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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Because when it comes to me, my situation, the things
I care about, and the things I want in my life.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
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Speaker 1 (00:19):
All right, this is the Angry Dad. Thank you guys
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wants a great life. Everybody wants to set themselves up
for success. And I say this and understanding is we
know what it takes to get there. We all want it.
You know what I'm saying. It's a prize, it's a goal,
it's something that dangles in front of our face. But
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you have to understand what you have to give to
get You have to understand how much you have to
give of yourself to complete your goal, to complete your task,
to get what you want. You know, it's something that
we don't think about. You know what I'm saying. We
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all understand the terms of hard work. Hard work pays off.
We all understand that you have to push yourself to
the next level, but you also have to give something.
You have to give your all, You have to give
what it takes really understand. We know what we want,
but what are you willing to give? You got to
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give your time, You have to give your effort, You
have to give patience. You have to give a piece
of your life to obtain what you want. There has
to be sacrifice to be getting what you fucking want.
The sacrifice that you put in towards your life, the
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piece of you that you're willing to give to be successful,
to be happy, to obtain the goals, to reach the
top of the mountain, to be at the pinnacle of
your life. You have to understand how much you need
to give. We all have a lot to give. A
lot of us don't want to give anything, but a
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lot of those people who do not give anything will
never get anything. All right, it's simple fucking terms, all right.
We all are at this fucking path in our lives.
We're all at this crossloads, and once we fucking hit
that crossloads, you need to understand. I can stay here
and just be here, or I can give myself the opportunity,
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give myself the chance, give a piece of me to
become something better, to become something more, to change my
thought process. You have to give up your old thought process.
To fucking have a new life. You have to give
up your old life, all right, to become something different,
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you have to give up the old to do something
fucking new. I'm willing to sacrifice who I am to
become who I want to be. It's simple fucking terms,
all right. We all have to do this. We all
have to understand. I've sacrificed so much of my time,
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so much of my life to just not receive anything,
because I was just spinning my fucking wheels, not putting
my time into the right fucking places. But I understand
that because I had to give up that time. Because
I gave up that time, I understand what I don't
want or don't need to do anymore, and where I
can point my new effort, put my new my my
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new path on the right fucking course of fucking I
need to give up and sacrifice what I'm doing right
now to get there. You know what I'm saying. Life's
not a straight fucking line. It never is. We always
hit new areas, we always hit new paths, we always
go in new directions. But you have to be willing
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to give up the old direction for the new direction.
When you make those pivots in your life. Life is hard,
but the thing is is you still got to deal
with it. And I'm willing to sacrifice everything I have
to become more, to become better, to become the things
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that I want to fucking become, which is successful, happy.
All right, those are my two goals in my life.
I want to have success, but I also want to
be happy. So I know there's a lot of give
and take there, all right. I'm willing to put in
the work, but I'm also not willing to waste my
fucking time. So I put in as much effort as
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I need to put in to get what I want
out of my life, so then I can enjoy my happiness.
Like I said, this is not an easy thing to do.
It is very easy to speak on, but it's also
something that needs to be done. We all have to focus,
all right. We all have to pivot, we all have
to change, we all have to grow. This is life.
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But the thing is is what are you willing to
give up? What are you willing to give? What are
you willing to fucking put your money on? Put it
on your fucking self, push fucking through and understand you
will get there in time. We have to all sacrifice
a bit of us to have something, all right, because
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you never get something for nothing. You have to put
in the work, you have to put in the time,
you have to put in the fucking effort, and you
have to give all these things to achieve what you
fucking want, all right. You have to give up your
time at school to get the degree that you need
to be successful in, or you need to give up
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the time to fucking be an apprentice in some kind
of fucking trade, or you need to give up your
time in putting in the effort to get yourself to
that promotion. You know what I'm saying. There's a lot
of things in our life, and time is one of
the most important things that we give up. And the
reason we give up is because we understand what it
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fucking takes to get us to where we want to
fucking go. I push hard, I always have, but also too,
I've come to my life. I am at an age
where I one hundred percent see what I want and
what I'm willing to give up to get it. You
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fucking push hard, work, hard time, effort, fucking crafting and
fucking sharpening the fucking tools that I fucking need to
get to my goals. It's hard as fuck, but it's
always worth it. I give one hundred and ten percent
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of what I have every day into what I want
to achieve with my life. Some days, some days they
fly by, some days they fucking drag. But yet I
pick up my fucking feet and I fucking keep moving forward.
I know what the big goal is, but I also
know what my small goals are, and I always reach
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those daily goals. I reach those things because by keeping
yourself disciplined, by fucking holding yourself accountable, your life will grow.
It always fucking does. But as soon as you sit
on your hands, as soon as you sit on your
fucking ass, as soon as you give up, your life stops.
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You don't progress, you don't move forward, The time is wasted,
and then you have given up nothing. All right, Not
every day is fucking sunshine and rainbows. A lot of
the times, it's storms, it's headaches, it's disasters, it's fucking
everything that the world can throw at you. But yet
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I fucking give up my time, put in the fucking work,
put in my fucking steps. You know what I'm saying?
