May 18, 2023 • 6 mins
Kat from Granby went on a great first date. She met up with a guy at a winery. She had a great time and thought he did too. She hasn't heard from her date since and wants to know why.
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(00:00):
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,
Savannah, hanging out with you too, wal Mart, Jeff. We're getting
ready for second date update. Welove to help couples. If you go
on a first date and you havea great time. Let's just say your
first date was amazing, and thenyou get ghosted and you want answers,
call us and we get the answers. We find out why you're getting ghosted.
A cat is on the line.She's in Granby to tell us about
(00:21):
a great first day. Good morning, Cat, Hi, how's it going.
Oh, it's going all right,boy. I hope we can help
you out today. I'm so nervous. Yeah, yeah, So I met
this guy. His name's Dylan,and he's super Okay. We went to
this winery, so we had ablast at upside and it was like a
big hill so you could look outand see a beautiful view and sipped wine
(00:43):
and had an amazing time. SoI texted him to thank him about the
date, you know, and hedidn't reply at all. And it's been
days and days and days, andI'm just really confused as to why you
would just ghost me because we hada great time, and okay, when
you were at the winery, Oh, Walmart would ask you this, and
I'm going to ask it. Walmart, You're gonna ask who did you drink
(01:04):
too much? Did you get drunkon wine? I can see Jeff,
he's looking at me. No,I remember everything, so I don't think.
So I was gonna ask did youhook up in the parking lot?
That's what I was going to ask. No, No, we didn't know.
But it was a good date.You felt a connection and it wasn't.
There was no awkward moments like youreally thought you guys made a connection
(01:26):
and you would hear from him.Yeah. Yeah, we had a great
conversation and like you know, hada great time. That's a little strange.
I mean, I think a wineryis a great date. You show
up, you look, you know, you're sitting outside, you're sipping wine.
Let's since you reach out to himand you're getting completely ghosted. We're
gonna give him a call, obviously, you know what second date update is
about. We'll call him and we'llask him about the date, and you're
(01:46):
going to be listening in and atany point if you want to talk to
him, you can, but we'regoing to get the answers. If you're
ready, we'll do it. Allright, Let's let's see what happened.
I feel like this is going tobe a connection. I feel like he
just hasn't called her back yet.I mean, she sounds really nice.
It sounds like the date went well. Yeah, probably allergies or something like
that. Hello. Hello, isDylan there. Yes, this is Dylan.
(02:14):
Hey Dylan, it is Courtney.Hello, Dylan. This is Walmart
Jeff. Good morning, Dylan.This is Savannah. Oh my gosh.
We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the air, Dylan.
Morning, all right, great tobe here. Good morning, Um,
Dylan, listen, you're on Kissninety five seven this morning because we do
something called second date update. That'swhen you go on a first date,
(02:34):
you have a great time, butyou get ghosted and you want to know
why. So that's how we're callingyou this morning. Dylan. Oh okay,
all right. So then I'm justgonna be honest, and I want
you to be honest too. Comeright out and say it. Cat called
us. You took her to awinery. She had a great time,
fabulous date. She said. Shereached out to you and thank you for
the date, but she's getting ghosted. Why are you ghosting? Cat?
Tell me about the date. Well, I mean the date was really good,
(03:00):
Um, but you know, shejust isn't my type. Whoa,
whoa, whoa whoa. Okay,so the date at the winery was really
good, but she's well you didyou? How was she not your type?
Yeah? Define not your type?Define type? Well, I mean
I knew before the date that shehad a couple of tattoos, which you
(03:21):
know isn't really my thing. Butwhen she showed up to the winery,
she was wearing a sundress and Icould see that she had a full sleeve
like everywhere, all the way upto her armpit. And I'm just,
you know, tattoos everywhere. I'mjust not really attracted to that. Okay,
So you're telling me the date wasgreat, but you can't get past
(03:43):
the fact that she had a fewtattoos on her arm. Yeah. I
mean it's just not something that youknow, my family, you know,
was really into. My mom neverlet me have tattoos, And it's just
not the kind of girl I'm lookingfor. Whoa. Okay, all right,
can I just bring at in Cat? Hi? Yeah, I'm really
surprised. I really enjoyed the date. So I'm just like, I can't
(04:06):
believe it comes down to the tattoos, Like that's crazy to me, but
like I don't know, it justsounds like to me like you're superspicial when
it comes to looks, and youknow, I don't want that anyway.
