The Gambler

Mike from Farmington went on a great first date. He's reached out for a second date but hasn't heard from her. He wants to know why he's being ghosted.

Episode Transcript

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All the Hands, Kiss ninety fiveseven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,
Savannah walmart Jeff, are you guysready for second date updates? Absolutely?
Let's do it. Oh oh,okay, I guess. So. See,
you go on a great first dateand you really want to see that
person, you make a connection,you'd like to go on a second date,
but you're getting ghosted. Call us. It happened to Michael in Farmington.
He's on the line to tell usabout a great first date he had

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and we want to find out whyhe's getting ghosted. Good morning, Michael
Marten. It's second date update.Obviously you know what second date update is
all about, because you called ustell us about this great first date.
Well, um, I mean wepretty much you know, went to the
movies, which was great, youknow, just like a classic date,
and you know, I don't know, it's just we have said a really

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good time. You know, Ireally like her and I thought we were
gonna see each other again. SoI'm, you know, not sure why
she's just totally ghosting me and justnot responding at all. Just pretty much
it. I mean, like Ican't think of what happened that didn't go
well. You know, yeah,okay, and you're obviously attracted to her.

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Do you feel like she was attractedto you a little bit of flirting
going on? Definitely definitely was attractedto her, and I thought it was
mutual. And yeah, let meask you a question. Do you own
a boat? No? Okay,See that's the problem. You don't own
a boat. A lot of girlsright now this time of year, they
like to get into relationships with guyswith boats so they can bring their friends

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on the boat and have an enjoyablesummer. Now, it's nothing against you
that you don't own a boat.I'm just saying this is probably the reason
she didn't call you back. Wow, Okay, Well listen, I will
say Walmart Jeff is not far off, because I mean, that's sounds pretty
amazing to me. I don't thinkthat's the reason. I don't think there's
a reason you're getting ghosted. Buta guy with a boat, yeah,

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definitely definitely a plus. All right, Well, listen, Michael, since
you have no idea why you're gettingghosted, We're gonna call up Lauren.
We're gonna ask her about the day. We're gonna ask her why she's ghosting
you. Okay, okay. Youknow, if they agree to a second
date, we should send him alittle sailor that for his new boat.
You know what, maybe I'll givehim my boat. I got a boat.

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I'm not gonna take it out.Hey, can we go? No?
I don't. I Actually it's perfectdinghy. I'll give him my dinghy.
Hi. Hello is Lauren there?Yes, this is Lauren. Hey
Lauren, it's Courtney. What's up? It's a Walmart Jeff. Hey,
Lauren, it's Savannah. Hi.Hey, you're on Kiss ninety five seven

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this morning, Laura, I probablywant to know why. Oh my gosh.
Well, here's the deal, Lauren. We do something called second date
update. That's when if somebody goeson a first date and they have a
great time, but they're getting ghostedafter reaching out for a second date,
we get answers. And you wereon second date update because Michael called us
and told us he took you ona great date. He told us it

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was fabulous, and he wants ina he's getting ghosted? Oh did he?
Okay? Um, no, wedid not have a good date.
Oh okay, what happened? Hesaid you went to the movies, went
out for drinks after what happened.Yeah, we went to the movies and
then he sat in the theater rightnext to me on his phone the entire
movie. He was playing some sortof card game or something. It looked

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like he was gambling or something,and he was, you know, and
the lights on, Like I was. I was so so annoyed. I
should have just walked out right downand there, but I wanted to give
him another chance because afterwards we decidedwe were going to go get drinks at
the place next door, and weended up getting over there, and I'm

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thinking, Okay, he's gonna youknow, engage with me a little bit
more. He might hold my handa little bit. Nope, he was
on his phone again the whole time. And then the other person that he
talked to was the bartender. Hewent over and they were talking, you
know, more gambling stuff, andlike this weird I don't know, card
app or something. Okay, okay, I can't even Lauren, you're telling

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me he sat on the phone andplayed games or gambled through the whole movie
even yep, yep. It waslike he wasn't even watching the film,
Like I was, like, whydid you even take me if you didn't
on and goes like sit and dothis thing together. Okay, Oh,
not a good first date. Well, since he was gambling the whole time,
I at least hope he picked upthe tab he's making money on the

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date. Hopefully he did. Um, but I have fire standards for that.
I'm not doing that again. That'sright, Lauren, you know what.
Michael's on the line listening in.Michael, what do you I mean
seriously, you were gambling the entirenight while you were on a date.
Absolutely not. That sounds like Ican't believe that's what you're saying. That's
like not at all, Like Idon't I don't even know what you're talking

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about. Like I was watching themovie, and I mean I don't know,
like I might have checked like mydraftings like like a couple of times,
just because I don't know Michael thewhole time. What the heck?
No, you totally worry. Youwere on your phone, like the entire
time, you were not watching thefilm. You never like grab my hand

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or anything. And then then whenI was ready to give you a second
chance and like continue the date,you didn't want to continue it. You
didn't talk to me over dinner anddrinks talking to the bartender over about gambling
and you're and you're getting I can'tand your cards and your apps. Come
on, Michael, I don't rememberthat at all. I that it was

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like said like one thing to thebartender. I that's so crazy, Like
that's not what I remember at all. Okay, Well you know what.
Here's Lauren. Usually we offered topick up the tap for a second day.
Would you like to go on asecond day with Michael if you leaves
his phone at home? No?What about if you had a boat,
would you consider it? If?If if if you owned the boat getting

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it or no? If he sortsout his gambling stuff and then got a
boat, maybe Okay, all right, that's the goals for you, Michael.
Forget the gambling and get a bow. Walmart was right on the whole
time. Oh my god, allright, this is not how I thought
it was gonna go. Well,this is how it went, Michael.

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I'm so sorry. I'm glad youreached out to us, and now i'd
get your answers. Lauren, thankyou for being honest with us, and
good luck, good luck out theredating. He's out