What do they say? You know? Ten thousands You need
to put in ten thousand hours before you master something. Well,
guess the fuck what. I've been doing this for a
long fucking time, and I've gotten my fucking hours. I
believe I have because I'm fucking confident in what I
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fucking do. I'm confident in what I fucking say, and
I fucking put myself one hundred percent into what I
fucking do, no fucking questions asked, no doubt in my
fucking mind. I fucking work hard, push forward, and understand
that I show the fuck up for myself because I
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give myself that, and because I give myself that, I'm
willing to give up my time. I'm willing to give
up my effort. I'm willing to fucking just give everything
I have in me to do better for myself. You
know what I'm saying. A lot of us have to
do a lot. We have to give a lot. You
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know what I'm saying. I always make sure I give
all my time and effort into my family, my wife,
into creating a happy fucking home, to creating a successful home,
to fucking obtaining something that I always felt was out
of reach, which was peace. My peace is my happiness.
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You know what I'm saying. To be able to sit
down with my kids, sit down with my family and
fucking enjoy my moments, and I had to give up
a lot of my life to get that. And I
give up a lot of my pride. I give a
lot of my fucking a lot of me to make
sure that I can have that. Like I said, there's
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a lot of things in our lives that we have
to give. You know what I'm saying, you have to
give in your relationship? What would you give to being
a happy relationship? Because we all want a relationship, right,
A lot of people want a happy relationship. But what
are they willing to give to have that happy relationship?
A lot of people won't give anything for it, and
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they just think they deserve it. They just think it's theirs,
it's mandatory, it's unspoken that this is just what I'm given.
Instead of being able to give to have that, I
would give up everything in my life just to maintain
my family and my happiness and that structure and that
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fucking peace that I have when I'm in my house.
What would you be willing to give up for that?
A lot of people have addiction, A lot of people
fucking go through a lot of fucking struggle, but guess
what that's more important to them than their family and
their happiness. Not for me, I would happily give up
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everything I have just to have that. I'm willing to
fucking say this and do this because I know what
is important to me, all right. And when you can
make that distinction in your life of what is important
to you, you will understand what you will give up
to keep that, or to give to keep that, or
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to put in the work to keep that. You know
what I'm saying that this works on all fucking levels
of what the fuck's going on in your life, all right?
Look at what you want and understand what do you
have to give every day to get that? Your family,
your happiness, your job, your success, or the direction you're
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trying to push yourself in. What do you have to
give to get to have to keep? That's what I'm
fucking saying. It comes down to this question, every single
fucking day, What am I willing to give up? What
am I willing to do? What am I willing to
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give to fucking hold near and dear to me all
the fucking time? Guess what I will give it all.
I would give every ounce of me I would just
to fucking keep a stranglehold on my fucking life and
my peace and my happiness. That's how serious this is,
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you know what I'm saying, Because a lot of us
don't look that far into what we're trying to fucking
do with our lives. You know what I'm saying. I've
gone through enough time, I've gone through enough struggle, I've
gone through enough bs to understand exactly to the t
what I want, what I want to have, and what
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my goals are. And my goals are a happy, long,
successful future. What am I willing to give for that? Everything?
What am I willing to give up for that everything?
There's a fucking balance here. And when you find that balance,
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when you find what you're willing to do to reach
what you fucking want, it'll help you weed out all
the fucking bullshit. It'll help you weed out all the
negativity that's in your fucking life, fucking it up. But
it'll also show you all the positives, the things that
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help carry you through to reach that fucking goal. Like
I said, there's a lot going on in my life
at all fucking times. But guess the fuck what I
put in the f can work I put in the
fucking time. I make sure that I'm always reassessing myself
that I'm not fucking it up, and I try to
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give up those bad habits when I start as soon
as I recognize that I'm fucking starting to lean into them,
as soon as I recognize that I'm starting to fuck up,
I fucking try to nip it right in the fucking butt.
Remind myself what a fuck I'm doing, Remind myself what
my fucking goals are and why am I not working
towards that. This way, you have to step back every
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so often and understand what the fuck is going on
in your life, Understand what the fuck you want, so
you fucking know what's gonna fucking take to fucking get
you there. I can't stress that enough. You know. I
love doing this podcast. I love fucking sharing my advice,
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and like I said, I always say it a lot
of times, this is a This is a podcast that
I want my kids to hear when they grow up.
But it's also a podcast that I'm fucking reminding myself
what I'm fucking doing and why the fuck I'm doing it.
You know, what I'm saying. Just like everybody fucking else,
I put on my fucking pants one leg at a
fucking time, I start my fucking day, I have my
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fucking coffee, and I fucking just put in the fucking effort.
The things that I want require me to push fucking forward.
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Speaker 2 (16:57):
Fuck always living, always living, always living, always living always
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