I don't want someone just you know, judging me be based on who I
look. But you know, mytattoos mean it, you know, different
(04:26):
things, and they're important to me, and it's like artwork, you know,
on your body. So all right, so I'm all about making solutions
when it comes to these problems andstuff like that. Kat, what if
you put on like a turtleneck inlong sleeved Jilan if she did that,
would you like to go on anotherdate with her? I don't think so.
I mean, listen, Kat,I think you're really pretty, and
(04:50):
you know, it's really just apreference thing, you know. I just
I don't really like tattoos, andyou know, I think there's someone out
there for you, and you're you'rea beautiful girl. It's just it's just
not my thing. Okay, Um, well yeah, okay, Kat,
it's it's you know, it's importantfor you to be yourself. You love
(05:10):
your tattoos, show them off.That's part of you, that's your you
know, that's you. I thinkyou'd be better off anyway, not going
on a second day. That's justme. I mean, I understand your
preference, Dylan. You sound likea nice guy. But yeah, Kat,
you want to be yourself. Youwant to wear that sun dress and
show off your tattoos. Yeah,yeah, And I mean, Kat,
if you want to send some picturesof yourself and a sun dress to me,
(05:31):
I'll let you know how the Tattoo'sbook. Okay, Okay, don't
say okay, Kat, Kat,you deserve so much better than all of
this. Go find yourself a reallynice guy. Yes please, yeah.
Run. Usually we offer a secondday and I pick up the tab.
I'm not even gonna offer because Ifeel like it's just like too far out.
It's not Dylan's preference, and Ireally can't. I want you to
(05:54):
express yourself and be yourself. Soyou got your answers, and I appreciate
both of you being so honest tobeing on second a update. Yeah,
thank you guys so much. Thishelps a lot. And Dylan it was
nice meeting you. Nice meeting youtoo. I wish you the best.
Thanks everyone,
All the hits, Kiss ninety fiveseven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,
Savannah, hanging out with you too, wal Mart, Jeff. We're getting
ready for second date update. Welove to help couples. If you go
on a first date and you havea great time. Let's just say your
first date was amazing, and thenyou get ghosted and you want answers,
call us and we get the answers. We find out why you're getting ghosted.
A cat is on the line.She's in Granby to tell us about
(00:21):
a great first day. Good morning, Cat, Hi, how's it going.
Oh, it's going all right,boy. I hope we can help
you out today. I'm so nervous. Yeah, yeah, So I met
this guy. His name's Dylan,and he's super Okay. We went to
this winery, so we had ablast at upside and it was like a
big hill so you could look outand see a beautiful view and sipped wine
(00:43):
and had an amazing time. SoI texted him to thank him about the
date, you know, and hedidn't reply at all. And it's been
days and days and days, andI'm just really confused as to why you
would just ghost me because we hada great time, and okay, when
you were at the winery, Oh, Walmart would ask you this, and
I'm going to ask it. Walmart, You're gonna ask who did you drink
(01:04):
too much? Did you get drunkon wine? I can see Jeff,
he's looking at me. No,I remember everything, so I don't think.
So I was gonna ask did youhook up in the parking lot?
That's what I was going to ask. No, No, we didn't know.
But it was a good date.You felt a connection and it wasn't.
There was no awkward moments like youreally thought you guys made a connection
(01:26):
and you would hear from him.Yeah. Yeah, we had a great
conversation and like you know, hada great time. That's a little strange.
I mean, I think a wineryis a great date. You show
up, you look, you know, you're sitting outside, you're sipping wine.
Let's since you reach out to himand you're getting completely ghosted. We're
gonna give him a call, obviously, you know what second date update is
about. We'll call him and we'llask him about the date, and you're
(01:46):
going to be listening in and atany point if you want to talk to
him, you can, but we'regoing to get the answers. If you're
ready, we'll do it. Allright, Let's let's see what happened.
