. Did you feel like there was
like a flirty vibe?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Oh my god, yeah, like totally like there was.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I just felt like the connection was really there and
a parent and just like super obvious.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I've sent him a text.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
And I even called him and left the message, but like,
you know, saying like I'd really love to see you again,
you know, just like that's how comfortable it felt like.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah, So let me say you sent him a text
and you left him a message yeah and no, and
no response to either one.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Don't take this the wrong way. But you talked too much,
So maybe that's well I said, don't take it the
wrong way. Well that doesn't make it better, so great? No, okay,
well I don't Maybe maybe you just talked a lot
on the date.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
Wait, question, how long was the voicemail that you left him?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Good one?
Speaker 6 (01:36):
Was it like a two minute voicemail? Did you like
pour your heart out in the voicemail?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
No?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
I thought it was very succinct. I mean maybe thirty seconds.
It's just like, hey, you know me, we had a
good time central text.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Just wanted to follow up and just see, you know,
like let's make some plans, you know, to see each
other again.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
I don't think it was wrong.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Well, listen, I think it sounded like it went well
and it was a good first date and something must
be going on.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
So we're gonna call him up and we're going to
find out.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Are you ready to get some answers as to why
you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
I would love it.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay, So you're gonna be on hold. We're gonna call Adam.
But at any point if you want to jump in
and talk to Adam, you can. Okay, Okay, I could
use a glass of wine right now.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Sounds amazing, honestly, We'll saygaria red deep red, yes, juicy
steak yeah, medium, medium, rare.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Oh, Hello is Adam.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
There is Adam.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Hu Hi, Adam. This is Courtney Adam. It's Walmart chef.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
Hey, Adam, it's Savannah.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. Okay, well, welcome,
you're on the radio this morning, and I'll tell you
why you're on something called second date Update.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So we get calls from people who go on great
first dates, like magical first dates, but they're getting ghosted
and they want some answers.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So I'll let you know that Angie called us.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
She said, you guys went on you guys went on
a great first date. She said there was a connection,
there was flirting, there was wine drinking, it was a
nice restaurant.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
She's texted you.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
She has also left you a message a voicemail and
you're ghostinger.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Yeah, I didn't expect heard of three other people to call.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
She really wants to see you again, and sometimes it
takes like a village to get a second date.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Yeah, I guess, or I mean, yeah, she's the cool girl.
I did have a connection and I feel like a
lot of things in common. But there's a reason, you know,
I haven't entered her calls.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Okay, so we just wanted to be honest. What's the
reason you are ghosting, Ajie?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I mean she's materialistic. If I have to give a reason.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Okay, well you said she's materialistic.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
I mean, listen, like I I work really hard. I
love treating people who i'm into, like first date guys,
she ordered the most expensive bottle on the menu of
why so.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Sorry, I'm so sorry. This is this is Adam.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
I don't understand, like what that makes me materialistic?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Because I did. First of all, I didn't order the
most expensive bottle. I suggested it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
All right, Well, Angie's on the line.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I should let you know she was listening and go ahead, Angie, Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Like that's I don't understand. How does that make me materialistic?
You said we both like wine?
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Like I suggest, you suggested it, and of course I
bought it. Like on a first date, if you suggest
something like it puts me in a bind. I wanted
you to have a good time. I wasn't just gonna
shoot you down.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
So that's.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
That's not horrible. Her order like expensive wind is not horrible.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
No, I okay, well, and if you want me to
like this, I would rather not air this out. But
like if we're gonna, I mean you guys, Angie asked
me to basically expense She was trying to get me
to pay for her hair appointment she got for the
date because I kind of done.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I got it done for you.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
I mean, it's not that's not how dates work. I mean,
you looked amazing, Angie, but no, I wasn't together yet.
I don't know asking me to pay for that again,
it's like putting me in a spot where if I say, no,
I'm this like cheap jerk. You can't know I'm paying
for your hair that we went for days.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I did my nails. I also got like that dress,
and I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Ask you to pay for those.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Okay, Like that's I can't believe.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
That's yeah, But you know what that's just normal woman
upkeep that shouldn't fall on us normal.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, that's first of whate that's ridiculous, Like.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Like, Adam, are you even into like travel or boats
or any of this or is this like big why?
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Oh yeah, like I love traveling, I love boats. I
have friends that have boats. I can't go on. Then
whatever I want, the boats that I can afford are
definitely not going to be the ones that are going
to make you happy. I'm guessing like everyone loves those things.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
This is what we usually do, but I don't know
if we can afford Angie, probably not. If we pay,
I would have I would have offered to pay for
another date if you guys want to try it again,
But if you're if you're not interested or you think
if there wasn't like a match match.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
I feel like I've been. I've been. This is like
a rude.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Like he has like tried to pretend to somebody he's not.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Oh you know, I actually don't. I am not actually
interested in seeing Adam again. Okay, that was pretty up.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Thank you, thank you, yeah, thank you networks. And also
I think she's doing you guys a favorite because I'm
not sure you would be able to pay for the
next five days if you paid for one.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Adam, you sound like a great guy.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Angie, Angie, you know what you want and it's just
not it's not Adam, It's not all right.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Guys, Well listen, thank.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You both for being honest and open and being on
second day and update.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, thank you guys again, and have a good life.
I guess.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah, I hope to not see you. I hope to
not see you.
All right, Angie's on the line in Meridan this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Angie tell us about this great first date with a
guy named Adam.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Yeah, like he First of all, it was a great date.
We had a really spectacular time.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
I mean yeah, like we went on a date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
It was a really really nice dinner and drink. Oh
very you know, very classy, very lovely, and and I
thought we had a really great connection.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
We had just like a we just had.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
A ton in common, right, We had like a musical
love of wines.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Like he knew a lot about wines. I do, you know,
like kind of nerdy stuff, but like I you know,
he knew a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It was awesome. And he loves to travel. I love
to travel, and like he likes boats. I like, you know,
like I like boats.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Like it was just it just you know, it felt
like it really worked.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So it felt comfortable and you had a lot in common. Yes,
absolutely was there flirting. Did you feel like there was
like a flirty vibe?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Oh my god, yeah, like totally like there was.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I just felt like the connection was really there and
a parent and just like super obvious.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I've sent him a text.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
And I even called him and left the message, but like,
you know, saying like I'd really love to see you again,
you know, just like that's how comfortable it felt like.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah, So let me say you sent him a text
and you left him a message yeah and no, and
no response to either one.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Don't take this the wrong way. But you talked too much,
So maybe that's well I said, don't take it the
wrong way. Well that doesn't make it better, so great? No, okay,
well I don't Maybe maybe you just talked a lot
on the date.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
Wait, question, how long was the voicemail that you left him?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Good one?
Speaker 6 (01:36):
Was it like a two minute voicemail? Did you like
pour your heart out in the voicemail?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
No?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
I thought it was very succinct. I mean maybe thirty seconds.
It's just like, hey, you know me, we had a
good time central text.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Just wanted to follow up and just see, you know,
like let's make some plans, you know, to see each
other again.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
I don't think it was wrong.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Well, listen, I think it sounded like it went well
and it was a good first date and something must
be going on.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
So we're gonna call him up and we're going to
find out.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Are you ready to get some answers as to why
you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
I would love it.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay, So you're gonna be on hold. We're gonna call Adam.
But at any point if you want to jump in
and talk to Adam, you can. Okay, Okay, I could
use a glass of wine right now.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Sounds amazing, honestly, We'll saygaria red deep red, yes, juicy
steak yeah, medium, medium, rare.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Oh, Hello is Adam.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
There is Adam.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Hu Hi, Adam. This is Courtney Adam. It's Walmart chef.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
Hey, Adam, it's Savannah.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. Okay, well, welcome,
you're on the radio this morning, and I'll tell you
why you're on something called second date Update.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So we get calls from people who go on great
first dates, like magical first dates, but they're getting ghosted
and they want some answers.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So I'll let you know that Angie called us.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
She said, you guys went on you guys went on
a great first date. She said there was a connection,
there was flirting, there was wine drinking, it was a
nice restaurant.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
She's texted you.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
She has also left you a message a voicemail and
you're ghostinger.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Yeah, I didn't expect heard of three other people to call.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
She really wants to see you again, and sometimes it
takes like a village to get a second date.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Yeah, I guess, or I mean, yeah, she's the cool girl.
I did have a connection and I feel like a
lot of things in common. But there's a reason, you know,
I haven't entered her calls.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Okay, so we just wanted to be honest. What's the
reason you are ghosting, Ajie?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I mean she's materialistic. If I have to give a reason.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Okay, well you said she's materialistic.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
I mean, listen, like I I work really hard. I
love treating people who i'm into, like first date guys,
she ordered the most expensive bottle on the menu of
why so.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Sorry, I'm so sorry. This is this is Adam.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
I don't understand, like what that makes me materialistic?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Because I did. First of all, I didn't order the
most expensive bottle. I suggested it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
All right, Well, Angie's on the line.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I should let you know she was listening and go ahead, Angie, Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Like that's I don't understand. How does that make me materialistic?
You said we both like wine?
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Like I suggest, you suggested it, and of course I
bought it. Like on a first date, if you suggest
something like it puts me in a bind. I wanted
you to have a good time. I wasn't just gonna
shoot you down.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
So that's.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
That's not horrible. Her order like expensive wind is not horrible.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
No, I okay, well, and if you want me to
like this, I would rather not air this out. But
like if we're gonna, I mean you guys, Angie asked
me to basically expense She was trying to get me
to pay for her hair appointment she got for the
date because I kind of done.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I got it done for you.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
I mean, it's not that's not how dates work. I mean,
you looked amazing, Angie, but no, I wasn't together yet.
I don't know asking me to pay for that again,
it's like putting me in a spot where if I say, no,
I'm this like cheap jerk. You can't know I'm paying
for your hair that we went for days.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I did my nails. I also got like that dress,
and I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Ask you to pay for those.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Okay, Like that's I can't believe.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
That's yeah, But you know what that's just normal woman
upkeep that shouldn't fall on us normal.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, that's first of whate that's ridiculous, Like.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Like, Adam, are you even into like travel or boats
or any of this or is this like big why?
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Oh yeah, like I love traveling, I love boats. I
have friends that have boats. I can't go on. Then
whatever I want, the boats that I can afford are
definitely not going to be the ones that are going
to make you happy. I'm guessing like everyone loves those things.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
This is what we usually do, but I don't know
if we can afford Angie, probably not. If we pay,
I would have I would have offered to pay for
another date if you guys want to try it again,
But if you're if you're not interested or you think
if there wasn't like a match match.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
I feel like I've been. I've been. This is like
a rude.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Like he has like tried to pretend to somebody he's not.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Oh you know, I actually don't. I am not actually
interested in seeing Adam again. Okay, that was pretty up.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Thank you, thank you, yeah, thank you networks. And also
I think she's doing you guys a favorite because I'm
not sure you would be able to pay for the
next five days if you paid for one.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Adam, you sound like a great guy.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Angie, Angie, you know what you want and it's just
not it's not Adam, It's not all right.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Guys, Well listen, thank.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You both for being honest and open and being on
second day and update.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, thank you guys again, and have a good life.
I guess.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Yeah, I hope to not see you. I hope to
not see you.
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