I feel like this is going tobe a connection. I feel like he
just hasn't called her back yet.I mean, she sounds really nice.
It sounds like the date went well. Yeah, probably allergies or something like
that. Hello. Hello, isDylan there. Yes, this is Dylan.
(02:14):
Hey Dylan, it is Courtney.Hello, Dylan. This is Walmart
Jeff. Good morning, Dylan.This is Savannah. Oh my gosh.
We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the air, Dylan.
Morning, all right, great tobe here. Good morning, Um,
Dylan, listen, you're on Kissninety five seven this morning because we do
something called second date update. That'swhen you go on a first date,
(02:34):
you have a great time, butyou get ghosted and you want to know
why. So that's how we're callingyou this morning. Dylan. Oh okay,
all right. So then I'm justgonna be honest, and I want
you to be honest too. Comeright out and say it. Cat called
us. You took her to awinery. She had a great time,
fabulous date. She said. Shereached out to you and thank you for
the date, but she's getting ghosted. Why are you ghosting? Cat?
Tell me about the date. Well, I mean the date was really good,
(03:00):
Um, but you know, shejust isn't my type. Whoa,
whoa, whoa whoa. Okay,so the date at the winery was really
good, but she's well you didyou? How was she not your type?
Yeah? Define not your type?Define type? Well, I mean
I knew before the date that shehad a couple of tattoos, which you
(03:21):
know isn't really my thing. Butwhen she showed up to the winery,
she was wearing a sundress and Icould see that she had a full sleeve
like everywhere, all the way upto her armpit. And I'm just,
you know, tattoos everywhere. I'mjust not really attracted to that. Okay,
So you're telling me the date wasgreat, but you can't get past
(03:43):
the fact that she had a fewtattoos on her arm. Yeah. I
mean it's just not something that youknow, my family, you know,
was really into. My mom neverlet me have tattoos, And it's just
not the kind of girl I'm lookingfor. Whoa. Okay, all right,
can I just bring at in Cat? Hi? Yeah, I'm really
surprised. I really enjoyed the date. So I'm just like, I can't
(04:06):
believe it comes down to the tattoos, Like that's crazy to me, but
like I don't know, it justsounds like to me like you're superspicial when
it comes to looks, and youknow, I don't want that anyway.
I don't want someone just you know, judging me be based on who I
look. But you know, mytattoos mean it, you know, different
(04:26):
things, and they're important to me, and it's like artwork, you know,
on your body. So all right, so I'm all about making solutions
when it comes to these problems andstuff like that. Kat, what if
you put on like a turtleneck inlong sleeved Jilan if she did that,
would you like to go on anotherdate with her? I don't think so.
I mean, listen, Kat,I think you're really pretty, and
(04:50):
you know, it's really just apreference thing, you know. I just
I don't really like tattoos, andyou know, I think there's someone out
there for you, and you're you'rea beautiful girl. It's just it's just
not my thing. Okay, Um, well yeah, okay, Kat,
it's it's you know, it's importantfor you to be yourself. You love
(05:10):
your tattoos, show them off.That's part of you, that's your you
know, that's you. I thinkyou'd be better off anyway, not going
on a second day. That's justme. I mean, I understand your
preference, Dylan. You sound likea nice guy. But yeah, Kat,
you want to be yourself. Youwant to wear that sun dress and
show off your tattoos. Yeah,yeah, And I mean, Kat,
if you want to send some picturesof yourself and a sun dress to me,
(05:31):
I'll let you know how the Tattoo'sbook. Okay, Okay, don't
say okay, Kat, Kat,you deserve so much better than all of
this. Go find yourself a reallynice guy. Yes please, yeah.
Run. Usually we offer a secondday and I pick up the tab.
I'm not even gonna offer because Ifeel like it's just like too far out.
It's not Dylan's preference, and Ireally can't. I want you to
(05:54):
express yourself and be yourself. Soyou got your answers, and I appreciate
both of you being so honest tobeing on second a update. Yeah,
thank you guys so much. Thishelps a lot. And Dylan it was
nice meeting you. Nice meeting youtoo. I wish you the best.
Thanks everyone,
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